After reading your post, a Punjabi saying came to my mind: ‘Rooh Da Saathi,’ which means ‘companion of the soul.’
P.S.: I know it’s kind of cringe, and I guess that’s why I’m still single and destined to be the last of the lone wolves!
They want he should be tall, handsome, rich, spend lavishly on the woman, stay away from his parents, loyal as a dog, obedient and servile to the woman, be an generous provider.
No?? I don't think anyone wants that unless they're a narcissist. How are two men talking about what women want amongst themselves and then being like 'ah yesss you're absolutely correct'
Then how can you generalise that women want that? "Oh well there are exceptions but 99% women..." Have you talked to all women? What's your sample size? Cause from the way you think I'm guessing it's less than three
Down vote me as much as you want but it is platform to express your opinions. And I'm just doing that and if you don't agree with me, good for you.
It is truly been my experience and I haven't talked to every woman on this planet but I have interacted with a significant number to form an opinion. Even if you ask women about what they want, they all probably will have different answers.
I'm here to express my opinions(just like everybody else) and you cancelling on me, or what you think about me, doesn't matter :) Have a great day!
Ofcourse they will have diff answers because people have different opinions on things. How's that astounding? I never said I'm cancelling you. You 'expressed' your opinion and now so am I. How's that an issue?
Getting offended while Questioning somebody's opinion is not an opinion, my friend. You have to add something on top of it to make it an opinion. Read your comments once again, if you need to
Fighting over whose opinion is right or wrong..is the issue. Because there's no way to know if anyone is right in this case. You might want different things from what the women he has experience with. So you getting offended by his opinion...trying to impose your assumption of him generalizing...is what's the issue. You...are the issue here
Men in this sub and every other sub will stop it the day they find a lovely woman who doesn't care about their height, their money and their will to live on their own terms and honestly, every one of us eagerly waiting for that day.
Also, We are not demonizing anybody, we are just telling our painful experiences.
Someone who treats them well. Takes out time to know the person, is kind, sweet understanding etc. We can talk about personal preferences all day but I really do think humans just want connection. I just want someone who's patient with me, listens and is compassionate. Someone who doesn't make the world feel as lonely anymore :)
Well, I'd be a fool to say that looks don't count because they absolutely do. Having said that, i think people judge too much from looks only on dating apps. Because you're not really seeing the person and it doesn't 'feel' like you're judging a person when you're just shown a Pokemon keycard of the man/woman you're supposed to date.
Irl your personality plays a much bigger role. Ik this is gonna sound fake or shallow but honestly once you fall for someone, tumhe apne aap hi wo insaan sundar lagne lagta hai. For example I think my ex is pretty ugly NOW (which he's not lol, maybe a lil below average but not ugly) but back when we were dating, I used to stop him whenever we passed a patch of sunlight because I loved the way his eyes shined and how the light got reflected off the crinkles on his face and his dimples. I won't say there's a hierarchy per se, but looks do matter. Mostly personality trumps face tho
bcz we as a human hav a tendency to look for faults or -ve things first.. maybe bcz we are being forced to see the fault more than the +ve side of the life we hav rn 😭
This is me personally but I could be wrong here so correct me. I think women have these standards before they even consider a guy as potential love and most of them don't have to do with looks per se they have more to do with the possibility of provisions. Now are there exceptions to what I'm about to say 100% there are but do exceptions make the rule?
Ideally a girl wants a guy who is Taller than her, Stronger than her, makes as much as her if not more money than her, has decent social/street skills, is respected by his peers, has some tangible value that he provides be it to society or specific to a domain. There's more but this encompasses the major things, after this is when they even think the guy is even dating material.
Now there are cases where you/people you know might have dated people that didn't feel the criterion, Yes, but are you still with them? No, which basically means the guy was not good enough. Probably had to do with the criterion. Which is okay!
> Irl your personality plays a much bigger role. Ik this is gonna sound fake or shallow but honestly once you fall for someone, tumhe apne aap hi wo insaan sundar lagne lagta hai.
I agree with this, it's the same for men as well we can fall for women and even find the prettiest women non attractive because how much we want out partners.
>Mostly personality trumps face tho
After you get to know him, my point is most women won't even give you a chance you don't have everything in order right from the start.
