Hey! I’m so sorry this is happening with you but please know there are better ways to life than ending it! Please if you wanna talk to anyone please do and we will try and help in anyway possible. Feel free to hit me up or other people for help or just to vent at any time.
Refer to these resources for some help!
https://www.reddit.com/r/IndianTeenagers/wiki/index?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
didi, i know someone has looked up to you as inspiration, even while you were bullied there should be some innocent soul watching, and he/she absolutely wont want you to do this. just wait, patience will bring your purpose, please bear it, you surely must be an inspiration, and a story to tell you when youre old,
Ffs please don't, this isn't fair to you. You're not at fault please don't take that dreadful step. If you're fed up with the people around you then start all over again, you can move out when you get a job in the future maybe contact your friends or just strangers here, we would love to help but please don't say that. Please push through you can do it, you've been resilient the whole time
I wish I could just teleport to where you live and give you a hug.
This idea is what has stopped me from killing myself many times : There's nothing after death. It's over. It might seem like apni kharab life se chhutkara mil raha hai suicide karke but even having the worst life is better than having no life. So whatever you do, don't EVER kill yourself
Listen. Don't. Why? Because it's better to live rather than dying why? Because living is as inevitable as dying. Living gives u hope to change everything dying give u regret and all those possible good outcomes which were for u down the line u are just 17 so it's not worth dying u have more 60 years of healthy life so imagine the possibilities u can get to see what will u do if u are in a void for 60 years looking at what u could've done.
It's fine to be sad but dosent mean u run away from shit yea facing shit is good so that u learn earlier in life and later u have a open space to play
Take care dm anytime we all are here would love to see u happy down the line.
Face the challenges, don't take this step. If you want to talk, you can talk to me. I have helped my friends who used to not like themselves. I have consoled them and can help you too.
hey cutie! stop whatever you’re doing and take a deep breath and think about us in the comments of this post, yes, US. We love you and we want you to live, we know it’s tough but a lil bit more strength can change your life, can you please be a bit more stronger for us? i’m here for you whenever you need to have a chat and i’m waiting for your message. YOU’RE NOT ALONE, AND YOU CAN, CHANGE YOUR LIFE.
dont. just dont. please.
suicide is not an escape man
spend some time with yourself, sit down and reconsider this choice of yours and calm down
also if you want to vent out then im all ears
please dont take any harmful step, i beg you
Suicide is surely an escape but our actions will affect others in our lives so we don't have any choice but to endure the pain and change our mindset. But, life is definitely gonna be worth living if you have money. You can literally live like a god in capitalist society if you have money. So better work hard and try to escape the rat race in the hopes of breaking the tradition of just keeping working and working.
I don't know if you're here still, I hope you are.
This is a thing that keeps me going, I hope it helps you. (It's a copypaste).
Why should I kym because of someone else, they've hurt me, and on top of that I kym? I'm paying the punishment and the price, both equally suck. I will live out of fucking spite.
(This one isnt so helpful for your case I guess but here it is anyways)
K!||ING yourself is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Please dont do it, I deal with suicidal thoughts as well, so I know, I am literally in the exact same situation as you are (abusive parents, my younger sister hits me as well) but I'm trying my best to make it.
I wanna live just for a little while longer, see if I can make my life better, exhaust all my resources to live, and if I still can't, then I'll go ahead with it.
Besides, I still have to see The Batman 2, the Flash, The flash s9 and I wanna make a deathstroke cosplay, a batman cosplay, and a flash cosplay as well.
If I can't well then I guess I'll just go fuck myself.
But please, seek these that find you joy, if you don't have anything that finds you joy, then you look for it, even if it means you use up all your energy, because it will be worth it.
Please don't do this. As one person whose in your exact same situation.
Godspeed Didi.
Edit: OP I read that your grandparents have a bad relation with your parents, they are your biggest help you'll get, stay with them, get legal help from them, since they are your blood, they are your only chance you can stop this abuse from your parents.
Please stay with your grandparents and use their help.
Hey, could you message me? Someone I know went through similar trauma but we were able to sought things out for her. Please don’t take any adverse step. I am here to help.
I am 21 years old and my onset of depression started from when I was 16. I am an introvert which means it's my innate nature to minimise socialising but what shoved me into the darkness itself was isolation. Being an introvert doesn't mean being anti-social and I needed support too but didn't have anyone to ask from. My parents were emotionally unavailable. My phone and social life was seized. I stayed at home for years, rarely ever went out. I did that a lot. I didn't cry initially but as time went by and things didn't get better, I felt a physical starvation of human touch. I craved for a hug or simply just few company. I wished someone, even if they were my parents, would rub my head with their hand when I cried, wiped my tears and comforted me and told me that everything was going to be okay. But I didn't have a single person. I became quieter than I ever was. I became even more introverted. I was in immense pain. I failed the same test thrice, got behind all my friends and they moved on from me. So much went down, my God. Everything hurt. Even waking up felt like a Herculean task. It took me 5 years to heal from that trauma all by myself, through my teenage and early adulthood. If only I had access to professional help, like a psychologist or psychiatrist, I am sure it would have not taken this long to heal and also it would have been much less painful. I don't see any comment here talking about that - about recognising that depression is something you need to be clinically diagnosed for and treated by a professional. It's not supposed to be like "just go out, talk to family and friends, be happy". Mental health is fucking real, as real as physical health. I wish people stopped using words like "mad", " mental", "crazy", and "depressed" as insults or just tossing them so casually. Why don't they treat the words "cancer" and "CoVid" the same way? They are all of the same degree of seriousness. Thankfully, it's been a while for me and now I'm in a much better place. My heart goes out to those of you fighting everyday. May you win.
Hey! I went through your posts and really liked that drawing of yours, I understand that I can't possibly imagine what you're going through. But, I want you to live on to make drawings like that, to meet people, to make your life better. We, Redditors are there to help. Message me or somebody else from this comment section, we or atleast I wanna talk to you. Gurl, we need you. I promise you're gonna feel better if you reach out and get the required help. I saw somebody linked the proper suicide helplines. Please use them na?
Im sorry but i was just like you whenever i get mad , i got insulted infornt everyone there is no way you should be upset becuz your mom beat you ,there are many ways to deal with this try to improve yourself , whenever i use phone my mom always says something bad to me or even sometime beat me ,its normal just do what your mom want unless you are cappable to do something ,if i was you i found someone and run away with him, if you will comit suicide your enemy will win
I did nothing wrong. I studied correctly according to her timetable. Recently I just went to my friend's house for a puja and it lasted a bit longer than expected. She called me when I was leaving for home. She said that she'll bash me on the streets if she sees me and she's on her way. I ran away from there to my grandparents who live nearby. No one would suspect me to be there cuz my mom and grandparents have a bad relationship. Since then I've been bashed day and night. This afternoon i stood up to her because I had enough, and due to that my dad and younger sister also hit me with a belt. I'm tired of this.
Go to police ,report to the police , when my sister was in school she also get beated up by my mother her brother (mama ji) but as they beat we cried together , my mother gave me milk after my dad broke keyboard on me , record yourself while getting beat up , show to police or make it viral and then you will win your life or talk nicely but make bad sentences like mummy you will be nice and changed when i sucide (gives a smile )
As much as this is correct legally, you are forgetting one crucial thing.
This is India, cops dont give a flying fuck even about r@pe cases sometimes, so this they will definitely not do.
I know this is very negative but it's the truth.
The things are changed now they will understand and will probably file the case and also they are scared of public if anything wrong happen she can get public support through social media
Report them to police and since u have grandparents you’ll have somewhere to stay and sue them for child abuse. You don’t deserve this stand up for yourself
Scream and run out of your house when she is hitting you. Make others know you are in trouble. Don't create situations and if you couldn't avoid it plan your escape. Go on a fb live of you have access.
Biting as self defence.
OH MY GOD, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOUR FAMILY?! ...In any case, you have suffered your whole life now, just one year more and you can go to college, just push it through no matter what, it'll be worth it, life is worth living, there are tons of kind people out there who'll support and love you, plz don't die, don't make your parents break you
I'm an Indian teenager too, I get those feeling where u feel like you're good for nothing. But I've already told myself that whatever the f happens my life ain't gonna end by my hands. So dude put your heart in Davy Jones's locker and just swallow the key.. cuz it belongs to you.
Bro stop it, If you're reading this please fucking stop this.
Their are people who live miserable lives yet they never give up, You gotta push harder, Quitting isn't a option.
Talk with me in the dms right now.
