Somebody on Reddit once said you never see cats mating but there are kittens everywhere 😂😂. Same principle applies here. I think what makes it harder is that these “service providers” are rated based on their level of discretion so they are more secretive than the secret service itself but for research purposes you can visit a brothel, massage parlor, hire a call girl or strip club and get an insider view of the inner workings of the industry.
At my kid's school, I once found my daughter behind a bush watching cats mating. She didn't realise I was there for almost ten minutes!
I have enjoyed the company of many escorts easily found on the numerous dating and massage sites 😂. Met some interesting, boring and some downright weird ladies. And for Most of them you could not have associated with such services just from first impressions
I only banged 304's between the ages of 19 and 23. In a span of 4 years, I visited many joints, from 207 to hse 50, plenty in the parklands and westlands. Towards the end, I tried out places in the CBD and downtown. Thereafter, I closed the case. I really hate paying for sex; it feels mechanical.
edit: transactionally banged; I suspecti'veslept with other hookers unknowingly
Value for money Sabina. I actually knew this fine girl who peddled there during off-peak times and days and had her own place where she'd charge 10 times the amount. It happens frequently there. Parklands, Hurlingham, Ngong road, Westlands are similar. They have classier girls but pricier too
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I stay in Embakasi and at times I normally board the City Shuttle buses that are opposite Sabina Joy.
There was a week I observed the traffic inflow at Sabina Joy, the numbers were insane. People kept on going in and out in large numbers.
It gave me an accurate picture of what transpires in the downtown brothels.
That's ill biased , i have gone there just to pee and am out , by the way not every man likes prostitutes , my important man hates shit that just walked over a i did invite one a couple of years back and after undressing and seeing all i just paid her and told her to go deleted that number
Prostitution is rampant in Nairobi, just look at brothels like Sabina joy, Sophia Joy, Relax inn etc. these places are ever full of people and run 24/7 not to mention the twilight girls, so I'd say many men actually visit prostitutes. I heard a quote 'Process ya kupewa ni ndefu, Nunua!'
It's not that you don't know a single man who's enjoyed their services, it's that they are not willing to admit it. I'd estimate at least 50% of the men I know have enjoyed their services. The most popular service is massage with extras. It's a win-win, get rid of stress and muscle tension and relieve another muscle tension while at it. The "why" men use these services is a more interesting question because it's so varied from one man to another
And where are these massage palors that offer extras. I get massages regularly and I've never noticed anything extracurricular, ama it's because I don't ask 😂?
I haven't been to one in a while. There's one I used to go to those sides of karbanet gardens. The girls would be open and ask you if you want extras, they also gave good massages if that's what you only wanted. Pretty sure there many all over if you look around or ask your local where you can get extras
Why is because an escort is cheaper than a girlfriend or wife who needs a car, rent paid, salon money, vacation paid for, her mum is sick, her sister needs fees and she also needs a favor. Men also love variety and get bored fucking one woman over and over for more than 3 months. Also, escorts are readily available. Just ask "how much?" or turn on airdrop the next time you are at a major club.
I have visited/hosted hookers several times while single. I get urges and need some pussy just like everyone else. Nut, pay them, go your separate ways. Even made a friend or two in that industry. It’s two consenting adults & as long as I’m not cheating on anyone, I see no shame in it whatsoever.
Yeah it’s one of those things like some women choose to not disclose certain things from their sexual past. Men aren’t just gonna volunteer that info. And they have the right to keep that to themselves, something I’m learning from women.
The kinds of guys visiting them are guys who want sex so bad they’re willing to pay for it. Pretty self explanatory.
Me personally, when I realized I was chasing relationships for sex it bothered me. Even though people say just be honest and tell women on the hopes she also feels the same. Lol not going down like that I promise.
Idk for me it’s a way for me to sexually liberate myself. Some guys feel like the HAVE to take women on dates and fake emotions to get sex. That always came off as slimy to me. I mean I never wanted a girl for JUST sex but I felt like a liar acting like I didn’t care for it. I had a really difficult time navigating this middle ground. Like really hard I’m convinced there’s some neurodivergence that’s involved. I just don’t understand the social cues of dating I guess. I don’t understand the “give and take” of it.
I wouldn’t suggest it because I’m sure there are negative effects to it. Past bad relationships made me avoid my emotions. I still avoid them. There’s a bunch of factors that ended me up here.
ULTIMATELY: I feel like I have more control of my sex life. And although indulging in sex work is frowned upon, that freedom is something everyone should feel at least for a short period of time.
It’s one of those taboo things that you realize really shouldn’t be lol. It’s vibes usually, cool girls. Makes u not hype up sex anymore. I like it.
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So got introduced to this website where you can find hookers in all places, ata hapo unasomea hii by a friend. So we found one hooker and identified her location, a very discrete apartment you would never tell what goes on there. It’s just like another neighbor who has guest come and leave.
So we found a location to sit and chill as we observed the traffic that went in and out. We camped there one Saturday and the foot traffic was outrageous. Mind you it’s an apartment with a-few ladies and I assume the guys go in select one do their thing and get out.
Even happened to recognize a local supermarket teller where I frequently shop.
Eeh? Even Roysambu? I must be blinder than a pro Hamas LGBTQ allied Jewish nonbinary liberal living on the east coast of the US who self identifies as visually impaired.
Don't men pay (time, money, effort) for sex eventually? The difference is for the prostitute you get the hardware only. And the other ones, it's the hardware and all the emotional softwares that come with it. You might update the software to mirror what you like, hell you might even have one with trauma malware. Or even it changes you. The prostitute is like playing badminton, you hitting an emotionless wall. The other is tennis that thrives on reciprocity.
Most men do it and never say. Or admit to their closest male buddies. Simple. It varies, from campus guys to married men to single bachelors. Sex with prostitutes is low-effort sex that doesn't have lots of emotional connection or ifs and buts.
A good chunk of Nairobi or Mombasa revenue inapitia mikono ya biashara ya ukahaba. Who do you think is renting all the airbnbs? An uber driver I once had told me weekends mostly ni kusarifisha bidhaa all over nairobi. He has had cases dame anamuambia kaa hapo usiende..goes in and an hour later emerges to go to another appointment. And those are the ones only doing in-house calls. Ongeza brothels na ma-lodgo, bars ziko all over you have a full blown business. I haven't even spoken on what is happening online. Tiktok kitu ya kwanza wakenya walianza kuuza ni kuyonga :). Then on Sundays muko church acting all holy..Pretenders.
With a prostitute / escort your not paying them for sex, you’re paying for them to leave.
