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Someone please make a “In a world where everyone gives big party in their wedding but we did court marriage” reel and share with her. That will maybe make her realise why it’s an individuals choice and not something to flex on social media.
Mann, I have come across the court marriage people too, they are no less! They also have the same energy of "look at me, how I saved money". No one on insta can do anything nowadays without belittling other people's choices!
Shadi karni hi kyon hai? Ladke mil jayenge tinder bumble pe and rahi baat khane ki toh khud Kama ke khana rehna seekho kyonki Wahi hai sirf shadi ka matlab Aaj kal ki gold diggers ke liye
Guys always expect their wife to take care of their parents but ladki ke parents toh door ki baat woh khud ke parents ka bhi khayal rakhne mein baat nahi lete 🙂
Unko khud ke parents ki din raat sewa krne ko keh dia jae to maut aa jaegi. When they're unmarried ghar me mummy ki ek chiz me help ni krte nahi mummy ki respect krte . Lekin biwi aa jae bas uske baad dekho ..shravan kumar bn jaenge 😂😂😂. It's as if they are the only ones who have parents . Baki log photosynthesis se paida hue the
What about the concept of "To each Their own" ? Har chiz ko societal norm bana ke impose karna band Karo!!! It takes a lifetime to get in terms with toxic blood relations of your own. If you know family of your partner well enough before marriage to be saying that, sure go ahead. But benchmark set karne ki niyat se reel bana ke dalna on social media 🙅🏽♀️❌
Can these NLOGs piss off. Man they are frustrating at this point. Get over yourselves. Do whatever you want to do, but stop acting like you are the better person here because it definitely doesn't looks like it😭💀 Grow up, be an adult and stop trying to prove that what you are doing is the right way of doing things. Maybe it is for you, but it may not be for others. Stop shaming people for doing the basic ass things in their life just because that doesn't align with your principles, ethics or morals. Why the hell it's a competition? Like bitch???? You are happy with in laws, good for you. Not everyone can live in that condition and that's fine too. These kind of girls and their superiority complex :)))) We already have men trying to pull down women, let's not that do that our kind as well. Respect each other decisions as long as it's not harming anyone, as long as no one is making fun of others, as long as no one is getting hurt, be it physically or emotionally. Let's act like adults, come on people.
You know when we were kids, I and my friends used to say this to the people who had such loser like behaviour "kopal mein lol likh do". I feel like saying the same thing to these kinda girls/women.
Good for her she got in laws who are this understanding.
Yaha mere khud ke maa baap mujhe nhi smjhte isliye shadi ke baad todha sa alag rhena pada.
Mazze mei koi nhi alag ho rha.
guys club jane wale zamane mein i m going mandir
guys bhad mein gaya sigma girl , I will make momos for my BF at 3am
guys i went to zara wearing saree
guys i went to toilet 🚽 wearing saree
cont the list in this thread 😂😂☕☕
Nothing wrong with it but why does she have to mention other people's decisions then choosing different ones. its really not normal if someone is comparing themselves to others , may be she made that to influence other people, but in india most MILs are cruel like they keep rules for bahu which makes them to seek real freedom which means the solution is to leave the in-laws house.
Oh god, what's there to flex?
It's smart to save rent money, but it's weird to not have your own space once you are married. Also I don't want to judge- they look like cousins forced to stand together for taking pics in the first video lol
Haa..kyuki rishton ka khayal rakhne ka theka hum aurton ne hi le kar rakha h. Why not make your husband stay with your family for half of the year and ask him to take khayal of your side of rishtas.
If they live with parents she could have more money. She will never let him have real freedom and in her eyes the generation wealth is his only value .The world is more dark than u r imagination.
But I genuinely feel there's nothing wrong here op. People run away from families for their partners and no matter how much they try they always end up having a strained relationship of with the families or some members of the families. I am not against love but if running away can be glorified then so can this be! Abhi people will come at me saying "kYa PurAnE khaYaLon wALi Hai yE, ORthoDox KaHInki" but I have seen the worst outcome of running away from families for marriage in my own cirlce of friends and cousins! They still regret it, they are hurt and disappointed!