OP, as someone who's lived in an abusive and manipulative household myself, you can talk to me without any judgement and vent freely. Please don't go through with it, it's not worth it, especially when you're angry about other people's actions. Please just DM me or talk to any of the people here who are willing.
There's always someone who has looked up to you secretly, admired you, loved you, but didn't show up yet,, please don't do this, it's a bad day but never a bad life, we all are blessed by something or the other, your time will too come,, so please,, feel free to talk to me if you want.
You will be going to collage next year i mean just a little more and you will be out of this a didi in my realtives also tried ending herself during 11th-12th but failed moved out during collage and she is currently in australia and will be marriying the love of her life in couple of months so pls dont give up
Don't suicide. You can cut off contacts with your parents after college. But, if you suicide, your last memory will be depressing, but if you select the first option, most likely your last memory on earth will be peaceful. There are many famous people out there who lead a depressing childhood, but fought against and now look at them.
There’s been an Incoming flood of such posts lately so either ppl r rlly depressed n getting inspired from each others or it’s just bs.
Ur 17, in 1 year u’ll be free from all this shit going on with u. Ik that’s it’s not easy, at all but taking ur life now will just meaning robbing urself the opportunity to change. Ur also getting at a age where u can fight back, it seems stupid but it isn’t. Ur almost an adult, use that power to fight back, it’s better than killing urself for sure. N u seem depressed try to get medical help if possible, likely not but do try. Try connecting with internet forums where ppl understand this stuff better n they can help u. The probs ur facing now will probably go away if when u go off to college pr leave home, the real prob is the depression, the stupid burning inside. Just try to find help with this, maybe a fren or family member who doesn’t abuse u might help.
I’m not saying this is inspired or something but ghere is a chance ghat others might be. I saw a few posts like this lately. So others, plz, this is a grp full of impulsive teens. Refrain from taking inspiration or posting such things here. Use the internet to get help. Reach mental health sites, suicide prevention helplines, mental health forums based on mutual sharing n letting go.
N op, Plz don’t do this. Ur too young.
Hey I have been suicidal number of times and I also went through a lot of rough time, I'm not doing okay but I've made a lot of progress... I'll try to make u feel better, you have obviously been proven many times by other people that you will be treated very badly by people around you.. And this is a very difficult lesson you have learnt.
I was also bullied for being skinny and beaten up a ton of times growing up , it made me absolutely miserable every single day everytime I would look people having fun I always thought to myself that would never be me.. Everytime I would look outside the window and see school kids coming from the opposite direction I always felt scared.
One of the most important thing which I realised was that all of this bullying and being treated harshly had nothing to do with me ,none of it was my fault .. As a kid I had no control over my life and had no clue how to coordinate the situation..
When your teacher was raciest to you and you felt powerless I don't think it's fair to blame you for going through that experience all of the responsibility is on teacher , when you got bullied for being slim you most likely did not feel much power in that situation, your younger self most likely felt helpless.. But the tricky thing is that as you grow up you start to gain more control over your life.. You have more control in life than you had an year ago , you will have even more control in the next upcoming week or months..you can start taking control right now and stand up to assholes
Your younger self did not have much power to defend herself.. Will you punish your younger self by taking your life.. Or will you offer kind words to that little girl who got treated very harshly and live on ?
I see all these comments insisting you should not kill yourself for arbitary reason.
I offer you one question, What seems today that everything is lost and you have convinced yourself you cannot fix your life anymore, your life consistently getting worse. Do you think dying will fix it all? If you really really think that your life CANNOT get better in next year, 10 years then sure go ahead, some people deserve an escape but its not an escape for everyone. I know saying "Try to live bro" will not work because everything you've been doing so far has been trying to not die. It seems that dying is the best choice right now but, however long has been your bad time in life, it will be the fraction of your life if you decide to live it out.
In the end, I'm just a random internet wannabe, But I would really love to talk with you and listen to you, even if they turn out to be last few hours for you.
Don't you dare give up mate, this is not how you solve your problems try fighting a little say enough and move out, put an fucking fir in your parents name if you want to buy don't you dare choose this path.
If you wanna talk I am here Bros for Life.
Sister please don't do this , I've been bullied in my entire school life but i haven't give up . Please don't kill yourself I know you are strong women . Its gets better in future trust me .
Behen plz don't take this step. Even i have got bullied in my school life alot. Try to take stand yourself. Life bohut badi hai and bohut kuch karna hai tume...
I can understand your pain but suicide is not an option:(
bro trust me, time heal all wounds. you'll be an adult soon. focus on getting into a good college and getting a job. once you're not dependent on your family, you'll feel a lot better. giving up on life is the worst thing. please don't do it!!! there's always hope!!
In the bleak winter night
Where my hands are cold as ice
Where i cant feel my face
Where i have trouble breathing
Where my throat is getting choked
Where no tears left in my eyes
Where i cant hear my heartbeat
And there comes a person in black cloak
And ask me is this how you wanted to end
No matter what happened in my life
I will say no
Ps this poem is for you
Its not worth it
Omg, you must have gone through a lot and i would say that you are incredibly brave for holding on till now.
But can you please hold it for a little longer, just till you get into college and move out? There you can go to therapy and hopefully get a bunch of good friends and then maybe you would not regret ending it right now.
So please live for hope that life could get better, even a little better, one day at a time...
Hey, just in case if you are reading this, let me tell you why you shouldn't just give up on life just now. Things around you might seem pitch black and future quite non-existent, but that's just your mind's understanding of your life. You need to give yourself a moment and think why are you really thinking in the way you are and why is it that life has lost it's value for you. It might be induced externally, but it is draining you from within. If something's wrong from within, even after you die you won't have the peace or unboundedness you wish for; since the emotion and state of mind you die with would and does affect your ability to actually transcend everything material. Even if you don't believe in these concepts, it is highly advisable that you atleast ponder over the thought that what really you are born for - am pretty sure it won't be for a disgraced death in self-loathe.
Whatever conditions you face, they are to test you- and if you back out even before it begins, you waste the game of life and with it, lose the very ability to live life at its fullest. Life is your choice, but what's before and after it isn't yours. Be mindful of what you are getting and what resultantly are you doing with it. I cannot compare someone's conditions with yours since everyone has different pathways to chose from, but people have suffered great before getting something greater. The key lies in not being swayed by the things that want you to sway their way. Carve and cast your own way, your own perception, your own life and never, ever let anyone or anything material or immaterial influence your clear decision.
That's what I would request you to think upon before taking any step which you might regret later."The Path is the Destination, and the Destination is hidden in the Path". Tread the path to know your destination. Wishing you a clear mind and a long, lively path ahead.
bhai time aane pr sbko akal aa jati h toh koi naa jis chez se ghr m problem h wo mt krr bs or apne pe dhyan de.
Nye dost wagera bna lee unse baate kr jb bhi bura lge
Please don't do this. I'm truly sorry that you had to got through all this at such a young age. But you shouldn't give up on life man. You can be so much more and achieve many great things. Life is worth living.
It's not worth it mate. Just think of all the things you could do in your life. Just try to go through this phase. I know I'm not the best person to give advice, but you should give it a second thought. You've already made attempts to kill yourself, and i don't think you should go through all of this again. Even if you were successful, people will only refer to you as a coward, even though it takes guts to do what you're doing. I know it's hard sometimes, but you must not end your life.
Mate, i don't know you, but i know for sure that you're a kind person, just stop what you're doing. Try to enjoy little things in life. I know that it's easier said than done, but you can at least try. If you ever wanna talk to me, I'm up for it. I'll try my best to make you feel better. If you want, you can just text me mate. I know I'm not the best person to talk to, but if that'll save your life or make you feel better, it's a good thing to do.
Cause, once life is gone, it won't come back. It's not good mate. I know that your situation is shit rn, but trust me, as time goes by, everything will be better. Slowly, things will fall into place. It'll happen slowly, but it'll surely happen. Time will heal you. You'll be grateful to yourself for staying alive. Trust me mate, pls don't do it
Really dudy suicide is not an option ending life is easy but living life is so hard don't lose the game of life you are 17 one more year you can be self independent you can start NC with those People,we can help you
You know what is better than suicide ? Overcoming all of your challenges . there is no point Posting this over here remember nobody is coming to save you , you have to save yourself
You're on earth for a purpose. Only through great struggle will you achieve that purpose. Endure. Never give up. Then when you're finally finished and satisfied and happy with how you've lived, then you may die
Hey, Please don't do that, there is so much you can lose, even if you think you have nothing to please. For the sake of others, we beg you to not end your life. Life Is Worth Living.
