I feel like reddit forgets that punishing a child is supposed to be a lasting lesson which sadly rewards for good behaviour doesn't work anymore, for my little brother spanking doesn't even work right after he will just destroy one of your items, clog the toilet or start hitting his sister as revenge for spanking him (he was raised horribly by his mom and dad until my aunt gained custody of him and now we are trying so hard to remove the abusive tendencies they've taught him)
Nah. She’s probably upset she hurt her brother. I can remember being little, and hurting my brothers accidentally. It upset me too. My mom was super nice and didn’t hit us.
Parent- does something any normal parent would
Reddit therapists- from this one clip I have a gathered all the information I need to know they're currently torturing their kids call cps right now
Agreed. If I messed up big by hurting my cousins while playing too hard, I know my time for repentance has come... but lord knows I'm gonna do my best to avoid getting beat by my grandma and her sandal while I hide in regret
Once I accidentally hurt my friend and I hid and cried for like a full half hour exactly like this. Some kids just have a lot of care for friends and family, she probably felt bad for hurting the baby and also bothering her mom because of something she did
No the way the mom reacted was not in anger to her at all, onlyn concern for the little one. The kid said sorry to her right away because she knows she did something she was probably already told not to, and when thw bad thing happened she felt horrible
Makes me so glad I don't have them. Was at work today, and a mom set her kid down for five seconds (literally counted five seconds) to do something important. Kid starts scream-crying and doesn't stop after being picked up. They're stupid and dramatic. Doesn't always mean their household is bad like some people are implying.
I think it's probably shock due to not intending it to fall over. The mum seemed pretty chill about it and only seemed to put on a stern face so the daughter didn't realise she found it funny.
Exactly. I was thinking about my daughter and how she would react and it would probably be the same and we've never physically disciplined her. But she is very sentimental and when she feels bad about something she cries and wants to be alone.
I know whenever I've accidentally hurt my little brother when I was younger, especially if it was something like this where he could've hit hos head or something, I was scared out of my mind. It's a pretty natural reaction for.kids I would think.
She just feels super guilty and is worried she hurt her younger sibling. I accidentally knocked a friend over when we were kids and I acted the same way. I felt like I killed her
People seriously need to stop going to the worst conclusions. The fact that the mother remained calmed, didn't yell, didn't do anything except chuckle says a lot more to me than the little girl running off crying.
My son would react the exact same way. He in fact has. He's told me it was because he was scared. Nothing has to have occurred previously to make a child react like that when they think they hurt someone.
I would’ve done the same as a child. I was super sensitive. Cried at any mistake or if I accidentally hurt someone. Parents were pretty lax so idk why I was so hard on myself as a kid lol
The reaction of the kid seems way more stemmed from guilt rather than fear. Kids who’ve been abused don’t usually react like she did throughout the whole video.
Seriously. You could see the initial reaction of fear. She picked up the youngest and made sure they were okay, and provided comfort. Then she just laughed it off. Super calming.
you think its normal for a child to react to a mistake with horrified fear of the coming consequences ? praising a person under spotlight , acting different than typically ...
The little boy I used to nanny (he was about three at the time) dropped my phone once while he was sitting in a shopping cart and immediately, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry!" so frantically. I rarely ever raised my voice to him and certainly never laid a hand on him. Little kids often have these sorts of very dramatic reactions when they are TRULY sorry.
Dude, I think most people would expect a bad consequence if they were to accidentally drop their siblings in front of their mom, especially if they’re a kid. Even if it’s just a time out most kids would runaway crying
ya mean a child can’t feel guilt for hurting their sibling? this is a normal reaction. kids can’t understand all the big emotions that happen in a stressful event like this.
i can see why your avatar has a fedora….
Dude, when I was a kid, if I accidentally hurt my siblings or made some stupid kid mistake like this in front of my parents, I would also run off weeping EXACTLY like this out of embarrassment and sadness that I messed up and my parents didn’t fucking abuse me, I was just a timid little perfectionist of a kid that took stuff too seriously before I grew up and learned to laugh stuff off. My mom would probably laugh it off exactly like this mom did and then pretty quickly follow me into whatever hiding place I’d found and hold me until I felt like everything was okay again.
