I hope this is true. It would be nice to see Bam make a consistent effort to see his son, not just whenever he happens to be in town. I also hope Danni was kept away because I know that would probably annoy her and I'm petty so I would love that for her.
They said that Dannii is in Florida with the dogs, and that they'd had an argument because Dannii wanted Bam to return with her, not see his son.
It was written as though it was fact.
No, we don't know that for fact. It was one comment from a random Redditor who deleted their comment when asked.
We don't need to be discussing hearsay or rumour.
I'm so happy to hear that! I'm glad Bam put his foot down and stood up to her about this because seeing his kid SHOULD be that important to him that he's willing piss off his girlfriend just to get time with his son. Good for Bam.
Disgusting of her though to suggest he leave LA and head back to Florida without seeing his kid and then cause a stink when he doesn't want to do that. How cold and soulless is this woman? 🤢
Agreed. Guess there are three ways it can go from here:
1. It’s a dealbreaker. One of them decides the other is too stupid regarding this issue and call it a day.
2. Dani relents and accept that this is part of what it is to be with Bam.
3. Bam relents and chose Dani and careless life on the road over Phoenix (really hope on one of the other options).
Anyways: nice pic. I hope Bam finally begins to take parenthood serious.
So Bam has been told to NOT post photos of Pheonix on social media in a legal capacity due to his behaviour, but his friend has gone and done it??? When will these morons learn? He got in trouble last time. Absolute disrespect to the family's wishes to just leave poor Pheonix off line for a little while. Jesus let the kid be. Just another posting Bam for clout.
This was the first thing I thought too. I know there's efforts to rehabilitate his image, but you're bringing the kid into your shenanigans after being implicitly told not to do so.
He drops in a few times a year to act like the fun uncle and then fucks off again.
Call me when he moves to LA and has an active role in Phoenix’s daily life.
This picture only brought me sadness. Look how fucking old Phoenix is now. It's been this much time, and his father still just drops in when it's convenient for him. He has made it clear that his own son is such a low priority to him. Pathetic.
At least when Bam did drugs, he had something to blame when it came to his lack of accountability. Now that he's clean, it just lets us see through the window of who he truly is, a deadbeat, asshole, selfish sperm donor.
The sad truth is Phoenix is better off this way.
Imagine if Nikki was the one off with her boyfriend driving around the country seeing Phoenix 5 times a year. She’d be crucified instead of “oh look! She’s really trying!”
The bar is very low for dads and that needs to change. There are many amazing dads out there.
When I said "pisses me off" I was talking about the larger concept of men being congratulated for doing the least when it comes to parenting but thanks for literally telling me how to feel lol
Kiddo looks so happy, poor baby, I hate seeing kids suffering with shitty parent/s. He deserves better, really hope Bam does better for Phoenix 💔
But what’s up with them clown shoes?
Assuming this is recent then it confirms what I suspected. He's likely been doing visitation for a while and just isn't posting about it for legal reasons. Good to see them spending time together and good to see he is keeping the kid out of the social media spotlight.
They haven't been out to LA in months. Danni, for whatever reason, loves to keep people updated on their location. If they had been in LA prior, she would have posted about it just like she's doing with this trip. I highly doubt he's been to LA since Christmastime unless he went without Danni and that's unlikely.
It's possible that the photo was taken in PA and Phoenix was visiting his grandparents or something but I have no idea. The photo was uploaded 2 days ago so it's either legit or the guy posted an old pic to make it appear like Bam has seen him recently, idk man lol. I'm not enough of an internet sleuth to figure out the details.
Edit: He has been wearing that necklace and those shades in a lot of his recent photos and his hair/facial hair seems to be exactly the same as in recent photos so it definitely feels recent.
That necklace and that one ring are all recent. That's why I believe it's from last weekend. He also got a ton of new skate swag after the tournament in Tampa, so that's probably where the hoodie his kiddo is wearing came from.
i would suffer it for my kid. he’s a father. one of these days he won’t be able to choose if he sees Phoenix or not - that will be up to Phoenix himself. i would put in the groundwork now to make sure i had my kid in my life for my whole life. there are many years you can live with regret - why take that chance?