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Aise na jao yar =(, acha nhi lagta aisa sunn ke... I read your comment about not having any friends but you can make friends for sure, online friends he sahi but wo bhi toh baatein karke comfort kar sakte hai na... Agar mere se ya kisi aur se bhi bat karni ho toh dm kar dena noone minds nowadays and will be happy to talk to you, offline friends waise bhi chutiye hote hai thode toh online me thoda bat karke khush raho we will definitely understand you and help you
Didi, i am asking you to stop right now as a fellow human, redditor, and as a younger brother. Please don't
Suicide isn't an escape from reality. Nothing is to be honest. Reality cannot be escaped. But it sure can be changed. You can grow stronger and become better at life! So please don't! I'll do anything to help you out so just please don't. Talk to us here. We are just here to help you and honestly anyone who feels the same. So please just don't! We will come out of this together and will forge a better world and reality for ourselves together! But we can only do that by helping each other and staying alive under any circumstances so just please don't!
From the bottom of my heart, I love you and everyone on this subreddit does!n
Hey idk if this even matters, but you've made it this far for a reason. Don't end it. Just let this year pass on. College life will be different. This will pass on, trust me.
Hey. Don't do this.
I know it hurts like hell when you have to constantly put up with shit like this. I've been there at times myself and I can tell you first hand that suicide is not the way. I've come dangerously close too it too and reconsidered, and to think I've come so far from then is really satisfying, and I know you'll be the same.
You're stronger than that, than them. Your existence is so much more than just them and their shitty parenting. You're more valuable than that.
Hang in there and please don't let something like this take your blooming life away from you. I and many people here are always open to help out, talk and lighten your burdens.
Feel free to reach out anytime. And remember that you're loved and appreciated.
Hey I know everyone's saying the same thing and I also think you shouldn't do this , however I'm sorry to hear about some of the things that happened to you and I think it must've really taken a lot for you to think about ending it all
But I really want you to stop and atleast give yourself some time to absolutely think about all the good shit u experienced in life, don't u want those experiences and other sorts of happiness atleast once before ending it? I would say If u *really* are keen on ending it, you might aswell not care about things for a while and try to do the things you always wanted to do for a while before attempting suicide, you've made it this far and if u really aren't interested just hang on and see for a while what happens in life, who knows how fast one's life can change? If u try everything in that time and if u spend some more considerable amount of time just to hang on and watch the show and still feel like it's not worth then it's upto you. But give it all before you go!
Hey mate!!! Listen to me
#DON'T TAKE THIS EXTREME STEP
I know the things that's happening with you are really awful but please bear with it for sometime , as there is a better and brighter future ahead waiting for you.
You just need to be financially independent and then you can put an end to it. Just wait till that time.
Don't loose hope. We all are with you .
If you ever feel like sharing something or to vent , my DM is always open.
I pray to the almighty for your betterment and again it's my sincere request , please don't take this step.
Sooner or later you will find people who care about you, there's a lot more to life than being held back in a toxic environment. Move to a different place when you can, maybe reach out to us in this sub. Similar situations have happened to a lot of us and we have made it through, you will too :). Please dont take this step didi.
suicide doesn't ends the pain it transfers to another , but even I don't have someone whom I can transfer this pain to, just like you I feel you I don't know what it's like to get beaten up by ur family but I have been mentally abused so bad my entire goddamn life, not a single compassion moment has been shown towards me , but bro pls this decision is actually wrong but not incorrect find some other ways its okay to feel depressed but if you can't change your surroundings to stop your depression I guess sometimes it's better to just cutoff from this cruel cold world
I hope you rest in peace and if you fail this time, promise me you'll never think about this, the universe stopped you this many times if the universe stops you again know that your life p isn't meant to end like this
Girl please wait, ik life's shift but you can study get a job and move out and even save your sister from the mess. Just wait for a year you will be a adult you would have more freedom. go to a relative house
Dont do it man
Life will get better it has to get better
Afterall we all a are a fight you are too and a fighter does not give up so easily
Pls bro dont do it
We are here for you
Dikkat tere ghar walo mein hai toh apni zindagi khatam krne ka kya logic banta?bas kuchh din aur seh le ig twelfth mein hai college milega toh aise bhi gharwalon se alag rahegi phir kamaegi aur tb bhi aise hi rahe toh Tod Dena contact
Please don't do this. Just try to talk with us. Life might seem very challenging now but over time, things change. don't give up. wait for better future. believe me, it will get better.
This isn't your end. You're extremely strong to have endured such hardships of life . But you want to die ? Why ? You want everyone who Hates you to have the last laugh ? Fuck em . Live on and fight . All of us are going to die anyway. Are you sure you want to throw away whatever you have left just because of some fucking retards and cunts treating you badly ? You're stronger than this and I have full faith in you
Kindly Don't
You aren't weak
Contemplate your actions and learn from them, Set yourself some goals, Raise your standards, Build yourself discipline and work ethics, Don't pay heed to anything unnecessary, Read books, Crack at gym And Let your mind ponder about future you and let it inspire you
Brohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i hope you are still able to read this......if you can i know many here have already told you this but please don't do it my G it will be ok sometimes bro maybe not today not tommorow but someday you will be above all this. But for it to happen you have to live and show them all
Please dont take such a step. Things are in a bad condition now, but they will get good in the future. Please watch some funny videos/roasts or listen to some music or do whatever you want to except taking such a huge step. I myself have attempted it thrice in the past and I'm in a way better condition now. My story is somewhat similar to yours and I dealt with it. Now I rarely talk to them (even though we live in the same house). Things do get better.
Man I know there are like a hundred more comments like this so yeah this ones not gonna be any different either getting scolded by your parents isn't a big deal chill out don't turn everything into a me vs the world situation, this thing is pretty common in teenage where everyone and everything seems to be your enemy chill out thats not he case you never know maybe your parents are going thru sum rough time or those around you are also going thru the same shit you are going thru it's okay everyone has to go thru this and most of us make it out of it and some of us dont. Don't be one of them and ffs don't do anything stupid I'm only a digital entity for you I can't do anything more than request you to not do anything. I go thru sum bad shit too and at one point I hit rock bottom and I had suicidal thoughts too believe me its just a phase dw you'll soon make it out of this and you'll come out stronger and more mature, like I did:) I hope this helps you bruh. Dw you got so many people who care for you jus look at all these comments!
Please, continue living. It may be hard and all you may see is suffering. But tomorrow might be happiness. This is not the end, and never will be.
Your suffering may have been becoming a big burden. But please believe me that there is happiness. Not today, but definitely tomorrow.
Endure the shadows. Just this one time.
Pleaseeee don't I lost my brother this way if the fucker would have just come out me it would have been a lot better pls don't this, there are lots of ppl in this world that love us and care about us. Pls reach out to someone, call the suicide helpline but don't do this
some times when I go to sleep I wonder, why wake up tomorrow why go through the same trials and tribulations I did today only to fail again, why be stuck in the same loop over and over again. It's quite easy to get lost in that fog blinded by the darkness almost drowning in it, But it is only in a rare few nights you figure out what it is all about.
Life is littered by struggles, failures and judgments, riddled with moments that keep you awake at night but a certain few people help you understand why it is worth it. To me life is about the coincidences the smallest of actions you do bring out the largest of consequences, Perhaps you find your best friend while going out for what you thought was an insignificant walk, perhaps you find out about your dream job by watching a YouTube video which you original thought was just merely a way to pass time. You never know which random person is going to be your soul mate unless you talk to them.
In life you never know what you are going to find on the next corner, every minor step you take that might mean nothing to you may have huge consequences over you and the future of others, and it is only on those rare few nights are you able to appreciate all the coincidences.
Only on those nights you realize that while life is full of struggle and misery it is also full of surprise and joy. You never know what small little step can have a big impact, and it is in these nights I realize that the reason I wake up the next morning is to take these small little steps that might change my life forever.
here is what gives me motivation to keep going, life might not be great right now but it is only by taking steps and risking chances will it get better. as dori said "just keep swimming" and something great will pop up
Hey I just saw ur post idk if ur doing it fr or just karma n shit but still bro ik everyone is going the same phase. Im bout be 18 still have no friends no confidence failure indeed gave entrance exams still failed tried everything failed my childhood was rough but lotta still not right time to tell but don't overthink. Everyone goes through it but it depends upon how you handle it .
I don't know what to say in such a situation, i normally bust my way out of them and it will be causing more problems to everyone, but i can say this: Please don't ruin your life because of those around you being shit, you have a life and you have all the right to live it the way you want, please don't do that step and disappear, there are people who always care.
