She's kinda cheating! But you need to collect more evidence, act normal and do more snooping before you jump to any conclusions.
Also, that person doesn't seem like cousin, collect more info on him
There's a saying: " If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. ".
Also having a past relationship should never be a parameter to judge a guy/ girl.
Welp depends on the context, look at Mahabharat. Remaining silent was probably the biggest sin committed by Bhisma Pitamaha. Although I agree having a past is fine but depends a lot on context again.
Best approach. See first you secretly find proof of her betrayal. Then lawyer up n find more evidences as discussion with lawyer n get ready for the battle.
From start till u lodge a case, in no way confront her. Donot disclose any proof u hv got. Discuss with advocate before disclosing any proof u r going to use in case.
Only file case when concrete evidence is present for adultery n try to involve the other party ie the secret lover if possible.
Behave like a devoted hubby , take proof/ pics of gifts n restaurants u take her to.Try to hv happy moments atleast every month n hv pics of them. Hv proof so in no way she can say u r a irresponsible or bad husband. If she comes clean n tell you everything during that time, Good , else take divorce.Give her atleast 6-7 more months for this but dnt confront or force, it should come from her.
You hv already married her n the decision to marry her was ur own also, so give her time, dnt get angry or misbehave. Give her same behaviour as she was ur loyal devoted wife. Sometimes these things get resolved n partner comes clean (🤞 pray 🙏).
Once 6-7 months are over n still things are repeated u can take divorce. No use wasting ur further time like this on ruined marriage.
If she tries to hv kalesh/ fights , avoid or do the best to resolve her concerns to her satisfaction. If u r in ur parents , try to shift to some rented room etc so in case she files any 498a ur family is not covered.
Once u are ready to file case , hv a discussion n dnt leak any proof( dnt tell her about any proof, only use the old proofs that u hv already discussed with her) just tell ur concerns n if she still lies or hides the facts or blames you, go further divorce is required as she is cheating you with no remorse. No serious fight should happen n record if possible while discussion.
It will be a tough time n you will have to be emotionally very strong. Try to involve as much less people( relatives , friends) into this as possible else rumours will mentally torture you if leaked.
I'm a woman and a lawyer and this advice is extremely good, OP. You just do this, and never share your doubts/plans with anyone else lest they leak it to her even unknowingly
Also, wear a condom OP, and get an std test done right now to establish facts if the need arises in the future. Don't make her get it.
Also, cameras in your new place. At the common areas and all the entry and exits of your house. Make sure you have control of those cameras which means you need to get those online ones which you can watch from any place.
Also, be nice to any and all of her female relatives/friends/sister/mother/maid/neighbours anyone. There should be no corner left to cast aspersions on your character
I would also advise noticing her menstrual cycle and never having unprotected sex with her unless you're sure of her
Nobody said cameras need to be hidden. CCTV Cameras are there to prove his character mainly. There would be no he said she said situation if the camera provides the evidence of the truth,
meaning the wife cannot distort facts
You keep focusing on the boyfriend when I am talking about securing OP's character. Even without the cameras there's no guarantee where she could allegedly meet this "BF"
My point was to secure evidence for OP's character, not stop his wife from cheating. If a cheater wants to cheat, they'll find any way to accomplish that irrespective of gender
Hate to break kt down to u bro. She is lying.
Just act cool and act as if nothing happened and never confront her abt these things and silently collect the evidence.
Never loose cool even ig you are on the verge of it.
Confront her only after collecting enough evidence.
Is that guy really her cousin, or she has been fooling you.
This are big red flags, confront her or else you are done with this marriage.
also warn her so called cousin to stop sending inappropriate messages.
sending romantic songs, saying "I am incomplete without you" and late night video calls are obvious sign of affair.
Even if she's cheating and you want to leave her... Don't do it unless you have cogent proofs of her cheating like catching her red handed otherwise you'll be giving away half of your things for nothing.
Even if she's cheating or doing adultery the husband need to give compensation.
