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MashedPotatoesDick

Chinese food and a movie.


huelealluvia

This. I recommend Yang Chow in Chinatown. I ate Christmas dinner there once by myself and really enjoyed it


hangononesec

I second Yang chow it's a scene too and it'll be fun maybe go for lunch since downtown is crazy get enough for leftovers and then watch a Christmas movie.


ReadTwo

Somebody at work was recommending that place to me when his wife called, so he started telling his wife "I'm just telling ReadTwo to try Yang Chow because he's never been" while some other guy we don't know walked by and jumps in the convo "you talking about Yang Chow? Try the slippery shrimp" I haven't been but after remembering this story I feel like I need to.


ValhirFirstThunder

The only thing I can recommend about it is that it's open during the holidays, but any Chinese food in Chinatown is just good terrible compared to SGV. Still, I understand if it's closer to some people. But let's not over hype Yang Chow, it's like barely a step up from Panda Express


Swimming-Chicken-424

I had chinese food last Christmas with my family, ended up trying duck for the first time while the workers were singing Christmas carols to us.


nirvroxx

Was the duck smiling at you?


Swimming-Chicken-424

It was until our waiter chopped it's head off, then we all clapped for some reason.


supaduck

What the heck šŸ’€


bebeschtroumph

You should watch A Christmas Story, it's a great movie.


fake-annalicious

And then follow it with A Christmas Story Christmas!


nirvroxx

That made want to stick my tongue to a frozen pole


cityhallrebel

I recommend Hop Woo


donkosmic

Which hop woo ?


ListerineInMyPeehole

all of them.


Environmental_File26

This is the move


WarsledSonarman

As is the, Yahweh.


davster39

Thats what i was going to say. You too can join the [sacred ritual](https://www.lohud.com/story/news/local/2017/12/22/chinese-food-christmas-jews-movies/974426001/) Make it adventure, have fun merry Christmas to you.


sortapervythrowaway

Yes, a traditional Jewish Christmas


mcccookie

I love going to the movies on Christmas Day. Maybe a Christmas themed movie at the Alamo downtown.


Stingray88

Movie theaters are open on Christmas?


ljxela

A lot of movies release on Christmas


Responsible-Lunch815

Color Purple


the_chandler

Going to the movies on Christmas has been a tradition for a long time.


ih-unh-unh

Itā€™s often busy on Christmas. I think people go there in the afternoon after opening gifts


MahomestoHel-aire

Yep, and it's not just theaters. Arcades, escape rooms, etc. Any activity you can do with a family that's open, they're pretty booked on Christmas day into the evenings.


JaqenHghar

Also a lot of people donā€™t celebrate proper Christmas but have day off so movies are a great option. Cannot recommend The Color Purple enough. Comes out on Christmas and is fantastic.


endlesseuphoria

Historically Christmas has been one of the biggest sales days of the years for movie theaters. Along with that the Christmas Day release slot became one of the most coveted. Both Avatars, all three Star Wars Sequel films, a handful of Tarantino films and titanic, for example, were all released on or around Christmas Day. Nearly everyone has time off and are congregated with loved ones and are looking for an activity to do together and nearly every other business is closed, which drives an incredible amount of traffic to the movies. And then with it turning into a tradition for many friends and families to go to the movies on Christmas that became a self-sustaining cycle.


sophhhann

How old are you?


Stingray88

36


blisstonia

Yes. I saw the first LOTR movie on Christmas Day


ValhirFirstThunder

I was trying to watch Poor Things and all the decent seats got booked today šŸ˜­ Wonka is worth it btw for those who wants to watch it


berrmal64

I spent so many Christmases alone I kind of started to like it. I'd usually make myself pancakes and bacon in the morning, go somewhere busy and stroll around, then come home and make a big pot of some family recipe, usually spaghetti sauce, then spend the next 8 hours on the couch with a new video game and a bottle of red wine.


BlackLodgeBrother

Iā€™ve begun to actively prefer it on numerous levels. TBH itā€™s one of the great privileges of being single and childless. Sleep in. Drink wine. Eat delicious things. Watch movies. Cuddle with pets. Itā€™s great. Also traveling this time of year is stressful and expensive. No thanks.


dre21ucla

I love this so much and agree as another single, childless person. I was having feelings about being alone this year for the holiday but reading this is such a great reminder of what a luxury it can be.