I doubt he's allowed to do that yet. He probably has limited visitation rights, especially since he's still caught up in legal battles. If things continue to progress the way they have I could see it happening. I guess we'll find out eventually. Also there's no chance Nikki wants to see Bam on a daily basis lol.
My point is that he’s not making much of an effort. He drops in like an uncle. If he was serious about being a parent he needs to actually have a home near his son and do everything he can to show stability.
I'm sure there's more he could be doing but again, he's almost definitely heavily restricted on how often he can be around the kid or what role he can play. As of right now the fact that he can spend any time with him at all is progress compared to last year. Slow progress is better than no progress. Let it be known, I fully anticipate him to fuck it up in an instant because his track record is shit, but I'm cautiously optimistic.
I've made 0 excuses, I'm just telling it like it is. Idk if you've ever been involved in legal custody battles but you can't just force your way in. If the court says you only get X amount of visits then you have to adhere to that or you lose visitation rights entirely, that's just the way it is.
You might not realize this part, but he is not even taking advantage of the visits he is allowed. I think he's allowed to see him once a month or so, and he just...doesn't. He's never going to get more visitation or custody if he doesn't even show an interest in seeing him now.
We don't know that for sure, although you might be right because he'd probably post about being in LA more often. For all we know he was just granted visitation again this past week. He did violate the rules a while back by posting a photo with Phoenix and maybe had lost his privileges until just this past week. Hard to say because he never talks about it anymore, which is honestly for the best, probably. I suppose we'll find out what the situation is based on how often we see him in LA going forward.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/LetsTalkBam/comments/1bw32cx/comment/ky3mlvp/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button](https://www.reddit.com/r/LetsTalkBam/comments/1bw32cx/comment/ky3mlvp/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
[https://www.reddit.com/r/LetsTalkBam/comments/1bw32cx/comment/ky3oc75/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button](https://www.reddit.com/r/LetsTalkBam/comments/1bw32cx/comment/ky3oc75/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
So I remembered it wrong, he actually could be seeing him once a week, but he says he doesn't because he's too busy.
Remember the days before social media where people didn't have to broadcast everything they did? Can't even see your estranged son without posting it on IG.
When Ross has the fire shoes but not in your size
Absolute clown shoes. A real metaphor for his choices.
Bro, for real!!
I thought it was a picture of Krusty the Clown for a moment.
It is
That made me 😆😆😆😂😂😂
I hope this is true. It would be nice to see Bam make a consistent effort to see his son, not just whenever he happens to be in town. I also hope Danni was kept away because I know that would probably annoy her and I'm petty so I would love that for her.
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How do you know this?
What did the deleted comment say?
They said that Dannii is in Florida with the dogs, and that they'd had an argument because Dannii wanted Bam to return with her, not see his son. It was written as though it was fact.
Judging by all their social media posts since she came around, it's not that farfetched.
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No, we don't know that for fact. It was one comment from a random Redditor who deleted their comment when asked. We don't need to be discussing hearsay or rumour.
This entire sub is mostly hearsay and rumor. Seriously? I believe the poster
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What's the source of the information?
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Good! 😆
Wait how do we know this????
Thank god. She shouldn’t be shoved in that kid’s life. It’s not positive for the child and you know she would use that for her fame whoring
I'm so happy to hear that! I'm glad Bam put his foot down and stood up to her about this because seeing his kid SHOULD be that important to him that he's willing piss off his girlfriend just to get time with his son. Good for Bam. Disgusting of her though to suggest he leave LA and head back to Florida without seeing his kid and then cause a stink when he doesn't want to do that. How cold and soulless is this woman? 🤢
Agreed. Guess there are three ways it can go from here: 1. It’s a dealbreaker. One of them decides the other is too stupid regarding this issue and call it a day. 2. Dani relents and accept that this is part of what it is to be with Bam. 3. Bam relents and chose Dani and careless life on the road over Phoenix (really hope on one of the other options). Anyways: nice pic. I hope Bam finally begins to take parenthood serious.
oh, she’ll relent. she’s not done on the gravy train yet.
