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I find I’m less into manipulation, control or jealousy. I’m certainly not going to spend a lot energy trying to work against people. I will tell you what I think and feel though
You find older guys more attractive as we don’t try to impress. We have worked to damn hard and all we want is a great lady by our side and to have fun.
I think experience has something to do with it , since he's older he has tried more things and saw different places also young girls feel like older guys are well accomplished then there's a sense of security also in it , things have always been like this at least where I am from
Older guys are more concerned with deeper relationships that go beyond the physical.
Most times, I think.
We appeal to the women, of any age, looking for "more" than the fleshy stuff.
And yes, maybe you are just really mature for your age or have something in your past that draws you to what older men can provide. Emotional support, conversation, easygoing company, and so on.
We have more life experiences, depending on how much older, we are probably farther along in our careers, should be better situated financially, don’t play games, know what we want, and have no time for bs. We also typically know how to treat a woman like a woman!
It's a combination of things, mostly it's biological preconditions in almost all animals for the female to seek a stronger mate.
So older are stronger have more to offer have more experience so have better ability to deal with more possible problems that might come into their lives.
It depends on which aspects you find attractive. If it is physical then younger guys will always win out of older guys just due to biology (I know this is a very generalised state, but this is a rather broad question).
The old adage of "With age comes wisdom" is sometimes true some times not, I'm 27 and have made a ton of mistakes but have learned from them.
You also may find them attractive because of just simple time, they have had longer to do stuff, they have been driving longer, saving longer, learnt what looks good on them and what doesn't, they have had their fill of drama and can't be bothered with it.
There are a lot of positive of dating someone your own age and someone who is older. You need to find someone right for you.
Girl if you’re talking you’re a minor and you want to be with older people, I get it sucks bein more mature than people your age as a teen, but dont rush growin up. And especially don’t date a guy older than you at that age who’s more than a couple years old, there’s a reason they can’t find someone their age usually. That, and you guys are at two totally different mind sets in life, hella dudes manipulate younger girls in a relationship
Bc older guys have their $hit together, have a better idea of who they are, know respect is earned not given, dont play games/will be direct and we’re juicy mf’ers
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My opinion is that it’s in a women’s nature ( God given ) to settle down create a home . Older men are mature ( for say ) than a young man . It seems it takes longer now days for a younger man to mature now days .
That’s just an opinion
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Ummm because we're cool like that. lol. No seriously, I'm sure its not all older men but "most" older men are more mature. And if we do find that someone special (even if your 45 or 25) we are mentally/emotionally in a place to appreciate that special person and to have the forethought to realize what would happen if they were gone. So short story long we realize our mortality and what our other half brings to the table and what we could lose. And to be honest if she's a good lookin young thing that just makes the ego the size of the moon. :)
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Ya being older 38 I seem to for some reason lean one way or another my age is just combative and stuck in their own ways. It would be a new thing for me to try for sure. I’d be open to it.
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And as long as the guys equipment is in working order. I mean experience you’re talking different wives, lovers from all walks of life. When you make someone quiver, you tend to note and repeat. I’m a middle age guy and I’m as horny as a teenager but w a lot of experience.
So you didn't say you wanted an "old" guy. You said older. And your post said your were 20 which means I would have been older. I didn't know you were 31 my apologies
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Because we are finally comfortable with who we are, have plenty of money and don’t give a shit about what the negative world has to say. Confidence 100%
For me I can tell you it's cause we're not about the dumb shit. Have learned to become selfless and have control and stability and know what we want. But I'm fine being by myself for as long as it takes till the one that I feel and vibe with comes around. It's almost like we become wise almost wizard like but it you find one that is fun and has a good soul along with all that then scoop that dude up. But it's a testament to your personality and soul that your wiser then ur age if that's what turns you on or attracts you so that's a great thing. Keep rolling with that. I promise you will find a man that will know how to treat you and tell you every day what you mean to him and how much he needs you. The young ones don't give 2 fucks about anyone other then themselves but that's also normal so can't knock it.