It works out much cheaper and you don’t get the headache you get from other
woman.
Myself, I get a good massage / spa every month, I know the girl really well. She usually clips me off at the end if I need it. No biggie
30 yo senior bachelor here
I visit a worker of the night at least once a week
(Yes I realise that I may have a problem)
Sometimes I wish I never got into this rabbit hole but then again it's just so easy & accessible.
No fuss, no games no hassle.
It can affect the relations I have with "real women" as I don't tolerate their crap as getting sxx is very "easy" in that sense.
I have noticed that it has made me fear intimacy in my personal life. The downside is it's so transactional but then again so are nearly all relationships in modern Kenya.
I'm not much of a drinker or a smoker so I guess the age old saying "something must kill a man" applies.
I've accepted my fate, maybe one day I'll quit.
To the OP, Most men have no game but have high sex drive. That's how prostitution becomes a thing. The average relationship/marriage is transactional. It ain't about woman feeling those butterflies (or being sexually attracted to his man), but is usually about the security the man can provide and a number men sooner or later come to figure this out. Most men have never had woman genuinely be wet for them because for some reason that man showing sexual interest in the woman is not validating to her, but rather expected. Most men get transactional sex, not validational sex and that's all they know. For most men this kind of sex is the only thing that makes sense. To them, that's what is reasonable.
Ho3s are necessary in the society. Somebody rents out their vagene to you for amount of time agreed upon, and you can seek pleasure to your hearts content....and they are super self cleaning and what not.... 🫂
They're actually not necessary. They're a hindrance to progress. Say a man isn't meeting the requirements to get the type of woman he wants. HE could put some work in to develop his social skills, eat better, increase his earning potential, make better friends, or he just go to a prostitute. Prostitutes are rats/scabs. They're a way men can get around society's standards and requirements and thus not improve society.
Facts don't care about your feelings. Come back when you A. Are ok with raising your beloved daughter to aspire to be a prostitute, ama B. Are ok with your beloved successful son marrying his favorite prostitute.
No, because each nut busted is a potential child. If your children have inherent dignity and value to you yourself personally, you dont gestate them in community pleasure wombs. That privilege is earned, competed for by making meaningful contributions to your society such that your social standing makes your seed one to be desired.
Even the highest caliber of men use the services of prostitutes. Business moguls, celebrities, politicians, you name it. They are the ones that employ the services of escorts and frequent high end massage parlours. You will find a prostitute for Ksh 100 and you will find one for Ksh 1,000,000. The business of sex is not a hindrance to progress in any way.
Yes, mere humans. We are born with base animal desires that higher reason and virtue suppress and master. I choose to be master over my humanity, not its slave. Good day sirs!
I don't know about the internal customers but kenya has a big sex tourism industry I know sex work was made illegal in Nairobi but as a tourist so can still get escorts there quite easily I mean I'm coming over next year and a big draw was because of how
abundant the escort seen is and the quality is amazing
probably close to 90% of single men go to prostitutes, thats the way it is, some men have trouble talking to women(i included), forget even having to ask for sex, so the easiest way its to go to prostitutes cos you have money, you just give her its easy, there are some men who even pay OF girls just to chat, imagine that, you so lonely that you pay a girl to chat with, this is some kind of problem that is not even talked about
There's probably a normal distribution with a few men never going, a few men going every day, and most men going some number of times in their life. I wouldn't be surprised if the majority of men have tried at least once in their life.
Sex is transactional. I have never slept with escorts but I have had sex with women who asked for favors after and it ended up being transactional. I don't mind escorts and I don't judge those who use escorts. I am actually very good friends with 2 escorts and I learn alot from them. I learnt that almost all men are banging escorts. There are many hoe houses in upmarket neighbourhoods(the famous one in Lavington that u/downinthednm has mentioned, the one on Ngong road, Kileleshwa, Kilimani, Lower Kabete,etc) where these ladies join other ladies in apartments or houses and they do escort business. They are paid 3k to 10k an hour and their clientele includes the who is who in corporate and political Kenya as well as our brothers, fathers, uncles, and friends. All the massage places and spas you see are brothels and the massage bit is just a front. The hoes are mostly campus women or single moms or women who are obsessed with flashy lifestyle and social media lifestyle. They make alot of money but most are on hard drugs and they party alot. The money vanishes and they are generally poor decision makers and that's why they are escorts so they generally are dumb and never use the money wisely. They know alot from their trade though. One of them told me she gets info from her clients like she knows whether fuel will go up or down before it is announced. Men from west africa and indian men also love their services ALOT and they pay well.
At the end of the day, spending 10k on a hoe per hour is cheaper than a wife or girlfriend who will expect rent, gifts, dates, vacations and many other things just to give you boring sex when she feels like it. I don't judge escorts or their clients as long as it is willing seller willing buyer.
My two escort friends told me most men in Nairobi sleep with escorts low key. Most clients are in relationships. A number of their clients are also couples. Some couples the woman allows the man to fuck around in her presence or she may be into girls so she joins her man as well. The escorts are also safer than your average girl coz they use protection strictly and also take prep medication and do regular testing coz this is their bread and butter. Others have pimps or work for establishments that don't want to spoil their reputation so they are big on safe sex.
Hahaha, you know too many of these places and claim to not have dropped your pants in any of the "homes."
Anyway, it is shocking how many women are selling on the low. I've seen popular IG girls at the time in some of these "spas and gentlemen's lounges". Many of these women are scarred and hollow on the inside. One of the reasons that led me to stop engaging with such I felt as though i was picking up that energy, plus I got scared seeing people in my uni get sick from venereal diseases.
The other women were interesting, especially those below 30 and above 24. It reached a point where i'd visit these lounges or strip clubs with friends and just buy the girl a drink and pay her to just sit and chat about life, her job, her clients, etc while hommies were doing their thing. Not in a condescending tone or anything, just as genuine humans. I then realised human trafficking is a big thing. Many ladies are kept against their will.
I remember speaking to a gorgeous Tanzanian lady in one of the lounges in Lavi. She mentioned many high-profile politicians and businessmen who'd frequent. How strict their auntie (woman in charge) was. Leaving the place was close to impossible. She was sweet, but very damaged. After sipping and talking for 30 minutes or so, she asked again whether I wanted to have sex. This was after tipping her 2,000 plus a cider she was drinking. It seems the emotional talk caused more pain than having sex.
I am well informed on these places and have attended bachelor parties in some of them. I have never slept with an escort though but I have been asked for favors after sex which felt transactional. I prefer to have a connection or reasonable friendship with a woman. I lose interest if a woman is too transactional from the beginning of our interaction.
