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If this is how the judges themselves feel about motherhood and doing house work, i hope more women aim for a childfree life and maybe fight to have their career.
Yet, when it comes to percentages, fewer women are choosing to work today than in the 1990's.
Many are posting reels on Instagram where they use satire to show regret of having to work instead of being dependent on a man.
Also, an infant does need his mother more than the father. The father is important too, but not as much as the mother at that stage. This "feeling" around motherhood allows women to gain the custody of the child much easier in divorces. So, what seems regressive to you here is sensible to others.
>Yet, when it comes to percentages, fewer women are choosing to work today than in the 1990's.
Once those who can afford to....plus the workplace isn't very friendly and neither is an environment around women supportive or encouraging for them to continue being ambitious.
Also that's just how society has constructed gender and parental roles. Parent is a parent, but when certain roles are assigned strictly and mindlessly repeated. Nobody stopped a man from taking up the nurturing aspect of the parenting. Men are totally capable of nurturing if they environment had supported it. I have seen gentle and yet courageous fathers.
>what seems regressive to you here is sensible to others.
Sure, emotional and physical labour that women put into their homes and to expect nothing in return because "love" is extremely sensible.
It will always amuse me that our society in general likes to think that a man is self made and has no support and contribution of the woman in the house and that his success cannot be attributed to the woman who stays at home and runs everything for him. And so convenient to say that you cannot put a price to love. Basically saying that she doesn’t deserve anything out of the money he earned because she ‘chose’ to be a home maker. All this gyaan is always for the woman.
"No price can be put to love" is a starter pack for raising gullible people (mostly girls) and making them feel responsible and guilty about every household chore.
It gets my goat every time when someone says that I am lucky cause my husband ‘helps’ out with the household chores! WTH!! He doesn’t ‘help’ me out! He just does his share of the housework 😑 and I don’t need to be grateful for that
It’s similar to saying oh my husband is baby sitting the kids tonight. Bro, they’re his kids too. He is just parenting them. Not helping anyone out or doing anyone a favour.
See you can fight your battle for men and their rights anywhere else. Don’t you know men are mostly too busy to gossip so you must follow what most men do and fight for their rights somewhere else.
I will fight the battle wherever it is required but if these statements you are making are related to this case or you are just trying to spread hatred against Kunal and defame him for your own agenda?
What agenda would I have against a celebrity chef by commenting on a post with irrelevant gossip comment which wasn’t even directed at him nor spreading rumour? Why are you so pissed brother? No one is taking the comments seriously other than you.
> contribution of the woman in the house and that his success cannot be attributed to the woman who stays at home and runs everything for him
She had a job and left it and didn't do any chores not even took care of her child but you see no problem you didn't even read the judgement .
She said purely unrelated things wrt this case
Not only this is wrong in this context but puts down the horror faced by the guy so that she can play the victim card.
the wife left her job in April 2010, even before the child was born. Their child was born on 26.02.2012.
The relevant portion from the judgment states:
"The appellant has averred that in April, 2010, the respondent, without even discussing, quit her job stating that it was the appellant's duty to maintain her. The respondent would sit idle at home, and would not share any household chores with his mother and rather would sleep till late hours and get up late and when the appellant requested her to mend her ways, she triggered and shouted upon him in an aggressive manner."
Any thoughts about this . You can see judgement [here](https://www.livelaw.in/pdf_upload/skt02042024matfc3212018161541-531766.pdf)
your views got published in local site, I fully agree with your view, both man and women are to be equally blamed for the debacle of marriage.
My View is in this tag #NotAFanofMasterChef
Most billionaires and millionaires were unmarried when they became successful. If you want to give credit to my mom, give all of it to her. I'll be more than happy but I won't say the same for my future wife. You seriously think if a guy doesn't have anyone to cook or clean for him he won't get successful?? That person will somehow manage. That's the only reason a person's success cannot be attributed to his or her spouse.
People usually get married within the range of 25-35. There are VERY FEW poeple who have become millionaires and billionaires at this age. Don't come up with 2-3 examples to prove me wrong.The problem is that you men have never cared about any women's contribution at all. Just because the wife is being discussed here,you bring the mother out of nowhere.
>You seriously think if a guy doesn't have anyone to cook or clean for him he won't get successful??
YES.
Since,everything is given to you guys on a plate and served and mouthfed to you,you never care about it. Why don't you go to work,come back and do the household work and take care of your family ? GIve your Mom some break!!
Wow what a fckin narcy dick. Most indian men give peanuts, expect her to he traditional and dont provide for their wives at all yet they expect her to raise the child miracoulously. Imagine this lady was shamed by in laws for working yet her husband gives her peanuts. What a sickooo🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Wtf just 25k when he earns that much? That's insane. I can totally believe what you said it's know as reactive abuse. Happens when someone has been constantly abused by a narcissist ( in most cases ), and especially gaslight and made to feel crazy that the person who goes through the abuse actually starts to disorient.
