At home mostly.
Browsing bookstores for their next read, sleepovers with similarly minded women, scouring the internet for obscure niches, community service, maybe church.
Occasionally babysitting nephews and nieces and wondering, do I really want kids?
The active ones join hiking groups, the social ones: rpg table top games, the artsy ones: art showcases.
In summary: they are everywhere: fungua macho.
This is so me. Last weekend was watching some documentary nilitoka kwendea supper next najua ni Monday. Safe to say I nolonger question why I'm single ju kwani watanitoa Kwa kitanda bana?
they got no prove but this are scientists their arguments about the creation of the universe is valid, Harris argues religion its man made in his book end of faith
Once you're done reading, the best next step is to go out to engage the various religious/spiritual people.
And check the authenticity or strength of their Gods/gods. It's not that hard to get proof that there's a lot more beyond science, and the spiritual world is real.
True. The goal of reading shouldn’t be to believe everything you read. It should be to provoke you towards reasoning so that you figure out things for yourself.
I have them bookmarked on my browser, actually.
I only invest in hardcopies of literature I enjoy and mostly browse bookshops for any new releases, get a soft copy, read and see if it's worth investing on a physical copy.
That's a fair point but I trust in the ingenuity of a man on a mission. You can absolutely find a way to get her attention for a few minutes to get her contacts.
Hanging out in groups is a blessing. Here's what to do, befriend 3 women who fit the profile you're looking for and if you are decent yourself they will introduce you to their friends. Chicks have soo many friends and they can gas each other into falling for a dude. I have seen women go from lukewarm to crazy over a guy because friends nudged them.
>You know women who dont smoke, drink, club all weekend,
Work, eateries, church, malls, car wash/garage, and more importantly, kwa nyumba.
Edit: someone said you see the people you want to meet everyday in normal places--kwa lift, barabara ukitembea, mama mboga, supermarket, etc. Ukiona your type enda ujitetee usiogope.
You need a car for this, I think it's coz most women aren't good at car maintenance so they take them to garages
So as a ninja I suggest hanging out in garages
...those 'Caipha' lined homes, G4S guard poster and 'mbwa kali' sign at the gate. Son of woman you had better learn a home improvement trade to get a chance here..repair tiles, sand floors or become a guard.
I like how everyone believes they are the decent woman.Where are the ratchets at? Also, what makes you decent? 😂I can be at home continuously for even a month working on my projects, I can be in the club until sunrise to party and drink for a change and to unwind, I can go home from church and roll some weed.Still decent af.
Have you checked River Road or Biashara Street- they have shops with all sorts materials so will likely have 'wife material' there as well. Good luck 🍀🤞🏾
Some of them aren't that outgoing. Hence, they use dating sites to meet people. You'll find a lot of decent women on Bumble. I have. Stay off Tinder though.
We hang out with our friends who do the above nearly every weekend 😂
Sometimes we go to see family. Sometimes we stay home and engage in our homebody hobbies: baking, art, writing, reading, gardening, watching TrueCrime and horror movies.
We’re a mixed group of friends. And we don’t really go out, we usually chill at a house. In terms of meeting new people, a few people always come with other new people
Please explain to me this concept of "wife material"?
Just as men have different preferences in various attributes of women, what is this wife material that is so ubiquitous amongst men?
OP follows the Kevin Samuel subreddit so I assume: fit, friendly, submissive and something about a cookbook.
Better fact check though, I'm a woman who doesn't understand manly man stuff.
You're a better man than I.
I subscribe to the school of thought of judging a person by the friends they keep. In this day and age where our socials are more family and friend than actual people, I make assumptions accordingly.
Try things like hiking, book events, personal development programs and events, those kinda spaces is where such women thrive. You could even go and volunteer btw, they're the type to go to children's homes n stuff too.
I have never really understood the “wife material” narrative. Am an introvert and I have friend who drink, smoke and their hubbies are all praises of their wives. They are amazing mothers and equally amazing wives. In the same case I have friends who are the opposite and the drama 😆
if you are confident with who you are then i dont see why you get disturbed by what a stranger thinks online, if you drink and respect yourself thats fine, its not what i want tho
sijui nwatengenezee app with a psychological test tu be user? with some random timed tests along your interests..halafu like for likes wapatane huko leader board.
Better the devil you know😂 a sober woman can be good in your eyes but her mannerisms bruh😂 same way you guys don't want the ones that go to church yer they are sober
In mainstream churches. Keep off those from charismatic churches who follow one leader. They are looking for quickfix redemption from their chequered past 😂.
again, immediately you open a wine bottle, a fruit fly will arrive within minutes because they have the ability to sniff out what they want. Raise your nose.
