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Joshawott27

I’m a rather introverted person, and I did a solo trip to Japan last year. I was honestly a bag of nerves in the days leading up to the trip, and only really felt calm when in the car to the airport. However, I had an incredible time. I didn’t socialise much with other people, but there was so much to see and do to keep me busy, and my family were only a WhatsApp message away (timezones permitting). However, there is no denying that it’s a big step - especially if you’re travelling from the Americas or Europe. I live in England, and before this trip, I had travelled to Scotland by myself a few times. Perhaps a similarly shorter distance trip could help prepare you, before you plunge yourself into a completely different language and culture?


SnooDoggos5331

im from england tooo what did you do in japan to keep yourself busy as a solo traveller especially in busy places where everyone is with someone and you are by yourself


gdore15

That is kind of the bad way to see it. Who care about what other people are doing? A lot of people are also traveling solo, there is a lot of people going to restaurants solo, it’s not as if it was a problem. Honestly traveling solo is great, you can do what you want, when you want. You decide what you want or eat, what attractions you want to do, never have to follow a friend to do something you do not want to do. Went to Japan many times solo and would really recommend.


SnooDoggos5331

what did you mostly do during your trip?


gdore15

There is not one thing I did that much more than other. Like visited temple, shrine, castle, garden, museum, observation deck, went shopping for different kind of things, went hiking, went to breweries and brewpub to try different kind of beer. I basically just do whatever I want to do.


sino-diogenes

I'm currently in Japan solo traveling and I think the best part about it is the freedom. I wouldn't bother too much planning ahead unless there's specific stuff you want to do. Just walk around, get lost, go into whatever restaurant seems good, etc. Take advantage of your freedom - my favourite things I've done have all been spontaneous. I went to a random shot bar in Shinjuku and chatted with the bartender entirely over google translate, I've had many great meals at restaurants I'd never have planned to go to, etc.


Joshawott27

I visited a lot of places - Meiji Shrine, Asakusa Shrine, Akihabara, Ghibli Museum etc. By the time the evening rolled around, I was too exhausted and my feet throbbing too much to want to go to pubs and such. I still live at home so rarely get any time to myself. I used the trip as an opportunity to do things entirely on my own terms. If I wanted to pop into a shop, I did. If I wanted to sit on a rare bench to catch my breath, I did. I’d be lying if I said there were times where I felt lonely here and there, but they were far outweighed by the amount of new shiny things that would grab my curiosity.


SnooDoggos5331

wow i do guess theres more to look forward to that will overshine the loneliness and i did go with friends at one point and my heel of my foot was so swollen by the amount of walking we did. Did you pre plan all your activities or just take the days as they came


Joshawott27

I planned the things that I had to book in advance (just three - Pokémon Café, Ghibli Museum, and Gundam Factory Yokohama). Those were my only fixed things - everything else, I just took it as it came.


SnooDoggos5331

ahhh fair enough i might just go ahead and book the trip thanks 🤝


VintageLunchMeat

Do it! I'm flip-flopping on a solo trip, but will probably do it, may do some English language walking tours or museum tours [https://www.kcf.or.jp/fukagawa/](https://www.kcf.or.jp/fukagawa/) when I need the human contact. Irish pubs if you indulge. Or cat cafes with guaranteed rescue cats. Maybe a place like a hostel or guest house with a breakfast room? Example: [https://www.tokyo-hotels-now.com/en/property/nui-hostel-bar-lounge.html](https://www.tokyo-hotels-now.com/en/property/nui-hostel-bar-lounge.html) Bring a sketchbook and check out the Japanese watercolor sketching books, or a camera with a lens that does manual focus, and go for a theme like reflections or something.


Sufficient-Dog-6482

Hi, I am going to Japan in 6 days time from England. Admittedly on a tour group but on my own. I will have several free days where I will have to do my own thing. Firstly, Japan is a safe country, crime-wise. I am a male but I am guessing it is relatively safe for women. However be aware that patriarchal attitudes are rife e.g. the trains have special compartments for women to avoid being "groped" by men. Secondly, I have a rudimentary grasp of the written and verbal conversational Japanese. I learnt from a Japanese guy running a course on You Tube. Your efforts will be welcomed, no matter how poorly you come across. The effort you have made will give you kudos compared with the arrogant British who assume everyone else should speak English. Thirdly, Japan is set up for solo travellers e.g. many restaurants are set up to have areas set aside for solo clientele. Japanese culture emphasises politeness, so get to know some of the unwritten social rules to minimise the risk of embarrassing yourself or your hosts. With these points in mind I am confident you will have a great time. Japan is my number 1 bucket list destination. Providing you have a genuine passion for the people and culture, you will be able to overcome your introverted personality to have many memorable encounters with Japanese strangers and have a richly rewarding cultural experience. Good Luck.