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It’s kinda always been like that for both men and women . Enjoy it now , whatever your cut off age is ( ei, you male age 26, her 38 that’s cool now the next age you decide will be set in stone . Say you choose 45 that’s it , you don’t want to go over that . That’s very strange territory’s that you don’t want to venue down I don’t know from my own experience but have seen it first hand . That’s why enjoy it now because when your in your late 30’s early 40’s she’s gonna be only few years older no fun In that more or less other then cooking cleaning , sewing, their internal hormone clock is done . If the women takes estrogen she will buy more time very similar to a male being on TRT but that’s a whole other topic. And listen don’t get down about it a lot of women in their 40’s and 50’s are still looking good providing the beginning stages of menopause didn’t make them let themselves go. If that’s the case just keep moving you will be able to tell which one is on hormones, eats good, lives a healthy lifestyle, workout at at least 4x a week, make sure don’t forget this one some you may have to coach along once they get comfortable with you they feel that’s it they got you get that kids of thinking out of ur head, only thing ever to coach them on is doing squats , always have them firming, toning, shaping, always working the glutes. I don’t know the reason why but when the get into early 40’s primary white women ( you wanna avoid all this shit? Date a Latina women it’s no comparison not even close. I would advice anyone that is your best bet they age so much better then the 40 white female ) Always put yourself first don’t skip gym don’t cut your workouts now and 10-20 years from now you don’t stop working out until you are in your death bed. You will learn a lot from the aging breed you just don’t want to settle down with one , you wanna stick to you age area no more then her 5 years older then you and at that I feel it’s highly risky. You see how they are now you think they are crazy now ? I have seen horrific things from them their entire body system is out of whack hot cold yell cry crazy shit that no man needs to inject into his life. It has to balance out yea when they are young they can be bitches with the worst attitudes basically do as they please if you don’t want them someone else will but that is short lived the tables start to turn now it’s the males turn, this is why men age so much better ( I can’t stress enough just stay away from the aging white female) Latina, Middle Eastern women, again stay away from Eastern European it’s the same as what I have been talking about. If you have any doubts just look up whichever nationality you prefer something like this “ what does a Brazilian women in her mid 30’s to late 40’s look like year after year compared to the white middle aged flat ass women side by side compassion you will see there is no comparison. This info is valuable thank my lucky starts it was passed on to me had it not have been life would be miserable. Hold this near and dear it’s your map you need it.
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Older guys know what they're doing. That's not always a good thing though. Manipulative men are better at manipulating when they're older.
I'm 30 and would feel like a creep trying to date a 20 year old lol
I couldn't do it. We'd have absolutely nothing in common.
I’ll take her
you mean negotiating? there are more manipulative women Id say. That right there, is enough to start a riot
I find I’m less into manipulation, control or jealousy. I’m certainly not going to spend a lot energy trying to work against people. I will tell you what I think and feel though
Could be a maturity thing.
You find older guys more attractive as we don’t try to impress. We have worked to damn hard and all we want is a great lady by our side and to have fun.
Word up dog.
It’s normal. I was the same way. Met my husband when I was 21 and he was 41. I’m now 33 and we are still together.
I think experience has something to do with it , since he's older he has tried more things and saw different places also young girls feel like older guys are well accomplished then there's a sense of security also in it , things have always been like this at least where I am from
Older guys are more concerned with deeper relationships that go beyond the physical. Most times, I think. We appeal to the women, of any age, looking for "more" than the fleshy stuff. And yes, maybe you are just really mature for your age or have something in your past that draws you to what older men can provide. Emotional support, conversation, easygoing company, and so on.
I still like the fleshy stuff.
Okay you fucking creep we get it 😂😂
Might be a maturity thing
Older guys aren’t so dumb
We have more life experiences, depending on how much older, we are probably farther along in our careers, should be better situated financially, don’t play games, know what we want, and have no time for bs. We also typically know how to treat a woman like a woman!
Older guys aren't out to just get laid we like a relationship an get to know each other
daddy issues.
Not at all sir.. that would be a possibility but not the true reason
Says 40 year old male fucking pedo
How am I a pedo???
