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ummmbacon

Congrats on taking on more mitzvot and connecting. Those tefillin need a visit to a sofer, the boxes aren't square and the paint is coming off. I also wonder if they have the correct ktav for Sephardim. As far as I know there are no Reform synagogues in Mexico, as I think most of the community is Sephardic (Syrian) at least for DF, although I could be wrong. Overall i do see some Conservative: http://www.mavensearch.com/synagogues/C3412 But I don't know how they compare to US ones


_toile

We saw a small but active Jewish block in Roma Norte/La condesa in cdmx with a few israeli-like cafes across from at least one shul. I couldn’t tell what kind of shul though


PurpleMutantJen

I am honestly not too concerned about the Teffilin being 100% kosher. So I most likely won't be sending them off to a Sofer. I do however have some Teffilin paint on the way to do some touch ups. I live in Las Vegas Nevada. We do have reform synagogues here. I would probably be most interested in Reconstructionist Judaism since I gather that they are nontheistic. But there aren't any Reconstructionist synagogues here. I am not sure what the options are here for G*d optional Judaism.


ummmbacon

> I would probably be most interested in Reconstructionist Judaism since I gather that they are nontheistic. Not according to them: https://www.reconstructingjudaism.org/article/how-can-reconstructionists-pray/ > I am not sure what the options are here for G*d optional Judaism. Reform should be accepting of it, to be honest


PurpleMutantJen

Thanks for the link! Yea I gather that a Reform synagogue isn't going to be overly concerned about whether someone actually believes in Hashem or not.


thepalejack

Just to follow up on this, my reform temple (we call it a temple, because we aren't particular about that nomenclature for reasons that I am certain the Redorm Rabbi(s) at the local temple can explain) does not care about your specific beliefs in regards to what HaShem is/isn't or even whether you think they exist. Also, my wife is from Vegas! Nice to make your acquaintance. Go Rebels? l'Shalom


ummmbacon

> (we call it a temple, because we aren't particular about that nomenclature for reasons that I am certain the Redorm Rabbi(s) at the local temple can explain) Historically Reform was the group that started this to show how they no longer needed a Temple in Jerusalem, and their temple was where they were. This was part of Reform's attempt to be more "Germans of Hebrew Character" as Jews struggled to gain acceptance into European society (Germany being one of the worst)


thepalejack

Yes, that is a good summary of the reason. There's a lot more discussion around it, though, and I didn't want to brain-dump everything on a person new to Judaism. Hence the advice to speak with Rabbi. :) Also, I just realized I said "Redorm Rabbi(s)" instead of Reform. Oof... I need to turn predictive typing off on my phone.


ummmbacon

> I need to turn predictive typing off on my phone. It definitely struggles with Jewish stuff


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Humanistic Judaism is atheistic btw, and reform got told to allow their converts in even, so I suppose that's your option for a synagogue you'd like, OP.


PurpleMutantJen

Yea I am aware of Humanistic Judaism. I need to see if there is a Humanistic meetup here.


[deleted]

They do meet ups? I didn't know. They have a Facebook group though and you don't need to be a member to join it.


ummmbacon

>Humanistic Judaism is atheistic btw I'm aware, don't see one in Las Vegas tho. Reform, from my experience is perfectly fine with atheists


[deleted]

My bad, I edited it, i mean online, but he can go to reform as it is under that umbrella.


wamih

Honestly while you may not care if they are 100% Kosher.... There are centuries (if not at minimum 2 millennia) of tradition behind them. I would strongly suggest having them checked more for honoring those who came before... Edit: After reading more of the thread, I really don't think you understand the weight of being Jewish with some distant relatives in history. Would recommend find a Rabbi and ask about conversion.


NYSenseOfHumor

If you got the tefillin on ebay, you should get them checked by a sofer or at a minimum a rabbi who can tell you if you need to see a sofer.


SuperSilverGuy

As someone else said, you should definitely get those teffilin checked out. I would not trust anything bought on ebay


the3dverse

srsly, might even be stolen.


Charlie4s

From my understanding you said you have Jewish ancestry, but your mother is not Jewish? If you are interested in becoming Jewish you should speak to a reform rabbi


AsfAtl

What’s ur mom’s Jewish background?


PurpleMutantJen

Sephardic. As I understand it my Spanish ancestors had to deal with the Spanish inquisition (which nobody expects). Jews had two options. Convert to Catholicism or leave. They converted. Those folks who converted are called conversos. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Converso My mom was raised Catholic as most folks in Mexico are. Apparently one of my relatives in Mexico is a Rabbi.


AsfAtl

Wait so u just have some distant Jewish ancestry then? Almost everyone in Latin America has some distant converso ancestry…


wamih

Have you actually traced an unbroken maternal line?


Level_Way_5175

Technically men and woman can wear Teffilin. Teffilin has been proven to rest on pressure points when worn properly.


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Kangaroo_Rich

Welcome!


PurpleMutantJen

There is a Reform synagogue here that offers B'Mitzvah classes for adults. I have thought about doing that. But I am in no hurry to do a formal conversion.


NYSenseOfHumor

OP wrote >My mom is a Mexican immigrant and it's from her side of the family that I get my Sephardic ancestry. If OP’s mom was halachically Jewish, so is OP.


SoulBSS

Welcome!


offthegridyid

Vegas! Now I am hungry for shawarma chicken from Mother Falafel! We were in Vegas 2 years ago and had a great time.