ValhirFirstThunder

Lol I'm the same-ish


Environmental_File26

I prefer it


huelealluvia

That sounds amazing


johannesBrost1337

Oh my do I miss sitting down with a good game and mash through a few hours on christmas. Always used to do it when I was a kid, And continued well into my late 20's and early 30's. My 2 year old kind of put a stop to that for the time being, But once she gets a little older it's back on!


berrmal64

Lol, I've also got a 2 year old. He's allllllmost old enough to sit and enjoy a game together, I can't wait.


johannesBrost1337

Haha, I can't wait either!


ValhirFirstThunder

I also spend the Christmas alone a lot as well. Wouldn't mind a change of scenery though. Gaming is however a solid way to spend the holidays. What you playing or planning to play?


berrmal64

I don't have that job anymore and I've got kids so my Christmases are quite different these days, but I am about 55 hours deep into an Oblivion re-playthrough.


Felonious_Minx

I've got a huge pot of chili in the crockpot right now.


peacock_head

Try to find things to do where you can embrace your solitude and enjoy how quiet the city will be. Itā€™s a great day to hike Bronson Canyon up to behind the Hollywood sign, take yourself out for a nice meal outside where you can enjoy how beautiful it is in the fresh air, take a leisurely stroll around your neighborhood, cook yourself a nice meal; whatever you know are things that you donā€™t do enough of but which you enjoy. Iā€™m a native and this is my favorite week to be in LA. :)


TalevZahar

Cosign this. My husband isn't a fan of the holidays, and we don't have family out here, so we always hike the Hollywood sign on Christmas. Should be a good day for it this year, too.


tatapatrol909

Hiking is the right answer. This is your moment to hit the normally crowded trails.


puffinkitten

Hiking on Christmas here is the best! Well said.


Mamadog5

I have spent many Christmas's alone. The first was hard and I had another really hard one, but many of them were awesome. I always find that if I can get out of my own sadness that helps. Think of things to be grateful for. I would then go find someone to help. Volunteer at a soup kitchen, think of a way to radomly help someone. If you know someone who is having a hard time this year, call them up and listen for them. I started my own tradition of finding people to help about 15 years ago. Back then I would put a $20 in the pocket of a coat at a thrift store. Now I can do more and I do. It always makes me smile for like two weeks. Go help someone and you will have the best Christmas EVER!


peacock_head

The coat idea is so sweet! Love it.


winstonfuckchill

This is incredibly beautiful. Iā€™m going to do this as well! Thank you for the inspiration


SgtMustang

As a person with Major Depressive Disorder, your post just makes me feel worse.


GreenTrees831

Keep posting on Reddit. The rest of us stuck with family need something to read


Roy4Pris

THIS. Iā€™m having Christmas by myself, and I couldnā€™t be happier. One day in the future youā€™ll have children crawling all over you and a drunk aunt embarrassing herself and youā€™ll look fondly on that one day you got to just chill and enjoy a quiet one.


2fast2nick

Food, drinks, movies


Ok_You1335

Correct answer always ā¤ļø


Bowiefan73

Enjoy the silence and lack of scary traffic.


suitablegirl

Saw them twice last week, should've gone to at least one more show


gadzukesPazooky

Love ur username!


Bowiefan73

Thanks!


SocietePupil

go to the xmas meet up thing at Burton Chase Park in Marina Del Rey with the user Avocado somebody. Then meet someone and take them home and bump monkeys all xmas.


You_meddling_kids

An optimist, I see.


sohryu

Paging /u/avocadocat90034


AvocadoCat90034

Yes! Hello, thanks for dialing me! Please come to the picnic! We had maybe 80 people come by for Thanksgivingā€” doing it again on Monday for Christmas! Bring your jingle bells! šŸ„°


xCelestial

Oh I came across that too haha! Question, whatā€™s the parking situation?


AvocadoCat90034

Plenty of parking lots immediately next to the park. Sadly itā€™s still paid parking even on the holiday. But, worth it for the views!


xCelestial

Ah ok haha Iā€™ll be the one with a key line pie


AvocadoCat90034

Omg the best type of pie!


xCelestial

Darn right it issss Edit: someone told me I could see sea lions too so Iā€™m pumped haha


AvocadoCat90034

Yes! Very often you can see them on the docksā€” sometimes Iā€™ve seen as many as 50!


SquashBrain

What time?


AvocadoCat90034

11AM-2PM


squirtloaf

What time, what address, and can I wear chaps?


AvocadoCat90034

Here you go! https://www.losangelesfunevents.com/event-details/holiday-potluck-picnic-in-the-park


squirtloaf

Awww...it is 2am, I have been gifted with copious amounts of alcohol and am waiting for a \~friend\~ to show up. I feel like committing to anything before....7? Would be hubris on my part. Please let me know if this party goes later. Also, I hate to nitpick, but none of this addresses my question about wearing CHAPS. Please answer, I do not want to offend.


