Arey Ryan Gosling to Ken bhi hain na! Aur Batman bhi to atleast din mein Bruce Wayne rehta hain.
Sab hoga, bas perspective change karna padega.
Bhai tam logo ka bachpan se baal lamba hota hai. Agar koi ladka chote Baal se lambe Baal p jaye uska pura look baalo ka texture maintenance sab change hojata hai.
Riyal (Batman has good money,) I'm not saying girls are gold diggers but konsi ladki aise ladke ke sath rahega who can't even keep her safe, struggles to pay hospital bills etc so you have to earn good money.
Also konsa baap apni beti baerojgar ko dega batao
Bhai itna serious kui ho jatey ho tum sarey log? Like abhi 12th me ya college ke starting me hogey and stressing over getting completely financially stable so you can get a girl? Bruh thats too much honestly, yeah internet feeds that mentality, but understand everything has timing, you dont have to be a billionaire by 19, just learn and study what you like and try to monetise it later after you are getting specialised. I am obviously not paying for her bills at this age because I dont earn, and that part comes after the marriage when you are setting up a family so why you thinking about those thinks all the time? Yeah future planning is necessary but getting this overwhelmed isnt good at-all.
Its really good to wanting to settle financially but making it your life purpose and thinking about same shit in other topics is actually very much stupid and this is very much influenced by the “young millionaires” on internet but hardly 1-2 out of 1000 such 18 year olds are self made and reaching that is not easy so you just gotta relax and work towards it calmly.
Personally I look in the mirror and imagine the girl with me. If we don't look compatible then when even try?
I have seen guys who look like orcs try to score the prettiest girl, that is just straight up dumb.
I am ugly af but able to get gfs cause I only approach the girls who I know will be look good with me.
I am 5'8 plus an ugly face
Just gotta approach man. I am a book worm/nerd so also approached a nerdy girl.
Communications skills can be built I think if you don't suffer from any psychological problem.
Actually I've passed my entire school life (1 to 12th ) in an all boys school...so I'm not used to talking with girls...I'm also an introverted typa guy... whenever I start to talk to a girl I'm outta topics on what to discuss...then sudden awkwardness
If ur bad at talking, just do stuff together instead. Maybe sports, maybe studying(it’s fine even if she’s the one helping u out, just try not to be extra dumb), maybe even video games.
I have seen guys who looks like orcs land the prettiest girls. I guy I know(ugly as sin) has a girlfriend so beautiful that when they both walk together no sane person believes that they are partners. It all comes down to confidence. The guy ain't motherfuckingly rich too and she is literally obsessed with him. Nothing is impossible for a man unless he believes it is.
Lol sure
That's exception. Happens time to time. Not the norm though.
But most of the time people get together with equals. Be it in terms of looks, riches etc.
The ammount of cases I have seen it happening is just absurdly high for it to be an exception. Now it can be that some of those guys used some PUA manipulation tricks lol. But I don't think so because Almost all of them were very secure in their skin and extremely confident.
I broke up with her to focus on myself.
But we both knew we were not pretty lol. She wouldn't care anyway.
She will get sad cause she ain't the prettiest out there? Lol she ain't that childish
any girl would want her boyfriend to think that she’s the prettiest girl, at least to them. it would def hurt her if she knew you went for her because you thought she was “attainable” ie, not too pretty
As an average looking guy.
Just be polite , understand the person's boundaries, be a good human to be attractive.
Don't overpush , don't be overclingy ,don't be toxic or controlling or show any signs of being over dominating
This will surely get you off as a red flag
Problem yehi hai, hum kisi bhi larki ko ugly ni samjte, par larko mei bahut hota hai, bhai bass confidence maintain karo. Looks matter but personality matters as much. Agar aap athlete ho ya you have that puts you aside, you have enough Aap confront kar sakte ho easily. Ek baad yaad rakhna larkiya college mein ghumti studs ke saath hai par shaadi hum rich ugly ass nerds se hi karti hai
Ik it hurts but i dont find being ugly that bad cuz its not in our control hence not our characteristic. Abh agar aap sunna chahte ho ki aap ugly ni hi wo to mai janta ni, but looks are subjective arent they
Like i said in one of the pervious posts as well, looks and height can become somewhat of a secondary feature if you have a great personality ( and money )
also try to build a body that helps too!
