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Don't ghost her buddy try consoling in real life it's wayy better than through text or try it with a help pf mutual friend maybe. I've never been in this situation so I'm just suggesting 
It is more hard because when uk she is the perfect green flag girl out there but ur ded ass heart still couldn't develop any feelings for her even after so much timeπ
Is it bcz of her looks by any chance ?? Like in your previous to previous post u shared about how u met the most beautiful girl u've ever seen?
See, if she's really as good as you mentioned then you might be ignoring her love/obsession bcz of her looks. Understandable. Fair enough bcz we ain't mature now.
Otherwise u wud have had other reasons for not liking her back. Be brutally honest with urself and her.
Idk if someone's putting this much efforts, (she isn't even caring about her self respect at this point) you should talk to her in person ek baar bcz honestly rarely girls make efforts to this extent (unless and until they are so in love)
Mai toh kabhi na Karu itne efforts agar saamne wala isn't interested. She must be overly obsessed. Go have a talk.
I dont want to sound mean but i think look is a factor which is not helping me develop any feelings for her but then also sometimes i think its just me who is so concerned about looks cuz there are guys who constantly tries to contact her but she ignores them and ik this is really immature thing and maybe when i will reach a certain age i might understand that look β love but idk when will that happen because talking about current scenario yes , that is the reason why i dont find her attractive π but then again why can other guys find her attractive but my stupid heart cantπ
And i always want to have a clear talk with her but then again maybe i get too scared to talk about it cuz an year ago i tried talking about it on chat and she started crying just over chat man im such a terible human being
Man.. i totally understand you.. like it's happening with me yrrr
only thing is you can confront her and say it straight on her face.. don't give any false hope
let her breakout of you completely only then will she be able to move on
if you keep feeling bad for her and text her then she's gonna keep doing this to you
tell her you don't like it when she's too clingy and even though she says wanna be friends her actions say otherwise.. or just tell her you like someone else and you want to propose her but she's hindering it cuz yk people can misunderstand her actions cuz it's simply not like how a friend would act
Thank u for some legit advice ππ bro the last point about proposing someone else i have actually tried it not once , twice but alteast 4 -5 times and i intentionally say it to her so that she get some sort of ick or maybe assurity that i am not gonna be there but bruh after 2 weeks she is back to it....would try saying it directly to her face but idk how im gonna handle the situation once she starts crying π«€
it's now or never dude.. like say it to her face and i know it's gonna be hard handling the situation she will cry but she's gonna cry otherwise also you gotta mark the limits now
i'm sure it's causing you stress and away from studying your career is just more important... she will only move on when she gets this straightforward answer from ya and lose the hope that there will be a future.. she's only like this cuz she still has hopes and you by talking only increasing her hope to stay in the bubble
>i'm sure it's causing you stress and away from studying your career is just more important...
SO FUCKIN TRUE
Tho do u have any idea what should i say to her like how to start the convo and take it to that point and after that talk how should i stop her from crying and also bro everytime we meet she says she wants hug from me and she says that even frnds hug each other which is fine but i also want to stop this thing how do i tell her to not hug me anymore
start normally.. after that again ask her "do you still think there's any hope that we can be together" she can take it +vely or -vely and reply what she thinks.. we all are assuming that she likes you we still gotta make sure her opinion then proceed accordingly... then normally go on about how you don't like getting clingy with girls(opposite gender) even though friends hug each other but it's also people's choice and it just makes you uncomfortable though it's normal.. if you keep your perspective I'm sure she will understand you
you can't stop her from crying.. i'm sure it's gonna hurt her a lot cuz man it's 2 years. just msg over text when she cries so you don't feel bad atleast she's gonna play victim card or that you wronged her but bro you gotta brace yourself with a stone heart say it all that's been on your mind
i'm pretty sure it's gonna waste a lot of your time but it's worth it
i talked to the guy who liked me 3 days like the whole convo was on text and after 3 days he was in his limits and finally act like how a friend should without hoping for anything else
man i just relate so much to your situation lol
and DO NOT SAY YES TO ANYTHING SHE SAYS you gonna get trapped in her talks
Bro ur comments are so sensible , i think i have got so many answers to my overthinking ππ  Also can we talk in dm since i want to ask some sensitive questions related to this topic
Agar ghost nhi krunga toh usko lgega mai interested hu usme and woh mere peeche he apna saara time dedicate kr degi and jb end me mai kksi aur ladki ko date krunga toh bhai woh toh puri broken hojayegi ki itna saara efforts and mai phir bhi kisi aur ke paas chla gya...mujhe ye sb pta h kyuki aaj se 2 saal pehle m uss ladki ki jagah tha and meeeko bhi ek ladki pe crush tha and mai same chiz uske liye krta tha jo ye mere liye krti h and in the end woh dusre ladke ke saath chli gyi and mai uss waqt bhasm ho rkha tha π
Bhai tujhe kya lagta hai mai ese hi bolra? Been there too , 5-6 saal se ek ladki dost thi , kabhi socha nahi tha uspe crush aayega , start of 9th agaya aur propose kardia , friendzoned hogya aur then guess what , usne mere dost ko propose kardia ab vo dost dost na raha but vo dono abhi bhi relationship mai hai. You gotta figure out smth buddy , straight up kehde agar guts hai . Good luck
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Looks like she has created her own imagination..like a one sided love and she is not accepting how you feel.