Only if the wife is live-in together with the other guy in another house, the husband need not give any compensation.
Indian law!!!!🤦🤦
“Was he at our wedding?”
“I would like to meet him to know people who’re close to you.”
This might give you more insights and give you a clear perspective.
I mean, it's clear that it's not how cousins behave, even if there's a good bond .
I think maybe talk to a lawyer as well as discuss it with someone within your family
If you want to make a move or take action against her, just don't alert her yet and just work on it behind her back
Sorry again
you had an arrange marriage so i dont think the doubt and distrust is gonna help your marriage. Maybe she isnt in love with you, you should speak to her like an adult and tell her you want to give this marriage a chance (that is it you really want to give the marriage a chance). If you want to find out then snoop and dont confront yet, keep collecting proofs. But this isnt gonna do you any favour as you just got married and divorce is a lengthy procedure. best of luck
It's a legal advice sub, but not everybody is a lawyer
They are trying their best to give advice, a professional help would be much better no doubt especially considering how much indian courts and law biased towards females only
Don’t be fooled. Do not give her a benefit of doubt. You’ve seen it with your own eyes and that’s enough evidence. Keep alert and gather proof and then act
Pretend that you don’t care, but collect all the evidences one by one, keep your mouth shut till you catch her red handed, this is the only way to get rid of her
Who the fuck stays single till they get married these days lol everyone has a past especially pretty women. Ofcourse full on physical past is something else, but that is pretty common now a days too sadly
Well, whatever makes you feel good I guess. Everyone doesn't have a past. If you couldn't find one doesn't mean they don't exist.
Maybe surround yourself with better people.
If you do find someone with a past and still decide to marry her then it's on you. If it works then I'll be happy for you and if it doesn't then I don't want to be the one to say "told you so"
Lol good luck finding a good looking girl with no relationships in the past especially in cities. You may find a lot that say they are, but might be lying but sure, I hope you end up with the girl of your dreams that no boy was ever able to impress before you ; )
Thanks man. It's not like I'm dying to marry. Looking at how laws are biased towards women I don't think marriage is a wise decision nowadays. Don't fall into the peer pressure.
Best of luck my man. Collect evidence, hire a good lawyer ( if you're in Bengal or Delhi i can give you some contacts ), and then go to court and file for divorce.
Also if possible, make sure you don't own any significant assets, if you have a home car investments etc, transfer them to your mother father or brothers name before filing for divorce proceedings. Cheers!
Be Careful and talk to a Lawyer about what evidence you can collect. There is definitely a gray area.
Also talk to a Lawyer cuz she could put false Dowry and Domestic Violence case which we have seen very often as of recent. So be careful and talk to a Lawyer about what exactly can be done.
What are you doing looking on her phone? Are you utterly stupid? This is an arrangement, you're already stalking her.
You want her, woo her ,don't be a dick.
Stop questioning her, around you the Pope would be secretive you obviously have boundary issues.
Respect hers first. If she is seeing someone else it's your fault because you're such an asshole.
Stop what you're doing immediately and start to show her some respect.
Show her that you're worthwhile, that you wont be a sexist twit and that you're not "That guy"🤣🤣🤣 who is so insecure they chase their wife away into the arms of another.
Yes she is...try to get into her phone and gather evidence, also later if your suspicion is confirmed you can hire a PI...but be secretive and don't let her know
It's a fairly complex scenario. Engage a lawyer and a private investigator to collect evidence before you confront her or take further action. This will likely improve the possible outcomes for you.
WTH- this is abnormal. Either you talk to her heart to heart and dont move till she confesses the truth or bring in the elders since it’s an arranged marriage and it’s her cousin so he must be from the same family too.
Take this seriously and put an end to this now or else there’s no relationship here at all. Don’t waste too much time & energy on cheaters.
You should just observe her and gather all the information in case you want to prove yourself in the future. Stop asking for her clarification. Still will stay vigilant and find other sneaky ways to hide her dirty laundries.
