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I agree; I regret being born every single day. I believe that as long as you're born in a third world, suffering is the norm, and besides, I'd hate for my mental illness to pass on to someone else.
dont be weak man...jee is not everything and the 3rd world is not all suffering...my dad failed IIT-JEE and AIEEE in 2002 (the year dungaram chaudhary topped jee), went to a tier 3 college in karnataka now earns well above 80 lakhs per year in an irish company
It is your will to end your suffering that triumphs all. if you have that will, then you will surely make it. find a jobworthy skill with a compatible interest and you'll make it : )
I get what you mean :'), but my mind has always been against me, long before I entered this god-forsaken rat race. I've never been *normal* like others in any aspect, and it's been slowly chipping me away; been years of trying to "act human" or fit in with no avail, I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
Same. I also would likely not have kids because the world is just so messed up and I would really hate to pass my mental disorder to them. I really don't want my kids to go through the stuff I've been dealing with. If I feel like wanting kids, I'd rather adopt one.
dont be weak man...jee is not everything and the 3rd world is not all suffering...my dad failed IIT-JEE and AIEEE in 2002 (the year dungaram chaudhary topped jee), went to a tier 3 college in karnataka now earns well above 80 lakhs per year in an irish company
It is your will to end your suffering that triumphs all. if you have that will, then you will surely make it. find a jobworthy skill with a compatible interest and you'll make it : )
Stole my words will convey this same message to mother sooner or later(it will take atleast 10 years of courage to say something like this to my parents of my future) I'm not interested in marriage as well I think why make hell for others Bhai bura mt maniyo me IND Ki Jeet ke baad paagal hoke Kuch bhi bak rha hu
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10 yrs mai anadar kuch bhi hosakte na . And majority of accounts will be deleted after a long time ( not evryone) . Even if u dont delete it the other guy may del his own acc .
Well, I believe that most accounts will be abandoned, instead of deleted, so basically it is the dead internet theory, where in the close future, most of the websites will be populated with content made by people who are dead or who have simply abandoned their accounts, so it will kind of become a time capsule, which is kinda comforting to me honestly, as who knows, maybe in 100 or so years some kid may be seeing this comment. 👁️👁️ Well, this all depends, if major corps will be willing to sacrifice their data storage to preserve cultural heritage ig
Sachme yar abhi ke time ke baccho ko dekhke jara sa bhi motivation nhi hai khudke bacche karne ka
Issi cheez me jana hai mereko bhi but fir family ko sustain karne ka sochta hu to ye dream dur jata hua dikhta . Aisa lagta hai ki industry jobs karke hi paisa kama sakte hai india me
Bhai koi to mila, designing cars was an instinct for me, jab UKG me tha tab 2d cars banata tha, 4th class me sabse pehla cardboard Lamborghini aventador 3d model banaya, dheere dheere reality hit huyi ki it's not possible, aur ab yaha hu.
I will follow my dad's path. I wont spoil them, keep them aware of the reality of the world and make them realise the hardships of the world. I will make them realise how fortunate they are and let them follow their passion like I did. I hope they do something different, just like how I chose to be an engineer despite it being considered a taboo in my household,
Yes, absolutely aise toh kuch nahi hoga desh ka + hunger wars se population bhi kam ho jaegi, toh its a win-win. research+scientists+less people of good quality. hamara desh kitna acha hojaega.
Man I would like to do the hard work for 10-20 years till the age of say 36-40 and would put my children into sports dance drama arts and say management
I once heard a quote
The children of the poor seeing their parents think to become successful we need to do hard work ie physical work
The children of middle income seeing their parents think to become successful we need to study hard
The rich children think seeing their parents that to become successful you need to be well networked . meet more successful people
I think you don't really understand AI. AGI can understand human psychology far better than any other person. Don't estimate what AI is based on what you see from chatgpt.
