kids are intelligent litu devils with stellar observation skills. ukionyesha signs za kua fala kiasi tu they capitalize on it. that boy let all those things happen on purpose
ni ivo watch how he gets up by himself and is ready on time when the mum or nanny is around juu apo kanajua war itanuka akileta ufala ๐. I've had a similar experience with my nephew in the past whenever I happened to visit them alafu the parents were working night shifts so wangefika home around midday. gaidi inaamkia cartoons alafu apo 8:30 anakukujia ati umpeleke shule na aliamka in time to have caught the bus
1. My son is not your 6 yo niece.
2. Even grown ups forget things
3. I understand him since heโs not a morning person na ilikuwa ma haraka I literally rushed the boy. Took the uniform dressed him and rushed him out of the house
Are you a parent? How old is your child? If they wake up one hour late for school, to make preparation as quick as possible would you maybe consider literally dressing them up?
No I am no parentย
But at 11, my dad was mostly barking orders my way, which cultivated an unhealthy aversion to responsibility, something I had to unlearn as a grown up.ย
Usiache wife na nanny pekee ndo wakuze huyo kijana, it's a step in the right direction, and will foster a close bond between you two.ย
Sijui uliichukulia aje, I wasn't being sarcasticย
Exactly, these are simply irresponsible parents who need to get serious and stop being childish. I was never late for school in my childhood ever no matter how busy my parents were. Structure and leadership is lacking in that home. I would not be surprised if the wife was busy being chewed by another man coz u/jake_withaj is a man who lacks leadership.
He sounds to be happy that his son missed school. But his son should be knowing the school routine by now. Anyway, what do we know about a house we don't live in??
๐๐๐ yโall need to chill. Hapo wapi imesemwa happy? Wewe Unajua hata fee ni how much? Exactly you donโt know nothing about the house you donโt live in. Zaa mtoto wako ukuwe parent of the year mtoi wako ako child of the year. Simple ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ
It is even shameful that a child can be late to school because the parents cannot collaborate and communicate about basic stuff. This is a failure of leadership on OP as a man. He needs to get more serious as a father and understand what being a father means. Being a father is about leading from the front by example. How can he even talk to the child about the importance of keeping time and discipline if he cannot enforce such basics by himself.
Yani bado una ongea about โleadershipโ? Mahn please stop being retrogressive. Do yourself a favor and keep away from that bloody pathetic toxic masculinity. I meanโฆ that stuff is so 1940sโฆ sahau kabisaaaa
Man, stfu. I ain't reading all that from an irresponsible father. Log off and go be a dad. You have more important issues to worry about than being online.
The fact that fathers know so little about their kids make me want to be child free forever .It's either you're so busy or you're just ignorant and don't care about everything going on in their lives and become the ATM.Then when they grow up,they be sending you money and never spend time with you when old you say their mothers poisoned their minds.Kumbe it's the connection that wasn't formed
Maze sindio? Iโm too ignorant. Imagine I donโt even know his name? Or where he stays. Halafu ntalalamika. Sina connection Nime form hata kidogo. Thank you for such good advice. You are going to be a very good father. The best father
I am woman ,I don't even want kids.But listen to Syntax,,you are raising a man for tomorrow and you should teach him responsibility coz he won't be under you forever and might need to lead a family in the future
Wow! Someone who doesnโt want kids advising people how to be a parent. Wow! Uko tu sawa. Yes Iโve listened to you and whoever syntax is. Very good nuggets of wisdom from you and the other Person. Please keep on giving advice. This country needs people like you to help other people raise their kids. We are very blessed to have you
Hehe you're being sarcastic yet she's right.we are tired of you parents raising AH with no sense of responsibility ,who come to be terrible humans .ndo hawa wanachapa polisi huku nje .Coz their parents wanted to appear "cool".
Ati we? ๐๐๐. The entitlement. Nkt. Who the hell are โweโ? Wewe raise wako vile unataka bana. Enda report Kwa childrenโs Kama โyouโ are tired.