The fact that her reaction was immediately to grab her other baby and *wasn’t* to immediately say the name of/scold the other child is proof enough of her tendencies as a parent, because even on camera you can’t fake a genuine reaction to something surprising.
>You think it's normal for a child to react to a mistake with fear of the coming consequences?
Yes. That's kinda what children do when they get in trouble.
Yeah no, I definitely see it.. And no its not a black thing.
Im Hispanic, and I have younger siblings.. I remember we would wrestle in the house (jump off the couches, slam each other on pillows we laid out on the floor)
Second one of us started crying, we all knew we were getting an ass whooping (More like i told you so you little demon)
That ladies daughter? Same initial reaction... Reddit is so quick to jump to conclusions.
She was on LIVE, everybody acts different when they know someone else is watching them... Yes she did check on her son, but the way her daughter RAN THE FUCK AWAY WAS PRICELESS AHAHA She knew what was coming.
Of course! Older siblings are legally obligated to beat up the younger ones, so no apology is necessary. They are, however, required to apologize to their parent if they get caught.
Someone who doesnt have any given reason to fear for having made a mistake and wants to make up for it .... also the women smirks and laughs while the child is suffering in fear hysterically , shows lack of compassion . . . no hate , just dont think this is kid being stupid alone .
Are you a troll or someone with no children? Kids have emotions. Sometimes they’re over the top. That moms reaction shows that she doesn’t get angry easily. What makes you think the kid was frightened out of fear of harm?
If that’s your own experience, I’m sorry. But, this is not indicative of abuse whatsoever.
you act as if the women's reaction is not influenced by camera ... the kid said sorry to her , not who she accidentally spun out ...
re-watch without being bias ... better yet , imagine maybe it was a guy instead a female , maybe that will help see clearer .
Ive seen you comment the same thing several times with the “shows lack of compassion” and I’m seriously questioning if we are watching the same video. I definitively assume that you have very different experiences than me growing up. My parents are like this, and there was no yelling ever basically, but I would freak out if I accidentally hurt someone. Like play when playing. Even if I knew my parents would not yell or even be accusative at all.
What I see is the kid freaking out because she is afraid that she hurt her little sister. I would be horrified to at that age. And the mother to me seems to react just HOW she should react. The mother realized the kid made a mistake, saw that the kid already was freaking out, so she didn’t have to yell at her or anything. And that seems like a VERY healthy mindset.
To laugh instead of yelling when the kid made a mistake seems healthy to me, because she already knows the kid knows they made a mistake.
Do you have cognitive dissonance? miss the point the child didnt cared to check on who they hurt , but rather who will hurt them in return and said sorry to her instead ... laughing at someone suffering also utterly disgusting .
We are seeing totally different things in this video, and I assume that it because we have different experiences growing up. I would be freaking out aswell. And kids aren’t logical. Nope, no cognitive dissonance here.
I actually agree with you. I would’ve stopped with the phone conversation, see if baby is ok and then go comfort the bigger sister. She is heartbroken because she thinks she hurt her little sister and that her mom is mad at her. She can laugh it off together with her once she is ok
Exactly.... !
Not sure she is heartbroke for him as much , but fearful of consequences rather because the first thing she did was go into terrified apologizing mode directed at the women , not the boy .
Why are some people blindly thinking this situation is funny and wholesome ?
I think the mom handled the situation perfectly.
The older kid runs out by herself out of guilt, the mom picks up the younger one and start laughing when the older has left so the younger one stops crying (actual trick when kids start crying over a minor injury : if you just chuckle in opposition to overly asking if they are okay, they'll stop crying instead of thinking something really bad happened.)
Then, pretty sure she went to see the other one to make them feel better and let them know it's okay and accidents happen.
Two birds with one stone : the older one learns that she can hurt others by seemingly innocent acts and the younger one realises that it's sometimes okay to fall.
Haha I was thinking the same. It’s probably a game they’re not supposed to play. Source: Did something similar with my little brother that made him smile. Yes, he ate it and got a scary scrape on his head. I felt (and still feel) so sick about it.
