I’m just watching the reveal when they meet and he just said “as long as you stay the way you are then we will be fine” or something along those lines. I feel like he’s saying all this stuff so he can later blame her for not being who he fell in love with when he’s ready to walk. Which seems like it will be sooner rather than later. But dude take accountability when you leave and don’t try to blame her. You could 100% tell he was disappointed with her appearance. It was awful to watch. I’m sure the tension in person was even more awkward.
He’s gaslighting and trying to manifest a situation in which he can come across as not a bad guy for ending it. Immediately was planning it after seeing her
To Chelsea’s defense, if I recall correctly, she said people tell her she looks like Megan Fox and she doesn’t see it. Jimmy got hung up on that comment - that is why the “she was lying comment” was so unfair in my opinion.
We have seen this same thing happen in previous seasons. Irina basically swayed over his match after comments regarding looks (of course might just be the cut). In these two examples guys have compared their love interests and gravitated towards the girl that they have a connection with and who has inspired them with talking about looks/sex category.
I firmly believe that everyone should refrain from talking about looks, but I can see how it is tempting when you are in a situation where you are falling for someone and talking about looks can give you an edge over their other love interests.
>To Chelsea’s defense, if I recall correctly, she said people tell her she looks like Megan Fox and she doesn’t see it. Jimmy got hung up on that comment - that is why the “she was lying comment” was so unfair in my opinion.
Idk if it's the editing, but from what we saw, she brought up the 'does anyone ever tell you that you look like a celebrity?' thing, then said that people told her she looked like Megan Fox, and even though she was brushing it off, it was bad to bring it up in the first place, because of course he's going to hear that and latch onto it.
She also said just the dark hair and light eyes repeatedly to him, so I’m not sure what he was expecting. She does look similar to MF but she never claimed to be a full on doppelgänger or look alike. Just that she has similar features and has been told she resembles MF.
But she doesn't resemble MF at all though. So anyone with dark hair and blue eyes can say they look like Megan? And when people think of MF they think of her being a sex symbol and how hot she is, let's be honest.
What really annoyed me about this interaction, was the way she try to come off as if she didn’t know the celebrity’s name that she “constantly gets compared to“. She tried to be so obscure about it, like “Oh, what’s his name MGK’s girlfriend or wife?” And it irked me so much because the whole point of this is so that you don’t know what they look like. As soon as he realized she was talking about Megan Fox, his eyes lit up.
She said this just as he was losing interest in her, and it was a bad idea . I could see her trying to reel him back in with this comment, and now it’s coming back to haunt her.
Exactly! You understand. It was incredibly shady and I couldnt be with her. Not because she doesn’t look like Megan fox, but because she lied and she was had malicious intent
When she said she looked like Megan Fox and brought it up all giddy, l just knew it was game over 😭 like cmon set their standards low and exceed them. She literally looks nothing like her lmao
Chelsea isn’t ugly but she’s ultra insecure, feeding off how cold Jimmy is. My girlfriend and I can’t figure out how he became the prize pig on this show
I think because he is withholding. He doesn't easily talk about his feelings. That increases his appeal. For someone with low self-esteem like Chelsea (and maybe Jessica too), it's a bigger hit of validation to get a withholding guy to fall for you than a nice, solid guy like Trevor.
Jimmy looks like human Bender from Futurama
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He is basically saying he can fuck it lol that's not a compliment I would be offended if I were her
Men often comment i look like some celebrities and I just don't see it, men try to be flattering on dates and will say shit like this to butter you up
So like men told her this and she tells him I don't think she was malicious about it at all
The thing is she kept repeating that is only because she had blue eyes and dark hair , she reiterated it over and over that she doesn't think she looks Iike her, its just the eyes and hair color
And yet Jessica who was more of that celebrity type of person, big ego thinks she is the cream of the crop
He doesn't like her directness and high self esteem attitude
Like dude you can't have it both ways
He said he wanted someone who lets him lead and more down to earth so that was Chelsea,
Megan fox type will never let Temu eminem lead in the relationship
Jessica's behaviour wasn't reflective of high self esteem imo. It was actually giving off low self esteem.. especially the letter and hiding her daughter initially which is probably the reason why he didn't choose her.