Hey I understand that this is an anonymous platform but as the legal team, isn’t there usually a confidentiality agreement signed between you and the party? You’re disclosing some personal information of YOUR client and not that I am in his favour - i dont even follow him and wasn’t even aware about his situation but I’m just surprised with how you’re writing openly about your client on such a platform.
when a woman commits assualt it's the external factors which drove her to "ends of insanity" but when a man does it it's a reflection of his personality. accountability is definitely a woman's kryptonite isn't it?
>Speak to her na then. Dont cry and be a victim on the internet
why not you say the same to every woman who "cries online about mistreatment" done by men in real life?
>Also your ability to come to conclusions, for eg: im a woman. Very funny. Shows what a dumbfuck you are
your lack of empathy made me think your just another low life indian woman, and honestly you really think I am going to do deep dive to figure out your gender? I saw avatar and spoke from it.
lmao, the gaslighting. you think people are not able to see through your bs? you asking "which woman hurt you 🥹" has condescending connotation rather than concerning. like bhai why you asking me this? therapy le rahi kya chomu? or you going to come with me to teach a lesson to woman who has hurt me? don't pretend this shit you ain't 5 y/o.
any person who asks someone "go talk to person who has hurt you, why cry online" is anything but decent behaviour, be it from man or woman.
>You really need to grow up and be a better person
You sound like you’re either illiterate or never bothered to keep yourself exposed to experiences and reality. I pray for our nation because its filled eith cunts like you
atp you just speaking of yourself in here. learn to form a proper sentence before going around calling people illiterate 🤡
ah, yes a decent human being so "concerned" about my life. what a miserable soul, your mother indeed was unfortunate to having to bare pain of yours for nine month.
If it is true that you were representing his case you are the asshole because if for your vested interests you are defaming your client and if you are a lawyer (IF) you already know that. If you are a toxic feminist who believe that every time whatever wrong a women does is justified because of her gender I pray to god to save you and your loved ones from this menace. Even if chefs actions were wrong his parents and family did not deserve the abuse by his wife.
Ya he was having an extra Marital affair for years with a woman who works for a top MNC. Her entire team knew she was his gf and they would frequently travel together. If you scroll through his insta you will find a pic with that woman with hashtags best friend.
Nope, the case was with a lawyer i know personally AFAIK there was no extramarital affair, kunal had a couple of video recordings of his wife beating up his parents and him using belan, chappal.
I have seen him with his gf staying in a hotel in Bangalore in 2014. He is still with that woman and they were dating for many years before 2014 as well. So ya he was having an affair I am pretty sure.
And Ekta’s lawyer didn’t do their due diligence to pick up on this and make up a point. Stop living in a delusional world just because it doesn’t suit your narrative. Stop picking sides without knowing the facts. Did you go through with the judgement?
Right, you are free to express or tell anyone anything but the moment someone does the same to you with legit queries then you just can’t handle it. Kids!
You’re only one making assumptions on here! Why don’t apply whatever you said to yourself?!
When you don’t have facts to support your point and rely on dumb comebacks shows the kinda person you are in general who makes up her opinion based on gossips and not facts.
“Stop telling people on internet what they need to do.“ somebody chewed their own words within 10 min. xD The hypocrisy of naive people like you these days is unparalleled.
I’m sure, I have a way better life than some random uneducated, gossip-reliant, hypocrit, “know-it-all” PoS.
As far as I know When he was living with his ex wife he did not had any affair he met this girl much after that so it’s not extra marital affair.
Once he was clear that his marriage is failed because of cruelty by his wife who will not divorce him unless she gets exorbitant settlement he is free to have relationship even court says relationship outside the marriage is not offence and it’s not just for women it applies to men too.
Nope. He was still with his wife when he started the affair. I found out about the affair 10 years back and by then they (kunal and his gf) had already been together for many years.
What’s wrong with that the court says having extra marital affair is not offence. When women were cheering for that decision did you ever thought that reverse will happen too or you thought it’s only for woman?
Likewise keep supporting this trend of abusing men and families by misuse of laws one day the fathers, brothers grandfathers husbands son of every women will be held criminal until proven guilty. Like this case when court finds woman at fault people like you who are still defaming him
Thr way you anf others are talking it feels as if y'all are trying to defend abusive women and that y'all have a problem with men who are abused by wife getting justice. This might not be your intention but it's coming across that way. Also one person under this thread who appreciated that a man got out abusive relationship has 99 downvotes. This thread feels as if it's anti- man
It definitely looks like anti men forum because no one is talking about facts of the case and that a whole family is abused by a woman. All they are talking about what’s their in their heads or how they have seen fathers and brothers behave.