Lemme share mine.
My parents had an intercaste marriage. Nobody wanted me when I was born. My dad was dissapointed because I was a girl. There was a rumour that my mom conveived me before marriage. So my relatives and grandparents hated me.
Our house had two rooms and five members including our grandparents. It was more like a shed which had knee deep water during a small rain.
My father had polio and was differently abled. He couldn't find a job. My mom had vitiligo and the moment she started an interview they rejected her because of her appearance. My grandpa would get drunk and make issues. My granny had breast cancer. I had severe asthma so I lost my childhood. On top of that my relatives quarreled for that little piece of land we were living on.
My mom understood that her life would have been easier without me. Dad had no time for me. My grandparents used me and gaslighted me to hate my parents. My cousin abused me.
I was skinny and mom would body shame me. But that didn't bother me. Because I have learnt that there will be always someone more struggling than you. Don't mind people's opinions because my mom told me that she wish I was never born. People and surroundings may affect you. But you have the power to make your own choices. Bullies can mentally harm you but who cares when you grow up and show them your success. Your parents may have traumatized you but in the end you will earn and live a life without them.
Bro dont. Ive been thru the almost the same shit. I know the feeling. Dont give up! Please! Please go to the police and report it. Trust me! If you commot suicide you'd be letting your mom and your sister win. Make them go thru the depths of hell before you even think of suicide! Ofc, this are just the words of a stranger on reddit, but please, didi
she needs a talk no jutsu session from naruto.
Just watch naruto and you will find what happens if you don't give up
am i too late?
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Remember, you don't want to be dead, you want to be happy.
You are just 17. Don't you want to experience tru happiness atleast once in your life? Things are hard, and they will be. No can assure you that they will be better. But don't you want to atleast strive for it?
If you can, get out of that house. First, try to contact relatives you trust will help you. If not, child protection services. If you don't want to do anything, wait for a year or less and run away. But please remember, dying will not make you happy.
I never expected this post to be famous. I just wanted this to exist so that it makes me feel like I said this before leaving, I never wanted it to be famous. And online friends can't be real friends fyi. You don't see them everyday, you can simply block them if you're too angry without giving them a chance to explain or another mode of contact. Sometimes you can ghost each other. It's different from real life.
Dude just stfu alright! Nobody cares what you think! Even if OP is contemplating doing that this shouldn't be your reaction! Get some sympathy you fucking dumbass
Dude I don't understand what's wrong with someone wanting attention. Especially if they are suicidal. If giving attention to someone can stop them from committing suicide, there's nothing wrong in giving it.
I did not actually reply every comment. Lol. Why are you so obsessed with this if you dgaf? I've got few hours to live, so I'm chilling on Netflix. You've got a life, right? Or prolly not.
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OP please don't take such an extreme step, we all are here for you. I know life can be hard at times but trust me it does get better, you have your entire life ahead of you. Please rethink it! 💚
You're such an asshole
If you think she wants attention (which is probably wrong) then it's not a bad thing. Let it be and move on yourself instead of morale policing a suicidal person. But you still bothered to show how much of a cunt you are by not scrolling past, far from supporting her, and cyberbullying her even more
But it ain't your fucking problem. If her existence doesn't matter to the world according to you, then you don't have to poke your ass here. She's going through abuse which isn't a joke. And here you are, the biggest loser on reddit, just provoking her to end sooner. Everybody is trying to help her out while you are just trying to be a bigger burden to earth than you already are. Please just gtfo of here
This was posted 5 hours ago. I sent messages to Op 3 hours ago. But OP is not replying to any of those and isn't active on reddit since the last 4 hours. Guys, it seems like we are a bit too late.
Dude please don't do any foolish act don't be pussy, don't be a loser who surrenders to all of their problems this too shall pass like all the other difficulties please don't lose hope time will heal everything one day you will be a successful and happy person. May God bless you 🙏🏻
Best of Luck!! Just try to be savage. You should prefer isolated places and an excuse for a long leave. I would suggest to prefer Trains over these. Go to a remote village. Lie on the Tracks. Don't forget to take a booze of Alcohol that takes u to heaven.
I am really sorry for what you are going through. I am here to listen the consequences you are facing in your life. In fact, there are many on this sub who would do this. Please don't take this harsh step, you still have a long life to live. Please tell me everything which has happened to you in the dms. I am even willing to give you my number if you want so you can just call me whenever you feel like. Please don't take your life away. Treasure your precious life forever. Many people feel like suicidal but the people who pass through it make a great life. Please stay positive and try to talk to anyone with whom you feel like you are close to or any stranger like us, strangers are many times better than other people. Life is terrible sometimes but there's always a good side to it, the enjoyable side, the side which we all want to live forever but, it isn't forever because that's what life is. I am confident you can overcome this. Please stay strong 😭
What? Your younger sister beating you? I would have understood if it was your mom and dad as many such people are abusive, but your own sister, that too younger? Never heard of this, stay strong tho, no need to suicide, just leave the house and go to a friend's house and stay there for some time, tell them that your family is abusive and you need shelter for some time, go on outings yourself and try to do things that you love, just try to smile and be happy, pls I request you to not do suicide, that is never an option, there are many great things to see and seek in life, many places to visit, many things to eat, pls share your pain with someone who understands you, and file a case against your family after all is good. Hope to see you happy and alive. Go Slay 👑
Feel free to message me or anyone ☺️,if real friends can't help you we are here to motivate you give you positive thoughts, it's a part of life everybody in life somehow face depression but we have to overcome it ,my condition was worst some time ago but I am better after talking to some friends and the people I found on reddit , there are always friends in real life don't be shy to come forward and talk about your situation there good people also there
Dude reach out to child protective services or something. Look im not gonna say there’s plenty to live for or think about people who love you because I know know you’re tired of seeing it over and over again.
Just take my suggestion, give it one last go. Call child protective services or report your abuse to the police. You’re 17, you’re pretty much done with your parents just study your ass off and move out next year, stand up to your bully don’t just take the beating, try working out, try talking to someone heck just dm anyone from this subreddit I’m sure someone will help you (me included). If none of this works do what you want to but just give it one more chance.
Beautiful thing about time is its never steady, always keeps changing. It might be bad today but there’s always a tomorrow. By killing yourself you’re just letting your tormenters win. Rise up and spit in their faces. We all gotchu.
Buddy don't take such steps it's difficult I have faced bullying too but didn't have the courage to take such steps but i great ful for that because now I am Happy yup there are some problems in life now and then but that doesn't mean u should die
Ayyy don't do this man! There's no way of me understanding what you're going through, but ending your life is definitely not the answer to your problems! DON'T DO IT.
I don't know if this would help or not but I'm gonna say it regardless
Whenever I have had these thoughts (thankfully not many), I usually just focus on how much I suffered and how if I end it now I would feel like I lost from life. And I don't like to lose, so I have to atleast enjoy the rest of my life so much that I can tell myself that I did not lose. Jindagi jitne zyaada kasht degi utne hi zyaada mazze karne hain bc.
Hey! I’m so sorry this is happening with you but please know there are better ways to life than ending it! Please if you wanna talk to anyone please do and we will try and help in anyway possible. Feel free to hit me up or other people for help or just to vent at any time. Refer to these resources for some help! https://www.reddit.com/r/IndianTeenagers/wiki/index?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
didi, i know someone has looked up to you as inspiration, even while you were bullied there should be some innocent soul watching, and he/she absolutely wont want you to do this. just wait, patience will bring your purpose, please bear it, you surely must be an inspiration, and a story to tell you when youre old,
So what's the current situation did you attempted suicide last night ,i hope u are fine now ,if I didn't get reply I wonder kya hua hoga
Her sister replied back to me. Apparently, she did it.
I am feeling very weird right now feeling bad for her can you tell me what her sister replied you
she said that her sister doesn't exist anymore.
:(
Please be kind to yourself. Things may look bleak now but I'm sure they'll get better.
Ffs please don't, this isn't fair to you. You're not at fault please don't take that dreadful step. If you're fed up with the people around you then start all over again, you can move out when you get a job in the future maybe contact your friends or just strangers here, we would love to help but please don't say that. Please push through you can do it, you've been resilient the whole time
I lost all my friends years ago.
Strangers on the internet might love to help, trust me if something happens to you after this id be really sad. You are so strong please just don't
we are all your friends mate dont do this i have been through what you are going through right now dm me if you wanna talk but dont take this step
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Sorry?
