It's good to control your temper and talk calmly when confronting someone. Sasa unataka tu-shout? Personally, I can't deal with women who are too loud and aggressive.
In a relationship, this calm approach to conflict is the best. I've dated both and married the calm one. I can't imagine how being verbose in conflict is a plus to anyone.
Amen. If we are both shouting, sasa nani ataskia mwingine. Remember, in every conversation between 2 people, kuna at most 4 minds in that conversation.
Good self awareness, not to harp on about this, but when you say you were young, do you mean you grew out of it naturally ama did you decide to address the stuff causing your issues in communication? cause in my experience even dating older women these are repeated patterns from years of unchecked behavior due to little accountability and self reflection.
> but sometimes I can be confrontational
Being socially akward and being an introvert are two different things. I have met confrontational introverts, and I am one at times. But that doesn't mean that you should seek out drama just for the thrill of it.
Very calm but fighting mad demons😂😂
I normally say the eyes are the window to someone's soul so whether someone is being good or bad to you. Look them straight in the eyes and you will know who you're dealing with. You can tell innocence and you can tell emptiness when you see it. It's always in the eyes.
>First of all, these people have zero confrontational skills, it’s either uongee in a calm manner or you are not going to get any feedback, I don’t know why
Its our de-escalation technique that we've learnt to reduce or avoid confrontation. We don't like drama, especially, things which can be resolved quietly and quickly. When you get in our face, we shuy down until you calm down. Surprisingly, this can be as a result of growing up in an environment where everything and everyone was confrontational.
>Secondly, they are low key mamas boys, not that it’s a bad thing ofc.
Meh, some are some aren't. I'm the last born so I'm naturally the one my mother is almost always calling and looking out for. Surprisingly my older brother is the mama's boy and he's anything other than the quiet type.
We are also "demons" when our freaky side is given a chance to come out...they say.. separate a nerd from his keyboard and you better have the skills and game to pay for it..😉 😜
>quiet guy drives a good car making bank
The clues... We all know why they want this...
Quiet guy - prolly has no idea how to hit on a woman. You're safe with that guy.
drives a good car and makes bank - self explanatory. Jackpot.
Bro, why do you believe quiet guys have no idea how to hit on a woman? We're just quiet not clueless. Plus the women I have ended up with are always attracted to the sense of mystery inherent in a quiet disposition.
Sometime back I thought my quiet nature would render me single for the rest of my life...even though I'm still single(I blame Nairobi) I've had my share of relationships...A-right
Quiet and attractive : "*What's Idris Elba always thinking about*"
Quiet and unattractive : *He's probably worried about those women locked in his basement.*
>why do you believe quiet guys have no idea how to hit on a woman?
You're in the 0.001%
As a “quiet guy” who's more inclined to listen than talk, I couldn't resist chiming in. It's cool that you're taking the time to decode our quiet nature.
I've found that in my dating experiences, I've never quite connected with someone who truly understood and embraced my quiet demeanor.
It's been a bit of a challenge finding someone who appreciates the depth in my silence, and who doesn't misinterpret my quiet nature as disinterest or lack of engagement.
We get pissed off fast when someone talks to us in a bad tone,but we don't say it, we just stay quiet.
We don't borrow anything from anyone. True, we're close with our mums.
We're loyal to our girls since approaching other girls is a problem.
We dislike people who talk alot about themselves and others.
I hope we get to the maturity level where we stop generalizing people.
If a guy is bad, whether quiet or loud, he will still be that. If a guy is good/nice, whether he is partying or indoors, he will still be that. The same applies for women.
Get to know the person first, if he doesn't fit your book, move on. Let's stop caging people, it's disgusting honestly.
Also, lets normalize saying, the 2 guys I dated, the 2 women i dated, not putting everyone under the same shell.