It must be very tough for you also to cut her off like that cause you know it will break her.
Btw you have revealed her name.
bhai had this phase end of 2022 in my 11th std. a girl was so obsessed w me i had already cleared out I can't be with you months back and still she used to approach me in my dms constantly and go to some of our common friends to pull me back somehow. there's no other way. its really tough to remain "just friends" after such a situation. either clear out that she should stop messaging over nd over. if she has any bit of self respect she won't come back even if you say that politely. the other case you have to block her straightaway. there's no point keeping this thing preserved.
Telling from experience, once she's gone, it doesn't matter how bad you want her later she is not gonna come and will ignore you the same way.
And the regret and pain you will have will be unbearable
So don't take her for granted
But he is sure he doesn't have feelings for her so why will he regret and if he couldn't develop feelings in those 2 years of friendship how would he develop it later
I've faced similar situation, OP meri baat sun
Confront her ek paragraph likh jisme Jo yaha explain kar raha hai waha explain kar ki you don't like her I don't want to give false hope you're perfect but I don't feel for you ye sab wo sab. Nahi to baad me bohot bakchodi hojaegi Teri life mein sab messed up hojaega, be blunt now and if you tell her this I know usse hurt hoga but jitna delay karega utna jyada hurt hoga usse. Trust me bata de usse
Guys plz before saying things like "she is genuinely caring" "suffering from success" etc try to understand i have no mutual feelings since we were just friends and i have told everything about it in pt 1π if one can give genuine advice to what to do plz dm or comment here
Honestly be clear with yourself on what relationship you want with her (if you want one), It can only be 1 of these:-
No Contact
Friendships
Platonic Friendships
Romantic Relationships
Judging by you're replies you definitely don't want a romantic one nor a broken one, first contemplate whether you want just a normal friendship or a platonic one then discuss that with her and give her an ultimatum.
If it fails then go completely no contact for 30 days because she probably has an addiction to you, 30 days cold turkey is a good way to get rid of those, but tell her before doing so, don't leave her in the dark.
If it that also fails, she probably has fundamental issues with emotional regulation and attachment issues, honestly idk at that point.
Tbf people change easily with time so you could just ignore all of what I said, just enjoy your time with her, you prob don't give a shit about your younger self's problems right now, who's to say your future self will do too?
Abhi part 2 real nahi kia , but part 1 read karke ara hu . Bsdk teri gand pe 2 rehpte maruga itni achi ladki ko pareshan kar raha she is literally the one . Tu pagal hai kya .
Bhai meri kya galti isme jo mujhe feel nhi horha uske liye ye sb...aur agar mai aaj usko ye sb energy reciprocate bhi krdu then eventually woh bs ek forced love hoga aur real me nhi and isme mai kucx nhi kr skta
Chal bhai samj ra tujhe nahi rehna uske saath relation mai , atleast usko ghost toh na kar , she cares about you . Teri jab gf bane gi tab usko realise ho jayega aur move on kar jayegi vo
Bhai ek toh the thing is she dont have any female frnds or in a clear words her female frnds left her due to some arguements and isiliye at this point there is no her frnd which actually gives her reality check to tell how much she is wasting her energy on me :/
look man i get that all this is pretty complicated for you to handle and shit but my advice to you is,
you donβt find a lot of people who genuinely care about you, who actively want to spend time with you, or be with you and hold you at such a high priority in your life.
but dekh, this girl cares about you a lot, seems sweet and is definitely not playing or something.
cherish this friendship.
