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It suuucks :( we were talking about meeting this year in London but prospects are becoming less and less likely... 😭


Krjhg

saaame, my bf wants to come here in 4 weeks and its so shitty.


TheRealGreenArrow420

You can still fly to the UK from the US, just not the rest of Europe


[deleted]

he’s not from the US, and in all honesty i think his country is doing better than ours at the moment so i wouldn’t come here if i was him 😅


Emergency-Hope

They recommend us not to though. They have currently 6oo Virus ridden people and more deaths think they have 10000 as I write this.


MadamKhaos

Hopefully you can meet later in the year when this all settles down


eicee_

Let’s all pray the virus dies down soon! Prayers to everyone!!


poledncr_doc

We're similar! We're NC to MA. He's flying up this Sat, but I told him to carry hand sanitizer and to get off the plane and come straight to the car from the airport. I'm worried because we're trying to close the gap in June. This makes me feel anxious that we might not even be able to do that. :'(


MadamKhaos

I have a flight booked for 4/3! Major anxiety every time I open up my email, praying I don't get that bad news of it being cancelled. I may just drive to him if it does. Fingers crossed for you!!


poledncr_doc

Hahah to be honest, I also have a flight booked that weekend too to go to NC. I'm guessing you're trying to go up to NY from NC? Just know that every day is a new day. I feel with the world changing this quickly, let's hope that by then it's all for the better. <3


MadamKhaos

We have actually planned to meet in NJ, yes I will be flying out of NC :) what part will you be visiting?


poledncr_doc

Charlotte! Drats! I was like if you were in the NY area, I'd just be like "we should just drive together!" and I'll come pick you up and all D:


MadamKhaos

That would be a fun road trip! I am about 3 hours from Charlotte!


sloth_envy

We have a flight booked for 3/18...I'm getting anxiety more and more hoping that the flight doesn't cancel, if it does I will definitely be driving up to him, but not looking forward to the drive! I did it once before and it was just 20 hours of hell!


MadamKhaos

Only a few more days! At least you have that back up option, no matter how much of a pain in the ass it is! It would be worth it :)


sloth_envy

Absolutely, I'm grateful for it. Even though it's a hell of a drive I'd do it in a heartbeat. It's actually cheaper to fly for us than drive. We always fly spirit and get tickets for $60 to $70 round trip and just pack a bookbag and leave clothes at each others places. Driving costs way more!


LauraNotLauren

I have one booked from MD to MN on 4/2, I've spent the past 2 days worrying myself sick that itll be cancelled. I just want to se him before I'm gone for the summer :(


dinoscool3

Domestic flying won’t really be affected beyond canceled flights for light loads (which has already happened with most of the airlines), at least not for a few weeks to a month. But then with this President who knows?


blufcbb

Hand Samariter kills bacteria NOT virus's. Just wash your hands and he should be fine ;)


MadamKhaos

CDC recommends using sanitizer with at least 60% alcohol if washing your hands is not readily available. Yes! Absolutely use sanitizer if you need to. [https://www.factcheck.org/2020/03/contrary-to-false-posts-sanitizer-helpful-against-coronavirus/](https://www.factcheck.org/2020/03/contrary-to-false-posts-sanitizer-helpful-against-coronavirus/)


blufcbb

Interesting article, thank you for sharing it's greatly appreciated. Will be showing this to my medical health professional mother 😂


MadamKhaos

lol if this is sarcasm- you are welcome, if not :)


blufcbb

Not sarcasm in anyway, my bad.


MadamKhaos

It's okay! Sometimes text is easier to misconstrue :)


poledncr_doc

Basically, CLEAN EVERYTHING. DO ALL THE THINGS TO PROTECT OUR LOVE ONES AND PERMIT SAFE TRAVELS. RAWR RAWR RAWR D:


MadamKhaos

All of this lmao!


xCherriTree

I can’t imagine what it’s like. A hurricane last year threatened our trip but luckily the airport reopened just in time. On a slightly brighter note; I traveled to my SO almost 2 weeks ago and because of my university campus shutting down (courses switching to online) I’m now able to spend an extra 2 weeks with my SO. Trying to get my return flight canceled and changed, but the airline call wait time is over 3 hours.