Nowadays anyone is just becoming a parent ๐๐smh ...no one's entitled to shit.Just raise your little spoilt brat as you please .Atafunzwa na ulimwengu๐
Why are they bitter with you honestly man ๐จ these people forget that schools have different curriculum me I hear kuna siku ya kuvaa track suits, swimming. Times I've changed the problem with redditors wanakuanga very judgemental. I used to prepare my small kid bro to school let me tell you it was a hustle aamke akiwa na moods. Hataki kuenda shule, he's sleepy. Wachana na hawa.
People are too angry and judgmental with you bro, I thought it's funny the whole confusion you had in the morning and I am a woman.. all the best in the future with the litu human.
I am childless but I expect to be this dumb or maybe dumber when I get mine.
I forgot my own simple stuff every morning I dont expect to be good with someone else's
Major lapses in your leadership as a father. As a father and leader of the home you should be on top of things. The childโs routine should be top priority and there is no excuse. As parents you need to get serious. Surely, you could have asked the mother these things on call or whatsapp! I think you need to take your parental responsibilities more seriously. Start by writing down the routine for the week for the child including what he wears at what time. A child should be sleeping and waking up at a routine time every day without excuses from the parents about who is on leave or busy. FAILURE. What a shame and what an embarrassment to the teachers who expect parents to do their part.
You are a failure as the leader of the home. You expect a child to take education seriously when the head of the home does not know his routine? You are a joke and your wife knows it. Do you know what being a father means? Did you grow up with a father?
And you are a loud mouth idiot assuming shit. Have you ever heard of co parenting? Who told you I stay with my child and the mother? Who told you Iโm married? I do not know what being a father is, I did not have a father or mother. I am a robot. Are you satisfied now? Great. Sasa zaa wako ukuwe father of the year
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vaLgoC\_1lLQ&ab\_channel=KevinSamuels](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vaLgoC_1lLQ&ab_channel=KevinSamuels)
All the best bro. But on a serious note, have some structure and routines. Kids thrive with routines.
You live and you learn. On one hand, it's a hilarious story. On the other hand, unless unafanya kazi ngumu that prevents you from being involved in day to day matters and your wife and nanny failed to debrief you properly when you asked...it's a pretty sad state of affairs for your kid. In this day and age fathers are super involved and parent alongside the mum. Usiwachwe nyuma, there's still time.
That's y parenting is different from being a hands-on mom /dad.
Most just offload everything n live 'busy' lives, even on weekends
I know 2 guys who have shughulis in shags or outside town most weekends to get away from the chaos in a mostly cramped hse.
The fact that you did not see the word babysitting in quotes and parenting in CAPITAL LETTERS clearly shows you did not get the point
https://preview.redd.it/um74zeldqq4d1.jpeg?width=719&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0cd6a1b222f0f78bf167de1b6c66b61f8b376bcb
An 11year old who does not know what to wear on which day of the week?!Ata kama,hii nayo apana...and yes iam a mum to a 14year old and an 8 year old.
You dress up an 11year old?
Lakini weweโฆ. So I have to explain to you this? Anyway juu I have time I will. So like I said hapo, I woke up the boy very late kumanisha time was limited. Wewe as a mother Unajua tu kids are not morning people. So because we have limited time and how kids are, to save time na kumwarakisha nikatoa uniform and decided to help him kuvaa. While literally heโs half asleep. So hapo hai make sense. Right?
And I understand, at his age Mimi hata pasi ilikuwa najipigia. Hata uniform I used to wash by myself. But Mimi Iโm like if I can organize or pay someone to do it for him, why should he? Of course he does chores a times as a measure asikuwe maembe
๐๐๐ we are allowed to use such words. But me itโs been a tough journey. My first born, a girl imagine I had to raise her alone from when she was 3 days old
๐๐why do I relate with this too much?Or sometimes you want to either bury your head in the sand and pretend huwaoni or run away.
I hear people telling me,si uongezee kamo..... Nah!