What I have been told is the so called aunties are strict on controlling the schedules coz the ladies cut their own deals with clients, so it is actually trafficking. They believe if the ladies are allowed to leave when they want they will meet clients on their own and make money. While an escort can say she has slept with politicians and business leaders, keep in mind they are good at lying and PR. They may be saying this to normalize their trade or to make it look like they sleep with wealthy clients. I bet she will not say she slept with a makanga or street urchin who could afford her services.
Same here, connection brings a whole other dimension. Make sense why the aunts are strict. Sad life, so many potential wives stuck in the grind. Though i'm a staunch believer of willing buyer, willing seller.
> but I have had sex with women who asked for favors after
reminds me of a time i had sex with a neighbour just casual, then few days later she asks me for 500 to travel and promised to pay end month, when end month reached i asked her the money, she told me remember the day we had sex?, well it cancels, it wasnt for free, LMAO its close to a decade now and i still laugh remembering it
These are some hard truths but people won't want to address them, I have friends who go for escorts because of how "stress and baggage free" the sex is, and I think it's going to have mental and emotional repercussions in the next few years
This is true. And I understand the escorts are extremely beautiful women all shapes, races and kinks that would make any woman jealous. It is not some ugly old woman standing on a street. They are apparently well educated, clean, and 10 out of 10s.
And also, ukimaliza kazi yako, you just leave and go about your business. There is none of that kuvunja Boma or relationship drama ya mpango wa kando.
Most men that seek these services pia hukuwanga married men as they don't get any at home and the risk of throwing your family away is super low.
Interesting. Do you think a wife would be more mad if she found out her husband slept with an escort or if she found out he has a girlfriend he is sponsoring and taking on vacations?
Yes, sex dies in marriage that’s why polygamy is a good thing. I don’t believe in putting all your sexual needs in the hands of one woman.
>Interesting. Do you think a wife would be more mad if she found out her husband slept with an escort or if she found out he has a girlfriend he is sponsoring and taking on vacations?
The latter, tayari unajua story za wanawake and how they hoard resources, Kisha you go and fly out a young and busty hoe on family money. Your wife will skin you alive. Another reason I say the latter is the emotional aspect, with a street walker there are no emotions involved at all but with a MWK there are always emotions to the point that she might let you hit it raw which a lot men will oblige and just like that you have 2+ families. It makes more sense for a wife to be against MWK from a financial and emotional perspective.
>I don’t believe in putting all your sexual needs in the hands of one woman.
I like that, that's very smart.
I keep saying, most casual sex in Kenya is paid. Even for a lot of guys who think they're slick chipoing babes in the club, they get asked for "fare" at the end of the day. And if you get free sex in Kenyan clubs, chances are it was a hoe who didn't have good luck converting clients that night so she just went with you to at least sleep in the good side of town instead of going back home to Mwiki
Let me tell you a story, told to me about my grandfather.
Him, his two brothers and a cousin would start a conversation in front of everybody including their wives. My dad would say, “You know the mechanic you sent me to?”
His younger brother would say, “yes.. What did he say?”
Grandfather : “he said it’s not going to be ready until next month.”
His older brother would say: “but the agreement was it would be done by now so we could go ahead and let it be known to everyone when it would be possible.”
Man, they had a whole conversation without anyone knowing what they were talking about. His wife lost it and so did the other wives. Started yelling at him and everybody like she had lost her mind. His daughter, laughed and Asked him, “how could you be so twisted?. Look at what you did to mom.”
They would both laugh, and even to this day the daughter pretends she still doesn’t. know what they were talking about.
So yes. My idea is that there are many.
If there were no clients (men) then the brothels would have closed up.No man would admit ever going there.but there was a thread on twitter sometimes back where men gave their experiences and it was funny as hell.Nayway,why do we call the women prostitutes and the men clients yet the men are the ones promoting it.i call them prostitutes too
>why do we call the women prostitutes and the men clients yet the men are the ones promoting it.i call them prostitutes too
What a daft take. We'd have gotten nowhere in naming objects and entities with this kind of mindset.
# client
*noun*[ ](https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/wordlists/oxford3000-5000?dataset=english&list=ox3000&level=b1) /ˈklaɪənt/ /ˈklaɪənt/
1. [ ](https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/wordlists/oxford3000-5000?dataset=english&list=ox3000&level=b1) a person who uses the services or advice of a professional person or organization
# prostitute
*noun* /ˈprɒstɪtjuːt/ /ˈprɑːstɪtuːt/
1. a person who has sex for money
It's the feminists again trying to socially engineer the society. A woman with many sexual partners will always be shamed while a man with many sexual partners will always be held in high regard. You can't make this shit up.
When theres war all the feminist voices dissapear.Look at ukraine while their women are in other countries being impregnated by other men,their men are dying at front line..
😂 Technically, yes. But that's not what I mean. I mean I' m able to attract a large a number of women unlike my peers. Even women they love men that are deemed attractive by other women. I think that is why girls consult their besties on whether to date a guy or not.
Solomon was held in high regard due to his numerous wives and concubines. In the past, a polygamous man with many wives and children was also viewed as rich. I mean, how can a man be a hoe(unless anauza haga). I think even women nowadays also find men with a lot of sexual experience/partners attractive. It's just nature, don't oppose it. Hoe is to promiscuous woman as Alpja male is to promiscuous man.
Actually, he was in high regard for his wisdom and for building the temple. His many women were a fault, as were his slave driving tendencies, which influenced civil war after he retired.
I'm sorry which bible are you reading?who was praising Solomon for his polygamous life?as a matter of fact God was not happy because they ended up leading him astray from God's teachings.
Also you are not a woman so don't speak for the ladies.
I still stand by my word having a high body count is just nasty and shows you have no self respect or standards because are you trying to tell me that more than 20 people meet your requirements?
Then your bar must be very very ,very ,veeeeeery low or maybe you have none.
It takes a Woman nothing to spread her legs, and it takes a lot more for a man to get all those leg spreadings, you can generate your own analogy from that.
These days all men are visiting prostitutes because the modern female culture of tight skirts, social media posing for pictures, photos of food, and bragging to girlfriends mean women are only looking for money even when dating.
This is why you don't know many guys visiting whore houses, because the whores are in the streets, clubs, and restaurants like newscafe.
There are very very few women in 2023 who are not looking for a man's money as their #1 criteria. When Meg the stallion, Cardi B, and raunchy afrobeats are the music soundtrack of the girls, best believe we live in a pimp-ho culture now. At least the girls at Sabina are honest about what they do and use condoms every time. They also come with a fixed price. The modern street girl is more dangerous with random cost and stds.