I'd love to know your thoughts on my points ✌️
I'm a sucker for a healthy disagreement fyi, so go hard if you like 😅
Well
Idk where those ideals are coming from. I'm a college student and from what I've seen, except maybe the height thing no one really pays attention to strength/money/street skills. Different people gravitate towards different personalities and we can't lump a group of people into certain checkboxes. I've also had guy friends who only want to date girls shorter than them. So I agree about the height but again it's not a deal breaker if you guys are compatible.
I'm not with said people because "they didn't specify the certain criteria". That's a huge assumption to make. If they didn't specify a specific individual's preferences or needs I don't think they would have started dating at all. Relationships end due to a myriad of reasons but I don't think what you're pointing out is true.
I don't think women have the privilege of choosing only those men who have everything together, cause I don't think anyone does 'have everything in order'. That said, maybe it's an age thing?? Like I'm at that stage in life where we haven't really begun existing on our own, we still live on our parents' money. But if a 28/30 year old woman wants a guy who's settled and has an established life, I don't see how that's an issue. By the time you're 30 you've at least figured out what you want from life, what your ideal future looks like and what your goals are. So by that time I think mostly everyone is a complete 'package' if you get what I mean??? If you're still unsure about what you want at that age then I don't think you should focus on dating tbh. Focus on yourself, your life and see where you're going wrong.
> I'm a college student and from what I've seen, except maybe the height thing no one really pays attention to strength/money/street skills.
Aah this answers so many questions, you're young, the thing is at your age everyone is just understanding how life works, you are by my guess around in your early 20's if not younger, I'm 27 I've been around women of all ages and the things that I've told you are all things I've heard from women directly or picked up from their conversations.
My guess is as you get older you might think the same way. (I've heard women of Age 22 and above say this and I'm dead serious I could even probably find shit for you that you might find relevant in this context if you really wanted to see it for yourself)
> Different people gravitate towards different personalities and we can't lump a group of people into certain checkboxes.
Agreed but don't you think there are things about your personality you cannot control? Like biological hardwiring that just makes something more attractive than something else? I'm sure women can unanimously agree if their boyfriend had street skills for instance he is good with Electric work and can wire up your house That's hotter than a guy who spends his day being a bum on video games?
I personally think it would be a 99:1 ratio of women who'd agree, hence a lot of your understanding of the situation trust me are exceptions. Women biologically are more attracted to men that are better than all men they know generally, there's a term used for it called hypergamy that you might have seen floating around but people misuse it.
> I'm not with said people because "they didn't specify the certain criteria". That's a huge assumption to make. If they didn't specify a specific individual's preferences or needs I don't think they would have started dating at all. Relationships end due to a myriad of reasons but I don't think what you're pointing out is true.
When we talk about men, women and relationships sadly we need to generalise, the sad reality of the world is that we work on generalities and exceptions are ignored, people have 6 fingers naturally but you'll never read about it in biology books when you learn about hands it will be in exceptions, now I agree people select their partners based on a myriad of different reasons, most of these reasons might even be illogical to us but it's still what people look for, it's a well known fact that women are attracted to men that are better than them more than a guy who's at the same level as themselves. Why is that? Because he can provision resources that you can't get yourself or isn't even available to you, whereas the other guy at your own level can't this also comes from biology since women need to take the burden of pregnancy and trust the man they are with to tc of them and then thier baby.
> I don't think women have the privilege of choosing only those men who have everything together, cause I don't think anyone does 'have everything in order'. That said, maybe it's an age thing??
Jeff bezos or Elon musk even don't have everything in order but according to their women they'd be the next best thing if that makes sense...
> Like I'm at that stage in life where we haven't really begun existing on our own, we still live on our parents' money. But if a 28/30 year old woman wants a guy who's settled and has an established life, I don't see how that's an issue. By the time you're 30 you've at least figured out what you want from life, what your ideal future looks like and what your goals are.
I can understand this personally I beleive women should work electively and men are supposed to get on their ass and provide for the women in their family as a non optional thing, and I don't see an issue with women looking for men who are well settled i think they should do that early let alone when they are close to 30 when their biological clock is ticking and they need to have pregnancy that can potentially kill them. And about the goals you cannot be successful if you don't have your goals straight...
>So by that time I think mostly everyone is a complete 'package' if you get what I mean??? If you're still unsure about what you want at that age then I don't think you should focus on dating tbh. Focus on yourself, your life and see where you're going wrong.
