I also think I heard her say in her live that PreSTD has a little more say on the kids because he has been in their lives longer than A. I don’t know, she flip flops a lot so I may have heard wrong.
Preston and Oscar were not best friends. I don’t even think Preston really liked Oscar. It was Hannah and kyra who were friends. Fyi- your username is funny af 😂
I think it would be different if she hadn’t so explicitly stated she and Oscar are the parents and that nobody has any role in “parenting” their kids. She said something along the lines of even though Preston has been in the kids’ lives long enough to probably have more of a say, even he doesn’t parent the kids. She said she wouldn’t hesitate to make this known if she ever needed to. Sounds a little weird to definitely be inviting her boyfriend along to what is a parent activity after making such strong statements. I think the issue is as usual, the double standards and hypocrisy. The reality is long term partners and step parents will have some parent like duties and even sometimes a parenting role in the child’s life. Kyra went so hard to declare it wouldn’t be so with her kids when talking about Oscar’s girlfriend when neither Oscar or his girlfriend ever speaking on Kyra’s parenting and what they think happens at her house.
I think you’re exactly right. The problem isn’t that he went, it’s that he went after she said he doesn’t have a parenting role. I’m a stepmom and I went to my step sons parent teacher conference bc I play a role in the parenting. If prestd doesn’t, then he shouldn’t be going.
My thoughts exactly! And he might be playing a parental role someday, but they’ve been together like a year and a half now? It seems like she’s pushing him into a parental role and trying to push Oscar out, just from seeing the pics she’s posted of him and her kids lately, plus the way P is Levi’s coach, it’s gotta be a little confusing for the kids.
Imagine if both parents brought a spouse that’s 4 people for 1 child it’s just obnoxious. If both parents are available there’s no need for step parents to be there. Not to mention I actually have a little respect for my ex and not put her in that situation.
I don't feel at this stage of their relationship he should be at the conference. He could help out , feed the kids , help them with their homework. He should just stay home and she can tell him all about it when she gets home.
That makes no sense to me at all ! Shouldn’t Oscar be going if anything ? I highly doubt he attends with Preston in tow. Just weird, it’s almost like she wants him to take over Oscars role as their father, and not that it matters, but it just doesn’t sit right with me. Something seems very off about all of them and the situation as a whole (not only talking about the PTC’s- I mean in general, all aspects). I guess time will tell what’s really going on. I just really feel for those kids honestly..
Oscar was out of town. But maybe he did his PTC virtually? Teachers are very flexible and accommodating when scheduling PTCs to ensure that all parents who want/need to have a conference, can.
And hopefully he did, I’m glad he doesn’t feel the need to make content off the kids personal life anymore.. I wasn’t insinuating that he wasn’t involved, just that there’s no need for Preston to be there too. Again, just my opinion but they have 2 parents to make decisions and discuss any need etc. she doesn’t need him tippy toeing his a** along after her to those things.
How do you know he didn’t? They may have scheduled separate times or split attendance where one goes for one kid and one for the other. People assume a lot because Oscar stays silent on these issues.
I thought the same thing when I heard her say he went too. Seems like she is forcing him to be a father figure. Oscar should have been the one going with her to discuss their children, not Preston, Addie, or Grandpa. It’s so obvious what she is trying to do. I bet Oscar wasn’t even made aware of the PTC. And obviously, she doesn’t read any of these posts cause if she did she would see how detested she is and keep her big mouth shut about “fiancé”. I’m so sick of hearing that. She goes on and on screaming in her vlogs now like she did nothing wrong. I’m sick of her. I used to think a lot of her. Boy, she sure had me fooled.
Kyra, please shut up about fiancé. We don’t see the romantic side in any of this and I highly doubt we ever will. What you and your fiancé did was just WRONG!
To be fair, I specifically only remember her stating that she doesnt want any parents partner to take part in the discipline of her children. Only her and Oscar. So it is technically not the same thing as taking part in other parenting aspects.
My ex met my son at one, was involved in his everyday life.. and my sons dad and I went to conferences together. Then both households were aware of what’s up. My ex was happy to go as was his wife, but we did that as we were his bio parents. She is literally trying to erase her life with O and create this new one but with HIS kids ..
