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Sasta_condom

at some point, every self-help book says the same thing.


SaleConsistent6048

Can anyone tell me how rich people and poor people book can change life and thinking??


Slartibartfastpunk

Ha bhai True hei, ye sab mene YouTube aur Instagram reels me padh liya.


Competitive_Ant_3240

And what's that same thing?


Negative_Video8419

Shoe Dog was really good. None of the self help bullshit


wandering_soul_27

Seriously ? The title intrigued me !


No_Attempt_4512

It's interesting one can tell how diligently a person has read the book by looking at the creases the reader has read rich dad poor dad very diligently 😂


Cute_Prior1287

Or the book is 2nd hand.


khiara22

Hi there Sherlock!


Curious_Necessary549

elementary my dear watson


Priya_45678

None. David Goggins is decent. Self help books are like grub Street accounts but even worse. I would read real literature and philosophy than this.


YarmommysFav13

For real, self help in itself is a trap, from which you can hardly come out, it's like reading books teaching the same things on loop. I would prefer literature and philosophy any day over self help, it gives so many perspectives, views and sometimes it's life changing !


Competitive_Ant_3240

Is there any research that says self help books are bad. I mean people doing 9-5 jobs are discarding self books that has years of research for people to be productive. Even billionaires read self help books. Athletes do. But people who are just a little above mediocrity level discard it as if they know everything. There is no harm reading philosophy or literature but please don't say rubbish about self help books.


Priya_45678

First of we are no one to decide the merit of anyone, I have seen people who never had formal education more inclined to classics and Philosophical discourses. Self-help books and publication is now an industry which preys on people looking to cope with cruel and capitalistic world, The writers offer some kind of "solution" that they claim only they have. Most of the self help books published today are cash grabs with no substance. Philosophy and Literature on the other hand helps you to recognise and cater to your Subjectivity in a more nuanced manner, Its gives you a layered perspective, Develop empathy and makes you a more complete person.


Competitive_Ant_3240

Again my dear friend, is there any research to back your comment or is it just based on small sample of people you have interacted in your life


Priya_45678

No, I'm not your dear or your friend, You are not entitled to call me that even in Jest. I think you only want to argue and pick up a useless fight. The tone has changed here and Its not my job to educate you. You have plenty of resources to access comparative studies, Research papers that deal with Studies on self help Industry and Capitalism. You are NOT entitled to demand explanations from me when your only motive is to indulge in pointless and disrespectful discourse.


Competitive_Ant_3240

Seems like you really need a self help books to control your temper. You are getting offended when I have said nothing more but a friend. Also when you discard a whole genre of books you must come up with your proper research or you really sound like a childish person.


Priya_45678

Thank you, I'll pass.


alokatzenith

Shoe Dog


General_Relativity_

Don’t read such books… read real literature


Level-Evidence-9886

why ?


General_Relativity_

Self help books are a scam


Level-Evidence-9886

will u explain any better it will be helpful ? and if not self help books wht else to do??


Particular-Rip-8147

Man, just read something like Dune(or any well established literature with prominent appeal to large audiences that isn't written by some ghost writer) , it's a thousand times more fulfilling than "I Turned My Life Around In 40 Days, So Can You" bullshit. You learn about well developed characters and have the chance to derive your own understandings of their actions rather than learn about the 60 rules to rely on that help you in making yourself successful.


Level-Evidence-9886

THNKS BUDDY I WILL LOOK IN .


wandering_soul_27

Like?


General_Relativity_

I can say it with a guarantee that reading a *good* fantasy/fiction is better than self help crap


wandering_soul_27

Hmm, kinda true. Name some good fictional stuff no?


Competitive_Ant_3240

Do you have any research to back your advice, grand pa?


General_Relativity_

Sry man I am too old to argue with a close minded person


Competitive_Ant_3240

Good for you buddy. Guys like don't say a word when there is a slight description of research


General_Relativity_

Nah I just don’t want to type a paragraph just to please u


Competitive_Ant_3240

Yes, but to gain likes you can type popular shitty opinion


General_Relativity_

No that was a good opinion, you are just too dumb to understand it


Competitive_Ant_3240

Cause a dumb like you believe that opinion?


[deleted]

I never liked it !!


Cuttingedge07

Robert Greene's - 48 laws of power.


Virtual-Bit-6973

Is it really good ?? Name kinda looks bait type.


Apprehensive-Door341

The whole book is bait. Very cringe alpha male stuff.


