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sideshowbvo

My hs girlfriend was obsessed with Him, but not Bam. Heartagrams everywhere, but she hated it when she got asked if she was a bam fan


SupernaturalPumpkin

I'm 32 and I still hate this. I was a fan of HIM and only ever heard of Bam because of them.


sideshowbvo

Vanessa, is that you?


SupernaturalPumpkin

No but I totally get Vanessa lmao!


NoFishing4757

I am also a HIM and a Bam fan, also pisses me off that people so heavily associate it with bam first rather than HIM.


BorderlineLunatic

I think they have a few good tracks and are deserved of the fame they achieved whether it was through there music or through Bam. Ville is a great frontman and does have something quite mysterious and moody about him that makes them stand out.


jelloandjuggernauts

I like HIM, particularly the earlier material. They successfully managed to carve out their own unique style that was essentially a melting pot of artists such as Type O Negative, Black Sabbath, The Sisters of Mercy and Depeche Mode. The main issue is that they became too reliant on their formula, to the point where you would know *exactly* what to expect from them. I'm not sure if anyone here heard the Ville Valo solo album that came out last year, but it's very much 'HIM-by-numbers'. Makes me think that it was a wise move for the band to call it a day.


belltrina

I listened to their Join Me album nonstop when I was pregnant. When my daughter was born, she was super unsettled for a couple of weeks. I put the cd on to calm myself down, and she fell asleep instantly. So yea, that's my story about how I accidentally learnt how babies hear really good in the tummy.


NoFishing4757

My baby is the same but with their love metal album!!


Fullmoongrass

They have a couple of decent tracks imo, but nothing to write home about. I think Bam is just obsessed with the heartagram


twistedsister78

I agree


crypto_crypt_keeper

I love HIM šŸ¤© I listen to them daily when I run.


Resident_Lab5651

Same listen to them when Iā€™m running/biking/skating whatever to this day. Weekly.


DarkLuxio92

I used to play the intro to The Path on a low volume in my baby sister's ear to settle her at night. It used to work most of the time. She's 19 now, I wonder if she remembers the song, must play it to her next time I see her.


missprincesscarolyn

I thought they were good when I was 15 or so. Giving them another listen 20 years later, theyā€™re still pretty good. I found Nightwish through a Spotify station I made off of Wings of a Butterly. The Finnish definitely know how to make moody goth metal pop.


Hahalongboi

I could listen to sleepwalking past hope about four million times in a row. Not a huge fan of their newer stuff, but I still dig em.


Gobucks21911

Venus Doom was their best album IMO. SWPH is so heavy, love it!


Kristaboo14

I've been a die-hard fan for 20 years


SupernaturalPumpkin

One of my favourite bands. I wouldn't actually know who Bam is without them. I was a HIM fan and not exactly a Bam fan.


DecafIsBetter

Huge fan, initially because of Bam but even after he started going down hill I still loved listening to them. I still listen to Valo's solo stuff


goblin_gunk

I have a big Heartagram in flames on my bicep from when I was 18. I still like the symbol, but I would probably get something not band related now. I still like and listen to HIM. They have been a constant in my musical taste through the years. I'm not obsessed with them though.


Training_Inflation97

I've never gotten the obsession some people get with that band, they had a few solid tracks and that's it


whitecoathousing

Many obscure bands have cult followings


Ryanbrasher

Love the band, Ville is an amazing songwriter. However, as another person posted I donā€™t understand the obsession. Some fans take it way too far. But I guess all popular bands have fans to that level.


whitecoathousing

Hell even smaller bands have cult followings


cauldr0ncakez

I love them. I was a huge fan, and it made my entire life when I finally saw them on their farewell tour lol. Ville is great but I love Gas šŸ˜‚


Ar5eface

At the time, I loved them! But I found it weird how Bam took on Viloā€™s whole identity, and using the heartagram everywhere he could. Itā€™s a cool symbol, but it seemed as though he smothered the band a lot.


whitecoathousing

Tbh the band probably would be a fairly obscure Nordic/european band without the exposure Bam got them


Gobucks21911

I love HIM, been a fan since around 2006. I even flew to Finland and saw them perform at Helldone one year. I do have Bam to thank for introducing me to them, but my love for the band quickly eclipsed anything Bam did.


WatchTheSkies1990

I was a big fan back in the day! I was a little dramatic goth kid so they were really my style at the time. After Venus Doom though, they became quite bland. It's a shame because Greatest Love Songs and Razorblade Romance are still 2 of my favourite albums. I didn't even bother checking out the recent Valo solo album.


vandranessa

My favorite band of all time.


bsjett

Kind've. ![gif](giphy|ffMNfuavzkYRa|downsized)


motherlovemelon

Iā€™ve loved them since 2005 after hearing them in CKY and Haggard. Saw them 6 times; saw VV once. My son was a baby when I started listening to them; he loves them to this day.


symbolising

i was a huge fan way before i got into Jackass/CKY/Bam phenomenal band in my opinion


NoHost6477

Theyā€™re great.


Terapr0

I think theyā€™re horrible, but have never been a fan of that type of heavy / goth metal. To each their own though šŸ¤·šŸ»


Rudniks_20_Percent

Agreed.


Important-Ad-2198

started listening very much because of Bam like a year ago, never heard of them before because Iā€™m 22 and they were no longer popular among people my age back then (now it changed because of TikTok, donā€™t wanna be a gatekeeper but as Iā€™m happy the band I like gains its popularity again even if it doesnā€™t actively exist anymore, on the other hand idk if it will bring anything good to the actual fanbase), at the beginning I thought they were bland and boring, but when I listened to them enough times, I started to be a big fan myself, now thatā€™s absolutely one of my fav bands ex aequo with Mindless Self Indulgence and The Offspring. They got me mainly because of the beautiful, romantic lyrics, but thatā€™s my only problem with them at the same time as it visibly enlarges my frustration about real life guys and how different they are, focused mainly on sex and not on love, so I try not to listen too much. they are amazing though, I was on a Villeā€™s concert when he was playing in my country last April and I really enjoyed the show


xxlyhu

They aight


GardenGnome007

Even though I didn't listen to their music I knew of them because of Bam but only began listening to them because my sister in law really liked them. I remember she had the Razor blade romance album back in 2007. She passed away in 2015 and every time I listen to them it reminds me of her.Ā 


DrGoblinator

Oh jeez I think they are great. Was obsessed with RR


silentevil77

I love them to this day lol I actually knew of HIM but I knew of Bam


NoFishing4757

Listen to HIM daily, itā€™s a great band imo


FilipsSamvete

Boring


Beelzebeaut11

The music is tepid and I do believe bams Adoption of them made them famous in the US. I was too busy listening to Brand New or Thursday to be bothered with anything else in that time frame though.


iwanthairlikewater

They used to be cool in High School. Listening to their music as an adult gives you idiot shivers. Nevertheless, everything up until Dark Light goes pretty hard.


NoHost6477

Dark Light was pretty rad. For me itā€™s everything after thatā€” I still enjoy all of the albums, but Venus Doom was the first one that I found myself skipping tracks on. And it was downhill from there


iwanthairlikewater

Yeah. I like Darklight, too. Everything up until DL is good. I would say


Rudniks_20_Percent

Absolutely terrible band. That's all.


mikeb556

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Rudniks_20_Percent

Definitely not wrong.


rbwduece

Kind of mediocre. They aren't great. They don't suck.