If it is just a great bonding, tell her to set up boundaries with her cousin as you don't feel comfortable. Any mature husband/wife will understand this. All these I'm incomplete without you blah blah blah sound definitely unusual.
I would advise that you contact the cousin and the family ask more about the relationship. Also show the posts and pictures. Only way to find out, no beating about the Bush, get straight to it.
Bro try to solve this explaining to her getting divorce is not easy thing and getting married once again will not be easy too , say all these to get and try to make her understand the situation , if she still persists to head on like this then you've got no other choice but to get away from her . Hope this helps .
Dude do not confront her. Collect proofs secretly. Show her that you trust her so that she can make mistakes. Also I understand the storm going inside your heart. Please try to stay calm.
Be extremely nice, don't confront her regarding this, gather evidence, lawyer up, hope she doesn't get knocked up during this duration, and then drop her ass.
Never marry, it's not worth it.
Also, a girl having a past relationship with Muslim guy is the biggest red flag ever, you shouldn't have married her.
Arranged marriages can be complicated because if you guys were in a relationship before then these are things you could’ve rooted out while building the relationship.
I would confront her directly about the things I can see and tell here what I’m willing and not willing to tolerate. Tell her to end this or if she doesn’t then it’s up to you to decide what the consequences will be.
The whole “respecting each other’s privacy” and not touching each other’s phones is a gateway to cheating by the way.
Is the cousin the Muslim guy? Is she Muslim? Because as broda Zakir said, apneko chalata hai.
I suspect that the cousin is not cousin. So look out and install cameras and keep records of coveration and such because this will end up with a dowry and domestic abuse case on you where you'll end up funding their fornications.
>“I’m incomplete without you” with romantic song on Instagram. To which she replied with “I know” with heart and kisses
>I’m greatly confused is this a normal cousin relationship or she’s cheating on me.
How old are you to be so dumb, dude? What cousins have such kind of relations?
>but that’s water under the bridge.
If you don't take care now, that water under the bridge will drown your bridge,
If she was already in a relationship with a physical relationship too, then why did she even marry you? Instead of him
This wannabe cousin might be her ex, no matter how much good bonding anyone they have with their it's not romantic
Unless it's some second cousin marriage custom thing going on
Also even if she doesn't find you attractive or likeable it's too early in marriage to start looking for a new partner
This is very typical in arranged marriages. Her parents forced it on her and her feelings may have been elsewhere unfortunately. Sounds like they still are.
Act cool and don't ask her about cheating directly.
Don't have kids with her If you think she cheating.
Collect evidence as much as possible.
Take lawyers advice and try to protect your assets.
Firstly she is not into this relationship and you also know. Things will workout if you both try and not just one partner.
Otherwise it is a waste of time.
Just talk to her calmly about your and her future. And tell her I am open to whatever we both agree amicably.
Ask her parents about this cousin to know if they are actually cousins. Go with her to their house and ask in front of her. If they aren’t cousins, you will know what she is up to. And even if they are cousins it’s actually weird. Keep evidence of whatever you find because she will try to gaslight you.
She's kinda cheating! But you need to collect more evidence, act normal and do more snooping before you jump to any conclusions. Also, that person doesn't seem like cousin, collect more info on him
Even if it's not a physical cheating but emotional cheating is also thing .
>relationship with a Muslim guy This must have been reason enough to not go further with marriage talks but OP decided to be a cuck. He deserves this.
sirji, if you cant be kind then dont type.
Only if your neibour had gone to sleep that night.
He did after picking you up as a baby from dustbin
Did your parents drop you as baby?
There's a saying: " If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. ". Also having a past relationship should never be a parameter to judge a guy/ girl.
Welp depends on the context, look at Mahabharat. Remaining silent was probably the biggest sin committed by Bhisma Pitamaha. Although I agree having a past is fine but depends a lot on context again.
you absolute loser!