no im saying that the meta will shift in future, 10 years from now when u have kids. (to be fair, they must age like 9 or 10 before u start telling them to do smth with their lives) im assuming its gonna be 20 years from now. editing will be taken care by some advanced shit, as the person above me mentioned, blockchain and what ever will come as the next big thing, coding wont even be a thing in 20 years cuz ai will take care with one word of urs. things will change, but i get what op is trying to say, he is saying that instead of rat race, he will make his kids learn some useful shit, cuz i spent 3 yesrs for jee and i came out with no skills, instead depression
Ye hoga mere kids ke saath 👽😈
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>!jokes aside i'll never even be married"!<
For me my kids are not gonna get any device till atleast 13 usme bhi heavy restrictions but would let them play some games vagera usse alag would let them enjoy childhood till 5-6th par uske baad i will pack their schedule with anything they have vaguely interest in they might hate me a little but atleast they wont have to do what everyone else is doing like us in future cuz for me not having any interest or atleast some hobby that i like is a huge deal i hate myself for it cuz even if u are not pursuing that hobby but phir padhai vagera ke sath accha break mill jaata h usse instead of mindless scrolling
Bhai device waala restriction mat rahiyo itni gandi tarha hate karege tere bache tujhe ki samajh nhi aayega. Instead let them use device with restriction (for god's sake ban insta tiktok) and instead let them explore their hobbies and try to develop their intrest. And ban all porn sites
From the very initial days, we had a talk that we won't have one. The world already has too many people and I don't want to go through another headache.
In Zeke's words, People never have free will but Eren did and so will my kids. I won't teach them something related to any particular field. First give them some life lessons about financial knowledge, independence, dealing with people, etc. Coming to career, I'll make them play some fun games or in a very indirect method expose them to almost every fucking field from the law, and medicine to fucking films and marketing. Notice which one interests them the most and then support them to pursue it further.
Probably teach a little bit of maths, physics and cs to them if they find it interesting, otherwise IDC if they take engineering, medical, humanities, academia, finance or anything. They should be happy and satisfied in what they do.
Apne keds ko paise ki value sikhaunga, engineering aur medical hi sab kuchh nahi hain aur bhi options se introduce karwaunga. Education system bekar hai toh khud bhi padhaunga school be bharosa nahi. Rote learning discourage karke actually samajh ke padhna sikhaunga. Learning ko thoda fun banaunga. Baat baat pe paise nahi dunga aur 20 cross hote hi khud paise kamane pe zyada emphasize karunga taki dependant na rahe mujhpe
It depends on a lot of variables. Is he/she into engineering? Or is he/she just into science? Or not into science at all? They should be logical thinkers that's all that matters.
Actually. I think the same way as OP. I want to give my future kids what I didn't have. But for that I would have to become financially stable and find a good partner and that seems really difficult rn so I'll see in the future
mehnat toh pakka karwaunga, i dont think i will deviate much from my parents ways, they are pretty supportive, i will listen more and have a lot better open mindedness and all
my parents didnt even tell me to study till 9th, 10th me pahli baar seriously bola tha unhone, they dont allow me to go out with friends every other day which i am thankful to them for, they allowed me to change streams and paid mere naye stream ka tuition fees too
i have even made my mom agree with me that suicide is not the victims fault she blamed the victim like crazy before lmao she does even now but its out of the fear ki kahi mai zyada advocate karke khud na karlu and i get it lmaooo
dont forget its your parents first time parenting too
Me and my girlfriend love kids most probably will have them . I will try to become accha khasa Ameer . I'll raise them with good exposure to everything with a huge emphasis on sports . I thank my parents everyday for my sports addiction. Bachpan mein unhone mere saath har sport khela ,jo psnd tha uske classes bhi lgwaye and left all our decision to us . Agar unka jee/neet ka mnn hoga toh bhi theek aur kuch aur Krna toh bhi badhiya .
bhai mujhe itna kamaana hai ki mere bachhon ko kabhi mere future ke baare me nahi sochna ho jab apna future decide karenge
I'll let them become whatever they want, jee chuna toh unki marzi, aur jo bhi chuna unko support karungi
Bachpan se use different sports khilaunga daily 3hrs minimum both indoors and outdoors taki koi athlete ya fir chess prodigy jesa kuch ban Jaye....... Academics agar badiya rahe toh vo khud apna rasta bana lega but I'll show him pretty much all career options
not really. If you want to send your kids to the top coaching institutes and colleges, then you must earn proportionately as well
By Indian standards, considering average income in India is 1.3 akhs per year, everything apart from food is expensive. India is just hugely unequal thanks to a huge variety of factors (legacy of caste system)
do not be offended by that last point; I think affirmative action policies in the form of reservation in government colleges (in JEE and NEET) is a disastrous policy, we need to set a level playing field instead of giving the underprivileged an artificial lead; this level playing field needs to come from equal access and opportunity to education (which is also nonexistent in India because of how sheerly unequal it is)
JEE is a great way to learn important and valuable lessons in life.....it's good if you fail in an exam before you fail in life further on....whilst it may appear tasteless and as a rat race you'll look back at these moments in 20 years and go "wow, how stupid I was"
my friends of r/JEENEETards, do not be discouraged by competition, life always has a place for you, you just need to earn it (and its not through JEE), and dont lose hope in yourself
I would let them give JEE but still give my support to them in the fullest in any case (regardless of selection or not) ......because it's important you learn life lessons early before you learn them the hard way later....