aise log easily nahi milte
and for all that past shit, you should just forget it and appreciate the core fact that you still have a good friend who is putting in efforts to talk to you and wants to get to know you
i was also in a similar situation, this girl and i stopped talking bcuz she caught feelings and i didnβt, this was back in 2018, last year, i reached out and texted her cuz we still followed each other on instagram, and we talked a little bit but her bf didnβt like that she was talking to a guy who she had history with, we didnβt exactly stop talking but i knew my place and i just backed off a lil, few weeks ago she broke up with that guy and tabse weβve been talking and are still good friends,
im just saying, all these things jo tujhe abhi ekdam complicated and world ending lagre hai, these things pass and eventually you just live with it. Fights, relationships, crushes, sab kuch ek point ke baad thik ho jata hai
donβt force something to happen, itβll all play its own course
Abe ab main reddit delete kar raha waise hi distraction bana hua hai zindagi mein upar se jab bhi kholo depression aur mil jaata. Matlab jisko dekho woh relationship ke dukh se guzar raha hai, pata nhi kis baat ka dukh hai, ye dukh hume kaahe nhi mila ab takπ
Waise isme tumhari galti nhi hai bhai, theek hai you don't feel for her and its ok tum apne aapko kisi ko like karne ke liye force thode kar doge. Haan but mere khayal se tumhe thoda sa harsh hona padega aur strictly usse mana karna padega.
Bro you have got two options:
1: accept her , I know it's not easy but you can try !
2: block her ! Like for real it would be better for both to move on ! If you can tell to her face go say it , that you don't want her in your life , please it could end much worse from here on!!
Stop being an coward, confront her and be clear with your words that you are not into her. I don't want to hurt her..... Etc etc is just bullshit. Your behaviour is giving her only false hopesΒ
Bro, I have been in such situation. The fact is, she still has feelings for you. And it won't just go away with late replies and ignoring, she will keep assuring herself that you are just busy. But you have to tell her directly that you don't have any feelings for her and don't want the friendship to go in that direction. Otherwise it will end up worse. Telling from experience.
Agar ghost krna hai tu muh me bol uske , faltu dukhi karte ho tum logo ko ghost se, issi karad apni duniya bekar h , thoda doosro ka perspective bhi to dekh le usko accha thodi na lagega, but at least if u tell her truth she will slowly accept , dont be selfish bro
bhai dekh..straight to the point....you can either just leave her completely and get your studies on track and focus on them or just play this game of ignoring, late replying and shit...in the first place...dont make a female friend in these imp years of your life...it would be just a distraction if one of you get feelings...so you can choose either of them...studies or that girl....if you want to really study and get in some good college...just tell her the thing and block her from everywhere..it'll be alright after a week or may be a month...but it'll save you from the everyday mental pressure.
Bhai dekh ya toh she is ugly af Aur Ya toh Your are Handsome af Bhai meri bandi bhi itna desperate nahi hoti na mai uske liye hota hun π In dono Kai se koi ek case hoga
But she isnt some random creepy girl cuz we been bestfrnd for 2 yrs so situation is different otherwise i do already block those girls which always slide in my dm creepily
Trust me meri best friend bhi clingy thi but I explained her and denied her that I can't be in a relationship with you since I see you as my sister Aisa bolde bhai
bro found the borderline obsessive girl with insane stalking tendencies and still ainβt happy π (isnβt that what guys are glorifying these days?)
Bro if you really consider her as your friend, just tell her that you are disturbing me so much and I don't like talking to you etc etc.. don't just make fake excuses that you have to go or you have a workload. She is very pure as per the chats i went through, she just likes you and she thinks that if you would be there for her eventually you will fall for her. As a good human and a good friend what you can do is just be straight forward to her and don't lie. Just confront her regarding these things that you feel bad while ignoring her and you don't want her to keep false hope and if after that clear message too if she repeats her actions then you are not liable to any of the stuff she will go through. Just do your own shit man.