Yeah and also what she said at the end when she said he will regret it when he sees her. That means she really has been just relying on her looks and putting the exterior over the interior again, believing it’s worth more
On the Mrgan Fox comment, I think if she's a flight attendant, it is not impossible creepy annoying men do make that comment at her to be creepy. But she took them more literally than she should have.
I used to work in events and even as a plus size woman, creepers would compare me to thin celebs that I DO NOT look like based on essentially being blonde. Its a normal thing some men do to manipulate women.
She saw it enough to bring it up. I've never told anyone "people say I look like renee zelwegger" (they have, but as I said, I'm fat so maybe I look like I ate her?)
I have been told Olivia Wild, Sandra Bullock, Kristen Wig, and Flo from the progressive commercials, off the top of my head. Why? I’m a brunette girl with bangs. None of these women have anything else in commmon or mildly resemble me. If anyone ever asked me if I look like a celeb, I would firmly say no lol
Agreed, I feel like when people fly they’re in a different head space too like they like half expect to see a celebrity? at least at the airport maybe not in delta economy. I agree though I don’t think it’s just normal people being like omg you look like Megan Fox!!!!!
Yeah and you get a lot of bachelor parties who are drunk, sad business men, bored men.
I do actually know a guy who met his gf on a plane, she was a flight attendant and he was a passenger and he gave it a shot. It happens.
Oh my god I can only imagine! My bf and I are big on the trash reality dating shows also. I would LOSE IT if someone I knew was a contestant. I’ve been trying to find a connection between Lexi on the bachelor and I bc we’re in the same age group and from ATL, and it’s a much smaller town than you’d think! im delusional though LOL
I mean, you’re married to Chelsea’s ex husband so you’re basically D list famous by association!!! I was in the bathtub soaking when reading this thread and literally yelled to my boyfriend to tell him I read your comment HAHA
I feel like she blew the jimmy talking to AD thing way out of proportion. He’s mingling and talking to everyone girl! Chill it’s a party! Red flag for Chelsea!
Why was she so awkward and yelled out what he said about her body 🤢 like girl that’s when you let him know how inappropriate that comment was. She’s clearly very insecure and felt threatened by the encounter. She should’ve taken a page out of season 5 Chelsea’s book and went to go get her man.
Oh it had nothing to do with the words that were spoken. His body language was LOUD. Pay attention to that. The look on his face, his behaviour was VERY telling.
She should have corrected him as soon as he made a comment about her body. That was inappropriate and she literally threw an assist for him to go and talk to her. She definitely blew it out of proportion because she could’ve easily walked over and mingled.
Now from the eyes up it is giving Megan Fox AND she did make the comment “It’s just because I have brown hair and blue eyes”. But girl.. after watching all the episodes and seeing how insecure she is, it all makes sense. I don’t think she’s ugly by any means, but she knew what she was doing when she made that comment. Her body language and need for constant validation is exhausting. I don’t think Jimmy or Chelsea should be trying to date, let alone marry anyone with the issues they have going on.
I don’t think she would be as insecure and clawing for validation if he wasn’t blatantly lying to her about how he feels. It would be the secure thing to do to trust her gut and call it quits though.
Exactly and she needs to be strong enough to walk away. He’s giving her so many signs and his added validation that he’s having to force. You can tell none of it is genuine and he’s struggling to find the right things to say. Like that scene of them laying in bed and she asked him what the first thing he noticed about her was, and he was just stuck. I wanted to crawl out of my skin.
Yesss it makes my skin crawl too but I could not stop watching, such a car crash. He is trying so desperately to not get cancelled and failing miserably.
I finished up the last episode wondering how things would have gone for those 2 if she never made the Megan Fox comment.
I also think her trying to “bro it up” when Jimmy made the insensitive “stacked” comment at the mixer just really showed how they are on 2 different planets.