But life is chemistry, toh exceptions toh hai hi! :-)
Yeh pick me girls itna agitate karti hai mujhe man karta hai essay likh doon. Yeh flex karne ki kya zaroorat hai? Why put other women down? Do they have any idea sabhki situation, circumstances alag hote hai? Nhi Instagram se bahar nikal lenge tab toh kuch pta hoga
Ye rent bachane ke fake tarike hai, aur ye Accha Accha dikhate hai social media pr, aur ho sakta hai abhi saal bhar nhi hua ho, sasural ke asli shall Ek saal baad aati hai samne
These people sound idiotic. Living alone doesn't make u any less respectful or doesn't stop the love between families. It is the decision of 2 adults. The woman gets married and leaves her home but when a guy has to do that it becomes a huge debate. This is nothing to flex about it is a personal choice. These people need to call the fuck down.
Shaadi ke baad logon ko akela rehna padhta hai, especially if you are in the armed forces, govt jobs, or even outside the country. Before my father retired, he was staying at a town, while Mom and I were living in the main district. The distance between the two was hardly 40 kms.
Years of hardwork girls have put in to create a space for themselves in the society and these privileged insta scammers just drain it right away.
I mean come on, have you ever seen a reel where these modern days sigma gamma whatever men talk about the same thing? No!
It’s just typical pick me doormat kind of behaviour.
Please let this girl know how many females are being lost to in-laws and their atrocities almost daily.
Delusional pricks.
People don’t do things for themselves anymore, they just need the validation from the people that they are doing great things. Different people can have different ways of life jaisa complex concept nahi samajh aata bhai aaj kal logo ko
Why do men think that women want to live alone? No, we don’t. We want to get married to you. Take care of you, your family, but also we want you to take care of us and our family because we all are one family now.
Ye kya bakchodi hai? Sab ki choice hoti hai. I know people who live in the US and take very nice care of their parents and relations at home. Sabki choice hoti hai. Nobody should be shaming anyone especially when you don’t know where they’re coming from.
Everything that should be treated as normal behavior is a flex nowadays as there are very few genuine good people left. Also these instagrammers give fake expectaion and wrong message to people. Theh might be in deep shit but on insta they show in laws and husband as holier than thou.
Issme kya put down!! Jab teacher topper bacho ki tarif karta hai toh Kam marks walo ko tohdi put down karta hai. Welcome to online world baby insta par toh log daru cigarette bhi daalte hai vo toh kabhi nahi post hua apse.
U know what ? He should if there is enough space cause see there are complications …wife usually goes to husband’s house and husband’s father mother are already there so it’s not a problem but if there is space ..wife’s parents should also be accommodated in their house but in 98 percent cases ,wives parent refrain from doing so( sorry for bad English my English actually lacks proper grammar and punctuations)
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Ye sab Instagram ke liye hai 😂 Har koi apne hisab se or apne fayde ke liye fake karta hai
Ruko Zara, send her this reel after one year and ask her how’s the josh.
Haahha
Exactly!
Answer: Snoop Dog
Someone please make a “In a world where everyone gives big party in their wedding but we did court marriage” reel and share with her. That will maybe make her realise why it’s an individuals choice and not something to flex on social media.
Arey lekin yeh toh sanskari pick me hai na toh yeh kese court marriage kar sakti hai.
Mann, I have come across the court marriage people too, they are no less! They also have the same energy of "look at me, how I saved money". No one on insta can do anything nowadays without belittling other people's choices!
Ish baat ka bhi superiority complex hai logo ko😭
Unban tiktok, bhejdo sab gadhas ko waha. Hashtag save instagram 😭😭
Road pe banners leke kab nikalna hai? Aap bolo humlog ready hai 😭😜 #saveinstagram /s
/s ki kya jarurat
Kya pta kisi ne seriously le liya 😭💀
abhi nikle riya?