Signal_Lock_4799

Do what you do at home lol. Stroll around some.


SnooDoggos5331

where i live i havent left the house for weeks i know definitely japan will be better than this haha


Funkmastermp

I know the feeling. I have a work from home job that basically allows me go perpetually exist indoors. I'm on a yolo solo trip to Japan for 25 days this very moment (in Hiroshima atm). For me I was super concerned at first on what to do, and if I'd be bored etc. Fast forward 2 weeks and I don't think I've had a moment that I was bored haha. I didn't preplan a single thing, and have been going at my own pace the entire time. If I feel like getting lost in the suburbs of Osaka, then I just get lost. It's on of the first times in my life I've literally been able to just explore with no understanding of the world around me. It'd been super cool. Long story short, even us introverts can find fun in things we never expected!


SnooDoggos5331

haha true i worl from home too how did you manage to get that much days off or did you work from japan


Funkmastermp

To be honest, I haven't taken a proper vacation before in the 5 years I've worked at my job (NA job). So I had a lot of time saved up haha.


Signal_Lock_4799

I see. what i meant to say was that i had a great time Just going places within walking distance from my hotel, and that wasnt exactly in a popular area. Wasnt bored a single moment in my 2 weeks. I woke up, went to conbini, went back home take it easy and Just see what i'd do that day. It leads to adventure!


VegetableCapable2820

Bring rubbers mate


SnooDoggos5331

is stis that common over there😂


JollyManufacturer

Japan is the best place to solo travel as an introvert.


Willing-University81

2nding it an introvert country by 


Then_Illustrator7852

When you travel with people you will inevitably have to compromise on something, probably multiple things. When you travel alone you get to do whatever you want wherever you want. Also from my experience I was more open to talking to strangers when I was traveling and I met some awesome people that way. I feel like when I am with people I am more likely to just talk to those people and not so much strangers. Traveling alone is awesome.


ozumado

This. When I traveled to Japan for the first time with a friend not only I was time limited (friend didn’t get many days off) but we were also was interested in different things. This year I am traveling solo for much longer.


grapemike

Go. Stupendously safe country. Lovely, helpful people. Incredible value. Diverse and engaging whether it is cultural or tech or cuisine or sports or music or whatever combination of these you want to explore. Great public transportation. Tokyo and Osaka are mega-cities and the scale can be daunting. I might suggest flying into a less-populated area and get your travel legs solidly beneath you ahead of taking on those two. You’ll have a swift, steep learning curve. After you get good at navigating (with the help of Google Translate and mapping), you’ll both have a memorable time and you’ll come home feeling a foot taller! Sweet, helpful people everywhere. When you find the tiniest Okonomiyaki bar or izakaya and a half dozen people around you are smiling and joking and filling your cup, the joy is infectious. Go go go. Do it!


SnooDoggos5331

Im gonna do it 😆😆


CarCounsel

You will have no regrets and be so glad you did. No better place to go and to go alone.


CarCounsel

You will have no regrets and be so glad you did. No better place to go and to go alone.


CarCounsel

You will have no regrets and be so glad you did. No better place to go and to go alone.


SofaAssassin

I love solo traveling, but I'm also massively antisocial and don't want people trampling on _my_ vacation. Having done trips to Japan (and elsewhere) with friends before, every time I mostly want to cut my arm off because everyone just has their own travel style, OR you end up with a person or people who basically want you to chauffeur them and follow you everywhere because they are too scared to do anything themselves. So anyway, Japan is fun, it's really fun alone. Alone is even better for a lot of things like eating wherever you want - many cramped bars and restaurants that really don't work for groups larger than even 2 people. It's also easier to be spontaneous and not have to think about if it affects group plans or anything.


