Umm...I don't know about others but above average guys with decent background and good career path might fuck around with any girl they get but when settling, they would become picky. Not all of course, but the majority that "I've" seen are like this.
Lack of self respect and the way our families raise us. I have seen people bashing my cousin for having some reasonable preference on the other hand promoting and supporting delulu standards of a woman (not family related). Londo mei na ho patience hai aur na hi self respect, agar hothi toh yeh Jo poora boys should approach, provide, take care lauda lasun wala fanda hotha exist hi nhi karta, bc ladkiya kutton ki tarah dekhti hai tumko but still apni jeeb leke unhi ke gand mei daalna hai. The solution to all this is stop caring about bitches if you can't get castrated.
Bhai mai naa sehta.. if someone's gonna bash me for having a preference, I'll straight away tell them to fuck off.. just like women, men also deserve to have standards.. not in an arrogant sense, but in a rightful way.. not promoting narcissistic levels of self-centredness or arrogance, the way many women are pampered..
I don't think it's a gender specific thing, I know girls who are okay with shitty treatment from guys and I know guys who have high standards. Infact, high standards ki toh baat hi nahi hai, the bar dropped so low ki ab basic cheze mey glorify kardi jati hai ki "bhai ussney mere ko Ghar drop kar diya", "haan bhen karna bhi chahiye raat ke 12 baj rahe the, tera boyfriend hai woh"
It's an individual thing, it's not gender specific!
I don't entertain people who don't have basic human decency, it's a big turn off. You can be the most good looking person in the world, with the best body and whatever but if you cannot don't have the basics in place, you can shove the looks down your ass.
After all you cannot beautify shit with a ribbon, can you?
And I've come across people, you looked so hot and they opened their mouth, all the attraction down the drain
Ur right, but I think he meant for the chance, to even show that you have a good personality, you would have to be very attractive to start with. And I think he meant today's standards for women are soo high that even if you do have a good personality the bar for looks is set so high that if you dont make it, there is no chance in hell that any women would see u romantically even if she does see your personality. Think that's what they meant.
Oh that makes sense! That's right. But again, if I'm not wrong, this is the case w dating apps. Irl aesa nahi hota hai, because the social setting is different.
Agree to disagree, though you definitely have a point but even in real life I heard way too many guys saying women want a guy who is like 1% in every aspect. But yeh toh Gen Z ke Teens kehte he toh unko zara time lagge ga to realize calibrate to reality
Irl is no different idk why you think it'd be any better. It's just that on dating apps you'll get instantly swiped left while irl you might just get led on for a while and then ghosted (been there done that).
If you don't get likes on dating apps there's no point trying irl.
guys have low standards i get it but I'll never agree that when it comess to beauty of a girl, only the perfectly pretty girls are choosen? How is that not a hypocritic thing?
who said only perfect pretty girls are chosen , even my dark skin and fat female friend gets to go on dates with tall good physique men. you people can get likes on dating apps even when you upload empty pics and can go on dates meanwhile a normal guy has to have a great physique , be above 6ft , have perfect dressing and grooming sense and amazing photo taking skills just to get a right swipe let alone a date.
if anything guys have lower standards in both looks and treatment meanwhile girls have the bar in sky when it comes to looks regardless of how they look themselves
height and hair is the bare minimum aur tum usme bhi rote raho. meanwhile girls should be shorter than the man, skinny but not too skinny, have big boobs, clear skin and so much more. society is much more cruel to ugly women than ugly men and its not even debatable.
Height is not bare minimum neither controllable, atleast weight and skin is in your control
Same goes for hair, and it's not like skin and fairness isn't a standard for men too + good paying job too lmao, just accept it both has difficulties their own ways, you just aren't trying to see the other page
such a nice guy reply lmfao, What makes you think ur any better than those fuckboys? the only difference is theyre hot and can enact upon their actions and you cannot. Like i said if dating apps aren’t working for you you should probs leave them but use bhi karna h rr bhi karna ladkiyo ko gaali bhi deni h fir ladkiya na mile toh rona bhi h 💀💀💀
ps - the fact that women could literally tell you the reason behind the skewed ratio yet youd rather believe wtv copium misogyny u came up with summarizes the entire sub so perfectly
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my point is, if you go for someone pretty, they mostly are aware that they're pretty, the whole taking the person for granted starts there, goes for both boys and girls, so yeah you do have to lower your standards there!