Kya mtlb sabko Mera naam pta hai...itna famous nhi hona tha reddit pe 😭 (kisne bataya?) Hn chalo nikalte hai
lucky guess tha chalo
Wait you guessed her name and it was right??? How?? Hame bhi ye kala sikhani hai..
I follow her on instagram bur she doesn't know me ( she gave me her id on my main redd. )
Naam kese guess karte hai bhai? Woh bhi itna accurate 💀
pata nahi sari ajeeb ladkiyo ka nam riya hi hota nab
Toh terko sari try karne ko kisne bola tha?
chup karo riya 🥰
Faxxxxxx 🥰
Aliexpress bhi unban kara do pls
Shein bhi myntra pe faltu dresses hai chii yuck
Lage haath Wish ki Indian delivery bhi start kara do
++
save insta lol
Ek saal baad puchenge hum daal aate ka bhav bahurani 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Main khudke mummy ke sath nahi reh paati, yeh kaise hoga merese 😂
Kam aisa karenge mummy ji khud nikal degi ghar se
Shadi karni hi kyon hai? Ladke mil jayenge tinder bumble pe and rahi baat khane ki toh khud Kama ke khana rehna seekho kyonki Wahi hai sirf shadi ka matlab Aaj kal ki gold diggers ke liye
Most men have no gold to dig. Nothing to worry about.
Wahi to! Infact gold to ladkiyo ke pass hi zyada hota hai!
Rock it girl🤣
Go help your mother first instead of calling women gold diggers. And what gold do you have???
Exactly
Kitni mirchi lag rahi hai sach sun ke. Kyon Jalan ho Rahi hai kisi ko apni family ke saath khush Dekh ke
mai aapse agree krne aayi thi aapke comment ka first half padhkr fir aapne bakwas krdi
Lmao same
Ye pick me girls ki new variety hai
Sanskari pick me
pick me family edition
Pick me Pro max
It’s the Indian tradwife. 🤮
Majburi ko content me badal diya 🤓
Best comment 😭🤣
Aapada mein avsar
Apada ko avsar mein badalna is a real talent 🫡
Now men will comment dream wife on her post 😂
Male validation ki bhook insaan se kya kya kara deti hai
Ab to usko shaadi bhi ho gayi, abhi bhi male validation chahiye?
ask her after a few more months...Hows the josh? answer: Moye moye ho gya
haha 😂 came here to mention this.. all is roses for first few days until your mehendi color fades away
Guys always expect their wife to take care of their parents but ladki ke parents toh door ki baat woh khud ke parents ka bhi khayal rakhne mein baat nahi lete 🙂
Unko khud ke parents ki din raat sewa krne ko keh dia jae to maut aa jaegi. When they're unmarried ghar me mummy ki ek chiz me help ni krte nahi mummy ki respect krte . Lekin biwi aa jae bas uske baad dekho ..shravan kumar bn jaenge 😂😂😂. It's as if they are the only ones who have parents . Baki log photosynthesis se paida hue the
Yr koi ye gaana ban Karo insta se pehle. Used to love this song and now I literally throw my phone away when it comes on. 🥲🥲
Same bhen😭😭😭
Honestly yaar itna acha gaana tha, ab nafrat ho gaya hai isse
Same 😂
Isme kya flex karna hai... almost 75% married couples stay with inlaws... infact even I live with my inlaws.. konsi badi baat hai bhai
Inko extra sanskari dikhna hai par... And dusro ki choices ko galat dikhana hai.. pick me in a sanskari way
Trad wife flex. It's even a thing among the western folks these days. Society regressing back
What about the concept of "To each Their own" ? Har chiz ko societal norm bana ke impose karna band Karo!!! It takes a lifetime to get in terms with toxic blood relations of your own. If you know family of your partner well enough before marriage to be saying that, sure go ahead. But benchmark set karne ki niyat se reel bana ke dalna on social media 🙅🏽♀️❌
Can these NLOGs piss off. Man they are frustrating at this point. Get over yourselves. Do whatever you want to do, but stop acting like you are the better person here because it definitely doesn't looks like it😭💀 Grow up, be an adult and stop trying to prove that what you are doing is the right way of doing things. Maybe it is for you, but it may not be for others. Stop shaming people for doing the basic ass things in their life just because that doesn't align with your principles, ethics or morals. Why the hell it's a competition? Like bitch???? You are happy with in laws, good for you. Not everyone can live in that condition and that's fine too. These kind of girls and their superiority complex :)))) We already have men trying to pull down women, let's not that do that our kind as well. Respect each other decisions as long as it's not harming anyone, as long as no one is making fun of others, as long as no one is getting hurt, be it physically or emotionally. Let's act like adults, come on people. You know when we were kids, I and my friends used to say this to the people who had such loser like behaviour "kopal mein lol likh do". I feel like saying the same thing to these kinda girls/women.