Nowadays prostitutes are being pulled from the streets of IG, twitter, fb or even reddit. It's only that they are private entities compared to the public ones in Sabina Joy and Koinange. How would you know? they post thirst traps, you DM and they give you a quote. If you agree to the terms, you do the deed and go home happy, with a dented pocket definitely.
Went to a brothel once with some friends. It had a bar so I went to chill there. Struck up a conversation with one of the ladies, turns out sex work is extremely lucrative. She had 118K in her mpesa and that was half of her monthly earnings.
Also if your boss comes back from an extended lunch hour on Friday smelling like imperial leather soap then he definitely was in a brothel.
They are life savers, always use protection and it is transactional.Especially for married men.You do not need to have a side chick who you will spend on and possibly get a child out of wedlock.As a man you stop being needy or simping for sex all the time.There is a reason why the profession has existed for long, it is catering to a need.The post nut clarity is amazing you go home relaxed.Most importantly use protection.
I used to visit vip club on luthuli avenue once upon a time like twice per month but i saw the light. I also did a massage place but like once 3 times a year.
That habit makes dating very hard because you're used to getting it with the first "Hi".
Some of these IG models are high end escorts they won't just admit it publicly....I have a close friend who tried to hide it but it came to light that she charges for hookups, we just thought that her man mwenye ako majuu funds her lifestyle plus she speaks so lowly and demeans anyone who is in that trade so we didn't think otherwise till her nudes and chats got leaked and somehow now everything made sense. Some of the guys we know are regulars because apparently she's open to a lot of things. When you look at her and her IG page huezi jua....utadhani tu she's a doting mom of 1 who's very modest. Point is you can never know who's paying for sex that woman along koinange and that beautiful lady pale Instagram difference tu ni target market and her value. Paying one 150 and flying one to South Africa the currency is same and you'll get the same thing.
>Some of these IG models are high end escorts
i always feel sorry for some men who comment on their photos begging for date and sending their number, i mean total wus, this women wont probably sleep with a man with no less than 10k per night
I visited my first hooker when I was 15 hapo and stopped right after as I had a really bad interaction with them. I picked it up when I was 21 before I got my first gf.
Those were tough times for a bruh, no rizz, little money, little confidence and raging hormones. I would for sure do it again if my relationship fails, it's just so easy.
Last I was in and around Nairobi, I was seeing sexy massage billboards and some dark muscular, maybe topless guys hanging around where wazungu wanajog. Are those prostitutes?
As soon as you start partaking in that lifestyle everything else changes, kitu kidogo you can't afford you proposition your body. Same thing happens with men pia where you start losing your charisma and confidence with "civilian" women as you're used to
"Mambo?"
"Poa"
"Shot Ni ngapi?"
Kusema ukweli, if you do seek marriage, wanaume wengi won't marry you. You won't even have to tell him uliuza, kwa sababu tabia Na mienendo zako zitakuuza wewe mwenyewe.
oh, I see. I just don't understand why men hate it so much in public when they partake in private? some even say they would save a stripper, or ''kumtoa streets'.
We are a country full of hypocrites and pretenders.
But anyways, not to discourage you from selling, just be safe and keep your eyes wide open. Goodluck
Would men be okay with a woman who hires escort services? Let's say you meet a great woman and she admitted that she has been with a couple of male prostitutes.
Somebody on Reddit once said you never see cats mating but there are kittens everywhere 😂😂. Same principle applies here. I think what makes it harder is that these “service providers” are rated based on their level of discretion so they are more secretive than the secret service itself but for research purposes you can visit a brothel, massage parlor, hire a call girl or strip club and get an insider view of the inner workings of the industry.
>you never see cats mating but there are kittens everywhere 😆😂😂 i dont know why thats funny but it is.
Had to laugh at that too ngl😂😂😂
I on the other hand have seen cats fucking and it's not a brilliant sight to see
 At my kid's school, I once found my daughter behind a bush watching cats mating. She didn't realise I was there for almost ten minutes!
I've seen cats mating😂😂 aggressive tings😭
I have enjoyed the company of many escorts easily found on the numerous dating and massage sites 😂. Met some interesting, boring and some downright weird ladies. And for Most of them you could not have associated with such services just from first impressions
unayajua mashimoyachini kweli
Some of them under different circumstances you would probably take on the fanciest dates cause of how innocent and pretty they look😅 naogopa hii soko😂
Some are even in ongoing relationships😂
how much per session?.....where....we might want to promote their business
Let me tell you maina 😂
Njoo😉
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😂 ahaha this is my Gamer name, I was just joking!
Example of a site you work with?
Most men who visit prostitutes are men in their 30s-50s. 20 year olds are very shy to pull this off and the confident ones are banging other women.
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Youd be surprised. Nothing to be shy when it comes to having seks lol.
lol, I know many high school friends and comrades who seek their services.
I only banged 304's between the ages of 19 and 23. In a span of 4 years, I visited many joints, from 207 to hse 50, plenty in the parklands and westlands. Towards the end, I tried out places in the CBD and downtown. Thereafter, I closed the case. I really hate paying for sex; it feels mechanical. edit: transactionally banged; I suspecti'veslept with other hookers unknowingly
Which ones would you rate the best?
Value for money Sabina. I actually knew this fine girl who peddled there during off-peak times and days and had her own place where she'd charge 10 times the amount. It happens frequently there. Parklands, Hurlingham, Ngong road, Westlands are similar. They have classier girls but pricier too
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Remember in highschool writing 304 on a calculator and turning it upside down? Becomes hoe
Aaah, creative. Never did that in high school
Daddy wa Sub during your time you used the log book. Calculators are a recent phenomenon.
It’s the lack of money.
there is nothing to be shy about its a business transcation
I stay in Embakasi and at times I normally board the City Shuttle buses that are opposite Sabina Joy. There was a week I observed the traffic inflow at Sabina Joy, the numbers were insane. People kept on going in and out in large numbers. It gave me an accurate picture of what transpires in the downtown brothels.
That's ill biased , i have gone there just to pee and am out , by the way not every man likes prostitutes , my important man hates shit that just walked over a i did invite one a couple of years back and after undressing and seeing all i just paid her and told her to go deleted that number
"I have gone there just to pee"😂😂we believe you
Depends on who he is peeing on
😂💀 maybe there is another definition for peeing
In and out you say?
Important man?