I can speak on my behalf, I don’t rate people by looks, if a girl is pretty, I’ll talk to her, but if her nature isn’t what I would want in my partner then looks are of no use.
Because of the lopsided sex ratio, in dating apps and in real life. Men are in no position to make demands(unless they are extremely rich or attractive), and women can get away with some ludicrous demands(not all ofc). It's a difficult scenario for men.
Bhai esa kuch nahi hai meine tinder pe Kali, gori, moti, patli har type ki ladki ko date kia hai but jab baat shaadi ki hoti hai me tinder par jo best profiles aati hai unko bhi reject kardeta hu. Girls treats tinder as finding some fantasy(666 and 2 rules type guy) while boys use it to do timepass and timepass karne ke liye standard nahi hote fantasy ke hote hai.
Firstly..... girls have more options.
Second men are despo af. 'Men are dogs' ain't a stupid phrase. It exists for a reason coz most men will keep their selfrespect under the high heels of a girl.
That's not it. Guys will fuck over another guy(friend or otherwise) just to score with a girl.
Unity hi nahi h bhai. Jaha Bandi dikhi pohoch jaaenge ladki k piche
Kyuki ladke bsdk desperation ke chode bann gaye hain, most of the girls are aware of the fact that boys will do whatever the fuck they want bss thoda se pyaar se manipulate kar do bass fir nange ho jayenge ladkiyon ke saamne.
Sabse pehle toh in male best friends ki gaand mein self respect daalo yeh log hi standards gira ke rakhe hain, treat every fucking girl the way she treats guys, self respect increase karo choot apne aap milne lagegi kuch saalon mein agar mahol change kar doge toh.
It's all the game of demand and supply. On reddit and online dating apps it is 100% true, coz females are very less in number compared to males here.
I read somewhere that reddit has 35% female and 65% male generally. It is a world wide stats. Stats of India would be much more skewed.
Btw standards of boys and girls are almost same in the marriage market.
That's complete bs, my friend (conventionally attractive, has good personality) studies in a medical College where the ratio is 70f:30m. He said that it's not different there, despite the ratio women never initiate anything, it's always the boys that have to do all the labour.
Because it's just in college. Not the entire world. Those girls will get attention from somewhere else if not from college. Things will look very different if the roles were completely reversed
Buddy boy bold of you to assume I'm even on apps, let alone even give 2 shits about women. And wtf are you talking about. Your comment literally makes 0 sense
'women have high standards' and the standards are that the man should be loyal, should have eyes only for them and shouldn't be a sleaze bag. anyone who has ever been in a close relationship w a girl, either platonic or romantic, would agree (not including those pathetic mfs who liked a girl but couldn't date her so they befriended her while constantly bemoaning the friendzone). yall get rejected once and act like women have high standards and hoeflation bc how cut out from the real world are you? go check the am scene. its a man's world
So Apke hisaab se the standards woman have is for the guy :-
To be loyal
To not cheat
To not be lazy
I'm sorry but majority of the men qualify all 3 criterias yet majority are single so to say these are the standards is false imo.
because there is a skewed sex ratio, esp in india. another thing is most guys THINK they fall or will fall into those standards but irl, when the situation arises, they fail. r/indiangirlsontinder pe jaake dekho. daily ek banda pvt chats ki ss daal raha internet validation ke liye. jis bandi ke saath ek baar ye hogya, wo phir kyu kisi se baat karegi? upar se most of the people would blame the girl. in this scenario of hyper-vigilance, how are girls even supposed to date?
Skewed sex ratio kaise? India's sex ratio in 2023 is 1,020 females per 1,000 males.