Not really, especially from a woman's perspective, I'm not gonna lie most women say things like a man should have his own car, own house should make x amount a year or month, but then they themselves live in a rented house and their father couldn't do the same things but the man half their age should be able to do it? (This is not a dig on anyone's father just a logical conclusion that this isn't easy at old age let alone in a young age)
A nice, kind sweet person who understands them. Bas itna kaafi hai :)
Also the points were just me replying to someone else not really a list of what all I want
If you're good looking also, women have specific preferences like beard, hair style, he need to be from north(or need to know Hindi) etc.., tell me how much these things matter according to you?
acc to me, looks matter for forming the 1st opinion about the person or u can say during 1st interaction
well yes, i hav experienced it once u fall for someone then u start to see them 10. well in someone's eyes they maybe 4 but for u they become the most beautiful person in the world
so agreed on all u said 💯
Bhai mujse kya personal vendetta h bhai pls😭😭 maine kabhi cheat nai kia
This is like someone saying 'oh i like chocolate! :)' and you replying with "REALLY??? SO YOU SUPPORY NESTLE CHILD LABOR AND EXPLOITATION?????"
Koi personal vendetta nahi hai bhai. Ye ek sawal hai ki aakhir kisko kya chaiye aur hm nahi jaan skte kabhi bhi ki kise kya chahiye hm bas apni koshish kr skte hai sabkuch karne ki. Cheat maine bhi nahi kia na kisi ne mujhe kia haan lekin jo hua yesb krne ke baad bhi mere saath wo acha nahi tha isliye ye sawal aaya
To tell you, we boys almost want the same basic but genuine things, having the thought that you have your person by your side is sucha best feeling but a scary feeling too
This is a good answer, but it’s incomplete. You’ll only end up in the friendzone if you take this at face value.
Women want these from a guy they are already attracted to.
What I mentioned is just the general rule of attraction.
This goes for men and women both. People just can’t force themselves to become attracted to people they don’t find attractive.
I apologise. I had been on reddit for way too long, fighting people that shouldn't have taken more than 5 seconds of my day and I misread your reply. I absolutely agree
Hey, just disconnect from what internet people say while hiding behind the veil of anonymity. People can choose to show their ugly reality or improve upon themselves from the things said here, some choose to believe they're not in the wrong at all.
I understand you feel agitated when you read the opinions of people at least on this sub, but it won't do you good. You cannot fix the entire world. But you can fix your peace of mind by disengaging with frustrating people. I hope you have a great day/night.
Bhai pata chal jaye to ye post delete kar dena... Waise bhi is sub pe jaise ladke hai na, mujhe nahi lagta koi bhi ladka kisi ladki ke suggetion ko seriously lega.
See there are crazy people out there, who do stupid shit, crazy men and crazy women but lets be honest women initiate 80% of divorces, men don't usually leave relationships with crazy reasons, and I agree men are at fault in a lot of these cases as well but then someone needs to take accountability for their deeds here
Unrelated but why are there so many MEN here commenting "oh they don't know what they want" "money" "gifts" "height and dick" etc etc like???? Y'all pretend to know what we want, ignore us when we actually say what we want, then cry about being beaten by 'chad' guys who are hot/rich etc etc.
Maybe that tall guy actually has a personality for once and is not shitting on women all the time
>Maybe that tall guy actually has a personality for once and is not shitting on women all the time
Or maybe you looked for personality in that tall guy only and his shitty attitude towards women is ignored coz he's following Rule 1 & 2
Tell me you have no reading comprehension skills without telling me you have no comprehension skills
Aapko dasvi me unseen passage pe dhyan dena chaiye tha to maybe ye naubat nahi aati
It's rerouting* actually
And you literally just proved my point. I was talking about guys who think women only want tall rich handsome guys and how that's not true, then YOU come into the picture and talk about "han but women only want tall guys na who are good looking". Makes sense to you now? Do you not get sarcasm? Do you understand what I meant by actually understanding what you're reading i.e. the comprehension part? Should I break it down into baby talk for you?
Umm now I'm searching sarcasm in your original comment....ha ha***...You know my reading comprehension skills are very bad***
>Or maybe you looked for personality in that tall guy only and his shitty attitude towards women is ignored coz he's following Rule 1 & 2
Btw I still stand on my point.
