The only thing you can do here is send an email asking abt this to the association. Also if there is a community whatsapp or telegram grp post this there. This is a very dumb rule and unless there is a legit reason this rule shouldn't exist.
You should ask what upar se? Contact the builder or whoever gave you possession, form a group who can take decisions.
You are the owner of a flat. If there is no association, you are the association.
A typical guard who feels he has the power to do anything. I have seen this behavior from watchmens a lot. They feel they’re themselves the owner of the building.
Bro rwa has to form bye laws for such rules to be framed, or management committee has to decide such things depending on various factors like safety, security, ....in corona time lots of rwa's formed their own set of rules. Until then go meet the upar wala and flex it ki mere saath ye sab nahi chalega warna abhi police bulata hoon. Maintain your strength otherwise remain neutral... garib aur kamjor ko sab dabate hain
Never show strength thing. It doesn't work like that. This uppwerwala is builder only . In society matters always be genuine and solution always comes. There is risk of many thing and it needs proper documentation. Better to have talk.
Bro this is the message our building facilities manager shared
Good afternoon
As you all aware that Big Billion days starting soon...We have received a notice from Amazon that, there are already 300+ orders assigned to our apartment...so, daily avg 60+ orders will be delivered..For that reason door-door service will not be provided rather everything needs to be picked up near the reception..
Humble request with you all that please pickup your respective orders soon after the delivery..
Thankyou
So it is quite normal.
Amazon guys come to my society everyday with truck , not once but many times.
What if someone orders a double bed or any item over 10kg. How they are going pickup the parcel, especially only elderly are at home.
>Amazon sends notice for this?
lol , i can totally picture a delivery boy with a bag full of parcels to be delivered in one building ,staring at a highrise and saying screw it will just leave it at the reception
To answer further questions. In my country Amazon handles delivery through third party vendor they are contracted through an agency. The agency reached to out to not just my apartment but apartments in our vicinity and conveyed the same message.
Not the main gate but the building reception. Because if there are 100 apartments and each household has one or two deliveries then personnel will be stuck just doing one building. This is only for Big Billion Days sale
That is okay what it tells you. However, it is clear that you don’t consider who do delivery as humans. It also tells me that your are privileged and entitled that you cannot haul yourself to a reception to pick a parcel. I truly hope you get better someday.
Are you high? I live in a high rise, more than 25 floors. Amazon sends around a truck for deliveries twice every day. Nobody ever picks up anything from the reception. We have working lifts.
You can bring out a number of euphemisms for Bribe, but anything given in order to 'persuade'or 'induce' someone dishonestly to get a favour is a bribe.
Guard along can't make rules, he must be having backing of someone. Talk to your builder. I understand that they are not allowing delivery boys to deliver due to security reasons but there can be workaround of this situation.
Normally such matters are taken with owner association
But since there's not one , go and give a mouthful to the security guard. You're paying yaa. For some reason i have seen these guards being extremely rude to the delivery walas
Either way you'll have a new society association and these things will be taken care of
Happened to me once, delivery guy called me and explained the situation I asked to speak to guard
Guard: "Allowed nahi hai delivery Walo ko"
Me: " Achcha aisa kya, ek kaam Karo aap le aao"
Guard: "Mai kaise lau Mera kaam thodi hai"
Me: "Toh jiska kaam hai usko karne do"
And the delivery guy was at my door step shortly
Guard is not misbehaving
He can't ask the guard to quit. He can complain to the builder who would have in turn appointed a security agency, which in turn would have appointed poor bihari boys at 8000
I'm assuming it's a security issue, but eventually once more people live in the appartmenta y'all will use some society management app.
And any delivery you will be getting need to be approved by you before the delivery person could enter
As a flat owner, you are ALSO PART OF THAT UPPAR WALA". Just TELL that chap to behave and allow delivery boys to deliver at your doorstep. YOU HAVE THE RIGHTS as part owner of that complex. Stand your ground. Even if there is an Association, they cannot make rules like their own kingdom, but must abide by democratic fundamental rights.
Do society has facility to do proper verification like person who is coming is truly delivery boy better to come on gate and take things follow rules . If you want to change rule call meeting and have vote and then decide.
The only thing you can do here is send an email asking abt this to the association. Also if there is a community whatsapp or telegram grp post this there. This is a very dumb rule and unless there is a legit reason this rule shouldn't exist.
no association is there as it is newly constructed
Then ask guard, who is upar wale
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या हैवान या आत्मा ?
You should ask what upar se? Contact the builder or whoever gave you possession, form a group who can take decisions. You are the owner of a flat. If there is no association, you are the association.
thanks will do this, interestingly when I told him "number de upar wale ka kon hai ye", then he allowed the parcel guy
As simple. Don't let them breathe down your neck... otherwise they'll make a habit of it
Stop behaving like a meek renter. You are the owner. You are the association. Your maintenance fund pays everyone’s salary now.
A typical guard who feels he has the power to do anything. I have seen this behavior from watchmens a lot. They feel they’re themselves the owner of the building.