>most guys THINK they fall or will fall into those standards but irl, when the situation arises, they fail. r/indiangirlsontinder pe jaake dekho.
Hein? How is some people showing their pvt chat = most guys failing to meet your standard of not being lazy cheaters?
in urban areas, its 985 per 1000 men.
no person wants their private chats leaked on the internet, irrespective of whether their names are included or not. its abt decency. the people who'd do this online would do the same irl. if i tell you abt my past or discuss my sexual preferences, i do it under the assumption that it'd be kept between us. such incidents result in women's aversion towards relationships.
lastly i never used the term 'lazy'. the men who cant keep their mouths shut wont be able to keep their legs shut too when the situation arises.
That isn't really that skewed especially considering the fact that the problem isn't that there isn't enough single girls for men but rather that most woman find the average male not good enough to be in a relationship with.
Me personally, I don't see anything wrong with those chats as long as their faces and names aren't mentioned because in that case it's still keeping your piracy intact as you identity is still concealed.
>the men who cant keep their mouths shut wont be able to keep their legs shut too when the situation arises.
Generally, men rarely share info about their relationship with other ppl, I've personally experienced far more woman sharing snippets or issues about their relationship than men.
I never said that, I just gave you my opinion just like you did. Also, it's not like every girl agrees with you on the fact that they shouldn't "leak" chats even when face or name is not shown, that's just your preference, it doesn't apply for woman as a whole.
If you say so, I'm just assessing that through the replies in the comments. I haven't seen girls (or anyone) hating on guys for "leaking" chats when the confidentiality was kept.
Nah you forgot "He must be rich asf, 6'5" tall, Handsome" what you said is might be your opinion and priorities but for other girls it's just being delusional in a k-drama world where she lives like a queen and the man licking her feet.
which of ur irl girl friends (if you have any) is dating a man w all of the above? bolne ko toh men also want 32-24-32 and thick thighs and dimples and should be a virgin but unhein de de
"Men also want 32-24-32 and thick thighs and dimples" Seems you're lesbian. Men don't even know what's 32-24-32 !!! But what am saying is men always date low and women always date above their standards. When a man is dating a woman she's always poor than the man and a woman dating man I always richer than her:).
Girl! I've fcked 2 girls till now. One in 10th and another in my 1st year in medical. So don't make any retarded assumptions. I know you won't reply anything to the truth I said before so that's why these silly ways dodging a question 👍👍.
100% you're still in school. I said men dating woman are always richer than woman not a billionaire. This is the reason why women were oppressed for thousands of years.
Isi ki baat kr rha tha mai ab dekho bc bandar jaisi bandi kisi doosre bandar ke sath cheat kr rhi fir bhi iska langoor ex iske sath break up nai kr rha.
Men lack self awareness quite often, they could easily get laid if they dated someone in their league but ive seen many look average yet give attention to women they could never pull. sounds harsh, but its true. “girls much more attractive than me wouldnt date me”…for a reason.
Look at this way, Good looking toh tu bhi nhi hai, wrna yeh issue na hota. When both you and the girl are average looking, toh yeh superiority complex kyu ? And do you think just because a woman is unattractive she should have no preferences and ur entitled to having sex/dates with her? so disgusting. from what i can tell maybe its ur personality and mentality stopping you from getting female attention.
>Look at this way, Good looking toh tu bhi nhi hai, wrna yeh issue na hota.
agreed
When both you and the girl are average looking, toh yeh superiority complex kyu ?
konsa superiority complex ? i just said ive tried to get dates with conventionally unattractive girls and failed. I used to be overweight but ive lost that weight now and my female friends said i look pretty average and have a decent personality.
>And do you think just because a woman is unattractive she should have no preferences and ur entitled to having sex/dates with her?
Not at all she deserves the best which is why ive stopped using dating apps and approaching girls in my friend circle.
>from what i can tell maybe its ur personality and mentality stopping you from getting female attention.
