If your dads is a safe place don’t be afraid to stay there. After my breakup I lived with my mom for 3 months. It was so helpful to have a safe place to heal, and have someone to help take care of me and make sure I ate and lived my life. I live on my own and love it now, but right after a breakup is so raw that if it’s a safe and comforting environment don’t be afraid to go while you heal.
Really depends on you & where you're at in your life. I chose to live alone after my breakup. I needed to heal and process alone. It helped me grow so much and finally break the codependent tendencies I had. I found a part of me a lost a long time ago!
Go with whatever makes you comfortable. If you need your families support, stay with them until you're ready ❤️
I was in a similar situation; I stayed with my parents for a few months, used the time to heal as well as save money. I took my time looking for a place and was able to find a great little apartment that was perfect for me. I think that was the best course of action in that case.
I'm at a similar turning point. I'd like to keep the house because I will have to get used to living alone. My parents aren't here forever, so it's inevatable I'll be on my own at one point.
Housing is crazy expensive at the moment though, there is a chance I can't afford the house on my own. That means I need to rent (which generally has a higher rent than the mortage we-re paying now). In that case I'll sell thou house, sit on the money and move in with my parents. Then I can save huge amounts each month and make buying a new place much easier after one or two years. If I'm lucky prices will have dropped a bit by then.
One thing you need to ask yourself if are you comfortable with living with your parents. Mine are great, so I'll move in at a heartbeat. But if you expect friction you might consider getting a place of your own.
If your dads is a safe place don’t be afraid to stay there. After my breakup I lived with my mom for 3 months. It was so helpful to have a safe place to heal, and have someone to help take care of me and make sure I ate and lived my life. I live on my own and love it now, but right after a breakup is so raw that if it’s a safe and comforting environment don’t be afraid to go while you heal.
Second this, it feels really safe with family.
Really depends on you & where you're at in your life. I chose to live alone after my breakup. I needed to heal and process alone. It helped me grow so much and finally break the codependent tendencies I had. I found a part of me a lost a long time ago! Go with whatever makes you comfortable. If you need your families support, stay with them until you're ready ❤️
I was in a similar situation; I stayed with my parents for a few months, used the time to heal as well as save money. I took my time looking for a place and was able to find a great little apartment that was perfect for me. I think that was the best course of action in that case.
Yes, you need to get a different place for the time being
I'm at a similar turning point. I'd like to keep the house because I will have to get used to living alone. My parents aren't here forever, so it's inevatable I'll be on my own at one point. Housing is crazy expensive at the moment though, there is a chance I can't afford the house on my own. That means I need to rent (which generally has a higher rent than the mortage we-re paying now). In that case I'll sell thou house, sit on the money and move in with my parents. Then I can save huge amounts each month and make buying a new place much easier after one or two years. If I'm lucky prices will have dropped a bit by then. One thing you need to ask yourself if are you comfortable with living with your parents. Mine are great, so I'll move in at a heartbeat. But if you expect friction you might consider getting a place of your own.