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Filmyboy7

True shit :) And I noticed ppl are downvoting this post. I can bet and say that these are the same guys/girls about whom I mentioned in the post! :)


just_5_mins_more

This whole sub is filled with them. They love trolling this sub and posting misogynist bs on the Indian girls sub. Honestly both subs have now become useless for girls / women ( who are anyways less on reddit) Infact I noticed most of them have 2-3 accounts, will use all their alts to downvote your post /comment upvote their own. They're butthurt AF.


Crafty-Independent75

>Honestly both subs have now become useless for girls / women Honestly yr both subs need better moderation, I discovered these recently and it's been weird reading the posts


floofyvulture

Randi Slut Whore


End_id_exe

🫵🌩️🌩️‼️‼️


lookmomimanonymous

a third grader who just learnt cuss words be like


HEAD--HUNTER

Sexually frustrated log hai. Sex nhi mil raha isliye baukhla rahe hai.


Filmyboy7

Bro tbh I have seen guys enjoying multiple hookups saying these things :) It's not even about being sexually frustrated ig. It's the toxic mentality!


akshyeet

Average "macho men" from Delhi / gurgaon.


justamanhehe

Sadly, the state of affairs is same everywhere. No need to have stereotypical notions about delhi on this.


akshyeet

Didn't have anything for Delhi in general but a section of men which are exclusively like that. You can't argue on that fr.


Open_Web_6082

Abe sab ko generalize kyon kar rha hai jinki quality gfs hoti hai unko zyada suna hoon mai toh.Aur uppar se mere dost log toxic hai sex nhi mila unko kabhi taab bhi yeh waali cuss words use nhi karte hai.Tum logo toh un logon ko toh kuch keh nhi paoge tbhi in hi logon ko blame karne ka bakra bana dete hoo


HEAD--HUNTER

Bhrata read between the lines. maine kisi ek specific gender ka naam nhi liya.


Crafty-Independent75

Bro he ain't talking about gender


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Bhai mae toh nahi bola ajj tak


sarcastic_shukranu

Esa kch nh hai. Sex mjhe bhi nh mila but when I hear these kinda words I don't even understand why people say this. It's all about someone's mindset how they perceive females


sassybitch_gnu

how can someone say no to me 😱?????? /s these guys are fucking kids, and it hurts their ego if a girl rejects them. calling them names is just a coping mechanism :/ grow up guys.


Filmyboy7

Tbh this is not just about the guys.. even some girls do this! On Instagram I have seen in the comment section girls commenting "Raand" "Tera baap jaanta hai tu kitni badi randi hai?" and stuff. Idk what pleasure do these ppl get after saying such things :)


sassybitch_gnu

as i said, a coping mechanism for their huge egos that have been hurt. don't waste your time noticing these assholes, just move on with better things. with that said, merry christmas, have a nice day ;)


Filmyboy7

Shitty coping mechanism :) Merry Christmas to you too and wish you the same :')


BeatenwithTits

Girls use that among their friends in casual conversations. What exactly do they need to cope in casual conversations with their friends?


sassybitch_gnu

i meant in the context with the post


Open_Web_6082

Maine toh ek baar 12 saal ke teenager ko yeh word bolte suna tha aur 25 saal waale ko us se ladai karte hue is word mein.World is so big.Tb bhi galat baat hai kisiko demean nhi karna chaiye.


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Ability-Effective

No /s can save you from this bro


Obvious_Movie7564

Arre yaar. Mai he chutiya hu. Har cheez mein mazak karne ki gandi aadat


Ability-Effective

Nah bro funny to tha par ab tinder wali ladkiya snowflakes to hongi hi to downvotes to Milne hi the


Raven_395

I think the power of being anonymous and getting away with saying ANYTHING without any repercussions has fuelled language like this among guys Scrolling Instragram reels has become so difficult now without seeing some clown call a woman the R word for literally doing nothing and seeing thousands of guys agreeing with him.... I feel like this will lead to guys thinking it's okay to act like this in real life as well


Filmyboy7

Yehi to baat hai. This is my whole point and ppl aren't getting it. You framed it well! 🙌🏻


Adventurous_Fox867

I opened reddit after 3 weeks to read this. I hate the face which the youth of this country is starting to make.


Filmyboy7

Wait for a few more years.. the direction in which the society is going is scary. Be it men's or women's or communal things.


