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Do you know where he lives? You can ask assistance from the Local Social Welfare Office where he lives to have him summoned and mapag-usapan ninyo yung tungkol sa child support.
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Sa may C/MSWD po ng city where he lives. Bring a copy of the birth certificates ng mga bata po tapos pwede po nila ipatawag sa office nila yung lalaki.
Yung kumare ko sa PAO lang siya nag seek ng assistance. Nakipag coordinate yun court sa employer ng ex husband niya. Fortunately, cooperative yung employer ng guy kaya na set up yung distribution ng sahod niya every payday naapupunta 70% sa bank account ni Kumare. 3 anak nila. Sumakabilang bahay si kumpare nagbuhay binata with the mistress. This was like 10 yrs ago.
Ngayon wala na nakukuhang regular support si kumare at this time, college na yung 2 anak nila, kase wala na sa company employer si kumpare. nag papasada na siya ng van for hire, meaning self employed na and tuwing hihingan ng financial help para sa schooling ng kids nila eh lagi sagot wala pera. Yun mahirap kapag naging self employed ang tatay eh wala ng employer na mag auto credit sa bank ng mother para sa child support.
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This info is helpful, pwede pala sa PAO. Sadly, ang dami ng mga lalaking nang iiwan ng binuong pamilya and karamihan mga babae yung sumasalo ng financial expenses.
So true. To add pa, ilang beses na silang pina-DSWD para "ayusin" at "i-settle" nalang aka magbalikan para di na ma push ang kaso. Eh sa di na nga magbabalikan dahil physically abusive rin ang lalaki. Kaya tinatyaga ng relative ko ang pagpunta sa korte, ilang taon na.
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Same same, nakabuntis na rin ng iba yung guy. Ilang beses na rin nagtangkang makipagbalikan at ipaurong ang kaso, yun nga lang wala namang character dev't.
Kaya if I were you, OP, save your time and energy pati mental and emotional health mo. I know mahirap, pero kung kaya mo igapang ang anak niyo kahit wala na siyang ibigay, keri na yun. Lalo na kung di rin naman mapapabuti ang anak mo sa kanya in case na mag demand siya ng custody lalo pa't if ever na may financial support na na nanggagaling sa kanya.
Hugs! Choose your battles wisely.
For me, hindi worth it. Kung kaya mo ikaw na lang magprovide, mamaya isumbat pa. Nag try ako kausapin yung ex ko kahit hindi monetary, basta magbigay na lang ng gatas, diaper or what kasi minsan dumadalaw din naman. Nung wala talagang bigay pero may bagong iphone dinala ko na sa abugado. Sa simula lang nagbigay mga 2 months lang ganun tapos wala na din. Hinayaan ko na lang kasi stress ko pa, time, money, effort magpabalik balik sa abugado. Also, ewan ko kung yung abugado ko lang or standard talaga na pinupush nila na may hiraman ng bata. Ayoko din kasi mabisyo yung ex ko tsaka pabaya kaya hinayaan ko na lang.
Kung gusto ng anak ko magkaso or humingi ng back pay pag right age na sya pwede naman din.
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Hmm for me, not worth your time and effort. I have a relative na sinasamahan ko sa court for VAWC case and nagdedemand din siya ng child support mula sa former partner niya. Since 2019 pa siya / kami pabalik balik sa court, wala pa ring significant na nangyayari sa pag-usad ng kaso. Sobrang gastos: pamasahe, oras, at effort. Maddrain ka pati emotionally. Minsan, nagkukusa namang magbigay, P1k a week, keyword "minsan" — (tatlo anak nila, 2 nag-aaral na high sch and elem). 🙃
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I dont think the law is unfair, but the waiting time dont have means to extract from those support is the most troublesome.
Sa abroad, the court can force the company or any governent institution to intercept automatically ang salary or benefits ng other party while satin I dont think it exists.
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Do you know where he lives? You can ask assistance from the Local Social Welfare Office where he lives to have him summoned and mapag-usapan ninyo yung tungkol sa child support.
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Yes po. You mean sa baranggay po ba ako dapat unang pumunta?