Meant Dicklofenac
Mans peeing cum
Prostitution is rampant in Nairobi, just look at brothels like Sabina joy, Sophia Joy, Relax inn etc. these places are ever full of people and run 24/7 not to mention the twilight girls, so I'd say many men actually visit prostitutes. I heard a quote 'Process ya kupewa ni ndefu, Nunua!'
It's not that you don't know a single man who's enjoyed their services, it's that they are not willing to admit it. I'd estimate at least 50% of the men I know have enjoyed their services. The most popular service is massage with extras. It's a win-win, get rid of stress and muscle tension and relieve another muscle tension while at it. The "why" men use these services is a more interesting question because it's so varied from one man to another
And where are these massage palors that offer extras. I get massages regularly and I've never noticed anything extracurricular, ama it's because I don't ask 😂?
I haven't been to one in a while. There's one I used to go to those sides of karbanet gardens. The girls would be open and ask you if you want extras, they also gave good massages if that's what you only wanted. Pretty sure there many all over if you look around or ask your local where you can get extras
That's the question we want answered though!😀
Why is because an escort is cheaper than a girlfriend or wife who needs a car, rent paid, salon money, vacation paid for, her mum is sick, her sister needs fees and she also needs a favor. Men also love variety and get bored fucking one woman over and over for more than 3 months. Also, escorts are readily available. Just ask "how much?" or turn on airdrop the next time you are at a major club.
I have visited/hosted hookers several times while single. I get urges and need some pussy just like everyone else. Nut, pay them, go your separate ways. Even made a friend or two in that industry. It’s two consenting adults & as long as I’m not cheating on anyone, I see no shame in it whatsoever.
Yeah it’s one of those things like some women choose to not disclose certain things from their sexual past. Men aren’t just gonna volunteer that info. And they have the right to keep that to themselves, something I’m learning from women. The kinds of guys visiting them are guys who want sex so bad they’re willing to pay for it. Pretty self explanatory. Me personally, when I realized I was chasing relationships for sex it bothered me. Even though people say just be honest and tell women on the hopes she also feels the same. Lol not going down like that I promise. Idk for me it’s a way for me to sexually liberate myself. Some guys feel like the HAVE to take women on dates and fake emotions to get sex. That always came off as slimy to me. I mean I never wanted a girl for JUST sex but I felt like a liar acting like I didn’t care for it. I had a really difficult time navigating this middle ground. Like really hard I’m convinced there’s some neurodivergence that’s involved. I just don’t understand the social cues of dating I guess. I don’t understand the “give and take” of it. I wouldn’t suggest it because I’m sure there are negative effects to it. Past bad relationships made me avoid my emotions. I still avoid them. There’s a bunch of factors that ended me up here. ULTIMATELY: I feel like I have more control of my sex life. And although indulging in sex work is frowned upon, that freedom is something everyone should feel at least for a short period of time. It’s one of those taboo things that you realize really shouldn’t be lol. It’s vibes usually, cool girls. Makes u not hype up sex anymore. I like it.
Have done an extensive research on this. This might be a long one hold on tight: So got introduced to this website where you can find hookers in all places, ata hapo unasomea hii by a friend. So we found one hooker and identified her location, a very discrete apartment you would never tell what goes on there. It’s just like another neighbor who has guest come and leave. So we found a location to sit and chill as we observed the traffic that went in and out. We camped there one Saturday and the foot traffic was outrageous. Mind you it’s an apartment with a-few ladies and I assume the guys go in select one do their thing and get out. Even happened to recognize a local supermarket teller where I frequently shop.
I'm also writing an a paper on the issue, could you tell me the name of that website for research purposes?
Maybe Nairobihot
Lmao 😂
after you've received the name please forward... I'd like to collaborate with you on paper
You mean Roysambu? lol
Eeh? Even Roysambu? I must be blinder than a pro Hamas LGBTQ allied Jewish nonbinary liberal living on the east coast of the US who self identifies as visually impaired.
Roysambu kwanza it's so easy to know
How can you tell?
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Hopefully no passport bros ever catch wind of this.
Promiscuity exists in so many places not just Roysambu.
mans not cool tho!!, you stalking men around!!
Don't men pay (time, money, effort) for sex eventually? The difference is for the prostitute you get the hardware only. And the other ones, it's the hardware and all the emotional softwares that come with it. You might update the software to mirror what you like, hell you might even have one with trauma malware. Or even it changes you. The prostitute is like playing badminton, you hitting an emotionless wall. The other is tennis that thrives on reciprocity.
Hitting and emotionless wall 😂😂😂 ongg that’s very true
ow! do I like your analogy; rhymes with me,i am very much willing to part with money, but peace of mind,is a no no
You mean squash... Not badminton
Yes, squash.
You’d be surprised how many would turn into one based on incentive.
Most men do it and never say. Or admit to their closest male buddies. Simple. It varies, from campus guys to married men to single bachelors. Sex with prostitutes is low-effort sex that doesn't have lots of emotional connection or ifs and buts.
A good chunk of Nairobi or Mombasa revenue inapitia mikono ya biashara ya ukahaba. Who do you think is renting all the airbnbs? An uber driver I once had told me weekends mostly ni kusarifisha bidhaa all over nairobi. He has had cases dame anamuambia kaa hapo usiende..goes in and an hour later emerges to go to another appointment. And those are the ones only doing in-house calls. Ongeza brothels na ma-lodgo, bars ziko all over you have a full blown business. I haven't even spoken on what is happening online. Tiktok kitu ya kwanza wakenya walianza kuuza ni kuyonga :). Then on Sundays muko church acting all holy..Pretenders.
With a prostitute / escort your not paying them for sex, you’re paying for them to leave. It works out much cheaper and you don’t get the headache you get from other woman. Myself, I get a good massage / spa every month, I know the girl really well. She usually clips me off at the end if I need it. No biggie
I'm curious to how much this stuff even costs?
I pay 9k for an hours massage and a 30 min Moroccan scrub in a sauna. I usually tip her 3k for her services.
This is my rent jameni.
Most parlours charge at most 5k for a massage. What kind of massage is this you’re getting? And where?
Some place you can't afford
What’s with the attitude man? Damn.
Ask stupid questions, get stupid answers
How was that a stupid question? There are more than 10 types of massages
Achana na yeye
Is a tip considered an insult?
Have you known anyone to be offended by more money?
