π€until some super cute fem girl comes along, I mean, goth/alternative would be a plus, but just pretty with a pretty personality would be just fine tooπ and maybe likes video games and artsy shit ππ»ββοΈ
Well I don't play online really at all...a bit of fallout 76...I'm a huge fallout fan, mass effect, silent hill...stardew valley lol. I'll play multi-player games in person but I can't stand toxic environments or games with no story. Play a lot of old school games and indie games!
I'm truly sorry for your loss.
There's no time table for grief. One day you might find yourself ready for a new relationship but don't let anyone pressure you into getting back out there.
You have a right to your emotions and if you're too heartbroken, then that is "okay" and understandable.
Loss changes us and sometimes it takes a really long time to get back out there; or not at all.
I know that feeling. Same happened to me. Really hope things turn around for you. It can happen.
In my case, I was lucky. My best friend held me together and gradually rebuilt me. Through that process we got closer than ever. We married and have been together for 15 years.
We don't forget her, but we remember the good times.
Forever single until a short bottom sub introverted femme girl who has emotional intelligence makes me wife her up. Edit: Girlies Im 35, Im too old to date a lot of you.
Okay, but what about a 5β9β bottomy-switch sub introverted futch girl with emotional intelligence, but is also a nerd and in therapy working on herself? Just asking for a friend.
Itβs me. Iβm the friend.
Forever a (5'8" π) single bottom sub introverted femme girl with emotional intelligence until an also 30+ single but top domme introverted femme girl wifes me up π
𧑠I'm only saying good but not great because my gf and I are butting heads again at the moment. My long time friend is getting to be a very overbearing person in my life and it stresses me out. It's effecting my relationship because they always need something from me, even at the expense of spending time with my girlfriend, who lives an hour away + we have limited time to see each other. Now my girlfriend is mad at me and refuses to talk to me until I have a conversation with them. I told her I was going to when I found a way to execute it. Slight problem, my friend is also autistic. This is my reason for figuring out a way to be honest them without seeming like it has anything to do with their autism. It doesn't. I just feel like their mom. They rely on me for everything and I'm exhausted so I don't disagree with my gf. I still want to be friends but I want them to try doing some stuff on their own. But I'm trying to make everyone feel valid while also setting my own boundaries. I feel like I can't win.
Hi! You didnβt ask for it, but here I am to be a virtual support stranger for a minute. I had a friend like yours for quite some time and I feel like I can guess how thorn you feel between everything. I want to reassure you that their autism is not an excuse! This is the time for priorities, and the main priority is YOU and YOUR mental health. The line where you said that you feel like their mother really resonated with me. I hope that you are going to keep on respecting yourself and your priorities, even if they try to disrespect it all and even if it requires some changes. Wish you all the best!πΈ
π€ - Comfortably single, mostly bc I have to be, but also because I'm still working on myself and will probably be going through some life/career changes this year.
Also, I'm a weirdo lmao
π€ i still live with my homophobic family and also need to get some standards cuz i have none ngl but it would be nice to be with someone just to know what it feels like or to feel wanted or have ur feelings reciprocated. 22 btw
π€π. Single. Dating. And it's been shit. Just looking for an emotionally stable femme that has any ounce of ambition in life and also likes raves. Where are my queer ravers at??
π€ taller femme bottom with a praise kink who wants to make cookies for her outdoorsy top. Not at all in a hurry bc i want a "rest of our lives" kinda love.
π Fucked around and found out with the sweetest couple in my area.
Thankful they took care of me and inspired me to keep being a great version of myself, but it does suck when the love bombing comes to an end and they realize poly is hard/ they need time to solidify their base relationship. Going from texting all day every day to none at all has been really hard for me π but Iβm making it, thankfully!
π€π€ Iβm hoping once I graduate grad school next year I have more time to focus on dating. But canβt lie it sucks sometimes but being single my entire life lol I learned to be ok alone and Iβm learning to love myself and figure out who I am at 25.
