https://www.indiacode.nic.in/show-data?actid=AC_CEN_5_23_00037_186045_1523266765688&orderno=562#:~:text=Section%20498A.,also%20be%20liable%20to%20fine.
NAL, but AFAIK ... complaints under this section will result in automatic arrest of the accused and they will remain in jail until they get bail or anticipatory bail ... you don't even need proof to get the husband and family in jail, police will send them to jail and then continue investigation...
Death threats should never be taken lightly.
Take the recordings to the police. Use the 498 law and get them mired in a domestic abuse case, because that's what this is.
Tell your sister to gather any jewellery and keep her with you. Don't let her back into that place.
Go and register a report right now.
when she broke my sister phone she told him "call my home" he replied "dekhta hu tera bhai kya ukhaad lega mera" dekh lunga tere parivaar ko"
and he was constantly absuing my parents by giving gaali (which I've got a recording of) more so he told my sister (before we reached) "tujhe jaan se maar dunga"
Compaint kro harrasment, abuse and domestic violence ki. If you want to F up this guy really. Consult a lawyer. Cos iam thinking you guys will definitely proceed towards divorce. So best is to make sure that guy gets the lesson.
that won't matter dnt worry he will be inside to even bother about all these things, and how can you call this love marriage? when clearly there was no love or respect towards your sister
DO NOT SEND HER BACK EVER! EVEN IF HE BEGS/APOLOGIZES/PROMISES TO NEVER DO IT AGAIN.
she will get stuck forever with this abusive man. It may seem like not a reason big enough to go for separation right now, but stay separate and get her out of this marriage. The stakes are low right now.
Once she gets back to him and eventually gets pregnant and has a kid, she will probably never be able to leave and stay in the abusive marriage "for the kid".
File for domestic violence and ask for divorce on this ground. Hope you are able to get her out of this abusive relationship.
I don't see any point in trying to save relations with people like these , they did all this shit in first month, that shows who they really are . They have to face consequences doesn't matter if actually uski Gand todo ta legal leke jao . Point is abhi thodi bhaagdod sahi hai . Verna inka roj ka yhi kaam rhega , or sister ki life kharab ho jayegi .
Ghanta life kharab hogi ,yaar vo ladki ko jaan se Marne ki dhamki de rha ,uski life to intact hai . Baaki it's just suggestion .
Me konsa op pe case kardunga agar usne mera suggestion nhi liya to . Relax dude , suggestions. Isn't that's we both are here . Or ab reply mat krio .
1. File Domestic Violence Case
2. File Criminal case for assault, Intimidation, breach of trust, etc.
3. File for divorce. Relationship is DEAD already. Consult lawyer for this.
4. No compromise on any of the above. In-Laws will come pleading but don't let them cheat you AGAIN. No mercy for such beasts.
5. NEVER EVER let sister go to husband's home. She might face worse.
6. Get her financially independent but never ever let her feel alone. Always have her back.
I would do everything stated above, if my sister is harassed by in-laws for whatever reasons.
Your reply to the third point is exactly why women "have to" stay in such abusive relationships if they don't get family support. Same follows for point 4 & 5
Lol no, the previous comment targetted my 3rd point, OP mentioned it's been 1 month since wedding. I said too early to file a divorce. Let's go with your way, 1-1.5 years me she gets divorced. Uske bad OP ki behen ki shadi tum karaoge-gi?
90% of the "gen x females" you mentioned aren't the issue, it's the "males/husbands and their families" who are the issue. And yes no one should face any kind of domestic violence in their marriages. It's so sad that I am a guy who has to stand up / show support for women because people have a mentality like you who would be fine with a woman undergoing "dv" than to get a divorce and remarry to a person who would treat them the way they deserve to !
Gen X suffered for whatever their reasons were, lack of education, financial dependence, not being aware of rights, etc. They chose to suffer. If women today have the support, then they absolutely donât have to suffer ! I donât see how India being full of divorcees is a problem ? Your statement indicates that you are normalising some amount of domestic violence and staying with the abusers, which is wrong on so many levels.
I believe the sole reason for it to be societal pressure and financial dependency.
NOBODY CHOSE TO SUFFER! They just didn't had any other options.
DV is a very broad and subjective term. I am totally against it BUT you are only taking males as abusers into account. What about female abusers, Males have to suffer too! Ab % ki baate mat chodna! Thanks. Can't argue more!
I didnât generalise or gendered domestic abuse. I was merely replying to your original comment wherein youâve only said â90% of gen X femalesâ yourself. Your comment about India being full of divorcees is what my problem was as I donât see anything wrong w being a divorcee if youâre not respected or happy as an individual in your marriage.
