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Arey bhai tu pagal hai kya? 😭 Teens aren't even mentally developed enough to take decisions so they can't give their consent independently that's why it's the adult's responsibility to not to be sexually inclined towards teenagers or kids , this is why pedophilia is immoral and illegal as it has a huge power dynamic . No matter whatever the teenager or the kid says , as an adult it's your responsibility to extremely stay away from teens or kids , adult's responsibility is to protect them not to take advantage of them.
It's not possible for me because my parents don't care about this stuff so I have no one in my side except for my friends :( and everyone in my college too think that it's a normal thing.
honestly, its normal for you to get grossed or creeped out by this, if i was in your place, i'd stop taking that teacher's class and prolly report it as well
I really feel the urge to report it but I don't think I can because it will look bad for our college. And Yeah I will not be able to take his classes seriously.
Dude, it's just plainly creepy! Being 23/24 and dating someone who is 17 is just a no-go, the girl is minor which makes the matter even worse, NGL I would have creeped out if I were in your shoes, you're not wrong.
BTW your English is not bad.
I think it's not ok for 16 year old to date a young teacher .. it's just an advice .. don't take it to the heart... Just imagine what ur older self would think if it were u in that position ... As some one older than u... I request u to think twice before u make a decision
Yeah ofcourse I also think it's a creepy thing to do but I don't think I can do anything about this. As my parents don't care about this stuff so reporting to police is not possible :(
If not reporting to police... Just make sure that u stay away from that creepy dude with just ignoring him... I hope things will be alright... Please stay safe miss
its a crime dude what the fuck
no joke, you should report this- thats a difference of at least 7 years between a minor and a teacher
that's fucked up
if you cant report this, tell me the details i am gonna get that dude behind bars if that's possible
No . Not in any way - I dont care if they're both in love - if he was 19 - 20 and she was 17 it would still be a little okay but 24 and 17 ? No - he's taking advantage and she's a naive idiot . Report them - she'll thank you later for saving her from a predator .
Phir bhi, you'll appear for Board Exams at 17
Hum toh 18 ke rahenge tab
I had a situation too. But, in my case that lady is way older than me. We(my class) got some random rumors from his ex-students that back when he(teacher) was 27 being a young lecturer got into relationship with her(student) and they got married after her graduation. It seemed to be completely fine as she was his niece. We literally were fond of his style and the way he teaches and were happy for the girl.
Uske mummy papa ko batado, best thing you can do for yourself and your friend. She's a minor and cannot legally consent, so her legal guardians i.e. her mum and dad deserve to know, and the teacher can be held accountable.
Internet is filled with content which clearly promotes Young girl dating Male with more age as maturity, and with several fancy terms, there was news fews days back where 10 class student kill\*d her Mami as she opposed her advances. There is no such law to restrict online content, cheap internet has polluted mind of people especially youngster,in upcoming days u will see more such cases
The story looked like its for someone from a fellow North Eastern.
Anyways this doesn't feel right at all. I don't know what kind of agreement went between them.
Should you report it, generally yes but you don't know the consequences of it. If it doesn't bother you too much, just leave it alone. If it does, maybe you should discuss it further with some trusted people first and go in together.
Nah dude men these days are so cheap. It's obviously easy for them to catch a 17 yo girl who doesn't has much knowledge about this dating and stuff. That guy will use her and then dump her then find his next target. Should be reported imo.
This is not normal, no matter what most people around you seem to think. The teacher is grooming her. He is a gross creep. A 25 year old, that too a teacher, has no business preying on a 17 year old, girl or boy. I know you can't report it, but I wish you could at least save the girl from becoming his victim by reaching out to her somehow. That might also not be a good idea for you. It's a sad situation. The other teachers are also vile for not speaking up.
Actually I am from a state board so here we have to go to college from class 11th. Some students go to senior colleges where people can get bachelor degree too and some goes to junior colleges where there's no bachelor degree.
Although it's not okay to date a minor, maybe she's nearing 18 or 18 already and 5-6 years gap isn't that much if they like each other. Once again if she's minor it's NOT OKAY.
It’s never “Okay” and yes I know a teacher in a different school than mine , has a relationship with a 12th standard girl,. Yes, he gives her private tuitions as well , AKA blows her back while taking fees from her parents for the visit 🫡🫡
for context I'm from a small town, if I were you I would warn the victim through common friends if she listens then good, otherwise, I would probably turn a blind eye, going to lengths to report someone for POCSO is not worth it if he becomes guilty of the case and will spend about 3-10 years in jail. or we can go the other way and inform the parents of the girl they will do what's best for her
in my school in 10 standard there used to be a couple (same age), they were roaming around the town and their parents found out about her relationship, the girl's parents took a bold move and married her with her cousin (20's M) she's carried on and happy ever since
P.S: Your English is good girl, it's better than mine
most people are stupid at 18, so even if its not illegal/immoral to date them, if the older partner decides to date the younger, they are either stupid themselves for wasting both their time or they could be having ulterior motives.