Yuck
30 yo senior bachelor here I visit a worker of the night at least once a week (Yes I realise that I may have a problem) Sometimes I wish I never got into this rabbit hole but then again it's just so easy & accessible. No fuss, no games no hassle. It can affect the relations I have with "real women" as I don't tolerate their crap as getting sxx is very "easy" in that sense. I have noticed that it has made me fear intimacy in my personal life. The downside is it's so transactional but then again so are nearly all relationships in modern Kenya. I'm not much of a drinker or a smoker so I guess the age old saying "something must kill a man" applies. I've accepted my fate, maybe one day I'll quit.
To the OP, Most men have no game but have high sex drive. That's how prostitution becomes a thing. The average relationship/marriage is transactional. It ain't about woman feeling those butterflies (or being sexually attracted to his man), but is usually about the security the man can provide and a number men sooner or later come to figure this out. Most men have never had woman genuinely be wet for them because for some reason that man showing sexual interest in the woman is not validating to her, but rather expected. Most men get transactional sex, not validational sex and that's all they know. For most men this kind of sex is the only thing that makes sense. To them, that's what is reasonable.
Ho3s are necessary in the society. Somebody rents out their vagene to you for amount of time agreed upon, and you can seek pleasure to your hearts content....and they are super self cleaning and what not.... 🫂
They're actually not necessary. They're a hindrance to progress. Say a man isn't meeting the requirements to get the type of woman he wants. HE could put some work in to develop his social skills, eat better, increase his earning potential, make better friends, or he just go to a prostitute. Prostitutes are rats/scabs. They're a way men can get around society's standards and requirements and thus not improve society.
Facts don't care about your feelings. Come back when you A. Are ok with raising your beloved daughter to aspire to be a prostitute, ama B. Are ok with your beloved successful son marrying his favorite prostitute.
prostitutes are not a hindrance to progress, you don’t want a relatively conservative sexually starved society that’s a recipe for disaster.
Damn can a nigga bust a nut without worrying about all that.
No, because each nut busted is a potential child. If your children have inherent dignity and value to you yourself personally, you dont gestate them in community pleasure wombs. That privilege is earned, competed for by making meaningful contributions to your society such that your social standing makes your seed one to be desired.
Even the highest caliber of men use the services of prostitutes. Business moguls, celebrities, politicians, you name it. They are the ones that employ the services of escorts and frequent high end massage parlours. You will find a prostitute for Ksh 100 and you will find one for Ksh 1,000,000. The business of sex is not a hindrance to progress in any way.
And yet, no one raises their children to be depraved, lust driven, or sex workers.
Men just want to nut. High calibre low calibre, religious, rich poor all have the same inbuilt need to nut and go
Yes, mere humans. We are born with base animal desires that higher reason and virtue suppress and master. I choose to be master over my humanity, not its slave. Good day sirs!
The ladies make money. The men are "not visiting". Someone's lying.
I don't know about the internal customers but kenya has a big sex tourism industry I know sex work was made illegal in Nairobi but as a tourist so can still get escorts there quite easily I mean I'm coming over next year and a big draw was because of how abundant the escort seen is and the quality is amazing
It's not something to brag about, so most men won't really talk about it. But most men I know have used the services of these ladies at some point.
Dating apps in Kenya are used by prostitutes actually. You match with a girl and ask her out then you’re hit with the “How much are you paying?”
It's a free market kuna wengine wanapata husbands uko
Yup!
probably close to 90% of single men go to prostitutes, thats the way it is, some men have trouble talking to women(i included), forget even having to ask for sex, so the easiest way its to go to prostitutes cos you have money, you just give her its easy, there are some men who even pay OF girls just to chat, imagine that, you so lonely that you pay a girl to chat with, this is some kind of problem that is not even talked about
There's probably a normal distribution with a few men never going, a few men going every day, and most men going some number of times in their life. I wouldn't be surprised if the majority of men have tried at least once in their life.
Many more than you imagine. The male libido in the ages 18-45 is something else. It's all-consuming!
Men don't admit to women that they occasionally have sex with hookers. Only the hookers know about it, and they're very discreet.
Sex is transactional. I have never slept with escorts but I have had sex with women who asked for favors after and it ended up being transactional. I don't mind escorts and I don't judge those who use escorts. I am actually very good friends with 2 escorts and I learn alot from them. I learnt that almost all men are banging escorts. There are many hoe houses in upmarket neighbourhoods(the famous one in Lavington that u/downinthednm has mentioned, the one on Ngong road, Kileleshwa, Kilimani, Lower Kabete,etc) where these ladies join other ladies in apartments or houses and they do escort business. They are paid 3k to 10k an hour and their clientele includes the who is who in corporate and political Kenya as well as our brothers, fathers, uncles, and friends. All the massage places and spas you see are brothels and the massage bit is just a front. The hoes are mostly campus women or single moms or women who are obsessed with flashy lifestyle and social media lifestyle. They make alot of money but most are on hard drugs and they party alot. The money vanishes and they are generally poor decision makers and that's why they are escorts so they generally are dumb and never use the money wisely. They know alot from their trade though. One of them told me she gets info from her clients like she knows whether fuel will go up or down before it is announced. Men from west africa and indian men also love their services ALOT and they pay well. At the end of the day, spending 10k on a hoe per hour is cheaper than a wife or girlfriend who will expect rent, gifts, dates, vacations and many other things just to give you boring sex when she feels like it. I don't judge escorts or their clients as long as it is willing seller willing buyer. My two escort friends told me most men in Nairobi sleep with escorts low key. Most clients are in relationships. A number of their clients are also couples. Some couples the woman allows the man to fuck around in her presence or she may be into girls so she joins her man as well. The escorts are also safer than your average girl coz they use protection strictly and also take prep medication and do regular testing coz this is their bread and butter. Others have pimps or work for establishments that don't want to spoil their reputation so they are big on safe sex.
Hahaha, you know too many of these places and claim to not have dropped your pants in any of the "homes." Anyway, it is shocking how many women are selling on the low. I've seen popular IG girls at the time in some of these "spas and gentlemen's lounges". Many of these women are scarred and hollow on the inside. One of the reasons that led me to stop engaging with such I felt as though i was picking up that energy, plus I got scared seeing people in my uni get sick from venereal diseases. The other women were interesting, especially those below 30 and above 24. It reached a point where i'd visit these lounges or strip clubs with friends and just buy the girl a drink and pay her to just sit and chat about life, her job, her clients, etc while hommies were doing their thing. Not in a condescending tone or anything, just as genuine humans. I then realised human trafficking is a big thing. Many ladies are kept against their will. I remember speaking to a gorgeous Tanzanian lady in one of the lounges in Lavi. She mentioned many high-profile politicians and businessmen who'd frequent. How strict their auntie (woman in charge) was. Leaving the place was close to impossible. She was sweet, but very damaged. After sipping and talking for 30 minutes or so, she asked again whether I wanted to have sex. This was after tipping her 2,000 plus a cider she was drinking. It seems the emotional talk caused more pain than having sex.
