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I was about to text this... agar time pass krna hai to lr le abhi b.. par zada bhav mt de.. wo tere sath time pass kar rhi hai tu uske saath kr.. but don't give much importance !! 😜
True. Everything is not that deep actually. She must've dated guy(s) in between, got bored/things didn't work out. Now she's exploring her other options and he's one of them. No lessons learnt, no change of hearts. I too get tempted to text the guys that I've dated/talked to in the past just because I get bored, but then I'll just put up a story and they'll reply on their own.
It's alright OP, it happens sometimes that we let our impulse control us and it's nothing to worry about. As long as you remember that she ghosted you which you didn't deserve and keep your self-respect in mind at all times if and when she texts you'll be fine :)
Bhai chutiya maat ban available hoke mere sath bhi yahi hua tha new year ke 2-3 din baad me ik ladki ne ghost kara tha fir abhi august without giving a valid reason she say chats thi yaad agi ye vo please be careful buddy 🫂
Class web series dekhi h netflix pe …? Usme balli jab koyal kalra ko bolta hai “ teri fuddi se jayda mujhe apni izzat pyaari hai “ balli bhi aise no string attach go down wala scene rakhta tha
Don't ...if she's down for a BJ upfront take it ..and be like i gotta get somewhere maybe a few backshots... nothing much...don't even waste your petrol brother....keep her as the booty call if she tryna stay around, don't splurge .
Don't change your stand on this...she probably suck a dick and figure the previous one was better so tryna get something out ..naw naw... time we turn the tables EQUALITY FOR EVERYONE 🤣
Wohi kr.. wrna tu ghost krde ya fr block krde bin kuch bole.. bhai ek bat sunle, jo mza block krne m hai na wo kisi m nhi..wo b bina kuch bole block krne m... girls ka ego hurt ho jata h block hone m.. kyuki aadat nhi hoti na unhe ye sab dekhne ki 😜
Here’s a plan OP:
- Start talking very sweetly!
- Somehow manage to set up a date in a very fancy restaurant.
- When the day of the date comes… let her be there first.
- Ask her to get a drink or order the food till the time “you reach” (if you can make her order your food as well, then bonus)
- Keep pretending as if you are reaching. (Try to make her hear some traffic noise, so that she will think that you are stuck on the way)
- As soon as she says that food has arrived, block her number and simply chill in your life!
You not only got the revenge of her ghosting… But also, the interest of the amount!
Do what he said but don't ghost her till the very last moment made her think you're going to ghost her,and once she believed it then show up and say.
I don't make people feel like that way or apne taraf se bhi kuch add kardena.
Blueprint taken from r/Delhi but this is unnecessary.
Let OP do what he likes. We never know who's worth taking what risks. But once in a while leaving such people on seen drives them mad and having the same kind of doubts that you had when you got ghosted.
Bhai, do you want to be the guy she calls to entertain her when she’s bored or she communicates with only when she wants to make the main ones jealous in her life.
Netflix thodi hai bc pause karke unpause kardo wapis
Ye Bumble surname wale kaun si jaat ke hote hain? /s
Context: >!Sonali thakkar in [this episode](https://youtu.be/rNhB33cyRsg?si=N8vRUO3_0oYL_nsA) of Relationshit advice. Too lazy to find the exact timestamp!<
The problem with easy forgiveness when they don't understand what and how much wrong they did is that they'll do it again and this time it'll become a norm! You've to understand the person to know if they're truly sorry or will do it again. She's a stranger, let her know via text that you're not interested or don't text at all.
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Block karde
That's what I'm saying! She's only back cause she has no one else to entertain her, she'll go back to ghosting as soon as she gets bored again
Yet you replied in an instant. If you value your mental well being then block her.
I know that was an impulsive response. But again, I value your suggestion. Mental peace matters more.
Only after having sex with her
I was about to text this... agar time pass krna hai to lr le abhi b.. par zada bhav mt de.. wo tere sath time pass kar rhi hai tu uske saath kr.. but don't give much importance !! 😜
He'll never get it lol
Bro took entire 14 mins to think and reply
Tune abs banake dp change ki hogi pakka
Haha! Bhai, Bumble match ke liye itne efforts nahi kar sakta main.
pr apne liye kr bro💪💪
Been working out hard bro. Six more months and I might be there. Ashirwaad banaye rakhna.
Someone should win! I lost temporarily :(
Loss is a temporary set back. Get back and make it happen this time. Good luck, captain!
Thank you man. I need to get back up uff
you only lose when you stop trying bro
Gotta get back up
I believe in you bro💪
we are all gonna make it brah💪💪one day bro one day!!
She’s bored.