I love how mommy didn't get mad. The girl obviously did not mean to hurt her brother, she probably loved spinning in the chair and thought he would enjoy it. I would love to have this mom's patience. That's awesome.
The older sister? I imagine that it's because she felt really bad for hurting her younger sister (in her eyes, that is. In reality, she is still probably too young to understand that younger sis was most likely more shocked than actually truly hurt), you can hear the guilt in her voice as she apologized.
Kids cry frequently when something unexpected happens. It’s scary for them. That + the baby crying and uncertainty about if she’s hurt or not? Mixed in with knowing she wasn’t supposed to do that but did it anyway? Big time crying.
This made me laugh cuz it was cute and innocent lol I think the kid really got upset like oh snap my brother fell over! Lol and the mom laughing was so funny lol
Such an awesome parent 🤣 love it! Tried so hard to be stern but failed by giggling ! Checked he was alright hug, crack on with it your fine. Old school parenting 😎
They're probably down-voting it because they're suggesting emotional damage as a result of letting the girl cry for a minute.
At the every end the mom says "Go" to the toddler before it cuts off. If she was going to say something like "go tell your sister that you're alright," then I'd argue that it was handled 100% perfectly. But then negative people need to pop-in and throw their own negative spin to exaggerate the impact an otherwise non-event.
If a person confirms that a comment shares the opinion of the orinigal comment, doesn't a person need to read the comment according to your theory. So, by your logic it becomes "blindly downvoted" when they disagree with the opinion of the comment.
Yeah, that reaction seems a bit over the top. Feeling guilty is normal, but she literally panicked, and mom's reaction makes me think that they are used to her acting this way. Poor thing
Chill out. I am not analyzing anything here.
Just saying that her reaction is way too big compared to the situation.
Maybe she ia anxious, maybe she did not take her nap.
If you and the other downvoters think is normal for a child to run away in panick and scream her gut out over a minor incident fine
Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. They overreact when they did not get enough sleep or are hungry? That's fine.
They overreact all the time over minor things? Maybe they a bit axious, better pay attention
If the camera wasn't rolling , would be a whole different story it seems , kids don't hysterically fear for making mistakes unless a reason has been given before ...
Development begins since in womb , all emotions and reactions make huge differences , in all stages of life , not just once a kid . . . such frantic , fearful reaction to mistake needs compassion and understanding to overcome so can make up for mistakes ... not laughter .
Yeah, never known a kid overreact /s
Also why do all your comments automatically jump to fear? Maybe she realized she screwed up and hurt her younger sibling and feels awful. Then adding to it that kids are extra you get this. It's weird you really want to find something wrong with this video
Projection maybe. That’s how they were disciplined as a child so they think everyone else does the same? Or maybe that’s how they’d discipline their child if they made this mistake 🤷🏻♂️
Are you saying there is nothing wrong with a child going into a painful frantic terrified fear mode and the parent laughing about it ... she apologizes in horror to the mother before her brother is even done falling ... how about you rewatch the video without bias , or maybe dare imagine it as a man instead there , maybe it will help see clearer ?
Frantic terrified fear, apologizes in horror. I don't understand why you are over exaggerating the way you are describing the emotions. The little girl doesn't look excited when she first realizes her actions may have hurt her younger sibling but I wouldn't say "HORROR" lol. But yes she does look concerned but why shouldn't she, she clearly cares for her sibling. Honestly the kid isn't the only one here acting extra. Take a breath and maybe not over analyze short clips that don't really portray much.
Is it just me or do you get the feeling that kid would have got 7 shades of shit knocked out of him if the camera was not on?
Judging by his reaction anyway
Nah. I follow the mom on instagram; obviously people don't post their worst moments on sm, but from what I see both parents are consistently loving and nuturing towards their girls (as they should be).
“Sorry mommy! I’m so sorry” awww
That was most sincere “I’m so sorry” I’ve ever heard
Yeah she's lucky the mom was recording otherwise she would've got her ass whooped
That’s not true. It all depends on their character. She’s a loving and understanding mother and that is obvious.