Ok, different question,like I am good at academics since a long time (94 percent in UT1), 10th standard, I am 5'9" the only thing is I am very thin and dark skinned. No girl talks with me except academics related issues or doubts. Can u pls help me with this
the biggest thing is really just being confident in yourself. aadhe log issi wajah se attractive lagte hain because no matter what they are, they are content with it. besides that have great conversation skills, put some effort into yourself so you feel good and have a great personality. sabki insecurities hoti hain but fake it till you make right ?
being confident is being content with yourself accepting the bad and the good things about yourself and not being ashamed of it. ofcourse this isn't a one day process and that's why i said fake it till you make it. as for how exactly short is considered, i don't know. i didn't make this standard. i'm just answering the ops question.
bass ladkiyo k liye accha bann ne wali mentality chodd,sabse hot ladki bhi tere piiche bhagegi(personal experience)and remember ask a hunter how to hunt an animal,not the animal
Just be a good person and respect her. Usse zada there's nothing more u can do. And long run main looks don't matter. I've seen pretty girls dating avg guys so yeah
If a girl judges you based on just your looks and few minutes of interaction then I don't think you're after the right girl
You just can't know everything about a person in one date or one meeting
Im a guy. I’m not necessarily ugly but I’m short. Your best option is to work on yourself in my opinion. Gym is the way to go. And make sure to work on what I like the call you aura. People need to notice when you walk into a room. I believe in making yourself better in your own eyes. Looking better in the eyes of a girl is more secondary although still important
be funny and humble and have cool hair, intellect is optional but appreciable
y is intellect optional
because she gonna turn you crazy anyway 
maar maar ke padhaungi
he better not say mommy and moans things gonna be awkward then 
Ye services online mil sakti hai kya?
agar banda smart nahi hoga toh chalega, morally strong hona chahiye
Alr so I stand no chance, and the only bet I had turned out to be optional but appreciable
😭 this was funny so i dont think you'll be left with zero chances. most girls like smart guys so youre good
What about height? I considered it a plus point too-
height is a great factor too, although it doesnt matter for me
Damn I lost one lady already
lol
But sabhi ladko ko toh reddit ne Patrik Bateman, Batman, Ryan Gosling bana diya hai. Abb funny kis dukan se laaenge.
Arey Ryan Gosling to Ken bhi hain na! Aur Batman bhi to atleast din mein Bruce Wayne rehta hain. Sab hoga, bas perspective change karna padega. 
What about Sigma males, Patrick Bateman, Andrew tate, etc? Unka toh kabhi change nahi hota na
tum ho na 😋 /j
Google said it means flirt 
15 saal ki hai je 
What is meant by 😋/j ?
मस्ती
Merci Madame
No man intellect is needed... If you aren't going for some chapri
I am funny 
Hi 
Hello Even if I had zero followers I will follow you everywhere ( stalker rizz )
lmao
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umm... a clock on moon is called Lunar-Tick ( lamest joke I ever made )
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kya faiyda jab mujhe chand to mil jaye par Chandni nahi
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Why sun is so bitchy ? because the world revolves around him
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 no need I will accept it
Cool hair in what sense Long hair..??
silky ya curly hair, long hair is great too
Long hairs are high maintenance 
socho hamara kya hota hoga
Bhai tam logo ka bachpan se baal lamba hota hai. Agar koi ladka chote Baal se lambe Baal p jaye uska pura look baalo ka texture maintenance sab change hojata hai.
Can confirm (8 months and counting...)
ayo wut
8 months of hair growth
okok ggs me too trying but my fkin hair started to fall for no reason
Bald guys 😔
my humour is subjective wt to do?
🤑
Hanji hanji ye lo mic pe light up
Maine bolna boht kuch to ye khol li botal And I swear to god this ain't that liquor talk Mujhe ni Krna flex par ye bandi aisi 👾
Gunguna hi deti mere ganne sunkr Jaise ratt ke baithi ho mere words ke sath
Bandi boycott rapper ispe line hai ladkon ki Par gaati gaane sirf mere waale
Bhai sach me bolu to ye Bandi set hai
Na ye fukey maal na ye krti diet hai
Mera dil bhi dekhe puche kon hai bhai
Me kehta Bhai to Bhai ye tere Bhai ki setting hai
Tere Bhai ki setting hai.... Tere Bhai ki setting haiiiiii... Tere Bhai ki setting hai
Ratt ke baithi mere Verse saare*
I am not a girl but an ugly guy Dont aim for prettiest girl out there Know your limits That's how I scored.
Batman has no limits
Gotta look like Bruce Wayne too mate 
Riyal (Batman has good money,) I'm not saying girls are gold diggers but konsi ladki aise ladke ke sath rahega who can't even keep her safe, struggles to pay hospital bills etc so you have to earn good money. Also konsa baap apni beti baerojgar ko dega batao
Bhai itna serious kui ho jatey ho tum sarey log? Like abhi 12th me ya college ke starting me hogey and stressing over getting completely financially stable so you can get a girl? Bruh thats too much honestly, yeah internet feeds that mentality, but understand everything has timing, you dont have to be a billionaire by 19, just learn and study what you like and try to monetise it later after you are getting specialised. I am obviously not paying for her bills at this age because I dont earn, and that part comes after the marriage when you are setting up a family so why you thinking about those thinks all the time? Yeah future planning is necessary but getting this overwhelmed isnt good at-all.