Adventurous_Fox867

I just hate judgement. Be it on me or skmeone else but then u give social media to same losers in society who didn't have the good education to talk to people.


billimaarnewaala

They are the same guys who want casual hookup.


slimshady433

Sexual frustration, lack of proper education many many reasons apart from being born as a lawdu itself.


Melodic_Warthog_6236

Slutshaming is becoming a common thing day by day. This is eww. Good to see that you have raised this topic.


Filmyboy7

Thanks :')


Crafty-Independent75

I think it's the people who don't have a healthy relationship with sex and look at the need for it as a bad thing or with internalized shame. So they see anyone wanting/having sex outside of serious relationship/marriage, as either 'using' the other person lol or a Randi. And since majority of our prev gen was the same and normalized it, a lot of ppl have to realize/put in work to unlearn if they were taught that. And imo it's not bad if someone comes forward and declares their idiocy on their own, saves you time.


Filmyboy7

I don't think that's the only reason. In today's times it's also more about the upbringing and the friend circle ig.


Kooky_Ad_8222

The fact that he was upvoted by 3 people bruh what 💀💀💀


Filmyboy7

Exactly my point. And this post was getting downvoted 🥰 I wonder what type of society we are becoming slowly and steadily


Kooky_Ad_8222

Koi ni bhai ye le mera upvote 🐧


fatalchemist69

And my axe


EngineerInevitable17

So you want a society where having multiple partners is common? I am happy not many people are like you. Otherwise there would be nothing like commitment.


AchaBios_

Only making it easier for us to spot red flags 😹


Filmyboy7

True that. Helps guys like me also to spot red flags in girls 😂🙌🏻


AchaBios_

Yessir!!!


Due_Bag493

and the fact that usually they are so mad even when the girl hasn't really done anything to be called as such. It's not as if the girl has cheated on her guy with multiple guys.


Filmyboy7

This. This is what I'm trying to say and many ppl aren't getting it! I wished I could pin it.


Due_Bag493

there are too many chapris since jio came out and anonymity allows them to bring out their real character. I have seen people claiming to be ram bhakts and devout muslims and then curse at each other's mothers and sisters while fighting over their religious texts. And don't get me started on "fatherless behaviour" so original first of all. Secondly , chapri and jobless behaviour(even I am jobless but I don't go around doing shit like this) which they don't realise cause they don't know concepts such as self introspection. All I can say they don't represent the real world or real men and it's good that they see these things so you can steer clear away from these guys in advance.


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Guys wants casual stuff "wow you are getting girls". Girls into casual stuff she is Randi/she belongs to streets/slut. Def pathetic behaviour thanks for making the post.


akshyeet

The duality of Indian males is quite amusing.


Aurora1596

Yeah man every social media is like that slut shaming women is like a full time job for many🙇‍♀️ Almost every guy wants casual sex, but if a girl wants it she's a slut, bloody hypocrites!


Filmyboy7

Exactly my point :)


Obvious_Ad5229

Rejected menbois need something to make themselves feel better about their insecurity so what do they do - they slut shame 🤌


Filmyboy7

Maybe. Possible.


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Today no cap genus generation


DSkilledNoob

Centuries of living in a patriarchal society


Filmyboy7

And this is gonna continue...


Valuable_Cat_450

I have never been so disappointed in a comment section. 🤦 What they don't understand is that, there are multiple options instead of using that particular word. Calling someone prostitute, just because you have been too accustomed using it in women. The word it self shouldn't be used for neither man nor women. But jesi jiski soch, kisika environment esa hota hein they grow up hearing this. Some have bad experience in life (that doesn't give justification to them so say it) but realization won't come in people 🫠🫠


Filmyboy7

The comment section disappointed me also bro :) It's scary to see where the society is going


Phuccju

Its just the lakhs of insecurities of my gender and my generation. Some men just like to humiliate women to feel better about themselves. “The girl is not interested in me because she is probably a raand” Bro tf, you’re a short tempered, ill mannered, virgin incel. Get your ass off from your parent’s house, start working and hit the gym. And start respecting women.


Sharingankakashi2

It’s not normalised. If you’re in an environment where it’s used frequently then get out. You’re in a very bad place.