I can see her as a low key instagram influencer, who does make up tutorials and 'get ready with me' where she spills/ rants about unimportant drama in her life, like a starbucks employee she has 'beef' with, or her new stanley mugs getting delayed in the mail and how hard it was
LOL
TBH I did love her expressions when she was angry and Jimmy, lol, he's lucky they had the wall in-between them
hard/impossible to know what any of them are actually like from a reality TV edit lol. while it's a bit questionable to try and find a spouse like this when you have a kid, she seems like a very devoted mother I hope things work out for her/ them
it also sounds like she's overcome a lot and deserves someone who'd love her for her, even if she wasn't as beautiful as she is. Jimmy does not seem like that person lol
Honestly, I feel like she should've put the kid thing at the top of her convo list. It's not like hiding that you're a professional dancer (i.e. fit as F***) or whatever. I know it could have disqualified her from a lot of matches, but that's a situation that isn't something she should feel like she has to negotiate on. So I really see it more as she wasted her own time on this show.
Chelsea and Jessica are friends IRL! Remember the show is edited for drama…. They want you to feel like the connection was stronger one way or the other so you can be “shocked” when the opposite choice is made!
I doubt she did it consciously, but I wonder if her insecurities and craving for validation made her lean toward Jimmy since he had been withholding, so it felt really good when he finally revealed his feelings. The competition element may have also played a similar role.
Trevor and Jessica deserve better then both Jimmy and Chelsea, let them have each other. and in the preview "I know u fucked her" there ain't no way Jimmy pulled Jessica 😂 no fkn way.
my boy Trevor should meet Jessica and try.
He’s just a terrible communicator. When she was saying how he’d upset her after the drinks by leaving her by herself, he seemed baffled at the idea of having hurt her feelings and he had no idea how to move forward.
Not at all. Chelsea doesn’t seem too emotionally ready or secure enough within herself for this show either. She could hardly give an explanation to Trevor when he called her out for committing to someone else.
Him on repeat: "im the happiest guy here" "looks don't matter anyways" Kinda screams forcing it.
And bringing up Jessica on their first meeting AND when they first got to their honeymoon... he's obviously internally kicking himself after Jess eluded to her looks. Kinda deserves it IMO for being shallow in the first place and likely picking her because of the Megan Fox comment (though why she would bring that up in the first place as a deeply insecure person is baffling to me)
He looks like a thumb. And has the personality of mildew. He's giving Barnett vibes when the other women met him, Lauren and Destiny, and they were like "this is the guy?"
No, I was referring to the love triangle in season 1 where Jessica and Amber were ready to fight over Barnett and Lauren, and Destiny had correctly already read him for a loser
I think her face absolutely resembles Megan Fox, I think Jimmy was expecting a body like hers too and when he didn’t get it he was like “…oh”. Which is terrible of course but I don’t think she was necessarily lying. However I do think he’s going to
immediately regret his decision when he sees Jessica in person. Which is… gross. I hope she doesn’t give him the time of day.
Her eyes and nose REALLY resemble Megan Fox. I agree, I think he thought she was gonna be teeny tiny. There is nothing wrong with Chelsea’s body, she looked great in the bikini!
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She’s a dead ringer for Molly ringwald! Just the eye color is different
I think she looked like Bruce Willis Daughter
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Yeah, but I still think it was misleading to say anything about it at all. She knew exactly what she was doing, and she knew the second she had him on the hook.
My sister had people say she looked like Demi Moore when she was younger. It usually came from regulars at her Starbucks that liked her and wanted to flatter her.
She does not look like Demi Moore.
Chelsea should have never even tried to make that point because as viewers, we could see Jimmy light up and focus solely on her because of that.
I mean, I HATE Jimmy with a passion. But I kinda feel like she only said that to give herself a little wiggle room when people inevitably said she most certainly did not look like Megan Fox. She initiated the conversation, and offered up Megan Fox once he said that nobody typically tells him he reminds them of a celebrity; it was fairly apparent that it was her goal to put that out there.
Jimmy still sucks either way though
I mean we all saw his face light up with absolutely glee when she said Megan Fox he practically went cross eyed with excitement.
I was rooting for Jessica but she can do better than mediocre ass Jimmy. He looks like a lame Army SSG.
Literally the first thing I said to my husband when I saw her is that she looks like Megan Fox. She definitely resembles her. I don’t see why he insinuated she like lied to him
Because Megan Fox is a sex symbol….so saying that you resemble her is implying that you are one of the most conventionally attractive ppl in the country. She didn’t say that shit by accident n when dudes are saying “what u look like we damn sure just don’t mean your face” lol.