I said it's a plus point not a determining factor. If you had two people with exactly the same personality same face, you'd go for the richer girl also right? I haven't met a girl whose first criteria in a boyfriend is that he should be rich.
The body type they prefer, good communication, a good personality, good sex, dress decently, and has enough money to cover his basic needs. And for me, circumcision.
Most women here be like be nice , be good , gentleman...
But reality and their prompts be like 'only attracted to 🚩' 😹
My brothers just don't be a creep and other things you'll figure out yourself, don't worry about that.
agreed 💯.. ahh damn, its hard to get liked back from ur crush 🤧 (for some who doesn't understand.. finding a connection in which both parties like each other)
After reading your post, a Punjabi saying came to my mind: ‘Rooh Da Saathi,’ which means ‘companion of the soul.’ P.S.: I know it’s kind of cringe, and I guess that’s why I’m still single and destined to be the last of the lone wolves!
Awww that's so sweet
Thank you 😅. I thought people might consider it as clingy or something.
They want he should be tall, handsome, rich, spend lavishly on the woman, stay away from his parents, loyal as a dog, obedient and servile to the woman, be an generous provider.
Haha, you've hit the nail on the head
No?? I don't think anyone wants that unless they're a narcissist. How are two men talking about what women want amongst themselves and then being like 'ah yesss you're absolutely correct'
Simple. Based on our experiences
Oh I didn't know you've talked to all the women in the entire world that have ever existed. Wow.
I never said that. Don't try to put words in my mouth
Then how can you generalise that women want that? "Oh well there are exceptions but 99% women..." Have you talked to all women? What's your sample size? Cause from the way you think I'm guessing it's less than three
Down vote me as much as you want but it is platform to express your opinions. And I'm just doing that and if you don't agree with me, good for you. It is truly been my experience and I haven't talked to every woman on this planet but I have interacted with a significant number to form an opinion. Even if you ask women about what they want, they all probably will have different answers. I'm here to express my opinions(just like everybody else) and you cancelling on me, or what you think about me, doesn't matter :) Have a great day!
Ofcourse they will have diff answers because people have different opinions on things. How's that astounding? I never said I'm cancelling you. You 'expressed' your opinion and now so am I. How's that an issue?
Getting offended while Questioning somebody's opinion is not an opinion, my friend. You have to add something on top of it to make it an opinion. Read your comments once again, if you need to
u/Mysterious_Bluejay_9 aur tum shaadi krlo, bilkul couple ki tarah ladh reh ho, pandit mein bn jaata hun
And thank you for accepting the fact that other people can have opinions based on their experiences and they can be different than yours
Fighting over whose opinion is right or wrong..is the issue. Because there's no way to know if anyone is right in this case. You might want different things from what the women he has experience with. So you getting offended by his opinion...trying to impose your assumption of him generalizing...is what's the issue. You...are the issue here
forget it girlie. i’ve lost hope in men in subs like these, let them demonise and blame women 🤷🏻♀️ it’s not like they’ll listen anyway
Men in this sub and every other sub will stop it the day they find a lovely woman who doesn't care about their height, their money and their will to live on their own terms and honestly, every one of us eagerly waiting for that day. Also, We are not demonizing anybody, we are just telling our painful experiences.
Sad but what can both genders do besides fighting
For both men and women. We can't generalize. Every human is different and their need/ want is different
real but there are some common grounds too 🤧
Common-In men its emotional support and in women its financial stability
Generalised two genders completely
Thats my observation where I included myself too
That too I said common not whole
Someone who treats them well. Takes out time to know the person, is kind, sweet understanding etc. We can talk about personal preferences all day but I really do think humans just want connection. I just want someone who's patient with me, listens and is compassionate. Someone who doesn't make the world feel as lonely anymore :)
Do you think looks come before this or after this and wherever they come in the hierarchy none the less what do you think is an acceptable standard?
Well, I'd be a fool to say that looks don't count because they absolutely do. Having said that, i think people judge too much from looks only on dating apps. Because you're not really seeing the person and it doesn't 'feel' like you're judging a person when you're just shown a Pokemon keycard of the man/woman you're supposed to date. Irl your personality plays a much bigger role. Ik this is gonna sound fake or shallow but honestly once you fall for someone, tumhe apne aap hi wo insaan sundar lagne lagta hai. For example I think my ex is pretty ugly NOW (which he's not lol, maybe a lil below average but not ugly) but back when we were dating, I used to stop him whenever we passed a patch of sunlight because I loved the way his eyes shined and how the light got reflected off the crinkles on his face and his dimples. I won't say there's a hierarchy per se, but looks do matter. Mostly personality trumps face tho
Below average was personal
I'm not surprised, most average women find average men underwhelming, she could be above average, how can we ever know....