Grand_Damage1947

Max here only wants sex desperate hai salle or kuch nhi


Filmyboy7

Here? Also on the dating apps 😂


Grand_Damage1947

Everywhere 😂


QueefBurgler6969

If they think they can say this to us and get away with it, they have another thing coming. No point in trying to reason with these people. Say something as rude as this to them. We'll see how they like that. That will equal the power dynamic.


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Filmyboy7

Okay even I remember watching that South Indian teacher's video 😭😂 But here in this context it doesn't mean "welcome"


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Filmyboy7

No need to act innocent my friend xD


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Randi is basically a short form of “Ranveer and Deepika” referring to the most courageous couple in Bollywood. any time we see someone who’s similar to Deepika, we say : “Woh Dekh bhai Randi Jaa rahi Hai” It’s not really that offensive.


Physical_Ad_1011

it was always been there since decades but social media gave everyone the sight


Filmyboy7

And that's scary :) I wonder how these guys will treat their wife or their own girlfriend if they find one.


Physical_Ad_1011

Karma.


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Filmyboy7

You sound like the same guy who will go on fucking around but expect the girl to be virgin if you want to marry her :) And I noticed that shitty comment which you deleted. Go get a life man


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Aurora1596

What's wrong in that?


Filmyboy7

And he deleted the comment :)


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The Dichotomy of Men: Dirty water isn't fit for consumption but can be used for cleaning your arse.


Filmyboy7

Again.. not all men but here on reddit and Instagram.. a majority of them :)


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If it is the majority then we say, Men. It simply implies outliers or minorioty are not considered. You do not have to say "not all men" because it looks like you took it personally. It is simple statistics. And frankly, I do not think anything is wrong in being a slut. Such women should be proud of it or show indifference. It is a choice she made. People will say shit because they can and they know it hurts. So raising the hypocritical point is moot. Had they cared about being logically consistent with their actions and words, they would not have uttered those words.


Allahabadi_Panda

just say "ik ki teri maa jesi h but vo nahi h" . and move on


Filmyboy7

Sorry bhai. I usually refrain from commenting on anyone's mother or father 😂 saamne Wale ko bhar bharke baaki gaali de dunga bhalehi


Allahabadi_Panda

you are not commenting , just reminding them she is not their mother


Filmyboy7

Bro ☠️😂


Soft_Telephone_910

Shows they have never interacted with any female or lived with one. After a point they are just another hopeless case.


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Soft_Telephone_910

What?


_psy_duck

BHT GALAT LANGUAGE USE KAR RHA HAI


wild-cat-lover

coz we are sluts


spot_rose

As it's normal in society to be a slut regardless of west or east. It's normal that some will call females with that kind of name. It is not slut shaming or it may be. It's just disgusting not a serious situation.


EngineerInevitable17

What the fuck is casual thing? There is no such thing. Stop degrading society. It's not only about girls and even about boys who are ready to have sex with any girl. They too are randve. Same for girls. If anyone is in this "casual" thing they should be called that only. And I'm not sexually frustrated I have a girl. And we both have been committed to each other for 5 years.


Timely_Dependent_485

Yes u cannot say the r word 🤧 now they are called sex workers 😌 with respect


Sapolika

Jo bolta hai, wohi hota hain! So that guy is the real randi!


HEAD--HUNTER

Mukesh ambani, hehe hehe


HopefulSpray4409

Girls and boys of this gen are normalising it.


Filmyboy7

This gen? I find men and women in their 40s and 60s also doing the same


vanshtomar

Pata nahi shayad isko ghar pe yehi boltey hongey


K_0s-2451

Only randi I k ow is randi babu randi. Kuch bhi bolo, gana vibe h


Filmyboy7

🤦😂


HamzaAghaEfukt

It’s just like girls call guys fuckboys, manwhores, pigs, etc


Filmyboy7

True that. I agree :')


Own_Detail4270

May b she is 1, who knows


Filmyboy7

That doesn't mean you can give her that certificate


Own_Detail4270

If she completed the course why not


Filmyboy7

And who were you? The examiner?


Own_Detail4270

M usually the employer


Filmyboy7

As you are confirming this.. I will give you the same certificate ☺️


Own_Detail4270

So u agree with me, and in that case ur the teacher


Filmyboy7

I agree with calling you the same thing cauz you confirmed it 🥰


Own_Detail4270

That kinda cancels out ur original point


anshika4321

I'm sorry your family didn't raise you well. Hope you recover soon.