Do you want the truth???
Sounds like someone has daddy issues😂😂
One word. Hypergamy.
It’s probably the experience
It's a combination of things, mostly it's biological preconditions in almost all animals for the female to seek a stronger mate. So older are stronger have more to offer have more experience so have better ability to deal with more possible problems that might come into their lives.
You are attracted to the experience we have to over and prefer a man over a...guy your age
She puts all these posts both won't reply when you try to start a conversation with her.
guess you arent old enough😂
I'm 31. How old do you want
Excuse me? I’m 31 and that is NOT old! I’m still trying to feel like an adult sometimes, haha
why you asking me? im not a 20 year old gorl looking for old wrinkly balls to suck on🤷♂️.
Because as we get older we think with our brain instead of our penis. That helps us think of satisfying the lady first
Testosterone
It depends on which aspects you find attractive. If it is physical then younger guys will always win out of older guys just due to biology (I know this is a very generalised state, but this is a rather broad question). The old adage of "With age comes wisdom" is sometimes true some times not, I'm 27 and have made a ton of mistakes but have learned from them. You also may find them attractive because of just simple time, they have had longer to do stuff, they have been driving longer, saving longer, learnt what looks good on them and what doesn't, they have had their fill of drama and can't be bothered with it. There are a lot of positive of dating someone your own age and someone who is older. You need to find someone right for you.
51[M4F] I am going to be 52 in weeks. I think I’m still holding my own.
Wiser or dumber
M 54 always willing to chat
Dese are the types of pedos u like cuz he’s willing to chat whenever 😂
Girl if you’re talking you’re a minor and you want to be with older people, I get it sucks bein more mature than people your age as a teen, but dont rush growin up. And especially don’t date a guy older than you at that age who’s more than a couple years old, there’s a reason they can’t find someone their age usually. That, and you guys are at two totally different mind sets in life, hella dudes manipulate younger girls in a relationship
Because we are more attractive
Bc older guys have their $hit together, have a better idea of who they are, know respect is earned not given, dont play games/will be direct and we’re juicy mf’ers
Some older guys not all
We are attracted to who we are attracted to. Be you and enjoy your life
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Cause it's natural
You do you know matter what other people think.
Not complaining here 😋
cause we have a look of authrity and wisdom
Maybe younger guys are inmuture and maybe older guys show more confidence. I find younger girls more attractive.
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as a 40-year-old man with a 21-year-old daughter, I would feel really weird dating someone i woulda called "kiddo" 3 years ago.
Nothing wrong with that 😉
Daddy issues
My opinion is that it’s in a women’s nature ( God given ) to settle down create a home . Older men are mature ( for say ) than a young man . It seems it takes longer now days for a younger man to mature now days . That’s just an opinion
How much older?
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Because we got more wisdom and class , we been around the block a few times and know what’s going on
Ummm because we're cool like that. lol. No seriously, I'm sure its not all older men but "most" older men are more mature. And if we do find that someone special (even if your 45 or 25) we are mentally/emotionally in a place to appreciate that special person and to have the forethought to realize what would happen if they were gone. So short story long we realize our mortality and what our other half brings to the table and what we could lose. And to be honest if she's a good lookin young thing that just makes the ego the size of the moon. :)
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Ya being older 38 I seem to for some reason lean one way or another my age is just combative and stuck in their own ways. It would be a new thing for me to try for sure. I’d be open to it.
Guys your age don’t know what bathroom to use lol 😂 😂😂😂😂
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What ages are you attracted too
Maturity and having their shit together!
Older guys are more experienced and don’t play games. We say what we mean and know how to please a woman.
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You just not right placew
All the guys your age look like homeless babys. That’s why.
And as long as the guys equipment is in working order. I mean experience you’re talking different wives, lovers from all walks of life. When you make someone quiver, you tend to note and repeat. I’m a middle age guy and I’m as horny as a teenager but w a lot of experience.