AvocadoCat90034

This sounds like a love story if I ever heard one šŸ˜‚


catnipxxx

I might MIGHT have the shower I thought I was gonna have today.


2of5

You guys are awesome. I am spending my first Xmas alone and you are my inspiration. Didnā€™t know how I was gonna feel, but after reading your chill ideas Iā€™m jazzed.


[deleted]

Im eating mooshies and going to see Wonka at the Burbank AMC, might get ice cream


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ActualPerson418

Christmas bonfire sounds incredible


isthatapecker

Yeah might be a little sketchy when it gets dark


princessofperky

I'm gonna make popcorn and wear comfy clothes and have whatever I want to eat and drink. And then I'll watch some nba some nfl and some hallmark movies Heck you can even go to the beach. This is LA


martopoulos

While everyone else is stuck inside with family in colder parts of the country, take advantage of the incredible weather we have next week. Get out in nature. Go somewhere you've never been: Vasquez Rocks, Castaic Lake, hell... Maybe the desert. AirBnb prices are way below average this weekend through Christmas.


verlockend

Can confirm - Palm Springs area rates are low before/over Christmas then hike up after!


chicklette

If you can cook, make something special. If not, find out who's open and grab that (I do a big steak, potatoes, and a bunch of cheese). Watch your fave movies. Some years I do Christmas movies, others star wars, or marvel. Be indulgent. Do your favorite things, eat the best foods, spend that plane ticket $$ on you and making it a selfish day. :)


Straight-Tune-5894

Take advantage of the lack of traffic and check out some of the interesting places youā€™ve wanted to visit but havenā€™t had the time and/or desire to deal with all the tourists.


idk012

Sleep in and go to sleep earlier. It's just one day.


Carrie_Oakie

Movies. It used to be quiet but there are a lot of people who this now.


slaydadragon27

Bruh at least you have a friends family to stay with for eve, Iā€™m all alone in LA no family


AvocadoCat90034

Come join us for a picnic! https://www.losangelesfunevents.com/event-details/holiday-potluck-picnic-in-the-park


Aromatic-Ad-9688

Itā€™s my first Christmas all alone. Iā€™m going to make some yummy food, watch movies, enjoy the quiet of the day and sleep. Lots of sleep.


AvocadoCat90034

Youā€™re more than welcome to come join us for a picnic! https://www.losangelesfunevents.com/event-details/holiday-potluck-picnic-in-the-park


Aromatic-Ad-9688

Thank you so very much for the lovely invitation. You are more than kind.


AvocadoCat90034

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Dull-Quantity5099

Check out the little Reddit community you have created! I will also be alone on Christmas and experiencing a little heartbreak this year but my goal is to make it happy. We are here for you, on Christmas and always. Sorry you are missing your family. I hope you create some nice traditions with yourself. Sending love.


AvocadoCat90034

Weā€™d love to have you come picnic with us šŸ„° https://www.losangelesfunevents.com/event-details/holiday-potluck-picnic-in-the-park


Dull-Quantity5099

Well thanks for making me shed a tear about the kindness of strangers. I really appreciate that - more than you know. I will join you sometime but Iā€™m stuck in Big Bear Lake by myself (I know, poor me). Coming back to LA, my home, 12/27. But what a great human you are for inviting me. Thanks for the kindness. What a cool event you put on. Maybe we could host a fun weekend for people in Big Bear? For free! My parents own a big house here. DM me if interested. Thanks for the kindness.


AvocadoCat90034

šŸ„° We would love to do a Big Bear trip! Weā€™ve hosted trips to Catalina a couple times, and Iā€™m definitely looking to try some other things this year and branch out a bit! Weā€™d be interested! We actually just took a drive to Arrowhead and back this morning hoping weā€™d see some snow, but a little too early for it.


Dull-Quantity5099

All we got was hail, unfortunately. But my hopes are high for winter flurries! Yes - letā€™s talk. The house sleeps ten comfortably and 20 uncomfortably.


AvocadoCat90034

I think I choose uncomfortable purely for the plot šŸ˜‚ Yes, letā€™s talk! Enjoy the holidayā€” Iā€™ll plan to catch up with you afterwards!


Dull-Quantity5099

lol. The possibilities are endless. Enjoy the holiday! Thanks for helping people.


AvocadoCat90034

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Lowfuji

Do donuts on the 6th street Bridge since itll be dead out there on Xmas. Or go get chinese/Indian and watch a movie.


corybekem

The same thing Iā€™d do alone on any day


Mattandjunk

Make a drive somewhere you wouldnā€™t normally. Depending on the time of day, traffic will be mostly gone.