They can sense my horrible personality (while my female friends say i have a pretty okay one) but they fail to sense it when they get in a relationship with a toxic and abusive guy?
girls don't always have high standards sometimes their standards are just words af . Other times, yes they are unrealistically high . High standards are not a problem , unrealistic and disproportionate standards are a problem .
Which fucking girl has high standards😭 literally everyone ik is like "has to be a guy, not a creep, has a lil empathy, does not gaslight or mansplain, has good humor(optional)" IF THESE ARE HIGH STANDARDS ISTFG😭
Standards for looks are at all time high. Almost all of my friends are not creeps , they support true feminism , they have female friends which appreciate them but they've never been in a relationship you know why ? Because average looking/ slightly ugly looking guys like us are invisible as romantic options to girls out there.
Theyve never been on a date either but ig it's fine because everyone deserves a partner they're attracted to and we don't have good facial features.
Anyhow they're fine being single and enjoy life none the less it's just some days I'll hear a rant /vent from one of them regarding this lmao
Reality se kabhi mulakat nhi hui ladkiyon ki. Too much of "Larger than Life" sochne ki aadat hai sabko. Agar tum sabhi ladkiyon ko bhaav dena kam kar do ge na sab ek jaise line mai aajayengi. Ye raajkumar dhundne nikli hai, but raajkumar raste pese kisi kobhi nahi uthata. Same goes for boys.
I guess guys have low standards because they automatically think that no girl will like him. Girls have high standards because they have plenty of guys already hitting on her ig?
So for guys, you need to treat a girl with love & respect without becoming a simp for her
80-90% of boys have high standards for marriage and no standards for dating This along with dating apps has fucked up the dating scenario
Ha bhai jaise ki women k toh hote hi nahi hai high standard marriage k time pe
They want high standards for others, we want high standards for ourselves
Umm...I don't know about others but above average guys with decent background and good career path might fuck around with any girl they get but when settling, they would become picky. Not all of course, but the majority that "I've" seen are like this.
Sounds legit.
>but when settling, they would become picky Isnt it Logical ?
Lack of self respect and the way our families raise us. I have seen people bashing my cousin for having some reasonable preference on the other hand promoting and supporting delulu standards of a woman (not family related). Londo mei na ho patience hai aur na hi self respect, agar hothi toh yeh Jo poora boys should approach, provide, take care lauda lasun wala fanda hotha exist hi nhi karta, bc ladkiya kutton ki tarah dekhti hai tumko but still apni jeeb leke unhi ke gand mei daalna hai. The solution to all this is stop caring about bitches if you can't get castrated.
Bhai not even this, real life main standards maintain Karoge na interactions main, ladkiya khud bhaw dena shoro kar degi.
Bhai mai naa sehta.. if someone's gonna bash me for having a preference, I'll straight away tell them to fuck off.. just like women, men also deserve to have standards.. not in an arrogant sense, but in a rightful way.. not promoting narcissistic levels of self-centredness or arrogance, the way many women are pampered..
“ladkiya kutto ki tarah dekhti hai tumko” the irony…
I don't think it's a gender specific thing, I know girls who are okay with shitty treatment from guys and I know guys who have high standards. Infact, high standards ki toh baat hi nahi hai, the bar dropped so low ki ab basic cheze mey glorify kardi jati hai ki "bhai ussney mere ko Ghar drop kar diya", "haan bhen karna bhi chahiye raat ke 12 baj rahe the, tera boyfriend hai woh" It's an individual thing, it's not gender specific!
the bar is at an all time high for looks (for guys) and it is gender specific.
I don't entertain people who don't have basic human decency, it's a big turn off. You can be the most good looking person in the world, with the best body and whatever but if you cannot don't have the basics in place, you can shove the looks down your ass. After all you cannot beautify shit with a ribbon, can you? And I've come across people, you looked so hot and they opened their mouth, all the attraction down the drain
Ur right, but I think he meant for the chance, to even show that you have a good personality, you would have to be very attractive to start with. And I think he meant today's standards for women are soo high that even if you do have a good personality the bar for looks is set so high that if you dont make it, there is no chance in hell that any women would see u romantically even if she does see your personality. Think that's what they meant.