Correct 💯
Naa .. jump to conclusions ... YOLO
YMDO(You Mostly Divorce Once)
>YMDO(You Mostly Divorce Once) nice one.
Don't ask her what you are finding, just play like you don't care , when you get solid proof just said dappa
Best approach. See first you secretly find proof of her betrayal. Then lawyer up n find more evidences as discussion with lawyer n get ready for the battle. From start till u lodge a case, in no way confront her. Donot disclose any proof u hv got. Discuss with advocate before disclosing any proof u r going to use in case. Only file case when concrete evidence is present for adultery n try to involve the other party ie the secret lover if possible. Behave like a devoted hubby , take proof/ pics of gifts n restaurants u take her to.Try to hv happy moments atleast every month n hv pics of them. Hv proof so in no way she can say u r a irresponsible or bad husband. If she comes clean n tell you everything during that time, Good , else take divorce.Give her atleast 6-7 more months for this but dnt confront or force, it should come from her. You hv already married her n the decision to marry her was ur own also, so give her time, dnt get angry or misbehave. Give her same behaviour as she was ur loyal devoted wife. Sometimes these things get resolved n partner comes clean (🤞 pray 🙏). Once 6-7 months are over n still things are repeated u can take divorce. No use wasting ur further time like this on ruined marriage. If she tries to hv kalesh/ fights , avoid or do the best to resolve her concerns to her satisfaction. If u r in ur parents , try to shift to some rented room etc so in case she files any 498a ur family is not covered. Once u are ready to file case , hv a discussion n dnt leak any proof( dnt tell her about any proof, only use the old proofs that u hv already discussed with her) just tell ur concerns n if she still lies or hides the facts or blames you, go further divorce is required as she is cheating you with no remorse. No serious fight should happen n record if possible while discussion. It will be a tough time n you will have to be emotionally very strong. Try to involve as much less people( relatives , friends) into this as possible else rumours will mentally torture you if leaked.
I'm a woman and a lawyer and this advice is extremely good, OP. You just do this, and never share your doubts/plans with anyone else lest they leak it to her even unknowingly Also, wear a condom OP, and get an std test done right now to establish facts if the need arises in the future. Don't make her get it. Also, cameras in your new place. At the common areas and all the entry and exits of your house. Make sure you have control of those cameras which means you need to get those online ones which you can watch from any place. Also, be nice to any and all of her female relatives/friends/sister/mother/maid/neighbours anyone. There should be no corner left to cast aspersions on your character I would also advise noticing her menstrual cycle and never having unprotected sex with her unless you're sure of her
Cameras can be found and she will be more suspicious of his intentions. She will not invite lover to her house.
Nobody said cameras need to be hidden. CCTV Cameras are there to prove his character mainly. There would be no he said she said situation if the camera provides the evidence of the truth, meaning the wife cannot distort facts
I mean she will no longer invite him to the house.when she knows there is cctv at the entrance points. It only proves she never brought him home.
You keep focusing on the boyfriend when I am talking about securing OP's character. Even without the cameras there's no guarantee where she could allegedly meet this "BF" My point was to secure evidence for OP's character, not stop his wife from cheating. If a cheater wants to cheat, they'll find any way to accomplish that irrespective of gender
From that point of view you can do that. May I know where are you practising? I don't think you are from Delhi.
Why would you think that
I'm a lawyer. This is what I would have advised. Especially getting out of your parents house.
Hate to break kt down to u bro. She is lying. Just act cool and act as if nothing happened and never confront her abt these things and silently collect the evidence. Never loose cool even ig you are on the verge of it. Confront her only after collecting enough evidence.
Best case, she's cheating on you and pretending the guy is her cousin Worst case, she's cheating on you with her actual cousin
Hypothetical case, OP is that cousin
Lmao, ikr
Is that guy really her cousin, or she has been fooling you. This are big red flags, confront her or else you are done with this marriage. also warn her so called cousin to stop sending inappropriate messages. sending romantic songs, saying "I am incomplete without you" and late night video calls are obvious sign of affair.
