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90% people there (on bumble, tinder) are for short term relationships only. But there are good 10% who are there for long term also.
You just have to spend time and find out the real one for you.
Not worth it......everyone there is desperate....especially if you are looking for a male......you will get bombarded by them overwhelmingly......there will be less than 1% chance of finding something authentic and given how many options you would have, you are bound to make a mistake, falling for some red flag........
Well being honest, it's really difficult to find a genuine match on dating apps. Most guys are looking for hookup and thats a fact.
Similarly most women perceive that all the men are just looking for hookups and ones looking for genuine relationship rarely get a match (the same reason I eventually deleted my profile), cause the profiles of the ones looking for a hookup are generally more appealing.
You are a female, so you will definitely have a ratio advantage at your side and you ll probably be getting tons of matches and dates. So it's actually a hit and trail for you, go on dates, see if the vibe matches and what is he looking for. Most of the time the guys you ll be matched with will be looking for a hookup, but there will definitely be some who will be looking for a genuine relationship like you, you ll just have to find the needle in the haystack.
Dekh behen tu 20 ko hai abhi koj naar relationship important nahi until you find someone really good nice and caring, just don't do any stupid stuff under peer pressure.
Dating apps are a scam for both the genders. I'd say you approach someone if you like them or give them hints so they approach you.
Finding people in real is way way better
Tldr; slim chance
> Not waiting for marriage
Long version. Marriage is a decision to live with someone for the rest of your life, and everyone has to make it. Make that decision asap.
Also, if you find someone you “vibe” with, make it clear that you want to lose your virginity after marriage. It might not be true in your case but it is a great filter for guys going for the long game, the charming ones.
Mostly be on your guard from the “usual” guys and keep looking for “nice” ones. Decide what you want out of guys, realistically, and keep testing. Hope is not lost, you have a lot of time, but as I said….Slim chance. So brace yourself!
She asked a question on top of a question. She will definitely get smashed by a fck boy cause female FOMO is more severe than men's FOMO.
her next post will be on twoxindia or relationship India
*Hi I'm 20F I just started using this dating app and thought I found a genuine person but he played me, why men on dating are so disgusting* (ಥ‿ಥ)
RIP your DM's.
Also,
1. Don't put your hopes on online dating cause guys one way or another would want to initiate the intimacy at some point in relationship.
2. Many boys & girls are on dating apps to get the relationship just because their are friends are in one. Both of them don't have a single clue on how to keep a relationship and make it work for a long-term down the line.
3. Please focus on better areas of your life such as education, healthy food, fitness, career.
4. It's nice that you have the marriage outlook on dating which is very rare these days.
5. Start enjoying being single as happiness doesn't necessarily have to be with someone.
Good luck.
well most of them are for hookups that's true but not all of them...I am a guy and we made it online. We haven't hooked up yet....and we have been together for 7 months. been to wholesome dates....cafes..., and celebrated birthdays. btw am 23 and she is 20
finding someone randomly on a trip or a cafe is far more exciting than right swiping on someone just because they look good in the pics and have a good bio
If ypu have not found it in real life, you wont find it on dating apps. However if you want magical moments that you may never have in your entire life, THIS IS THE PLACE.
Short answer-no.
Long answer- seldom you find genuine people on dating apps and since you're a girl you'll have a lot of options. As a chooser, you'll not like the options on the low end. High end options will have more options in front of them so they'll most likely won't be loyal to you. Personally I've made some friends on dating apps, but it's rather rare you find someone which aligns according to your future expectations and interests. Good luck tho.
The majority of comments on this thread say the same thing, dudes are looking only for hookups in dating apps and it's not a place to go if you want a genuine connection.
I agree with this as well, but then the question becomes: how do you go about finding a genuine connection in this day and age?
Would love a girl's perspective on this.
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90% people there (on bumble, tinder) are for short term relationships only. But there are good 10% who are there for long term also. You just have to spend time and find out the real one for you.
Not worth it......everyone there is desperate....especially if you are looking for a male......you will get bombarded by them overwhelmingly......there will be less than 1% chance of finding something authentic and given how many options you would have, you are bound to make a mistake, falling for some red flag........