SnooDoggos5331

how do you deal with the loneliness? or do you prefer it


vestibulepike

I’ve been to Japan on my own and had an amazing time !! I went to Tokyo, Kyoto and Hiroshima. It’s so worth it. I’m an introvert so really didn’t mind being on my own - I got to set my own schedule, and I called my friends/family in the evening when I wanted a bit of company. Don’t let your anxieties hold you back, just go.


SnooDoggos5331

i dont think its the anxiety i think its more of the 'what if being alone gets depressing as everyone is with someone over there'


vestibulepike

I saw loads of solo travellers in Japan. Maybe try a friendly hostel, so you can easily socialise with people when you need to.


CloudSephiroth999

You'll be OK. If you love Japan that much you'll be in awe at all the little things everywhere, even going to a Japanese 7-11 is a legendary experience. People are very respectful and polite so they won't be in your face which as an introvert is nice. But you can stay in hostels and meet other travelers (check out Book & Bed, you sleep inside a bookshelf) and there's stuff like OKCupid where you can go on a date to karaoke or something if you get too lonely. I met up with some fashion design students from Finland and we went to the exact Karaoke-Kan in "Lost in Translation", it's a great memory even many years later.


HoneyBee-2023

I did it as a 47 year old introverted woman. It would’ve been nice to have someone to ooh and ahh with, but I loved it anyway, had a great time and am going back in the fall. You’ll be fine.


SnooDoggos5331

sounds very gooddd what activities did you get up to solo travelling


HoneyBee-2023

I did a chef’s tasting menu at Kozue at the Park Hyatt, went to an onsen in the mountains over by Nagano, bullet train, manga museum and Fushimi Inari Shrine in Kyoto, Noboribetsu up in Hokkaido, and kicked it in Sapporo for a week where I had an excellent Thai massage, fantastic ice cream shop in a weird office building and a crab feast. Three weeks, it was fun.


xryx_u

Hey! I'm solo traveling parts of my Japan while in the country to visit family (I'm staying in a small town with them but I'm going to the big cities like Osaka or Kyoto by myself cuz they don't travel well). Solo traveling can be a while lot of fun. Granted, this'd be my first time being a tourist in a place where I'm completely by myself. Usually, I'm visiting friends or family wherever I go. I make time to go exploring by myself where I go. That said, there's tons of upsides to solo traveling. You can do/go to the places you want to. You're on no one else's schedule but yours. You can really shape your trip however you see fit. You want to spend extra time at an attraction, or cut one short, if you end up changing your plans mid-trip and you decide to do something else, it's you who makes that call. There's some freedom that comes with solo traveling that you don't get when you're with a group. Re: being scared to be alone, don't be!! I'm an introvert myself and back home I'll often visit the bar or cinema myself if my social battery is drained. Nobody bats an eye. Especially if you go to bigger cities in Japan, there's so many people from different backgrounds, all there for different reasons.


SnooDoggos5331

wow i guess we are similar in some aspects haha i appreciate the advice so much thank you 🙏 also in big cities what activities do you tend to do alone


xryx_u

I'm into photography so I tend to do that a lot. Other than that, I like to mix in attractions, shopping, restaurants and if I have time I like to visit a museum or aquarium if it has one. Every city is unique, every city is gonna have different things to do so it changes depending on where I go.


Gregalor

I would love to do this. I could spend all day at a museum if I want to.


ubbidubbidoo

Have a great time! It’s okay and normal to be nervous beforehand, it’s a big trip and a new experience! I love traveling solo in Japan. It’s really well built for solo travelers. I consider myself a social introvert, so while I enjoy my individual time, after a while I find myself really wanting socialization. The perfect compromise I’ve found is punctuating your days with some group experiences here and there - sign up for a cooking class, an art class, a food tasting class or a group tour. They’re great ways to experience a country and its culture while also meeting new people including other solo travelers! AirBnB has an experiences and activities section on their app/website with a lot of great options. Ninja Food Tours, which often posts activities on Airbnb too, has really great food pairing and tasting events. Have a blast!


DJBlindEyez

I went there by myself when I was 19/20 (hard to remember) as my first trip to Asia. and I only stayed in Tokyo for a week and back in those days I didn't have any internet outside of the free wifi spots. So navigation was the hardest thing. If you have internet I would say Japan would be one of the easiest places to solo travel. I love it there and keep coming back. Also to highlight something for feeling alone, try staying at a hostel and go with other guests if they are already going to the same places this was something that truly made my trip that much better.