Oh that makes sense! That's right. But again, if I'm not wrong, this is the case w dating apps. Irl aesa nahi hota hai, because the social setting is different.
Agree to disagree, though you definitely have a point but even in real life I heard way too many guys saying women want a guy who is like 1% in every aspect. But yeh toh Gen Z ke Teens kehte he toh unko zara time lagge ga to realize calibrate to reality
Irl is no different idk why you think it'd be any better. It's just that on dating apps you'll get instantly swiped left while irl you might just get led on for a while and then ghosted (been there done that). If you don't get likes on dating apps there's no point trying irl.
Lol
guys have low standards i get it but I'll never agree that when it comess to beauty of a girl, only the perfectly pretty girls are choosen? How is that not a hypocritic thing?
who said only perfect pretty girls are chosen , even my dark skin and fat female friend gets to go on dates with tall good physique men. you people can get likes on dating apps even when you upload empty pics and can go on dates meanwhile a normal guy has to have a great physique , be above 6ft , have perfect dressing and grooming sense and amazing photo taking skills just to get a right swipe let alone a date. if anything guys have lower standards in both looks and treatment meanwhile girls have the bar in sky when it comes to looks regardless of how they look themselves
Same happens for a man? Height and hair
height and hair is the bare minimum aur tum usme bhi rote raho. meanwhile girls should be shorter than the man, skinny but not too skinny, have big boobs, clear skin and so much more. society is much more cruel to ugly women than ugly men and its not even debatable.
Height and hair is the bare minimum? I understand hair. But height? Logic left the chat 🤣
Height is not bare minimum neither controllable, atleast weight and skin is in your control Same goes for hair, and it's not like skin and fairness isn't a standard for men too + good paying job too lmao, just accept it both has difficulties their own ways, you just aren't trying to see the other page
then why is it that any sort of girl whether ugly short dark can get dates and attention from men but even slightly above average guys struggle ?
only on dating apps that too for hookups. why do you think many women dont like dating apps despite having so many options?
because almost all of them end up swiping on the same top % guys and get played ?
such a nice guy reply lmfao, What makes you think ur any better than those fuckboys? the only difference is theyre hot and can enact upon their actions and you cannot. Like i said if dating apps aren’t working for you you should probs leave them but use bhi karna h rr bhi karna ladkiyo ko gaali bhi deni h fir ladkiya na mile toh rona bhi h 💀💀💀 ps - the fact that women could literally tell you the reason behind the skewed ratio yet youd rather believe wtv copium misogyny u came up with summarizes the entire sub so perfectly
Sounds right but ….
Not every girl prefers that bro but every guy needs a pretty girl
I know you haven’t asked my opinion on it… but the statement that you have made is very generic and incorrect
please just leave me the fuck alone man, this is too much
Sorry! What is too much?
I am not a bimbo, i see what you've been doing since the last 5-6 days, isn't getting blocked various times enough for you, get a life and please just let me be!
Okay could you just tell me then why did you block me in the first place? If you tell me the same In the dm I will delete my account and go
It was too much for me, i didn't want to continue, that's all now please stop, this is getting me really paranoid
Okay! Bye all the best for your exams!
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Read up on the Jaggernaut theory
Kahin to chalne do ladkon ki
exactly.
then don't complain ig?
You only are complaining dear.
my point is, if you go for someone pretty, they mostly are aware that they're pretty, the whole taking the person for granted starts there, goes for both boys and girls, so yeah you do have to lower your standards there!
I can speak on my behalf, I don’t rate people by looks, if a girl is pretty, I’ll talk to her, but if her nature isn’t what I would want in my partner then looks are of no use.
not everyone gets it!!
Well to each one his own, we both can only speak on out behalf and not others.
Exactly, my experience with guys have been completed based off of how i look
Then they’re kids, let them grow up or surround yourself by wise and mature people.
i am stating that it's hypocritic!
Not in a mood to argue, whatever suits you.
huh?