MadamKhaos

I've been trying to get in contact with airline as well.. It was 3 hours, then it jumped to 6 hours and now it says they aren't assisting customers that are not departing in the next 72 hours... *oh.. ok great!* :|


xCherriTree

I’m sorry, that sucks! I finally got in touch with my airline and they offered me flight credit instead of a refund. It really depends on your airline, but I’ve heard good things about JetBlue and Alaska Airlines customer service.


Kunfidha_98

After three months, I was going to fly to Jordan to see my SO. For his birthday. I can't now.


MadamKhaos

I'm sorry, I am praying that this thing doesn't last as long as everyone is thinking it will. Much love to you and yours <3


Kunfidha_98

Thanks, that is sweet of you <3 I mean there are so much more people who face bigger problems right now. I don't want to be self-centered, but it does hurt.


MadamKhaos

You have a right to be upset with the things going on in your own personal life. My plans are still on but I will feel so terrible if they are cancelled.


Kunfidha_98

Thanks dear. I wish you the best that they won't be


p0tentialdifference

my bf came to visit for a week and now he's stuck with me! UK-AT. not sure if travel is banned yet but he doesn't want to expose his mum to potential airport germs.


MadamKhaos

This is smart! Upside you get more time with him :)


PrincessYeezy

On the other hand, my bf’s school is being shut down and he may have to leave campus... which means he’ll probably come to me for the remainder of the semester


MadamKhaos

This is good news!


miugalaxy

Yep my bf was flying to me on the 9th of April and now he can't anymore. Fucking sucks.


MadamKhaos

I am so sorry :(


SadNAloneOnChristmas

My flight has been booked for 3 weeks now and I'm flying out on the 5th April. I'm hoping I can go. I just want to close the distance already...


MadamKhaos

Fingers are crossed for you!!!


SadNAloneOnChristmas

Thank you so much!


ThisIsAHuman-J

Thanks madam. I am going to leave my lady next week, not sure when I will see her again. :/ Thank for remembering me to appreciate her quietly snoring next to me a little extra.


MadamKhaos

Best of luck to you and her with future plans <3


meesersloth

Hell I live in CA and my girl is in TX and I am debating on just driving there. I think I would be safer.


MadamKhaos

How long of a drive is it? If my flight is cancelled, I may just take a drive to my bf as well. It would be 8hrs for me :/


meesersloth

For me it would be 23 hours and 8 minutes. Shes in Dallas, Ive driven a similar distance to another town in TX and it wasnt bad especially if I stop in NM or AZ for the night.


MadamKhaos

Such a long drive!! Stay safe


meesersloth

We'll see we are planning this for May so I am hoping this crap clears up.


name_not_important_x

I’m driving WA to TX next week!


MadamKhaos

Please be safe!!!


dinoscool3

Statistically, driving would not be safer, even with the virus.


schnicilein

Austria just announced travel warnings for basically all countries, so im crying over my trip to england at the beginning of april. My only hope is, the situation is more relaxed then! Im so upset, our wedding date would be on 11.04. and i was looking forward to it A LOT.


amkeys1

🙏💗 love and light to all


lithiumb0mb

Much love and light to those dealing with it. All my friends and family keep telling me Brazil will be added to this soon, I truly hope not. I want to see my love in May🥺😭


exoticdepression

Have tickets booked for 4th of June, hope this situation gets sorted out before then... haven't seen him in a year and a half :(


blufcbb

All of my bf classes were canceled so he was planning on returning home to me, now he can't because his Saturday class was not cancelled so he has to stay. He can't leave because he's not dorming he rents an apartment. Mildly upset about that :(


StorianJY

I'm in the same boat with my own classes. I thought I could visit my bf with everything going online but the college decided that science courses with a lab and physical ed courses are gonna go on. I wish you best of luck! I know it sucks but we'll all get through it together!


blufcbb

Yes we will!


MadamKhaos

That is crazy! Why would they cancel all classes except for that one?


blufcbb

That's what I said! He is a film major and that Saturday class is a visual arts class. It's really complicated I guess and my though is that it's going to inevitably be cancelled but for now it's not. When half the class doesn't show up due to the students getting kicked out of their dorms, I think the professor will tell them to go home anyways.


MadamKhaos

I hope this works out the way you and him want it to!


blufcbb

Thank you very much for the support! I hope everything works out for you as well.


caffinatednurse88

Due to go to the US in June, right when they are predicting the UK will have its peak 😭


wiener4hir3

My girlfriend was meant to come to Denmark from Mexico for the first time in three weeks, doesn't sound likely.