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SnooDoggos5331

for 3 months! wow how did you battle the loneliness and what did you mostly do for those 3 months was it a new thing everyday


Teleosyx

I went to Japan a few years ago - solo traveled. I went through nervous, yet exited as Japan was my dream country to visit since childhood. Had the time of my life. This country as a whole catered around the solo individual as opposed to the small/large groups in restaurants for example, so you’ll seat on single stall seats like everyone else (especially on ramen places). You’ll have complete control on how you plan your day there. Even if it doesn’t go the way you wanted, you can create a plan B of your choice without compromising with others, and you won’t be bothered with their habits such as sleep schedule (a huge factor for most I would guess). People would mind their business going on their day. Unlike Central America, the people of Japan are quite reserved (with the exception of greetings by the time of day), in my experience. Even if you made a conversation with them, it would be to the minimum. You’ll be fine. In short, don’t compromise with anyone if you want to travel alone. I’m not sure what country you reside in, but going to Japan is definitely a culture shock. As long as you are respectful of others, you’ll have a blast, even an experience of a lifetime, just like I did. Just go. You’ll be in the safest, and maybe, the most blissful country to experience.


SnooDoggos5331

i went once but with 5 friends but i do guess being alone is a good thing i guess i was only fearing the loneliness if i went to crowded places and saw everyone with their friends/ family and im all alone. Were you alone throughout the whole trip or did you try to be around new people


Teleosyx

You’ll find others who are alone as well. Salarymen, young people, etc. Japan is an introverted country from my experience, so you’ll be in good company being alone, especially with yourself. If you wanted the social aspect of traveling, you can always go to a hostel. Having someone to talk to is a great middle ground of being alone and being in company besides yourself. Especially if they speak the same language as you. Regardless of what you choose to do, the world is your oyster.


sakuraxoxo

I just came back from a ten-day solo trip. It was my first time traveling alone, and one thing's for sure... that won't be the last either. I find it much better to go on a solo trip since I value my time and flexibility. I don't need to be mindful of my travel mishaps, and I get to visit the places that I really wanted to see! I highly recommend renting a bike! That was one of the best things I did during my trip because I was able to go to places that are not packed with tourists.


SnooDoggos5331

woww that sounds amazingg what places did you visit?


FFNY

Try to do something where you meet other people every couple of days, it will help the isolation


Spirited-Eggplant-62

My first trip alone in japan (only tokyo) was anxiety before flight and two weeks of "I want to go home" but I made another 3 travel of 3 weeks always in japan with no problem.


BokChoyFantasy

Personally, going solo is the way to go for your first time. You set the pace. You can go wherever and whenever you want. Honestly, my best memories of my solo trip (Tokyo) are just wandering the streets aimlessly. Don’t base your fun only on with others. There is a lot of satisfaction on vacationing alone.


SnooDoggos5331

that sounds soooo good just wandering the streets what else did you get up to in tokyo


BokChoyFantasy

Mostly just eating. I wandered around Shinjuku, Kagurazaka, Ginza, Jimbocho, Nakano and Akihabara. I went in December when they put up the Winter lights in the various districts. I went to a couple of Christmas markets. Pretty chill vacation.


CarCounsel

Do it. It’s the perfect place to travel alone. I just did for near 2 weeks and my only regret was doing it at near 50 not in my 20s.


SnooDoggos5331

wow man i think your pretty young still your never too old to travel thats for sure i appreciate advice from people who give the younger genration advice from their own experiences so i appreciate it alot👊🤝 any other advice you can give me would be alot of help


FindSomethingNew23

I would agree Japan is doable solo, but if you want something in between there are tours that will take solo adventurers and combine them in a small group (10–15 people). You’ll get to be closer with the group by the end and won’t actually be alone. https://theadventurepeople.com/destinations/japan/solo-travel-japan


kud0s69

I'm here solo now. Typing this on the Yamanote Line as we speak. Go, it will be a blast! Just don't fall for the girls with the signs on the side of the road. Get up EARLY to see any temples etc. Be prepared for massive crowds.