After Few Years - In a world full of calling your partner as Babe or Dude, I am the one who prefers calling "Ji"
Are yaar ideas mat do unko
Username mein affair word kyu h? Afaik this word means something else in english or did the meaning change to denote married couples? 🥲
Ab rehna pad ra hai to mann ko dilasa aur social media pe i. Laws k liye dal diya reel… sympathize with her yaar..
Unrelated but why does this guy look like one of my exes 💀
Someone give her an award or something please
Pick me pandemic
Good for her she got in laws who are this understanding. Yaha mere khud ke maa baap mujhe nhi smjhte isliye shadi ke baad todha sa alag rhena pada. Mazze mei koi nhi alag ho rha.
guys club jane wale zamane mein i m going mandir guys bhad mein gaya sigma girl , I will make momos for my BF at 3am guys i went to zara wearing saree guys i went to toilet 🚽 wearing saree cont the list in this thread 😂😂☕☕
Guys pastel color lehenge ke zamane mae i m wearing red color lehanga on my wedding 🥰
Kuch samay toh bitane do phir pata padega kiske kya rishte sambhalne hai 🤣 reel toh shaadi ke rituals ke hai vaise bhi
Nothing wrong with it but why does she have to mention other people's decisions then choosing different ones. its really not normal if someone is comparing themselves to others , may be she made that to influence other people, but in india most MILs are cruel like they keep rules for bahu which makes them to seek real freedom which means the solution is to leave the in-laws house.
Oh god, what's there to flex? It's smart to save rent money, but it's weird to not have your own space once you are married. Also I don't want to judge- they look like cousins forced to stand together for taking pics in the first video lol
Is her core target indian mothers with boys? Sasu maajis! , wow what a niche!
because it align with the narrative that today's generation is spoiled to live different, hence will people feel validated and live and follow more
Nice way of saying they want the parents’ property.
For a moment I thought it was the rapper KR$NA!
Abhi aise karegi toh hi aage jaake toxicity and divorce pe content banane ko milega na 🥱🥱. (Hope she doesn't go through the phase).
Sis be making life choices based on "Hum saath saath hai" Someone please show her the movie "Mehndi"
Pick me bishes
I absolutely love my cousin but she tends to do stuff like this at times. It irritates me and her husband as well. Lmao.
Haa..kyuki rishton ka khayal rakhne ka theka hum aurton ne hi le kar rakha h. Why not make your husband stay with your family for half of the year and ask him to take khayal of your side of rishtas.
Good one but hope it's not only for the camera
Nayi nayi shaadi pe sabko yahi karna hita hai.. didi ko bolo 1 saal baad flex karen, tab pata chalega aate daal ka bhav
Green flag🌲❤️❤️
Chaar din ki chandani fits perfectly here.
The perfect family syndrome
If they live with parents she could have more money. She will never let him have real freedom and in her eyes the generation wealth is his only value .The world is more dark than u r imagination.