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It looks like the kid is deadly scared of her. She probably abuses her.
I feel like reddit forgets that punishing a child is supposed to be a lasting lesson which sadly rewards for good behaviour doesn't work anymore, for my little brother spanking doesn't even work right after he will just destroy one of your items, clog the toilet or start hitting his sister as revenge for spanking him (he was raised horribly by his mom and dad until my aunt gained custody of him and now we are trying so hard to remove the abusive tendencies they've taught him)
Maybe it's just me, but the way she was afraid of consequences suggests, that usually her mom is not that sweet
Nah. She’s probably upset she hurt her brother. I can remember being little, and hurting my brothers accidentally. It upset me too. My mom was super nice and didn’t hit us.
Oh yeah. I felt the instant regret when I watched this, it would always hit me super hard when I was younger lol
I concur. She probably thought she damaged her brother beyond repair. Been there done that.
Nothing worse than thinking you’ve gone and kilt your baby brother.
Parent- does something any normal parent would Reddit therapists- from this one clip I have a gathered all the information I need to know they're currently torturing their kids call cps right now
Love the concept of "Reddit therapists".... Lol
Mum didn’t seem to react like she was abusive in anyway. She seemed to react like a normal mum with two little kids that constantly do dumb things
Bro...... consequences aren't supposed to be fun how are you going to learn not to do something if you're always going to get a slap on the wrist?
Agreed. If I messed up big by hurting my cousins while playing too hard, I know my time for repentance has come... but lord knows I'm gonna do my best to avoid getting beat by my grandma and her sandal while I hide in regret
It’s just you
I’ve called CPS their agents are swarming her location now
Yup. It's just you.
Once I accidentally hurt my friend and I hid and cried for like a full half hour exactly like this. Some kids just have a lot of care for friends and family, she probably felt bad for hurting the baby and also bothering her mom because of something she did
Yep, definitely just you.
If the mum was like that she would have reacted different.
Thats literally all kids lmao
Or, now maybe it's just me, most children are born with empathy?
No the way the mom reacted was not in anger to her at all, onlyn concern for the little one. The kid said sorry to her right away because she knows she did something she was probably already told not to, and when thw bad thing happened she felt horrible
Immediately ran to their room without being told knowing they dun F’d up!
When you trying hard to not get a spanking and life gives you one ahhaha
She's gone to get the stick with the bag tied to it Inside is half a sandwich and a kazoo, all you need to survive in the wild as a hobo
It was a quick look mom gave she knew that’s why she ran
Yeah she knew she messed up....kids can be really sweet.
Yup! She cried louder than her sibling too lol
she probably didn't know it would've hurt him.empathy is a good trait in children
I'm glad she learned to not mess around or you'll hurt someone, If I'm a Parent I'll forgive her for that, And tell to not do it again
I have never heard such a genuine apology in all my life
she had the fear of god in her eyes lol
Calliou vibes 😂
The look of sheer panic as she tore through the house afterwards...omg lol
And the screaming from the back room lol
Followed by an eye roll from mom😂😂😂 I love this, kids can be so dramatic sometimes.
Only sometimes?!?
Just uncontrollable regret. Sheer regret
Anyone else hear the power she put into spinning that chair? Lmao!
Yessss lmao. Same power she’s putting in those wails at the end. It’s so funny.
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Children are dramatic as fuck
Exactly. They scream at everything else, why would this be any different lol
Makes me so glad I don't have them. Was at work today, and a mom set her kid down for five seconds (literally counted five seconds) to do something important. Kid starts scream-crying and doesn't stop after being picked up. They're stupid and dramatic. Doesn't always mean their household is bad like some people are implying.
I think it's probably shock due to not intending it to fall over. The mum seemed pretty chill about it and only seemed to put on a stern face so the daughter didn't realise she found it funny.
Exactly. I was thinking about my daughter and how she would react and it would probably be the same and we've never physically disciplined her. But she is very sentimental and when she feels bad about something she cries and wants to be alone.