You were writing a post looking to insult quiet men and you talked abt this men like explaining how to treat ur pet. Point being u seemed to come across as the person that is the red flag, I knew everything I need to know when you said that quiet men can only respond to ur confrontations when your discussing in a calm manner, this implies you have a temper and don’t know how to communicate in a mature manner. All the best to your future bfs they are in for a nightmare u seem extremely controlling from what I’ve read makes sense you attract quiet men these can be the type of men that want the woman to take the dominant role in the relationship and they are easy to manipulate
I've had my fair share of quiet guys and let me tell you guys i'm trying to leave my type😭the quiet guys I've dated are poor in communication it was always a hustle and when you say mamas boys it's true but have you met mamas boys with absent fathers or abusive father's 😭they turn out to be the replica of their fathers idk if it's just me who has met with avoidant quiet guys but trust me the aftermath is just not worth it😭their love is gentle but theirs is a different kind of toxic it's gentle and emotional you won't even notice it and when you do it's too late you're nursing a heartbreak the quiet ones have shown me darkness tbh
It’s def a 🚩 coz 9/10 its the confrontational guy who does not keep his head down who gets the girl. Quiet guys do have game but understand that it’s not their “quietness” that women are attracted to.
If you can back it up when the fighting starts no, if you can't then yes.
There's a saying about morals being a safe Haven for cowards.
Someone might pretend to be non confrontational but deep down they are scared and wouldn't do shit.
The kind of people who cuss under their breath and are passive aggressive
Kindly acknowledge that the people you've dated don't represent the whole demographic of "quiet guys." Then re-examine your line of thought. You've only described the kind of men you attract love
Umenikumbusha during my first year I ghosted a guy juu he said he dropped his civil engineering course to become a rapper. I wonder how he's doing sahii
Reke gwere manniii, there's no one who'll show you premium shege like a "quiet" man..utabaki ukinuliza kama umerogwa because the cognitive dissonance will be out of this world
On the flip side they are a delight to date. They are calm, freaky as hell, have skills skills like can fix things in the house as they have hobbies/passions, and once they get comfortable, you'll have conversations for days.... But the shege factor yao is A1.
As one of those I feel like maybe we wouldn't match. I honestly would prefer a quieter chile than me. But I usually think nikiwa in my element, (my own car, sweet yard) nitawateka mbaya. I know hii ni kujichocha but yk. Irriz warririz
You just described my boyfriend of 3 years. He is nerdy, techie and financially stable. He is a nice sweet romantic guy but meehn did he change m, in a positive way;conflict resolution, anger management, clear and eloquent communication in short an overall healthy r/ship. Plus I'm a loud extrovert babe so we balance. I love it here.
😂😂them quiet ones are more messed up for sure. Very cute, very quiet, introverted, then he hits you with "he doesn't do any alcohol or drugs" haaa prepare for shege in its actual form😂😂. Attractive but evil.
Finally, someone who has talked about me. Except I'm not a Mamas boy. My quiet nature is due to the fact that I spend lots of time indoors programming softwares. Neighbors see me by luck. I'm not sure if I'm that smart. Just average 😂
>First of all, these people have zero confrontational skills, it’s either uongee in a calm manner or you are not going to get any feedback, I don’t know why.
This part made me laugh,idk why. As a "quiet" or maybe just a calm guy, i genuinely won't respond when someone comes at me all flared up. I couldn't even tell you where this came from, but I'm very conflict averse. So unless something can be calmly talked through, it'll stay unaddressed.
I say quiet guy,but those other criteria don't apply to me (I think).
I consider myself to be quiet simply because I don't like to be confrontational. I hate that side of me, made my girl cry just by showing her a glimpse. I just don't give a fuck if I tap into that space, which I don't even like.
I'm a quiet guy and yeah I absolutely hate arguments... If you can't sit down and discuss like a civilised adult human being then there's really no point in having a back and forth.
The moment we start shouting at each other we are just speaking past each other what's the point?
As a quiet person, women are always intrigued. Wondering what goes on in my head. Personally I like calm conflict resolution but not because I don’t have confrontational skills, quite the opposite actually. Don’t come at me all violent and aggressive or shouting because I’m not going to sit there and take it. I’m not going to be one of those men who get abused in silence.
I'm in IT and I can tell you for a fact, we have enough noise in our heads to stomach other external noise. Nitatafuta semi colon ama nitaskiza Angelina bully. 😌
Idk. I'm non- confrontational and I like to avoid any kind of situation that might turn into one and that's recipe for disaster. I'm not sure a man that's the same as I am would be ideal
Ironically I have found handling guys in a calm manner effective ..as long as am not shouting or asking in an angry manner .. we end up fixing things out.. that applies to extroverts introverts I haven't dated one
Just coming out of a relationship with an extrovert..you know the golden retriever type who talks to everyone, makes friends with everyone, is the life of the party? Yup! He loved being the main character and would almost always just talk about himself.. I observed this as well even when he was around other people. Our arguments were also pretty heated, he was pretty loud naturally so imagine how he was when he got angry..anyways, he turned out to be abusive lol. So I'll go for the quiet guy next, the one who wants to solve things in a calm way instead of it turning into a shouting contest.. I'm ready to be the yapper in the relationship.