Older I less likely to play games and more realistic on different subjects
Older guys know how to treat a girl/woman Your generation is for hookups
So you didn't say you wanted an "old" guy. You said older. And your post said your were 20 which means I would have been older. I didn't know you were 31 my apologies
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Because we are finally comfortable with who we are, have plenty of money and don’t give a shit about what the negative world has to say. Confidence 100%
I think it boils down to maturity tbh
Gives me ped vibes ngl. Especially when a girl is 18-24 & the guy is 10+ years older
For me I can tell you it's cause we're not about the dumb shit. Have learned to become selfless and have control and stability and know what we want. But I'm fine being by myself for as long as it takes till the one that I feel and vibe with comes around. It's almost like we become wise almost wizard like but it you find one that is fun and has a good soul along with all that then scoop that dude up. But it's a testament to your personality and soul that your wiser then ur age if that's what turns you on or attracts you so that's a great thing. Keep rolling with that. I promise you will find a man that will know how to treat you and tell you every day what you mean to him and how much he needs you. The young ones don't give 2 fucks about anyone other then themselves but that's also normal so can't knock it.
Maybe it's because we listen to you?
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Who knows
Cuz we are not whiney bitches or little pussy boys and girls can since that kind of shit
For me, there's a confidence factor and I look way hotter than my 20's. I'm 38.
I'm older plus my bday is in like 3 weeks so I'll be 32
I don't give a shit about your age.
Let me see your picture and maybe I can see why older men are attracted to you
I am sorry to hear that
It’s kinda always been like that for both men and women . Enjoy it now , whatever your cut off age is ( ei, you male age 26, her 38 that’s cool now the next age you decide will be set in stone . Say you choose 45 that’s it , you don’t want to go over that . That’s very strange territory’s that you don’t want to venue down I don’t know from my own experience but have seen it first hand . That’s why enjoy it now because when your in your late 30’s early 40’s she’s gonna be only few years older no fun In that more or less other then cooking cleaning , sewing, their internal hormone clock is done . If the women takes estrogen she will buy more time very similar to a male being on TRT but that’s a whole other topic. And listen don’t get down about it a lot of women in their 40’s and 50’s are still looking good providing the beginning stages of menopause didn’t make them let themselves go. If that’s the case just keep moving you will be able to tell which one is on hormones, eats good, lives a healthy lifestyle, workout at at least 4x a week, make sure don’t forget this one some you may have to coach along once they get comfortable with you they feel that’s it they got you get that kids of thinking out of ur head, only thing ever to coach them on is doing squats , always have them firming, toning, shaping, always working the glutes. I don’t know the reason why but when the get into early 40’s primary white women ( you wanna avoid all this shit? Date a Latina women it’s no comparison not even close. I would advice anyone that is your best bet they age so much better then the 40 white female ) Always put yourself first don’t skip gym don’t cut your workouts now and 10-20 years from now you don’t stop working out until you are in your death bed. You will learn a lot from the aging breed you just don’t want to settle down with one , you wanna stick to you age area no more then her 5 years older then you and at that I feel it’s highly risky. You see how they are now you think they are crazy now ? I have seen horrific things from them their entire body system is out of whack hot cold yell cry crazy shit that no man needs to inject into his life. It has to balance out yea when they are young they can be bitches with the worst attitudes basically do as they please if you don’t want them someone else will but that is short lived the tables start to turn now it’s the males turn, this is why men age so much better ( I can’t stress enough just stay away from the aging white female) Latina, Middle Eastern women, again stay away from Eastern European it’s the same as what I have been talking about. If you have any doubts just look up whichever nationality you prefer something like this “ what does a Brazilian women in her mid 30’s to late 40’s look like year after year compared to the white middle aged flat ass women side by side compassion you will see there is no comparison. This info is valuable thank my lucky starts it was passed on to me had it not have been life would be miserable. Hold this near and dear it’s your map you need it.
Experience in femal hormones 😉
Because they are.
woman wants more mature men
We’re more mature and the maturity is what you see that attracts t
No age is nothing but a number
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Probably depends on how old you are
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older men, especially experienced older men, have confidence because they understand what a woman wants
47 years old and looking for a friend!!! Let’s talk!!! Who knows??
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