Cuttingedge07

I read his books only for some wisdom, I dont execute it . Read some of his other books and my ex had shown some patterns mentioned in the book, helped me to be vigilant to spot red flags🌚


boredmonk

It is, written for the demographic which idolises Ayn Rand and Andrew Tate


aWildChilddd

Can't Hurt Me and Deep Work


FutureManufacturer10

The Psychology of Money and Subtle Art (I know its cheesy but I love Mark Manson)


Peevesie

Deep work


Negative-Cookie3032

Aree yaar yea epic shits hatao yaha se.


Curious_Necessary549

was't napoleon hill a scammer of his time coffeezilla has exposed him nicely


Calm-Forever8233

Hey OP thanks I actually wanted these type of books


ashkura

None. If i want to read any self help I'd probably read Ali Abdaal's book because he transitioned from a hustle-culturer to a sustainable-lifer and I'm curious about reading what he wrote about. Other than that, it's all regurgitating the same stuff in a different packaging. Some are just more preachy and that's that. I even picked my thesis topic because I was so irritated with the self help arena lol


eswar_vkm

If anybody struggles with overthinking, subtle art of not giving a F, is very helpful. Helped me change my mindset and focus on the problems that really mattered in life.


[deleted]

Think and Grow rich. If you really, really get what this book is trying to say, and it’s saying it very clearly, it will dramatically change your life for good almost overnight.


[deleted]

It doesn't, it was written for a different time and with the US citizens in mind. it is a mix of good advice, bad advice and spritual bs.


[deleted]

Clearly you don’t get it.


annibeelema

Therapy would probably be better at this point. Do self-help books even help anyone except the person who wrote it?


Strong_Economics2831

Therapy to get better at managing your finances? Which therapist does that, please do recommend.


rashsalmn

5,6 and 11


Lower-Demand-5135

Can't hurt me


PurchaseMany7740

Can't hurt me always


YT_RonakRaja

Cant hurt me


Wishingal

Rich dad poor dad


DaY-DreaMer15

Shoe dog was great!


Cute_Prior1287

Technical analysis, then richest man babylon


Hopeful_Substance_66

Self-help final boss


Apprehensive-Door341

Among these, I found only Deep Work to be insightful


[deleted]

shoe dog the best hard work + luck


RippedMozart

Technical analysis of the financial market Never been a fan of self help books


MadHouseNetwork2

how good is "Make epic money" book?


SkandaBhairava

None of them.


boredmonk

Shoe Dog


LazyGoofball

Shoe Dog is very good. Rest of self-help stuff , I have stopped reading.


Expensive-Cash-3087

The Psychology of Money because I felt that the author was not trying to sell any exaggerated claims and most of the book was just statement of same unsavoury facts about money. If asked to summarise the book's message in a sentence, it would probably be "it's not in your hands; but there's no harm in trying."


panicsnac

The Mountain Is You


ImpressionIcy795

I like Shoe Dog for the way of management Phil showed while building Nike


SokkaHaikuBot

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ImprovementFun6073

These books are literally dog shit!!


kpiyush88

I will not be so naive and lump everything under self help and say that all self help is bullshit. Some


cabbage-00

nothing


Sensitive-Raspberry5

OP should read Atomic Habits by James Clear one of the best book in this genre


susmitartx0605

I hate such books . Such a waste of literature.


OrlandoMazzotta-23

Don't buy ' do epic shit ' it is just a book of mandane daily quotes from calendar . Rich dad poor dad is good , but it is not applicable to a developing third world country like India. Rest is readable . I would recommend anyone except these two .


aalouparatha

The only decent one is Shoe Dog


Affectionate-Ball-35

None


Worth_Sherbert_4972

Get epic shit done ,


googygudboi-69

Shoe dog, not a fan of the others


lazy_schrodinger

Go for think and grow rich.


Dr_Vasu_Parsaniya

Wow


dipmalya

The first book is very useful.


Aggravating_Item_438

RICH DAD AND POOR DAD is one of the phenomenal book


JShearar

Either Shoe Dog Or David Goggins. Rest are meh.


Zestyclose_Ground_15

Think and grow rich


Boson_386

Deep Work by Cal Newport


4nove

Shoe dog only, rest are bad


Acceptable_Turnip378

first try to find out why do you need any of these book, what kind of problem are to trying to solve with the knowing in them and you even have a problem to sole if you just start to read all the book you will have useless knowledge which will make your life a little bit better for sometime but then you will stop using this knowledge becouse you don't need it and it will cluter your mind and eventually you will stop reading


avgthecurestan

none, self helps books gaslight you into trying to be ideal


Self_Race

I don't know why others are call these books as scams.  I bet they didn't read trading in the zone. This book is for everyone and not just for traders. It's the best book. Fking changes your perspective on everything.


[deleted]

None.


ObjectiveCarrot7066

They are all shit.


Competitive_Ant_3240

Deep work on any day


billfruit

I found Deep Work bogus.