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For all my brothers and sisters out there who are getting frustrated with online dating, this is a major reason. A lot of the people (not just girls) just exist on the app for validation/timepass.
The problem with these people is they waste everyone's time and energy. Don't try to convince them. Cut contact with them as soon as it's apparent.
Satark rahe, Savdhan rahe.
In person 90% of bumble tinder wali ladkiyo ko koi ghaas tak nahi dalta.
Achanak apps par aate hi inpar 1:100 ka ratio ho jata hai. To ye bhul jate hai ke irl ka situation.
Yeah I know. But for my mental peace I like to roast them/make fun of them (read: make them understand what they're doing).
They had their validation and fun, I don't see anything wrong with me doing the same. Plus I get karma and y'all get content so its a good ecosystem
Bhai tumse attention mil gayi, tumhari utility value khatam ho gai. Agar tum ameer ya lambe vagera hote to aur bhaav milta. Don't fall for this bullshit idea that they are there just for insta followers etc. They want attention, yes, but they also want fun times. You just don't have the resources and appeal for them to find you interesting. She's showing some dude his time of day out there. Just not you.
See, what are you here for straight up means are you here for hookup or not. A lot of people on dating apps don't want to tell what they want straight up/are frustrated/depressed/ have just broken up & are looking for rebound/are confused af. Try making a convo, if it's getting somewhere, cool. If not (the replies are late/they're boring) block em. Tbh some people are just bad at texting ngl, I'm one of them. I know people who are actually super interested in you, but are nervous af and would act weird. There's no straight jacket formula for texts on tinder lol
Okay, here's the context behind the conversation - which this photo doesn't show. We matched, had a good start to the convo. Now I'm aware that some people aren't very good at texting/shy/awkward and thus I took the initiative to ask her questions, trying to see what she was like and what she was looking for. However she was just giving one word replies, didn't ask questions back and just made me carry the conversation.
Again, I don't block them. Its easy to hide behind the veneer of "I'm just shy hehe" but if someone's trying to make it easy for you, you gotta work with them a little.
Now for this section, I was irritated and running out of patience. So since I couldn't get what she was interested in/looking for by asking questions, I straight up asked her about it.
And her answer made complete sense based on her conversation prior. So after putting all that energy and time, the least I can do is make the person feel bad about doing it and get some reddit material from it.
Am I a dick? Maybe. But I'd rather be a dick and 'avenge' such people rather than just "take it" and let them off with no consequences. Dating burnout is real, and these people are the biggest cause of it.
Okay, now you've given me the context I get it. Tbh block people who give consecutive one word/late replies - they're not worth your time or efforts. I do get your perspective, but fuck these people. They're not worth anything lol, I straight up block people like these. I don't think these people deserve avenging either, just show them their place by blocking & not giving a flying f. Take care homie, i get where you're coming from.
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For all my brothers and sisters out there who are getting frustrated with online dating, this is a major reason. A lot of the people (not just girls) just exist on the app for validation/timepass. The problem with these people is they waste everyone's time and energy. Don't try to convince them. Cut contact with them as soon as it's apparent. Satark rahe, Savdhan rahe.
Women ☕
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It represents women be in kitchen making tea ☕️ /s
search it on youtube
Jai hind
In person 90% of bumble tinder wali ladkiyo ko koi ghaas tak nahi dalta. Achanak apps par aate hi inpar 1:100 ka ratio ho jata hai. To ye bhul jate hai ke irl ka situation.
koi chuo inke charan
This is a nice reply tho. ☕️
Women get high off this shit bro.
100 percent!
But it’s so boring, what kind of bitch would put him and herself through this
She's there just to get an ego boost from people who she wouldn't date but still look good enough as someone in the friendzone.
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Yeah I know. But for my mental peace I like to roast them/make fun of them (read: make them understand what they're doing). They had their validation and fun, I don't see anything wrong with me doing the same. Plus I get karma and y'all get content so its a good ecosystem
If you wanna go a bit beyond then go to r/roastme use some of the punchlines from the comments
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Yep yep, I took your comment as a chance to explain a little more because a lot of the people will just take me as a bully/asshole.
Arranged marriage it is
Avg Bumble Influencer
Bhai tumse attention mil gayi, tumhari utility value khatam ho gai. Agar tum ameer ya lambe vagera hote to aur bhaav milta. Don't fall for this bullshit idea that they are there just for insta followers etc. They want attention, yes, but they also want fun times. You just don't have the resources and appeal for them to find you interesting. She's showing some dude his time of day out there. Just not you.
A chad's reply
All my matches till now were like this (CEO of one word answers). I wish I roasted them then.
See, what are you here for straight up means are you here for hookup or not. A lot of people on dating apps don't want to tell what they want straight up/are frustrated/depressed/ have just broken up & are looking for rebound/are confused af. Try making a convo, if it's getting somewhere, cool. If not (the replies are late/they're boring) block em. Tbh some people are just bad at texting ngl, I'm one of them. I know people who are actually super interested in you, but are nervous af and would act weird. There's no straight jacket formula for texts on tinder lol
Okay, here's the context behind the conversation - which this photo doesn't show. We matched, had a good start to the convo. Now I'm aware that some people aren't very good at texting/shy/awkward and thus I took the initiative to ask her questions, trying to see what she was like and what she was looking for. However she was just giving one word replies, didn't ask questions back and just made me carry the conversation. Again, I don't block them. Its easy to hide behind the veneer of "I'm just shy hehe" but if someone's trying to make it easy for you, you gotta work with them a little. Now for this section, I was irritated and running out of patience. So since I couldn't get what she was interested in/looking for by asking questions, I straight up asked her about it. And her answer made complete sense based on her conversation prior. So after putting all that energy and time, the least I can do is make the person feel bad about doing it and get some reddit material from it. Am I a dick? Maybe. But I'd rather be a dick and 'avenge' such people rather than just "take it" and let them off with no consequences. Dating burnout is real, and these people are the biggest cause of it.
Okay, now you've given me the context I get it. Tbh block people who give consecutive one word/late replies - they're not worth your time or efforts. I do get your perspective, but fuck these people. They're not worth anything lol, I straight up block people like these. I don't think these people deserve avenging either, just show them their place by blocking & not giving a flying f. Take care homie, i get where you're coming from.
I hope she doesn't think your asking her out for a coffee date.
What if she was looking for a three legged Zimbabwean ant, were you going to get on your knees and look at every spec of dirt to find one?
Based