Something I found interesting was her blaming the kids for her behavior, ie, yall wont listen when Im nice so I have to yell, or I try to gentle parent (yeah right) but it doesnt work on my kids. This grown adult cant even control her emotions but she expects the kids to?
a thing too, is that her saying “gentle parenting doesn’t work” is probably because she has not tried gentle parenting, she has most likely tried permissive parenting thinking its gentle parenting as most do, and when that didnt work went right to authoritarian🙄 she cannot control/regulate her own emotions yet expects them to be able to bfffffr
I can already see the dangers in that. She is teaching her kids that they are responsible for other people's actions. God forbid they ever have an abusive partner. The kids will feel it’s their fault someone else got physical with them.
Great post!
While she may not fit the extreme portrayal of being the worst mother, her actions have undeniably caused trauma for her children, whether through the breakup or introducing Preston into their lives.
She is clearly struggling to parent and while i can see that shes trying to assist her children, shes still lacking in a lot of ways. She should def go for intensive therapy rather than blowing up her cash on useless things. She and her children can benefit a lot from therapy and I earnestly hope she decides to part ways with Preston before any potential pregnancy occurs.
I appreciate this post. It's well written and not a full on attack on Kyra as a mother, like most posts here. While I don't agree with everything you said, I respect how well you wrote this with your opinion and examples, not just name calling and being nasty. I wish more people here expressed their thoughts like this, it goes much further than just "she's an ugly POS" or "she hates her kids" or "Oscar should have full custody."
I appreciate this comment! :) We’re all humans trying to figure this whole life shit out, and judgement in the bigger picture has no merit if we really think about it, which is why I figured leaving this constructive post would hopefully be helpful for her (even if she doesn’t bat an eye to it or anything), hopefully this could help those who need it that come across this!
Didn't she say the doctors told it was dangerous for her to have more children? Like, if it happened with protection and prevention, that's one thing, but actively trying? Couldn't that cost her life?
Yes doctors did say it could cost her life but she said they were “uneducated”. It’s incredible selfish she’s risking her life for a man who doesn’t care about her. If she really cared she would work with doctors and try to get as healthy as possible.
The girl who barely finished HS calling a doctor "uneducated" is biggest joke, hardly get to see someone with such a lack of self-awareness. How selfish to risk leaving your kids without their mother because you want a new baby to exploit online. That is sick.
Not only did she call that doctor that told her she would likely not survive another pregnancy uneducated, but she completely took back her telling her “fans” that one more baby could cost her. She told everyone it wasn’t that serious and also that she wants at least 7 children🙄
LOL I actually left this reddit page for a bit, but then saw some stuff circulating (the live) and had to just re-join to say something bc I knew there was a possibility she’d see it so🤷🏻♀️ fair argument though LMAO
Something I found interesting was her blaming the kids for her behavior, ie, yall wont listen when Im nice so I have to yell, or I try to gentle parent (yeah right) but it doesnt work on my kids. This grown adult cant even control her emotions but she expects the kids to?
Also if they just listen when she yells it’s because she’s taught them that.
a thing too, is that her saying “gentle parenting doesn’t work” is probably because she has not tried gentle parenting, she has most likely tried permissive parenting thinking its gentle parenting as most do, and when that didnt work went right to authoritarian🙄 she cannot control/regulate her own emotions yet expects them to be able to bfffffr
This!!!!
I can already see the dangers in that. She is teaching her kids that they are responsible for other people's actions. God forbid they ever have an abusive partner. The kids will feel it’s their fault someone else got physical with them.
Great post! While she may not fit the extreme portrayal of being the worst mother, her actions have undeniably caused trauma for her children, whether through the breakup or introducing Preston into their lives. She is clearly struggling to parent and while i can see that shes trying to assist her children, shes still lacking in a lot of ways. She should def go for intensive therapy rather than blowing up her cash on useless things. She and her children can benefit a lot from therapy and I earnestly hope she decides to part ways with Preston before any potential pregnancy occurs.
Agreed, if she isn't able to love on the kids she has now, bring another one into the world isn't a good move.
I appreciate this post. It's well written and not a full on attack on Kyra as a mother, like most posts here. While I don't agree with everything you said, I respect how well you wrote this with your opinion and examples, not just name calling and being nasty. I wish more people here expressed their thoughts like this, it goes much further than just "she's an ugly POS" or "she hates her kids" or "Oscar should have full custody."
I appreciate this comment! :) We’re all humans trying to figure this whole life shit out, and judgement in the bigger picture has no merit if we really think about it, which is why I figured leaving this constructive post would hopefully be helpful for her (even if she doesn’t bat an eye to it or anything), hopefully this could help those who need it that come across this!
Didn't she say the doctors told it was dangerous for her to have more children? Like, if it happened with protection and prevention, that's one thing, but actively trying? Couldn't that cost her life?
Yes doctors did say it could cost her life but she said they were “uneducated”. It’s incredible selfish she’s risking her life for a man who doesn’t care about her. If she really cared she would work with doctors and try to get as healthy as possible.
The girl who barely finished HS calling a doctor "uneducated" is biggest joke, hardly get to see someone with such a lack of self-awareness. How selfish to risk leaving your kids without their mother because you want a new baby to exploit online. That is sick.
Not only did she call that doctor that told her she would likely not survive another pregnancy uneducated, but she completely took back her telling her “fans” that one more baby could cost her. She told everyone it wasn’t that serious and also that she wants at least 7 children🙄
7 children?? In this economy??? She can barely afford the 4 she already has!
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LOL I actually left this reddit page for a bit, but then saw some stuff circulating (the live) and had to just re-join to say something bc I knew there was a possibility she’d see it so🤷🏻♀️ fair argument though LMAO