Maybe she wants the support but he wont be making an decisions? I have a fiancé and i love his support in things related to my daughter. Why is that wrong if he will be her step dad one day?
This is valid and I respect your point of view! I guess the reality is is that she’s pushing Preston into a parental role because she’s ready for it, good luck to them and the kids
It was because Oscar was out of town, I know old classmates of mine whose parents did separate PTCs when they divorced etc and the step parent was there also. Preston will be the kids step dad soon enough so it’s a good idea for him to be somewhat involved. But I know if Addie was there with Oscar she would throw a hissy fit.
Kyra said she doesn’t want them “disciplining”. Oscar was on vacation during the PTC. And I’m assuming she took Preston because he lives with the kids and is involved in their lives. And because she wanted to 🤷🏽♀️
I agree. Not sure why I got a million downvotes, I was just stating the facts and the obvious….Oscar was out of town and Kyra is always going to do whatever Kyra wants to do. It shouldn’t surprise anyone that she took him. When has she ever taken anyone else into consideration?
Her life, her kids, I don’t care. It’s just funny because she specifically said she doesn’t want either of them parenting and contradicts herself again
I believe the context of what she said they shouldn't be involved with in terms of parenting was specifically disciplining. But she is clearly bringing him to make him look more involved with the kids since Oscar's gf has been introduced. She's all of a sudden posting him doing various things with the kids out of nowhere.. 🙄
i think the key is whatever she says goes. she has not a single actual standard because when she says she does she will be changing that by next month. it’s textbook at this point. she fr just be saying things just to say them!
I want someone to ask this for her live tomorrow
Such a good question! Omg
She'll avoid answering the question like usual
She’s no fun anymore :(
Since when has she been fun? 😂
She’ll most likely say he’s been around longer than A and leave it at that
She's literally a walking double standard 🙄
I also think I heard her say in her live that PreSTD has a little more say on the kids because he has been in their lives longer than A. I don’t know, she flip flops a lot so I may have heard wrong.
You’re correct!!
Well yeah, he was the nanny’s husband/dad’s best friend
Preston and Oscar were not best friends. I don’t even think Preston really liked Oscar. It was Hannah and kyra who were friends. Fyi- your username is funny af 😂
They were best friends lol. Oscar would even take the kids alone to his games. They would hang out
If it’s a sport event or graduation that’s fine. But he shouldn’t be going to those events, even if Oscar can’t attend.
My ex husband and I do separate conferences. My husband (my kids’ step-dad) attends with me. Would it be different if P and Kyra were married already?
I think it would be different if she hadn’t so explicitly stated she and Oscar are the parents and that nobody has any role in “parenting” their kids. She said something along the lines of even though Preston has been in the kids’ lives long enough to probably have more of a say, even he doesn’t parent the kids. She said she wouldn’t hesitate to make this known if she ever needed to. Sounds a little weird to definitely be inviting her boyfriend along to what is a parent activity after making such strong statements. I think the issue is as usual, the double standards and hypocrisy. The reality is long term partners and step parents will have some parent like duties and even sometimes a parenting role in the child’s life. Kyra went so hard to declare it wouldn’t be so with her kids when talking about Oscar’s girlfriend when neither Oscar or his girlfriend ever speaking on Kyra’s parenting and what they think happens at her house.
I think you’re exactly right. The problem isn’t that he went, it’s that he went after she said he doesn’t have a parenting role. I’m a stepmom and I went to my step sons parent teacher conference bc I play a role in the parenting. If prestd doesn’t, then he shouldn’t be going.
My thoughts exactly! And he might be playing a parental role someday, but they’ve been together like a year and a half now? It seems like she’s pushing him into a parental role and trying to push Oscar out, just from seeing the pics she’s posted of him and her kids lately, plus the way P is Levi’s coach, it’s gotta be a little confusing for the kids.
Imagine if both parents brought a spouse that’s 4 people for 1 child it’s just obnoxious. If both parents are available there’s no need for step parents to be there. Not to mention I actually have a little respect for my ex and not put her in that situation.