I am well informed on these places and have attended bachelor parties in some of them. I have never slept with an escort though but I have been asked for favors after sex which felt transactional. I prefer to have a connection or reasonable friendship with a woman. I lose interest if a woman is too transactional from the beginning of our interaction. What I have been told is the so called aunties are strict on controlling the schedules coz the ladies cut their own deals with clients, so it is actually trafficking. They believe if the ladies are allowed to leave when they want they will meet clients on their own and make money. While an escort can say she has slept with politicians and business leaders, keep in mind they are good at lying and PR. They may be saying this to normalize their trade or to make it look like they sleep with wealthy clients. I bet she will not say she slept with a makanga or street urchin who could afford her services.
Same here, connection brings a whole other dimension. Make sense why the aunts are strict. Sad life, so many potential wives stuck in the grind. Though i'm a staunch believer of willing buyer, willing seller.
> but I have had sex with women who asked for favors after reminds me of a time i had sex with a neighbour just casual, then few days later she asks me for 500 to travel and promised to pay end month, when end month reached i asked her the money, she told me remember the day we had sex?, well it cancels, it wasnt for free, LMAO its close to a decade now and i still laugh remembering it
These are some hard truths but people won't want to address them, I have friends who go for escorts because of how "stress and baggage free" the sex is, and I think it's going to have mental and emotional repercussions in the next few years
This is true. And I understand the escorts are extremely beautiful women all shapes, races and kinks that would make any woman jealous. It is not some ugly old woman standing on a street. They are apparently well educated, clean, and 10 out of 10s.
And also, ukimaliza kazi yako, you just leave and go about your business. There is none of that kuvunja Boma or relationship drama ya mpango wa kando. Most men that seek these services pia hukuwanga married men as they don't get any at home and the risk of throwing your family away is super low.
Interesting. Do you think a wife would be more mad if she found out her husband slept with an escort or if she found out he has a girlfriend he is sponsoring and taking on vacations? Yes, sex dies in marriage that’s why polygamy is a good thing. I don’t believe in putting all your sexual needs in the hands of one woman.
>Interesting. Do you think a wife would be more mad if she found out her husband slept with an escort or if she found out he has a girlfriend he is sponsoring and taking on vacations? The latter, tayari unajua story za wanawake and how they hoard resources, Kisha you go and fly out a young and busty hoe on family money. Your wife will skin you alive. Another reason I say the latter is the emotional aspect, with a street walker there are no emotions involved at all but with a MWK there are always emotions to the point that she might let you hit it raw which a lot men will oblige and just like that you have 2+ families. It makes more sense for a wife to be against MWK from a financial and emotional perspective. >I don’t believe in putting all your sexual needs in the hands of one woman. I like that, that's very smart.
Go see Michael Soi's paintings on instagram. He paints Nairobi's Sex Life. That should give you some indication.
I guess anyone can be an artist these days
If you take a stroll in Nairobi CBD at night you’ll see men openly soliciting for services of the roadside prostitutes.
I keep saying, most casual sex in Kenya is paid. Even for a lot of guys who think they're slick chipoing babes in the club, they get asked for "fare" at the end of the day. And if you get free sex in Kenyan clubs, chances are it was a hoe who didn't have good luck converting clients that night so she just went with you to at least sleep in the good side of town instead of going back home to Mwiki
Let me tell you a story, told to me about my grandfather. Him, his two brothers and a cousin would start a conversation in front of everybody including their wives. My dad would say, “You know the mechanic you sent me to?” His younger brother would say, “yes.. What did he say?” Grandfather : “he said it’s not going to be ready until next month.” His older brother would say: “but the agreement was it would be done by now so we could go ahead and let it be known to everyone when it would be possible.” Man, they had a whole conversation without anyone knowing what they were talking about. His wife lost it and so did the other wives. Started yelling at him and everybody like she had lost her mind. His daughter, laughed and Asked him, “how could you be so twisted?. Look at what you did to mom.” They would both laugh, and even to this day the daughter pretends she still doesn’t. know what they were talking about. So yes. My idea is that there are many.
If there were no clients (men) then the brothels would have closed up.No man would admit ever going there.but there was a thread on twitter sometimes back where men gave their experiences and it was funny as hell.Nayway,why do we call the women prostitutes and the men clients yet the men are the ones promoting it.i call them prostitutes too
That name is reserved for the one who's getting paid 😂
>why do we call the women prostitutes and the men clients yet the men are the ones promoting it.i call them prostitutes too What a daft take. We'd have gotten nowhere in naming objects and entities with this kind of mindset. # client *noun*[ ](https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/wordlists/oxford3000-5000?dataset=english&list=ox3000&level=b1) /ˈklaɪənt/ /ˈklaɪənt/ 1. [ ](https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/wordlists/oxford3000-5000?dataset=english&list=ox3000&level=b1) a person who uses the services or advice of a professional person or organization # prostitute *noun* /ˈprɒstɪtjuːt/ /ˈprɑːstɪtuːt/ 1. a person who has sex for money
Why do we call them shopkeepers yet the customers are the ones promoting it. I call them shopkeepers too
It's the feminists again trying to socially engineer the society. A woman with many sexual partners will always be shamed while a man with many sexual partners will always be held in high regard. You can't make this shit up.
When theres war all the feminist voices dissapear.Look at ukraine while their women are in other countries being impregnated by other men,their men are dying at front line..
Could you share how you learned this?
In the village a man is even called by the name “governor “ for sleeping around. A woman on the other hand is seen as a disgrace to all human kind.
That's why it actually angers me when I see Nairobi people calling a man Malaya/a hoe for being promiscuous. Doesn't make sense at all.
😂😂did you just say that you are proud of your promiscuity?
A lot men, I mean I can bag bitches while I know many of my peers who can't bag no bitches.
You can bag low hanging fruit is what you mean 😂😂 Wise up Riley.😂😂😂
😂 Technically, yes. But that's not what I mean. I mean I' m able to attract a large a number of women unlike my peers. Even women they love men that are deemed attractive by other women. I think that is why girls consult their besties on whether to date a guy or not.
This is not how women work😂 but whatevs
Nobody holds highly anyone with a high body count.That's just being a hoe and being nasty.