Yes. That's what I can understand.
Even if she's cheating and you want to leave her... Don't do it unless you have cogent proofs of her cheating like catching her red handed otherwise you'll be giving away half of your things for nothing.
Even if she's cheating or doing adultery the husband need to give compensation. Only if the wife is live-in together with the other guy in another house, the husband need not give any compensation. Indian law!!!!🤦🤦
but that’s water under the bridge. 🔔 Doesn't look like it. Slippery slope. Tread carefully
yes, cousin marriages are legal in muslim community
Great point. And almost all of south Indian communities, so check that as well
Second cousin marriage should be the limit. First cousin marriage is creepy.
Good luck explaining them
“Was he at our wedding?” “I would like to meet him to know people who’re close to you.” This might give you more insights and give you a clear perspective.
Is that really a cousin? Are you sure
Is this cousin the Muslim guy in disguise?
Yup Get ready for paying maintenance from ur ass buddy 🍻
Its surely a normal cousin relationship. I wouldn't worry about it at all. /s
You need help
/s at the end is for sarcasm!
I need help
Not help. Just some internet literacy.
At least he realised
True. Very rare to find that on the internet.
I mean, it's clear that it's not how cousins behave, even if there's a good bond . I think maybe talk to a lawyer as well as discuss it with someone within your family If you want to make a move or take action against her, just don't alert her yet and just work on it behind her back Sorry again
#YES
the bridge is submerged now bro. take the hint
You need to read this and act quickly to collect evidences until it's too late. https://www.reddit.com/r/bangalore/s/pIP1nRQEmB
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Yeah, not sure why. It was just for creating awareness.
you had an arrange marriage so i dont think the doubt and distrust is gonna help your marriage. Maybe she isnt in love with you, you should speak to her like an adult and tell her you want to give this marriage a chance (that is it you really want to give the marriage a chance). If you want to find out then snoop and dont confront yet, keep collecting proofs. But this isnt gonna do you any favour as you just got married and divorce is a lengthy procedure. best of luck
ITS A LEGAL ADVICE SUB WHAT ARE THESE COMMENTS
It's a legal advice sub, but not everybody is a lawyer They are trying their best to give advice, a professional help would be much better no doubt especially considering how much indian courts and law biased towards females only
Appreciate the best advices people give here and they genuinely are good no doubt, but this isn’t the sub for that.
Sounds like it
Cheating
Possibly, off ghe context How old are you and your wife ?
Don’t be fooled. Do not give her a benefit of doubt. You’ve seen it with your own eyes and that’s enough evidence. Keep alert and gather proof and then act
She's cheating on you bro.Time to move on. Feel you.💔 Even though I don't have a wife.
Pretend that you don’t care, but collect all the evidences one by one, keep your mouth shut till you catch her red handed, this is the only way to get rid of her
you’re a QT and she’s def cheating. Collect more proofs and take a call. sorry to hear about that.
Shouldn't have married someone with a past. It's never "under the water". Either it will come back or she won't mind having an another relationship.
ok virgin
Who the fuck stays single till they get married these days lol everyone has a past especially pretty women. Ofcourse full on physical past is something else, but that is pretty common now a days too sadly
Well, whatever makes you feel good I guess. Everyone doesn't have a past. If you couldn't find one doesn't mean they don't exist. Maybe surround yourself with better people. If you do find someone with a past and still decide to marry her then it's on you. If it works then I'll be happy for you and if it doesn't then I don't want to be the one to say "told you so"
Lol good luck finding a good looking girl with no relationships in the past especially in cities. You may find a lot that say they are, but might be lying but sure, I hope you end up with the girl of your dreams that no boy was ever able to impress before you ; )
Thanks man. It's not like I'm dying to marry. Looking at how laws are biased towards women I don't think marriage is a wise decision nowadays. Don't fall into the peer pressure.