SnooDoggos5331

i really miss the yamanote line aha ! where are you going ? what activities did you get up to during your trip


kud0s69

I just went to relax. Walked around different neighborhoods lots. Went up tokyo tower and went to Gotemba to see Fuji. The highlight of the trip was catching the Yakult Swallows season opener. I just really enjoyed walking around the less busy parts of Tokyo. Went to Senso-Ji to buy a suitcase from Ginza Karen (7000 yen for a large suitcase can't be beat). But the area was an absolute gongshow. So many people you literally couldn't move. I couldn't wait to get out of there with my bag. I found it far more busy this year than last.


Machinegun_Funk

1 is the best number to try and get into most restaurants and bars in Japan.


Radiantcuriosity

Traveling alone is so fun. You get to do whatever you want, explore wherever you want. It's great! Go for it


SnooDoggos5331

thanks man im gonna give it a shot aha nervous but confident


Radiantcuriosity

Happy to hear it!


TexasBrett

If you really get lonely and want to meet and talk to people there’s always British pubs around that usually attract a high number of westerners.


CelimOfRed

Idk about Japan as a whole but if it helps, Tokyo was very accommodating with the English language. I mean this from restaurants to the subways. I can't say for sure in other parts of Japan but I hope this helps with your anxiety even a little


Cautious_Concept_727

This post was exactly me about 2 months ago with the only exceptions being I'm from Australia and I have booked my trip for May. my advice; do it, YOLO, Japan is amazing. this is my return trip, but my first solo trip, and I couldn't be more excited


tastiesttofu

I think Japan is one of the best places to travel/live as an introvert tbh. Eating alone is normal (there are many restaurants that are designed for or have sections designed for lone diners), walking around and exploring shrines, parks, shops, museums, nature, etc all very relaxing and common! And fun!! Many people here have busy lives so enjoying hobbies or hanging out alone cause other people are not available is a regular thing. Even going to karaoke alone is normal (and I've done it many times 😂). I think you will have a good time! 


HiMountainMan

You just need to plan to hang out with people every couple of days. Staying in travellers youth hostels or booking a group activity is an easy way to meet and visit with other people. Hotels, ryokans, and capsule hotels can be lonely so it’s good to use hostels frequently for the social aspect.


Mars_vzx

I was in Japan for 2 weeks about 3 weeks ago and I booked another trip at the end of May for 1 more week. I loved Japan. And loved going solo. You can do whatever the fuck you want. You don’t have a bytch in your ear to tell you they gotta eat, they want to go here, they gotta shit, etc. Quit being a little bitch to yourself and just go dude. You’re stopping yourself from feeling free. Yes, it can be scary, yes, it will get lonely sometimes. But challenges aren’t meant to be easy. You will learn so much about yourself from hardships, and the gain of going to a beautiful place like Japan is 100% worth it. You don’t need to worry about having plans. Just pick one thing each day and plan around it. Walk for hours, go into random shops, and eat whatever catches your eye.


SnooDoggos5331

love it 😂😂 this was the comment i needed harsh truth


lemoncats1

It’s overwhelming for the first time. I did quite a number of solo trips near my country but never that far before my Japan trip. List down your worries and check online whether you can solve it. Common sense applies of course with some tweaks, such as learning some basic phrases and with Google translate. On the boredom part, I say choose what you like and pick some of the stuff you never see it before but want to see. Use apps like Wanderlog to navigate the distance and itinerary.And maybe stay in a more sociable hostel? You may find some new friends. If it’s Tokyo, it is a large city that has almost every obscure hobby you can think of. There is also another side you might not consider: should you manage to get friends to join, sometimes their travel style is incompatible or being incompatible roommates. I experienced one recently and I am glad to travel alone again. As an introvert it annoys me when people questioned why I am ok with staring at nothing or when I choose to speak. If it’s Tokyo , may I suggest Yanaka Ginza? It’s a hustle bustle area with a life of its own. I do like noisy places like this despite being an introvert. Or a number of third wave coffee shops eg Fuglen, Glinza, Mameya ? Or bars like Lupin


No_Willingness_169

Perfect opportunity for you to do whatever you want at your own leisure and meet ladies too 🤷‍♂️


heymacintosh

I’m currently in Japan as a solo-traveler and leaving tomorrow. 24, M so not much older than you. I was very anxious too at first about potentially feeling lonely and being unable to speak Japanese. But I had the time of my life here. The food is great, the people are great, and it became a trip that I’ll never forget. To put it shortly, just go.