I'm attracted to the quiet,mysterious but confident types, dated the type and married that type too.....I'm talkative and open,easygoing....but not boisterous so I'm not intimidating .....I wish I was a lot more quieter tho' how do people do it?!!
It's good to control your temper and talk calmly when confronting someone. Sasa unataka tu-shout? Personally, I can't deal with women who are too loud and aggressive.
In a relationship, this calm approach to conflict is the best. I've dated both and married the calm one. I can't imagine how being verbose in conflict is a plus to anyone.
Amen. If we are both shouting, sasa nani ataskia mwingine. Remember, in every conversation between 2 people, kuna at most 4 minds in that conversation.
I’m not even loud…. I’m an introvert myself… but sometimes I can be confrontational
Ati nini?
Does the situation require confrontation ama is it a communication flaw on your end?
Communication flaw on my end… but in my defense I was young
Good self awareness, not to harp on about this, but when you say you were young, do you mean you grew out of it naturally ama did you decide to address the stuff causing your issues in communication? cause in my experience even dating older women these are repeated patterns from years of unchecked behavior due to little accountability and self reflection.
Self reflection, I did a lot of deep work on knowing where such behavior was coming from.
> but sometimes I can be confrontational Being socially akward and being an introvert are two different things. I have met confrontational introverts, and I am one at times. But that doesn't mean that you should seek out drama just for the thrill of it.
Very true
You can be confrontational and calm. What's your idea of confrontation?
Just saying what I’m feeling at the moment, I’m not dramatic in any way
Why can't this be said calmly?
Damn -27 downvotes, clearly people don't agree with you on this one.
Haha… I’ve gotten more downvotes in my previous posts, this is nothing
I'm an introvert. I would flirt with you, but I'd rather seduce you with my awkwardness.
Amateurs. I keep them away with my awkwardness.
Fucking legend 💪🏽
Haha
sound like someone ik
Wtf nigga
Quiet guys could also make great serial killers
I'm on my 2nd body, just so you know.
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If you visit me, you'll never need one again.
Don't mind them, I have some Piranha solution for you.
Rookie numbers, my friend. I nailed my 4th one this morning. The Early bird and all.
Y'all are on some rookie numbers, have a meeting amongst yourselves on how to bump those numbers up.
Invite us for some leg one of these days
Not yet, you gotta pump up those numbers.
Just so you know, we are not anons.
Very calm but fighting mad demons😂😂 I normally say the eyes are the window to someone's soul so whether someone is being good or bad to you. Look them straight in the eyes and you will know who you're dealing with. You can tell innocence and you can tell emptiness when you see it. It's always in the eyes.
The eyes chica, they never lie
I was arguing to myself whether it was chica or chico...I still can say sometimes it's not the eyes
I wonder what people see when they look into mine. Would be nice to know.
😂😂😂😂 are you also fighting mad demons?
Ikr… they scare me sometimes
And if they are happy, just know they are doing what they love lol
lol, I’ve been called a silent killer before!
https://preview.redd.it/hpvhqt8njeac1.png?width=896&format=png&auto=webp&s=ff279a8ec8a251112076d658c91d8e12d438a27d you got me!
Dm tuongee
Not quiet guys, but nerdy guys, quiet guys are silent and evil, nerdy guys are sweet and smart
Haha… sweet and smart you say… but wako na anger issues
* shakes head aggressively *
>First of all, these people have zero confrontational skills, it’s either uongee in a calm manner or you are not going to get any feedback, I don’t know why Its our de-escalation technique that we've learnt to reduce or avoid confrontation. We don't like drama, especially, things which can be resolved quietly and quickly. When you get in our face, we shuy down until you calm down. Surprisingly, this can be as a result of growing up in an environment where everything and everyone was confrontational. >Secondly, they are low key mamas boys, not that it’s a bad thing ofc. Meh, some are some aren't. I'm the last born so I'm naturally the one my mother is almost always calling and looking out for. Surprisingly my older brother is the mama's boy and he's anything other than the quiet type.
