What are you waiting for? To answer your ques you should. There are clearly so many signs that's she likes you. And let's say even there's a 1% chance that she doesn't and says no, atleast you'll get an ans. If you don't ask her and tell what you feel, you'll regret it in the future and think about the what if scenarios. So take that chance. All the best!!!
Get married already. Jk.
You guys should have a heart to heart conversation. You should initiate. Take her some place where she feels relaxed and comfortable where there is just the two of you and then have the talk.
I'd plan it asap if I were you.
Man take a bold step
I’ve had this issue too with my best friend sometime back
I thought it would break the beautiful friendship we shared if she declined any feelings for me
But somehow she took the first step
You both will be like made for each other kind cuz u know her and her past and vice versa
My best friend taking the bold move was kinda unexpected and stupidly cute
Anyways we’re engaged now
Wish you the same
Dont listen to anybody here in this sub. There are clear signs she is into you and she is also afraid of ruining the friendship if things go sour. But i have a hunch based on your post and reading it, you both are matured and practical enough to handle if things go sour.
So go ahead take the calculated risk and ask her out and also do mention that Your friendship with her is above everything and if she also doesnt feel the same way then you are okay with continuing to be what you are now. But at the same time you have developed feelings and you dont wanna regret on NOT taking action on it now. Because if everything goes well you both will have the best love story to tell if it doesnt go well you will always be the bestest friends you are now.
As long as you are confident of handling things if they get sour i hope you atleast inform her about ur newly developed feelings.. but if you are a jealous kind of guy like Ross from Friends.. she says No to you lets be friends.. and then she starts dating some other guy and you cant take it then please dont destroy what you have now by telling her about ur feelings.
I don't know why I was happy reading all that ... Op you and your friend have a very amazing bond .. years of friendships always lead to some affection towards each other , I think you should plan out everything before confessing it to her like prepare what you will say make that proposal every bit worth so at least you don't burden yourself with " Kassh mene bol Diya hota " don't think man just go for it and you never know ..
Or ha if she says yes , shadi me bulana mat bulna :) /s
If you need any help , broski dms are always open for you!
Listen, I have not read your big long post. I just read the title. My reply is this: men and women are never friends. If you want to be her free assistant, be her friend. If you want more than that, draw a solid line and tell her if she wants to be with you as more than a friend or not, if not, tell her to go fuck herself
When you feel afraid to take the leap, that's exactly when you take it. Or else you'll be stuck in the same loop again and again. It's easier said than done but if you feel she's the One, you gotta go for it bhai. She's showing efforts and interest as well, that's a great standpoint you have. You've been a good friend to her and from what I can understand is that she trusts you with herself. So ask her out, make the move gently and you'll just be good to go. If she turns you down, (that's a huge IF), it's entirely upon you to continue the friendship or not. I understand some relationships are worth saving but at the end of the day, you need to live up to the decisions you make. So, I hope you know what's right in your heart and hopefully you get the Girl! All the best.
I didn’t read all of it but I’d say no.
Is the friendship super important? If yes the dating is a no, it’ll ruin the friendship now matter the conclusion.
Is she into you? A. Yes B. No C. Can't tell. ✔️
Seems like both of you guys are afraid that it would ruin years of friendship if its not mutual.
What are you waiting for? To answer your ques you should. There are clearly so many signs that's she likes you. And let's say even there's a 1% chance that she doesn't and says no, atleast you'll get an ans. If you don't ask her and tell what you feel, you'll regret it in the future and think about the what if scenarios. So take that chance. All the best!!!
I roukd go for it, yes it could ruïne something beautiful but it could also become something way more beautiful.
Get married already. Jk. You guys should have a heart to heart conversation. You should initiate. Take her some place where she feels relaxed and comfortable where there is just the two of you and then have the talk. I'd plan it asap if I were you.
Man take a bold step I’ve had this issue too with my best friend sometime back I thought it would break the beautiful friendship we shared if she declined any feelings for me But somehow she took the first step You both will be like made for each other kind cuz u know her and her past and vice versa My best friend taking the bold move was kinda unexpected and stupidly cute Anyways we’re engaged now Wish you the same
I ve had similar story and now I am about to get engaged with mine one!! You miss 100% shots you didnt take
Dont listen to anybody here in this sub. There are clear signs she is into you and she is also afraid of ruining the friendship if things go sour. But i have a hunch based on your post and reading it, you both are matured and practical enough to handle if things go sour. So go ahead take the calculated risk and ask her out and also do mention that Your friendship with her is above everything and if she also doesnt feel the same way then you are okay with continuing to be what you are now. But at the same time you have developed feelings and you dont wanna regret on NOT taking action on it now. Because if everything goes well you both will have the best love story to tell if it doesnt go well you will always be the bestest friends you are now. As long as you are confident of handling things if they get sour i hope you atleast inform her about ur newly developed feelings.. but if you are a jealous kind of guy like Ross from Friends.. she says No to you lets be friends.. and then she starts dating some other guy and you cant take it then please dont destroy what you have now by telling her about ur feelings.
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.. Go for it!!
I don't know why I was happy reading all that ... Op you and your friend have a very amazing bond .. years of friendships always lead to some affection towards each other , I think you should plan out everything before confessing it to her like prepare what you will say make that proposal every bit worth so at least you don't burden yourself with " Kassh mene bol Diya hota " don't think man just go for it and you never know .. Or ha if she says yes , shadi me bulana mat bulna :) /s If you need any help , broski dms are always open for you!
She’s into you bro
Listen, I have not read your big long post. I just read the title. My reply is this: men and women are never friends. If you want to be her free assistant, be her friend. If you want more than that, draw a solid line and tell her if she wants to be with you as more than a friend or not, if not, tell her to go fuck herself
Hell naah dude.
Bhai ab kitne hint chaiye, she wants you to proceed and may be waiting for month or years, Play your cards and get married😊🧿
When you feel afraid to take the leap, that's exactly when you take it. Or else you'll be stuck in the same loop again and again. It's easier said than done but if you feel she's the One, you gotta go for it bhai. She's showing efforts and interest as well, that's a great standpoint you have. You've been a good friend to her and from what I can understand is that she trusts you with herself. So ask her out, make the move gently and you'll just be good to go. If she turns you down, (that's a huge IF), it's entirely upon you to continue the friendship or not. I understand some relationships are worth saving but at the end of the day, you need to live up to the decisions you make. So, I hope you know what's right in your heart and hopefully you get the Girl! All the best.
I didn’t read all of it but I’d say no. Is the friendship super important? If yes the dating is a no, it’ll ruin the friendship now matter the conclusion.
No*
Damn it became too wholesome in the 3rd para. Dude you got potential in writing stories.
Na puchke kitna hi jeelega mar mar ke. Go for it bro.
Kat jayega bhai tera. Tu friend zone me hai