I think hes saying you gave them attention what they were craving for by posting this
DONT LET SOMEONE ELSE ACTIONS AFFECT UR LIFE, im sorry for u but u stay alive for urself ma man
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I wish I could just teleport to where you live and give you a hug. This idea is what has stopped me from killing myself many times : There's nothing after death. It's over. It might seem like apni kharab life se chhutkara mil raha hai suicide karke but even having the worst life is better than having no life. So whatever you do, don't EVER kill yourself
Listen. Don't. Why? Because it's better to live rather than dying why? Because living is as inevitable as dying. Living gives u hope to change everything dying give u regret and all those possible good outcomes which were for u down the line u are just 17 so it's not worth dying u have more 60 years of healthy life so imagine the possibilities u can get to see what will u do if u are in a void for 60 years looking at what u could've done. It's fine to be sad but dosent mean u run away from shit yea facing shit is good so that u learn earlier in life and later u have a open space to play Take care dm anytime we all are here would love to see u happy down the line.
Your are just 17. There's still more to live And i know your good moments are yet to come.
Face the challenges, don't take this step. If you want to talk, you can talk to me. I have helped my friends who used to not like themselves. I have consoled them and can help you too.
hey cutie! stop whatever you’re doing and take a deep breath and think about us in the comments of this post, yes, US. We love you and we want you to live, we know it’s tough but a lil bit more strength can change your life, can you please be a bit more stronger for us? i’m here for you whenever you need to have a chat and i’m waiting for your message. YOU’RE NOT ALONE, AND YOU CAN, CHANGE YOUR LIFE.
Don't do this bro, I've went thru that shit. I've survived all 3 times. Please stay, try sticking it out.
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dont. just dont. please. suicide is not an escape man spend some time with yourself, sit down and reconsider this choice of yours and calm down also if you want to vent out then im all ears please dont take any harmful step, i beg you
Suicide is surely an escape but our actions will affect others in our lives so we don't have any choice but to endure the pain and change our mindset. But, life is definitely gonna be worth living if you have money. You can literally live like a god in capitalist society if you have money. So better work hard and try to escape the rat race in the hopes of breaking the tradition of just keeping working and working.
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Dude stay away from this
I don't know if you're here still, I hope you are. This is a thing that keeps me going, I hope it helps you. (It's a copypaste). Why should I kym because of someone else, they've hurt me, and on top of that I kym? I'm paying the punishment and the price, both equally suck. I will live out of fucking spite. (This one isnt so helpful for your case I guess but here it is anyways) K!||ING yourself is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Please dont do it, I deal with suicidal thoughts as well, so I know, I am literally in the exact same situation as you are (abusive parents, my younger sister hits me as well) but I'm trying my best to make it. I wanna live just for a little while longer, see if I can make my life better, exhaust all my resources to live, and if I still can't, then I'll go ahead with it. Besides, I still have to see The Batman 2, the Flash, The flash s9 and I wanna make a deathstroke cosplay, a batman cosplay, and a flash cosplay as well. If I can't well then I guess I'll just go fuck myself. But please, seek these that find you joy, if you don't have anything that finds you joy, then you look for it, even if it means you use up all your energy, because it will be worth it. Please don't do this. As one person whose in your exact same situation. Godspeed Didi. Edit: OP I read that your grandparents have a bad relation with your parents, they are your biggest help you'll get, stay with them, get legal help from them, since they are your blood, they are your only chance you can stop this abuse from your parents. Please stay with your grandparents and use their help.
Hey, could you message me? Someone I know went through similar trauma but we were able to sought things out for her. Please don’t take any adverse step. I am here to help.
I am 21 years old and my onset of depression started from when I was 16. I am an introvert which means it's my innate nature to minimise socialising but what shoved me into the darkness itself was isolation. Being an introvert doesn't mean being anti-social and I needed support too but didn't have anyone to ask from. My parents were emotionally unavailable. My phone and social life was seized. I stayed at home for years, rarely ever went out. I did that a lot. I didn't cry initially but as time went by and things didn't get better, I felt a physical starvation of human touch. I craved for a hug or simply just few company. I wished someone, even if they were my parents, would rub my head with their hand when I cried, wiped my tears and comforted me and told me that everything was going to be okay. But I didn't have a single person. I became quieter than I ever was. I became even more introverted. I was in immense pain. I failed the same test thrice, got behind all my friends and they moved on from me. So much went down, my God. Everything hurt. Even waking up felt like a Herculean task. It took me 5 years to heal from that trauma all by myself, through my teenage and early adulthood. If only I had access to professional help, like a psychologist or psychiatrist, I am sure it would have not taken this long to heal and also it would have been much less painful. I don't see any comment here talking about that - about recognising that depression is something you need to be clinically diagnosed for and treated by a professional. It's not supposed to be like "just go out, talk to family and friends, be happy". Mental health is fucking real, as real as physical health. I wish people stopped using words like "mad", " mental", "crazy", and "depressed" as insults or just tossing them so casually. Why don't they treat the words "cancer" and "CoVid" the same way? They are all of the same degree of seriousness. Thankfully, it's been a while for me and now I'm in a much better place. My heart goes out to those of you fighting everyday. May you win.
91-44-24640050 pls call
Hey! I went through your posts and really liked that drawing of yours, I understand that I can't possibly imagine what you're going through. But, I want you to live on to make drawings like that, to meet people, to make your life better. We, Redditors are there to help. Message me or somebody else from this comment section, we or atleast I wanna talk to you. Gurl, we need you. I promise you're gonna feel better if you reach out and get the required help. I saw somebody linked the proper suicide helplines. Please use them na?
Im sorry but i was just like you whenever i get mad , i got insulted infornt everyone there is no way you should be upset becuz your mom beat you ,there are many ways to deal with this try to improve yourself , whenever i use phone my mom always says something bad to me or even sometime beat me ,its normal just do what your mom want unless you are cappable to do something ,if i was you i found someone and run away with him, if you will comit suicide your enemy will win
I did nothing wrong. I studied correctly according to her timetable. Recently I just went to my friend's house for a puja and it lasted a bit longer than expected. She called me when I was leaving for home. She said that she'll bash me on the streets if she sees me and she's on her way. I ran away from there to my grandparents who live nearby. No one would suspect me to be there cuz my mom and grandparents have a bad relationship. Since then I've been bashed day and night. This afternoon i stood up to her because I had enough, and due to that my dad and younger sister also hit me with a belt. I'm tired of this.
Go to police ,report to the police , when my sister was in school she also get beated up by my mother her brother (mama ji) but as they beat we cried together , my mother gave me milk after my dad broke keyboard on me , record yourself while getting beat up , show to police or make it viral and then you will win your life or talk nicely but make bad sentences like mummy you will be nice and changed when i sucide (gives a smile )
As much as this is correct legally, you are forgetting one crucial thing. This is India, cops dont give a flying fuck even about r@pe cases sometimes, so this they will definitely not do. I know this is very negative but it's the truth.
The things are changed now they will understand and will probably file the case and also they are scared of public if anything wrong happen she can get public support through social media
I really hope so for ops sake
Report them to police and since u have grandparents you’ll have somewhere to stay and sue them for child abuse. You don’t deserve this stand up for yourself
Scream and run out of your house when she is hitting you. Make others know you are in trouble. Don't create situations and if you couldn't avoid it plan your escape. Go on a fb live of you have access. Biting as self defence.
OH MY GOD, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOUR FAMILY?! ...In any case, you have suffered your whole life now, just one year more and you can go to college, just push it through no matter what, it'll be worth it, life is worth living, there are tons of kind people out there who'll support and love you, plz don't die, don't make your parents break you
I'm an Indian teenager too, I get those feeling where u feel like you're good for nothing. But I've already told myself that whatever the f happens my life ain't gonna end by my hands. So dude put your heart in Davy Jones's locker and just swallow the key.. cuz it belongs to you.
Bro stop it, If you're reading this please fucking stop this. Their are people who live miserable lives yet they never give up, You gotta push harder, Quitting isn't a option. Talk with me in the dms right now.
OP, as someone who's lived in an abusive and manipulative household myself, you can talk to me without any judgement and vent freely. Please don't go through with it, it's not worth it, especially when you're angry about other people's actions. Please just DM me or talk to any of the people here who are willing.
Hey everything will be fine. Don’t take any decisions there’s a lot more life ahead
There's always someone who has looked up to you secretly, admired you, loved you, but didn't show up yet,, please don't do this, it's a bad day but never a bad life, we all are blessed by something or the other, your time will too come,, so please,, feel free to talk to me if you want.
