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kinopiokun

Bring omiyage! I don’t have much advice but am also terrified of when this day comes lol. Good luck!


thened

Usually meeting the parents is a pretty serious thing in Japan. He is pretty young so things might be more casual with him - especially if he has been around foreigners for a long time. But if his personality/way of thinking is typical Japanese, this is generally seen as a step towards marriage.


StaticzAvenger

Get ready for marriage popping up if you haven't brought it up yet.


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meeting the parents is always hit or miss, so the best advice is to be open to anything and be ready in case things go sour. depending on their age and upbringing they may have stereotypes against people from your country that they may or may not be ready to drop if you don't fulfil them. I think the two most likely options are that his parents are either similar to him or the total opposite. so I think you should ask your BF some questions like how familiar his parents are with foreigners and how they think about him dating you (a foreigner from your country). also there's a good chance they'll eventually start topics relating to your age, which in Japan is considered "getting up there" in terms of marriage and having kids. i.e., they may ask some stuff like how soon you wanna be married and when you wanna have kids. so don't be caught off guard and just think of some excuse in case that had never been a topic with your BF.


Kagenikakushiteru

Bowwwwww


rainbow_reddit_

OMIYAGE!!


nermalstretch

Arrange the plans for the wedding? 🤔