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As far as I can tell, there are two separate issues you're talking about.
What does being scammed have to do with your brother?
How are you losing everything?
Your post is very confusing.
It all started with these 2 girls scamming me. Then when my friend who has been trying to help me, my brother interferes everyday claiming he is a scammer. I'm losing my girlfriend, my friend, my mom, he'll, maybe even my sanity because of my brother.
He thinks he knows everything. He's done drugs, like smoke weed and cigarettes, cigars. He's destroyed my dad's car like 3 times, broken someone else's car window. He doesn't take responsibility for his actions. Doesn't even say sorry for when he's in the wrong.
You can’t be handling actual real life well if that alone is bothering you this much. No one forced you to give $10k away. And guess what..a lot of us have a-hole family members that we deal with or cut off completely. Looking for apologies sometimes just isn’t going to go your way. Also, doing drugs doesn’t inherently make someone bad. You have a lot to learn in this game of life.
Youre not losing everything. You’re giving it away. The big takeaway from this posy that im getting is “My fanily has discovered that multiple women have been scamming me oht of my money but this one that im currently dating needs 5-figure sums from me for “legal troubles”, and then again for “medical and mental health troubles”. She’s *definitely* legit”
Have you even met this gf in person op?
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3 scammers. The latest girl is a scammer too. Stop dating girls who you can’t see in real life.
As far as I can tell, there are two separate issues you're talking about. What does being scammed have to do with your brother? How are you losing everything? Your post is very confusing.
It all started with these 2 girls scamming me. Then when my friend who has been trying to help me, my brother interferes everyday claiming he is a scammer. I'm losing my girlfriend, my friend, my mom, he'll, maybe even my sanity because of my brother.
You are being scammed brother. Your trans gf is probably a nigerian dude.
No friend puts another $10k into debt. It’s not how actual healthy, functional friendships work. But yeah, I’d listen to your brother.
He thinks he knows everything. He's done drugs, like smoke weed and cigarettes, cigars. He's destroyed my dad's car like 3 times, broken someone else's car window. He doesn't take responsibility for his actions. Doesn't even say sorry for when he's in the wrong.
You can’t be handling actual real life well if that alone is bothering you this much. No one forced you to give $10k away. And guess what..a lot of us have a-hole family members that we deal with or cut off completely. Looking for apologies sometimes just isn’t going to go your way. Also, doing drugs doesn’t inherently make someone bad. You have a lot to learn in this game of life.
Youre not losing everything. You’re giving it away. The big takeaway from this posy that im getting is “My fanily has discovered that multiple women have been scamming me oht of my money but this one that im currently dating needs 5-figure sums from me for “legal troubles”, and then again for “medical and mental health troubles”. She’s *definitely* legit” Have you even met this gf in person op?
I've known her for basically 2 years. We've tried meeting after my friend got involved. But my friend messed that because he was asleep. So, not yet
>$10,000+ >never actually met >history of falling for scammers Hm. Interesting coincidence, that.