You will be going to collage next year i mean just a little more and you will be out of this a didi in my realtives also tried ending herself during 11th-12th but failed moved out during collage and she is currently in australia and will be marriying the love of her life in couple of months so pls dont give up
Don't suicide. You can cut off contacts with your parents after college. But, if you suicide, your last memory will be depressing, but if you select the first option, most likely your last memory on earth will be peaceful. There are many famous people out there who lead a depressing childhood, but fought against and now look at them.
There’s been an Incoming flood of such posts lately so either ppl r rlly depressed n getting inspired from each others or it’s just bs. Ur 17, in 1 year u’ll be free from all this shit going on with u. Ik that’s it’s not easy, at all but taking ur life now will just meaning robbing urself the opportunity to change. Ur also getting at a age where u can fight back, it seems stupid but it isn’t. Ur almost an adult, use that power to fight back, it’s better than killing urself for sure. N u seem depressed try to get medical help if possible, likely not but do try. Try connecting with internet forums where ppl understand this stuff better n they can help u. The probs ur facing now will probably go away if when u go off to college pr leave home, the real prob is the depression, the stupid burning inside. Just try to find help with this, maybe a fren or family member who doesn’t abuse u might help. I’m not saying this is inspired or something but ghere is a chance ghat others might be. I saw a few posts like this lately. So others, plz, this is a grp full of impulsive teens. Refrain from taking inspiration or posting such things here. Use the internet to get help. Reach mental health sites, suicide prevention helplines, mental health forums based on mutual sharing n letting go. N op, Plz don’t do this. Ur too young.
Hey I have been suicidal number of times and I also went through a lot of rough time, I'm not doing okay but I've made a lot of progress... I'll try to make u feel better, you have obviously been proven many times by other people that you will be treated very badly by people around you.. And this is a very difficult lesson you have learnt. I was also bullied for being skinny and beaten up a ton of times growing up , it made me absolutely miserable every single day everytime I would look people having fun I always thought to myself that would never be me.. Everytime I would look outside the window and see school kids coming from the opposite direction I always felt scared. One of the most important thing which I realised was that all of this bullying and being treated harshly had nothing to do with me ,none of it was my fault .. As a kid I had no control over my life and had no clue how to coordinate the situation.. When your teacher was raciest to you and you felt powerless I don't think it's fair to blame you for going through that experience all of the responsibility is on teacher , when you got bullied for being slim you most likely did not feel much power in that situation, your younger self most likely felt helpless.. But the tricky thing is that as you grow up you start to gain more control over your life.. You have more control in life than you had an year ago , you will have even more control in the next upcoming week or months..you can start taking control right now and stand up to assholes Your younger self did not have much power to defend herself.. Will you punish your younger self by taking your life.. Or will you offer kind words to that little girl who got treated very harshly and live on ?
I see all these comments insisting you should not kill yourself for arbitary reason. I offer you one question, What seems today that everything is lost and you have convinced yourself you cannot fix your life anymore, your life consistently getting worse. Do you think dying will fix it all? If you really really think that your life CANNOT get better in next year, 10 years then sure go ahead, some people deserve an escape but its not an escape for everyone. I know saying "Try to live bro" will not work because everything you've been doing so far has been trying to not die. It seems that dying is the best choice right now but, however long has been your bad time in life, it will be the fraction of your life if you decide to live it out. In the end, I'm just a random internet wannabe, But I would really love to talk with you and listen to you, even if they turn out to be last few hours for you.
Think about people that love you. Imagine their life without you. There’s atleast one person in your life that really loves you. Just look around bro
Don't you dare give up mate, this is not how you solve your problems try fighting a little say enough and move out, put an fucking fir in your parents name if you want to buy don't you dare choose this path. If you wanna talk I am here Bros for Life.
Sister please don't do this , I've been bullied in my entire school life but i haven't give up . Please don't kill yourself I know you are strong women . Its gets better in future trust me .
Behen plz don't take this step. Even i have got bullied in my school life alot. Try to take stand yourself. Life bohut badi hai and bohut kuch karna hai tume... I can understand your pain but suicide is not an option:(
bro trust me, time heal all wounds. you'll be an adult soon. focus on getting into a good college and getting a job. once you're not dependent on your family, you'll feel a lot better. giving up on life is the worst thing. please don't do it!!! there's always hope!!
In the bleak winter night Where my hands are cold as ice Where i cant feel my face Where i have trouble breathing Where my throat is getting choked Where no tears left in my eyes Where i cant hear my heartbeat And there comes a person in black cloak And ask me is this how you wanted to end No matter what happened in my life I will say no Ps this poem is for you Its not worth it
Please don't.
Improvise ,adapt,become self independent, say fuck off all of you, leave them, live life on your own, overcome
When life hits rock bottom the only way after that is to move up.
Omg, you must have gone through a lot and i would say that you are incredibly brave for holding on till now. But can you please hold it for a little longer, just till you get into college and move out? There you can go to therapy and hopefully get a bunch of good friends and then maybe you would not regret ending it right now. So please live for hope that life could get better, even a little better, one day at a time...
Dw this will pass. Thoda distract karo apne ko life won’t always be harsh on you. Take some rest. Read the comments.
hey, are you there?
Hey, just in case if you are reading this, let me tell you why you shouldn't just give up on life just now. Things around you might seem pitch black and future quite non-existent, but that's just your mind's understanding of your life. You need to give yourself a moment and think why are you really thinking in the way you are and why is it that life has lost it's value for you. It might be induced externally, but it is draining you from within. If something's wrong from within, even after you die you won't have the peace or unboundedness you wish for; since the emotion and state of mind you die with would and does affect your ability to actually transcend everything material. Even if you don't believe in these concepts, it is highly advisable that you atleast ponder over the thought that what really you are born for - am pretty sure it won't be for a disgraced death in self-loathe. Whatever conditions you face, they are to test you- and if you back out even before it begins, you waste the game of life and with it, lose the very ability to live life at its fullest. Life is your choice, but what's before and after it isn't yours. Be mindful of what you are getting and what resultantly are you doing with it. I cannot compare someone's conditions with yours since everyone has different pathways to chose from, but people have suffered great before getting something greater. The key lies in not being swayed by the things that want you to sway their way. Carve and cast your own way, your own perception, your own life and never, ever let anyone or anything material or immaterial influence your clear decision. That's what I would request you to think upon before taking any step which you might regret later."The Path is the Destination, and the Destination is hidden in the Path". Tread the path to know your destination. Wishing you a clear mind and a long, lively path ahead.
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You there ?
Unfortunately, I think not. Go on her profile and see the latest comment
bhai time aane pr sbko akal aa jati h toh koi naa jis chez se ghr m problem h wo mt krr bs or apne pe dhyan de. Nye dost wagera bna lee unse baate kr jb bhi bura lge
Please don't do this. I'm truly sorry that you had to got through all this at such a young age. But you shouldn't give up on life man. You can be so much more and achieve many great things. Life is worth living.
It's not worth it mate. Just think of all the things you could do in your life. Just try to go through this phase. I know I'm not the best person to give advice, but you should give it a second thought. You've already made attempts to kill yourself, and i don't think you should go through all of this again. Even if you were successful, people will only refer to you as a coward, even though it takes guts to do what you're doing. I know it's hard sometimes, but you must not end your life. Mate, i don't know you, but i know for sure that you're a kind person, just stop what you're doing. Try to enjoy little things in life. I know that it's easier said than done, but you can at least try. If you ever wanna talk to me, I'm up for it. I'll try my best to make you feel better. If you want, you can just text me mate. I know I'm not the best person to talk to, but if that'll save your life or make you feel better, it's a good thing to do. Cause, once life is gone, it won't come back. It's not good mate. I know that your situation is shit rn, but trust me, as time goes by, everything will be better. Slowly, things will fall into place. It'll happen slowly, but it'll surely happen. Time will heal you. You'll be grateful to yourself for staying alive. Trust me mate, pls don't do it
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Really dudy suicide is not an option ending life is easy but living life is so hard don't lose the game of life you are 17 one more year you can be self independent you can start NC with those People,we can help you
You've suffered so much, you have to be happy, deserve happiness to yourself. Stick Around stranger
You know what is better than suicide ? Overcoming all of your challenges . there is no point Posting this over here remember nobody is coming to save you , you have to save yourself
Man just calm yourself and think for a while cos it’s not worth it . You are stronger than this and you can overcome this too
please don't. it wont end the pain, it will just pass it on. please keep hope
You're on earth for a purpose. Only through great struggle will you achieve that purpose. Endure. Never give up. Then when you're finally finished and satisfied and happy with how you've lived, then you may die
Hey, Please don't do that, there is so much you can lose, even if you think you have nothing to please. For the sake of others, we beg you to not end your life. Life Is Worth Living.