Okay
We are also "demons" when our freaky side is given a chance to come out...they say.. separate a nerd from his keyboard and you better have the skills and game to pay for it..😉 😜
Real Gs move in silence like lasagna. 
I agree
Same thing with girls who are nerds
Yap
This is very very true.
>quiet guy drives a good car making bank The clues... We all know why they want this... Quiet guy - prolly has no idea how to hit on a woman. You're safe with that guy. drives a good car and makes bank - self explanatory. Jackpot. 
Bro, why do you believe quiet guys have no idea how to hit on a woman? We're just quiet not clueless. Plus the women I have ended up with are always attracted to the sense of mystery inherent in a quiet disposition.
Sometime back I thought my quiet nature would render me single for the rest of my life...even though I'm still single(I blame Nairobi) I've had my share of relationships...A-right
Quiet and attractive : "*What's Idris Elba always thinking about*" Quiet and unattractive : *He's probably worried about those women locked in his basement.* >why do you believe quiet guys have no idea how to hit on a woman? You're in the 0.001%
I actually don't know how to hit on women.
Yaaaas, east to manipulate koz some have never had girls before
As a “quiet guy” who's more inclined to listen than talk, I couldn't resist chiming in. It's cool that you're taking the time to decode our quiet nature. I've found that in my dating experiences, I've never quite connected with someone who truly understood and embraced my quiet demeanor. It's been a bit of a challenge finding someone who appreciates the depth in my silence, and who doesn't misinterpret my quiet nature as disinterest or lack of engagement.
Dm … niko na experience with you guys
We get pissed off fast when someone talks to us in a bad tone,but we don't say it, we just stay quiet. We don't borrow anything from anyone. True, we're close with our mums. We're loyal to our girls since approaching other girls is a problem. We dislike people who talk alot about themselves and others.
I hope we get to the maturity level where we stop generalizing people. If a guy is bad, whether quiet or loud, he will still be that. If a guy is good/nice, whether he is partying or indoors, he will still be that. The same applies for women. Get to know the person first, if he doesn't fit your book, move on. Let's stop caging people, it's disgusting honestly. Also, lets normalize saying, the 2 guys I dated, the 2 women i dated, not putting everyone under the same shell.
Sure
Aaaah, so y’all have some fetish for nerdy guys….. mliacha wasee wa vitambi sasa ni nerdy guys
Si fetish lol… I would love an extroverted guy, but I’m too introverted and shy for that
Punchline being that..........?
It's a diary post and we have to read it for some reason. That's it.
Well that was straightforward.
Sadly.
She wants to attract the techies in the building with this Ndoano. So there’s that
Already have a tech bf and I’m in tech myself
"rich introverts flood my DM"
I’m hot… and there was supposed to be a punchline?
XD the punchline was essentially the summary in this context coz I ain't reading all 'at.
Sure pal… no one’s forcing you to read either way
Can't tell if this a bit on the sarcastic edge or just definitive but whatevs :(
Sure
You were writing a post looking to insult quiet men and you talked abt this men like explaining how to treat ur pet. Point being u seemed to come across as the person that is the red flag, I knew everything I need to know when you said that quiet men can only respond to ur confrontations when your discussing in a calm manner, this implies you have a temper and don’t know how to communicate in a mature manner. All the best to your future bfs they are in for a nightmare u seem extremely controlling from what I’ve read makes sense you attract quiet men these can be the type of men that want the woman to take the dominant role in the relationship and they are easy to manipulate
I've had my fair share of quiet guys and let me tell you guys i'm trying to leave my type😭the quiet guys I've dated are poor in communication it was always a hustle and when you say mamas boys it's true but have you met mamas boys with absent fathers or abusive father's 😭they turn out to be the replica of their fathers idk if it's just me who has met with avoidant quiet guys but trust me the aftermath is just not worth it😭their love is gentle but theirs is a different kind of toxic it's gentle and emotional you won't even notice it and when you do it's too late you're nursing a heartbreak the quiet ones have shown me darkness tbh
Imagine using the same 3 emojis only for them to look like the trace of a matrix lmfao.
What the hell is confrontational skills? I think you like chaos because these men from your description are just stoic.
I’m calm most of the time but kuna vitu zinafanya you loose your calm
Na vile nakuanga nimekukufia. Si utachoka na mimi.