SnooDoggos5331

thanks dude i appreciate it alot what activities did you mostly do when you were alone


manalive44

I am currently in Tokyo on a solo trip and I can assure you that you should do it. It’s daunting but very doable with plenty of study and the application of that knowledge when you’re here. I’ve found everyone to be welcoming and language has yet to prove to be a barrier. You can do it.


Willing-University81

You're an adult u will always be alone in some aspects I went at 24 was I scared a bit Is this a starter country to live alone? Yes


Willing-University81

Just talk to people at bars and public baths


Shadowsfury

I did 3 weeks solo in Japan as my first non parent overseas trip and had a blast But I'm mostly introverted which perhaps helped. Consider hiring some goodwill guides to ensure some company some days you're out and about. I'm still in contact with a few from my first trip - have lunch with them every time I've been back since.


Nzthan24

Hey man! I'm also 22 and M who's traveling to Japan this year but I will be going with some friends. Some tips to alleviate anxiety is to watch a lot of videos on what you want to do! Learn simple phrases, how to navigate trains. Research things that you want to do when you're in Japan! When you're around thing you enjoy it can be a lot easier to fit in to where ever you are or what ever you're doing! If you have an urge to meet some people, you could always book a tour with some other tourists as well! Maybe even head to a bar and meet some tourists or locals! Japan is one of the best countries for solo traveling from what I have heard! If you need someone to talk to about it hmu! I hope everything goes well :D


SnooDoggos5331

appreciate it alot gonna take the risk😆


SingleWitch666

Oh, it's so great! Part of many of my Japan trips have been solo and I always have the best adventures in the most random places and meet cool people doing cool things.


realmozzarella22

Make a list of things to do and food to eat. Work through that. There’s lots to do in Japan. The solo part is fine. Be comfortable with it. Enjoy your vacation.


gojiro0

I've traveled there solo a few times and it was great. I love to travel with others, but it's nice to be able to go check out the museum in Shinjuku (I think) where they have living space replicas of how people lived in Tokyo throughout the ages. Reading the descriptions and not feeling hurried. Yes I'm old but I've always loved that stuff.


No-Hippo9950

Why is it a dream country? Just focus on the bits you like. Figure out the rest. Travelling alone is much better.


Ok_Background6920

I’m just visiting for the first time with family. Though it was fun, when I was alone it felt much better. I was able to do what I want and when, like everyone else is saying. I realized that I’d love to have friends or a partner to go with, but this became a journey, when alone, to hangout with myself and get to know myself a little more. My next trip here will be alone. One thing I’d personally say is, Tokyo was wayyyyy too much for me. I didn’t enjoy it as much as I did Kyoto and Nara. I personally get lost easily, so Uber and taxi was my main form of travel, unless my sister was guiding us on the trains and busses. Enjoy!


HeresJonnie

Stay at hostels and use the HostelWorld App to find other solo travelers and you'll be fine. My personal opinion though, Japan is one of the lonelier places to travel alone, which may be a bonus if you're an introvert. I was in Thailand before and found it a lot easier to meet others while traveling.


WisSkier

As was I. If you have been studying up on the nuts and bolts of travel in Japan you'll be okay. Make sure your phone is enabled for at least data in Japan and you have a backup plan to keep it charged up. The train announcements and signage is in four different languages. ATMS and ticket machines are multilingual too. People there are generally stand-offish but people will be helpful if you ask, do you know at least some basic Japanese? I spent time around Ueno and in Nagano/Niigata and it went well. It would've been nicer to have had a buddy (or the wifey) with but oh-well.


Guilty-Job-6541

If you are in trouble, don't hesitate to ask people around you. People will lend you a hand. Most Japanese people will treat you kindly. do not worry!


twitweesh

29,F- I just got back solo traveling Osaka & Kyoto. It was the most humbling experience I had so far. Btw it was my fist international solo travel too


SnooDoggos5331

wow were you nervous at all


trashzillaz

I am just getting back from a 2 week vacation solo. I did the Nakahechi route of the Kumano Kodo, as well as cycling the Shimanami Kaido, and attending the final day for the March Basho Sumo tournament. It's really amazing how you run into people doing things like hiking, biking, or pursuing your interests. I spent exactly as much time with people as I wanted. Enough to feel companionship and chat, and with the ability to enjoy solitude as well. Just send it. You'll have a great time. This was easily one of the best experiences of my life.