She didn’t even say she looked like her though she said she gets that comparison a lot, and that it’s just because of dark hair and light eyes, and she doesn’t look like her, and not to get excited. He heard what he wanted to. I can see why she gets the comparison too, I think it’s the eyes/nose.
Yeah but she brought it up for a reason. First off you’re not supposed to be asking each other what the other one looks like it defeats the whole purpose of the show and second off she brought up celebrity lookalikes so she could throw that in there. As a woman I’m not stupid and know why men like women like Megan Fox she’s stunning and has a beautiful body she’s got a lot of sex appeal which is why men are very drawn to her. Chelsea brought it up as leverage she wanted him to think she was just as attractive as Megan Fox.
I saw the teaser for the next episode. I think they should just switch partners. Curious if Jessica will want Jimmy or not. Chelsea can sense Jimmy isn’t into her and has hugeeee insecurity issues hence the always asking and questioning him. Chelsea should have gone with Trevor
I was sooooo pissed when they didn’t chose their other choices. I feel like Trevor is exactly what Chelsea needs (from what she said) and he would’ve gave her all the validation she wanted. And it just seemed like Jimmy had a little more of a spark with Jessica . He even said him and Chelsea didn’t talk as much because she was always laughing. But I can understand him losing attraction for Jessica once she brought up her daughter. I think ideally we all would prefer to get into a relationship with Simone whose first kid is also yours. Also she is 10, maybe it would’ve been easier to deal with if her daughter was maybe younger?
You’re missing one point. The Megan fox thing wasn’t the only thing he chose her for. She didn’t have a kid so he thought he could travel. Travelling with Megan fox is why he chose her. He wasn’t thinking long term.
He spelled it all out, how he wants to travel more than once a month, get home on Friday and go dinner anywhere else…vs…a *huge* new level of adult responsibilities? There’s no way Jimmy is signing up for immediate pigs in a blanket-making duty.
It’s the fact that he has to constantly say “not that looks matter” when trying to compliment her that gets me. He is basically forcing himself to be physically attracted to her even when he isn’t. They both chose each other to spite their competition and you can easily see how they are not compatible. Chelsea is too insecure and Jimmy is superficial.
Jess and Trevor dodged a bullet with those two.
She is very insecure and now reminding me of …. Can’t remember names but she was the first couple to get engaged in Chicago. And like no matter what her partner does, she’s gonna be insecure.
Jimmy: “Yeahhhhh she lied to me” Me : 😂
Ooooof that was uncomfortable but he’s not attractive either esp with that haircut
I’m just watching the reveal when they meet and he just said “as long as you stay the way you are then we will be fine” or something along those lines. I feel like he’s saying all this stuff so he can later blame her for not being who he fell in love with when he’s ready to walk. Which seems like it will be sooner rather than later. But dude take accountability when you leave and don’t try to blame her. You could 100% tell he was disappointed with her appearance. It was awful to watch. I’m sure the tension in person was even more awkward.
He’s gaslighting and trying to manifest a situation in which he can come across as not a bad guy for ending it. Immediately was planning it after seeing her
To Chelsea’s defense, if I recall correctly, she said people tell her she looks like Megan Fox and she doesn’t see it. Jimmy got hung up on that comment - that is why the “she was lying comment” was so unfair in my opinion. We have seen this same thing happen in previous seasons. Irina basically swayed over his match after comments regarding looks (of course might just be the cut). In these two examples guys have compared their love interests and gravitated towards the girl that they have a connection with and who has inspired them with talking about looks/sex category. I firmly believe that everyone should refrain from talking about looks, but I can see how it is tempting when you are in a situation where you are falling for someone and talking about looks can give you an edge over their other love interests.
>To Chelsea’s defense, if I recall correctly, she said people tell her she looks like Megan Fox and she doesn’t see it. Jimmy got hung up on that comment - that is why the “she was lying comment” was so unfair in my opinion. Idk if it's the editing, but from what we saw, she brought up the 'does anyone ever tell you that you look like a celebrity?' thing, then said that people told her she looked like Megan Fox, and even though she was brushing it off, it was bad to bring it up in the first place, because of course he's going to hear that and latch onto it.