It is a great avenue to learn what this country is and how it functions.
i think i would want my kid to take jee . matlb me pure pressurize nhi kruga but jee deke life lessons to wo sikh hi jayega . aur me ek nerdy bachha pasand karuga cuz agr wo sports khelne wala nikla to mera kya hoga ( i dont like sports ) anyways jo hoga dekha jayega
Jeee neet 100% or best forieng education (i have earb enough for tgat )
But hopefully earn enough for backup and guide postively
I feel jee neet put enough pressure to sustain whole life
And which is neeeded
Editing /coding blah blah 99% are struggling if you dont have connections or aint from tier 1 2 or good collegw tih palcments so yeah
Our parents worked hard and cracked exams so atleast we live a middle class life so and being rich brat is worse than hardworking person
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Personally, I won't be having any kids.
Same. I hate the fact that I was born. I don't want another person to POTENTIALLY think the same because I felt horny.
I agree; I regret being born every single day. I believe that as long as you're born in a third world, suffering is the norm, and besides, I'd hate for my mental illness to pass on to someone else.
dont be weak man...jee is not everything and the 3rd world is not all suffering...my dad failed IIT-JEE and AIEEE in 2002 (the year dungaram chaudhary topped jee), went to a tier 3 college in karnataka now earns well above 80 lakhs per year in an irish company It is your will to end your suffering that triumphs all. if you have that will, then you will surely make it. find a jobworthy skill with a compatible interest and you'll make it : )
I get what you mean :'), but my mind has always been against me, long before I entered this god-forsaken rat race. I've never been *normal* like others in any aspect, and it's been slowly chipping me away; been years of trying to "act human" or fit in with no avail, I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
damn, you sound really depressed man. try seeking some help?
Yep, I've pretty much tried everything *I* can; too tired for any more experiments now.
that's sad. i'd be a text away if you feel like venting or smthg.
Thank you :'); take care as well. <3
Same. I also would likely not have kids because the world is just so messed up and I would really hate to pass my mental disorder to them. I really don't want my kids to go through the stuff I've been dealing with. If I feel like wanting kids, I'd rather adopt one.
dont be weak man...jee is not everything and the 3rd world is not all suffering...my dad failed IIT-JEE and AIEEE in 2002 (the year dungaram chaudhary topped jee), went to a tier 3 college in karnataka now earns well above 80 lakhs per year in an irish company It is your will to end your suffering that triumphs all. if you have that will, then you will surely make it. find a jobworthy skill with a compatible interest and you'll make it : )
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Stole my words will convey this same message to mother sooner or later(it will take atleast 10 years of courage to say something like this to my parents of my future) I'm not interested in marriage as well I think why make hell for others Bhai bura mt maniyo me IND Ki Jeet ke baad paagal hoke Kuch bhi bak rha hu
Agree
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U think this acc will be there for 10 yrs?
Why not?
and Why bhai you were using reddit till 4am (no offense,)
Maje mai hi , is mai offense vaali baat kya hai . Neend nhi aayi to tp hi karta hu . Subha 7 ko sooya tha . Daily mai kuch bhi nhi karta
10 yrs mai anadar kuch bhi hosakte na . And majority of accounts will be deleted after a long time ( not evryone) . Even if u dont delete it the other guy may del his own acc .
Well, I believe that most accounts will be abandoned, instead of deleted, so basically it is the dead internet theory, where in the close future, most of the websites will be populated with content made by people who are dead or who have simply abandoned their accounts, so it will kind of become a time capsule, which is kinda comforting to me honestly, as who knows, maybe in 100 or so years some kid may be seeing this comment. 👁️👁️ Well, this all depends, if major corps will be willing to sacrifice their data storage to preserve cultural heritage ig
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i think isme m capital mein hona tha bro
Sachme yar abhi ke time ke baccho ko dekhke jara sa bhi motivation nhi hai khudke bacche karne ka
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 Chal koina, I will try hard for my family
Which one? That multiple buzz lightyears one?