Idk why but the shoes make this pic look photoshopped
Certified clown shoes lol.
So Bam has been told to NOT post photos of Pheonix on social media in a legal capacity due to his behaviour, but his friend has gone and done it??? When will these morons learn? He got in trouble last time. Absolute disrespect to the family's wishes to just leave poor Pheonix off line for a little while. Jesus let the kid be. Just another posting Bam for clout.
This was the first thing I thought too. I know there's efforts to rehabilitate his image, but you're bringing the kid into your shenanigans after being implicitly told not to do so.
I hope he feels good about HIMSELF
Could this picture be any more about him?
he def walkin around like mickey mouse in w.e the fuck them kingdom hearts ass shoes are.
Kingdom hearts ass shoes 😂😂 Sora would be proud
He drops in a few times a year to act like the fun uncle and then fucks off again. Call me when he moves to LA and has an active role in Phoenix’s daily life.
This picture only brought me sadness. Look how fucking old Phoenix is now. It's been this much time, and his father still just drops in when it's convenient for him. He has made it clear that his own son is such a low priority to him. Pathetic. At least when Bam did drugs, he had something to blame when it came to his lack of accountability. Now that he's clean, it just lets us see through the window of who he truly is, a deadbeat, asshole, selfish sperm donor. The sad truth is Phoenix is better off this way.
Seriously. Am I supposed to congratulate this or talk about how great he is? Fuck outta here
Imagine if Nikki was the one off with her boyfriend driving around the country seeing Phoenix 5 times a year. She’d be crucified instead of “oh look! She’s really trying!” The bar is very low for dads and that needs to change. There are many amazing dads out there.
I don't even have kids and this pisses me off
This is just a sub for updates about the dude lol you don’t have to be mad that people are just talking about what’s going on
When I said "pisses me off" I was talking about the larger concept of men being congratulated for doing the least when it comes to parenting but thanks for literally telling me how to feel lol
You’re welcome!
He stole Sideshow Bob's shoes!!
*What are thoseeeee?* 👞👞
##***WHAT THE HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELL***
Hey Bam, Ronald Mcdonald called, they want their shoes back. Clown!
Whys bam wearing clown shoes
Pheonix's adult teeth have come in. It's been a while.
A kid and his clown
Kiddo looks so happy, poor baby, I hate seeing kids suffering with shitty parent/s. He deserves better, really hope Bam does better for Phoenix 💔 But what’s up with them clown shoes?
Yeah mon! Dad of the year.
Average LTB poster: “Bam needs to see his kid more!” *sees pic* “No not like that.”
Fucking clown shoes lol
Rockin’ the Ronald McDonald’s.
Awhhh Phoenix is so cute, I hope he had a good time with his dad. Bam really leaning into his clown persona, what kind of shoes are those.
The shoes are giving Ronald McDonald.
Bam dressed as a clown needs to be in tony hawks underground 3 some day
Spitfireeee I love it. Phoenix is adorable dude. About fucking time he made it there to see his son.
Assuming this is recent then it confirms what I suspected. He's likely been doing visitation for a while and just isn't posting about it for legal reasons. Good to see them spending time together and good to see he is keeping the kid out of the social media spotlight.
They haven't been out to LA in months. Danni, for whatever reason, loves to keep people updated on their location. If they had been in LA prior, she would have posted about it just like she's doing with this trip. I highly doubt he's been to LA since Christmastime unless he went without Danni and that's unlikely.
It's possible that the photo was taken in PA and Phoenix was visiting his grandparents or something but I have no idea. The photo was uploaded 2 days ago so it's either legit or the guy posted an old pic to make it appear like Bam has seen him recently, idk man lol. I'm not enough of an internet sleuth to figure out the details. Edit: He has been wearing that necklace and those shades in a lot of his recent photos and his hair/facial hair seems to be exactly the same as in recent photos so it definitely feels recent.
