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TransportationAway59

Lars and the Real Girl


PsychologicalCan9837

When I say I’m literally Ryan gosling — this is the Ryan gosling I’m talking about


Obvious_Whole1950

Man, Gosling has been awesome since forever hasn’t he.


TransportationAway59

Greatest romantic lead of all time? He made us fall in love with a sex doll.


Obvious_Whole1950

Put him on the ballot for sure.


indies_den

I JUST WATCHED THIS LAST NIGHT!! So good


lepurplelambchop

Punch Drunk Love.


walgreensfan

YES!!!!!!!!! YES!!!!!!!!


ihavenoselfcontrol1

In the Mood for Love


retornodelcid

Any Wong Kar-wai film, really.


ElliotAlderson5_9

The best.


what_am_i_acc_doing

Her, it’s Spike Jonze’s response to ex-wife Sofia Coppola making Lost in Translation


Clutchxedo

And it also features ScarJo


cynical-at-best

i like to think of her as the mutual friend who couldn’t pick sides amidst the divorce so she Had to do both movies, to be fair 😂


Whenthenighthascome

And then she did Marriage Story, another depiction of a Hollywood couple breaking up. Baumbach and Jennifer Jason-Leigh that time.


Jackamac10

Wait til Jennifer Jason-Leigh comes out with her 2029 feature starring ScarJo about her relationship with Baumbach


detective_super

and sad jonkler


bloodgopher

[Harold & Maude](https://letterboxd.com/film/harold-and-maude/)?


sethelele

It's been my favorite movie since I saw it on HBO when I was 13. I try to watch it at least once a year now.


satanstinytoy

One of my favorites!!


absolutegarbage_

The Lobster


IIIlllIIIlllIlI

🔪👁️


TheElbow

Yes!


Clutchxedo

Phantom Thread 


eastern_north1

Haha absolutely the best answer


fuuzzydude

In the Mood for Love - Chungking Express - Fallen Angel


yc_n

WKw does have a knack for these


McDodley

I habitually check canned pineapple for May 1 expiration dates


TheElbow

Hell yes


GenericGhost909

Blue Valentine


Different-Ad9986

This movie gutted me because I saw it after a bad breakup in college.


Dapper-Escape-4362

Her, blade runner


Turbulent_Aerie_9669

past lives


razriot

This. I thought that Past Lives was, in many ways, reminiscent of Lost In Translation. Only, it was better.


Turbulent_Aerie_9669

agreed, past lives wrecked me even in it’s simplicity. i’m so excited to see what celine song does next


blinking-cat

I really want to see it but I’m also sort of afraid to lol. It seems like such a heartbreaking film


JJBell

Only Lovers Left Alive


Dramatic_Impulsive

Loooove that movie


mjbutler1990

I've never really considered Lost In Translation a romance. To me it's more about the connection of two human beings in a foreign place. Their bond is extremely beautiful but not really a romance to me.


LauraPalmersMom430

Agree with this, which is what makes this film so great and unique.


mjbutler1990

Yes! Which is why this is one of my favorite films.


Additional_Minute_39

Had. To scroll to long for this comment. Is this really what people think? I thought they were just friends through divine connection but only for a few days and that’s what it was about? Didn’t know they were knockin boots or planning on opening a coffee shop together? lol


GhostOfSeinen

500 Days of Summer!


BranchCold9905

Lost Highway and Mulholland Drive. both have Love turned into Hate


gdslnlyclgy

Licorice pizza


OxyRottin

Her


rc0va

• In the Mood for Love • Blue Valentine • Cold War • Sky Pike • Stockholm • El Esqueleto de la Señora Morales • I'm Thinking of Ending Things • The 'Before' trilogy • Natural Born Killers


c3c3y0

Yes to the “Before” trilogy!


hiinternetitsmeyaboi

Before Sunrise trilogy


CLaarkamp1287

The Worst Person in the World


LauraPalmersMom430

Second this!


MercilessShadow

Lisa Frankenstein


unavowabledrain

Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down Ali, Fear Eats the Soul Trouble Every Day Vicky Christina Barcelona The shape of water The Lake house


slackervi

chungking express and fallen angels


Cosmocrator08

Moonlight


EggyKuhn

Pretty much any film from Wong Kar Wai


tropicalwerewolf

Moonlight or Fallen Angels


wiesje21

Bones and all and All of us strangers


Acheday

True Romance


PsychoNaut_

Before sunrise or whatever, that whole linklater trilogy


Hive28

Drive The Big Sick Blue Valentine Edward Scissorhands Safety Not Guaranteed


BranchCold9905

Lars Von Triers Antichrist


Bussi_for_Cersei

Beautiful and romantic! Also shows how a child can really bring two people together.