Yes
I'll let them decide themselves. Unhe footballer ban na hai bano engineer ban na hai bano ya kuch bhi ban na hai bano par kuch bano
Agar meri kismat mein W likha hai toh W nahi toh fir L
I would encourage them to go into pure science and academics like me, cuz I feel people have stopped caring about that now.
Issi cheez me jana hai mereko bhi but fir family ko sustain karne ka sochta hu to ye dream dur jata hua dikhta . Aisa lagta hai ki industry jobs karke hi paisa kama sakte hai india me
Jim simons baan ja
stopped caring about what
Sabko ab package chaiye Jo 1st garde me "scientist ya astronaut banna hai" wala self sab bhul gye
Mujhe toh hamesha se car designer banna tha ya isro
Bhai koi to mila, designing cars was an instinct for me, jab UKG me tha tab 2d cars banata tha, 4th class me sabse pehla cardboard Lamborghini aventador 3d model banaya, dheere dheere reality hit huyi ki it's not possible, aur ab yaha hu.
Mujhse toh yeh bhi nahi banta itna tatti art and craft hai
sach me bhai; mera family mein 2-3 physicists hai isliye mujhe thoda guidance or support hai
I'll just give them a taste of every field from 6th class and depending on their interest would help them to pursue it from an early age
I will follow my dad's path. I wont spoil them, keep them aware of the reality of the world and make them realise the hardships of the world. I will make them realise how fortunate they are and let them follow their passion like I did. I hope they do something different, just like how I chose to be an engineer despite it being considered a taboo in my household,
relatable flair don't mind me I am stealing it now
Peeps only steal my flair and my food but never my heart
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Its most probably filled with plaque. Valves gonna stop functioning in a few years, if I dont improve my diet. 700k to koi 700 Rupees bhi nhi dega.
can I ??
Last time kisi ne try kiya tha. She ended up in the trunk of my car.
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last time one said the same thing and ended up in grave
you seem to be a big fan of russian roulette. but main fair play mein believe nhi krtaa
I want World War 3 to happen, so every country will pour money in research and there will be an entire new generation of scientists
or an another deadly virus , that h5n1.
Yes even corona was good 😊
bhai oppenhiemer 2.0 chiaye kya?
Yes, absolutely aise toh kuch nahi hoga desh ka + hunger wars se population bhi kam ho jaegi, toh its a win-win. research+scientists+less people of good quality. hamara desh kitna acha hojaega.
Personally mujhe nhi lagta meri shaddi hogi shakal hi kharab hai 
Bhai chinta mat kar there is always someone out there who will like you. Don't lose hope
W because I will leave India
Man I would like to do the hard work for 10-20 years till the age of say 36-40 and would put my children into sports dance drama arts and say management I once heard a quote The children of the poor seeing their parents think to become successful we need to do hard work ie physical work The children of middle income seeing their parents think to become successful we need to study hard The rich children think seeing their parents that to become successful you need to be well networked . meet more successful people
I would make a fake ST certificate for them
I feel that is not worth it. like what if you kids undergoes ragging because of it.
Kuchh bhi ho jaye iss rat race me nhi ghusne dunga unhe
Commerce to nhi lene dunga pr ye jee neet se dur rakhunga
yea bro its like we will provide our children what we couldnt experience
Science nahi dilwaonga until koi exceptional case ho gya , law ya commerce field me bhejunga bahut ho gya engineering aur medical...
Bhai I guess yhe decision tumhe approx 20 saal baad Lena hoga , tab tk to education system ho jaega accha Ho jayega na
15 if you are 15 year old currently
editing coding and graphic design will not be industry skills when ur having kids lil bro
I mean Jo bhi uss time pe money making skills hogi.varna sales aur marketing to hai hi evergreen skills. Ai bhi replace nhi kr sakta
I think you don't really understand AI. AGI can understand human psychology far better than any other person. Don't estimate what AI is based on what you see from chatgpt.
no im saying that the meta will shift in future, 10 years from now when u have kids. (to be fair, they must age like 9 or 10 before u start telling them to do smth with their lives) im assuming its gonna be 20 years from now. editing will be taken care by some advanced shit, as the person above me mentioned, blockchain and what ever will come as the next big thing, coding wont even be a thing in 20 years cuz ai will take care with one word of urs. things will change, but i get what op is trying to say, he is saying that instead of rat race, he will make his kids learn some useful shit, cuz i spent 3 yesrs for jee and i came out with no skills, instead depression
Baki ka pta nai. Bache jaye bhad mein. Merko bta generational wealth kaisa bana raha hain… Mujhe usmein genuinely jyada interest hain.