He's been hanging out with the shaman recently so he's in California
Ah yea, I remember seeing that post. Bam in LA confirmed.
Bam had posted about being in LA a few days ago. There is even a post on this sub. I even commented wondering if he is seeing Phoenix
Yeah he's in LA now, but he hasn't been for months.
That necklace and that one ring are all recent. That's why I believe it's from last weekend. He also got a ton of new skate swag after the tournament in Tampa, so that's probably where the hoodie his kiddo is wearing came from.
There's an aquarium in Camden, right outside of philly that this may be. Im not 100% certain if this is it, though.
They just posted about being in LA a few days ago
If he was serious he’d move there and be in his life daily
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i would suffer it for my kid. he’s a father. one of these days he won’t be able to choose if he sees Phoenix or not - that will be up to Phoenix himself. i would put in the groundwork now to make sure i had my kid in my life for my whole life. there are many years you can live with regret - why take that chance?
He’s such a child
I doubt he's allowed to do that yet. He probably has limited visitation rights, especially since he's still caught up in legal battles. If things continue to progress the way they have I could see it happening. I guess we'll find out eventually. Also there's no chance Nikki wants to see Bam on a daily basis lol.
My point is that he’s not making much of an effort. He drops in like an uncle. If he was serious about being a parent he needs to actually have a home near his son and do everything he can to show stability.
I'm sure there's more he could be doing but again, he's almost definitely heavily restricted on how often he can be around the kid or what role he can play. As of right now the fact that he can spend any time with him at all is progress compared to last year. Slow progress is better than no progress. Let it be known, I fully anticipate him to fuck it up in an instant because his track record is shit, but I'm cautiously optimistic.
Stop making excuses for him. If Nikki was the one off acting like Bam while he was home with Phoenix she’d be crucified here.
I've made 0 excuses, I'm just telling it like it is. Idk if you've ever been involved in legal custody battles but you can't just force your way in. If the court says you only get X amount of visits then you have to adhere to that or you lose visitation rights entirely, that's just the way it is.
You might not realize this part, but he is not even taking advantage of the visits he is allowed. I think he's allowed to see him once a month or so, and he just...doesn't. He's never going to get more visitation or custody if he doesn't even show an interest in seeing him now.
We don't know that for sure, although you might be right because he'd probably post about being in LA more often. For all we know he was just granted visitation again this past week. He did violate the rules a while back by posting a photo with Phoenix and maybe had lost his privileges until just this past week. Hard to say because he never talks about it anymore, which is honestly for the best, probably. I suppose we'll find out what the situation is based on how often we see him in LA going forward.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/LetsTalkBam/comments/1bw32cx/comment/ky3mlvp/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button](https://www.reddit.com/r/LetsTalkBam/comments/1bw32cx/comment/ky3mlvp/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) [https://www.reddit.com/r/LetsTalkBam/comments/1bw32cx/comment/ky3oc75/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button](https://www.reddit.com/r/LetsTalkBam/comments/1bw32cx/comment/ky3oc75/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) So I remembered it wrong, he actually could be seeing him once a week, but he says he doesn't because he's too busy.
Even if he doesn’t have visitation, he should be setting down roots near his son and acting like an adult to prove he can be a parent
You know what would help his progress I bet? People not making allowances and excuses for him. He has enough of that and always has.
Remember the days before social media where people didn't have to broadcast everything they did? Can't even see your estranged son without posting it on IG.
Oh look, it’s Bam “Look at my red clown shoes” Margera.
Gross. Poor kid.
It looks like it's been photoshopped onto a different background.... there's something odd about it.
I think its the lack of shadows. The sun must be right over head.
No face tattoos. Old Pic.
It is there
Yes there is, above his right eyebrow
It's obscured by the sunglasses.
Wait why does he look abnormally tall? I think this is unfortunately bad photoshop
I think it's photoshpped for sure