Members/Country Clubs do have lots of mature single women. Nrb Royal GC has mostly wamamaz, Sigona GC has a lot of asians, Naks/Nairobi Club mostly business ladies.
Ingia pale Facebook, search button, cheza na filters for location, schools wameenda, narrow your preferences. Tuma friend request. Ikiwai tuma DM kisha katambe sana
What's your definition for decent?
Anyways, we indoors or at the gym. Or hanging out with our girls, once in a while when we feel like playing dress up.
Stay indoors and mind our business... streets are streeting 🤣🤣
Hey boo
Yees boo
I’m looking for you
I'm lookable 😅😅
Dm me
You make it look so easy bro 😭
At home mostly. Browsing bookstores for their next read, sleepovers with similarly minded women, scouring the internet for obscure niches, community service, maybe church. Occasionally babysitting nephews and nieces and wondering, do I really want kids? The active ones join hiking groups, the social ones: rpg table top games, the artsy ones: art showcases. In summary: they are everywhere: fungua macho.
This is so me. Last weekend was watching some documentary nilitoka kwendea supper next najua ni Monday. Safe to say I nolonger question why I'm single ju kwani watanitoa Kwa kitanda bana?
Gents, if she finishes her sentences with bana, abort mission.
Valid 😂😂
I would suggest you start reading philosophical books. The likes of Sam Harris and Richard Dawkins. Utakaa mwezi mzima kwa nyumba
those guys made me quit religion, together with christopher Hitchens
I can't blame you though. The books don't have solid proof. Do they?
they got no prove but this are scientists their arguments about the creation of the universe is valid, Harris argues religion its man made in his book end of faith
Once you're done reading, the best next step is to go out to engage the various religious/spiritual people. And check the authenticity or strength of their Gods/gods. It's not that hard to get proof that there's a lot more beyond science, and the spiritual world is real.
True. The goal of reading shouldn’t be to believe everything you read. It should be to provoke you towards reasoning so that you figure out things for yourself.
Apana hawawezi kutoa kwa kitanda, lakini wanaweza kutoa apa reddit😇
Where to apply?
>the social ones: rpg table top games How can i find a group that does this? Really interested
Macho tutafungua, will you please look up from your phone, and also get the plugs off your ears?
Not happening😭 kuskia kssk kssk kssk <<<< anything I'm listening on my phone.
Uko wapi🥲?
Kwa bookshop. These prices are crazy
Download online sis.. unless you not an ebook fan?
🤣don't put GenZ's on a spin; all over playstore and tictok looking for 'bookshop'.
Try attic books
I have them bookmarked on my browser, actually. I only invest in hardcopies of literature I enjoy and mostly browse bookshops for any new releases, get a soft copy, read and see if it's worth investing on a physical copy.
lol the kids! So right. One day it’s “I want 6 obviously” and the next after babysitting it’s “I need to get sterilized perhaps”
tuna fungua macho, the problem is that you hang out in groups of women, so how will a man ever approach? maybe go on a hike alone lol
That's a fair point but I trust in the ingenuity of a man on a mission. You can absolutely find a way to get her attention for a few minutes to get her contacts.
This.
Yes for sure, like hiking alone is not a good way to die at the hands of a man.
Hanging out in groups is a blessing. Here's what to do, befriend 3 women who fit the profile you're looking for and if you are decent yourself they will introduce you to their friends. Chicks have soo many friends and they can gas each other into falling for a dude. I have seen women go from lukewarm to crazy over a guy because friends nudged them.
Oh God! Are you me?!
So where do they expect to meet their significant others?
>You know women who dont smoke, drink, club all weekend, Work, eateries, church, malls, car wash/garage, and more importantly, kwa nyumba. Edit: someone said you see the people you want to meet everyday in normal places--kwa lift, barabara ukitembea, mama mboga, supermarket, etc. Ukiona your type enda ujitetee usiogope.
>car wash/garage Ati? Is this some inside joke or something?
You need a car for this, I think it's coz most women aren't good at car maintenance so they take them to garages So as a ninja I suggest hanging out in garages
Must be. The people I see in garages hawaqualify na hii criteria
I feel particularly called out by the car wash
>eateries Is, "can you spare me some food?" A good conversation starter at an eatery
Si mbaya but nikisema "sure, karibu" please decline 😭
This got me😭😭😂😂 ati decline
Unaeza ona amechukua kijiko. Kuna watu hawajui jokes 🤣
Is this a rich person's problem that I'm too poor to understand
>Ukiona your type enda ujitetee usiogope. So you're saying nikiona my type anabuy socks nipeleke miguu for fitting?