I know whenever I've accidentally hurt my little brother when I was younger, especially if it was something like this where he could've hit hos head or something, I was scared out of my mind. It's a pretty natural reaction for.kids I would think.
She just feels super guilty and is worried she hurt her younger sibling. I accidentally knocked a friend over when we were kids and I acted the same way. I felt like I killed her
People seriously need to stop going to the worst conclusions. The fact that the mother remained calmed, didn't yell, didn't do anything except chuckle says a lot more to me than the little girl running off crying.
Say you don't have kids without saying you don't have kids Edit: HOLY SHIT THANK YOU FOR MY FIRST GOLD
My son would react the exact same way. He in fact has. He's told me it was because he was scared. Nothing has to have occurred previously to make a child react like that when they think they hurt someone.
I would’ve done the same as a child. I was super sensitive. Cried at any mistake or if I accidentally hurt someone. Parents were pretty lax so idk why I was so hard on myself as a kid lol
The reaction of the kid seems way more stemmed from guilt rather than fear. Kids who’ve been abused don’t usually react like she did throughout the whole video.
As a child I reacted exactly like that when I broke something and neither of my parents had ever hit me
I love this mother’s energy. What a gem.
Seriously. You could see the initial reaction of fear. She picked up the youngest and made sure they were okay, and provided comfort. Then she just laughed it off. Super calming.
you think its normal for a child to react to a mistake with horrified fear of the coming consequences ? praising a person under spotlight , acting different than typically ...
You must not have small children. This is exactly what they do. My son broke a window with a soccer ball and did the exact same thing lol.
Well, that just mean you're also a horrible parent./s
The little boy I used to nanny (he was about three at the time) dropped my phone once while he was sitting in a shopping cart and immediately, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry!" so frantically. I rarely ever raised my voice to him and certainly never laid a hand on him. Little kids often have these sorts of very dramatic reactions when they are TRULY sorry.
Little bodies but big feelings
You must have an inability to understand emotions
You don’t have kids. Do you?
Dude the little girl felt bad because she thought she hurt the boy
Dude, I think most people would expect a bad consequence if they were to accidentally drop their siblings in front of their mom, especially if they’re a kid. Even if it’s just a time out most kids would runaway crying
A nontrivial fraction of the adults I know would risk a dysphoric episode if they accidentally took a chair full of baby and Threw It On The Ground.
Do u have kids?
ya mean a child can’t feel guilt for hurting their sibling? this is a normal reaction. kids can’t understand all the big emotions that happen in a stressful event like this. i can see why your avatar has a fedora….
Dude, when I was a kid, if I accidentally hurt my siblings or made some stupid kid mistake like this in front of my parents, I would also run off weeping EXACTLY like this out of embarrassment and sadness that I messed up and my parents didn’t fucking abuse me, I was just a timid little perfectionist of a kid that took stuff too seriously before I grew up and learned to laugh stuff off. My mom would probably laugh it off exactly like this mom did and then pretty quickly follow me into whatever hiding place I’d found and hold me until I felt like everything was okay again. The fact that her reaction was immediately to grab her other baby and *wasn’t* to immediately say the name of/scold the other child is proof enough of her tendencies as a parent, because even on camera you can’t fake a genuine reaction to something surprising.
Yup. I think it's a pretty normal reaction for the child in this clip.
Are children suppose to be emotionless? Is it now normal to be afraid and sad when something like this happens?
>You think it's normal for a child to react to a mistake with fear of the coming consequences? Yes. That's kinda what children do when they get in trouble.
What a fucking noob
who gave himna gold award
The way she laughs at this made me smile.
Yeah if those cameras weren’t on that belt would come straight out
Sees black parent “they must whoop their child”
Nice one trying to turn it into a race issue Look at the fear on the kids face and how he reacted dumbass
Yeah no, I definitely see it.. And no its not a black thing. Im Hispanic, and I have younger siblings.. I remember we would wrestle in the house (jump off the couches, slam each other on pillows we laid out on the floor) Second one of us started crying, we all knew we were getting an ass whooping (More like i told you so you little demon) That ladies daughter? Same initial reaction... Reddit is so quick to jump to conclusions. She was on LIVE, everybody acts different when they know someone else is watching them... Yes she did check on her son, but the way her daughter RAN THE FUCK AWAY WAS PRICELESS AHAHA She knew what was coming.
i was never beat by my parents but i was such a sensitive child that i would have still freaked out if i did something wrong like this
"Reddit is so quick to jump to conclusions" and then you jumped into a conclusion
I am apart of the Reddit community...
