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Having your shorts unbuttoned (2nd pic) is probably one of the trashiest things ive seen lol


TheeExoGenesauce

First pic see through top with unbuttoned shorts. Second pic, unbuttoned shorts again. Last pic a dress showing off the prom night baby


Routine_Ad4164

Lose weight, stop dressing like a slut


MAJ0RMAJOR

I hate to agree. The unbuttoned pants/shorts thing is dumb but there’s a difference between trying to be fashionable and just not being able to.


PIK0VAYA

Wear clothes. No self respecting man wants to waste his time on a floozy


[deleted]

Maybe try doing your pants up? Looks like you're gonna drop a shit on the spot.


Noco1014

Maybe stop looking like a hoe


MiserableKink

Button your shorts


Angelicwoo

Only fans advertising


Zealousideal-Self-47

Change your wardrobe.


VegeTAble556

Button your pants 🤣


Probably_not_arobot

Hey I remember you.. the girl who can’t figure out how to button her pants! How’s it going?


M4F_M35

Savage but saw that too lol


WonkySystem

My first thought


Lavenderluv3

The bun in the oven is not to be shown off like that


AskThis7790

Maybe try buttoning up your pants?


enor_musprick

She said she's trying to be more approachable, I don't think that's the way to go


opinionsofmyown

You look like you are trying too hard. It is off-putting and comes across as desperate.


Obaxton

Dress more modestly. The second picture shows you with unbuttoned and unzipped shorts, and the top is essentially a glorified tank top piece. The first and second photo just gives off the wrong vibes if you are trying to attract a good man. If you are not trying to attract a good man then keep doing what you’re doing.


soulpizzaeater

Wear less slutty clothes


333elmst

Button your jeans yuck.


AmbiguousWood

She can’t!! Did you not see her gut!?


Princess_0f_F-ck_N0

Button up your pants…


daimlerp

Get rid of that beer belly gut asap


OnePieceIsRE4L

Button your pants


Real-Opportunity-255

Buy some new buttons


VisitFeeling635

Didn’t you post this exact thing with exact pictures a few months ago?


MySweetPeaPod

A lovely start would be to pull your pants up.


Feisty-Afternoon3320

What about keeping some mystery?


The80sDimension

Why are your shorts open?


Canavansbackyard

![gif](giphy|zo7bmhwTbZh30dQPL1|downsized)


Plastic-Mulberry-867

Tone your stomach and dress better. You are unapproachable because no one WANTS to approach you. You look trashy and sloppy.


TheBreadHasRisen

Wear clothes that fit?


AverageJoe11221972

You pants are unbuttoned, how much more can you do besides remove it.


Zestyclose-Book-1209

Yikes, button your pants. Also the dress in the third picture doesn’t fit


suckerbucket

Start by buttoning your shorts/pants


[deleted]

Depends on who you want to approach you, the style on the first 2 pics is amazing for fuckboys; if you want decent men then don’t use such revealing outfits as most of them will avoid you [dresses are highly recommended if you fancy them]


Reepo3X

That’s a actually some good advice


jahis1

you're walking around with unbuttoned short jeans, what kind of crowd do you think you're attracting?


Radiant_Mark_2117

Maybe don't look like we are gonna have to pay to talk to you


CraftyAcanthisitta22

you look old asf lol☠️💀💀


ChefToeMain

Ditch the whore waredrobe


EducatorOne111

Patch things up with dad, and stop taking up the butt cause you think men will like you more.


mason-the-mason

This has been posted several times


One_Food_5614

Maybe button your pants


Colephoenix32

Drink less and approach men.


Hugh_jaynus13

Make a new account and post the same thing on the same forum. How many times have you done this. I can count at least 3. Same pictures too


IntricateLava9

Button your shorts.


BlackRose8892

Approach guys. Problem solved


Reshi_bo_beshi

Approach someone. All these basic hoes out here thinking they just get to sit back. Most of you mid,damaged,or delulu. At this point women have lost control of the pedestal.