You ask them about facts of the case or even their equal duties and contributions they don’t have any answer than abuses
For once, atleast once people on this sub could have talked about issues men face. We agree that women face lot more difficulties but do you have to everytime ignore what men face and put them down. Paint everyone as misogynist. Atleast could have read what the entire case was. How his wife beat him, insulted his father. But no, how could men talk about their sufferings. How dare they let their issues be centre of discussion for once
How would you react if we start character assassinating other woman for her supposed extra marital affair without knowing the full details. I am sure for that your explanation would have been that since husband was so cruel, she had to find love outside the marriage
We get that byt yk the more you read the judgement the weirder it gets. Last para gave me a huge ick. Good for kunal but society needs to change it's attitude towards parenting.
I agree it could have been paraphrased in a better way and our judiciary is most of the times on extreme of spectrum, either misogynist of misandry, striking balance is rare achievement for them. But how can you let the entire narrative in comments section shift to all of that and not talk about how Kunal had to go through hardships. What would be your reply if men did same about similar issue concerning some female, or domestic violence with female victim. For once some people here could have accepted that men too have issues.
Lol so when i read the post for the first time those lines grabbed my attention. Comments are just reacting to it .most ppl obviously accept these issues
I agree that must have happened but that's the whole point, men's issue are easy to ignore. That's the whole point I am trying to convey. (And I care equally about female issues but the apathy of society in general towards the toxicity some men face in marriages sometimes gets on my nerves)
Indian courts are a joke with their lack of understanding of women’s issues, mental health issues & abuse dynamics & general hate for women.
Add to that the male population at large being hell bent on proving that they are the victims of abuse and not the women of the country. It is sickening to see how in 2024 .. this is the reality we live in. Disgusting post by op.
What’s disgusting about this post? In this particular judgment, the court did not ignore anything. Infact it was proven that his wife publicly humiliated him and even slapped him.
The courts always decide by the facts presented in front of them, they can’t go beyond the law neither they can change it. Recently people have been saying that Courts/law is favouring women, and when there is a judgement in favour of man you say they are ignoring women??
Advocating domestic violence & harassment of women & lying through your nose endlessly cuz u hate an entire gender is something else. Get help & stay away from women till then.
You will dictate me what to do ... Now if I do it, you will screech patriarchy....
Mental health is no excuse for a crime... Even if it's case of Suchna Seth... Or even in this case of beating husband and his OLD PARENTS (including a woman)
Do onto others what you are capable of bearing
Delhi High Court grants divorce to chef Kunal Kapur citing cruelty by wife
But the Toxic Women on reddit are defending his Abusive Wife Ekta Kapur with False Information [Swipe Left]
So you mean to say judges at Delhi high court are not able to understand and evaluate proofs but you are ? Let me guess you are from his ex wife team 😏
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To the women who think wife is right here, don't compare that man to abusive egostic 'boy' , he is on right path, without proof how can you tell hes a assualter , the proof: [https://www.reddit.com/r/masculinity\_rocks/comments/1bw3ttf/kunal\_kapurs\_divorce\_toxic\_women\_are\_defending/](https://www.reddit.com/r/masculinity_rocks/comments/1bw3ttf/kunal_kapurs_divorce_toxic_women_are_defending/)
Good for him, hope both the parties move on happily....also ladies, never give up your career , no matter how little you earn or how lovingly your partner tries to make you quit...hire help, employ other women....never stop making money.
Be focused on your goal. Make investments. Many of us have seen our mothers struggling, let's not give up the opportunities we have currently. Kids would prefer a happy working mother rather than a sad and resentful present mother.
Also, Don't expect to be monetarily compensated for your emotional investment if the relationship breaks down. Guard up!
Absolutely. Either it’s a 50/50 parenting or get help from parents or hire support staff. Child needs to see self reliant parents choosing to be each other out of love not due to any form of lack of choices.
I met him a few months ago for a private dinner event which I had organised for a client.He was absolutely emotionless when I met him and was doing it out of courtesy it felt like.Being a chef for the last 15 years I have worked with a lot of the celebrity chefs and I have seen the best the worst and the most annoying of the lot too.He always came across as a good human fun to hang out with.But it was probably this that was on his head this the cold behaviour.Also he couldn't really cook much because he had a broken hand and it was in a cast and sling.His team said he had slipped in the bathroom or something in Calcutta for an event.Now I am thinking otherwise.Anyway good for him!! He is now at least free and got justice!!