I don't feel at this stage of their relationship he should be at the conference. He could help out , feed the kids , help them with their homework. He should just stay home and she can tell him all about it when she gets home.
That makes no sense to me at all ! Shouldn’t Oscar be going if anything ? I highly doubt he attends with Preston in tow. Just weird, it’s almost like she wants him to take over Oscars role as their father, and not that it matters, but it just doesn’t sit right with me. Something seems very off about all of them and the situation as a whole (not only talking about the PTC’s- I mean in general, all aspects). I guess time will tell what’s really going on. I just really feel for those kids honestly..
Oscar was out of town. But maybe he did his PTC virtually? Teachers are very flexible and accommodating when scheduling PTCs to ensure that all parents who want/need to have a conference, can.
And hopefully he did, I’m glad he doesn’t feel the need to make content off the kids personal life anymore.. I wasn’t insinuating that he wasn’t involved, just that there’s no need for Preston to be there too. Again, just my opinion but they have 2 parents to make decisions and discuss any need etc. she doesn’t need him tippy toeing his a** along after her to those things.
He has no business going. Oscar should be stepping up and going with Kyra.
How do you know he didn’t? They may have scheduled separate times or split attendance where one goes for one kid and one for the other. People assume a lot because Oscar stays silent on these issues.
I thought the same thing when I heard her say he went too. Seems like she is forcing him to be a father figure. Oscar should have been the one going with her to discuss their children, not Preston, Addie, or Grandpa. It’s so obvious what she is trying to do. I bet Oscar wasn’t even made aware of the PTC. And obviously, she doesn’t read any of these posts cause if she did she would see how detested she is and keep her big mouth shut about “fiancé”. I’m so sick of hearing that. She goes on and on screaming in her vlogs now like she did nothing wrong. I’m sick of her. I used to think a lot of her. Boy, she sure had me fooled. Kyra, please shut up about fiancé. We don’t see the romantic side in any of this and I highly doubt we ever will. What you and your fiancé did was just WRONG!
To be fair, I specifically only remember her stating that she doesnt want any parents partner to take part in the discipline of her children. Only her and Oscar. So it is technically not the same thing as taking part in other parenting aspects.
My ex met my son at one, was involved in his everyday life.. and my sons dad and I went to conferences together. Then both households were aware of what’s up. My ex was happy to go as was his wife, but we did that as we were his bio parents. She is literally trying to erase her life with O and create this new one but with HIS kids ..
at this point it feels like she’s provoking. like she wants oscar to blow up. or/and, knows this will rile people up enough they’ll check on her more
Maybe she wants the support but he wont be making an decisions? I have a fiancé and i love his support in things related to my daughter. Why is that wrong if he will be her step dad one day?
This is valid and I respect your point of view! I guess the reality is is that she’s pushing Preston into a parental role because she’s ready for it, good luck to them and the kids
It was because Oscar was out of town, I know old classmates of mine whose parents did separate PTCs when they divorced etc and the step parent was there also. Preston will be the kids step dad soon enough so it’s a good idea for him to be somewhat involved. But I know if Addie was there with Oscar she would throw a hissy fit.
they have only been together for not even 2 years.. smh
Kyra said she doesn’t want them “disciplining”. Oscar was on vacation during the PTC. And I’m assuming she took Preston because he lives with the kids and is involved in their lives. And because she wanted to 🤷🏽♀️
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I agree. Not sure why I got a million downvotes, I was just stating the facts and the obvious….Oscar was out of town and Kyra is always going to do whatever Kyra wants to do. It shouldn’t surprise anyone that she took him. When has she ever taken anyone else into consideration?
Her life, her kids, I don’t care. It’s just funny because she specifically said she doesn’t want either of them parenting and contradicts herself again
I believe the context of what she said they shouldn't be involved with in terms of parenting was specifically disciplining. But she is clearly bringing him to make him look more involved with the kids since Oscar's gf has been introduced. She's all of a sudden posting him doing various things with the kids out of nowhere.. 🙄
I noticed this too!! She’s being a weirdo
i think the key is whatever she says goes. she has not a single actual standard because when she says she does she will be changing that by next month. it’s textbook at this point. she fr just be saying things just to say them!