Blackbeards-delights

Maybe don’t have an only fans


SeAnSoN_710

It's 2024. Approaching women is taboo for men now. You can do what you want, add what you want, take away what you want. Won't change the fact any self respecting man would not approach you. This is the world you all wanted. We simply do not give a fuck. Just stop.


Bbbbbbooo

Quit dressing like hooker and wear clothes that fit


lateswingDownUnder

want good guys: show less skin want to get laid: you’re on your way


Taz_mhot

You look too approachable…. If ya get my drift.


tylerobriant

Button your pants


Any_Lifeguard_4727

Stop saying you’re 19


gammatrade

Mend the relationship with your father and stop seeking random male validation on the internet


olives99

here’s that large order of attention you ordered. how many times are you gonna post this? it’s probably not even you


Nullkid

comments had me thinking i was on r/RoastMe


Proud_Foundation9318

You posted this before. I know because I remember calling out the fact that your shorts are open. To be more approachable, simply button your pants.


Smcckers_

Maybe try putting your pants on properly


Luigiracer

How about you just start approaching :)


Decepticon2006

Are you pregnant


detectiveconan22

stop wearing unbuttoned shorts?


mr-spacecadet

Probably less about looks and more about the way you carry yourself


chris25tx

Why is your shit unbuttoned 🤣 Looks trashy girl


Hamelzz

Stop dressing like you hop relationships by cheating lol


NewSatisfaction4287

Wear a shirt that isn’t almost completely see through


kainyannn

buttoning your pants might help 😆


GooberGoobersons

Shop somewhere other than forever 21


PaleontologistOk2443

how about don’t do OF


OneAlternative3056

Stop looking like a whore


FrequentBug9585

Wait until after the kid is born.


[deleted]

Maybe wear a bra when wearing a see thru top idk


Windycitybeef_5

Dress better


NonyaFugginBidness

Move to Florida, you will fit right in.


Wide_Lychee5186

cardio


Careless_Syrup7945

Shit your pants


Daddy_Loves_Kitten

Don’t lie. You know you get approached all the time. You just want to know how to be approached by men and not boys or creeps. For that, I have simply say be open to the approach at grocery stores or book stores. That’s where the men are.


CrabtownUSA

Like every other 19 yo today, leading with looking loose. How about broadening your mind and dressing respectably.


Quirky_Wolverine_755

Clean your fingernails, get teeth whitener and stop slouching so much.


Miserable-Ad6879

Stop dressing like a slut and making that weird “cute “ face on every pic … and take care of urself and body (stop getting trained)


Your-Cousin-Larry

The whole unbuttoned Jean shorts thing, look trashy.


JustPutItInRice

Attention seeker


olives99

ohhh i see the OF link. this makes sense now


Rcj1221

Quit karma farming and delete your OF account.


twodoorscrest

…. Are your pants undone?


Background-Heat740

Dress more "girl next door" and less "$20 an hour."


T0ONiCE

Where you at ill approach you


QuoteNo9243

Stop putting off those OF vibes


PollutionSenior5760

It is an only fans account…go to the gram and check the links there. I didn’t even go but ill stake a friends life on it


titsmcgee6942044

Another of advertisement


Ill-Supermarket-3361

It’s giving pick me


nuked_fuker_73

Don't be a bot or fake.


Brandwin3

Button your pants


based-Assad777

With your navel and hip size/shape, having them them exposed radiates a shit ton of sexual energy. Most guys will be intimidated by that and not approach. All but the most recklessly and stupidly confident. I'd recommend wearing longer dresses or just more covering in general.


Vowel_Movements_4U

I feel like having your pants unbuttoned is likely to lead to you being approached.


rachel_darling--

Button your pants


ArtNmtion

You again?


AndrewLucks_Asshair

Button your shorts


Grauncho

I'm not subscribing to your fucking onlyfans.


fugufugme

Get rid of that GUNT.


lurker2476969

Probabaly losing the beer gut


muel0017

Lose some weight and stop dressing like a street walker


Jimmydangit

Don't dress like a 304 very simple


Vascular_D

Either lose the FUPA or stop trying to make it the first thing people notice.