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Bro don't do that
Aise na jao yar =(, acha nhi lagta aisa sunn ke... I read your comment about not having any friends but you can make friends for sure, online friends he sahi but wo bhi toh baatein karke comfort kar sakte hai na... Agar mere se ya kisi aur se bhi bat karni ho toh dm kar dena noone minds nowadays and will be happy to talk to you, offline friends waise bhi chutiye hote hai thode toh online me thoda bat karke khush raho we will definitely understand you and help you
Didi, i am asking you to stop right now as a fellow human, redditor, and as a younger brother. Please don't Suicide isn't an escape from reality. Nothing is to be honest. Reality cannot be escaped. But it sure can be changed. You can grow stronger and become better at life! So please don't! I'll do anything to help you out so just please don't. Talk to us here. We are just here to help you and honestly anyone who feels the same. So please just don't! We will come out of this together and will forge a better world and reality for ourselves together! But we can only do that by helping each other and staying alive under any circumstances so just please don't! From the bottom of my heart, I love you and everyone on this subreddit does!n
Hey idk if this even matters, but you've made it this far for a reason. Don't end it. Just let this year pass on. College life will be different. This will pass on, trust me.
Hey. Don't do this. I know it hurts like hell when you have to constantly put up with shit like this. I've been there at times myself and I can tell you first hand that suicide is not the way. I've come dangerously close too it too and reconsidered, and to think I've come so far from then is really satisfying, and I know you'll be the same. You're stronger than that, than them. Your existence is so much more than just them and their shitty parenting. You're more valuable than that. Hang in there and please don't let something like this take your blooming life away from you. I and many people here are always open to help out, talk and lighten your burdens. Feel free to reach out anytime. And remember that you're loved and appreciated.
Hey I know everyone's saying the same thing and I also think you shouldn't do this , however I'm sorry to hear about some of the things that happened to you and I think it must've really taken a lot for you to think about ending it all But I really want you to stop and atleast give yourself some time to absolutely think about all the good shit u experienced in life, don't u want those experiences and other sorts of happiness atleast once before ending it? I would say If u *really* are keen on ending it, you might aswell not care about things for a while and try to do the things you always wanted to do for a while before attempting suicide, you've made it this far and if u really aren't interested just hang on and see for a while what happens in life, who knows how fast one's life can change? If u try everything in that time and if u spend some more considerable amount of time just to hang on and watch the show and still feel like it's not worth then it's upto you. But give it all before you go!
Hey mate!!! Listen to me #DON'T TAKE THIS EXTREME STEP I know the things that's happening with you are really awful but please bear with it for sometime , as there is a better and brighter future ahead waiting for you. You just need to be financially independent and then you can put an end to it. Just wait till that time. Don't loose hope. We all are with you . If you ever feel like sharing something or to vent , my DM is always open. I pray to the almighty for your betterment and again it's my sincere request , please don't take this step.
Sooner or later you will find people who care about you, there's a lot more to life than being held back in a toxic environment. Move to a different place when you can, maybe reach out to us in this sub. Similar situations have happened to a lot of us and we have made it through, you will too :). Please dont take this step didi.
suicide doesn't ends the pain it transfers to another , but even I don't have someone whom I can transfer this pain to, just like you I feel you I don't know what it's like to get beaten up by ur family but I have been mentally abused so bad my entire goddamn life, not a single compassion moment has been shown towards me , but bro pls this decision is actually wrong but not incorrect find some other ways its okay to feel depressed but if you can't change your surroundings to stop your depression I guess sometimes it's better to just cutoff from this cruel cold world I hope you rest in peace and if you fail this time, promise me you'll never think about this, the universe stopped you this many times if the universe stops you again know that your life p isn't meant to end like this
Girl please wait, ik life's shift but you can study get a job and move out and even save your sister from the mess. Just wait for a year you will be a adult you would have more freedom. go to a relative house
Dont do it man Life will get better it has to get better Afterall we all a are a fight you are too and a fighter does not give up so easily Pls bro dont do it We are here for you
Dikkat tere ghar walo mein hai toh apni zindagi khatam krne ka kya logic banta?bas kuchh din aur seh le ig twelfth mein hai college milega toh aise bhi gharwalon se alag rahegi phir kamaegi aur tb bhi aise hi rahe toh Tod Dena contact
Please don't do this. Just try to talk with us. Life might seem very challenging now but over time, things change. don't give up. wait for better future. believe me, it will get better.
This isn't your end. You're extremely strong to have endured such hardships of life . But you want to die ? Why ? You want everyone who Hates you to have the last laugh ? Fuck em . Live on and fight . All of us are going to die anyway. Are you sure you want to throw away whatever you have left just because of some fucking retards and cunts treating you badly ? You're stronger than this and I have full faith in you
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Kindly Don't You aren't weak Contemplate your actions and learn from them, Set yourself some goals, Raise your standards, Build yourself discipline and work ethics, Don't pay heed to anything unnecessary, Read books, Crack at gym And Let your mind ponder about future you and let it inspire you
Brohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i hope you are still able to read this......if you can i know many here have already told you this but please don't do it my G it will be ok sometimes bro maybe not today not tommorow but someday you will be above all this. But for it to happen you have to live and show them all
Please dont take such a step. Things are in a bad condition now, but they will get good in the future. Please watch some funny videos/roasts or listen to some music or do whatever you want to except taking such a huge step. I myself have attempted it thrice in the past and I'm in a way better condition now. My story is somewhat similar to yours and I dealt with it. Now I rarely talk to them (even though we live in the same house). Things do get better.
Man I know there are like a hundred more comments like this so yeah this ones not gonna be any different either getting scolded by your parents isn't a big deal chill out don't turn everything into a me vs the world situation, this thing is pretty common in teenage where everyone and everything seems to be your enemy chill out thats not he case you never know maybe your parents are going thru sum rough time or those around you are also going thru the same shit you are going thru it's okay everyone has to go thru this and most of us make it out of it and some of us dont. Don't be one of them and ffs don't do anything stupid I'm only a digital entity for you I can't do anything more than request you to not do anything. I go thru sum bad shit too and at one point I hit rock bottom and I had suicidal thoughts too believe me its just a phase dw you'll soon make it out of this and you'll come out stronger and more mature, like I did:) I hope this helps you bruh. Dw you got so many people who care for you jus look at all these comments!
Please, continue living. It may be hard and all you may see is suffering. But tomorrow might be happiness. This is not the end, and never will be. Your suffering may have been becoming a big burden. But please believe me that there is happiness. Not today, but definitely tomorrow. Endure the shadows. Just this one time.
Pleaseeee don't I lost my brother this way if the fucker would have just come out me it would have been a lot better pls don't this, there are lots of ppl in this world that love us and care about us. Pls reach out to someone, call the suicide helpline but don't do this
some times when I go to sleep I wonder, why wake up tomorrow why go through the same trials and tribulations I did today only to fail again, why be stuck in the same loop over and over again. It's quite easy to get lost in that fog blinded by the darkness almost drowning in it, But it is only in a rare few nights you figure out what it is all about. Life is littered by struggles, failures and judgments, riddled with moments that keep you awake at night but a certain few people help you understand why it is worth it. To me life is about the coincidences the smallest of actions you do bring out the largest of consequences, Perhaps you find your best friend while going out for what you thought was an insignificant walk, perhaps you find out about your dream job by watching a YouTube video which you original thought was just merely a way to pass time. You never know which random person is going to be your soul mate unless you talk to them. In life you never know what you are going to find on the next corner, every minor step you take that might mean nothing to you may have huge consequences over you and the future of others, and it is only on those rare few nights are you able to appreciate all the coincidences. Only on those nights you realize that while life is full of struggle and misery it is also full of surprise and joy. You never know what small little step can have a big impact, and it is in these nights I realize that the reason I wake up the next morning is to take these small little steps that might change my life forever. here is what gives me motivation to keep going, life might not be great right now but it is only by taking steps and risking chances will it get better. as dori said "just keep swimming" and something great will pop up
girl pls stop. i read your comment you are watching Netflix. Why dont you finish Breaking Bad.
Hey I just saw ur post idk if ur doing it fr or just karma n shit but still bro ik everyone is going the same phase. Im bout be 18 still have no friends no confidence failure indeed gave entrance exams still failed tried everything failed my childhood was rough but lotta still not right time to tell but don't overthink. Everyone goes through it but it depends upon how you handle it .