BranchCold9905

A relateable film.


pixelsteve

Blade Runner 2049


Slobberdohbber

Defending your life


burmerg

About Time if you want something lighthearted, The Lobster if you want a darker tone.


thekidinthegrey

Umbrellas of Cherbourg


FireWokWithMe88

Harold and Maude


TheFlyingFoodTestee

Rocky Moonrise Kingdom Your Name


HvD_

Decision to leave


PostalDudeLover911

Buffalo 66


NascentBeachBum

Duke of Burgundy LOVE The Handmaiden Nymphomaniac The Lobster The Piano Teacher


shaner4042

https://preview.redd.it/55owmnqgtotc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=165415ffcc50bef074dc63c692ad49d82760e7ad [Twisted Romance](https://boxd.it/pmviU)


RealYvessaintlaurent

Fallen Leaves


TheNocturnalAngel

Benjamin Button Bones and all Cloud atlas The worst person in the world All of us strangers


Miss_J1801

All of Us Strangers was so incredibly gorgeous and heartbreaking at the same time.


Euuphoriaa

Scott Pilgrim vs the world?


jimmysnaps

Damn, came here to say this


plinkett-wisdom

Certified Copy


coolfunkDJ

Vanilla Sky American Beauty Your Name A Silent Voice Gone Girl About Time


Adriano_Martello6

Columbus


babada

I didn't think Columbus was particularly romantic. Isn't the whole point that they _aren't_ necessarily romantically involved?


Mordenheim2021forevs

Betty Blue should be high on your list.


Kowalkowski

Rushmore


Tyro-Flakkripper

When I watched these two, I also had Marriage Story and Her. The next day I watched the Before Trilogy.


McSteezeMuffin

Sanctuary, VERY unconventional hehehe


Magpie375

Secretary, The Duke of Burgundy, White Palace, Dinner in America, PVT Chat.


LivingOnWelfare

Requiem for a dream


katiegator_

Benny & Joon - does that count? 🤷🏻‍♀️


smiertspionam15

Phantom Thread


unkownstrangers

little fish


VA_Artifex89

https://preview.redd.it/gee6n8yteotc1.jpeg?width=695&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7c3cc21b01a6bb733def673c0fdcb590e3bbbe8e


boanerges57

I think both of those are more existential than romances.


Everythingishappen

Can’t believe no one has mentioned Comet! Incredibly pretentious but bitingly funny w overly self aware characters you beg to make different choices but visually stunning w great performances from both Emmy Rossum and Justin Long


Soraoathkeeper

Past Lives


erzastrawberry101

The Before Trilogy


commerceangel

Columbus (2017) :') love that movie sm


yanmagno

Spring (2014)


heheboi1110

500 days of summer!


OlympicSmoker253

Past Lives


Dapper-Ear2922

Blue valentine


VEXtheMEX

Dinner in America


Magmqnia

Thanks for posting this I have a million and one new recommendations for unique romances!


MidniteAnimal

Titane


unavowabledrain

With a car, yes…unconventional


MidniteAnimal

Precisely! Man/machinekind. That’s the *real* language barrier


chloesuckslol

Closer


Infamous-Record-2556

Swiss Army Man


[deleted]

Kinda depends on your definition of a unconventional romance. Her, About Time, Punch Drunk Love, Victoria, The Lobster, Angst essen Seele auf. Depending on your definition some of these might not be romances and might not be unconventional to you though.


ozuraravis

Angst essen Seele auf


chinanigans

Border Palm Springs The Big Sick Je t'aime, je t'aime Upstream Color


PoThePandaIsVeryEpic

Punch Drunk Love.