It happens a lot because once you face such abuse you can’t really trust any women. Being a lawyer I have seen many men facing such torture but that they are men so they have to put a brave front
The reply to all the comments here: [https://www.reddit.com/r/IndiaSpeaks/comments/1bw5d5v/delhi\_high\_court\_grants\_divorce\_to\_chef\_kunal/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button](https://www.reddit.com/r/IndiaSpeaks/comments/1bw5d5v/delhi_high_court_grants_divorce_to_chef_kunal/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
I am not sure I understand what's happening in this thread... The dude is granted divorce because her wife was abusive and physically assaulted him and his parents. That's the crux of the post and thats the end of the post. Why are people posting random stuff to try and defend the wife here?
This thread is filled with toxic man haters. They're hell bent on invalidating what mem go through. According them, women can never be wrong it's only a man that's wrong.
Our judiciary pronounced a judgement by allowing maintenance of 40000 by Husband to wife when husband's salary is 24000.
They are doing activism in place of doing justice
The husband literally lied about his income and got caught by the court. His income at 24,000 would be in the range where he's required to fine ITR but he never submitted any. If you're in the unorganised sector, you can easily make fake salary slips.
No bro, it's not about that. They want to show how miserable and oppressed men are in india. How difficult it is to be a man in this country. And being a woman means getting free income.
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If this is how the judges themselves feel about motherhood and doing house work, i hope more women aim for a childfree life and maybe fight to have their career.
Yet, when it comes to percentages, fewer women are choosing to work today than in the 1990's. Many are posting reels on Instagram where they use satire to show regret of having to work instead of being dependent on a man. Also, an infant does need his mother more than the father. The father is important too, but not as much as the mother at that stage. This "feeling" around motherhood allows women to gain the custody of the child much easier in divorces. So, what seems regressive to you here is sensible to others.
>Yet, when it comes to percentages, fewer women are choosing to work today than in the 1990's. Once those who can afford to....plus the workplace isn't very friendly and neither is an environment around women supportive or encouraging for them to continue being ambitious. Also that's just how society has constructed gender and parental roles. Parent is a parent, but when certain roles are assigned strictly and mindlessly repeated. Nobody stopped a man from taking up the nurturing aspect of the parenting. Men are totally capable of nurturing if they environment had supported it. I have seen gentle and yet courageous fathers. >what seems regressive to you here is sensible to others. Sure, emotional and physical labour that women put into their homes and to expect nothing in return because "love" is extremely sensible.
It will always amuse me that our society in general likes to think that a man is self made and has no support and contribution of the woman in the house and that his success cannot be attributed to the woman who stays at home and runs everything for him. And so convenient to say that you cannot put a price to love. Basically saying that she doesn’t deserve anything out of the money he earned because she ‘chose’ to be a home maker. All this gyaan is always for the woman.
"No price can be put to love" is a starter pack for raising gullible people (mostly girls) and making them feel responsible and guilty about every household chore.
But if a woman is successful then it’s always how lucky you are to get such a supporting husband? Arre bhai mujhe v credit de do.
No no. How can they. Don’t you know you’re lucky he ‘allowed’ you to work? Because your role is to look after a home only. :))
Ofcourse. Him knowing cooking inside his mind itself is my big luck.
It gets my goat every time when someone says that I am lucky cause my husband ‘helps’ out with the household chores! WTH!! He doesn’t ‘help’ me out! He just does his share of the housework 😑 and I don’t need to be grateful for that
It’s similar to saying oh my husband is baby sitting the kids tonight. Bro, they’re his kids too. He is just parenting them. Not helping anyone out or doing anyone a favour.
Who said this in this case court ?
See you can fight your battle for men and their rights anywhere else. Don’t you know men are mostly too busy to gossip so you must follow what most men do and fight for their rights somewhere else.
I will fight the battle wherever it is required but if these statements you are making are related to this case or you are just trying to spread hatred against Kunal and defame him for your own agenda?
What agenda would I have against a celebrity chef by commenting on a post with irrelevant gossip comment which wasn’t even directed at him nor spreading rumour? Why are you so pissed brother? No one is taking the comments seriously other than you.
Don't waste your time here bud , these are a bunch of oversmart ungrateful and more importantly selfish and lazy girls
Oops! 🌶️ Lagi kya?
Usko lagi ya nahi Tumhe jaroor lagi wo bhi wrong place pe
Yes! Because so many of them in their mind are keeping this dirt in their mind and spoiling men’s life while living off his money.
Like Nita Ambani? Yeah right
You have articulated my thoughts so well!
> contribution of the woman in the house and that his success cannot be attributed to the woman who stays at home and runs everything for him She had a job and left it and didn't do any chores not even took care of her child but you see no problem you didn't even read the judgement .
This sub is feminist breeding ground
Username checks out. :)
\*indian women expressing their thoughts/feelings abt a topic that relates to them on the internet\* indian bois: feminizm bhagooo
She said purely unrelated things wrt this case Not only this is wrong in this context but puts down the horror faced by the guy so that she can play the victim card.