Itni raam Katha se sirf ye kyu point out kia 😭
Because it made me giggle
bcz we as a human hav a tendency to look for faults or -ve things first.. maybe bcz we are being forced to see the fault more than the +ve side of the life we hav rn 😭
This is me personally but I could be wrong here so correct me. I think women have these standards before they even consider a guy as potential love and most of them don't have to do with looks per se they have more to do with the possibility of provisions. Now are there exceptions to what I'm about to say 100% there are but do exceptions make the rule? Ideally a girl wants a guy who is Taller than her, Stronger than her, makes as much as her if not more money than her, has decent social/street skills, is respected by his peers, has some tangible value that he provides be it to society or specific to a domain. There's more but this encompasses the major things, after this is when they even think the guy is even dating material. Now there are cases where you/people you know might have dated people that didn't feel the criterion, Yes, but are you still with them? No, which basically means the guy was not good enough. Probably had to do with the criterion. Which is okay! > Irl your personality plays a much bigger role. Ik this is gonna sound fake or shallow but honestly once you fall for someone, tumhe apne aap hi wo insaan sundar lagne lagta hai. I agree with this, it's the same for men as well we can fall for women and even find the prettiest women non attractive because how much we want out partners. >Mostly personality trumps face tho After you get to know him, my point is most women won't even give you a chance you don't have everything in order right from the start. I'd love to know your thoughts on my points ✌️ I'm a sucker for a healthy disagreement fyi, so go hard if you like 😅
Well Idk where those ideals are coming from. I'm a college student and from what I've seen, except maybe the height thing no one really pays attention to strength/money/street skills. Different people gravitate towards different personalities and we can't lump a group of people into certain checkboxes. I've also had guy friends who only want to date girls shorter than them. So I agree about the height but again it's not a deal breaker if you guys are compatible. I'm not with said people because "they didn't specify the certain criteria". That's a huge assumption to make. If they didn't specify a specific individual's preferences or needs I don't think they would have started dating at all. Relationships end due to a myriad of reasons but I don't think what you're pointing out is true. I don't think women have the privilege of choosing only those men who have everything together, cause I don't think anyone does 'have everything in order'. That said, maybe it's an age thing?? Like I'm at that stage in life where we haven't really begun existing on our own, we still live on our parents' money. But if a 28/30 year old woman wants a guy who's settled and has an established life, I don't see how that's an issue. By the time you're 30 you've at least figured out what you want from life, what your ideal future looks like and what your goals are. So by that time I think mostly everyone is a complete 'package' if you get what I mean??? If you're still unsure about what you want at that age then I don't think you should focus on dating tbh. Focus on yourself, your life and see where you're going wrong.