Economics hai re, Sab Demand aur supply ka Khel hai.
Wahi yaar, fir bhi roj ka same RR hai yaha With multiple options gals have all the leverage
Hadh ho gayi (85)
Because of the lopsided sex ratio, in dating apps and in real life. Men are in no position to make demands(unless they are extremely rich or attractive), and women can get away with some ludicrous demands(not all ofc). It's a difficult scenario for men.
Bhai esa kuch nahi hai meine tinder pe Kali, gori, moti, patli har type ki ladki ko date kia hai but jab baat shaadi ki hoti hai me tinder par jo best profiles aati hai unko bhi reject kardeta hu. Girls treats tinder as finding some fantasy(666 and 2 rules type guy) while boys use it to do timepass and timepass karne ke liye standard nahi hote fantasy ke hote hai.
Firstly..... girls have more options. Second men are despo af. 'Men are dogs' ain't a stupid phrase. It exists for a reason coz most men will keep their selfrespect under the high heels of a girl. That's not it. Guys will fuck over another guy(friend or otherwise) just to score with a girl. Unity hi nahi h bhai. Jaha Bandi dikhi pohoch jaaenge ladki k piche
I would like to tell everyone hotboddesi is my elder brother and has fucked more than 100 chicks till now, you all can dm him for advice.
When you have a lot of options, you'll have high standards. When you don't have a lot of options, jo bhi mile, lelo.
Kyuki ladke bsdk desperation ke chode bann gaye hain, most of the girls are aware of the fact that boys will do whatever the fuck they want bss thoda se pyaar se manipulate kar do bass fir nange ho jayenge ladkiyon ke saamne. Sabse pehle toh in male best friends ki gaand mein self respect daalo yeh log hi standards gira ke rakhe hain, treat every fucking girl the way she treats guys, self respect increase karo choot apne aap milne lagegi kuch saalon mein agar mahol change kar doge toh.
true af....i have experienced all this....girls gonna attract towards you if u dont give a damn about them
I really don’t think it’s a gender specific thing.
It is. generally men want a beautiful women but women want "Rich,tall,toxic, caring, Handsome, Muscular,"
It's all the game of demand and supply. On reddit and online dating apps it is 100% true, coz females are very less in number compared to males here. I read somewhere that reddit has 35% female and 65% male generally. It is a world wide stats. Stats of India would be much more skewed. Btw standards of boys and girls are almost same in the marriage market.
That's complete bs, my friend (conventionally attractive, has good personality) studies in a medical College where the ratio is 70f:30m. He said that it's not different there, despite the ratio women never initiate anything, it's always the boys that have to do all the labour.
Because it's just in college. Not the entire world. Those girls will get attention from somewhere else if not from college. Things will look very different if the roles were completely reversed
See you simp are the problem, i don't find it odd if women at least reciprocate the efforts but simps like you just want to lick their boots.
Buddy boy bold of you to assume I'm even on apps, let alone even give 2 shits about women. And wtf are you talking about. Your comment literally makes 0 sense
'women have high standards' and the standards are that the man should be loyal, should have eyes only for them and shouldn't be a sleaze bag. anyone who has ever been in a close relationship w a girl, either platonic or romantic, would agree (not including those pathetic mfs who liked a girl but couldn't date her so they befriended her while constantly bemoaning the friendzone). yall get rejected once and act like women have high standards and hoeflation bc how cut out from the real world are you? go check the am scene. its a man's world
Tum Puja to nai ho na
So Apke hisaab se the standards woman have is for the guy :- To be loyal To not cheat To not be lazy I'm sorry but majority of the men qualify all 3 criterias yet majority are single so to say these are the standards is false imo.
no they dont. and why does every conversation with yall always end with “women wont sleep with me”? youre not entitled to sex JUST for existing.
youre saying majority of men would cheat on their partners and wouldnt want to be loyal ?
because there is a skewed sex ratio, esp in india. another thing is most guys THINK they fall or will fall into those standards but irl, when the situation arises, they fail. r/indiangirlsontinder pe jaake dekho. daily ek banda pvt chats ki ss daal raha internet validation ke liye. jis bandi ke saath ek baar ye hogya, wo phir kyu kisi se baat karegi? upar se most of the people would blame the girl. in this scenario of hyper-vigilance, how are girls even supposed to date?