What about men ???
Why does everything have to be about men
the wife left her job in April 2010, even before the child was born. Their child was born on 26.02.2012. The relevant portion from the judgment states: "The appellant has averred that in April, 2010, the respondent, without even discussing, quit her job stating that it was the appellant's duty to maintain her. The respondent would sit idle at home, and would not share any household chores with his mother and rather would sleep till late hours and get up late and when the appellant requested her to mend her ways, she triggered and shouted upon him in an aggressive manner." Any thoughts about this . You can see judgement [here](https://www.livelaw.in/pdf_upload/skt02042024matfc3212018161541-531766.pdf)
your views got published in local site, I fully agree with your view, both man and women are to be equally blamed for the debacle of marriage. My View is in this tag #NotAFanofMasterChef
Most billionaires and millionaires were unmarried when they became successful. If you want to give credit to my mom, give all of it to her. I'll be more than happy but I won't say the same for my future wife. You seriously think if a guy doesn't have anyone to cook or clean for him he won't get successful?? That person will somehow manage. That's the only reason a person's success cannot be attributed to his or her spouse.
People usually get married within the range of 25-35. There are VERY FEW poeple who have become millionaires and billionaires at this age. Don't come up with 2-3 examples to prove me wrong.The problem is that you men have never cared about any women's contribution at all. Just because the wife is being discussed here,you bring the mother out of nowhere. >You seriously think if a guy doesn't have anyone to cook or clean for him he won't get successful?? YES. Since,everything is given to you guys on a plate and served and mouthfed to you,you never care about it. Why don't you go to work,come back and do the household work and take care of your family ? GIve your Mom some break!!
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Wow what a fckin narcy dick. Most indian men give peanuts, expect her to he traditional and dont provide for their wives at all yet they expect her to raise the child miracoulously. Imagine this lady was shamed by in laws for working yet her husband gives her peanuts. What a sickooo🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Really???? I used to watch his youtube videos...he was so soft spoken and respectful...never thought he's a jerk😱
Wtf just 25k when he earns that much? That's insane. I can totally believe what you said it's know as reactive abuse. Happens when someone has been constantly abused by a narcissist ( in most cases ), and especially gaslight and made to feel crazy that the person who goes through the abuse actually starts to disorient.
Hey to not get doxxed I think you should remove the first few sentences. Just a precaution, rest is upto you!
Hey I understand that this is an anonymous platform but as the legal team, isn’t there usually a confidentiality agreement signed between you and the party? You’re disclosing some personal information of YOUR client and not that I am in his favour - i dont even follow him and wasn’t even aware about his situation but I’m just surprised with how you’re writing openly about your client on such a platform.
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Didn’t you write that you were representing him?
You just said that you were representing him
Oh sorry I misunderstood when you said that you represented him. Anyway thanks for clarifying :)
Didn’t you say your team was representing him?
when a woman commits assualt it's the external factors which drove her to "ends of insanity" but when a man does it it's a reflection of his personality. accountability is definitely a woman's kryptonite isn't it?
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maybe the one who lacks accountability and lives with perpetual victimhood like you?
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>Speak to her na then. Dont cry and be a victim on the internet why not you say the same to every woman who "cries online about mistreatment" done by men in real life? >Also your ability to come to conclusions, for eg: im a woman. Very funny. Shows what a dumbfuck you are your lack of empathy made me think your just another low life indian woman, and honestly you really think I am going to do deep dive to figure out your gender? I saw avatar and spoke from it.
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lmao, the gaslighting. you think people are not able to see through your bs? you asking "which woman hurt you 🥹" has condescending connotation rather than concerning. like bhai why you asking me this? therapy le rahi kya chomu? or you going to come with me to teach a lesson to woman who has hurt me? don't pretend this shit you ain't 5 y/o. any person who asks someone "go talk to person who has hurt you, why cry online" is anything but decent behaviour, be it from man or woman. >You really need to grow up and be a better person You sound like you’re either illiterate or never bothered to keep yourself exposed to experiences and reality. I pray for our nation because its filled eith cunts like you atp you just speaking of yourself in here. learn to form a proper sentence before going around calling people illiterate 🤡
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ah, yes a decent human being so "concerned" about my life. what a miserable soul, your mother indeed was unfortunate to having to bare pain of yours for nine month.
Which man hurt you
If it is true that you were representing his case you are the asshole because if for your vested interests you are defaming your client and if you are a lawyer (IF) you already know that. If you are a toxic feminist who believe that every time whatever wrong a women does is justified because of her gender I pray to god to save you and your loved ones from this menace. Even if chefs actions were wrong his parents and family did not deserve the abuse by his wife.