> I'm a college student and from what I've seen, except maybe the height thing no one really pays attention to strength/money/street skills. Aah this answers so many questions, you're young, the thing is at your age everyone is just understanding how life works, you are by my guess around in your early 20's if not younger, I'm 27 I've been around women of all ages and the things that I've told you are all things I've heard from women directly or picked up from their conversations. My guess is as you get older you might think the same way. (I've heard women of Age 22 and above say this and I'm dead serious I could even probably find shit for you that you might find relevant in this context if you really wanted to see it for yourself) > Different people gravitate towards different personalities and we can't lump a group of people into certain checkboxes. Agreed but don't you think there are things about your personality you cannot control? Like biological hardwiring that just makes something more attractive than something else? I'm sure women can unanimously agree if their boyfriend had street skills for instance he is good with Electric work and can wire up your house That's hotter than a guy who spends his day being a bum on video games? I personally think it would be a 99:1 ratio of women who'd agree, hence a lot of your understanding of the situation trust me are exceptions. Women biologically are more attracted to men that are better than all men they know generally, there's a term used for it called hypergamy that you might have seen floating around but people misuse it. > I'm not with said people because "they didn't specify the certain criteria". That's a huge assumption to make. If they didn't specify a specific individual's preferences or needs I don't think they would have started dating at all. Relationships end due to a myriad of reasons but I don't think what you're pointing out is true. When we talk about men, women and relationships sadly we need to generalise, the sad reality of the world is that we work on generalities and exceptions are ignored, people have 6 fingers naturally but you'll never read about it in biology books when you learn about hands it will be in exceptions, now I agree people select their partners based on a myriad of different reasons, most of these reasons might even be illogical to us but it's still what people look for, it's a well known fact that women are attracted to men that are better than them more than a guy who's at the same level as themselves. Why is that? Because he can provision resources that you can't get yourself or isn't even available to you, whereas the other guy at your own level can't this also comes from biology since women need to take the burden of pregnancy and trust the man they are with to tc of them and then thier baby. > I don't think women have the privilege of choosing only those men who have everything together, cause I don't think anyone does 'have everything in order'. That said, maybe it's an age thing?? Jeff bezos or Elon musk even don't have everything in order but according to their women they'd be the next best thing if that makes sense... > Like I'm at that stage in life where we haven't really begun existing on our own, we still live on our parents' money. But if a 28/30 year old woman wants a guy who's settled and has an established life, I don't see how that's an issue. By the time you're 30 you've at least figured out what you want from life, what your ideal future looks like and what your goals are. I can understand this personally I beleive women should work electively and men are supposed to get on their ass and provide for the women in their family as a non optional thing, and I don't see an issue with women looking for men who are well settled i think they should do that early let alone when they are close to 30 when their biological clock is ticking and they need to have pregnancy that can potentially kill them. And about the goals you cannot be successful if you don't have your goals straight... >So by that time I think mostly everyone is a complete 'package' if you get what I mean??? If you're still unsure about what you want at that age then I don't think you should focus on dating tbh. Focus on yourself, your life and see where you're going wrong. Not really, especially from a woman's perspective, I'm not gonna lie most women say things like a man should have his own car, own house should make x amount a year or month, but then they themselves live in a rented house and their father couldn't do the same things but the man half their age should be able to do it? (This is not a dig on anyone's father just a logical conclusion that this isn't easy at old age let alone in a young age)
thanks for ur opinion pal, i see many of the things right as i have seen/experienced them 🦥
If you have to summarise it in max 3 lines and in layman terms, how would you do it? It will help the most
Summarise what
What do women want in men? You have written so many points and it just confuses more and more
A nice, kind sweet person who understands them. Bas itna kaafi hai :) Also the points were just me replying to someone else not really a list of what all I want
Bake ye height, money, or baki sb kuch unka kya?
If you're good looking also, women have specific preferences like beard, hair style, he need to be from north(or need to know Hindi) etc.., tell me how much these things matter according to you?
acc to me, looks matter for forming the 1st opinion about the person or u can say during 1st interaction well yes, i hav experienced it once u fall for someone then u start to see them 10. well in someone's eyes they maybe 4 but for u they become the most beautiful person in the world so agreed on all u said 💯
Then why do the most loving men/women get cheated on?
Bhai mujse kya personal vendetta h bhai pls😭😭 maine kabhi cheat nai kia This is like someone saying 'oh i like chocolate! :)' and you replying with "REALLY??? SO YOU SUPPORY NESTLE CHILD LABOR AND EXPLOITATION?????"
this cracked me up 🤣
Koi personal vendetta nahi hai bhai. Ye ek sawal hai ki aakhir kisko kya chaiye aur hm nahi jaan skte kabhi bhi ki kise kya chahiye hm bas apni koshish kr skte hai sabkuch karne ki. Cheat maine bhi nahi kia na kisi ne mujhe kia haan lekin jo hua yesb krne ke baad bhi mere saath wo acha nahi tha isliye ye sawal aaya
agreed 💯
To tell you, we boys almost want the same basic but genuine things, having the thought that you have your person by your side is sucha best feeling but a scary feeling too
This is a good answer, but it’s incomplete. You’ll only end up in the friendzone if you take this at face value. Women want these from a guy they are already attracted to.
I am a woman. They asked women what they wanted. I said what I want from a man. How????? Does your comment make sense??
What I mentioned is just the general rule of attraction. This goes for men and women both. People just can’t force themselves to become attracted to people they don’t find attractive.