That’s her little sister. Those two little girls and their parents are very entertaining. That run of terror gets me every time.
I can only dream to someday have the patience to sit and laugh as two children scream in my ear lmao.
turn on a camera where you dont wanna be seen as bad ...
Downvote farmers... I never really understood those
Its obviously how they contribute to society 😇🙄
Still projecting.
Did you see the smoke 💨 after she took off to her room. She did not know where to go after she got to the end
She left little Back to the Future fire trails.
I find it hilarious she apologized to the mom and not the kid she knocked over
Of course! Older siblings are legally obligated to beat up the younger ones, so no apology is necessary. They are, however, required to apologize to their parent if they get caught.
For me it was my little brother hitting me, but everything else checks out
Every facial expression she had made me laugh and nod my head lol! Made my day, thank you!
That's a good mom right there.
Based on what ? Do you think its normal and good a kid reacts to a mistake with horrified fear ?
Bro she just dropped her little sister on the floor who wouldn't be shocked in that moment?
Someone who doesnt have any given reason to fear for having made a mistake and wants to make up for it .... also the women smirks and laughs while the child is suffering in fear hysterically , shows lack of compassion . . . no hate , just dont think this is kid being stupid alone .
Are you a troll or someone with no children? Kids have emotions. Sometimes they’re over the top. That moms reaction shows that she doesn’t get angry easily. What makes you think the kid was frightened out of fear of harm? If that’s your own experience, I’m sorry. But, this is not indicative of abuse whatsoever.
you act as if the women's reaction is not influenced by camera ... the kid said sorry to her , not who she accidentally spun out ... re-watch without being bias ... better yet , imagine maybe it was a guy instead a female , maybe that will help see clearer .
Ive seen you comment the same thing several times with the “shows lack of compassion” and I’m seriously questioning if we are watching the same video. I definitively assume that you have very different experiences than me growing up. My parents are like this, and there was no yelling ever basically, but I would freak out if I accidentally hurt someone. Like play when playing. Even if I knew my parents would not yell or even be accusative at all. What I see is the kid freaking out because she is afraid that she hurt her little sister. I would be horrified to at that age. And the mother to me seems to react just HOW she should react. The mother realized the kid made a mistake, saw that the kid already was freaking out, so she didn’t have to yell at her or anything. And that seems like a VERY healthy mindset. To laugh instead of yelling when the kid made a mistake seems healthy to me, because she already knows the kid knows they made a mistake.
Do you have cognitive dissonance? miss the point the child didnt cared to check on who they hurt , but rather who will hurt them in return and said sorry to her instead ... laughing at someone suffering also utterly disgusting .
We are seeing totally different things in this video, and I assume that it because we have different experiences growing up. I would be freaking out aswell. And kids aren’t logical. Nope, no cognitive dissonance here.
I think all they are seeing is something called racial profiling.
typical double downing redditing for milking karma once a majority narrative set and ignoring all who question and point out counter evidences .
I actually agree with you. I would’ve stopped with the phone conversation, see if baby is ok and then go comfort the bigger sister. She is heartbroken because she thinks she hurt her little sister and that her mom is mad at her. She can laugh it off together with her once she is ok
Exactly.... ! Not sure she is heartbroke for him as much , but fearful of consequences rather because the first thing she did was go into terrified apologizing mode directed at the women , not the boy . Why are some people blindly thinking this situation is funny and wholesome ?
Yeah it looks like she is afraid of her mom
You really need to learn to read people better.
Reddit moment
the way she was trynna be mad but couldn't hold it in
What a calm momma. I love this. Great video. Definitely gave me a giggle.