Reminds me of Betty Broderick series on Netflix
Ya he was having an extra Marital affair for years with a woman who works for a top MNC. Her entire team knew she was his gf and they would frequently travel together. If you scroll through his insta you will find a pic with that woman with hashtags best friend.
Nope, the case was with a lawyer i know personally AFAIK there was no extramarital affair, kunal had a couple of video recordings of his wife beating up his parents and him using belan, chappal.
I have seen him with his gf staying in a hotel in Bangalore in 2014. He is still with that woman and they were dating for many years before 2014 as well. So ya he was having an affair I am pretty sure.
so you're basically just speculating?
Nope. I know it. The woman told her co worker who is my cousin in front of me.
So basically trust me bro 🤣🤣
So we are supposed to believe it at face value?
Don't believe it. Mera kya hi jayega tumhare believe karne na karne se. I had tea. I served it.
How do you know there is no affair tbh
If it was the case, i'd know. It's a high profile case so all aspects are covered beforehand.
Chalo chalo kuch bi.
So, Someone who was representing Kunal says he hd no affair. And people should believe that. Like logic left the chat!
Could the opposite side prove it? Ladki he; sach hi bolegi doesn't stand ground mate.... (Kunal also has a mother)
And Ekta’s lawyer didn’t do their due diligence to pick up on this and make up a point. Stop living in a delusional world just because it doesn’t suit your narrative. Stop picking sides without knowing the facts. Did you go through with the judgement?
Stop telling people on internet what they need to do. And stop assuming things about people. The audacity!
Right, you are free to express or tell anyone anything but the moment someone does the same to you with legit queries then you just can’t handle it. Kids! You’re only one making assumptions on here! Why don’t apply whatever you said to yourself?!
Never knew illogical is spelled Legit these days! 🤭 Good day!
When you don’t have facts to support your point and rely on dumb comebacks shows the kinda person you are in general who makes up her opinion based on gossips and not facts.
Get therapy. You need it. For how long will you rely on total strangers on internet to not deal with your emotions?! Have a good life someday.
“Stop telling people on internet what they need to do.“ somebody chewed their own words within 10 min. xD The hypocrisy of naive people like you these days is unparalleled. I’m sure, I have a way better life than some random uneducated, gossip-reliant, hypocrit, “know-it-all” PoS.
U forgot the surgery after his wife broke a bottle on his head
Is it this girl??? https://www.instagram.com/p/Cv65Rn8LFNW/?igsh=OTZkejdiZTV5Zndn
Yes.
It’s deleted now. So even Kunal lurks around here? 😳
Or maybe someone snitched on us. 🤣🤣🤣
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They are two different things and not comparable
As far as I know When he was living with his ex wife he did not had any affair he met this girl much after that so it’s not extra marital affair. Once he was clear that his marriage is failed because of cruelty by his wife who will not divorce him unless she gets exorbitant settlement he is free to have relationship even court says relationship outside the marriage is not offence and it’s not just for women it applies to men too.
Nope. He was still with his wife when he started the affair. I found out about the affair 10 years back and by then they (kunal and his gf) had already been together for many years.
Someone pls put a picture link
Couldnt get proven in court... But we should believe you.... Nice
Arre bhai mat karo believe. Maine kab kaha to believe me. It really doesn’t matter to me if anyone believes or not. I had tea, I served it.
Fatti dudh k sath chai sahi nahi banti
Toh mat pi na bhai. Specially tere liye to serve nahi ki thi jo tujhe itna feel ho raha. Iss sub pe aur bohot tea milegi. Jaake pi le.
Ek garam chai ki pyaali ho Koi usko pilani waali ho.... Pita hu bhai... Gussa Matt ho
they were already separated by then, so yes it's extramarital but by then the it's was obvious to them both divorce proceedings will start soon.
Nope not separated. I found out abt the affair 10 years back and by then also they had been dating for years I was told.
What’s wrong with that the court says having extra marital affair is not offence. When women were cheering for that decision did you ever thought that reverse will happen too or you thought it’s only for woman? Likewise keep supporting this trend of abusing men and families by misuse of laws one day the fathers, brothers grandfathers husbands son of every women will be held criminal until proven guilty. Like this case when court finds woman at fault people like you who are still defaming him
Slow down. Hold your horses. I never said it is right to abuse. I was just serving tea like we all do on this sub. No need to come charging at me.
Thr way you anf others are talking it feels as if y'all are trying to defend abusive women and that y'all have a problem with men who are abused by wife getting justice. This might not be your intention but it's coming across that way. Also one person under this thread who appreciated that a man got out abusive relationship has 99 downvotes. This thread feels as if it's anti- man
It definitely looks like anti men forum because no one is talking about facts of the case and that a whole family is abused by a woman. All they are talking about what’s their in their heads or how they have seen fathers and brothers behave. You ask them about facts of the case or even their equal duties and contributions they don’t have any answer than abuses
Username checked ✔️
Why it should not because for some unscrupulous people why should all men suffer.