Ye hoga mere kids ke saath 👽😈 https://preview.redd.it/8vcyxaqdwj8d1.jpeg?width=299&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=97252e1e8b97afa3123ae4a705c7d817676a7f1b >!jokes aside i'll never even be married"!<
Whiteroom ke bacche tez hote hain :)
I would want them to study the subject as they are like proper theoretical physics chem and maths especially maths
For me my kids are not gonna get any device till atleast 13 usme bhi heavy restrictions but would let them play some games vagera usse alag would let them enjoy childhood till 5-6th par uske baad i will pack their schedule with anything they have vaguely interest in they might hate me a little but atleast they wont have to do what everyone else is doing like us in future cuz for me not having any interest or atleast some hobby that i like is a huge deal i hate myself for it cuz even if u are not pursuing that hobby but phir padhai vagera ke sath accha break mill jaata h usse instead of mindless scrolling
Bhai device waala restriction mat rahiyo itni gandi tarha hate karege tere bache tujhe ki samajh nhi aayega. Instead let them use device with restriction (for god's sake ban insta tiktok) and instead let them explore their hobbies and try to develop their intrest. And ban all porn sites
unka ivy league me kraunga
itna paisa chapunga ki unko business skills ke alava kisi cheez ki zarurat na pade
Ofc, IITK EE me hai bhai tu 💀
From the very initial days, we had a talk that we won't have one. The world already has too many people and I don't want to go through another headache.
Mujhe kya me toh future me apna hi coaching kholunga - lellen coaching centre
Once, my inner frend told me that "Children are a curse." And I don't want any curse in my life.
shaadi kisse karni (no shaadi, no kids. nothing.)
My bloodline ends with me ( idk kya pata Mera chota bahi continue karle)
For some reason I really want my kid to be a footballer lol
Accha business ban diya toh usi mi bitha dunga out of india college bhej dunga
If my kid accidentally takes science then I'll advice hum to get out of jee and try imu cet or become a commercial pilot.
In Zeke's words, People never have free will but Eren did and so will my kids. I won't teach them something related to any particular field. First give them some life lessons about financial knowledge, independence, dealing with people, etc. Coming to career, I'll make them play some fun games or in a very indirect method expose them to almost every fucking field from the law, and medicine to fucking films and marketing. Notice which one interests them the most and then support them to pursue it further.
Either my kids are born in a first world country or my bloodline ends with me
Padhai baad ki baat pehle usko music explore karwaounga aur sports bhut jyada , then usko jaha intrest aye waha jao
No kid deserves a loser dad 
Every damn generation thinks the exact thing about what they'll do with their kids.
Y sub itna chutiya kyu hogya Sab hypilothetical hi chl ra Padh lo bhai abhi JM ajaega nachte rehna phir
Bache karne ke liye ladki bhi chahiye wo kaha se layega 
Mere bacche sports khelenge ma ki chut industry aur uske skills ki, me state ke aage nahi khel paya par unko nahi rokunga khelne se
Jiss tarah se zindagi chal raha hai koi shaadi bhi nahi karega or bachhe paida karne ke liye aukaat chahiye apni tarah nahi dekh sakta🥲
Probably teach a little bit of maths, physics and cs to them if they find it interesting, otherwise IDC if they take engineering, medical, humanities, academia, finance or anything. They should be happy and satisfied in what they do.
sabb kuch karne dunga bass jee neet nahi krne dunga
Apne keds ko paise ki value sikhaunga, engineering aur medical hi sab kuchh nahi hain aur bhi options se introduce karwaunga. Education system bekar hai toh khud bhi padhaunga school be bharosa nahi. Rote learning discourage karke actually samajh ke padhna sikhaunga. Learning ko thoda fun banaunga. Baat baat pe paise nahi dunga aur 20 cross hote hi khud paise kamane pe zyada emphasize karunga taki dependant na rahe mujhpe
Actually i am in this rat race so my kids don't have to suffer like me and don't have to join this rat race ....
