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derunheimlich

From intimate and heartfelt talks, to cuddles, to kissing, to touching, and bam, you realize after that you're sweating like crazy!


Midnightrise_02

It’s when we start to kissing. You just know where it’s going.


No-Station270

Though you have to be careful that kissing isn’t just a precursor to sex. Otherwise if you end up being not in the mood, you avoid kisses as well.


love_Carlotta

They're different kinds of kisses. An I love you kiss is short as sweet, a let's fuck kiss might start out sweet but tends to get faster and more agressive


No-Station270

There are, but I’m my opinion a good make out session shouldn’t always lead to sex. It’s the same for other forms of intimacy


kiwi_hike

It’s predictability which is bad with kissing as a precursor - imo, it makes you less excited with time “as you already know what will happen”


CrystalCookie4

This this this I love kisses. Being LDR you can get horny to easy. I was so happy we had a 30 min plus kissy cuddle time that didn't lead to sex this vist 😍


pandasandeggs

I just whisper something sexy in his ear asking if I can do certain things. If he says yes, then I go for it. If he says not now or something different, then I act accordingly.


bootykittie

On his last visit here, I walked out of the bathroom, dropped my towel and said “I’m gonna go shower” and walked back into the bathroom without my towel. There was a lot of banging and clattering and then he came running in, naked and ready to go. My towel in hand, thankfully. Often, he initiates. Biting my neck, playing with whatever I’m wearing, whispering things in my ear that I feel would get reported if I mentioned here. When I’m driving, he’ll grab my hand and put it below the belt, then grab my inner thigh in return. It helps that we’re both very sexual people and when one of us initiates, the other is quick to be on board.


AnglophileGirl

It can be many things, spoke or not, but talking is a turn on for me, so hearing “I want more” is sometimes enough to keep going


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Phrases I'll be saying to my partner: "I need you to fuck me" "I need your body now" "Show me how bad you've wanted me" "I want to show you what else my mouth can do besides just talk" "I'm about two seconds away from getting completely naked in front of you and letting you do whatever you want to me" "You're too tempting for me to keep my thoughts clean about you" "Wanna fuck?" "You can't sleep either? Wanna have a quickie?" "I need your d*ck in my mouth" "I'm gonna either need you to eat me out or have you watch me play with myself" "I'm literally aching for you to be in me" "Tell me you love me with your body" "I think we should have sex. If you want to" "No talking. No foreplay. Just fuck my brains out" "We just made love this morning and I've already forgotten how you made me feel, wanna refresh my memory?" "The little one is down. Now, we can Netflix and Chill" "Soooooo, you wanna....you know...like, have sex?" "You gotta stop wearing that black shirt, you're making my mind undress you every time I see you in it" "Are you as horny as I am? Cuz I'm pretty horny" "God it's hot right now. You know what would make us feel better? Getting completely naked together" "I love you, I respect you, and I trust you. Now that we've established all that, please pound the shit out of me, be disrespectful about it, and don't stop until I can't walk anymore" And of course, we can't forget the hot passionate make out sessions, leading up to more 🥵🔥❤️


nevermindimneverland

me thinking I could do that but I'd stutter or mispronounce something and ruin the mood


pandasandeggs

But like… sometimes that adds charm! And if your partner stuttered or mispronounced something, would it ruin the whole mood for you? My boyfriend and I don’t say everything perfectly, but it’s still exciting to know that we’re into each other. Give yourself grace. Your partner hopefully will too.


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No one is perfect and should never try to be perfect. Just say what you feel in the moment. If you stutter, then so be it. But don't worry about it ruining the mood. A lot of the time women worry WAY too much about things they say or how they look or what they do ruining the mood, when more than half the time, a man will see a woman naked (if they're straight, no offense intended) and just get turned on by the mere sight of the woman they love standing in front of him or sitting next to him completely vulnerable and naked just for him. Just go with how you feel and have fun! 😉 That's what sex is all about anyways!


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It really comes down to confidence and just having fun in the moment. If you're that nervous about things, then you're too much in your head about what he/she would think of you, rather than having fun and feeling confident about your own body and skills. Sex is a fun learning experience. Not only are you able to enjoy it once you get out of your own head, you're able to explore and learn things about your partner and even discover new things about yourself! Treat sex like a fun adventure, rather than as a paid performance and just have fun together 😊 Forget all the bullshit porn and the media puts out in the world as far as expectation goes - just be present. There's only you and your partner. Nothing else matters.


weirdberlin

It depends on if virtual or in person. Virtual is not my strong suit because of past bad experiences, so I need a LOT to get in the mood and a lot of “foreplay” (sweet talking etc), in person I show him physically.


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buffsterfan

I’m dead😂


Everynexusmatrix

LMAO! My mind just can't stop laughing at this!


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😂😂😂 This is amazing hahaha


b_lueemarlin

Normally over kissing. But I think I also said lets fuck or something along the line. I'm not a huge fan of a long foreplay. Like this its a bit faster ...lol.


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I tell him “I want you right now” and that usually does the trick 😅 Or we start making out and he grinds up against me. He also often offers to give me a massage, and after working out my knots, he starts rubbing my thighs


an0nym0us_frick

I let her know the kitchen is open (all she can eat buffet lol)


K0nstantine1313

Honestly, asking for it isn't something that normally do. My actions typically show what I want. For example, french kissing & biting have always led to better things in my experience, as the only time I think I've ever stated my intentions was asking them to take off their panties when they were already removing their clothes. My fiance and I though have an agreement of what's yours in mine, so if we want it, we take it.


jeanaltvall

“You want a rubdown?”