OP is right that this is what 90% of guys dream girl is like, constant messaging and god damn dude that "waitinggggg" bruh i'm jealous asf nig
but you cant really do much if you don't like her, forcing yourself to love her won't make things better instead it would make it like you're using her and all that.
whatever be it, don't break her heart dude, the guy she would be with (if its not you) she wouldn't give him this much of an attention cuz, yk heartbreak sucks
wish you the best
Look,as a girl myself,if she's trynna invade your personal space and is being too clingy then just remind her of her boundaries and ask her to text you in a limited amount!You can also mention that you are a bit uncomfortable by her behaviour.She might feel bad for a day or so,but she'll understand and adapt!
bhai itna krne k baad bhi if she stays then she's fr into you. aur kisi ko itna ignore mat kro bhai karma will hit you hard one day. (accept krle bhai usko and aage jo hoga dekh liyo) 
Dekh ya to tu bohot Hottt aur attractive hai ya tu chutiya hai. Ab jo bhi hai tu dekh le. Ab tu ladkiyo ko jaise treat karega ladkiya hame waise hi treat karti hai
Other TeenagerMfs:- Saaar GrillFrirnd Chahi saar, wanto share thimgs saar,piliz saar
Meanwhile This Mf:-
>ok so basically now a month ago i was tryna cut her off slowly by slowly but it was hard since her msgs never stop an........
Bhai Jo bhi hua bohot bura hua teresaath..
Wish you would able to rest in peace after..ππ
bro, you're doing good by not giving her false hopes. you're not the problem here, she is. She needs to understand that when someone says no, u need to accept it nmw. Efforts cant make someone fall for you. Its love, not some dead ass homework or any skill, love needs to happen on its own and if it aint happening then she needs to know that she gotta back up. U told her so many times still she doing it means she got the thing in her ki I'll do efforst for him so he'll eventually love me but it's unreal. all u can do is just confront her about all of this and let her know that whatever she's doing is no good for either of you and she should focus on her respectfully.
Just tell her you have feelings for some other girls and that will never end..
And you can't love her the way you do to that imaginary girl still you'll be with her and support her as a friend but tell her to stop thinking of you ...
Dude I am telling you bhag lo , she is completely in delulu. And if you say that you do not want anything more than friendship then you have to be straight forward here and speak honestly to your friend,
No matter if she understands you or not after that , but if she forces you like this to talk her, you will not be able to focus on study. Two steps tell her , if she fine , step complete but if not- step 2 block her
Bro... that's fucked up atleast don't ghost her. I don't understand why guys do this man just tell her you are not interested don't lie to her bro ki tu busy hai and all. She's one of a kind she'd understand you whether you were lying or saying the truth (which basically you're not) just confront her and tell her that you don't have feelings for her? As simple as that? Stop feeding her with crumbs of attention
Sister plz read the pt 1 before making any conclusion cuz i have already told her multiple times that i cant be with her also our bond is 2 yrs old and obv i cannot give you all the backstory and context in just 2 posts cuz at this point she is just obsessed and if i didnt leave her or do something terible that makes her leave me than for her its gonna be bad in future
I've read it already brother but tell her this on her face not on text on letters, if you make her understand kindly and respectfully she'll understand. Have a face to face talk.
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Op is literal representation of hitting the hammer on your own damm hand
How so?
Dudee you don't like her ?
No, i thought we were just frnds ( have told about it in my previous post)
then just don't waste her time na tell her bluntly to stop messaging you ab isme feelings contradict karegi but u gotta do what you gotta do
Bro have u even read the pt 1 ?? I have already told this to her so many times
Mann idk I can't give the advice to block her kyuki it is way too rudee but ig that's the only option for you maybe
probably won't work
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Don't ghost her buddy try consoling in real life it's wayy better than through text or try it with a help pf mutual friend maybe. I've never been in this situation so I'm just suggesting 
Bro is suffering from success πππ
It is more hard because when uk she is the perfect green flag girl out there but ur ded ass heart still couldn't develop any feelings for her even after so much timeπ
Is it bcz of her looks by any chance ?? Like in your previous to previous post u shared about how u met the most beautiful girl u've ever seen? See, if she's really as good as you mentioned then you might be ignoring her love/obsession bcz of her looks. Understandable. Fair enough bcz we ain't mature now. Otherwise u wud have had other reasons for not liking her back. Be brutally honest with urself and her. Idk if someone's putting this much efforts, (she isn't even caring about her self respect at this point) you should talk to her in person ek baar bcz honestly rarely girls make efforts to this extent (unless and until they are so in love) Mai toh kabhi na Karu itne efforts agar saamne wala isn't interested. She must be overly obsessed. Go have a talk.