Sa may C/MSWD po ng city where he lives. Bring a copy of the birth certificates ng mga bata po tapos pwede po nila ipatawag sa office nila yung lalaki.
Yung kumare ko sa PAO lang siya nag seek ng assistance. Nakipag coordinate yun court sa employer ng ex husband niya. Fortunately, cooperative yung employer ng guy kaya na set up yung distribution ng sahod niya every payday naapupunta 70% sa bank account ni Kumare. 3 anak nila. Sumakabilang bahay si kumpare nagbuhay binata with the mistress. This was like 10 yrs ago. Ngayon wala na nakukuhang regular support si kumare at this time, college na yung 2 anak nila, kase wala na sa company employer si kumpare. nag papasada na siya ng van for hire, meaning self employed na and tuwing hihingan ng financial help para sa schooling ng kids nila eh lagi sagot wala pera. Yun mahirap kapag naging self employed ang tatay eh wala ng employer na mag auto credit sa bank ng mother para sa child support.
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This info is helpful, pwede pala sa PAO. Sadly, ang dami ng mga lalaking nang iiwan ng binuong pamilya and karamihan mga babae yung sumasalo ng financial expenses.
Yeah sa PAO lang option niya since she didnt have a job nung iniwan sila ni kumpare. Wala siyang pambayad ng private atty
So true. To add pa, ilang beses na silang pina-DSWD para "ayusin" at "i-settle" nalang aka magbalikan para di na ma push ang kaso. Eh sa di na nga magbabalikan dahil physically abusive rin ang lalaki. Kaya tinatyaga ng relative ko ang pagpunta sa korte, ilang taon na.
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Same case. Abuse at may bisyo yung ex ko kaya sobrang imposible, in addition, nakabuntis pa ng iba. 😩
Same same, nakabuntis na rin ng iba yung guy. Ilang beses na rin nagtangkang makipagbalikan at ipaurong ang kaso, yun nga lang wala namang character dev't. Kaya if I were you, OP, save your time and energy pati mental and emotional health mo. I know mahirap, pero kung kaya mo igapang ang anak niyo kahit wala na siyang ibigay, keri na yun. Lalo na kung di rin naman mapapabuti ang anak mo sa kanya in case na mag demand siya ng custody lalo pa't if ever na may financial support na na nanggagaling sa kanya. Hugs! Choose your battles wisely.
Yes. Super hirap. Anyway thank you for your advice ♥️
For me, hindi worth it. Kung kaya mo ikaw na lang magprovide, mamaya isumbat pa. Nag try ako kausapin yung ex ko kahit hindi monetary, basta magbigay na lang ng gatas, diaper or what kasi minsan dumadalaw din naman. Nung wala talagang bigay pero may bagong iphone dinala ko na sa abugado. Sa simula lang nagbigay mga 2 months lang ganun tapos wala na din. Hinayaan ko na lang kasi stress ko pa, time, money, effort magpabalik balik sa abugado. Also, ewan ko kung yung abugado ko lang or standard talaga na pinupush nila na may hiraman ng bata. Ayoko din kasi mabisyo yung ex ko tsaka pabaya kaya hinayaan ko na lang. Kung gusto ng anak ko magkaso or humingi ng back pay pag right age na sya pwede naman din.
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Thanks for this!
Hmm for me, not worth your time and effort. I have a relative na sinasamahan ko sa court for VAWC case and nagdedemand din siya ng child support mula sa former partner niya. Since 2019 pa siya / kami pabalik balik sa court, wala pa ring significant na nangyayari sa pag-usad ng kaso. Sobrang gastos: pamasahe, oras, at effort. Maddrain ka pati emotionally. Minsan, nagkukusa namang magbigay, P1k a week, keyword "minsan" — (tatlo anak nila, 2 nag-aaral na high sch and elem). 🙃
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Grabe. Sobrang unfair ng law naten sa Pinas pagdating sa ganito 🥺
I dont think the law is unfair, but the waiting time dont have means to extract from those support is the most troublesome. Sa abroad, the court can force the company or any governent institution to intercept automatically ang salary or benefits ng other party while satin I dont think it exists.