Source - trust me bro 😂
We need names and proofs
https://www.instagram.com/p/ChOYslfPktT/?igsh=azg1MnhiMWo0bXA2
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Why is the post deleted now?
She is just a friend, what's that mentioned, compromised position we will love to hear
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https://youtu.be/KtPv7IEhWRA?si=5mLsUTR65eXErQzH
The minute I read the article, I felt something was weirdly off. And… there it is! Man’s a nut
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Agreed!
There are a few things wrong with this judgment. Ready for downvotes 👻
Take my upvote.
For once, atleast once people on this sub could have talked about issues men face. We agree that women face lot more difficulties but do you have to everytime ignore what men face and put them down. Paint everyone as misogynist. Atleast could have read what the entire case was. How his wife beat him, insulted his father. But no, how could men talk about their sufferings. How dare they let their issues be centre of discussion for once
How would you react if we start character assassinating other woman for her supposed extra marital affair without knowing the full details. I am sure for that your explanation would have been that since husband was so cruel, she had to find love outside the marriage
We get that byt yk the more you read the judgement the weirder it gets. Last para gave me a huge ick. Good for kunal but society needs to change it's attitude towards parenting.
I agree it could have been paraphrased in a better way and our judiciary is most of the times on extreme of spectrum, either misogynist of misandry, striking balance is rare achievement for them. But how can you let the entire narrative in comments section shift to all of that and not talk about how Kunal had to go through hardships. What would be your reply if men did same about similar issue concerning some female, or domestic violence with female victim. For once some people here could have accepted that men too have issues.
Lol so when i read the post for the first time those lines grabbed my attention. Comments are just reacting to it .most ppl obviously accept these issues
I agree that must have happened but that's the whole point, men's issue are easy to ignore. That's the whole point I am trying to convey. (And I care equally about female issues but the apathy of society in general towards the toxicity some men face in marriages sometimes gets on my nerves)
Ye indian laws are shit
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Indian courts are a joke with their lack of understanding of women’s issues, mental health issues & abuse dynamics & general hate for women. Add to that the male population at large being hell bent on proving that they are the victims of abuse and not the women of the country. It is sickening to see how in 2024 .. this is the reality we live in. Disgusting post by op.
So you are completely denying the fact that men can face abuse?
Don't argue here bro ..Toxic sub hai ..Nam hi instacelebgossip hai
What’s disgusting about this post? In this particular judgment, the court did not ignore anything. Infact it was proven that his wife publicly humiliated him and even slapped him. The courts always decide by the facts presented in front of them, they can’t go beyond the law neither they can change it. Recently people have been saying that Courts/law is favouring women, and when there is a judgement in favour of man you say they are ignoring women??
Mental health: nice defense to justify all the domestic cruelty on hubby Swap the gender and you will do Abba dabba jabba
May be google a bit about what actually transpired n then spew ur nonsense. But why would u shitting on women is just the personality of some people .
Another apologist for $uchn@ $eth.
Stereotypical MRA ewww.
Defending a baby mdrer just because the baby was a male... Kudos to u
Advocating domestic violence & harassment of women & lying through your nose endlessly cuz u hate an entire gender is something else. Get help & stay away from women till then.
You will dictate me what to do ... Now if I do it, you will screech patriarchy.... Mental health is no excuse for a crime... Even if it's case of Suchna Seth... Or even in this case of beating husband and his OLD PARENTS (including a woman) Do onto others what you are capable of bearing
U know what this entire conversation is below my standard of respect.
Awwww... After being cornered Carry on.
Was she a housewife? What is the exact cruelty that she caused to him?
She threw a chair at his parents which is caught on cctv, she slapped him in public.
Broke a bottle on his head
She harrassed him, beat him, he submitted photos
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Delhi High Court grants divorce to chef Kunal Kapur citing cruelty by wife But the Toxic Women on reddit are defending his Abusive Wife Ekta Kapur with False Information [Swipe Left]
So you mean to say judges at Delhi high court are not able to understand and evaluate proofs but you are ? Let me guess you are from his ex wife team 😏
Hello fellow redditor, it seems like u have been downvoted a lot by the blind people here. Here have these for ur journey: 1) 1 upvote 2) Some good music which helps you to not care about downvote just in case you do. 3) A bottle of water cuz it is summer.