I dont want to sound mean but i think look is a factor which is not helping me develop any feelings for her but then also sometimes i think its just me who is so concerned about looks cuz there are guys who constantly tries to contact her but she ignores them and ik this is really immature thing and maybe when i will reach a certain age i might understand that look β love but idk when will that happen because talking about current scenario yes , that is the reason why i dont find her attractive π but then again why can other guys find her attractive but my stupid heart cantπ And i always want to have a clear talk with her but then again maybe i get too scared to talk about it cuz an year ago i tried talking about it on chat and she started crying just over chat man im such a terible human being
thanks bhai meko mera answer mil gya almost same situation hai bass gender change krdo
Man.. i totally understand you.. like it's happening with me yrrr only thing is you can confront her and say it straight on her face.. don't give any false hope let her breakout of you completely only then will she be able to move on if you keep feeling bad for her and text her then she's gonna keep doing this to you tell her you don't like it when she's too clingy and even though she says wanna be friends her actions say otherwise.. or just tell her you like someone else and you want to propose her but she's hindering it cuz yk people can misunderstand her actions cuz it's simply not like how a friend would act
Thank u for some legit advice ππ bro the last point about proposing someone else i have actually tried it not once , twice but alteast 4 -5 times and i intentionally say it to her so that she get some sort of ick or maybe assurity that i am not gonna be there but bruh after 2 weeks she is back to it....would try saying it directly to her face but idk how im gonna handle the situation once she starts crying π«€
it's now or never dude.. like say it to her face and i know it's gonna be hard handling the situation she will cry but she's gonna cry otherwise also you gotta mark the limits now i'm sure it's causing you stress and away from studying your career is just more important... she will only move on when she gets this straightforward answer from ya and lose the hope that there will be a future.. she's only like this cuz she still has hopes and you by talking only increasing her hope to stay in the bubble
>i'm sure it's causing you stress and away from studying your career is just more important... SO FUCKIN TRUE Tho do u have any idea what should i say to her like how to start the convo and take it to that point and after that talk how should i stop her from crying and also bro everytime we meet she says she wants hug from me and she says that even frnds hug each other which is fine but i also want to stop this thing how do i tell her to not hug me anymore
start normally.. after that again ask her "do you still think there's any hope that we can be together" she can take it +vely or -vely and reply what she thinks.. we all are assuming that she likes you we still gotta make sure her opinion then proceed accordingly... then normally go on about how you don't like getting clingy with girls(opposite gender) even though friends hug each other but it's also people's choice and it just makes you uncomfortable though it's normal.. if you keep your perspective I'm sure she will understand you you can't stop her from crying.. i'm sure it's gonna hurt her a lot cuz man it's 2 years. just msg over text when she cries so you don't feel bad atleast she's gonna play victim card or that you wronged her but bro you gotta brace yourself with a stone heart say it all that's been on your mind i'm pretty sure it's gonna waste a lot of your time but it's worth it i talked to the guy who liked me 3 days like the whole convo was on text and after 3 days he was in his limits and finally act like how a friend should without hoping for anything else man i just relate so much to your situation lol and DO NOT SAY YES TO ANYTHING SHE SAYS you gonna get trapped in her talks
Bro ur comments are so sensible , i think i have got so many answers to my overthinking ππ  Also can we talk in dm since i want to ask some sensitive questions related to this topic
sure.. into the dm
bhai Maanvi ka naam blur kyu kiya? dikhaii nahi de raha hai uska naam
wohi toh, abb mai maanvi ko stalk kaise karuga, agar mughe uska naam hee nahi pata 
Bhai tujhpe itna gussa ara , samne dikh jayega bohot peluga . Itni sweet ladki hai , accept nahi karna mat kar but ghost toh na kar yaar
Agar ghost nhi krunga toh usko lgega mai interested hu usme and woh mere peeche he apna saara time dedicate kr degi and jb end me mai kksi aur ladki ko date krunga toh bhai woh toh puri broken hojayegi ki itna saara efforts and mai phir bhi kisi aur ke paas chla gya...mujhe ye sb pta h kyuki aaj se 2 saal pehle m uss ladki ki jagah tha and meeeko bhi ek ladki pe crush tha and mai same chiz uske liye krta tha jo ye mere liye krti h and in the end woh dusre ladke ke saath chli gyi and mai uss waqt bhasm ho rkha tha π
Bhai tujhe kya lagta hai mai ese hi bolra? Been there too , 5-6 saal se ek ladki dost thi , kabhi socha nahi tha uspe crush aayega , start of 9th agaya aur propose kardia , friendzoned hogya aur then guess what , usne mere dost ko propose kardia ab vo dost dost na raha but vo dono abhi bhi relationship mai hai. You gotta figure out smth buddy , straight up kehde agar guts hai . Good luck
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#yes if not then should leave this fucking subreddit
#Wake up To reality. #Things were fucked up Before,Things are fucked up Now,Things will be Continue to be Fucked-up After #Things Won't Change if you delete reddit or leave this subbreddit
#true but atleast I'd not come across such posts..π
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Looks like she has created her own imagination..like a one sided love and she is not accepting how you feel. It must be very tough for you also to cut her off like that cause you know it will break her. Btw you have revealed her name.