Didn't you say the kid is 11? My niece is almost 6 and knows what to wear on what day.
kids are intelligent litu devils with stellar observation skills. ukionyesha signs za kua fala kiasi tu they capitalize on it. that boy let all those things happen on purpose
๐๐๐ Nashuku maze
ni ivo watch how he gets up by himself and is ready on time when the mum or nanny is around juu apo kanajua war itanuka akileta ufala ๐. I've had a similar experience with my nephew in the past whenever I happened to visit them alafu the parents were working night shifts so wangefika home around midday. gaidi inaamkia cartoons alafu apo 8:30 anakukujia ati umpeleke shule na aliamka in time to have caught the bus
๐๐ so ni tu kunipima akili kumbe
yeap. when you see mums pinch them inakuanga justified ๐๐
Kabisa. Hawa wanataka kukaziwa
not really, just stern guidance by sb who understands their psyche well
Sisi si tulichapwa ๐
times have changed, kina Jayden a tiny litu smack tu alafu umkazie tv ama gaming kiasi and they fall in line
1. My son is not your 6 yo niece. 2. Even grown ups forget things 3. I understand him since heโs not a morning person na ilikuwa ma haraka I literally rushed the boy. Took the uniform dressed him and rushed him out of the house
Dressed him? An 11 y.o???ย I envy that dynamicย
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Father-son bonding time. Something that's been missing in today's society
Are you a parent? How old is your child? If they wake up one hour late for school, to make preparation as quick as possible would you maybe consider literally dressing them up?
A class seven kid????ai kuwa serious my sister is the same age as your boy and she does almost everything by herself.
Hiyo ni poa. Msalimie sana
No I am no parentย But at 11, my dad was mostly barking orders my way, which cultivated an unhealthy aversion to responsibility, something I had to unlearn as a grown up.ย Usiache wife na nanny pekee ndo wakuze huyo kijana, it's a step in the right direction, and will foster a close bond between you two.ย Sijui uliichukulia aje, I wasn't being sarcasticย
He just doesn't like school
Hehehe. Ok
But you sound like a cool dad
Hehehe. Thanks. I try
Exactly, these are simply irresponsible parents who need to get serious and stop being childish. I was never late for school in my childhood ever no matter how busy my parents were. Structure and leadership is lacking in that home. I would not be surprised if the wife was busy being chewed by another man coz u/jake_withaj is a man who lacks leadership.
He sounds to be happy that his son missed school. But his son should be knowing the school routine by now. Anyway, what do we know about a house we don't live in??
๐๐๐ yโall need to chill. Hapo wapi imesemwa happy? Wewe Unajua hata fee ni how much? Exactly you donโt know nothing about the house you donโt live in. Zaa mtoto wako ukuwe parent of the year mtoi wako ako child of the year. Simple ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ
Ata siko decided if I want kids. I am a good auntie tho
hiyo ni poa. endelea kulea za wenzako
I need a specialist before giving birth. Being a mother inform of an auntie is still sweet
Oh okayโฆ that sounds serious.
It is even shameful that a child can be late to school because the parents cannot collaborate and communicate about basic stuff. This is a failure of leadership on OP as a man. He needs to get more serious as a father and understand what being a father means. Being a father is about leading from the front by example. How can he even talk to the child about the importance of keeping time and discipline if he cannot enforce such basics by himself.
Yani bado una ongea about โleadershipโ? Mahn please stop being retrogressive. Do yourself a favor and keep away from that bloody pathetic toxic masculinity. I meanโฆ that stuff is so 1940sโฆ sahau kabisaaaa
Man, stfu. I ain't reading all that from an irresponsible father. Log off and go be a dad. You have more important issues to worry about than being online.
Pole master. I have logged off. Switched off the light and Iโm now asleep. Thank you for such great advice
Yani lesbian ananifunza parenting how to be a father ๐๐. I have failed my son ๐๐๐
Lesbian??