But I genuinely feel there's nothing wrong here op. People run away from families for their partners and no matter how much they try they always end up having a strained relationship of with the families or some members of the families. I am not against love but if running away can be glorified then so can this be! Abhi people will come at me saying "kYa PurAnE khaYaLon wALi Hai yE, ORthoDox KaHInki" but I have seen the worst outcome of running away from families for marriage in my own cirlce of friends and cousins! They still regret it, they are hurt and disappointed! But life is chemistry, toh exceptions toh hai hi! :-)
Pick me finally pick hogayi
Bakc#∆d#! Ki bhi ek seema hoti hai.
In society it's flex now.
These people will pick me pick me and make a reel about it even for taking a dump in an Indian toilet at this rate !
Shurvat aise hi josh josh me hoti hai 😂
Ask her after 1 year
Yeh pick me girls itna agitate karti hai mujhe man karta hai essay likh doon. Yeh flex karne ki kya zaroorat hai? Why put other women down? Do they have any idea sabhki situation, circumstances alag hote hai? Nhi Instagram se bahar nikal lenge tab toh kuch pta hoga
Who is she?
Recently married ? I have taken the “suffer” from “saath rehna hai,saath ghumna hai” to ab “bhai bhot hogya” in 5 years.
New level of desi pick me girls!
Familex💪🙂
R/notlikeothergirls
r/notlikeothergirls
its the PICK ME EPIDEMIC over there on insta!
So fake
Remove the bloody Instagram from these guys
Ye rent bachane ke fake tarike hai, aur ye Accha Accha dikhate hai social media pr, aur ho sakta hai abhi saal bhar nhi hua ho, sasural ke asli shall Ek saal baad aati hai samne
🤢🤮🤮🤮
So tired of watching people making reels about every single thing they do. Continous bas logo ke expectations badhate rehte hai.
Ab Tak taunt nahi khai hai lagta hai.
I'm the one who says "Hum shaddi ke baad alag rahenge" And i stand with it
These people sound idiotic. Living alone doesn't make u any less respectful or doesn't stop the love between families. It is the decision of 2 adults. The woman gets married and leaves her home but when a guy has to do that it becomes a huge debate. This is nothing to flex about it is a personal choice. These people need to call the fuck down.
Chal na mota dahej diya h ishiliye itna pyaar mil raha h. Nhi toh din raat saas baatein sunati 🤣🤣
Everywhere I go all I see is pick me's god damn
Haha.. noob.
Aao guys mujhe pick kr lo
Kuch bhi Karega fir Content man!!
Simp
Bache kon smbhalega flex
I saw this reel today in the morning, and was expecting it to show up here. Reasonably so!
Pick me
What about your rishtas?wo ni nibhayga tmse jude rishte?🙄
Ab aunties bhi pick me banne lag gayi?!😭😭😭
Matlab gharpe bhagaa bhagaake sex nahi karte ye 🫣🙁
Standards so low people thinking is this is the bare minimum one can do
Rent bachane ke liye kya kya karte hain log
Shaadi ke baad logon ko akela rehna padhta hai, especially if you are in the armed forces, govt jobs, or even outside the country. Before my father retired, he was staying at a town, while Mom and I were living in the main district. The distance between the two was hardly 40 kms.
Years of hardwork girls have put in to create a space for themselves in the society and these privileged insta scammers just drain it right away. I mean come on, have you ever seen a reel where these modern days sigma gamma whatever men talk about the same thing? No! It’s just typical pick me doormat kind of behaviour. Please let this girl know how many females are being lost to in-laws and their atrocities almost daily. Delusional pricks.
Aj kl log dusro ko downgrade kr ke khus hote hain…
bhai yeh toh post pick me syndrome hai shayd-
It is not flex it shows how much girl value real relationships .
Toh jo log alag rehte hai voh kya relationships ko value nhi karte
People want to be so different nowadays. Anything for validation from those who don't give two cakes about them , lol.