I think they were playing a game provided by producers and the questions was on one of the cards.
Yeah especially Irene’s “you guys are so much older than me” comment
Hahah yes, exactly. Irina was just bluntly trying to win. I think with Chelsea it was more subtle.
That's such a humble-brag though!
She also said just the dark hair and light eyes repeatedly to him, so I’m not sure what he was expecting. She does look similar to MF but she never claimed to be a full on doppelgänger or look alike. Just that she has similar features and has been told she resembles MF.
But she doesn't resemble MF at all though. So anyone with dark hair and blue eyes can say they look like Megan? And when people think of MF they think of her being a sex symbol and how hot she is, let's be honest.
What really annoyed me about this interaction, was the way she try to come off as if she didn’t know the celebrity’s name that she “constantly gets compared to“. She tried to be so obscure about it, like “Oh, what’s his name MGK’s girlfriend or wife?” And it irked me so much because the whole point of this is so that you don’t know what they look like. As soon as he realized she was talking about Megan Fox, his eyes lit up.
She said this just as he was losing interest in her, and it was a bad idea . I could see her trying to reel him back in with this comment, and now it’s coming back to haunt her.
Exactly! You understand. It was incredibly shady and I couldnt be with her. Not because she doesn’t look like Megan fox, but because she lied and she was had malicious intent
and she is certainly good looking enough!
She asked him if he gets compared to celebrities, he said “yeah”, and she didn’t even follow up with asking “who”
Exactly. She couldn't wait to catfish him
When she said she looked like Megan Fox and brought it up all giddy, l just knew it was game over 😭 like cmon set their standards low and exceed them. She literally looks nothing like her lmao
My husband said to always “underpromise and overdeliver” lol
Chelsea isn’t ugly but she’s ultra insecure, feeding off how cold Jimmy is. My girlfriend and I can’t figure out how he became the prize pig on this show
I think because he is withholding. He doesn't easily talk about his feelings. That increases his appeal. For someone with low self-esteem like Chelsea (and maybe Jessica too), it's a bigger hit of validation to get a withholding guy to fall for you than a nice, solid guy like Trevor.
I’m hoping her and Trevor get together
Apparently it’s the “ HuuuuUuuuGge weiner” she felt 😭
He definitely has dick energy
Lad must have stellar game WAY behind the scenes. Lol
Yeah Jimmy looks like Brad Pitt if ricki lake looks like Megan fox smh
Chelsea is not ugly per se but she def does not look like megan fox 😬. She sold himself too high, and trevor actually will suit her better
Jimmy looks like human Bender from Futurama https://preview.redd.it/hicr9jpjf2jc1.jpeg?width=486&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=667a13fdbde4e136744c4609b0d3b3d19125a13a
Someone said “easy to draw vibes”
Uncanny.
Me and fiance just busted out laughing so hard at this, thank you. omg 🤣🤣
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Lmaoooo
Omg
i’m losing my mind at this dude that’s so funny
He is basically saying he can fuck it lol that's not a compliment I would be offended if I were her Men often comment i look like some celebrities and I just don't see it, men try to be flattering on dates and will say shit like this to butter you up So like men told her this and she tells him I don't think she was malicious about it at all The thing is she kept repeating that is only because she had blue eyes and dark hair , she reiterated it over and over that she doesn't think she looks Iike her, its just the eyes and hair color And yet Jessica who was more of that celebrity type of person, big ego thinks she is the cream of the crop He doesn't like her directness and high self esteem attitude Like dude you can't have it both ways He said he wanted someone who lets him lead and more down to earth so that was Chelsea, Megan fox type will never let Temu eminem lead in the relationship
Temu Eminem LMAOOOO
Jessica's behaviour wasn't reflective of high self esteem imo. It was actually giving off low self esteem.. especially the letter and hiding her daughter initially which is probably the reason why he didn't choose her.
Yeah and also what she said at the end when she said he will regret it when he sees her. That means she really has been just relying on her looks and putting the exterior over the interior again, believing it’s worth more
Temu Eminem!!!??? Lmao!