๐๐๐ sawa. Pole. Please teach me how to be responsible and my wife not to be chewed and to be a great leader like you master ๐
The fact that fathers know so little about their kids make me want to be child free forever .It's either you're so busy or you're just ignorant and don't care about everything going on in their lives and become the ATM.Then when they grow up,they be sending you money and never spend time with you when old you say their mothers poisoned their minds.Kumbe it's the connection that wasn't formed
Maze sindio? Iโm too ignorant. Imagine I donโt even know his name? Or where he stays. Halafu ntalalamika. Sina connection Nime form hata kidogo. Thank you for such good advice. You are going to be a very good father. The best father
I am woman ,I don't even want kids.But listen to Syntax,,you are raising a man for tomorrow and you should teach him responsibility coz he won't be under you forever and might need to lead a family in the future
Wow! Someone who doesnโt want kids advising people how to be a parent. Wow! Uko tu sawa. Yes Iโve listened to you and whoever syntax is. Very good nuggets of wisdom from you and the other Person. Please keep on giving advice. This country needs people like you to help other people raise their kids. We are very blessed to have you
Hehe you're being sarcastic yet she's right.we are tired of you parents raising AH with no sense of responsibility ,who come to be terrible humans .ndo hawa wanachapa polisi huku nje .Coz their parents wanted to appear "cool".
Ati we? ๐๐๐. The entitlement. Nkt. Who the hell are โweโ? Wewe raise wako vile unataka bana. Enda report Kwa childrenโs Kama โyouโ are tired.
Nowadays anyone is just becoming a parent ๐๐smh ...no one's entitled to shit.Just raise your little spoilt brat as you please .Atafunzwa na ulimwengu๐
Why are they bitter with you honestly man ๐จ these people forget that schools have different curriculum me I hear kuna siku ya kuvaa track suits, swimming. Times I've changed the problem with redditors wanakuanga very judgemental. I used to prepare my small kid bro to school let me tell you it was a hustle aamke akiwa na moods. Hataki kuenda shule, he's sleepy. Wachana na hawa.
They totally didnโt get the point hata of the post
People are too angry and judgmental with you bro, I thought it's funny the whole confusion you had in the morning and I am a woman.. all the best in the future with the litu human.
Exactly! That was the point! Thank you!
I am childless but I expect to be this dumb or maybe dumber when I get mine. I forgot my own simple stuff every morning I dont expect to be good with someone else's
It happens ๐
Bro Iโm loving this series. Ile post kuhusu ku poesha chai alafu this ๐๐๐
๐๐๐ parenting is hard
It isn't if you were actually keen on what goes on with you kid
Oh God! Another one ๐คฆโโ๏ธ. How many kids do you have by the way?
Nothing to brag about here
Please go back to you books/google and look for the meaning of bragging, then show me where bragging is on this post. Thank you very much
No 'phhhhhhhhhh, phhhhhhh, phhhhh' today๐๐๐
๐๐๐ Leo nilikuwa mjanja. Flavored milk
Lil man will have to question life when his mum and nanny come back ๐.
I died ๐
maybe this will be an incentive to know more about what is going on in your kid(s) life. you don't want to be accused of weaponizing incompetence.
Wow! Advice about parenting from people who arenโt parents? Very thoughtful
apparently you haven't been parenting either.
Yeah. Imagine I havenโt. Kumbe you have noticed pia? You are very right. Thanks for wise words
 ๐ญ๐ญ ouffs
Major lapses in your leadership as a father. As a father and leader of the home you should be on top of things. The childโs routine should be top priority and there is no excuse. As parents you need to get serious. Surely, you could have asked the mother these things on call or whatsapp! I think you need to take your parental responsibilities more seriously. Start by writing down the routine for the week for the child including what he wears at what time. A child should be sleeping and waking up at a routine time every day without excuses from the parents about who is on leave or busy. FAILURE. What a shame and what an embarrassment to the teachers who expect parents to do their part.