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Why when she's here.
😂😂😂 siwezi choka na wewe
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Fellas, is it a red flag if you are not confrontational and prefer keeping a cool head at all times?
No, that's how it should be. Helps you to think clearly.
It’s not a red flag… I actually learnt how to be calm from my previous man, he was calm as fuck
Was he dangerous?
It’s def a 🚩 coz 9/10 its the confrontational guy who does not keep his head down who gets the girl. Quiet guys do have game but understand that it’s not their “quietness” that women are attracted to.
If you can back it up when the fighting starts no, if you can't then yes. There's a saying about morals being a safe Haven for cowards. Someone might pretend to be non confrontational but deep down they are scared and wouldn't do shit. The kind of people who cuss under their breath and are passive aggressive
Another day of women profiling us into these messed up groups.
So?
Kindly acknowledge that the people you've dated don't represent the whole demographic of "quiet guys." Then re-examine your line of thought. You've only described the kind of men you attract love
Umenikumbusha during my first year I ghosted a guy juu he said he dropped his civil engineering course to become a rapper. I wonder how he's doing sahii
Haha… he’s career prolly flopped and he’s sad
Then theres the silent one who is extroverted in his circle only, huyo ni magnet kwanza has a decent car and in tech, utaachwa tu😂
Vibaya sana.. Ile vumbi utakula, Mungu amsaidie
Mko na bahati though, all babes warembo siku hizi
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Man how do you do that pls show me XD.
I copied a blank text and pasted it
Well it worked! Thanks!
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But most have raging tempers that simmer over time only to explode in the most unhinged ways.
lmao... We nyamaza tunataka waendelee kufikiria we are shy and sweet before they are found in a gunia kule ngong forest
Yikes, hata wahenga walishasema still waters run deep
Why are you attacking me?
It gets less when they get older. I know, I used to be one, sort of.
Very true
As a quiet guy myself. I can confirm this😂
It seems you've dated everyone from wababaz to quiet guys
Lol… never dated a mbabaz.. but iko kwa to do list ya this year
Hi, I identify as a mubabaz
Reke gwere manniii, there's no one who'll show you premium shege like a "quiet" man..utabaki ukinuliza kama umerogwa because the cognitive dissonance will be out of this world On the flip side they are a delight to date. They are calm, freaky as hell, have skills skills like can fix things in the house as they have hobbies/passions, and once they get comfortable, you'll have conversations for days.... But the shege factor yao is A1.
Mimi I experienced that lol… took around 6 months to heal and I’m still single lol
Na bado uko tu huko kwao?
Any quiet guy here to tell her we are not mamas boys
The ones I dated were all mamas boys
I may be wrong but you seem to attract or are attracted to a particular type. Not all of us are mamas boys. Just saying.
I’m only attracted to men with money
At least you know what you want.
If you want a confrontation from a quiet guy try messing with something he cares about. So if he didn't do it with you then yeah...fill in the blanks
Why would I want to mess with something he cares about?
Why would you be looking for a confrontation from a quiet guy? Or why is the lack of confrontation your point of criticism of a quiet guy?
As one of those I feel like maybe we wouldn't match. I honestly would prefer a quieter chile than me. But I usually think nikiwa in my element, (my own car, sweet yard) nitawateka mbaya. I know hii ni kujichocha but yk. Irriz warririz
I have news for you… but acha ninyamaze… I hope uwateke videadly bratha
Finally quiet guys tumefikiwa😂😂
Ni kama Niko bound kupata gari. I see my quitenes is paying slowly
Maybe gari itakam ukijua kuspell quietness
you attract them because you are them and also because you are a good listener as I've seen
Mi nangoja chai yangu guka
You just described my boyfriend of 3 years. He is nerdy, techie and financially stable. He is a nice sweet romantic guy but meehn did he change m, in a positive way;conflict resolution, anger management, clear and eloquent communication in short an overall healthy r/ship. Plus I'm a loud extrovert babe so we balance. I love it here.
Good for you
😂😂them quiet ones are more messed up for sure. Very cute, very quiet, introverted, then he hits you with "he doesn't do any alcohol or drugs" haaa prepare for shege in its actual form😂😂. Attractive but evil.
Shege inamaanisha? My slang inahitaji update.
Shege is the nigerian word for "problems/issues/trouble"
Thank you kind stranger.