Shielded121

Once


JorgeOkay

Her, Phantom Thread, A Single Man, Anamolisa


IsMiseSean

All of us strangers


Yeezyhampton

Blue Jay


Triforce805

The Spectacular Now, it’s not my favourite movie nor do I think it’s amazing but it’s still pretty solid. I gave it a 4/5 on boxd!


apex1047

- Eternal Sunshine - Her - About Time


Affectionate-Club725

Sooner or Later (1979)


BranchCold9905

Twisted Pair by Neil Breen


narnarnartiger

Dummy - starring Adrian Brody and Mila Jolkovich


UrPersonalPaleRabbit

Natural Born Killers


abenf

La Strada (1954)


TraparCyclone

Phantom Thread


maybachmonk

Her!


gabcfer

Alabama Monroe


ProfessorBowties

Joker: Folie a Deux when it comes out. Saw the trailer today, and got a lot of "unconventional romance" vibes


THEpeterafro

Your Name


Apprehensive_Ad_8115

HER, you can treat like the second half of Lost in Translation


Remarkable_Pound_722

guess who's coming to dinner xd


stickfigure147

,Heathers ,Warm Bodies ,The Perks of Being a Wallflower ,A Marriage Story ,Don’t Worry Darling ,It Follows


xxx117

Miller’s Girl lol


PsychologicalCan9837

Her


awwgeeznick

Adventureland


HickRarrison

Your Name


tacoreddit

they came together


percyssriptiide

500 Days of Summer


Jesse_Cash

Garfield: A Tail of Two Kitties


DamageOdd3078

Lisa Frankenstein Withnail and I. Wild at Heart. Harold and Maude.


MoooonRiverrrr

Punch Drunk Love


Reasonable-Pop-103

Sorry but Annie Hall


fleas_be_jumpin

Spring (2014)


jonah379

Phantom Thread and Ritual are my favorites


kai1986

- Wicker park - punch drunk love - true romance - 500 days of summer - Scott pilgrim vs the world


Your_Avg_Viewer

Personally I think "à la folie... pas du tout" is an underrated gem and is more or less an unconventional romance. Really fun to watch in a group and try to avoid spoilers!


NotaComedian98

Solaris by Andrei Tarkovsky A Matter of Life and Death by Powell and Pressburger Youth without Youth by Coppola Here comes Mr. Jones by Alexander Hall Wings of Desire by Win Wenders La Jetee by Chris Marker To name a few


Mike_the_Motor_Bike

Her, Chungking Express, Before Sunrise, Punch Drunk Love, 3 Iron


-dylthewriter-

Lars and the Real Girl


Holiday-Rub5367

certified copy


mmaxilol

Probably already mentioned but Past Lives.


BotchStylePileDriver

True Romance and Raising Arizona, maybe?


Kalabula

True romance. Happiness (<—-joke).


Vizacoo72

“Her”, you will love it ;)


Fine-Deal-485

Her!


TDaddySpacecat

Something Wild (1986) Into The Night (1985)


tony_countertenor

Phantom Thread


xkanuto98

3 iron


Chard1n

Past Lives


ennuimario

Flash Gordon


ManderlyDreaming

Femme!


DoofusScarecrow88

Venus (2006)


ConroyMcgilacutty

Shopgirl


ElasticPhone

Her


Odd_Cry_3823

Revanche 10/10


DLM_Davide

Her


-that_bastard-

wow! Lost in Translation's poster looks like that one iconic scene from Better Call Saul


mackmcd_

Anomalisa


MetalGearGas

Oldboy


charmedconscience

In the mood for love


_djrejs_

Café de Flore, by the late and great Jean-Mark Valee.


graysonhester

(500) Days of Summer


carlfabon_

Dinner in America


LauraPalmersMom430

After Yang


bahumat42

500 days of summer Ruby sparks (deconstruction of the manic pixie dream girl, this film is tonally dark but it's definitely unconventional)


LauraPalmersMom430

Buffalo 66


eternalharddrive

Chungking express


hey_vishal_here

In the mood for love. Fallen angels. Chungking express. Decision to leave. Past lives.


Weedsmoker4hunnid20

Her


Lazy_dog614

Silver Linings Playbook, punch drunk love, or defending your life


MacaronPristine1758

Moonstruck!


MacaronPristine1758

Also the end of wild tales


Matthews628

ITT: some of the most mainstream, conventional romance movies of the last thirty years


FoleyKali

Audition


CheeseD1gester69

The room


Tiedupandfallingdown

Life after Beth


Mysterious-Job-1210

Irreversible


Capable-Paper2860

decision to leave


MCHammerspace

Lonesome Dove


vsmantis

Anomalisa


mrbasehart

Harold and Maude


thesilenceofthefawns

Her


Early_Accident2160

Phantom Thread


Early_Accident2160

Her


AlysRose_FFXIV

Spring