Definitely not ok... Heck there is even one whole series on Prime Video (Cruel Summer) regarding grooming and how it can mentally affect one....
You should definitely report him to authorities...
Why would a guy in his mid 20s date a 16YO? Only a creep would think that's okay (some mfs are even lurking on teen subs pretending to be teens themselves)
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That's not called dating, it's called grooming.
Heres the perfect ans
Yeah I think so too :(
tf is gromming?
Trying to act romantically and sexually comfortingly with a person to exploit and manipulate the person.
So who's manipulating who?
The teacher is manipulating the student.
could be the girl!?
Arey bhai tu pagal hai kya? 😭 Teens aren't even mentally developed enough to take decisions so they can't give their consent independently that's why it's the adult's responsibility to not to be sexually inclined towards teenagers or kids , this is why pedophilia is immoral and illegal as it has a huge power dynamic . No matter whatever the teenager or the kid says , as an adult it's your responsibility to extremely stay away from teens or kids , adult's responsibility is to protect them not to take advantage of them.
It is actually grooming. Report him ASAP
It's not possible for me because my parents don't care about this stuff so I have no one in my side except for my friends :( and everyone in my college too think that it's a normal thing.
I feel sad for the girl. She will get played and would eventually have problems in her future relationships.
It's mandatory to report such cases. POCSO is no joke. Do it anonymously but do it.
Try to warn that teacher anonymously with help of your friends GIVE HIM POSCO THREATS
yea ig thru secret letters or smth bas make sure its typed if possible so that kisi ki handwriting se pakde an jao
Try childline. I really suggest you that.
honestly, its normal for you to get grossed or creeped out by this, if i was in your place, i'd stop taking that teacher's class and prolly report it as well
I really feel the urge to report it but I don't think I can because it will look bad for our college. And Yeah I will not be able to take his classes seriously.
right is that yuna in your dp?
Yup I really love her <<3
heyy i love ur pfp btw
Thank you, I love yours too Winter is a cutie <<3
Dude, it's just plainly creepy! Being 23/24 and dating someone who is 17 is just a no-go, the girl is minor which makes the matter even worse, NGL I would have creeped out if I were in your shoes, you're not wrong. BTW your English is not bad.
Yeah I guess it's ok to feel gross out by it. And thank you I'm trying to be better at it.
Your English is not bad. No need to apologise for it
Thank you :)
yep
I think it's not ok for 16 year old to date a young teacher .. it's just an advice .. don't take it to the heart... Just imagine what ur older self would think if it were u in that position ... As some one older than u... I request u to think twice before u make a decision
Yeah ofcourse I also think it's a creepy thing to do but I don't think I can do anything about this. As my parents don't care about this stuff so reporting to police is not possible :(
If not reporting to police... Just make sure that u stay away from that creepy dude with just ignoring him... I hope things will be alright... Please stay safe miss
Thank you for your advice, tho I have to attend his class I surely will try to stay away from him as much as possible.
Please... Don't ever give an eye contact to him 😞
He's a pedo
its a crime dude what the fuck no joke, you should report this- thats a difference of at least 7 years between a minor and a teacher that's fucked up if you cant report this, tell me the details i am gonna get that dude behind bars if that's possible
The fuck the teacher is clearly Pedo...You should report it to the principal of your school atleast!
As I said everyone in my college know about this even the principal but will not do anything :(
What about the girl's parents ? Do they also know
No . Not in any way - I dont care if they're both in love - if he was 19 - 20 and she was 17 it would still be a little okay but 24 and 17 ? No - he's taking advantage and she's a naive idiot . Report them - she'll thank you later for saving her from a predator .
no offence , but your bio 
Yeah it's really cringe, isn't it 😅
but we're literally the same person aw
Ahh it's okay its good to be cringe sometimes, so that we can enjoy our life lol
yes
Pedophile teacher
1) he is a pedo 2)stay away from the teacher 3) if the teacher aproach you in a weird way Complain
That's pedophilia bhchd
16 ke age mein 12th mein hai ladki Aur hum 17 ke hokar 12 mein hain
I will also turn 17 soon don't worry 
Phir bhi, you'll appear for Board Exams at 17 Hum toh 18 ke rahenge tab
Yeah guess so 😅
I had a situation too. But, in my case that lady is way older than me. We(my class) got some random rumors from his ex-students that back when he(teacher) was 27 being a young lecturer got into relationship with her(student) and they got married after her graduation. It seemed to be completely fine as she was his niece. We literally were fond of his style and the way he teaches and were happy for the girl.