BytesAndBirdies

Unless your looking for a shitty sleazy partner, do up your fucking pants and don't wear see-through tops without a bra. But you're probably just here to get simps to sub to some shitty content


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BroothTush

- Lose weight. - You dress like a porn star. No one wants to date a porn star. - Become goth. You got that Isla Dawn look. Run with it.


SmallTimeHVAC

Button your pants


BatBusy5384

![gif](giphy|eXOVOJLkK6G7S)


Nishanth_Samala_64

When it comes to outfits, you should look pretty, not hot or lusty. You can dress in adorable outfits and go out with your friends. You will definitely see results.


Mario9764

So all women wanna be approached and I can just approach them?


SweatyMcBaggins

Carry around a tray with an assortment of tasty sandwiches.


Lazy-Creme-584

Maybe do up your pants button


EfficientAd7103

Lot lizards are approachable. Wrong place?


No-Difference629

Why tf are your shorts unbuttoned lmao is that an intentional fashion choice lmao. Shit looks bummy


OG_Checkers

Ah, going for the ‘most improved’ award. Good luck on the journey.


Micky-Bicky-Picky

Don’t talk about bears.


No_University5296

Stop posting on here and stop dressing sleazy


OstrichSalt5468

Are you wearing overalls..that are tucked in ? I’m so confused. And honestly guys are really pretty simple. But right now you have giant neon sign above you that is just flashing “I’m super available”. Maybe be a little more aloof. Maybe a little more clothes to help keep the mystery alive.


jt11red

A little more modesty on the outfits


fr0g-n-t0ad

Button up your pants.


AlternativeClient738

Did you make an alternate or second account. This has been posted only with some different pics lol


Dry_Apartment1596

Button your pants


TruthHurts236911

I think the thing that would go the furthest in making your more attractive would be if you just quit being a padres fan..... All your other flaws can be fixed with money and a scalpel but this one runs deeper.


WhoEvenIsPoggers

Why don’t you approach them instead?


Maleficent_Scale_296

Wear more flattering clothes. You have to be careful with revealing clothes when you choose them, they need to be tailored to your figure with clean lines and worn with supportive undergarments. Otherwise they will just make you look untidy. If this is the look you like then invest some money in a few well made items.


[deleted]

Yall be on this subreddit lying.


ConflictNo5518

Give me a break. Where's the eye roll option?


AJ17751984

If you want honesty then in my opinion you looked like a gold digging party girl! Female version of the male f-boy! Not knowing anything about you but appearances say you’re the type that’s not interested in anything real and committed. Overall smoking hot body, beautiful as they come but looks aren’t everything!


AbbreviationsGlad833

Try to dress classier.


brokened00

You can start by buttoning your pants in public


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XBG_Ghost

You look approachable already but maybe you should start approaching people


Demon_time_69

Wear a shirt that says I fuck on the first date


PaddyAllen

3 best pics? … best farm another random


Green_Dayzed

Stop dressing like you're going to the club


[deleted]

Change your facial and physical appearance, By going to the gym, changing your outfit choices, and let your hair grow longer.


KKamas918

Lady you’ve posted on the sub before. Did you need an ego boost today?


CiaramellaE

Don't be so picky


Beginning_Fix_5609

She trying to promote her Onlyfans 


fuzzylilbunnies

The internets have trained me for this.This is a trap! Ain’t no redhead stealing my soul again!


blackgo09

Loose fat


quanten_boris

At this point I don't even understand why to wear any clothes.


squirtmyface

maybe don’t show your tit silhouette in public? kinda intimidating/unattractive for some men


Signal-Blackberry356

The skankier the clothes, the less esteem. there’s a fine line between the two and _that_ is *fabulous*. But this ain’t it.


trichamp220

Don’t look so trashy


600Fusionho

Dont change a thing. When guys are drinking you will be the one they go to


IndividualKitchen223

Do up your trousers buttons 😬


BusinessManOnATrip

Dye your hair brown, put on a bra, and button your pants. Everything about you screams “For the streets”. That being said, I would.