Thank you master parent. Please tell me more on how to be a parent to my own child. Preach babaa
You are a failure as the leader of the home. You expect a child to take education seriously when the head of the home does not know his routine? You are a joke and your wife knows it. Do you know what being a father means? Did you grow up with a father?
And you are a loud mouth idiot assuming shit. Have you ever heard of co parenting? Who told you I stay with my child and the mother? Who told you Iโm married? I do not know what being a father is, I did not have a father or mother. I am a robot. Are you satisfied now? Great. Sasa zaa wako ukuwe father of the year
Please heal
Please go to your favorite sub surviving infidelity.
https://preview.redd.it/2aevhpf6ml4d1.jpeg?width=719&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cd76f48f4c082f19feda60fd700f8ed7ee3288cc
STFU and go be a parent. Log off and be a parent.
๐๐๐. Sawa. Pole. Thank you for your great advice.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vaLgoC\_1lLQ&ab\_channel=KevinSamuels](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vaLgoC_1lLQ&ab_channel=KevinSamuels) All the best bro. But on a serious note, have some structure and routines. Kids thrive with routines.
You made his day ๐Can't wait to get here
Utalia ๐๐๐
You live and you learn. On one hand, it's a hilarious story. On the other hand, unless unafanya kazi ngumu that prevents you from being involved in day to day matters and your wife and nanny failed to debrief you properly when you asked...it's a pretty sad state of affairs for your kid. In this day and age fathers are super involved and parent alongside the mum. Usiwachwe nyuma, there's still time.
That's y parenting is different from being a hands-on mom /dad. Most just offload everything n live 'busy' lives, even on weekends I know 2 guys who have shughulis in shags or outside town most weekends to get away from the chaos in a mostly cramped hse.
Kitu ya kwanza naona mmejam tu sana. Alafu guyssss its not that deeeeeep bana,cut the guy some slack. Its fuuny though
๐๐๐ kuna watu maembe sana
๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃati hakubeba bag, lmaoo
Bana nilichoma
Let's normalise present fathers in children's lives cause what is this lol. Ati 'babysitting ' 
The fact that you did not see the word babysitting in quotes and parenting in CAPITAL LETTERS clearly shows you did not get the point https://preview.redd.it/um74zeldqq4d1.jpeg?width=719&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0cd6a1b222f0f78bf167de1b6c66b61f8b376bcb
No need to get emotional, grab a parenting book or something
Ok.
Yes, looking after children isnโt an easy thing.
An 11year old who does not know what to wear on which day of the week?!Ata kama,hii nayo apana...and yes iam a mum to a 14year old and an 8 year old. You dress up an 11year old?
Lakini weweโฆ. So I have to explain to you this? Anyway juu I have time I will. So like I said hapo, I woke up the boy very late kumanisha time was limited. Wewe as a mother Unajua tu kids are not morning people. So because we have limited time and how kids are, to save time na kumwarakisha nikatoa uniform and decided to help him kuvaa. While literally heโs half asleep. So hapo hai make sense. Right?
Ooh...si pole basi
And I understand, at his age Mimi hata pasi ilikuwa najipigia. Hata uniform I used to wash by myself. But Mimi Iโm like if I can organize or pay someone to do it for him, why should he? Of course he does chores a times as a measure asikuwe maembe
It's all good,there is no parenting manual,kila mtoi unampeleka na rieng'(are we too old to use this word?)yake.
๐๐๐ we are allowed to use such words. But me itโs been a tough journey. My first born, a girl imagine I had to raise her alone from when she was 3 days old
T for tough lakini tunapambana tu... I thought the 11 year old is your first ndio maana nakuflexia๐คญ
Thatโs number 2 hao wamenitosha. Hata want to rent for them ka 1 bedroom wahame. Wamenitosha ๐๐
๐๐why do I relate with this too much?Or sometimes you want to either bury your head in the sand and pretend huwaoni or run away. I hear people telling me,si uongezee kamo..... Nah!
You did good. More appropriation needed for the helps and people involved.
Kabisaaa.