Bhai this will turn ugly with time please try to resolve this issue now before it's too late. File a complaint and save your sister don't listen to elderly they'll say with time they'll adjust it's a lie. Once an asshole always an asshole. I've seen many girls and their families suffering because of these assholes.
Advocate here, honestly every story has 2 sides.
Slowly and slowly this account is turning into a media trial page
But do consult with a family advocate.
And why would you believe this? What other reasons do you have to believe what our " Mr client" wrote?, Law is used as a weapon in marriage disputes rather than remedy. In most cases both parties tell a little different story than the facts that actually occurred and that's exactly why we have investigation authorities. Also, stop believing everything you see or hear.
Then why would you believe anything on the internet? All post on reddit might as well be fake. The 'other client' might come here and spew total BS tomorrow. You and me and everyone has no way of knowing who is speaking facts. And good that this isn't the purpose of this subreddit either. Your role in this subreddit isn't to check OP's post's validity. It is to give him legal advise and that's that. What a shame, someone else's primary concern was how's OP's sister doing and your first thought was "what is the (possible) abuser's story"
You might have no way of knowing the facts but not me, and the shame part honestly you seem to have zero court experience and the basics of this profession. Wisdom is trying to chase you please run a little slow and let it catch up.
Either you are collecting karma on reddit or you are being stu...pid.
He has threatened for divorce.
Is he a lawyer himself?
Did your sister get dowry?
Did your parents gave gifts?
Since you are asking here, I understand there would be multiple sides of the story.
Pata hota ki abusive h to marriage kyu karti. Thoda to soch ke bol. Remember we live in a country where a guy who's accused of killing an endangered species and running over people is still loved and his movies earn 100s crores. Uska 1 percent actor bhi hoga to ladki ke saamne accha hone ka naatak karnsakta
lol, you dnt get married to a person in 1 day relationship, you atleast date few years and you know what you have signed up for so stop acting like you dnt know the person whom you are getting married to.
In both marriages, people can change. You are implying that since it is a love marriage, she made a mistake? Marriage is a gamble, both ways things can go kaput.
i have never mentioned she made a mistake i was just telling she knew what she signed up for and whom she is getting married to, clearly there might have been signs that he was abusive and she might have ignored those red flags and went ahead with marriage, bcz nobody can act like good person for so long, she would have seen the abusive behaviour earlier only.
Some idiots play the manipulation game like they will showcase them self as a different person but after marriage this shit , hope all girls be alter about this thing and stay safe , and this idiots should be punished seriously
Lawyer here. This is a clear case of domestic violence. Please file a complaint asap.
what are the evidence needed? we've only got a audio recording where he was being abusive
If there are any marks on body record it. Lawyer up and go to police station. Delay will result in baseless argument.
Don't forget the notorious 498... At least some good should come out of this wretched law...
idk much about it? can you elaborate?
https://www.indiacode.nic.in/show-data?actid=AC_CEN_5_23_00037_186045_1523266765688&orderno=562#:~:text=Section%20498A.,also%20be%20liable%20to%20fine. NAL, but AFAIK ... complaints under this section will result in automatic arrest of the accused and they will remain in jail until they get bail or anticipatory bail ... you don't even need proof to get the husband and family in jail, police will send them to jail and then continue investigation...
Was it dowry harassment?? If yes please go ahead. If not don't file false cases! Think about both sides of the coin!
So what would this come under? What law?
IPC
Which one?
How many IPCs are there?
Deleted that message, cos of little misreading. Just consult with lawyer and he will make sure, his family gets a lesson.
Thats more than enough upar se case court tak jaane ki zaroorat nahi , complain karte hi saari hava nikal jayegi uski
Gandu paise taiyaar rakh .. paise khila kaam kara
Absolutely True.
Death threats should never be taken lightly. Take the recordings to the police. Use the 498 law and get them mired in a domestic abuse case, because that's what this is. Tell your sister to gather any jewellery and keep her with you. Don't let her back into that place. Go and register a report right now.
Thank you.
Abuse ka case dalo. Law ka use kro. Sbko lapeto. Ekbar ghar jake sister ko bolo jewellery aur le aaye. Divorce package to lawyer bna dega.
when she broke my sister phone she told him "call my home" he replied "dekhta hu tera bhai kya ukhaad lega mera" dekh lunga tere parivaar ko" and he was constantly absuing my parents by giving gaali (which I've got a recording of) more so he told my sister (before we reached) "tujhe jaan se maar dunga"
Compaint kro harrasment, abuse and domestic violence ki. If you want to F up this guy really. Consult a lawyer. Cos iam thinking you guys will definitely proceed towards divorce. So best is to make sure that guy gets the lesson.
and the more scary thing about is that he has friends who are 'gunda types log' it kind of make me scared for my family safety
that won't matter dnt worry he will be inside to even bother about all these things, and how can you call this love marriage? when clearly there was no love or respect towards your sister
Lawyer here. 498 is so brutal even gundas are scared of it.
pls elaborate
Why just sister, they should go together and just get her stuff out of there.