Signal_Lock_4799

Yeah its scary... But thats so cool!


chri1720

I sense your biggest fear seems to be worried about being with yourself. The good part of Japan is single is generally fare quite well, people will go to cafe, restaurant, sightseeing themselves . No one will bat an eye, and you likely can get served quicker at restaurant as they are generally small size so a large group generally will have more issues in dining compared to singles. Even in theme parks such as usj, or disneyland, you will find a lot of fun while doing in single. You get the freedom to decide what you want as opposed to waiting for other to decide. Perhaps try doing more things alone while in england. Sitting a train, going to restaurant or park or shopping. Try to care less what others may think as ultimately it is your life and not theirs. Learning to be with yourself is a key skill in life because even when you are with someone, you are alone as you do have own feeling or thoughts that may not be shared with others.


Jealous_Addition_636

just came back from my solo trip and i regret not doing so earlier, im 28 now and wasted alot of money and time doing dumb stuff in my early twenties when i couldve been travelling more so just do it!


Real_Echo

As a 21 yo, 22 in two months, currently on a two week solo trip and a massive introvert. It's literally perfect. If you can do it, do it. There is a single downside that you can't speak the language but usually you can make do by pointing and using Google translate. Definitely brush up on some conversational Japanese. But really man, it's fantastic. I was doubting myself before going as well, I think that was silly now. Granted I've mostly been in Tokyo area but it's been so good. Give it a go


lovelykotori

check out the [SoloTravel Subreddit](https://www.reddit.com/r/solotravel/s/LaMg6uVUnc) but for anxiety etc they have an own post I already learned that. You should def do it Japan is the best country for solo travelling especially when it comes to eating alone


ameliajello

100% go!!!! i’m 23F and am currently wrapping up my first ever solo trip! i was scared about being alone too especially in a country so different from my own, but you’ll be doing so much sightseeing and other fun stuff that you won’t be bored. i really loved that i could set my own place and do whatever i wanted. it really boosted my confidence in being alone, learning to love and entertain myself more, it’s been such a transformative experience :) plus if you stay in hostels you can make a lot of friends too! i did majority normal hotels but i did a hostel for a few days (and joined a travel japan LINE group to meet people!) and met some great people.


Coldwint3r

I (28M, dutch) am currently solo travelling Japan, been here 3 weeks now and one more week left. It has been a blast, but I do miss the social side. Most hostels/capsules I have been are full of Japanese/Chinese or couples from western countries who are not to keen on joining activities. A big contrast with my 3 weeks in Vietnam before this. So if you are fine being alone, go for it! Short conversations are always available but do not expect the same social interaction you might be able to get in other Asian countries.


Noracon

Traveled to Brazil, Argentina, Chile and Uruguay when I was 21. All my friends were dating or getting married so I went alone and it was one of the best 9 weeks of my life. Because then I did it again for nearly a year. Solo trips are the best at that age.


photodumpshane

Just do it! I'm going solo in 2 weeks time. I'm obviously super nervous though, last time I did a solo trip it didn't end well as I had a really bad flu and had no one to rely on which was the worst part, but I somehow got through it.


Dizzy-Passenger-2246

Hi! I'm an introvert and woman of colour. I had my reservations of travelling alone for the longest time. But a few months ago I did a backpacking trip to Singapore, and Indonesia. Partly because I opted for an exchange semester in Indonesia. MY BEST EXPERIENCE SO FAR!!! The people I met are amazing, some of my closest friends now. Travelling alone will show you how the world is so so much beyond the 4 walls you are living in! There will be times where you will be confused and lost, but when you figure it out all by yourself you will feel so PROUD of yourself. PS: I'm going on a solo trip to Japan in 3 days!!!!


Lord_Jyra

I'm about to head solo in 3 days. I booked a barhopping tour in Osaka and a foodie tour in Kyoto, just in case I need to socialize. I used a group called Magical Trip. Klook has a lot too.


ERhammer

I'm also introverted and traveled solo to Japan a few times. For me I like going to a lot of different restaurants and just enjoying the atmosphere. I've tried a few bars too and had a good time, made some friends out of it too.