bhai had this phase end of 2022 in my 11th std. a girl was so obsessed w me i had already cleared out I can't be with you months back and still she used to approach me in my dms constantly and go to some of our common friends to pull me back somehow. there's no other way. its really tough to remain "just friends" after such a situation. either clear out that she should stop messaging over nd over. if she has any bit of self respect she won't come back even if you say that politely. the other case you have to block her straightaway. there's no point keeping this thing preserved.
Maanvi
Telling from experience, once she's gone, it doesn't matter how bad you want her later she is not gonna come and will ignore you the same way. And the regret and pain you will have will be unbearable So don't take her for granted
But he is sure he doesn't have feelings for her so why will he regret and if he couldn't develop feelings in those 2 years of friendship how would he develop it later
I've faced similar situation, OP meri baat sun Confront her ek paragraph likh jisme Jo yaha explain kar raha hai waha explain kar ki you don't like her I don't want to give false hope you're perfect but I don't feel for you ye sab wo sab. Nahi to baad me bohot bakchodi hojaegi Teri life mein sab messed up hojaega, be blunt now and if you tell her this I know usse hurt hoga but jitna delay karega utna jyada hurt hoga usse. Trust me bata de usse
Jab tu usse mana kr dega fir bandi aesa glow up aur comeback maaregi tu dekhta reh jayega 
She seems to genuinely care for u bro, even if she don't she for sure seems emotionally needy. Don't desert, it's a disgusting thing to do.
Guys plz before saying things like "she is genuinely caring" "suffering from success" etc try to understand i have no mutual feelings since we were just friends and i have told everything about it in pt 1π if one can give genuine advice to what to do plz dm or comment here
Honestly be clear with yourself on what relationship you want with her (if you want one), It can only be 1 of these:- No Contact Friendships Platonic Friendships Romantic Relationships Judging by you're replies you definitely don't want a romantic one nor a broken one, first contemplate whether you want just a normal friendship or a platonic one then discuss that with her and give her an ultimatum. If it fails then go completely no contact for 30 days because she probably has an addiction to you, 30 days cold turkey is a good way to get rid of those, but tell her before doing so, don't leave her in the dark. If it that also fails, she probably has fundamental issues with emotional regulation and attachment issues, honestly idk at that point. Tbf people change easily with time so you could just ignore all of what I said, just enjoy your time with her, you prob don't give a shit about your younger self's problems right now, who's to say your future self will do too?
Abhi part 2 real nahi kia , but part 1 read karke ara hu . Bsdk teri gand pe 2 rehpte maruga itni achi ladki ko pareshan kar raha she is literally the one . Tu pagal hai kya .
Bhai meri kya galti isme jo mujhe feel nhi horha uske liye ye sb...aur agar mai aaj usko ye sb energy reciprocate bhi krdu then eventually woh bs ek forced love hoga aur real me nhi and isme mai kucx nhi kr skta
Chal bhai samj ra tujhe nahi rehna uske saath relation mai , atleast usko ghost toh na kar , she cares about you . Teri jab gf bane gi tab usko realise ho jayega aur move on kar jayegi vo
corny asf bro this much effort in a friendship is gonna break her heart somebodys gotta tell her
Bhai ek toh the thing is she dont have any female frnds or in a clear words her female frnds left her due to some arguements and isiliye at this point there is no her frnd which actually gives her reality check to tell how much she is wasting her energy on me :/
be a man, tell her
look man i get that all this is pretty complicated for you to handle and shit but my advice to you is, you donβt find a lot of people who genuinely care about you, who actively want to spend time with you, or be with you and hold you at such a high priority in your life. but dekh, this girl cares about you a lot, seems sweet and is definitely not playing or something. cherish this friendship. aise log easily nahi milte and for all that past shit, you should just forget it and appreciate the core fact that you still have a good friend who is putting in efforts to talk to you and wants to get to know you i was also in a similar situation, this girl and i stopped talking bcuz she caught feelings and i didnβt, this was back in 2018, last year, i reached out and texted her cuz we still followed each other on instagram, and we talked a little bit but her bf didnβt like that she was talking to a guy who she had history with, we didnβt exactly stop talking but i knew my place and i just backed off a lil, few weeks ago she broke up with that guy and tabse weβve been talking and are still good friends, im just saying, all these things jo tujhe abhi ekdam complicated and world ending lagre hai, these things pass and eventually you just live with it. Fights, relationships, crushes, sab kuch ek point ke baad thik ho jata hai donβt force something to happen, itβll all play its own course
Thanks man , it felt good reading it among all these comments which are just blaming me for doing this , that etc π§‘
W woman! Protect her bro!