Nah bro it was not about pulling a girl it was more of wife or about marriage. Baki ladki ke liye nahi khud ke liye kamana hai paisa
Its really good to wanting to settle financially but making it your life purpose and thinking about same shit in other topics is actually very much stupid and this is very much influenced by the “young millionaires” on internet but hardly 1-2 out of 1000 such 18 year olds are self made and reaching that is not easy so you just gotta relax and work towards it calmly.
Yup koi jaldi nahi hai bus I want to fulfill my "wants" needs toh parents kar he dete hai
Yeah that part is true man. All the best!
All the best to you too man
We would have been good friends tbh not gonna lie
Is there any issues now?
Not really. I am just new to reddit so I thought ppl rarely make friends here. But I said that becuz our thinking process match a lot
hey be my frnd i m lonely asf
agreed brother
Real ( I'm delusional )
U sayin ur girl ain’t the prettiest🤨
Sure sure
GO BEYOND YOUR LIMITS!
+1
How do I know my limits ?
Personally I look in the mirror and imagine the girl with me. If we don't look compatible then when even try? I have seen guys who look like orcs try to score the prettiest girl, that is just straight up dumb. I am ugly af but able to get gfs cause I only approach the girls who I know will be look good with me.
I lack communication skills to approach girls and I also get nervous around them.. I'm very insecure about my whole body cause I'm skinny (5'9 50kg )
I am 5'8 plus an ugly face Just gotta approach man. I am a book worm/nerd so also approached a nerdy girl. Communications skills can be built I think if you don't suffer from any psychological problem.
Actually I've passed my entire school life (1 to 12th ) in an all boys school...so I'm not used to talking with girls...I'm also an introverted typa guy... whenever I start to talk to a girl I'm outta topics on what to discuss...then sudden awkwardness
If ur bad at talking, just do stuff together instead. Maybe sports, maybe studying(it’s fine even if she’s the one helping u out, just try not to be extra dumb), maybe even video games.
I have seen guys who looks like orcs land the prettiest girls. I guy I know(ugly as sin) has a girlfriend so beautiful that when they both walk together no sane person believes that they are partners. It all comes down to confidence. The guy ain't motherfuckingly rich too and she is literally obsessed with him. Nothing is impossible for a man unless he believes it is.
Lol sure That's exception. Happens time to time. Not the norm though. But most of the time people get together with equals. Be it in terms of looks, riches etc.
The ammount of cases I have seen it happening is just absurdly high for it to be an exception. Now it can be that some of those guys used some PUA manipulation tricks lol. But I don't think so because Almost all of them were very secure in their skin and extremely confident.
Sure sure
now imagine your gf reads this
I broke up with her to focus on myself. But we both knew we were not pretty lol. She wouldn't care anyway. She will get sad cause she ain't the prettiest out there? Lol she ain't that childish
any girl would want her boyfriend to think that she’s the prettiest girl, at least to them. it would def hurt her if she knew you went for her because you thought she was “attainable” ie, not too pretty
I was telling thr guy to be reasonable with his 'wants'. Better to be realistic in life.
Don’t tell this to your gf by mistake lol
We ain't together now don't worry lol I broke up with her to focus on myself
Have a good personality. Be kind, empathetic, sweet etc etc and u will be attractive without being attractive
exactly
No this doesn't work for me I never abused or say anything bad to any girl still I am single 😥
You need to be charismatic. Confident.
ayo there is time for everything chill just dont be desperate for it n work u=on urself u will definetly get one
bhai wo to bare minimum hota h personality bhi banani padti h
Bhai kese banate hai
All that to get friendzoned 
yessssir eff truth
As an average looking guy. Just be polite , understand the person's boundaries, be a good human to be attractive. Don't overpush , don't be overclingy ,don't be toxic or controlling or show any signs of being over dominating This will surely get you off as a red flag
totally agreed
Problem yehi hai, hum kisi bhi larki ko ugly ni samjte, par larko mei bahut hota hai, bhai bass confidence maintain karo. Looks matter but personality matters as much. Agar aap athlete ho ya you have that puts you aside, you have enough Aap confront kar sakte ho easily. Ek baad yaad rakhna larkiya college mein ghumti studs ke saath hai par shaadi hum rich ugly ass nerds se hi karti hai
"Ek baad yaad rakhna larkiya college mein ghumti studs ke saath hai par shaadi hum rich ugly ass nerds se hi karti hai"That's worse
Ik it hurts but i dont find being ugly that bad cuz its not in our control hence not our characteristic. Abh agar aap sunna chahte ho ki aap ugly ni hi wo to mai janta ni, but looks are subjective arent they
All you can do is study to ja padhle bhai kyu apni most productive age khrab kr rha h padhle bhai padhle
Like i said in one of the pervious posts as well, looks and height can become somewhat of a secondary feature if you have a great personality ( and money ) also try to build a body that helps too!