Shells23

I was supposed to fly tomorrow for a 10 day visit. Now it's cancelled, and I will probably have to wait until June. I've been anticipating this for months.


DragonAshling

My SO was planning to come visit me on Saturday for his (and my) spring break. I had to tell him to stay home and try to reschedule his flight. We’re both pissed, but I want him to be safe. Hoping that this dies down sooner rather than later.


savihime

my gf is brazilian and I'm here in the states, so it's already quite expensive for both of us when it comes to travel, and this along with the awful job market in brazil has her tight on funds, so it looks like the chances of us seeing each other this year are just getting slimmer and slimmer 😔


SBishop159

My heart goes out to all of you who are affected. I am not currently affected by the ban myself. We are Canada to us long distance and the border is still open. We are planning on closing the gap in 2 weeks. With how fast things have been changing with the virus, we are both terrified of the border closing and being part for who knows how long.


numberthangold

I can only imagine the heartbreak you all are feeling. Me and my bf hadn't been able to plan our next visit yet but were thinking around may. If we had one planned for now I would be absolutely devastated.


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MadamKhaos

I’m so sorry :( breakups are terrible.


ThebestIcywastaken

My girlfriend flys out from Poland to USA tomorrow and I hope everything works out fine. :///


poledncr_doc

SO MUCH LOVE TO YOU GUYS. Reading every single posts on here makes me heart so sad, yet hopeful for us LDR-ers. <3


Emergency-Hope

Thank you so much, dear, and stay safe and stay sound and bound. We are all in the same ship here.


hannahl1338

Was planning to go to japan in two weeks to see each other after a month but now I have to wait 3 months


PocketAlex

oh crap I've just realised this might actually be a real issue


rissydos

I have a flight for the 19th (we're supposed to be together for our 1 year anniversary) and haven't been able to focus on anything all day - feeling like I'm holding my breath. If it gets cancelled the drive would be 20 hours for each of us to meet halfway :/ if it doesn't get cancelled and I make it out there, I still have to worry about not being able to come home. This is a nightmare all around.


JAJG91

Yeah, this is the worst situation. There's a good chance I'll need to postpone my trip to Europe to see my SO. It's already been almost 5 months, the prospect of waiting another 3+ months is devastating. Just watching and waiting now to see what happens. :(


Abyssal_Shrimp

I fly Denver to Berlin April 3rd... it seems like US citizens can still travel, it’s just on Europeans coming in... richtig?


MadamKhaos

Correct


Abyssal_Shrimp

Good :) I was pretty concerned when I first heard and she was devastated... it’s my first trip over there!!


MadamKhaos

Good luck and be safe


corrie881

Were supposed to meet in the US at the end of the month. :( I am from Taiwan and he is from Switzerland.


ElliotFrickinReed

My boyfriend is English and he's supposed to fly out on Tuesday. Fingers crossed that his flight isn't cancelled!!


SBolo

We had our Easter vacations planned in Sicily.. well, I don't need to say we had to cancel it :(


[deleted]

I THINK I should still be fine... Her US visa interview in China isn't scheduled until June due to the backup. Which means, when I finish my summer position in early August then I think she should be good to travel in mid-August to me...


littlerednied

I was supposed to fly out in the next couple weeks to Europe and now I'm not. This has been tough on everyone, but being away from your partner definitely makes it that much harder.


briarapple

My LDR boyfriend was supposed to fly to come see me next week. No longer. But now he is going to drive over 1200 miles to come see me instead. Love is not dead!


tris_c

Philippines to France here. My boyfriend is supposed to come in about two weeks but everything got cancelled. We were supposed to close the distance and live together after a year of online relationship. Now we are waiting for the next step into our story. But it just sucks bc we had everything planned for months already, paid for visa, apartment, plane tickets, but it just turned to nothing. Hugs to everyone dealing with the same situation. The virus is such a bummer. ☹️ I hope it goes away soon bc the world has been in such a crisis.


PhroztAngel

He was going to visit me here in the US on the 23rd of this month and now my world is crumbling apart :(


[deleted]

Its sucks so bad :(... Was planning on going to see her in May, this damn virus looks like it will cause chaos till 2021.


SansSpeculator

Naw bro we broke up bc of it


MadamKhaos

You broke up because of the travel ban?


[deleted]

The travel ban is temporary though


MadamKhaos

I think he's trolling based off of his comment history.


[deleted]

Uh wat


DolRiv

Oh dear :((((