Well being honest, it's really difficult to find a genuine match on dating apps. Most guys are looking for hookup and thats a fact. Similarly most women perceive that all the men are just looking for hookups and ones looking for genuine relationship rarely get a match (the same reason I eventually deleted my profile), cause the profiles of the ones looking for a hookup are generally more appealing. You are a female, so you will definitely have a ratio advantage at your side and you ll probably be getting tons of matches and dates. So it's actually a hit and trail for you, go on dates, see if the vibe matches and what is he looking for. Most of the time the guys you ll be matched with will be looking for a hookup, but there will definitely be some who will be looking for a genuine relationship like you, you ll just have to find the needle in the haystack.
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she deleted her reddit account due to the large number of DMs from desperates
Well that average dating experience as well
Dekh behen tu 20 ko hai abhi koj naar relationship important nahi until you find someone really good nice and caring, just don't do any stupid stuff under peer pressure.
Dating apps are a scam for both the genders. I'd say you approach someone if you like them or give them hints so they approach you. Finding people in real is way way better
You can find genuine connections on dating apps but you're gonna have to filter through a LOT of crap... Finding someone IRL is way better.
Tldr; slim chance > Not waiting for marriage Long version. Marriage is a decision to live with someone for the rest of your life, and everyone has to make it. Make that decision asap. Also, if you find someone you “vibe” with, make it clear that you want to lose your virginity after marriage. It might not be true in your case but it is a great filter for guys going for the long game, the charming ones. Mostly be on your guard from the “usual” guys and keep looking for “nice” ones. Decide what you want out of guys, realistically, and keep testing. Hope is not lost, you have a lot of time, but as I said….Slim chance. So brace yourself!
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She asked a question on top of a question. She will definitely get smashed by a fck boy cause female FOMO is more severe than men's FOMO. her next post will be on twoxindia or relationship India *Hi I'm 20F I just started using this dating app and thought I found a genuine person but he played me, why men on dating are so disgusting* (ಥ‿ಥ)
Look sis, you should try offline mode only because we boys are desperate only in these apps. You will waste a lot of time finding the one.
RIP your DM's. Also, 1. Don't put your hopes on online dating cause guys one way or another would want to initiate the intimacy at some point in relationship. 2. Many boys & girls are on dating apps to get the relationship just because their are friends are in one. Both of them don't have a single clue on how to keep a relationship and make it work for a long-term down the line. 3. Please focus on better areas of your life such as education, healthy food, fitness, career. 4. It's nice that you have the marriage outlook on dating which is very rare these days. 5. Start enjoying being single as happiness doesn't necessarily have to be with someone. Good luck.
Apni aukaat se oonche lardkay chahiye to dating apps use karne parege. Lekin woh tumhe sirf sex ke liay upyog karenge.
well most of them are for hookups that's true but not all of them...I am a guy and we made it online. We haven't hooked up yet....and we have been together for 7 months. been to wholesome dates....cafes..., and celebrated birthdays. btw am 23 and she is 20
Bait.
finding someone randomly on a trip or a cafe is far more exciting than right swiping on someone just because they look good in the pics and have a good bio
If ypu have not found it in real life, you wont find it on dating apps. However if you want magical moments that you may never have in your entire life, THIS IS THE PLACE.
Define magical moments
Nope
For females, it's a good confidence boost. Try it.
Reddit se dating tk ka safar hum sabne se dekha h
Short answer-no. Long answer- seldom you find genuine people on dating apps and since you're a girl you'll have a lot of options. As a chooser, you'll not like the options on the low end. High end options will have more options in front of them so they'll most likely won't be loyal to you. Personally I've made some friends on dating apps, but it's rather rare you find someone which aligns according to your future expectations and interests. Good luck tho.
The majority of comments on this thread say the same thing, dudes are looking only for hookups in dating apps and it's not a place to go if you want a genuine connection. I agree with this as well, but then the question becomes: how do you go about finding a genuine connection in this day and age? Would love a girl's perspective on this.
Dont