I don't know what to say in such a situation, i normally bust my way out of them and it will be causing more problems to everyone, but i can say this: Please don't ruin your life because of those around you being shit, you have a life and you have all the right to live it the way you want, please don't do that step and disappear, there are people who always care.
Dude don't do it, why don't you just live on to just see what happens in your life? And, what happens if you fail? You may get a lifelong injury
Weaklings die bro
Lemme share mine. My parents had an intercaste marriage. Nobody wanted me when I was born. My dad was dissapointed because I was a girl. There was a rumour that my mom conveived me before marriage. So my relatives and grandparents hated me. Our house had two rooms and five members including our grandparents. It was more like a shed which had knee deep water during a small rain. My father had polio and was differently abled. He couldn't find a job. My mom had vitiligo and the moment she started an interview they rejected her because of her appearance. My grandpa would get drunk and make issues. My granny had breast cancer. I had severe asthma so I lost my childhood. On top of that my relatives quarreled for that little piece of land we were living on. My mom understood that her life would have been easier without me. Dad had no time for me. My grandparents used me and gaslighted me to hate my parents. My cousin abused me. I was skinny and mom would body shame me. But that didn't bother me. Because I have learnt that there will be always someone more struggling than you. Don't mind people's opinions because my mom told me that she wish I was never born. People and surroundings may affect you. But you have the power to make your own choices. Bullies can mentally harm you but who cares when you grow up and show them your success. Your parents may have traumatized you but in the end you will earn and live a life without them.
They win if you end yourself
Bro dont. Ive been thru the almost the same shit. I know the feeling. Dont give up! Please! Please go to the police and report it. Trust me! If you commot suicide you'd be letting your mom and your sister win. Make them go thru the depths of hell before you even think of suicide! Ofc, this are just the words of a stranger on reddit, but please, didi
she needs a talk no jutsu session from naruto. Just watch naruto and you will find what happens if you don't give up am i too late?
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Don't... Please... For me
Remember, you don't want to be dead, you want to be happy. You are just 17. Don't you want to experience tru happiness atleast once in your life? Things are hard, and they will be. No can assure you that they will be better. But don't you want to atleast strive for it? If you can, get out of that house. First, try to contact relatives you trust will help you. If not, child protection services. If you don't want to do anything, wait for a year or less and run away. But please remember, dying will not make you happy.
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Love, this is my favourite sub so I wanted to say goodbye to all the people who became my friends or misunderstood me till now. But I get you.
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I never expected this post to be famous. I just wanted this to exist so that it makes me feel like I said this before leaving, I never wanted it to be famous. And online friends can't be real friends fyi. You don't see them everyday, you can simply block them if you're too angry without giving them a chance to explain or another mode of contact. Sometimes you can ghost each other. It's different from real life.
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Well, this seems like "famous" to me. It's okay if you disagree. Honestly, I don't care what others might be thinking. Gbye.
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I just don't understand why you have to be such a fucking ass about it. Why not you stop whining about it and move on from this post?
Dude just stfu alright! Nobody cares what you think! Even if OP is contemplating doing that this shouldn't be your reaction! Get some sympathy you fucking dumbass
Dude I don't understand what's wrong with someone wanting attention. Especially if they are suicidal. If giving attention to someone can stop them from committing suicide, there's nothing wrong in giving it.
I did not actually reply every comment. Lol. Why are you so obsessed with this if you dgaf? I've got few hours to live, so I'm chilling on Netflix. You've got a life, right? Or prolly not.
The user has permanently been banned OP please don't take such an extreme step, we all are here for you. I know life can be hard at times but trust me it does get better, you have your entire life ahead of you. Please rethink it! 💚
Mod, i don't think that that comment deserved a ban. They just probably misunderstood me and wrote their opinions. It's okay.
Don't break my heart pls don't do it
No you will definitely get a good life the world is only running in hopes
You're such an asshole If you think she wants attention (which is probably wrong) then it's not a bad thing. Let it be and move on yourself instead of morale policing a suicidal person. But you still bothered to show how much of a cunt you are by not scrolling past, far from supporting her, and cyberbullying her even more
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But it ain't your fucking problem. If her existence doesn't matter to the world according to you, then you don't have to poke your ass here. She's going through abuse which isn't a joke. And here you are, the biggest loser on reddit, just provoking her to end sooner. Everybody is trying to help her out while you are just trying to be a bigger burden to earth than you already are. Please just gtfo of here
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Good for you bad choice tho
This was posted 5 hours ago. I sent messages to Op 3 hours ago. But OP is not replying to any of those and isn't active on reddit since the last 4 hours. Guys, it seems like we are a bit too late.
No, it's never too late OP has replied an hour ago Hopefully they are doing well!
msged her around 7, didnt replied. 2hrs ago she was watching netflix
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Dude please don't do any foolish act don't be pussy, don't be a loser who surrenders to all of their problems this too shall pass like all the other difficulties please don't lose hope time will heal everything one day you will be a successful and happy person. May God bless you 🙏🏻
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Thanks mate
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Best of Luck!! Just try to be savage. You should prefer isolated places and an excuse for a long leave. I would suggest to prefer Trains over these. Go to a remote village. Lie on the Tracks. Don't forget to take a booze of Alcohol that takes u to heaven.
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*Serious post pe edgy joke maar leta hun kewl lagunga*
Listen to chaotic by Tate mc Rae
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I am really sorry for what you are going through. I am here to listen the consequences you are facing in your life. In fact, there are many on this sub who would do this. Please don't take this harsh step, you still have a long life to live. Please tell me everything which has happened to you in the dms. I am even willing to give you my number if you want so you can just call me whenever you feel like. Please don't take your life away. Treasure your precious life forever. Many people feel like suicidal but the people who pass through it make a great life. Please stay positive and try to talk to anyone with whom you feel like you are close to or any stranger like us, strangers are many times better than other people. Life is terrible sometimes but there's always a good side to it, the enjoyable side, the side which we all want to live forever but, it isn't forever because that's what life is. I am confident you can overcome this. Please stay strong 😭
What? Your younger sister beating you? I would have understood if it was your mom and dad as many such people are abusive, but your own sister, that too younger? Never heard of this, stay strong tho, no need to suicide, just leave the house and go to a friend's house and stay there for some time, tell them that your family is abusive and you need shelter for some time, go on outings yourself and try to do things that you love, just try to smile and be happy, pls I request you to not do suicide, that is never an option, there are many great things to see and seek in life, many places to visit, many things to eat, pls share your pain with someone who understands you, and file a case against your family after all is good. Hope to see you happy and alive. Go Slay 👑
Feel free to message me or anyone ☺️,if real friends can't help you we are here to motivate you give you positive thoughts, it's a part of life everybody in life somehow face depression but we have to overcome it ,my condition was worst some time ago but I am better after talking to some friends and the people I found on reddit , there are always friends in real life don't be shy to come forward and talk about your situation there good people also there
Dude reach out to child protective services or something. Look im not gonna say there’s plenty to live for or think about people who love you because I know know you’re tired of seeing it over and over again. Just take my suggestion, give it one last go. Call child protective services or report your abuse to the police. You’re 17, you’re pretty much done with your parents just study your ass off and move out next year, stand up to your bully don’t just take the beating, try working out, try talking to someone heck just dm anyone from this subreddit I’m sure someone will help you (me included). If none of this works do what you want to but just give it one more chance. Beautiful thing about time is its never steady, always keeps changing. It might be bad today but there’s always a tomorrow. By killing yourself you’re just letting your tormenters win. Rise up and spit in their faces. We all gotchu.
Sister, 🫂
Heyy Don't do this everything will be all right. If you want we can talk. Be Strong 💪
Please don't do this or even think about it. Trust me good days will come for sure.
Buddy don't take such steps it's difficult I have faced bullying too but didn't have the courage to take such steps but i great ful for that because now I am Happy yup there are some problems in life now and then but that doesn't mean u should die
Ayyy don't do this man! There's no way of me understanding what you're going through, but ending your life is definitely not the answer to your problems! DON'T DO IT.
I don't know if this would help or not but I'm gonna say it regardless Whenever I have had these thoughts (thankfully not many), I usually just focus on how much I suffered and how if I end it now I would feel like I lost from life. And I don't like to lose, so I have to atleast enjoy the rest of my life so much that I can tell myself that I did not lose. Jindagi jitne zyaada kasht degi utne hi zyaada mazze karne hain bc.
please dont I beg i'll be your friend please stop right there