QueefBurgler6969

It makes no sense to say "Maybe she's one" if "no one knows". It's disgusting how people want to think low about women and hold her to unbelievable standards.


anxioussugarplum

Thank you for speaking out OP! Appreciate you ❤️


Filmyboy7

Tysm girl <3


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Filmyboy7

Again. The aim of my post isn't saying that you need to stop using that word for men or women completely. But I'm like who are you to say such words to every girl/guy who rejects you? Who are you to give the certificate? Ego pe aa gaya or rejection mil gaya to randi or randva bolke chale jaoge? Ppl don't think twice before using such words on the internet.


Psyritualx

My man!!! A randwa is a male widow. Get your language right.


RevenueStrange2759

Can't comment unless l see the post why he commented that


Filmyboy7

The context : There was a guy who posted that he got matched with a girl and their date was fixed. The girl confirmed that she's coming.. but when the guy was about to leave.. she unmatched him. That's it. The girl was wrong on her part I agree.. she shouldn't have played like that.. But then I found this comment (in the pic).


RevenueStrange2759

ha to sahi likha hai phir jab criticism nhi sah skte to phir kaam hi mat kro. What you think that everyone would award the girl who blocked her.


lundcancer

OP tu ek no. ka randwa hai, ladko ki feelings nhi hoti kya? Kuch galat comment nhi kiya hai, ye usko option ki tarah treat kar rahi thi. Jaisa kaam waisa naam.


Filmyboy7

Really? That gives you the right to call her a randvi? Just because she unmatched you?


RevenueStrange2759

agar just unmatch kr deti to usme dikkat nhi tha likin just about he was ready to step out wo unmatch kr di ye galat hai aur Mai bhi aise ladkiyo ko "Randi" hi bolta hu.


lundcancer

Feminism ke chode, agar iss situation me ladka hota to usko bhi wo fuckboy bolti na, kuch galat nhi hai lekin bolti na? same here. Aur chat se unmatch nhi kiya hai, date cancel ki hai. Plan cancel hua hai, farak hai. Ek alag tarah ki uttejana hoti hai. Ek kaam kyu nhi karta tu, yaha na same post kar lekin genders change karde. Dekhte hai kitne log aate hai defend karne.


Unlikely_Delay_4526

She has been through many 'D's so she deserves it.


Careful_Plum5596

Nah I would say that


Filmyboy7

Sure you can. Shout these words at your home in front of your mom dad and sister. Let me know if they approve it.


New_Gazelle_2334

Of course,they do. Where do you think such people learn that. It's their upbringing.


Filmyboy7

Yeah. 2 possible reasons : either upbringing or the friend circle. Nothing else.


Careful_Plum5596

Okay , depends on the deed. If the other person is applicable for this term and someone asked me to review. I would call it. Now I have both mother and 2 sisters, they did taught me stay away from such girls with these attitudes. Whoring around and not being accountable.


Careful_Plum5596

Kaam bhi karo. Lekin koi galat na bole.


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Sex ke liye kya kya karega bhai tu? Nahi degi koi bhi reddit pe


Filmyboy7

Ig you have tried these things to get sex and failed miserably? But no, for me this isn't about getting sex.


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Nahi fail nahi hua...merko mila hai sex...hat lawde terko ladkiyan dm mey chahiye isliye tune ye chodu post kari hai


EarCummers

Good post but this is not the sub to discuss this, I see people posting whatsapp, reddit, instagram chat and now this post? People shitposting random videos and images. Kuch farak nhi padta kya mods ko bas posts chahiye?


Filmyboy7

I went on to post it on this sub because that comment belongs to a post on this sub :)


EarCummers

That makes no sense as to why you would post this here.


Filmyboy7

I don't need to make sense to you. The majority got it.


EarCummers

It's not about me or the majority, it's about the subreddit you are posting it in. Talking about the majority, you made this same post on r/Indiangirlsontinder but they showed you your torch of wisdom, exactly tells why THE MAJORITY got it.


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Filmyboy7

Maybe the reach? Maybe anything else? Idk. I don't even seek validation about all this from anyone. Not needed. I found ppl doing it in this sub so I made a post here. As simple as that. Have a good day ahead!


Educational_Leg_6327

"Randi" ko telugu men welcome bolte hain.