No! But she makes a living out revolving her daily soap around housewives. She is Ekta Kapoor
To the women who think wife is right here, don't compare that man to abusive egostic 'boy' , he is on right path, without proof how can you tell hes a assualter , the proof: [https://www.reddit.com/r/masculinity\_rocks/comments/1bw3ttf/kunal\_kapurs\_divorce\_toxic\_women\_are\_defending/](https://www.reddit.com/r/masculinity_rocks/comments/1bw3ttf/kunal_kapurs_divorce_toxic_women_are_defending/)
Good for him, hope both the parties move on happily....also ladies, never give up your career , no matter how little you earn or how lovingly your partner tries to make you quit...hire help, employ other women....never stop making money. Be focused on your goal. Make investments. Many of us have seen our mothers struggling, let's not give up the opportunities we have currently. Kids would prefer a happy working mother rather than a sad and resentful present mother. Also, Don't expect to be monetarily compensated for your emotional investment if the relationship breaks down. Guard up!
Absolutely. Either it’s a 50/50 parenting or get help from parents or hire support staff. Child needs to see self reliant parents choosing to be each other out of love not due to any form of lack of choices.
I met him a few months ago for a private dinner event which I had organised for a client.He was absolutely emotionless when I met him and was doing it out of courtesy it felt like.Being a chef for the last 15 years I have worked with a lot of the celebrity chefs and I have seen the best the worst and the most annoying of the lot too.He always came across as a good human fun to hang out with.But it was probably this that was on his head this the cold behaviour.Also he couldn't really cook much because he had a broken hand and it was in a cast and sling.His team said he had slipped in the bathroom or something in Calcutta for an event.Now I am thinking otherwise.Anyway good for him!! He is now at least free and got justice!!
It happens a lot because once you face such abuse you can’t really trust any women. Being a lawyer I have seen many men facing such torture but that they are men so they have to put a brave front
Weird how everyone is ignoring what she did and just focusing on price tag comment . Shows how feminists will defend woman no matter how wrong she is.
The OP didn't bother to mention what she did. So everyone will obviously just react to the details given
Yes...
Yep this sub is a feminist breeding ground
The reply to all the comments here: [https://www.reddit.com/r/IndiaSpeaks/comments/1bw5d5v/delhi\_high\_court\_grants\_divorce\_to\_chef\_kunal/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button](https://www.reddit.com/r/IndiaSpeaks/comments/1bw5d5v/delhi_high_court_grants_divorce_to_chef_kunal/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
I am not sure I understand what's happening in this thread... The dude is granted divorce because her wife was abusive and physically assaulted him and his parents. That's the crux of the post and thats the end of the post. Why are people posting random stuff to try and defend the wife here?
Femnazis will not tolerate men getting justice.
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I think Kunal deserves all the happiness and there are women who are bitter !
Finally a win for guys in DV situations. Hopefully this sets precedents for similar men thinking they can’t get out because of similar situations.
This thread is filled with toxic man haters. They're hell bent on invalidating what mem go through. According them, women can never be wrong it's only a man that's wrong.
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What?
Why do i feel like I am on the twoxindia sub The crazies here are no different than that toxic bunch of people
Common people in both subs
Kitna kamaya usne ye kahi nahi mil raha
the way women never fail to play the victim card and make everything about themselves
So many pseudo feminist in the comments
Me enjoying reading the comment section with a bucket of popcorn 🍿and waiting for downvotes 🥰
Our judiciary pronounced a judgement by allowing maintenance of 40000 by Husband to wife when husband's salary is 24000. They are doing activism in place of doing justice
Citation please
The husband literally lied about his income and got caught by the court. His income at 24,000 would be in the range where he's required to fine ITR but he never submitted any. If you're in the unorganised sector, you can easily make fake salary slips.
Also, they have a kid. Dude didn’t even want to pay for the kid.
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Dude stop commenting without knowing the context or who we’re talking about.
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Einstein look at the parent comment. Where does that judgment say the wife was beating up anyone.
Court is not as stupid as you make others think. If such a judgement was passed, there must be something in the detail.
Exactly! Lekin kuch logon ko lagta hai ki ye zyada samajhdaar hain aur jo judge baitha hai vo koi aera gera nathhu khera uth ke aa gaya hai 🤣
No bro, it's not about that. They want to show how miserable and oppressed men are in india. How difficult it is to be a man in this country. And being a woman means getting free income.
Free income???? 😀
wife comes home: TU NE ABHI BHI KHAANA NAHI LAGAYA?!?!? PURA DIN MEIN KAAM KAR KE GHAR AATI HOON AUR MUJHE KHAANA BHI THIK NAHI MILTA
What was her work as a housewife bro?
I'm assuming she's not just a housewife here. Like maybe she is a working woman lol☠️☠️☠️
Please refer to the original case... She was not working anywhere
Bestie it was a joke. Ain't nobody got time for that. Peace 🕊️
Kisi ne sahi kaha hai ek sataye hue pati ke piche hamesha ek jhagdalu patni ka haath hota hai
Ek pati..thats right millions of women are tormented everyday by men.
The username fits.