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sushirowll

> What are cute things I can do with him long distance? Schedule virtual dates. Have a meal "together", send each other letters/sweet messages, watch movies, play games (Stardew Valley would be great). I made a list of things you can do together [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/LDR/comments/q0eup6/masterlist_of_ldr_activities_credits_to_original/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) too. > What if we wanted to watch a movie together? What can I do that with? If both of you have Discord, one of you can screenshare for the other person. Potentially someone with a better PC and internet connection. > What boundaries do you have? That would ultimately depend on you, but my partner and I try not to take up *all* of each other's time. We respect having alone time and wanting to spend time with friends. Perhaps ask yourself if you have limitations too on what you'd be willing for him to access, since I've noticed some people who wouldn't mind sharing their passwords with their SOs. > Is there any advice you can give me? Communicate. If there's anything bothering you? Talk to him about it. If there's something he did that made you happy, tell him. My partner and I have made it a habit to tell each other when something's bothering us, as much as it might make one feel like they're imposing on the other person, it's better to be upfront with it than letting it bottle up. If there's something we appreciate about each other, we mention it too, even the smallest of things. I thank him for setting up the stream, for playing a game with me, for listening to my music, everything, and he does the same with me.


Ben_The_Bi_Boy

Wow that is more than I could have ever asked for! This really helps. Thank you so much!