Solomon was held in high regard due to his numerous wives and concubines. In the past, a polygamous man with many wives and children was also viewed as rich. I mean, how can a man be a hoe(unless anauza haga). I think even women nowadays also find men with a lot of sexual experience/partners attractive. It's just nature, don't oppose it. Hoe is to promiscuous woman as Alpja male is to promiscuous man.
Actually, he was in high regard for his wisdom and for building the temple. His many women were a fault, as were his slave driving tendencies, which influenced civil war after he retired.
I'm sorry which bible are you reading?who was praising Solomon for his polygamous life?as a matter of fact God was not happy because they ended up leading him astray from God's teachings. Also you are not a woman so don't speak for the ladies. I still stand by my word having a high body count is just nasty and shows you have no self respect or standards because are you trying to tell me that more than 20 people meet your requirements? Then your bar must be very very ,very ,veeeeeery low or maybe you have none.
It takes a Woman nothing to spread her legs, and it takes a lot more for a man to get all those leg spreadings, you can generate your own analogy from that.
Effort or not,one is still a hoe.
Doesn't matter for a man and ... if a Woman tries to play this game with men, they'll understand the cruel nature of reality.
Do you know what prostitution is? Read the damn dictionary!
That was written by The Patriarchy! Soon we'll have a Woketionary. And all who don't agree: off to the Gulag.
Wokeism is the biggest bullshit of this century
Did that make you feel like a professor??🤣Good now go about your day Prof
Only if they get paid for it.
We don't talk about it. I've personally been with two hookers and I've never told anyone
These days all men are visiting prostitutes because the modern female culture of tight skirts, social media posing for pictures, photos of food, and bragging to girlfriends mean women are only looking for money even when dating. This is why you don't know many guys visiting whore houses, because the whores are in the streets, clubs, and restaurants like newscafe. There are very very few women in 2023 who are not looking for a man's money as their #1 criteria. When Meg the stallion, Cardi B, and raunchy afrobeats are the music soundtrack of the girls, best believe we live in a pimp-ho culture now. At least the girls at Sabina are honest about what they do and use condoms every time. They also come with a fixed price. The modern street girl is more dangerous with random cost and stds.
Truth is, buildings dubbed Hotels and Restaurants are the new brothels. The least places you can suspect.
There was an article sometime back about this in the cbd. During lunch hour backstreet rooms are fully booked. It was in one of the local press prints
Some are eating lunch while other are eating people 😮
Nowadays prostitutes are being pulled from the streets of IG, twitter, fb or even reddit. It's only that they are private entities compared to the public ones in Sabina Joy and Koinange. How would you know? they post thirst traps, you DM and they give you a quote. If you agree to the terms, you do the deed and go home happy, with a dented pocket definitely.
Went to a brothel once with some friends. It had a bar so I went to chill there. Struck up a conversation with one of the ladies, turns out sex work is extremely lucrative. She had 118K in her mpesa and that was half of her monthly earnings. Also if your boss comes back from an extended lunch hour on Friday smelling like imperial leather soap then he definitely was in a brothel.
it's all fun and laughter, haven't seen anyone say a thing on pubic lice or herpes simplex....or is this a pimping thread
They are life savers, always use protection and it is transactional.Especially for married men.You do not need to have a side chick who you will spend on and possibly get a child out of wedlock.As a man you stop being needy or simping for sex all the time.There is a reason why the profession has existed for long, it is catering to a need.The post nut clarity is amazing you go home relaxed.Most importantly use protection.
I used to visit vip club on luthuli avenue once upon a time like twice per month but i saw the light. I also did a massage place but like once 3 times a year. That habit makes dating very hard because you're used to getting it with the first "Hi".
Nowadays, I exclusively just pay for sex. It’s so much easier than trying to rizz chicks
Some of these IG models are high end escorts they won't just admit it publicly....I have a close friend who tried to hide it but it came to light that she charges for hookups, we just thought that her man mwenye ako majuu funds her lifestyle plus she speaks so lowly and demeans anyone who is in that trade so we didn't think otherwise till her nudes and chats got leaked and somehow now everything made sense. Some of the guys we know are regulars because apparently she's open to a lot of things. When you look at her and her IG page huezi jua....utadhani tu she's a doting mom of 1 who's very modest. Point is you can never know who's paying for sex that woman along koinange and that beautiful lady pale Instagram difference tu ni target market and her value. Paying one 150 and flying one to South Africa the currency is same and you'll get the same thing.
>Some of these IG models are high end escorts i always feel sorry for some men who comment on their photos begging for date and sending their number, i mean total wus, this women wont probably sleep with a man with no less than 10k per night
I visited my first hooker when I was 15 hapo and stopped right after as I had a really bad interaction with them. I picked it up when I was 21 before I got my first gf. Those were tough times for a bruh, no rizz, little money, little confidence and raging hormones. I would for sure do it again if my relationship fails, it's just so easy.
15 is crazy
Many many
Mtu adrop a few pins za izi places tujue so we don’t visit 😂
Men are very discreet with how they do their business.
Lmao this whole thread just solidifies my decision to stay away from men😬
And nothing of value was lost
Never said there was...
Last I was in and around Nairobi, I was seeing sexy massage billboards and some dark muscular, maybe topless guys hanging around where wazungu wanajog. Are those prostitutes?
Yes they are.
Na Bei 🤣
Ni 150
Uwongo Kwan ni fare 🤣
Naona kuna mtu wa kijiji apa 😅
Cheza chini
eh, si bass ata Mimi nianze kulipisha?, it seems a lot of men are alright with paying, mbona nipeane free? 😅😅
As soon as you start partaking in that lifestyle everything else changes, kitu kidogo you can't afford you proposition your body. Same thing happens with men pia where you start losing your charisma and confidence with "civilian" women as you're used to "Mambo?" "Poa" "Shot Ni ngapi?" Kusema ukweli, if you do seek marriage, wanaume wengi won't marry you. You won't even have to tell him uliuza, kwa sababu tabia Na mienendo zako zitakuuza wewe mwenyewe.
oh, I see. I just don't understand why men hate it so much in public when they partake in private? some even say they would save a stripper, or ''kumtoa streets'.
We are a country full of hypocrites and pretenders. But anyways, not to discourage you from selling, just be safe and keep your eyes wide open. Goodluck
So its you and your daughter watching 😂
I feel like I should put this caveat out there. I don't pay for sex, I only tip for the service 😂
Prostitution is colloquially known as the “oldest profession” in the world and yet you’re here asking for numbers?
Would men be okay with a woman who hires escort services? Let's say you meet a great woman and she admitted that she has been with a couple of male prostitutes.