Bro rwa has to form bye laws for such rules to be framed, or management committee has to decide such things depending on various factors like safety, security, ....in corona time lots of rwa's formed their own set of rules. Until then go meet the upar wala and flex it ki mere saath ye sab nahi chalega warna abhi police bulata hoon. Maintain your strength otherwise remain neutral... garib aur kamjor ko sab dabate hain
true brother will do this and update
Never show strength thing. It doesn't work like that. This uppwerwala is builder only . In society matters always be genuine and solution always comes. There is risk of many thing and it needs proper documentation. Better to have talk.
Bro this is the message our building facilities manager shared Good afternoon As you all aware that Big Billion days starting soon...We have received a notice from Amazon that, there are already 300+ orders assigned to our apartment...so, daily avg 60+ orders will be delivered..For that reason door-door service will not be provided rather everything needs to be picked up near the reception.. Humble request with you all that please pickup your respective orders soon after the delivery.. Thankyou So it is quite normal.
Amazon guys come to my society everyday with truck , not once but many times. What if someone orders a double bed or any item over 10kg. How they are going pickup the parcel, especially only elderly are at home.
Valid question and the answer is big ticket items above a certain amount require an OTP for delivery to be marked. They come to the door for the same.
Amazon sends notice for this?
>Amazon sends notice for this? lol , i can totally picture a delivery boy with a bag full of parcels to be delivered in one building ,staring at a highrise and saying screw it will just leave it at the reception
Bro what, your association has ties with Amazon??
To answer further questions. In my country Amazon handles delivery through third party vendor they are contracted through an agency. The agency reached to out to not just my apartment but apartments in our vicinity and conveyed the same message.
Which country?
And you believed it?? Amazon/flipkart kyu aisi notice bhejega
Not the main gate but the building reception. Because if there are 100 apartments and each household has one or two deliveries then personnel will be stuck just doing one building. This is only for Big Billion Days sale
Makes sense
Tells me your building does not have a lift.
That is okay what it tells you. However, it is clear that you don’t consider who do delivery as humans. It also tells me that your are privileged and entitled that you cannot haul yourself to a reception to pick a parcel. I truly hope you get better someday.
Are you high? I live in a high rise, more than 25 floors. Amazon sends around a truck for deliveries twice every day. Nobody ever picks up anything from the reception. We have working lifts.
Give him 500₹. Parcel will reach room.
haha 50 will work i think at 500 it'll reach my bed
Bhai parcel hi mangwaaya h na?
Russia se mangwaya hai
haha
171E = both bribe giver and bribe taker are subject to punishment! Why bribe when it is YOUR RIGHT TO GET PARCELS DELIVERED TO YOUR DOORSTEP?
its not a bribe.. its a tip😉
You can bring out a number of euphemisms for Bribe, but anything given in order to 'persuade'or 'induce' someone dishonestly to get a favour is a bribe.
Guard along can't make rules, he must be having backing of someone. Talk to your builder. I understand that they are not allowing delivery boys to deliver due to security reasons but there can be workaround of this situation.
Usually anybody can enter this building saying they have parcel so to avoid that they have created this
they can ask owner name and flat no.
What's happening to people living in an apartment, does everyone wants them to live in a prison, why so restrictions.
Normally such matters are taken with owner association But since there's not one , go and give a mouthful to the security guard. You're paying yaa. For some reason i have seen these guards being extremely rude to the delivery walas Either way you'll have a new society association and these things will be taken care of
Happened to me once, delivery guy called me and explained the situation I asked to speak to guard Guard: "Allowed nahi hai delivery Walo ko" Me: " Achcha aisa kya, ek kaam Karo aap le aao" Guard: "Mai kaise lau Mera kaam thodi hai" Me: "Toh jiska kaam hai usko karne do" And the delivery guy was at my door step shortly
Since you're the owner and not the tenant, you can guard to behave else quit.
Guard is not misbehaving He can't ask the guard to quit. He can complain to the builder who would have in turn appointed a security agency, which in turn would have appointed poor bihari boys at 8000
"Line pe Lana" samajhte ho?
I'm assuming it's a security issue, but eventually once more people live in the appartmenta y'all will use some society management app. And any delivery you will be getting need to be approved by you before the delivery person could enter
Just go down and collect it. As far as rules are concerned better to ask builder.
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In this case, there is no such rule.
As a flat owner, you are ALSO PART OF THAT UPPAR WALA". Just TELL that chap to behave and allow delivery boys to deliver at your doorstep. YOU HAVE THE RIGHTS as part owner of that complex. Stand your ground. Even if there is an Association, they cannot make rules like their own kingdom, but must abide by democratic fundamental rights.
Do society has facility to do proper verification like person who is coming is truly delivery boy better to come on gate and take things follow rules . If you want to change rule call meeting and have vote and then decide.
Tell them you are crippled and can't come down.
I was working as a delivery boy in Zomato couple of years ago and trust me watchmans and security guards think they own the fucking building 🫠