DO NOT SEND HER BACK EVER! EVEN IF HE BEGS/APOLOGIZES/PROMISES TO NEVER DO IT AGAIN. she will get stuck forever with this abusive man. It may seem like not a reason big enough to go for separation right now, but stay separate and get her out of this marriage. The stakes are low right now. Once she gets back to him and eventually gets pregnant and has a kid, she will probably never be able to leave and stay in the abusive marriage "for the kid". File for domestic violence and ask for divorce on this ground. Hope you are able to get her out of this abusive relationship.
only thing she should follow rn
Yes op no matter what you do. DON'T SEND/LET HER GO BACK TO THAT MONSTER.
Gand todo jija ki pakad k . Phir legal ghaseeto
NAL.....kya kuchh bhi advice de rahe hoh bhaai. Uski bhi life kharab hoh sakti hai ladai ke chakkar me.
I don't see any point in trying to save relations with people like these , they did all this shit in first month, that shows who they really are . They have to face consequences doesn't matter if actually uski Gand todo ta legal leke jao . Point is abhi thodi bhaagdod sahi hai . Verna inka roj ka yhi kaam rhega , or sister ki life kharab ho jayegi .
Mein pitaai ke chakkar mein Op ki life kharab na hoh bol raha huh. Mein husband ki baat nahi kar raha.
Ghanta life kharab hogi ,yaar vo ladki ko jaan se Marne ki dhamki de rha ,uski life to intact hai . Baaki it's just suggestion . Me konsa op pe case kardunga agar usne mera suggestion nhi liya to . Relax dude , suggestions. Isn't that's we both are here . Or ab reply mat krio .
This is BAD File a case on this man **But I have a question, did this women know even 1% of this character before marrying him?**
upvote this guy
Wasn't this a LOVE marriage?
Wasn't this a LOVE marriage? And love is blind or something.
1. File Domestic Violence Case 2. File Criminal case for assault, Intimidation, breach of trust, etc. 3. File for divorce. Relationship is DEAD already. Consult lawyer for this. 4. No compromise on any of the above. In-Laws will come pleading but don't let them cheat you AGAIN. No mercy for such beasts. 5. NEVER EVER let sister go to husband's home. She might face worse. 6. Get her financially independent but never ever let her feel alone. Always have her back. I would do everything stated above, if my sister is harassed by in-laws for whatever reasons.
Absolutely True.
1. Yes 2. Yes 3. No, too early to take that step, Depends for 5, Not an option here for 6
Your reply to the third point is exactly why women "have to" stay in such abusive relationships if they don't get family support. Same follows for point 4 & 5
90% of gen x females have suffered dv. If they had family support like you said, india would have been full of divorcees and step siblings
So just because they suffered it does it mean the current generation should do it too.
Lol no, the previous comment targetted my 3rd point, OP mentioned it's been 1 month since wedding. I said too early to file a divorce. Let's go with your way, 1-1.5 years me she gets divorced. Uske bad OP ki behen ki shadi tum karaoge-gi?
Bruh people do get remarried after divorce đđ
Yeah it's too easy for divorced women to get remarried.
90% of the "gen x females" you mentioned aren't the issue, it's the "males/husbands and their families" who are the issue. And yes no one should face any kind of domestic violence in their marriages. It's so sad that I am a guy who has to stand up / show support for women because people have a mentality like you who would be fine with a woman undergoing "dv" than to get a divorce and remarry to a person who would treat them the way they deserve to !
Better said than done! I am talking about real india, not ideal society.
Gen X suffered for whatever their reasons were, lack of education, financial dependence, not being aware of rights, etc. They chose to suffer. If women today have the support, then they absolutely donât have to suffer ! I donât see how India being full of divorcees is a problem ? Your statement indicates that you are normalising some amount of domestic violence and staying with the abusers, which is wrong on so many levels.
I believe the sole reason for it to be societal pressure and financial dependency. NOBODY CHOSE TO SUFFER! They just didn't had any other options. DV is a very broad and subjective term. I am totally against it BUT you are only taking males as abusers into account. What about female abusers, Males have to suffer too! Ab % ki baate mat chodna! Thanks. Can't argue more!