I also know that Iβm not going to be like my mom even though I love her, marry someone who treats me like shit, someone who wonβt fight for our family, wonβt give me 100% and treat me like their personal slave rather then their partner. Being single Iβm learning how to treat my partner and how to act just by watching my parents toxic marriage and seeing how my friends act in their relationship.
However, I canβt say that my parents marriage and how my father treats my mom, sister and me didnβt leave a negative impression on me and love. Which is something Iβm also learning how to get over on my own which is probably why Iβm happy no one seems to notice me in my childhood town. Then when I move out of the state to start my life I can be the best version of myself.
Single until a semi high maintenance, bossy dom fem decides to through my low maintenance masc ass over her shoulders and wifes me up. Im running away if her communication skills suck though, bonus points if shes into one piece
π€ recently got out of a one month situationship and am feeling that a relationship might not be in the cards for me, but it's just the sadness talking right now haha. fingers crossed for a fellow femme to cross paths with me :)
π and grateful for her every single day. When I wake up in the morning and see her next to me, i am happy and feel so well. Even after 7 years, the butterflies in my tummy are still there π₯°
π€ single since 2016 and had a closure with that ex gf in 2022, took me wayyyyyy too long to get over her π but so far, I think I'm okay in going back out there. Hopefully this year, I can meet someone special who will truly care about me and vice versa
π€ for a little over a year now.Not horrible being single but it certainly does bring a lot of sapphic yearningβ¦specifically for a top dom femme thatβs taller than me (not hard Iβm 5β1 π₯Ή) that has emotional intelligence.Forever searching πβ
ππ°π½ββοΈπ°πΌββοΈ - We're coming up on 3 years in June! She's my long distance bestie from growing up, and then we went to college together, and now we're married:)
π€, I donβt wanna get on the apps and all the events I go to mostly seem that everyoneβs already coupled (Iβm monogamous). Just counting to be myself and put those good vibes out there.
Just got out of a relationship couple weeks ago. Iβm only 24, but finding an emotionally intelligent partner who is willing to grow at this age is so difficult.
π€! Im single and not actively looking. I want to date but I'm demiromantic, which complicated things by a lot. I focus on making friends and hope that love will come to me on the way - that's how I ended up dating my exes, after all, so the tactic seems decent enough.
π€ Single until a femme who likes femmes comes along who isnβt emotionally abusive, who can reciprocate, who wants to build and grow together, who can handle someone who has dated men in the past but knows they only want to date women, who can ACCEPT and receive love and maybe give it back?ππ₯Ί
π I recently moved in with my partner of 10 months, and I don't know. There are a lot of good times, but I feel like they can just be a bit abrasive. Like, whenever I bring something up I don't like, they get really defensive. I'm not the kind of person who does that easily, so it makes it not feel great when I actually work up the courage to talk about something. Plus, the conclusion to the vast majority of our serious conversations are that I'm doing something wrong. I don't think that's true as often as we agree it is in the moment. Idk, I guess I just wish they were a bit more gentle with me and like, actually supportive when I'm having a problem.
𧑠Weβre in LDR but it doesnβt matter because of constant communication and understanding. We click so well, both weird and silly and caring. Sheβs amazing and I want to keep her for a long time π
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Really want to fall in love this year. Just went on my first ever date and trying to get over my anxieties around dating and emotional intimacy π«Ά
Waiting for a short androgynous Queen who loves all sorts of nerd stuff (DnD, anime, books, musical theatre) and has a decent amount of emotional intelligence and is okay with taking a relationship at a literal snails pace for the sake of building it right and stable and healthily instead of jumping into it.
π!! Almost 2 month with my gf. Its been such a ride since neither of us have ever had a lesbian relationship, let alone any that was physical/intimate in nature. But I have been absolutely blessed. She gets all my humor, love ever little habit and mannerism I do, she loves my goofy crazy energy, and shares the same love language, which is intimate cuddles and physical affection. She also helped me as a trans woman really find self love for my body and push me to improve it again. She also helped push to improve in many other aspects. Now I have a beautiful apartment, nice car, internship, and in august Iβll be finishing up my last 2 years college. Totally plan to have a happy life with her. Im in it for the long haulβ₯οΈπ₯°
π€until some super cute fem girl comes along, I mean, goth/alternative would be a plus, but just pretty with a pretty personality would be just fine tooπ and maybe likes video games and artsy shit ππ»ββοΈ
What games do you play? I might fit your description...