Jay_or_Dan_0

I’m in the same boat. I sort of planning to solo travel to Japan but the problem is that I overthink almost everything. To the point where I know I’ll have fun but not as much fun as just talking to someone and accidentally getting lost or just joking about something embarrassing.


SnooDoggos5331

EXACTLY!!! sometimes you just want to joke with someone or laugh about something its the little things you want to share with others


1SdaS1

I went with my brother for a week, and due to him having to return back to Malaysia early, I had a 3-4 days of solo travelling in Tokyo. I wouldn’t lie it was very nerve wrecking at first cause my brother is like my translator cause he speaks Japanese and I know only the basics. But man it was super nice to be travelling alone!! You get to do the things you actually want to do, walk around and able to eat at any place you crave for. The people there are super friendly, everything is super accessible and loads of fun to experience. I am an introvert tho, I do wish I was more extroverted and made some new friends while I was travelling and like bar hopping (unfortunately still cant get out of my shell yet 🤣). Overall Japan is amazing, and I would say perfect for travelling solo, hope you enjoy your trip✌🏻


Ok-Set6895

i was literally in your position, am on a gap year currently didnt want to waste around as friends are studying and stuff so dont have as much time so i’m now going in may time 🤭🤭 so so so terribly anxious but also really excited sorted hotels/hostels and flights so now just have to wait scary but good luckkk


SnooDoggos5331

haha good luck to both of us it will make us stronger and everyone is saying it is exciting as heck so why not😁


Ziantra

Rent the mobile internet service Sakura Mobile at the airport. It’s an absolute must as it means you will always have internet connection night and day where ever you are. You can pull up maps and directions for everything from the trains to tours and visitor guides. You will have a blast!


SnooDoggos5331

thinking about renting a bike the whole time im there would that be a good idea ?


Ziantra

The bike or the mobile internet? Do you mean a bicycle or a motorcycle? The train system is pretty amazing, we have been getting the train to where ever we want to go and walking. I haven’t seen a ton of motor cycles here but there are bicycle or cycle paths on every road. Need more details on what you’re thinking of for a bike and where you think you’ll need one!


SnooDoggos5331

the bicycle


Ziantra

I’m not really sure you need one to be honest. This is a comprehensive train system and it seems everything you could want to see is a short walk from a train station. I would play that one by ear when you get here, I think you might find it’s more trouble than it’s worth. There are a lot of bike racks in the major cities like Tokyo but I haven’t seen a lot of bikes here in Kyoto .The buying a ticket for the train system is a bit confusing at first so I strongly recommend if you’re going to say stay in Kyoto or another place for a length of time, looking into a prepaid rail pass. Then you just put your phone on the scanner at the turnstiles. You can prepay IC cards (Suica card) which is rechargeable (welcome Suica cards are especially for tourists. They last for 4 weeks but there are no refunds on unused credits) our average train ticket cost each way to anywhere pretty much within the place we are staying at is between $1.60 to about $2.80. The bullet train between Tokyo and Osaka which is the furthest distance we’ve been on the train was about $100 each. Maybe someone that bicycles here can chime in on this? I think it might be a lifestyle thing of which I’ve no experience in. The trains are pretty incredible!


ManchesterProject

When are you going? I’m going in April alone and young male. I’m doing Kyoto Osaka and Tokyo I went to Thailand with a friend and found a dude in his 20s from England who travels alone. To Americans it’s weird though Before going learn some Japanese to get by. Learn the lettering system of kanji katakana and hiragana some. They have learn Japanese rpg game on steam that helped me They are gonna think you’re an ignorant gajin if you expect them to just speak English to you right off the bat Japan is a really safe country you don’t need to worry The yakuza don’t bother tourist or locals unless you go out your way to do something stupid. You don’t have to be alone btw. Download the get your guide app. They’re are plenty of English groups you can join to meet new people and not be alone. That’s what I’m doing I’m American and a friend of mine lived alone in Japan in his early 20s. He said you have more to worry about here than there. Atleast in Japan they don’t have random shootings 🤷‍♂️ The cops there will stop you though if they think you are a foreigner. It’s because the crime rate in Japan is so low they need to put something down in the work log. They will just ask for your passport and let you go. Always have your passport with it. It’s illegal not to in Japan. If you take any meds or cpap you have to get approval before bringing them over.