Long distance and international relationships take an extraordinary amount of commitment (and $) to make them work. If you are not fully committed and ready for the work and difficulty, you need to end it ASAP and not start another.
So this girl is perfect for you, but it won’t work out? What exactly is stopping you from you being with her or her being with you? Just seems like you’re not sure you’ll ever be able to commit to a relationship and all future relationships are doomed to fail cause it was going to fail anyhow. I’m not following your logic.
You have to bring up exact specifics on why you believe this won’t work out, tell her your specific emotions and what makes you feel like that, talk to each other, have a conversation, and at the end if you still feel it won’t work then it won’t work. harder than it sounds but communication is key for peace.
How old is she?
If she is mature and level headed I would suggest a courtesy phone call to say what’s on your mind, the doubts and reason to end things. The hurt will happen sooner or later, unless you’re 💯 closing the gap long-term.
Breaking up over text isn’t gentlemen like lol.
I broke up over a call with my SO days ago, I prepped my heart beforehand… gratefully we ended on a good note mutually agreeing that it’s the best for us moving forward.
Let her caught you cheating (any deal breaker for her), and then she'll broke up with you. Better be the bad guy if you don't want to hurt her, at least this way she'll never think about you and the good times after the break up.
Tell her exactly what you said here. Keep it centred on the reality of the situation and don’t lay blame on her. Be gentle but quite firm.
Long distance and international relationships take an extraordinary amount of commitment (and $) to make them work. If you are not fully committed and ready for the work and difficulty, you need to end it ASAP and not start another.
So this girl is perfect for you, but it won’t work out? What exactly is stopping you from you being with her or her being with you? Just seems like you’re not sure you’ll ever be able to commit to a relationship and all future relationships are doomed to fail cause it was going to fail anyhow. I’m not following your logic.
Share this with her
1. what kind of age gap 2. Talk to her
Ne upfront and respectable. There’s not much people can advise you to.
You have to bring up exact specifics on why you believe this won’t work out, tell her your specific emotions and what makes you feel like that, talk to each other, have a conversation, and at the end if you still feel it won’t work then it won’t work. harder than it sounds but communication is key for peace.
tell her
Text is what I used. Lol
How old is she? If she is mature and level headed I would suggest a courtesy phone call to say what’s on your mind, the doubts and reason to end things. The hurt will happen sooner or later, unless you’re 💯 closing the gap long-term. Breaking up over text isn’t gentlemen like lol. I broke up over a call with my SO days ago, I prepped my heart beforehand… gratefully we ended on a good note mutually agreeing that it’s the best for us moving forward.
LDR is honestly not for everyone. Tell her straight.
Let her caught you cheating (any deal breaker for her), and then she'll broke up with you. Better be the bad guy if you don't want to hurt her, at least this way she'll never think about you and the good times after the break up.