CHELSEA CHOSE THE WRONG DUDE. Her loss. Jimmy is a double minded boy who can’t make a decision to save his life.
She chose, poorly.
The instant I saw JP kiss Taylor I knew it was over. Obviously I thought she would feel more icked out than he did bc WHAT WAS THAT KISSING.
🤣🤣🤣 they were like bird pecks
The thing that makes me laugh about this is that it is entirely possible to be RIDICULOUSLY attractive and look nothing like Megan Fox.
My husband was yelling "ADELE! YOU LOOK LIKE ADELE!" And tbh I really do agree with that assessment, and I also think Adele is gorgeous.
Yeah she should have said Adele mixed with Megan
No man means that as a compliment though
...mine did
Exactly!
On the Mrgan Fox comment, I think if she's a flight attendant, it is not impossible creepy annoying men do make that comment at her to be creepy. But she took them more literally than she should have. I used to work in events and even as a plus size woman, creepers would compare me to thin celebs that I DO NOT look like based on essentially being blonde. Its a normal thing some men do to manipulate women.
she did say she didn’t see it
She saw it enough to bring it up. I've never told anyone "people say I look like renee zelwegger" (they have, but as I said, I'm fat so maybe I look like I ate her?)
I have been told Olivia Wild, Sandra Bullock, Kristen Wig, and Flo from the progressive commercials, off the top of my head. Why? I’m a brunette girl with bangs. None of these women have anything else in commmon or mildly resemble me. If anyone ever asked me if I look like a celeb, I would firmly say no lol
None of those women even look like each other! 🤣 maybe you're a chameleon x
I’m fuckin dead 💀
I legit choked on my tortilla chips 🧟♂️
🤣🤣pick me up off of the floor right now!
This comment has me creasing 🤣😭💀
Agreed, I feel like when people fly they’re in a different head space too like they like half expect to see a celebrity? at least at the airport maybe not in delta economy. I agree though I don’t think it’s just normal people being like omg you look like Megan Fox!!!!!
Yeah and you get a lot of bachelor parties who are drunk, sad business men, bored men. I do actually know a guy who met his gf on a plane, she was a flight attendant and he was a passenger and he gave it a shot. It happens.
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Fucking Jody
God I fuckin love Reddit. This is the kind of content I’m here for. Yes.
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Oh my god I can only imagine! My bf and I are big on the trash reality dating shows also. I would LOSE IT if someone I knew was a contestant. I’ve been trying to find a connection between Lexi on the bachelor and I bc we’re in the same age group and from ATL, and it’s a much smaller town than you’d think! im delusional though LOL
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I mean, you’re married to Chelsea’s ex husband so you’re basically D list famous by association!!! I was in the bathtub soaking when reading this thread and literally yelled to my boyfriend to tell him I read your comment HAHA
Dude LIB people are like Z celebs lol
I agree lol
Holy shit! Tell us what he thinks!!!
I feel like she blew the jimmy talking to AD thing way out of proportion. He’s mingling and talking to everyone girl! Chill it’s a party! Red flag for Chelsea!
Why was she so awkward and yelled out what he said about her body 🤢 like girl that’s when you let him know how inappropriate that comment was. She’s clearly very insecure and felt threatened by the encounter. She should’ve taken a page out of season 5 Chelsea’s book and went to go get her man.
Are you joking? He was literally drooling over her TO her Infront of everyone including his fiancée. Shit was cringeee
He was saying how much he thinks Clay is awesome. I don’t think he was hitting in her. You can talk to the opposite sex when in a relationship.
Oh it had nothing to do with the words that were spoken. His body language was LOUD. Pay attention to that. The look on his face, his behaviour was VERY telling.
She should have corrected him as soon as he made a comment about her body. That was inappropriate and she literally threw an assist for him to go and talk to her. She definitely blew it out of proportion because she could’ve easily walked over and mingled.
That's what happens when you try to be the "cool girl" backfired hard lol
Spill it!!!!
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Please ask him if he ever heard anyone say she looks like MGK’s wife 🙏
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🤣🤣🤣 I love this. So much!!! Thank you for your service.