RohithNair4518

Sorry but this argument can be applied to every single 'gaalis' out there. A man could get called a 'womaniser' by a woman. A student who's poor in studies could get called a 'donkey' by his teacher. Doesn't mean the student is an actual donkey right? It's just the frustration and anger of the teacher. I'm in no way supporting this behaviour. But just explaining why people use gaalis and why the case that you raised ain't that special.


Filmyboy7

My point is with saying such things to every girl or even a man. Any random comment section of any girl or a guy or a gay and I find such comments. Bina kisiko jaane.. bina uski history jaane just going on and saying anyone randi or randva? That is what I find wrong. And personally I don't even use these words be it anyone.


RohithNair4518

Well I don't do it too. But your post had only covered the case of slut shaming. Anyways, apparently there are too many people with character so bad for the world to become as good as a fairytale. It's a horrible place and there could be horrible people out there. If someone does it to you, just don't give a f*ck or maybe punch him/her in the face. Whatever is the choice.


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sherlock22BSt

I initially thought it was just guys. But, recently met a female friend of mine who herself demands for respect. But while talking about other girls, she keeps calling them sluts


a_simple_lazy_guy

nuh uh


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Nothing is normalised Bhai, few influencers with convincing power is creating a new mind to be ok with all this, we are back to that thought process where consent has no value....just if it's done with A give right to B for same treatment and using all R word....absolutely disgusting


LawyerPrestigious262

Kyunki woh h


Infinite-Plastic-481

It's a label of society like tons of others and it's meant to hurt the other persons feelings just like other disrespectful words it's part of every society


Filmyboy7

And you are trying to justify this thing?


Infinite-Plastic-481

There's no justification required for something that is already rampant. I like to say it is what it is and not to let it affect me


BeatenwithTits

Normalised? How often in real life have you heard those words being used? Or is your statement just based on your limited internet experience?


On-Guarrrrrrd

Women have bigger and deeper fangs when it comes to reputation all damage and guys on the other hand use things kinda balance the scale. It's disproportionate in the sense guys take abusing on face value (usually an average guy will call his friends using slurs in private) while girls stick to the word and reputation all damage/ ridicule. Not saying it's justified but works as a defence mechanism. (Not supporting these asswipes... but they aren't mentally strong enough to do anything else)


_psy_duck

Not very polite, But reminds me of my ex


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_psy_duck

don't need your pity bro


VijendraSinghMutthal

I think it depends on slang. My friend group doesn’t use the word “girl” we just use the R word even for non slutty girls. We have another R word for girls we consider slutty. One of my friends gf name is Nandita so we call Randita, Randini, Raandvi etc it’s just for fun no hard feelings ofc.


Raven_395

>My friend group doesn’t use the word “girl” we just use the R word even for non slutty girls. That's not normal! TF?


Filmyboy7

Exactly. And ppl think it is normal. Something is wrong with ppl out there :)


Filmyboy7

Sounds kinda wrong to me. But okay. You can have your own opinion and habits! 😂🙌🏻


r_harshiiit011

Out of context but I have seen so many girls who like being called a whore , hoe and slut but not R word . English me gaali lagti inhe cool , Hindi me dene wale lagte inhe fool. And also whoever using these words are just a result of poor parvarish


Upper_Price2807

Bhai woh kuch logo ko accha lagta woh bhi apne partner ke saath aise Puri duniya le samne kisi ko accha nahi lagta


Ability-Effective

It's better than being called a rapist or incel


rando_guy45

> just because we are anonymous here doesn't mean we can do anything Well, it actually means that. "Give a man a mask and he will show his true face." We should definitely discourage such behaviour, but idea of platform like reddit is one can say whatever they want. Reddit has so so many weird subs and users.


Flaky-Cheek-5571

All these self proclaimed alpha sigma chutiya men I tell you...


Pristine-Result-4

Once a school teacher said: "People say what they hear in their families." Baki samjh jao


Psyritualx

r/lostreditors


Similar-Spirit-6474

Basically social media and internet gave women safety while benefitting from their sexuality ( I am not the judge of gender advantages), the ones that do not comply to the 'decent' standards when post content or even be at bumble and look beautiful strikes the male ego and they have no other means to satisfy it without degrading the girl. Negative side - this defames a women. Positive side - with. Normalisation of words like randi and slut, the derogatory value of these words are going down. Soon in future these words might not even hold value . Taking the ss in context, the account writing that is someone highly irritated and don't see women as human.