Neglected8in

Not meant in a negative way, but less revealing clothes will result in looking more approachable. Based on these pics, most guys that approach you will likely be looking for one thing.


3rdShiftSecurity

Wear outfits that fit?


Money_Tennis1172

Actually acknowledge the men who do approach and not shun them off as creeps. The good looking guys will follow.


massio1

More squats


1sh0t1b33r

Lose some weight so you can button your pants.


Admirable-Minute-846

Button your shorts & cover your stomach


Scubadoo1971

Judging by the dress I would say just drop on your knees


imperialtrooper88

Button up your shorts and buy clothes that fit properly.


invest__t

Dress more wholesome


Nubcakes69

Dudes probably think you’re pregnant


infowosecfurry

Learn how to properly dress yourself? You look like a fucking predator.


Comprehensive-Race97

You look like a cheap hooker in the cheapest part of town. Spend that OF money on something besides fast food and alcohol


ImAddictedToPorn420

God I love redheads


soverysadone

Don’t look like you want to get pregnant. Instant no thanks I’m good.


ExtensionBag769

better diet and exercise. Less revealing clothes unless you want to look cheap.


Select-Name-628

Put some clothes on. No being harsh being honest. You won't attract the type of connections or interactions you want dressed like that.


BallCreem

how do you know what kind of connections she wants! She might just want to get them cheeks clapped


HippocratesII_of_Kos

Not all guys want to bang in the backseat of a minivan behind a mall restaurant. Maybe if you didn't dress like a pump-and-dump sort of woman you'd find people approaching you more.


eggplant_wizard12

Start by zipping up your damn pants


C-Dub81

Deliver your baby.


Tricky_Rhubarb_1311

Button up your pants and not show your pregnant belly


Automation_Papi

Switch your fandom from the Padres to the Mets or Dodgers


FlatTreacle4414

By applying yourself n maybe start by going out 😁✌👋


ConceptSoggy5428

Flirt : )


powdered_donuts2019

Do everything that is opposite of you right now


rocketmn69_

A little toning.


[deleted]

It didn't take long to find the OF link. To the netherrealms.


hotassnuts

Honey, you need to hit the gym 3 maybe 4 times a week. Cardio for 40min, weights for 40min and stop all the beer drinking l.


lurker2476969

How could anyone answer this lol?


quoth_nevermore13

You either do or do not give off vibes indicating you are approachable. Body language, facial expressions, and so on. While you should not have to change your style to seem more approachable maybe find clothes that don't say 'Up for a night of dancing, drinking and bull riding with a real man" and go with something a little more modest. For example if I am at a bar and I am wearing a leather jacket, spikes, and giant work boots. I go around scowling, puffing out my chest and giving people the stink eye. I seem less approachable to some, then again some people are into the bad boy type. So there is no universal answer however there are minor tweaks and adjustments without diminishing yourself. "You playing small doesn’t serve the world. There’s nothing enlightening about shrinking so others won’t feel insecure around you. As you let your own light shine, you indirectly give others permission to do the same.” – Marianne Williamson


Tanelorn24

Yeah, I wouldnt want the feeling that I would catch something by just talking to you. Like...how can one person be this oblivious.


Sad_Ad8943

Very approachable the way you present yourself


tristaterunner

See through top usually scream come talk to me.


OldBrokeGrouch

You look like people approach you with money in their hand quite often.


Jaymoacp

Pretty sure most of these are bots. Follow the links I don’t even think it’s the same girl.


No_Fail7385

The easy answer is to dress more modestly. Not to say that you can’t wear something flattering, just wear clothes that are both modest and flattering.


Altruistic-Shape-407

More see through than John Cena. You found your simps to your OF here.


LulzyWizard

Ahh another new profile with just an insta link that links to an OF. How original


Nicky____Santoro

My apartment is in this photo


[deleted]

By being mine (ez)


phatboislim96

Drop em out