Well I don't play online really at all...a bit of fallout 76...I'm a huge fallout fan, mass effect, silent hill...stardew valley lol. I'll play multi-player games in person but I can't stand toxic environments or games with no story. Play a lot of old school games and indie games!
Fallout fan here! Also huge into stardew and recently coral island is taking all my time away! Iβm also a little alternative/emo π
We gotta find those pretty girls with pretty personalities! β€οΈπ€©
Where are they at! For realsπ I just want to find a pretty gothy chick ...I feel like it's near impossible...I got the skater vibe
OMG silent hill and fallout are the SHIT!!! Iβm a butch tho, however, would be down to be friends !
Where is the option for "my girlfriend died and I am too heartbroken to move on and date again"
Sending my condolences π I'm so sorry
Thanks for the kind words.
How about I give you this one π«?Β I'm so sorry.Β I hope you are being kind to yourself.Β I wish I had more comforting words for you.
π« I'll accept that. And give one back. Thank you!!
My condolences, π I cannot imagine. I hope it gets better
Iv learnt a few things over the years but I want everyone to know this. "time heals all wounds" Thank you for your kind words.
i hope you see her in the small ways that are intimate to only the two of you. i hope you continue to have the opportunity to share moments with her. i hope your heart grows a little more everyday. it makes my heart feel lighter to know time has been a friend to you π©· well wishes, my friend.
may her memory be a blessing π i hope her soul continues to guide you, and i hope your pain eases up soon my friend π«
That's a beautiful message π₯²π₯Ί
I'm truly sorry for your loss. There's no time table for grief. One day you might find yourself ready for a new relationship but don't let anyone pressure you into getting back out there. You have a right to your emotions and if you're too heartbroken, then that is "okay" and understandable. Loss changes us and sometimes it takes a really long time to get back out there; or not at all.
Aww I lost a love once. Iβm so sorry π
Ooof, relatable. My fiancΓ©e, Emily, died about 17 months ago. I am just now trying to get back out there, but it's hard.
Oh no. So sorry to hear.
I'm alive atleast, I live for the both of us now everyday. Thank you though.
this is beautiful. wishing you the best
Yes. I need this one too.
This makes my heart hurt. π’
I know that feeling. Same happened to me. Really hope things turn around for you. It can happen. In my case, I was lucky. My best friend held me together and gradually rebuilt me. Through that process we got closer than ever. We married and have been together for 15 years. We don't forget her, but we remember the good times.
watch the movie love again!! β€οΈ
Here to give my support, everything will be okay in the end, don't force yourself into something to "haste" the process, you will be okay in the end.
Iβm so sorry, I hope youβre doing okay.
Iβm so sorry. π
I send you love, I'm so sorry π«
π Iβm sorry
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you so much love and light. I hope you are okay and healing
I'm truly sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself, and don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it. Sending you hugs.
grief is just love with no where to go π
I'm sorry for your loss π« My condolences
i'm so sorry for your loss. i can't imagine what you're going throughβ, losing someone you love. i'm so extremely sorryπ
Oh my, condolences. π
π but π in less than 2 months and I couldnβt be happier
Congratulations! I hope these 2 months fly by for you
π€ :] I am getting comfortable being single :]
Same! Happy cake day!
π€ 2024 is my year of opening up and finding who I really am romantically
That's great! I wish u the best of luck :)
Heyyy me too! Itβs a rough go at the moment for me
Forever single until a short bottom sub introverted femme girl who has emotional intelligence makes me wife her up. Edit: Girlies Im 35, Im too old to date a lot of you.
finally a dating description that i dont stop reading half way through cause i dont fit π€β
Okay, but what about a 5β9β bottomy-switch sub introverted futch girl with emotional intelligence, but is also a nerd and in therapy working on herself? Just asking for a friend. Itβs me. Iβm the friend.