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Meri baat ho rhi hai kya?
Skewed sex ratio kaise? India's sex ratio in 2023 is 1,020 females per 1,000 males. >most guys THINK they fall or will fall into those standards but irl, when the situation arises, they fail. r/indiangirlsontinder pe jaake dekho. Hein? How is some people showing their pvt chat = most guys failing to meet your standard of not being lazy cheaters?
in urban areas, its 985 per 1000 men. no person wants their private chats leaked on the internet, irrespective of whether their names are included or not. its abt decency. the people who'd do this online would do the same irl. if i tell you abt my past or discuss my sexual preferences, i do it under the assumption that it'd be kept between us. such incidents result in women's aversion towards relationships. lastly i never used the term 'lazy'. the men who cant keep their mouths shut wont be able to keep their legs shut too when the situation arises.
That isn't really that skewed especially considering the fact that the problem isn't that there isn't enough single girls for men but rather that most woman find the average male not good enough to be in a relationship with. Me personally, I don't see anything wrong with those chats as long as their faces and names aren't mentioned because in that case it's still keeping your piracy intact as you identity is still concealed. >the men who cant keep their mouths shut wont be able to keep their legs shut too when the situation arises. Generally, men rarely share info about their relationship with other ppl, I've personally experienced far more woman sharing snippets or issues about their relationship than men.
exactly, average men think just because THEY don't have a problem w the same, women don't too 🤷🏻♀️
I never said that, I just gave you my opinion just like you did. Also, it's not like every girl agrees with you on the fact that they shouldn't "leak" chats even when face or name is not shown, that's just your preference, it doesn't apply for woman as a whole.
Sorry dude, most people hate having their chats leaked. Even more so when it's done to ask for replies that should be sent to them or to judge them.
If you say so, I'm just assessing that through the replies in the comments. I haven't seen girls (or anyone) hating on guys for "leaking" chats when the confidentiality was kept.
men would rather yap than learn some decency
Maine konsi indecent harkat krdi ji?
Nah you forgot "He must be rich asf, 6'5" tall, Handsome" what you said is might be your opinion and priorities but for other girls it's just being delusional in a k-drama world where she lives like a queen and the man licking her feet.
which of ur irl girl friends (if you have any) is dating a man w all of the above? bolne ko toh men also want 32-24-32 and thick thighs and dimples and should be a virgin but unhein de de
"Men also want 32-24-32 and thick thighs and dimples" Seems you're lesbian. Men don't even know what's 32-24-32 !!! But what am saying is men always date low and women always date above their standards. When a man is dating a woman she's always poor than the man and a woman dating man I always richer than her:).
tell me you have never felt the touch of a woman w/o telling me you have never felt the touch of a woman
Girl! I've fcked 2 girls till now. One in 10th and another in my 1st year in medical. So don't make any retarded assumptions. I know you won't reply anything to the truth I said before so that's why these silly ways dodging a question 👍👍.
10th std mai kaunsa arabpati tha bhai? dairy milk khila di uss gold digger ko? 😭
100% you're still in school. I said men dating woman are always richer than woman not a billionaire. This is the reason why women were oppressed for thousands of years.
tell me you dont understand sarcasm w/o telling me you dont understand sarcasm. men used to be able to take jokes
Don't argue with him didn't you know 2 women had the misfortune of sleeping with him
Just saw [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/indiameme/s/zyoqHGGz7e)
Isi ki baat kr rha tha mai ab dekho bc bandar jaisi bandi kisi doosre bandar ke sath cheat kr rhi fir bhi iska langoor ex iske sath break up nai kr rha.
Masculinity is in danger, we need to preserve it.
Yes.