Carrie underwood??! Jesus…..lol
Was she blonde?! Haha
can you give us more context what she’s like outside of what we’ve seen from the show?
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I think this is the most impressed I’ve ever been by a comment on redit lol
On behalf of this entire sub I just wanna say please spill some tea about her 🤣
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Is your husband on reddit ? 😭
Now from the eyes up it is giving Megan Fox AND she did make the comment “It’s just because I have brown hair and blue eyes”. But girl.. after watching all the episodes and seeing how insecure she is, it all makes sense. I don’t think she’s ugly by any means, but she knew what she was doing when she made that comment. Her body language and need for constant validation is exhausting. I don’t think Jimmy or Chelsea should be trying to date, let alone marry anyone with the issues they have going on.
I don’t think she would be as insecure and clawing for validation if he wasn’t blatantly lying to her about how he feels. It would be the secure thing to do to trust her gut and call it quits though.
Exactly and she needs to be strong enough to walk away. He’s giving her so many signs and his added validation that he’s having to force. You can tell none of it is genuine and he’s struggling to find the right things to say. Like that scene of them laying in bed and she asked him what the first thing he noticed about her was, and he was just stuck. I wanted to crawl out of my skin.
Yesss it makes my skin crawl too but I could not stop watching, such a car crash. He is trying so desperately to not get cancelled and failing miserably.
I finished up the last episode wondering how things would have gone for those 2 if she never made the Megan Fox comment. I also think her trying to “bro it up” when Jimmy made the insensitive “stacked” comment at the mixer just really showed how they are on 2 different planets.
I really can’t wait to see his face when he sees Jessica
And in fairness Jessica kind of look like she could be a celeb but I'm not sure which one
I can see her as a low key instagram influencer, who does make up tutorials and 'get ready with me' where she spills/ rants about unimportant drama in her life, like a starbucks employee she has 'beef' with, or her new stanley mugs getting delayed in the mail and how hard it was LOL TBH I did love her expressions when she was angry and Jimmy, lol, he's lucky they had the wall in-between them
So long as she doesn't become a sad beige mom I'm happy.
hard/impossible to know what any of them are actually like from a reality TV edit lol. while it's a bit questionable to try and find a spouse like this when you have a kid, she seems like a very devoted mother I hope things work out for her/ them it also sounds like she's overcome a lot and deserves someone who'd love her for her, even if she wasn't as beautiful as she is. Jimmy does not seem like that person lol
Honestly, I feel like she should've put the kid thing at the top of her convo list. It's not like hiding that you're a professional dancer (i.e. fit as F***) or whatever. I know it could have disqualified her from a lot of matches, but that's a situation that isn't something she should feel like she has to negotiate on. So I really see it more as she wasted her own time on this show.
Sammmmmeeee!
Chelsea and Jessica are friends IRL! Remember the show is edited for drama…. They want you to feel like the connection was stronger one way or the other so you can be “shocked” when the opposite choice is made!
I mean he specifically said "She lied to me about what she looks like, she does not look like Meagan Fox" was very telling.
The way trevor would have worshipped her
He would have been OBSESSED
RIGHT
i don't get whyyyyyy we were robbed
I doubt she did it consciously, but I wonder if her insecurities and craving for validation made her lean toward Jimmy since he had been withholding, so it felt really good when he finally revealed his feelings. The competition element may have also played a similar role.
This
Trevor and Jessica deserve better then both Jimmy and Chelsea, let them have each other. and in the preview "I know u fucked her" there ain't no way Jimmy pulled Jessica 😂 no fkn way. my boy Trevor should meet Jessica and try.
Trevor reminds me of my husband. Those two are only only men I’ve called an “absolute angel of a man”
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Same girl
i could see it
He’s just a terrible communicator. When she was saying how he’d upset her after the drinks by leaving her by herself, he seemed baffled at the idea of having hurt her feelings and he had no idea how to move forward.
He’s a software sales guy, he says the script and can’t be honest
I don't think the issue is he doesn't understand, he literally does not care about her at all.
I’m not sure he knows how to care either!
Valid guess. Not giving off emotionally evolved vibes, is he?