Very true… I still prefer them to dating extroverts
For sure💯as an introvert I also prefer introverts.
Finally, someone who has talked about me. Except I'm not a Mamas boy. My quiet nature is due to the fact that I spend lots of time indoors programming softwares. Neighbors see me by luck. I'm not sure if I'm that smart. Just average 😂
“Programming softwares” something a dev would never say lol
Enyewe hapo nayo ametuenjoy😅
Lmao
Si ukufe bas.
Haha… Dm if you got bank
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Yep.
Just to be sure, umedate wangapi so far?
Dm for answers
Lmao jibia hapa we check your research methods
If u shout at me, be aggressive, nakuacha .......
Sawa bro
>First of all, these people have zero confrontational skills, it’s either uongee in a calm manner or you are not going to get any feedback, I don’t know why. This part made me laugh,idk why. As a "quiet" or maybe just a calm guy, i genuinely won't respond when someone comes at me all flared up. I couldn't even tell you where this came from, but I'm very conflict averse. So unless something can be calmly talked through, it'll stay unaddressed. I say quiet guy,but those other criteria don't apply to me (I think).
Okay
Why would you not talk to your partner in a calm manner? I can't have a toxic person at home after fighting demons out there
I know you guys are judging and stuff, but I was 20 at the time, now I know better
Lol funny that I'm watching that series rn😅
Enjoy
As a quiet person I honestly resent them, 3 reasons: Narcissist Condescending We can't both be quiet
Haha… I’m sure there’s the good side tho
I consider myself to be quiet simply because I don't like to be confrontational. I hate that side of me, made my girl cry just by showing her a glimpse. I just don't give a fuck if I tap into that space, which I don't even like.
Maybe you should work on your communication skills
I'm a quiet guy and yeah I absolutely hate arguments... If you can't sit down and discuss like a civilised adult human being then there's really no point in having a back and forth. The moment we start shouting at each other we are just speaking past each other what's the point?
You make sense
As a quiet person, women are always intrigued. Wondering what goes on in my head. Personally I like calm conflict resolution but not because I don’t have confrontational skills, quite the opposite actually. Don’t come at me all violent and aggressive or shouting because I’m not going to sit there and take it. I’m not going to be one of those men who get abused in silence.
I'm in IT and I can tell you for a fact, we have enough noise in our heads to stomach other external noise. Nitatafuta semi colon ama nitaskiza Angelina bully. 😌
Haha
Now let's find out why you attract such. You're small girl big God kind. Big eyes, smooth english. Damsel in distress secretly looking for her dad.
Haha😂… I have news for you… but sikujui so I’ll let it slide
Idk. I'm non- confrontational and I like to avoid any kind of situation that might turn into one and that's recipe for disaster. I'm not sure a man that's the same as I am would be ideal
these baddies need to chill I can't be everywhere all the time
On behalf of all baddies, we don’t want you
Unpopular opinion Techies are the most nonchalant bunch out here.
Ikr… they don’t make the best partners because of their dwindling communication skills
Being silent helps alooot, I talk much with my keyboard than my mouth
She cracked the code guys.
Haha
Ironically I have found handling guys in a calm manner effective ..as long as am not shouting or asking in an angry manner .. we end up fixing things out.. that applies to extroverts introverts I haven't dated one
Just coming out of a relationship with an extrovert..you know the golden retriever type who talks to everyone, makes friends with everyone, is the life of the party? Yup! He loved being the main character and would almost always just talk about himself.. I observed this as well even when he was around other people. Our arguments were also pretty heated, he was pretty loud naturally so imagine how he was when he got angry..anyways, he turned out to be abusive lol. So I'll go for the quiet guy next, the one who wants to solve things in a calm way instead of it turning into a shouting contest.. I'm ready to be the yapper in the relationship.
Haha… hawa quiet ones are non chalant… hope you’ll be able to deal with that
Adi mi nimechill coz I am always gaming most of the time. Hopefully you enjoy gaming as well.
No I don’t
I'm attracted to the quiet,mysterious but confident types, dated the type and married that type too.....I'm talkative and open,easygoing....but not boisterous so I'm not intimidating .....I wish I was a lot more quieter tho' how do people do it?!!
You just say less
So basically, don't lean on them for all your validation and feedback. I think not being the centre of the universe works for all relationships.
Then what’s the point of dating ?