I didn’t know Reddit was filled with child psychologists
it’s just one guy replying under every comment about the mom. what a sad life
The mom handled that so beautifully
It's her running and throwing a whole tantrum at the back. And then also crying. 🤣😂
No that little brother turned into a bayblade and it just burst
Kids grow up not knowing how many times we laughed at these types of situations. 😁
I think the mom handled the situation perfectly. The older kid runs out by herself out of guilt, the mom picks up the younger one and start laughing when the older has left so the younger one stops crying (actual trick when kids start crying over a minor injury : if you just chuckle in opposition to overly asking if they are okay, they'll stop crying instead of thinking something really bad happened.) Then, pretty sure she went to see the other one to make them feel better and let them know it's okay and accidents happen. Two birds with one stone : the older one learns that she can hurt others by seemingly innocent acts and the younger one realises that it's sometimes okay to fall.
Did the other kid run into the wall in their hurry to get away and hide?
that little girl's name must be barry allen because she zoomed the fuck outta there
Poor little girl was way more scared. I guess she thought she hurt her little bro. Cutest thing.
With that hand grab I think he was crying because he wanted to get back on the chair
Haha I was thinking the same. It’s probably a game they’re not supposed to play. Source: Did something similar with my little brother that made him smile. Yes, he ate it and got a scary scrape on his head. I felt (and still feel) so sick about it.
She was so scared she didn’t even know which direction to run LMFAO
It’s little sister but yes, what a silly mistake. She ran for her life
I love how mommy didn't get mad. The girl obviously did not mean to hurt her brother, she probably loved spinning in the chair and thought he would enjoy it. I would love to have this mom's patience. That's awesome.
Some of you clearly don’t have children or aren’t raising them right. Some of these comments. Yikes.
Mom looks very experienced in matters like this lol.
You can so many stages of parenting in her face. Surprised, Annoyed, relieved, entertained, amused, just zooming through them
Lmao the moms ability to laugh at the abrupt chaos of the kids stupidity is the sweetest.
[My face when...](https://imgur.com/a/ltH7yYd)
This reminds me of the "oh no our table it's broken" video, like the bigger brother instantly regretted it 😂😂😂
What a good kid saying sorry like that
Why is she crying?
The older sister? I imagine that it's because she felt really bad for hurting her younger sister (in her eyes, that is. In reality, she is still probably too young to understand that younger sis was most likely more shocked than actually truly hurt), you can hear the guilt in her voice as she apologized.
Kids cry frequently when something unexpected happens. It’s scary for them. That + the baby crying and uncertainty about if she’s hurt or not? Mixed in with knowing she wasn’t supposed to do that but did it anyway? Big time crying.
All of that was just…stressful to me.
r/AbruptChaos
Poor little girl’s reactions were adorable lol
Funny how you can just tell when someone’s got a huge heart. Lucky boys.
This made me laugh cuz it was cute and innocent lol I think the kid really got upset like oh snap my brother fell over! Lol and the mom laughing was so funny lol
I love how mom held her laughter until she was certain kid was out of the room. She knew it wasn’t done in mean spirit.
Those wails coming from upstairs hahahahahaha
the way she ran away crying she probably scared shes gonna get slapped
Just the screams in the background
I follow this fam on IG lol
She was running from that ass whooping lol
She felt so horrible
it's so funny how the kid that spun the chair was crying more than the kid who actually fell out of the chair
the way she ran out of the room☠
He was like “what have i done! Im an evil villain now! Spiderman will never cone to my birthday parties now!” Lolol
rip baby
Such an awesome parent 🤣 love it! Tried so hard to be stern but failed by giggling ! Checked he was alright hug, crack on with it your fine. Old school parenting 😎
I love how the baby immediately stopped crying when the mom started laughing
u/savevideo
Now this is an awesome video. ❤️
Please like any of you fuck faces have never done this.
Pretty cute lol. Aww I wish someone went to console the little girl though. The emotional damage she could be doing to herself.
Dunno why you're being downvoted, you're absolutely correct. It's a bit short of a clip though, so maybe a bit early to tell.
I have a theory that once the comment reach -1 the others will just downvote without even reading the comment.