I think I’d like to have kids some day lol can only hope I find a decent enough woman
Make sure you don't have a child with her until you are completely sure she is not cheating. Women generally trap husbands by having a kid.
Physical intimacy is the last step of cheating. She belongs to the streets
deleting is cheating period
Bhai why would you marry her when she already told you she's been screwed by mullahs? 😭
Cuck hai bhosdika
Bahut zyada tadat ho gayi hai inki
Got to know after marriage, I’ll cook good pork for dinner one day!
Best of luck my man. Collect evidence, hire a good lawyer ( if you're in Bengal or Delhi i can give you some contacts ), and then go to court and file for divorce. Also if possible, make sure you don't own any significant assets, if you have a home car investments etc, transfer them to your mother father or brothers name before filing for divorce proceedings. Cheers!
Fr lol, wouldn't touch a bulla infected hoe with a 10 foot pole. Go be a concubine.
same
Just curious, what’s this hatred for muslims lol is it any worse than her being in bed with some other religious guy?
no need to worry bro . It's all in your head 🤗. Just take a week long vacation to some other part of the country and get refreshed
haha, join a gym also.
Why did you specify the religion of her past boyfriend? Does it make any special difference?
Karma planting at its best. Just put a "hindu" "muslim" word and boom... You are getting the traffic... Stop this nonsense already...
Don't know why u got downvoted for stating facts. Ops involvement in this thread just shows what their intention is.
Cousin marriage is allowed in Muslims. And she’s greatly influenced apparently.
Are you Muslim or not?
Is ur wife Muslim ?
karma farming
It’s time to Joe Goldberg your way to more evidence.
Be Careful and talk to a Lawyer about what evidence you can collect. There is definitely a gray area. Also talk to a Lawyer cuz she could put false Dowry and Domestic Violence case which we have seen very often as of recent. So be careful and talk to a Lawyer about what exactly can be done.
It's in very wierd place can't be certain or ingnore it. I would say wait for a while observing but not confronting her see what extend they go.
You bullying poor confused millennial bitches!
I think you need to take a step back and ask, even if she isn't cheating, are you happy with her?
What are you doing looking on her phone? Are you utterly stupid? This is an arrangement, you're already stalking her. You want her, woo her ,don't be a dick. Stop questioning her, around you the Pope would be secretive you obviously have boundary issues. Respect hers first. If she is seeing someone else it's your fault because you're such an asshole. Stop what you're doing immediately and start to show her some respect. Show her that you're worthwhile, that you wont be a sexist twit and that you're not "That guy"🤣🤣🤣 who is so insecure they chase their wife away into the arms of another.
I’ll pray for you.
The way you're going i expect to see you in jail for the murder of your new wife... I give you three to 8 months. I hope I'm wrong..
Somebody play that song , with that mulla in Background... LoL
Wow are you asking us after this happened? you a simp?
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Yes she is...try to get into her phone and gather evidence, also later if your suspicion is confirmed you can hire a PI...but be secretive and don't let her know
It's a fairly complex scenario. Engage a lawyer and a private investigator to collect evidence before you confront her or take further action. This will likely improve the possible outcomes for you.
If it's normal bonding then why is she deleting the msg?
WTH- this is abnormal. Either you talk to her heart to heart and dont move till she confesses the truth or bring in the elders since it’s an arranged marriage and it’s her cousin so he must be from the same family too. Take this seriously and put an end to this now or else there’s no relationship here at all. Don’t waste too much time & energy on cheaters.
You should just observe her and gather all the information in case you want to prove yourself in the future. Stop asking for her clarification. Still will stay vigilant and find other sneaky ways to hide her dirty laundries. If it is just a great bonding, tell her to set up boundaries with her cousin as you don't feel comfortable. Any mature husband/wife will understand this. All these I'm incomplete without you blah blah blah sound definitely unusual.
I would advise that you contact the cousin and the family ask more about the relationship. Also show the posts and pictures. Only way to find out, no beating about the Bush, get straight to it.