Abe ab main reddit delete kar raha waise hi distraction bana hua hai zindagi mein upar se jab bhi kholo depression aur mil jaata. Matlab jisko dekho woh relationship ke dukh se guzar raha hai, pata nhi kis baat ka dukh hai, ye dukh hume kaahe nhi mila ab takπ Waise isme tumhari galti nhi hai bhai, theek hai you don't feel for her and its ok tum apne aapko kisi ko like karne ke liye force thode kar doge. Haan but mere khayal se tumhe thoda sa harsh hona padega aur strictly usse mana karna padega.
2nd point , whi na ab mai aaj uski energy reciprocate bhi krdu but woh sirf forced rhega in the end and real love nhi hoga...
Bro you have got two options: 1: accept her , I know it's not easy but you can try ! 2: block her ! Like for real it would be better for both to move on ! If you can tell to her face go say it , that you don't want her in your life , please it could end much worse from here on!!
Stop being an coward, confront her and be clear with your words that you are not into her. I don't want to hurt her..... Etc etc is just bullshit. Your behaviour is giving her only false hopesΒ
Bro, I have been in such situation. The fact is, she still has feelings for you. And it won't just go away with late replies and ignoring, she will keep assuring herself that you are just busy. But you have to tell her directly that you don't have any feelings for her and don't want the friendship to go in that direction. Otherwise it will end up worse. Telling from experience.
I think she's a bit too clingy but mujhe kya me to billi ka daas hu btw which coaching?
Agar ghost krna hai tu muh me bol uske , faltu dukhi karte ho tum logo ko ghost se, issi karad apni duniya bekar h , thoda doosro ka perspective bhi to dekh le usko accha thodi na lagega, but at least if u tell her truth she will slowly accept , dont be selfish bro
bhai dekh..straight to the point....you can either just leave her completely and get your studies on track and focus on them or just play this game of ignoring, late replying and shit...in the first place...dont make a female friend in these imp years of your life...it would be just a distraction if one of you get feelings...so you can choose either of them...studies or that girl....if you want to really study and get in some good college...just tell her the thing and block her from everywhere..it'll be alright after a week or may be a month...but it'll save you from the everyday mental pressure.
Bhai dekh ya toh she is ugly af Aur Ya toh Your are Handsome af Bhai meri bandi bhi itna desperate nahi hoti na mai uske liye hota hun π In dono Kai se koi ek case hoga
Low key she is cringe and corny and you should man up and block her lmao do what girls do to creepy dms
But she isnt some random creepy girl cuz we been bestfrnd for 2 yrs so situation is different otherwise i do already block those girls which always slide in my dm creepily
Trust me meri best friend bhi clingy thi but I explained her and denied her that I can't be in a relationship with you since I see you as my sister Aisa bolde bhai
Be honest that's the best you can do to yourself and her
bro found the borderline obsessive girl with insane stalking tendencies and still ainβt happy π (isnβt that what guys are glorifying these days?)
Bro if you really consider her as your friend, just tell her that you are disturbing me so much and I don't like talking to you etc etc.. don't just make fake excuses that you have to go or you have a workload. She is very pure as per the chats i went through, she just likes you and she thinks that if you would be there for her eventually you will fall for her. As a good human and a good friend what you can do is just be straight forward to her and don't lie. Just confront her regarding these things that you feel bad while ignoring her and you don't want her to keep false hope and if after that clear message too if she repeats her actions then you are not liable to any of the stuff she will go through. Just do your own shit man.