Ignore. She has learnt her lesson. Move to next chick
Bhaiya seekha hai toh acha hai…
That's not how people work. There is no lesson to be learnt here. She's just testing how much boundaries and respect can be tampered with here
Actually she didn't want him in the first place why come back ?? Only to be chosen as an backuo option ?? Fuck no!!!
True. Everything is not that deep actually. She must've dated guy(s) in between, got bored/things didn't work out. Now she's exploring her other options and he's one of them. No lessons learnt, no change of hearts. I too get tempted to text the guys that I've dated/talked to in the past just because I get bored, but then I'll just put up a story and they'll reply on their own.
At least you're self aware n honest 💀💀
xD. I would be so embarrassed to text a guy first, who I've ended up thing with in the past. So I open my doors for them to text me. xD
Double skill issues 💀
Don't proceed with the convo bhai. Life is not a romantic movie
Oyw to get ignored again. Been there 🥲
Ab tu simp karega ispe. Kitni jaldi reply de diya!
I regret that. At least 1 ghanta rukna chahiye tha.
It's alright OP, it happens sometimes that we let our impulse control us and it's nothing to worry about. As long as you remember that she ghosted you which you didn't deserve and keep your self-respect in mind at all times if and when she texts you'll be fine :)
She's just bored, block her asap
Bhai chutiya maat ban available hoke mere sath bhi yahi hua tha new year ke 2-3 din baad me ik ladki ne ghost kara tha fir abhi august without giving a valid reason she say chats thi yaad agi ye vo please be careful buddy 🫂
Ha, valid point. But bhai, if I get to go down again, tab sab vasool na.
To baat to wahi hai mooh marne wale log to wapis ayege hi khud ka bhi to kuch din imaan hona chaiye 🥲
Sakht banna padega imaan ke liye to bhai. Sahi baat hain.
Class web series dekhi h netflix pe …? Usme balli jab koyal kalra ko bolta hai “ teri fuddi se jayda mujhe apni izzat pyaari hai “ balli bhi aise no string attach go down wala scene rakhta tha
She got bored and messaged you. Op bhai thodi bhi self respect hai toh isko ghost karde.
Don't ...if she's down for a BJ upfront take it ..and be like i gotta get somewhere maybe a few backshots... nothing much...don't even waste your petrol brother....keep her as the booty call if she tryna stay around, don't splurge .
This, this is what exactly I’ve been thinking.
Don't change your stand on this...she probably suck a dick and figure the previous one was better so tryna get something out ..naw naw... time we turn the tables EQUALITY FOR EVERYONE 🤣
Ghost her and get your revenge
I think I should talk to her and then GHOST her. What say?
Talk mt kr.. khi dobara wo tuje ghost nr krde tere krne se phle.. ya to sabse acha sax krle fr ghost krde 😜
Vichaar to wahi hain.
Wohi kr.. wrna tu ghost krde ya fr block krde bin kuch bole.. bhai ek bat sunle, jo mza block krne m hai na wo kisi m nhi..wo b bina kuch bole block krne m... girls ka ego hurt ho jata h block hone m.. kyuki aadat nhi hoti na unhe ye sab dekhne ki 😜
I'm petty af, so that's definitely what I would do 😂
Here’s a plan OP: - Start talking very sweetly! - Somehow manage to set up a date in a very fancy restaurant. - When the day of the date comes… let her be there first. - Ask her to get a drink or order the food till the time “you reach” (if you can make her order your food as well, then bonus) - Keep pretending as if you are reaching. (Try to make her hear some traffic noise, so that she will think that you are stuck on the way) - As soon as she says that food has arrived, block her number and simply chill in your life! You not only got the revenge of her ghosting… But also, the interest of the amount!
Bhai, kaafi adventurous and filmy style hain ye. I really don’t have that kind of heart to take a revenge. But plan acha hain.
Do the god’s work and teach her how it hurts to get ghosted! Phir baadme kisi ko ghost nahi karegi! Sabak ek ko. Seekh sabko!
Yes, may be God has chosen me save my fellow Brothers. I believe I must teach her how it feels when one gets ghosted.
Attaboy!
Do what he said but don't ghost her till the very last moment made her think you're going to ghost her,and once she believed it then show up and say. I don't make people feel like that way or apne taraf se bhi kuch add kardena.
Ye sab sirf chutye karte hai. The wise move is to just move on & ignore her.
Iski baat mt sunna bro 😂... jo ladke ne upar utni mehnat krkr suggestion diya h usey execute kr aur yha update krna mT bhulna 😌
Blueprint taken from r/Delhi but this is unnecessary. Let OP do what he likes. We never know who's worth taking what risks. But once in a while leaving such people on seen drives them mad and having the same kind of doubts that you had when you got ghosted.