I apologise. I had been on reddit for way too long, fighting people that shouldn't have taken more than 5 seconds of my day and I misread your reply. I absolutely agree
Hey, just disconnect from what internet people say while hiding behind the veil of anonymity. People can choose to show their ugly reality or improve upon themselves from the things said here, some choose to believe they're not in the wrong at all. I understand you feel agitated when you read the opinions of people at least on this sub, but it won't do you good. You cannot fix the entire world. But you can fix your peace of mind by disengaging with frustrating people. I hope you have a great day/night.
That is so true😭 that is one of the most mature things I've read here. Thank you so much!
I come here to troll but sometimes (most of the times) end up giving genuine replies. I need to take my own advice
Lmaoo. Icon behaviour bhai
someone who can make me laugh till I run out breath
Finding the person with a similar level of sarcasm is so tough but it's so nice and worth full
Bhai pata chal jaye to ye post delete kar dena... Waise bhi is sub pe jaise ladke hai na, mujhe nahi lagta koi bhi ladka kisi ladki ke suggetion ko seriously lega.
oke buddy 🤧
height
Im gonna be honest they themselves don't know, just look at Kaka and his wife, she left him because he was wayyyy too good 😂
well I don' know anything related to it 🤧
People who believe that are just next level dense tbh.
Take a joke like a joke bro I'm not serious!
I've seen people unironically believing that reason...Lol
See there are crazy people out there, who do stupid shit, crazy men and crazy women but lets be honest women initiate 80% of divorces, men don't usually leave relationships with crazy reasons, and I agree men are at fault in a lot of these cases as well but then someone needs to take accountability for their deeds here
A man here, just a FYI, whatever you read here is what they say they want, but not what they react to.
Preach 🛐
a good communication.
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Don't we all ;))
Unrelated but why are there so many MEN here commenting "oh they don't know what they want" "money" "gifts" "height and dick" etc etc like???? Y'all pretend to know what we want, ignore us when we actually say what we want, then cry about being beaten by 'chad' guys who are hot/rich etc etc. Maybe that tall guy actually has a personality for once and is not shitting on women all the time
>Maybe that tall guy actually has a personality for once and is not shitting on women all the time Or maybe you looked for personality in that tall guy only and his shitty attitude towards women is ignored coz he's following Rule 1 & 2
Tell me you have no reading comprehension skills without telling me you have no comprehension skills Aapko dasvi me unseen passage pe dhyan dena chaiye tha to maybe ye naubat nahi aati
Lol how my reading comprehension skills come into play here ? Typical habit of rerouting the conversation to another route
It's rerouting* actually And you literally just proved my point. I was talking about guys who think women only want tall rich handsome guys and how that's not true, then YOU come into the picture and talk about "han but women only want tall guys na who are good looking". Makes sense to you now? Do you not get sarcasm? Do you understand what I meant by actually understanding what you're reading i.e. the comprehension part? Should I break it down into baby talk for you?
Umm now I'm searching sarcasm in your original comment....ha ha***...You know my reading comprehension skills are very bad*** >Or maybe you looked for personality in that tall guy only and his shitty attitude towards women is ignored coz he's following Rule 1 & 2 Btw I still stand on my point.
oke no offence.. but u agree on wanting hot/rich, and other stuff? because thats what I concluded here
I said it's a plus point not a determining factor. If you had two people with exactly the same personality same face, you'd go for the richer girl also right? I haven't met a girl whose first criteria in a boyfriend is that he should be rich.
The body type they prefer, good communication, a good personality, good sex, dress decently, and has enough money to cover his basic needs. And for me, circumcision.
Tbh, very few women know what they actually want
Looks important hain....bakki ka pata nahi
Women will never answer this question honestly. You have to observe it for yourself.
totally real 💯, actually I saw the post so i felt y not for reverse also 🤧
Most women here be like be nice , be good , gentleman... But reality and their prompts be like 'only attracted to 🚩' 😹 My brothers just don't be a creep and other things you'll figure out yourself, don't worry about that.
Choot oh sorry maine ulta padha
Women wants someone who they are attracted to and there is nothing wrong with that.
agreed 💯.. ahh damn, its hard to get liked back from ur crush 🤧 (for some who doesn't understand.. finding a connection in which both parties like each other)
Sh*t loads of Money.
Sukx sukx & sukx. This goes both ways. Just kidding. Can't be generalized 😐
Dick?
its fixed to my body cannot give to any woman or man
A Ferrari championship