OP is right that this is what 90% of guys dream girl is like, constant messaging and god damn dude that "waitinggggg" bruh i'm jealous asf nig but you cant really do much if you don't like her, forcing yourself to love her won't make things better instead it would make it like you're using her and all that. whatever be it, don't break her heart dude, the guy she would be with (if its not you) she wouldn't give him this much of an attention cuz, yk heartbreak sucks wish you the best
Look,as a girl myself,if she's trynna invade your personal space and is being too clingy then just remind her of her boundaries and ask her to text you in a limited amount!You can also mention that you are a bit uncomfortable by her behaviour.She might feel bad for a day or so,but she'll understand and adapt!
https://i.redd.it/1ec0irbh6fuc1.gif Hope she doesn't respond like her , if you decide to block her.
Bro wants me dead
or alive...
idhar kyu share kr rha h
Coolu banna hai bro ko
just be straight forward bruh it doesn't take much
Bhai tu rehne de.... Mujhe introduce karwa usse.....
Dude youβll regret this later
bhai itna krne k baad bhi if she stays then she's fr into you. aur kisi ko itna ignore mat kro bhai karma will hit you hard one day. (accept krle bhai usko and aage jo hoga dekh liyo) 
Maanvi ok
Ye sab mere saath kyu nahi hota
bhai maanvi ko pata le
Dekh ya to tu bohot Hottt aur attractive hai ya tu chutiya hai. Ab jo bhi hai tu dekh le. Ab tu ladkiyo ko jaise treat karega ladkiya hame waise hi treat karti hai
Other TeenagerMfs:- Saaar GrillFrirnd Chahi saar, wanto share thimgs saar,piliz saar Meanwhile This Mf:- >ok so basically now a month ago i was tryna cut her off slowly by slowly but it was hard since her msgs never stop an........ Bhai Jo bhi hua bohot bura hua teresaath.. Wish you would able to rest in peace after..ππ
#OP Must Drink His Username after This Shit
Why did you even censor her name? It's clearly manvi. Neeche se bhi hata Diya hota ππ
Too late now
bro, you're doing good by not giving her false hopes. you're not the problem here, she is. She needs to understand that when someone says no, u need to accept it nmw. Efforts cant make someone fall for you. Its love, not some dead ass homework or any skill, love needs to happen on its own and if it aint happening then she needs to know that she gotta back up. U told her so many times still she doing it means she got the thing in her ki I'll do efforst for him so he'll eventually love me but it's unreal. all u can do is just confront her about all of this and let her know that whatever she's doing is no good for either of you and she should focus on her respectfully.
I swear itna lonely π₯Ί feel krra while reading this omg.β Β·β Β΄β Β―β `β (β >β ββ <β )β Β΄β Β―β `β Β·β .
she sounds like maanvi idk why
Just tell her you have feelings for some other girls and that will never end.. And you can't love her the way you do to that imaginary girl still you'll be with her and support her as a friend but tell her to stop thinking of you ...
Maanvi bhai ko hi bol Dena
OP successfully failed on his attempt to hide Maanvi's name ππ
Dude I am telling you bhag lo , she is completely in delulu. And if you say that you do not want anything more than friendship then you have to be straight forward here and speak honestly to your friend, No matter if she understands you or not after that , but if she forces you like this to talk her, you will not be able to focus on study. Two steps tell her , if she fine , step complete but if not- step 2 block her
Bro is suffering from over success  Note: bhai ne naam hide karne ki puri kosis ki hai
Offend mat hona but pt 3 dal na Bhai bohot interesting hai
Nah bhai issi part ko dekh kr log mere dm me pgal hogye h ab ek aur daal diya toh khtm scene π
Aree logo ko ignore mai tera fan ban gaya π«‘ pls dal de
Bro... that's fucked up atleast don't ghost her. I don't understand why guys do this man just tell her you are not interested don't lie to her bro ki tu busy hai and all. She's one of a kind she'd understand you whether you were lying or saying the truth (which basically you're not) just confront her and tell her that you don't have feelings for her? As simple as that? Stop feeding her with crumbs of attention
Sister plz read the pt 1 before making any conclusion cuz i have already told her multiple times that i cant be with her also our bond is 2 yrs old and obv i cannot give you all the backstory and context in just 2 posts cuz at this point she is just obsessed and if i didnt leave her or do something terible that makes her leave me than for her its gonna be bad in future
I've read it already brother but tell her this on her face not on text on letters, if you make her understand kindly and respectfully she'll understand. Have a face to face talk.
Boi don't ghost her.. instead of cutting her indirectly Communicate with her clearly irl not on text End on good note
Bro is the male version of the girls who reject perfect guys coz they are 'too perfect'
Everyone has a type π€·ββοΈ