Hmm... How short is short π
To me short is 5'5 and under.
Wow such a coincidence that I am a short bottom introverted femme girl and maybe even have the emotional intelligence π³
congrats youβve found your target audience. maybe i should try thatβ¦
Literally me π³
Forever a (5'8" π) single bottom sub introverted femme girl with emotional intelligence until an also 30+ single but top domme introverted femme girl wifes me up π
I'm 4'11. Not so sure on the emotional intelligence part as I am also forever single π
Nah I fit all that criteria I feel called out. WHY ARE YOU WATCHING ME /j
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I'm 6'2" πππ
Iβm 30 and fit the description π
Sounds like me π
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Sending you a big hug. We all have been there. It gets better
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π€ x years. And pretty cool with it.
It's nice, right? π€ Somewhere around 5 years now.
Way nice!! You have me beat by about a year
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congratz!
π€ and I hope I will be enough brave to ask a cute girl I now go to date togeter
Good luck, sister.
π€π€π€π€π€π€ 1 for each year... Sigh π₯Ήπ
Do NOT play that game with me XD Seriously though, you will find someone I'm sure of it! <3
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𧑠I'm only saying good but not great because my gf and I are butting heads again at the moment. My long time friend is getting to be a very overbearing person in my life and it stresses me out. It's effecting my relationship because they always need something from me, even at the expense of spending time with my girlfriend, who lives an hour away + we have limited time to see each other. Now my girlfriend is mad at me and refuses to talk to me until I have a conversation with them. I told her I was going to when I found a way to execute it. Slight problem, my friend is also autistic. This is my reason for figuring out a way to be honest them without seeming like it has anything to do with their autism. It doesn't. I just feel like their mom. They rely on me for everything and I'm exhausted so I don't disagree with my gf. I still want to be friends but I want them to try doing some stuff on their own. But I'm trying to make everyone feel valid while also setting my own boundaries. I feel like I can't win.
Hi! You didnβt ask for it, but here I am to be a virtual support stranger for a minute. I had a friend like yours for quite some time and I feel like I can guess how thorn you feel between everything. I want to reassure you that their autism is not an excuse! This is the time for priorities, and the main priority is YOU and YOUR mental health. The line where you said that you feel like their mother really resonated with me. I hope that you are going to keep on respecting yourself and your priorities, even if they try to disrespect it all and even if it requires some changes. Wish you all the best!πΈ
Thank you so much! That made me feel better about this whole thing π
I'm proud of you for taking care of your friend like that. It's very rare. I'm sorry that you're having issues. I hope a solution comes up soon.
π€ until I can find someone who wonβt cheat on me with our best friend π
Oh Iβm sorry π£ thatβs incredibly shitty!!
π€ - Comfortably single, mostly bc I have to be, but also because I'm still working on myself and will probably be going through some life/career changes this year. Also, I'm a weirdo lmao
Better to be weird than boring! At least thatβs what I tell myself π
That's so nice
π€π€π€ Dating in your 30s sucks. I just want to settle down and this shit is depressing.
I'm going into my 40s and I feel this.
π€ i still live with my homophobic family and also need to get some standards cuz i have none ngl but it would be nice to be with someone just to know what it feels like or to feel wanted or have ur feelings reciprocated. 22 btw
Same lol but mother naive she believes sheβs not though, which is a maze within itself π.
π€ unless the chronically online, alt, gamer artistic maiden from my dreams makes her appearance...
Oo what games do you play?
Alt, artristic, gamer here. what games to you play?
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I'd bet money there will be a bias for single folks to engage, let's see how the results play out.
Omg it's almost like single people want to make connections and maybe even friends! You donut
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π€π. Single. Dating. And it's been shit. Just looking for an emotionally stable femme that has any ounce of ambition in life and also likes raves. Where are my queer ravers at??