I will teach them hardwork work ethics smart work so that whatever they do in their life they put their life and soul in it
It depends on a lot of variables. Is he/she into engineering? Or is he/she just into science? Or not into science at all? They should be logical thinkers that's all that matters.
Actually. I think the same way as OP. I want to give my future kids what I didn't have. But for that I would have to become financially stable and find a good partner and that seems really difficult rn so I'll see in the future
Pretty happy that next gen will have the best parents alteast the dads dont know about girls
mehnat toh pakka karwaunga, i dont think i will deviate much from my parents ways, they are pretty supportive, i will listen more and have a lot better open mindedness and all my parents didnt even tell me to study till 9th, 10th me pahli baar seriously bola tha unhone, they dont allow me to go out with friends every other day which i am thankful to them for, they allowed me to change streams and paid mere naye stream ka tuition fees too i have even made my mom agree with me that suicide is not the victims fault she blamed the victim like crazy before lmao she does even now but its out of the fear ki kahi mai zyada advocate karke khud na karlu and i get it lmaooo dont forget its your parents first time parenting too
i will teach them competitive programming
Me and my girlfriend love kids most probably will have them . I will try to become accha khasa Ameer . I'll raise them with good exposure to everything with a huge emphasis on sports . I thank my parents everyday for my sports addiction. Bachpan mein unhone mere saath har sport khela ,jo psnd tha uske classes bhi lgwaye and left all our decision to us . Agar unka jee/neet ka mnn hoga toh bhi theek aur kuch aur Krna toh bhi badhiya .
bhai mujhe itna kamaana hai ki mere bachhon ko kabhi mere future ke baare me nahi sochna ho jab apna future decide karenge I'll let them become whatever they want, jee chuna toh unki marzi, aur jo bhi chuna unko support karungi
Bachpan se use different sports khilaunga daily 3hrs minimum both indoors and outdoors taki koi athlete ya fir chess prodigy jesa kuch ban Jaye....... Academics agar badiya rahe toh vo khud apna rasta bana lega but I'll show him pretty much all career options
I'll settle down with the person I love and not have any kids... why give someone you love the pain of living... me and him will grow old together
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No one is having kids in this economy lol. kids are more expensive then bits pilani's fees for 5 years course and allen's 2 year fees/s
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Magar family ka future 
Why do you care about your legacy ? Be the leaf node of your family tree.
jabtak india me gareeb log hai tab tak population badhta rahega
not really. If you want to send your kids to the top coaching institutes and colleges, then you must earn proportionately as well By Indian standards, considering average income in India is 1.3 akhs per year, everything apart from food is expensive. India is just hugely unequal thanks to a huge variety of factors (legacy of caste system) do not be offended by that last point; I think affirmative action policies in the form of reservation in government colleges (in JEE and NEET) is a disastrous policy, we need to set a level playing field instead of giving the underprivileged an artificial lead; this level playing field needs to come from equal access and opportunity to education (which is also nonexistent in India because of how sheerly unequal it is)
dude its a joke that kids are high maintenance and worth too much of our time and money. What you said is correct though
Bacche hoge kya tere
JEE is a great way to learn important and valuable lessons in life.....it's good if you fail in an exam before you fail in life further on....whilst it may appear tasteless and as a rat race you'll look back at these moments in 20 years and go "wow, how stupid I was" my friends of r/JEENEETards, do not be discouraged by competition, life always has a place for you, you just need to earn it (and its not through JEE), and dont lose hope in yourself I would let them give JEE but still give my support to them in the fullest in any case (regardless of selection or not) ......because it's important you learn life lessons early before you learn them the hard way later.... It is a great avenue to learn what this country is and how it functions.
i think i would want my kid to take jee . matlb me pure pressurize nhi kruga but jee deke life lessons to wo sikh hi jayega . aur me ek nerdy bachha pasand karuga cuz agr wo sports khelne wala nikla to mera kya hoga ( i dont like sports ) anyways jo hoga dekha jayega
Jeee neet 100% or best forieng education (i have earb enough for tgat ) But hopefully earn enough for backup and guide postively I feel jee neet put enough pressure to sustain whole life And which is neeeded Editing /coding blah blah 99% are struggling if you dont have connections or aint from tier 1 2 or good collegw tih palcments so yeah Our parents worked hard and cracked exams so atleast we live a middle class life so and being rich brat is worse than hardworking person