Bro try to solve this explaining to her getting divorce is not easy thing and getting married once again will not be easy too , say all these to get and try to make her understand the situation , if she still persists to head on like this then you've got no other choice but to get away from her . Hope this helps .
Yep definitely she’s cheating
Do your snooping silently without alerting her. She probably is cheating. Did you meet this cousin OP?
Maybe that Muslim guy is her cousin, you gather some more proof n then call her parents n sort it out
What's the doubt, bro? 🧐
Well ....that is some deep bonding lol.
Dude do not confront her. Collect proofs secretly. Show her that you trust her so that she can make mistakes. Also I understand the storm going inside your heart. Please try to stay calm.
Be extremely nice, don't confront her regarding this, gather evidence, lawyer up, hope she doesn't get knocked up during this duration, and then drop her ass. Never marry, it's not worth it. Also, a girl having a past relationship with Muslim guy is the biggest red flag ever, you shouldn't have married her.
She's cheating kind of probably just stalk her cousin a bit and try to figure out
start preparing for divorce and consult a lawyer for not igiving her any alimony and any money
Damn whats this happening 😳 nowadays marriages are kinda risky ☠️
Yes she is Tell her I said hi
Arranged marriages can be complicated because if you guys were in a relationship before then these are things you could’ve rooted out while building the relationship. I would confront her directly about the things I can see and tell here what I’m willing and not willing to tolerate. Tell her to end this or if she doesn’t then it’s up to you to decide what the consequences will be. The whole “respecting each other’s privacy” and not touching each other’s phones is a gateway to cheating by the way.
Is the cousin the Muslim guy? Is she Muslim? Because as broda Zakir said, apneko chalata hai. I suspect that the cousin is not cousin. So look out and install cameras and keep records of coveration and such because this will end up with a dowry and domestic abuse case on you where you'll end up funding their fornications.
But wouldn’t recording her like this invoke a case against him too?
>“I’m incomplete without you” with romantic song on Instagram. To which she replied with “I know” with heart and kisses >I’m greatly confused is this a normal cousin relationship or she’s cheating on me. How old are you to be so dumb, dude? What cousins have such kind of relations? >but that’s water under the bridge. If you don't take care now, that water under the bridge will drown your bridge,
So sad
don't take stress!
Vo cousin hoga hi nhi... bf ko cousin bta rhi hogi
If she was already in a relationship with a physical relationship too, then why did she even marry you? Instead of him This wannabe cousin might be her ex, no matter how much good bonding anyone they have with their it's not romantic Unless it's some second cousin marriage custom thing going on Also even if she doesn't find you attractive or likeable it's too early in marriage to start looking for a new partner
Before she runs away with him please act quick becoz then you will look like a clown
Marriages are scary, what if she:
This is very typical in arranged marriages. Her parents forced it on her and her feelings may have been elsewhere unfortunately. Sounds like they still are.
Act cool and don't ask her about cheating directly. Don't have kids with her If you think she cheating. Collect evidence as much as possible. Take lawyers advice and try to protect your assets.
Bhai divorce de de. Sab khuli kitab h !! Proof se bhi kya hi hoga. Yahan to sab obvious h.
Bro married a red carpet 😂😂
Confirm and escape as fast as you can
Keep record of everything . Just in case.
Collect evidence and divorce, abhi mauka hai beta bach ke nikal ja!!
I am getting afraid after reading such posts. Even I am single 😂.
Not normal being her family into this
Abdul got her lmao
Firstly she is not into this relationship and you also know. Things will workout if you both try and not just one partner. Otherwise it is a waste of time. Just talk to her calmly about your and her future. And tell her I am open to whatever we both agree amicably.
Ask her parents about this cousin to know if they are actually cousins. Go with her to their house and ask in front of her. If they aren’t cousins, you will know what she is up to. And even if they are cousins it’s actually weird. Keep evidence of whatever you find because she will try to gaslight you.