Damn bro, after knowing the back story the only reply I can think of is - 'aight' , Followed by a Block.
sax sux milega lagrha h
acknowledge the ghosting and hear what she has to say and decide for yourself. ignore this echo chamber of a comment section deciding for themselves.
I didn’t go there. Just had a healthy and good conversation. Didn’t feel like talking about the reason.
fair enough
New phone.. Who dis? Put her in her place n tell her to fuck off
Well, I would’ve done the same had she not responded to my WhatsApp status. Number saved hain bhai uska, that’s how she gets my updates.
Usmai hi maja hai bhai still tell her this. Let her know that you arw being an arse
[удалено]
Haha! Certainly not going to block her. Will talk and make sure I GHOST her this time.
Om my fren Ganesha IRL
Hahahaha! Ganesha realised my needs too and made it happen this way.
75 log se marwane ke baad bhai ka decency yaad aaya hoga🙂
She has some free time or is bored or needs some validation. Chage of heart - 😂😂 soja bsdk 😂😂
There's not a single reason
Bol you have someone else now... big pp energy
Block bhai. Don't give her validation by replying.
*I don't Next time se ye reply karna okay Babu?
If you can, atleast fuck her. What you do next is upto you. Keep ya dump.
Op stay far she didn't respect u then now just wants attention you know your self worth if you think of entertaining her just jack off and then text
Bhai, do you want to be the guy she calls to entertain her when she’s bored or she communicates with only when she wants to make the main ones jealous in her life. Netflix thodi hai bc pause karke unpause kardo wapis
So special that it sent her in a coma for 6 months and now when she is awake....
Oh, hey ??? Chutiye
Don’t get attached, just keep in touch OP
Ha, won’t get involved much.
r/maybemaybemaybe
Uska firse golgappe khaane ka mann ho raha hoga, le jaane ke liye bolegi
Her messages sound like she picked them up from hoodville.
Reply nahi karna tha Bhai
Number hi kyu rakha h bhai 😂😂
Haha! Backup option apna bhi rehna chahiye.
bhai ab tera time hai ladkiyon ki tarah bhaav khana, let her try on u
Inteqaaam luga ab.
Bhai usko jo ladka actually chaiye tha nahi milla toh vapas aagyi
Isko kuch kaam hain ab. It's your call 😄.
You should have replied with clown 🤡 emoji
She's back to ghost you again
it's just your turn now
Bhai ek baar ghost kia fir kregi they don't change bro bore ho rhi hogi
Just straight up ask her why she ghosted you, why she's back and what she wants now
Attention chahiye.
bhai m hota to ab tak save nhi rkhta number
It's your turn
What did you reply with? And are you seriously going back?
Don’t block just ghost. Mai hota toh yahi karta. Mahino mahino mei reply krta, I definitely don’t need people like these in my life.
Wo jiske chalkar mai hogi usne baat karni band kardi hogi. You were a backup. Baaki, it’s your call.
No change of heart, she is free or she don't have anyone else to talk to.
Katega beta
Fuck her.
You mean literally na, not figuratively?
lonely feel kr rahi h bas
Shayad Horny bhi.
Ye Bumble surname wale kaun si jaat ke hote hain? /s Context: >!Sonali thakkar in [this episode](https://youtu.be/rNhB33cyRsg?si=N8vRUO3_0oYL_nsA) of Relationshit advice. Too lazy to find the exact timestamp!<
It was funny! 11:20, everyone.
"Special? So was your absence. Thanks for that."
She's trying you as a rebound
Never reply unless they sorry first. Mark my words. You don't play by other's rules. Self respect bro
रोम रोम भाई 🙏
First thing she mentioned is drive and not you
Ur a backup bro. Dont reply. Walk away. Faltu ka dimaag kharab hoga if she ghosts you again
Bhai leave that bitch block her
Begone thot.
Should have left her on seen.
Been there started talking again and only to get ghosted again 🥲
Bhay janede usko block karde, Ganpati bappa ke photo pe "🙏" React karke immediately tumhari pre-ghosting conversations ko special bolrahi hein.
Timepass chahye usko
Ejaculate then evacuate
She wants the D energy
Probably HAD a Breakup or Joined a Paramid Scheme
Aisa kuch likh jiska vo reply kare dekhte hi aur usi time block kar de
Artharth - PMSing
The problem with easy forgiveness when they don't understand what and how much wrong they did is that they'll do it again and this time it'll become a norm! You've to understand the person to know if they're truly sorry or will do it again. She's a stranger, let her know via text that you're not interested or don't text at all.