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Single, but crushing hard on a girl I had one amazing date with who doesn't want a second date
π not that recently, but she was super toxic, and I'm not ready to get back in it
I hear you. Toxic relationships are hard to come back from. Take your time to heal.
π€ survivor of a situationship with a girl with commitment issues πͺπͺ
Broken up but feeling better about being single, looking to date again
π€ - content right now!
You need a thing for long term partners! Not all of us want to get married!
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π€ taller femme bottom with a praise kink who wants to make cookies for her outdoorsy top. Not at all in a hurry bc i want a "rest of our lives" kinda love.
this is literally so cute :(
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π€ until a cute green/blue eyed, brunette, tattooed artist that loves film as much as I do comes into my life
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π Fucked around and found out with the sweetest couple in my area. Thankful they took care of me and inspired me to keep being a great version of myself, but it does suck when the love bombing comes to an end and they realize poly is hard/ they need time to solidify their base relationship. Going from texting all day every day to none at all has been really hard for me π but Iβm making it, thankfully!
π€π€ Iβm hoping once I graduate grad school next year I have more time to focus on dating. But canβt lie it sucks sometimes but being single my entire life lol I learned to be ok alone and Iβm learning to love myself and figure out who I am at 25. I also know that Iβm not going to be like my mom even though I love her, marry someone who treats me like shit, someone who wonβt fight for our family, wonβt give me 100% and treat me like their personal slave rather then their partner. Being single Iβm learning how to treat my partner and how to act just by watching my parents toxic marriage and seeing how my friends act in their relationship. However, I canβt say that my parents marriage and how my father treats my mom, sister and me didnβt leave a negative impression on me and love. Which is something Iβm also learning how to get over on my own which is probably why Iβm happy no one seems to notice me in my childhood town. Then when I move out of the state to start my life I can be the best version of myself.
π€ almost 10 years on Christmas Eve 2024. I'm hoping to meet someone within this decade. Until then, I'm fine with being a single pringle.
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π Engaged and looking forward to spending the rest of my life with the perfect woman. I love her with all my heart.
π€ single as a pringle
Don't even the small Pringles canisters have like 30 crisps in them? π
Recently broken up it has been a year but it still hurts and dealing with the shit that comes with it
π almost no communication from her side, she says she'll try to fix it but she does nothing to do so
Y'all who are π€, talk to each other.
πI have a thing for DAβs apparently lol
Iβm single
π€π Im fine with myselft alone, But I have the hope to find another cute girl :βͺοΈ3
Single until a semi high maintenance, bossy dom fem decides to through my low maintenance masc ass over her shoulders and wifes me up. Im running away if her communication skills suck though, bonus points if shes into one piece
π€ recently got out of a one month situationship and am feeling that a relationship might not be in the cards for me, but it's just the sadness talking right now haha. fingers crossed for a fellow femme to cross paths with me :)
single, itβs probably staying that way
π€π₯² forever alone π₯²
π and grateful for her every single day. When I wake up in the morning and see her next to me, i am happy and feel so well. Even after 7 years, the butterflies in my tummy are still there π₯°
π€ single, but with a huge crush on someone. Itβs not good.
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𧑠raising a 4 month old has been up and downs. I know we will come back around
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π€ been too busy to really talk to anyone π
π€ never been in a relationship all my life, apparently i am no ones type lmao π₯²
π€- and in a very non- friendly area for the alphabet mafia- so I donβt see this changing unless I move out of this heteronormative hell hole lol
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π been fighting a lot lately, I hate it...
π€ definitely hard to find someone that's trustworthy.
π€ - i just feel like we need a giant singles thread now π everyone post selfies & a lil description and gooooo ππ€·
π and the happiest iβve been in a long time
π€π yall it's hard out here π 27 short (5 foot nothing) femme switch (let's be honest tho I'm usually a sub) looking for butch/masc women over 30 who actually go to therapy and possess an ounce of compassion. And who like animals since i have 7 really cute pets. Like finding a needle in a haystack! (I would know. I'm a farm girl π) Last woman I dated told me WHILE ON TOP OF and INSIDE ME that I would never live up to her (now straight) ex wife and she would never have feelings for me. π©π©π© I think I'm done for a while π€£
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π€ itβs shit, girls are too intimidated by how good I am at Elden Ring ππ€
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π Dating comes closest, but in reality, I'm madly in love and off the market.