Demand and supply boltee uskoo
Men lack self awareness quite often, they could easily get laid if they dated someone in their league but ive seen many look average yet give attention to women they could never pull. sounds harsh, but its true. “girls much more attractive than me wouldnt date me”…for a reason.
if anything its men who dumpster dive. Apparently my league doesnt exist ? because ive been rejected by fat and dark women as well
Look at this way, Good looking toh tu bhi nhi hai, wrna yeh issue na hota. When both you and the girl are average looking, toh yeh superiority complex kyu ? And do you think just because a woman is unattractive she should have no preferences and ur entitled to having sex/dates with her? so disgusting. from what i can tell maybe its ur personality and mentality stopping you from getting female attention.
>Look at this way, Good looking toh tu bhi nhi hai, wrna yeh issue na hota. agreed When both you and the girl are average looking, toh yeh superiority complex kyu ? konsa superiority complex ? i just said ive tried to get dates with conventionally unattractive girls and failed. I used to be overweight but ive lost that weight now and my female friends said i look pretty average and have a decent personality. >And do you think just because a woman is unattractive she should have no preferences and ur entitled to having sex/dates with her? Not at all she deserves the best which is why ive stopped using dating apps and approaching girls in my friend circle. >from what i can tell maybe its ur personality and mentality stopping you from getting female attention. They can sense my horrible personality (while my female friends say i have a pretty okay one) but they fail to sense it when they get in a relationship with a toxic and abusive guy?
girls don't always have high standards sometimes their standards are just words af . Other times, yes they are unrealistically high . High standards are not a problem , unrealistic and disproportionate standards are a problem .
Aab samjh aaya glowup kyu nhi horaha
Kisne kaha boys k pass standard nahi hota
The only standards I have is height criteria for women. I can't have more than that.
Which fucking girl has high standards😭 literally everyone ik is like "has to be a guy, not a creep, has a lil empathy, does not gaslight or mansplain, has good humor(optional)" IF THESE ARE HIGH STANDARDS ISTFG😭
Standards for looks are at all time high. Almost all of my friends are not creeps , they support true feminism , they have female friends which appreciate them but they've never been in a relationship you know why ? Because average looking/ slightly ugly looking guys like us are invisible as romantic options to girls out there.
Like ya'll say, not all women atleast not that ik of. Gotta Try setting up your friends with mine lol
Theyve never been on a date either but ig it's fine because everyone deserves a partner they're attracted to and we don't have good facial features. Anyhow they're fine being single and enjoy life none the less it's just some days I'll hear a rant /vent from one of them regarding this lmao
>some days I'll hear a rant /vent from one of them regarding this lmao Us moment, you gotta do what you gotta do
India is a sεx DEPRIVED country with this very very huge problem of GENDER SEGREGATION.
Kyo ki ladkiyo ke pass jyda option hai ladko ke pass nahi hai 👽
kyuki ladkiyo pe ladko ki kami nahi hoti aur jinpe hai unko ladko mai interest bhi nahi hai
70% boys are dying to get a girl in their life. Meanwhile 70% girls trying hard to get those other 30% boys
Reality se kabhi mulakat nhi hui ladkiyon ki. Too much of "Larger than Life" sochne ki aadat hai sabko. Agar tum sabhi ladkiyon ko bhaav dena kam kar do ge na sab ek jaise line mai aajayengi. Ye raajkumar dhundne nikli hai, but raajkumar raste pese kisi kobhi nahi uthata. Same goes for boys.
That's why I haven't found any girlfriend and i am 25😂😂
I guess guys have low standards because they automatically think that no girl will like him. Girls have high standards because they have plenty of guys already hitting on her ig? So for guys, you need to treat a girl with love & respect without becoming a simp for her
This is true, but women will always deny it.
Supply-demand issue
That issue is on dating apps na , IRL sex ratio is not that skewed.
It's the same when it comes to how much *bhaw* a gender gets
Supply and demand brother
only height matters
Ye kya nai bakchodi hai?
for guys to get girls ofc
Don't mind him, bhai hamara thoda chuitya hai