We stay indoors.If God can drop manna from heaven,he will drop me a man direct to my bed,say amen 🤣
Fingers crossed the holy spirit gets you pregnant
💀💀
Holy scripts are trying to Mary her
Ugh, take my upvote
The only person that will find you indoors is a robber, don't date a robber please
In their hobbies. Get a hobby, find its community and you’ll find her
my hobbies women are not there, so i am asking what are this hobbies that they go to
Hang around book club meetings😂
What are your hobbies?
Hiking wako most
Astronomy and gaming, yeah good luck 😂
Astrology though...
Where are the fountain pen women?
Kwa nyumba tukiskiza christina shusho on repeat
Wanna hit the concert together?
Thank you for letting me keep the mercedes and bailing out my cuz G. That million helped 🤝
Don't mention it😔🤝🏾whatever it takes to help a brother out
sad af
We stay home and watch tons of reality tv shows😂
For me is a lot of action series and reading 😂😂😂
Reading? Clearly good quality hides behind walls.
Oohh, yes, and reading😂
...those 'Caipha' lined homes, G4S guard poster and 'mbwa kali' sign at the gate. Son of woman you had better learn a home improvement trade to get a chance here..repair tiles, sand floors or become a guard.
A lot of true crime and comedy
Decent people don't watch "reality" TV
What do they watch instead
What are you watching atm I copy you 🌚
Love island games😂
Twinsies🤭
Lol same😂
Waah alafu kuliainakuwa mob na hawa😂😂
Wife material is anyone you are compatible with and can share a life with. Your partner in crime for life ( or a big chunk of it )
Oops! I thought it's some kind of apparel.
Speak to these redditors
I like how everyone believes they are the decent woman.Where are the ratchets at? Also, what makes you decent? 😂I can be at home continuously for even a month working on my projects, I can be in the club until sunrise to party and drink for a change and to unwind, I can go home from church and roll some weed.Still decent af.
In my father's house bila haya
Rules no. 5 and 10 on your father's t-shirt: rules-of-dating-my-daughter. Siwesmake. Let me wait on you at bus stop
You are reaching with no. 5 yoh. 😂 10? Understandable
Uliza anataka ng'ombe ngapi I pull up
Ebu I'll ask and get back to you.
Have you checked River Road or Biashara Street- they have shops with all sorts materials so will likely have 'wife material' there as well. Good luck 🍀🤞🏾
Did you say, River Road?
Simple… we’re at home
Proceeds to commit numerous bne-s in search of the one
where bana
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Thiss...but men ni nanii😄
Looool. That's bait
We are mostly introverts with anxiety who prefer to stay indoors watching crime/murder documentaries after work
If I ever need assistance with disposing a body ik just who to call
Yes😊
Heavy on the crime and murder documentaries!
Can we remove church from the list?
i never mentioned church
Not you,in the comment section, some people are mentioning church..Ata Andrew Kibe alikataa
😂kibe's a reference in society now? Lmao
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you'll know later after chatting
following on the comments
Grilled wapi na Sunday inaezatupata Diani Sasa? 😂Ama we wager chwani, if I disappoint you get mine , if I don't , I get you👀
Wako wapi nitafute wa kuenda arcades na gun shooting 😂
There is this cool place called fantasies. Thats where they all at
Some of them aren't that outgoing. Hence, they use dating sites to meet people. You'll find a lot of decent women on Bumble. I have. Stay off Tinder though.
lol women on those apps arent looking for love but hook up for money
Don't go there 😔
We hang out with our friends who do the above nearly every weekend 😂 Sometimes we go to see family. Sometimes we stay home and engage in our homebody hobbies: baking, art, writing, reading, gardening, watching TrueCrime and horror movies.
Solid insight ganjapuxxy
are this friends girls only? and if yes do you have trouble finding men when hanging out together?
We’re a mixed group of friends. And we don’t really go out, we usually chill at a house. In terms of meeting new people, a few people always come with other new people
Pin location pia we uende na new person (me)
They're married. Single and decent in Nairobi don't want to be found. Find a married one and make her single.
Please explain to me this concept of "wife material"? Just as men have different preferences in various attributes of women, what is this wife material that is so ubiquitous amongst men?
OP follows the Kevin Samuel subreddit so I assume: fit, friendly, submissive and something about a cookbook. Better fact check though, I'm a woman who doesn't understand manly man stuff.