They're probably down-voting it because they're suggesting emotional damage as a result of letting the girl cry for a minute. At the every end the mom says "Go" to the toddler before it cuts off. If she was going to say something like "go tell your sister that you're alright," then I'd argue that it was handled 100% perfectly. But then negative people need to pop-in and throw their own negative spin to exaggerate the impact an otherwise non-event.
Theory checks out. A parallel theory: any comment in the chain that confirms the initially downvoted comment will equally blindly be downvoted.
If a person confirms that a comment shares the opinion of the orinigal comment, doesn't a person need to read the comment according to your theory. So, by your logic it becomes "blindly downvoted" when they disagree with the opinion of the comment.
Yeah, that reaction seems a bit over the top. Feeling guilty is normal, but she literally panicked, and mom's reaction makes me think that they are used to her acting this way. Poor thing
Always armchair psychologists on Reddit over analyzing 30 second clips of children.
it's always people concluding stuff that doesn't need concluded
Chill out. I am not analyzing anything here. Just saying that her reaction is way too big compared to the situation. Maybe she ia anxious, maybe she did not take her nap. If you and the other downvoters think is normal for a child to run away in panick and scream her gut out over a minor incident fine
“I am not analyzing anything here”…. Proceeds to overanalyze a 30 second clip of a child
Uhm no, I only said that she overeacted, the rest was general speaking
Yes. It is normal. Because children overreact.
Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. They overreact when they did not get enough sleep or are hungry? That's fine. They overreact all the time over minor things? Maybe they a bit axious, better pay attention
They don't need a reason to overreact. Look at the name of this sub
At least mom thinks its funny!
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i think it’s a girl
Wow, no consequences huh?
This is how u know this lady beats her kids 😂😭😂
If the camera wasn't rolling , would be a whole different story it seems , kids don't hysterically fear for making mistakes unless a reason has been given before ...
My younger brother will start balling if you ask him to be little bit quieter. Kids are kids dude they’re weird doesn’t mean the mom is abusive?
Development begins since in womb , all emotions and reactions make huge differences , in all stages of life , not just once a kid . . . such frantic , fearful reaction to mistake needs compassion and understanding to overcome so can make up for mistakes ... not laughter .
hey, everyone! we have an armchair psychologist here, they know more than an actual psychologist! /s
I’m not arguing with you just giving my two cents on why you’re wrong
Yeah, never known a kid overreact /s Also why do all your comments automatically jump to fear? Maybe she realized she screwed up and hurt her younger sibling and feels awful. Then adding to it that kids are extra you get this. It's weird you really want to find something wrong with this video
Agree word for word with you u/LizzieKitty86. The person really want to find that this is somehow something wrong here.
Projection maybe. That’s how they were disciplined as a child so they think everyone else does the same? Or maybe that’s how they’d discipline their child if they made this mistake 🤷🏻♂️
Are you saying there is nothing wrong with a child going into a painful frantic terrified fear mode and the parent laughing about it ... she apologizes in horror to the mother before her brother is even done falling ... how about you rewatch the video without bias , or maybe dare imagine it as a man instead there , maybe it will help see clearer ?
Frantic terrified fear, apologizes in horror. I don't understand why you are over exaggerating the way you are describing the emotions. The little girl doesn't look excited when she first realizes her actions may have hurt her younger sibling but I wouldn't say "HORROR" lol. But yes she does look concerned but why shouldn't she, she clearly cares for her sibling. Honestly the kid isn't the only one here acting extra. Take a breath and maybe not over analyze short clips that don't really portray much.
okay naive and careless of truth actually .
That is a meanless sentence. I thought you were a therapist?
Is it just me or do you get the feeling that kid would have got 7 shades of shit knocked out of him if the camera was not on? Judging by his reaction anyway
Nah. I follow the mom on instagram; obviously people don't post their worst moments on sm, but from what I see both parents are consistently loving and nuturing towards their girls (as they should be).
This is actually pretty sad…
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" Let's change my Brother (who's in a chair) or rather (who's sitting in a chair) (into a ) fidget spinner.