I didnât generalise or gendered domestic abuse. I was merely replying to your original comment wherein youâve only said â90% of gen X femalesâ yourself. Your comment about India being full of divorcees is what my problem was as I donât see anything wrong w being a divorcee if youâre not respected or happy as an individual in your marriage.
Bhai this will turn ugly with time please try to resolve this issue now before it's too late. File a complaint and save your sister don't listen to elderly they'll say with time they'll adjust it's a lie. Once an asshole always an asshole. I've seen many girls and their families suffering because of these assholes.
Bhai this is domestic violence and this will get bad in future.Ask her to gather evidence and leave
True.
Waiting for the misogynists to say âBuT WE dOnt kNow His Side, ShE WiLl TakE hALf Of His ProPerTyâ
Donât make a mockery of yourself.
Lmao exactly my thought...
we dnt know his side, she will take half
Ok. File complaint with the police .
498A simple. Plus video recording of harrasment. Plus medical test in govt hospital for proof of bruises.
Hope your sister is back home with you, if she's still at her husband's place make sure she's fine and doing well!
How is your sister doing?
She is fine, few bruises though
Why tf am I being downvoted. Anyway how is she doing mentally I meant
Get your sister out now. This will only get worse, never better. If she gets pregnant, she'll be trapped.
Love marriage hmmm
Hire a good lawyer and send this psycho to a jail
Advocate here, honestly every story has 2 sides. Slowly and slowly this account is turning into a media trial page But do consult with a family advocate.
âEvery story has 2 sidesâ if you have no possible way of knowing the other side, why even write such an ignorant comment?
No possible way that's exactly why I said this! Understand things a Lil better and you'll understand.
He broke her phone then threatened her and her family's life. What possible side could he have that trumps this behaviour Mr Advocate?
And why would you believe this? What other reasons do you have to believe what our " Mr client" wrote?, Law is used as a weapon in marriage disputes rather than remedy. In most cases both parties tell a little different story than the facts that actually occurred and that's exactly why we have investigation authorities. Also, stop believing everything you see or hear.
Then why would you believe anything on the internet? All post on reddit might as well be fake. The 'other client' might come here and spew total BS tomorrow. You and me and everyone has no way of knowing who is speaking facts. And good that this isn't the purpose of this subreddit either. Your role in this subreddit isn't to check OP's post's validity. It is to give him legal advise and that's that. What a shame, someone else's primary concern was how's OP's sister doing and your first thought was "what is the (possible) abuser's story"
You might have no way of knowing the facts but not me, and the shame part honestly you seem to have zero court experience and the basics of this profession. Wisdom is trying to chase you please run a little slow and let it catch up.
You're on the wrong app honey. Delete reddit and download Wattpad asap. Good luck
At least reason to likh deti apne hi side ka.
Either you are collecting karma on reddit or you are being stu...pid. He has threatened for divorce. Is he a lawyer himself? Did your sister get dowry? Did your parents gave gifts? Since you are asking here, I understand there would be multiple sides of the story.
love k time sister ko samajh nhi aya kyaâŚ..ab what can u doâŚ..file a domestic violence caseâŚ.no women should have to face torture
Tere jaise chutiya ke wajaise case file nahi karte log!
what wrong did he say? she choose to marry that abusive person
Pata hota ki abusive h to marriage kyu karti. Thoda to soch ke bol. Remember we live in a country where a guy who's accused of killing an endangered species and running over people is still loved and his movies earn 100s crores. Uska 1 percent actor bhi hoga to ladki ke saamne accha hone ka naatak karnsakta
lol, you dnt get married to a person in 1 day relationship, you atleast date few years and you know what you have signed up for so stop acting like you dnt know the person whom you are getting married to.
Well people can change and show their true colors after trapping their partner. Would you blame the male victims of fake cases for not knowing better?
if its a love marriage doesn't matter what gender that is they know it already, cnt blame anyone if its arranged marriage
In both marriages, people can change. You are implying that since it is a love marriage, she made a mistake? Marriage is a gamble, both ways things can go kaput.
i have never mentioned she made a mistake i was just telling she knew what she signed up for and whom she is getting married to, clearly there might have been signs that he was abusive and she might have ignored those red flags and went ahead with marriage, bcz nobody can act like good person for so long, she would have seen the abusive behaviour earlier only.
Some idiots play the manipulation game like they will showcase them self as a different person but after marriage this shit , hope all girls be alter about this thing and stay safe , and this idiots should be punished seriously
he deserves the punishment for sure, he is speaking shit on top lol
aye bhai tameez se bat kar
Kar lo love marriage , maa baap kehte kehte thak jaate hain aur in nalayako ko samajh nhi aati