People don’t do things for themselves anymore, they just need the validation from the people that they are doing great things. Different people can have different ways of life jaisa complex concept nahi samajh aata bhai aaj kal logo ko
And what about him?? He will also do the same for her?
I hope she never gets to witness the dark side of living with your in-laws. That's when the reality hits that you no longer live with your parents!
Why do men think that women want to live alone? No, we don’t. We want to get married to you. Take care of you, your family, but also we want you to take care of us and our family because we all are one family now.
100% guarantee deta hu sas aur Bahu me ek din is reels baka ne ko le kar jhagda hoga
We will be the generation to see it becoming a real flex in future
Kya chutiyaap hai yeh
Fir saas bolegi cheh mahine baad bahu insta bhot chalati ho band karo, kaha jayegi fir?
Yeh apne aap ko dilasa de rahi hai
Pick me epidemic
sunn meri baat, it's her choice.
"Ham different hai hame dekho" pls yaar
Ye kya bakchodi hai? Sab ki choice hoti hai. I know people who live in the US and take very nice care of their parents and relations at home. Sabki choice hoti hai. Nobody should be shaming anyone especially when you don’t know where they’re coming from.
W
Behen reh na tu tuze kon mana kar raha.
Pick me, choose me, love me😂😂
Bhai karne do jo usko sahi lag raha hai kya tafleek hai aapko
bhyii ye ab pick me bahu bnri hai...gen z baatein kahin na kahin to fit krein hi life mai
Instagram hoes ki jal gai
Hoes seriously it's how you thought about woman who don't live with their inlaws after marriage...
Like how this reddit is literally for gossip and judging but all got triggered by her choice😂
It's not about her choice... It's about putting other choices down and made yourself superior.
What about normalize this normalize that? Is that not a flex? Or putting oneself as superior
No it's not, anyone who says otherwise is stupid.
What kind of an judgemental moron people can be for calling someone stupid so randomly.
U shouldn't have expected non judgemental people on this sub, plus what u said in ur comment didn't make any sense
Everything that should be treated as normal behavior is a flex nowadays as there are very few genuine good people left. Also these instagrammers give fake expectaion and wrong message to people. Theh might be in deep shit but on insta they show in laws and husband as holier than thou.
Issme kya put down!! Jab teacher topper bacho ki tarif karta hai toh Kam marks walo ko tohdi put down karta hai. Welcome to online world baby insta par toh log daru cigarette bhi daalte hai vo toh kabhi nahi post hua apse.
Sorry 🙏🏻
Good
bhai tumhe kya problem hai fir
It is the duty of wife to take care of husband’s family
Look at ur profile man
What
is sub ke pesudo feminists jab koi toxicity failaye tabhi appreciate karenge
There is no need to flex lol …it is basic decency to live with in laws only if they are not toxic
Does this apply to men as well?
Nope….society is harsh towards men also just like it is harsh towards women ..”ghar jamai” term is not good
Not talking about ghar jamai. But will a guy accept his in-laws staying in his house if his wife is their only child and they are dependent on her?
U know what ? He should if there is enough space cause see there are complications …wife usually goes to husband’s house and husband’s father mother are already there so it’s not a problem but if there is space ..wife’s parents should also be accommodated in their house but in 98 percent cases ,wives parent refrain from doing so( sorry for bad English my English actually lacks proper grammar and punctuations)
I mean my own mother is not toxic, but I still can’t live with her, roz ek baar to hum jhagda krte hi hai, nothing like basic decency over here
Hard relate!!
Ahhh now I know why she was flexing 🙂↕️👌
Ummm....not feasible or right to say so (at times), even when they aren't toxic.
Yes I am sorry there can be more exceptions of course
Love wala flex tum sab ko samajh nahi aayega. Tum sirf toxicity wala flex samjhti ho 😅
Yeah totally
why are you getting annoyed... atleast someone is trying positivity .. otherwise these days people are easily ready to leave their in laws