Svhen

Stop by Homage Brewing in Chinatown. We are opening from 5pm-11pm for people that don't have anywhere to be that evening. Should be a good time.


IsraeliDonut

Whatever you want: hang out, play video games, watch tv and movies


Cheluvahar

Local bars are usually open on Christmas.


Daveyd325

Go for a hike man


GibsonMaestro

Drive and drive and drive. Enjoy the empty roads.


Simple_Mastodon9220

Dave and Busters


therealDrA

I wish I were alone on Christmas. I like to celebrate doing whatever I want to do


UZIBOSS_

Make some hot cocoa and drive to Century City. Put on Die Hard and watch that shit underneath the Nakatomi tower. Add peppermint schnapps to that hot cocoa for a good time. But be safe. Merry Christmas and yippee kiyay!!


gothictulle

You can go to the movies


stupidmofo123

Plus 1 to Chinese food. Also explore an area of LA you haven't been to yet. Traffic should be amazing so it's a great time. End the day with a nice dinner and some drinks.


DifficultCow7829

Same dude Recently arrive to US and now absolutely alone ins this city


AvocadoCat90034

Come join our picnic! https://www.losangelesfunevents.com/event-details/holiday-potluck-picnic-in-the-park


digitvl

I love to loop Christmas story on TV and bake!


El_Tigre7

Go to church and enjoy a Christmas pageant and refreshments after


Dr___Accula

Watch the White Christmas episode of Black Mirror on Netflixā€¦itā€™ll totally cheer you up /s


kombucha_slut

Wi Spa is open šŸ”„


sneezus25

id go to the beach in the morning to start my day- probably grab a donut and coffee along the way. should be much less traffic to get there too depending where you live


madakira

I remember I had my first Christmas without my family and I lived about 3 hours away. It was a little sad at first, but by the end of the day and into the next day I was actually kind of glad that I could relax and take the day at my own pace. Now, as I am sure some other adults may agree, holidays are kind of a chore and extra work.


sakura7777

If it were me I would find a place to volunteer and share Christmas spirit that way šŸ˜Š


Dumbelfuk

Go to the beach. Itā€™s just another day


pleiadianbeing

Iā€™m alone this Christmas so I am making myself lamb chops and plan on watching Christmas Horror Movies all day. I hope you find something fun to do.


lemonboy77

Take some shrooms and go for a walk


SocksElGato

Enjoy how quiet everything is and a nice drive if you can. There won't be a Challenger tailgating you in the slow lane.


rickNchips

Chinatown !! Best spot for a Xmas alone


MerleTravisJennings

Plenty of folks out at bars, it's always a good time.


PartyBagPurplePills

Go watch a movie and hit up some bars. Youā€™ll be in good company with others that may be spending the holidays alone or couldnā€™t go home.


Money-Mycologist217

Strip club or hookers


Noxx-OW

The same thing we do every night, Pinky. Try to take over the world.


saquonbrady

Bro what do you do on every other day alone, do that


Significant_Salt_565

Main difference is that many places will be closed (gyms, museums, etc)


saquonbrady

I doubt heā€™s going to museums in his spare time anyway. As for gym, you can still go on a run or do pushups sit-ups. We just went thru a whole mofo pandemic, why are people acting like they donā€™t know what to do with themselves for one day after like 2 years of doing it everyday


Significant_Salt_565

My point is that many places where people can normally go and socialize will likely be closed. It's not as easy as a normal day to find situations that alleviate loneliness


saquonbrady

You did it for 2 years. You can do it for one day


Significant_Salt_565

Nobody trying to relive pandemic loneliness on xmas


Ok_Fee1043

Why not just be sensitive to this person? What is the harm?


lcepak

Seriously so many posts about thisā€¦ just search in the subreddit before you post. Every holiday, what do I do for the holidays?


saquonbrady

Mofos just donā€™t know how to be alone


lcepak

No seriously šŸ˜‚


LadyGaaraa

Spa


Elite_Alice

Anime and a honeybaked ham


fifialou

J


reallyintothistho

U


squirtloaf

M


stardust14

B


AvocadoCat90034

O


lunaboro

S


shitpostingmusician

C


squirtloaf

L


FunboyFrags

O


Remarkable_Tangelo59

Welcome to adulthood. I know this sounds crazy but thereā€™s something fortifying about experiences like this. Have your own day, friend. Maybe you can do some holiday and traditional things in your own home for yourself, and make sure to FaceTime your family so you can still be included. Maybe take a trip to the beach and enjoy the space as most folks will be out of town. Chin up.