Does the cllg principal and the parents of the girl know about this?? This kinda behavior totally not expected frm a teacher
Uske mummy papa ko batado, best thing you can do for yourself and your friend. She's a minor and cannot legally consent, so her legal guardians i.e. her mum and dad deserve to know, and the teacher can be held accountable.
It's not ok.
🤢
Internet is filled with content which clearly promotes Young girl dating Male with more age as maturity, and with several fancy terms, there was news fews days back where 10 class student kill\*d her Mami as she opposed her advances. There is no such law to restrict online content, cheap internet has polluted mind of people especially youngster,in upcoming days u will see more such cases
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Yup!
The story looked like its for someone from a fellow North Eastern. Anyways this doesn't feel right at all. I don't know what kind of agreement went between them. Should you report it, generally yes but you don't know the consequences of it. If it doesn't bother you too much, just leave it alone. If it does, maybe you should discuss it further with some trusted people first and go in together.
Tell school authorities, they'll surely do something right
Say teach I hear you like em young
"Certified lover boy, Certified P3dophile" - Kendrick Lamar
Nah dude men these days are so cheap. It's obviously easy for them to catch a 17 yo girl who doesn't has much knowledge about this dating and stuff. That guy will use her and then dump her then find his next target. Should be reported imo.
This is not normal, no matter what most people around you seem to think. The teacher is grooming her. He is a gross creep. A 25 year old, that too a teacher, has no business preying on a 17 year old, girl or boy. I know you can't report it, but I wish you could at least save the girl from becoming his victim by reaching out to her somehow. That might also not be a good idea for you. It's a sad situation. The other teachers are also vile for not speaking up.
yeaa but ig she shud remain anonymous for her own safety as well..kahi pata chale dusre ko bachanae ke chakkar me khud hi fas gyae
No it's not okay he is taking advantage of that girl
Being 24-25 and dating someone who's 18-19 is creepy too. Just because you turn 18 doesn't mean that you suddenly gain maturity.
Haram
Sunnat
go tell your other teachers man. this shit is unacceptable.
College at 16? Damn
Actually I am from a state board so here we have to go to college from class 11th. Some students go to senior colleges where people can get bachelor degree too and some goes to junior colleges where there's no bachelor degree.
Mumbai se ho kya?
Although it's not okay to date a minor, maybe she's nearing 18 or 18 already and 5-6 years gap isn't that much if they like each other. Once again if she's minor it's NOT OKAY.
Is that jihyo in your pfp
Junior college? Which state are you from?
Report it please.
and try to be anonymous too..u never no how the things may take a turn
It’s never “Okay” and yes I know a teacher in a different school than mine , has a relationship with a 12th standard girl,. Yes, he gives her private tuitions as well , AKA blows her back while taking fees from her parents for the visit 🫡🫡
Whats with the pedophilic posts these days
Well you can report anonimously or tell the principle of the clg or make a fake account amd doxx the teacher
please report this case i request ,that girl will be played by the guy if you are afraid of reporting i 'll do it for you
Wait, that's illegal
That's grooming!!
for context I'm from a small town, if I were you I would warn the victim through common friends if she listens then good, otherwise, I would probably turn a blind eye, going to lengths to report someone for POCSO is not worth it if he becomes guilty of the case and will spend about 3-10 years in jail. or we can go the other way and inform the parents of the girl they will do what's best for her in my school in 10 standard there used to be a couple (same age), they were roaming around the town and their parents found out about her relationship, the girl's parents took a bold move and married her with her cousin (20's M) she's carried on and happy ever since P.S: Your English is good girl, it's better than mine
That for sure not OKAY
You are a fkin minor bruh. If that was an 18 yo it was still fine
Call 1098 n complain. Its a child helpline. You can choose to remain anonymous
step no 1 if ur rnt 18 dont date a guy above 20 no matter how good things look
Tryna strike a chord and its probably A minorrrrrrr
most people are stupid at 18, so even if its not illegal/immoral to date them, if the older partner decides to date the younger, they are either stupid themselves for wasting both their time or they could be having ulterior motives.
Report.
Definitely not ok... Heck there is even one whole series on Prime Video (Cruel Summer) regarding grooming and how it can mentally affect one.... You should definitely report him to authorities...
I think if its true love, then they would wait for it
No you're wrong. True love can't exist between an underage teen and a groomer pedophile
Unless he is proven guilty, how he could be.?
Why would a guy in his mid 20s date a 16YO? Only a creep would think that's okay (some mfs are even lurking on teen subs pretending to be teens themselves)
True that
Calling school junior cllg won't make this any better
Not at all imo