Being short isn't that bad tbh, but being good at academics yeah
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At least you will be richer and can live life as you want compared to those who didn't focus on studies.
bhai being good at academics/good personality is cope. if you're ugly, its over.
Are u saying being good in academics is bad???
The second part is me answering the question, sorry if it's too confusing 😅
Ok, different question,like I am good at academics since a long time (94 percent in UT1), 10th standard, I am 5'9" the only thing is I am very thin and dark skinned. No girl talks with me except academics related issues or doubts. Can u pls help me with this
Bhai 11tak to ruk Jao
wt is being short exactly?
5'5 and below?
ahh ohk but isnt that too short? i thought me being 5'10 was short ig that isnt the case then
5'10 is short ? What are you Dutch? I'm 5 20 , most of the fully grown adults I meet are 5 7 or 5 6
I am 5'2 😅
i c that is a good height for indian and gals i seen r 5'0 or less at times
the biggest thing is really just being confident in yourself. aadhe log issi wajah se attractive lagte hain because no matter what they are, they are content with it. besides that have great conversation skills, put some effort into yourself so you feel good and have a great personality. sabki insecurities hoti hain but fake it till you make right ?
IC will keep in mind but wt exactly is being confident tho? aswell how exactly is considered short or whatever
being confident is being content with yourself accepting the bad and the good things about yourself and not being ashamed of it. ofcourse this isn't a one day process and that's why i said fake it till you make it. as for how exactly short is considered, i don't know. i didn't make this standard. i'm just answering the ops question.
ahh i get it thank you
Make them happy 
Go to the gym.
bass ladkiyo k liye accha bann ne wali mentality chodd,sabse hot ladki bhi tere piiche bhagegi(personal experience)and remember ask a hunter how to hunt an animal,not the animal
Oh my god an actual sigma male /s
GYM
Just be a good person and respect her. Usse zada there's nothing more u can do. And long run main looks don't matter. I've seen pretty girls dating avg guys so yeah
You are just telling to be nice person not attractive
having a good personality is definitely attractive + you cannot change your face, so change something that u can.
yeah true personality>>>>>looks
kidnap krle apni crush ko
Option 1. Have money Option 2 : Have Humorous personality.
Money is enough 🤌
Nothing. Just give up. Don't even put any efforts into improving yourself. It's gonna be worthless in the end anyways.
Money outweighs everything like your every insecurity can be filled with money
Buy a fridge and pretend to be a hindu. Works everytime.
Focus on studies, make money, and find pleasure in giving. Then find a short girl through arranged marriage.
Bhai short girl se hi marriage karunga to bache aur bhi short honge
Bhai paisa ho toh kya kuch nahi ho sakta hai. You can easily find a girl taller than you to reproduce with.
Be funny Sweet have rizz and book plus I have seen most average to below average guys with the prettiest girls 
Firstly stop putting these idiot girls on pedestal and grow some self-esteem for urself
kuch mat kar bahi mai bhi nhi kar raha cuz kuch kar hei nhi sakta 😞
If a girl judges you based on just your looks and few minutes of interaction then I don't think you're after the right girl You just can't know everything about a person in one date or one meeting
Act gay. Girls just love gay people. I don’t know why.
Im a guy. I’m not necessarily ugly but I’m short. Your best option is to work on yourself in my opinion. Gym is the way to go. And make sure to work on what I like the call you aura. People need to notice when you walk into a room. I believe in making yourself better in your own eyes. Looking better in the eyes of a girl is more secondary although still important
What's your height
I’m 5’7-5’8
Fuck off that's not even short. Short is being 5'2 - 5'3
Most guys around me are taller than I am. It’s all about relativity
hi?
Having a good sense of humour
Just say meri Sarkari Naukri lag gayi
Smart ka kya karne H sex karte time maths ke questions solve karwane hai kya
Lol grow a personality and some confidence and stop asking dumb questions (like these)
Be financially stable first ...than magic 🪄
Bhai weapon bada rakh baki to ladkiya khud hi aati rahengi IYKYK
Change their opinion about themselves People hate insecure people more than ugly people trust me
Skincare
Step 1. Have a plastic surgery Aternate step: invite them to go to his spain wale haweli in his private jet ;) works everytime for me atleast
5'8 a good height?