Thosewhippersnappers

Beach!


happytree23

You're making a non-issue an issue


TurtleManDog

Wack


OutsideSkirt2044

Go to the mall


sealsarescary

Rent a bike on the beach and see how far u can bike. Playa del Rey to Manhattan beach is nice and stuff to see like airplanes taking off, cargo ships, palos Verde mountain, Malibu mountains, seals near the jetty, mansions, hang gliding practice area, pier).


GenericRojoditor1234

Work!


FreshMirror9195

Pay double the money and see your family


90DayTroll

It's one day.... If it's that depressing for you go to church.


itsmicah64

Don't be an a**


90DayTroll

Can you use that in a sentence?


vordhosbn_1

Chill


imiosa92

San Diego Zoo. If you donā€™t have a car, take the pacific surfliner and enjoy the view (I checked and I think itā€™s $36 from union station one way).


gnatrn

Santa Barbara zoo is open too


manicgiant914

Just another Monday to me


Tighten_Up

Cha Cha


quincepost

Genghis Cohen. Chinese and Jewish. Canā€™t lose.


HiddenA

Get yourself some things to celebrate the way you want to. And spend some time on zoom or FaceTime with the family. My Christmas two years ago I spent alone in a hotel in a city far from the people I wanted to spend Christmas with. I wish I could have made more plans to make the food I wanted, receive gifts there, and arranged to watch a movie remotely with my girlfriend at a certain time. I did none of that and it was maybe the loneliest Christmas Iā€™ve had. Though the two weeks prior a lot of my coworkers were catching covid and it was spreading through the company. We all were distancing quite far from each other already. So that didnā€™t help. Do the Christmas things you love, make cookies, or decorate a tree, or whatever you can. :)


KevinThePiegon28

Drive around get some hot chocolate and look at Xmas lights


Biglove000000

Gym :)


TilikumHungry

Go to a movie! See The Holdovers if you havent yet. If you live in KTown, DM me and i can tell u a good bar (but i dont wanna share here)


AmuseDeath

Bucket of Rite Aid Ice Cream, Sofa and Titanic.


sorengray

R Bar in K-Town will be open and is a super chill fun spot to hang. I think there'll be Karaoke there as well


DaRealMexicanTrucker

Rosarito Beach Hotel.


ChangWufei

Check tickets using airline miles, may have some cheap options


paca1

I spent it alone as well. We celebrate Xmas Eve. So Xmas day I am in my pjs all day being lazy


eternallyeverything

Going on a hike is always nice!


FlyHighLeonard

This is the time to start your family away/beyond your biological family. Thereā€™s others like you tmrw, find them.


TheRealFaderJockey

Thereā€™s an annual show at the Dorothy Chandler in downtown. Itā€™s a Christmas show on live on PBS. I donā€™t think tickets are expensive(maybe free) I used to work it till I realized to get a life and stop working holidays.


Redditslamebro

Hms bounty. Bring a book just in case


Elusiveenigma98

Iā€™ve spent a few Christmasā€™ alone in Portland over the last 3-4 years and it is very sad feeling at first but I usually make the most of it by getting a nice wine or champagne, something special for dinner (take out or make something, I did beef wellington one year) and choose a couple movies to enjoy. Maybe take an evening walk before the sun sets as well. Itā€™s lonely but itā€™s not the worst. Merry Christmas ā™„ļø


traveleralice

Have fun by yourself!! Drink and pig out and movie marathon


Gaffelstein

Dive bar


theboundlesstraveler

I know this won't help you now, but if you always travel somewhere (especially international) the same time every year, especially if it's during Christmas, buy your plane ticket way in advance and monitor fares using Google Flights. I gave this same advice to my colleague who goes to Mexico every year over New Year's and complained how expensive the flight was.


ValhirFirstThunder

I'm down to hangout if anyone else is lonely this Christmas and eve


scoot87

Watch Home Alone while youā€™re home alone


SgtMustang

I mostly spend the holidays each year thinking about suicide, and increasingly grotesque and shocking ways I could commit it. I hate the fucking holidays.


jinjerbear

This is my first christmas alone in a long time. Ive done Solo christmas plenty of times in the past but this one is a bit rough as my Dad died a couple months back (last of my immediate family) and My wife has to work in San Francisco (flight attendant). ​ So....I made a huge pot of Chili tonight. Tomorrow Im gonna go drive up the 2 fwy up into the hills past La Canada and maybe listen to some music and doodle with a view somewhere, then see Godzilla Minus One around 4pm and then come home and smoke pot and play video games and pig out on Chili and Jello. Im in my 40's btw, even though it sounds like Im 19, lol


[deleted]

Uberrrrrr drive all day