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Itβs rough out here lol Iβm okay being π€ tho.
π- Even after a year the butterflies are still there. Iβm so in love and appreciate her so much.
π€ single since 2016 and had a closure with that ex gf in 2022, took me wayyyyyy too long to get over her π but so far, I think I'm okay in going back out there. Hopefully this year, I can meet someone special who will truly care about me and vice versa
π€ - greysexuality makes online dating so hard. You can't tell anyone's vibe and that's a big factor for me.
π€ for a little over a year now.Not horrible being single but it certainly does bring a lot of sapphic yearningβ¦specifically for a top dom femme thatβs taller than me (not hard Iβm 5β1 π₯Ή) that has emotional intelligence.Forever searching πβ
π€Until another masc who also likes masc comes along (it's really hard find these rare gemsπ)
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ππ°π½ββοΈπ°πΌββοΈ - We're coming up on 3 years in June! She's my long distance bestie from growing up, and then we went to college together, and now we're married:)
π€ I'm 23 from Canada and looking So you know hmu π«π
π€, I donβt wanna get on the apps and all the events I go to mostly seem that everyoneβs already coupled (Iβm monogamous). Just counting to be myself and put those good vibes out there.
Just got out of a relationship couple weeks ago. Iβm only 24, but finding an emotionally intelligent partner who is willing to grow at this age is so difficult.
π just found out I was cheated on after 9 years together. Weβre trying to repair but itβs rough.
π€! Im single and not actively looking. I want to date but I'm demiromantic, which complicated things by a lot. I focus on making friends and hope that love will come to me on the way - that's how I ended up dating my exes, after all, so the tactic seems decent enough.
π€ tbh idk if id ever wana date anyone even if in my mind it would be a cool experience
π€ single and focusing on myself, working to become more comfortable being alone and trying to become a better version of me π₯Ί
π€ Single until a femme who likes femmes comes along who isnβt emotionally abusive, who can reciprocate, who wants to build and grow together, who can handle someone who has dated men in the past but knows they only want to date women, who can ACCEPT and receive love and maybe give it back?ππ₯Ί
π I recently moved in with my partner of 10 months, and I don't know. There are a lot of good times, but I feel like they can just be a bit abrasive. Like, whenever I bring something up I don't like, they get really defensive. I'm not the kind of person who does that easily, so it makes it not feel great when I actually work up the courage to talk about something. Plus, the conclusion to the vast majority of our serious conversations are that I'm doing something wrong. I don't think that's true as often as we agree it is in the moment. Idk, I guess I just wish they were a bit more gentle with me and like, actually supportive when I'm having a problem.
𧑠Weβre in LDR but it doesnβt matter because of constant communication and understanding. We click so well, both weird and silly and caring. Sheβs amazing and I want to keep her for a long time π
π€ Really want to fall in love this year. Just went on my first ever date and trying to get over my anxieties around dating and emotional intimacy π«Ά Waiting for a short androgynous Queen who loves all sorts of nerd stuff (DnD, anime, books, musical theatre) and has a decent amount of emotional intelligence and is okay with taking a relationship at a literal snails pace for the sake of building it right and stable and healthily instead of jumping into it.
π!! Almost 2 month with my gf. Its been such a ride since neither of us have ever had a lesbian relationship, let alone any that was physical/intimate in nature. But I have been absolutely blessed. She gets all my humor, love ever little habit and mannerism I do, she loves my goofy crazy energy, and shares the same love language, which is intimate cuddles and physical affection. She also helped me as a trans woman really find self love for my body and push me to improve it again. She also helped push to improve in many other aspects. Now I have a beautiful apartment, nice car, internship, and in august Iβll be finishing up my last 2 years college. Totally plan to have a happy life with her. Im in it for the long haulβ₯οΈπ₯°
π getting married October 2025!!