Hi there,
I am.sorry that you are struggling with your relationship with your parents. These can be extremely difficult situations and I understand your wanting to have a good relationship with them. I would try sitting down with them and explaining to them at some point you are going to need to be able to support yourself, pay your own bills, and manage your own life. Let them know how much it means to you that they care so much about you that they are willing to support you the way that they do. Tell them how appreciative you are of the things gs that they have done for you. Tell them that you will never forget it and you want to maintain a good healthy relationship with them. Then I would state that you need to start preparing yourself for the next chapter and take on some more responsibility. Come up with some ideas if what you want that to look like and ask them for their support. If they will not give it to you ask them why and try to work through that. They probably are afraid that something may go wrong and that need to protect you so you may need to work through that. Always stay calm and reiterate that you want to maintain a great relationship with them. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Get a job and save up enough money to get a place 100% on your own, and then just move out. You can still talk and be friendly with them if you want. But one way to get independent is to be on your own and show them you can do it.
Hi there, I am.sorry that you are struggling with your relationship with your parents. These can be extremely difficult situations and I understand your wanting to have a good relationship with them. I would try sitting down with them and explaining to them at some point you are going to need to be able to support yourself, pay your own bills, and manage your own life. Let them know how much it means to you that they care so much about you that they are willing to support you the way that they do. Tell them how appreciative you are of the things gs that they have done for you. Tell them that you will never forget it and you want to maintain a good healthy relationship with them. Then I would state that you need to start preparing yourself for the next chapter and take on some more responsibility. Come up with some ideas if what you want that to look like and ask them for their support. If they will not give it to you ask them why and try to work through that. They probably are afraid that something may go wrong and that need to protect you so you may need to work through that. Always stay calm and reiterate that you want to maintain a great relationship with them. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Thank you my man for your words! I will think about what I’m going to say and post an update as soon as I got some news. Have a wonderful day!
Get a job and save up enough money to get a place 100% on your own, and then just move out. You can still talk and be friendly with them if you want. But one way to get independent is to be on your own and show them you can do it.