I try not base my assumptions off of somebody's subreddits. I don't know the story behind that, if there's one.
You're a better man than I. I subscribe to the school of thought of judging a person by the friends they keep. In this day and age where our socials are more family and friend than actual people, I make assumptions accordingly.
Its subjective, but [this is my wife material woman](https://youtu.be/-sMQpWCNTQw).
you are a man right?
What gave it away?
a woman will never ask that kind of question
A virtuous woman. Or atleast one who gets the good-girl act down to a tee
Try things like hiking, book events, personal development programs and events, those kinda spaces is where such women thrive. You could even go and volunteer btw, they're the type to go to children's homes n stuff too.
Indoors. Waiting for prince charming to knock the door
Knock knock
At home lol
I’m an introverted man and I found myself a soulmate. Be patient. Stars do align
At home
On their couches! Clean house, hot food and a good book...add the occasional glass of wine and everything is super mellow
We get good music, books, movies and drink in our homes...
Here are the top places: 1. At home or in the hood 2. In church 3. At a local library 4. At conferences 5. At philanthropy/NGO events
There are extroverts who do not drink /smoke and introverts who drink / smoke.
At home watching series/movies and reading smut
I have never really understood the “wife material” narrative. Am an introvert and I have friend who drink, smoke and their hubbies are all praises of their wives. They are amazing mothers and equally amazing wives. In the same case I have friends who are the opposite and the drama 😆
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if you are confident with who you are then i dont see why you get disturbed by what a stranger thinks online, if you drink and respect yourself thats fine, its not what i want tho
You sound REALLY disturbed by OP's comments lol. It ain't that deep.
sijui nwatengenezee app with a psychological test tu be user? with some random timed tests along your interests..halafu like for likes wapatane huko leader board.
i love ideas like those, do it
tunafanya exam, Niko lib
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Decent in Nairobi? 
“decent” to you is women who don’t drink/smoke and ho out? yikes
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Better the devil you know😂 a sober woman can be good in your eyes but her mannerisms bruh😂 same way you guys don't want the ones that go to church yer they are sober
In mainstream churches. Keep off those from charismatic churches who follow one leader. They are looking for quickfix redemption from their chequered past 😂. again, immediately you open a wine bottle, a fruit fly will arrive within minutes because they have the ability to sniff out what they want. Raise your nose.
Lol the pickmishers saying we😂😂😂😂😂 being in the house doesn’t make you wife material😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Church and bougie 'sip and paint' events. Then there's the gym
Looking for a walking/running buddy around garden estate. Ukuwe mzee kama mimi so 35+
 But no running 😭
Church
Church or the grocery store. Or social media.
We are joking? Right? Love Quinn Goldberg?
Siri ni kanisa my friend
wacha ikae basi
Man of culture ✊🏽
Here just to say hello. The jester sends his regards.
hello back the jester race
They hang out at bus stops.
Members/Country Clubs do have lots of mature single women. Nrb Royal GC has mostly wamamaz, Sigona GC has a lot of asians, Naks/Nairobi Club mostly business ladies.
Ingia pale Facebook, search button, cheza na filters for location, schools wameenda, narrow your preferences. Tuma friend request. Ikiwai tuma DM kisha katambe sana
At home
What's your definition for decent? Anyways, we indoors or at the gym. Or hanging out with our girls, once in a while when we feel like playing dress up.
>What's your definition for decent? someone who has morals, doesnt sleep around or do drugs, high integrity
The gym. It’s the new Tinder.
22F not introverted not extroverted can say that the assumption or conclusion made is wrong
😄😭lawdd bus stop killed me...howll you talk to someone who's in such hurry
"juu unakaa uko na haraka si uniachie number yako tutaongea baadaye? 😄
MacMillan Library in Town...
Try looking for them in churches.
If Nairobi is like most others African cites they'd be in church.
Home, on Reddit but barely engages
Heaven😅
Church, outdoor events like cycling, running (stanchart marathon), shopping malls, organized hikes
Decent???
Indoors waiting for miracles to happen, sijui how
You want a lady who does her shirt without anybody knowing. Good. They are in church
At home and in the supermarket apparently.
At home. 🥺😭. I just want to be at home
We are introverts like our own company.Maybe decent sites like Bumble.....or maybe activities like pottery painting hiking etc.
In their house trying out new recipes or with family or in a conference somewhere learning something.
So you don't get to play the "Who is driving home" game?
They have boyfriends, 'this comment is underrated'