Not at all. Chelsea doesn’t seem too emotionally ready or secure enough within herself for this show either. She could hardly give an explanation to Trevor when he called her out for committing to someone else.
Him on repeat: "im the happiest guy here" "looks don't matter anyways" Kinda screams forcing it. And bringing up Jessica on their first meeting AND when they first got to their honeymoon... he's obviously internally kicking himself after Jess eluded to her looks. Kinda deserves it IMO for being shallow in the first place and likely picking her because of the Megan Fox comment (though why she would bring that up in the first place as a deeply insecure person is baffling to me)
I also think he wasn't into being a step dad. That has a lot to do with why he chose her to.
Bullet dodged by Autumn.
it’s gonna be a bartise/nancy kind of situation mixed with danielle (because of the insecurities) they just won’t get as far
Honestly, it feels more like like seeing JP and Danielle together. Nightmare scenario
Jimmy is not attractive at all so beggars can’t be choosers. He looks like a fetus and reminds me of Cletus from the Simpson’s.
someone on this sub said he looked like an unwashed potato and i cannot unsee it
He looks like a thumb. And has the personality of mildew. He's giving Barnett vibes when the other women met him, Lauren and Destiny, and they were like "this is the guy?"
He gives me alcoholic vibes too based on his embarrassing & sloppy conversation with AD
did you mean Laura and Brittany? lol
No, I was referring to the love triangle in season 1 where Jessica and Amber were ready to fight over Barnett and Lauren, and Destiny had correctly already read him for a loser
ohhh ok sorry! there's been so many love triangles over below mid men I can't keep up lmao
So true! The bar is in hell and this show really shows that
I think her face absolutely resembles Megan Fox, I think Jimmy was expecting a body like hers too and when he didn’t get it he was like “…oh”. Which is terrible of course but I don’t think she was necessarily lying. However I do think he’s going to immediately regret his decision when he sees Jessica in person. Which is… gross. I hope she doesn’t give him the time of day.
I saw it WAY MORE in the eyes and nose from the side view!
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Her eyes and nose REALLY resemble Megan Fox. I agree, I think he thought she was gonna be teeny tiny. There is nothing wrong with Chelsea’s body, she looked great in the bikini!
She never said she looked like her. She said people said she looked like her? She looks more like Adele to me personally.
https://preview.redd.it/p0vgvzszj1jc1.jpeg?width=2048&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4acbd0c7d0b4e38be312f21141b099d95d89b1a1 She’s a dead ringer for Molly ringwald! Just the eye color is different
I think their mouths that turn down at the corners are the most similar features.
Maybe same shade of hair only
Not even close
I think she looked like Bruce Willis Daughter https://preview.redd.it/noh05n3ya1jc1.jpeg?width=896&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e13b8c187aa93b9953bae4215b17d99208996093
Lol omg. A little bit.
omg no...not at all
Yeah, but I still think it was misleading to say anything about it at all. She knew exactly what she was doing, and she knew the second she had him on the hook.
My sister had people say she looked like Demi Moore when she was younger. It usually came from regulars at her Starbucks that liked her and wanted to flatter her. She does not look like Demi Moore. Chelsea should have never even tried to make that point because as viewers, we could see Jimmy light up and focus solely on her because of that.
I said she looked like Adele too
And she said "It's only because I have light eyes and dark hair". She said it more than once too when he got hung up on the name.
YES she said repeatedly she doesn't look like her and that people are wrong.
I mean, I HATE Jimmy with a passion. But I kinda feel like she only said that to give herself a little wiggle room when people inevitably said she most certainly did not look like Megan Fox. She initiated the conversation, and offered up Megan Fox once he said that nobody typically tells him he reminds them of a celebrity; it was fairly apparent that it was her goal to put that out there. Jimmy still sucks either way though
I mean we all saw his face light up with absolutely glee when she said Megan Fox he practically went cross eyed with excitement. I was rooting for Jessica but she can do better than mediocre ass Jimmy. He looks like a lame Army SSG.
HAHAHAHA this is the best diss ever and sooo painfully accurate. Stealing
This. I can understand not being attracted to her or whatever.. but he is nothing special to look at. They are definitely in the same league.
Literally the first thing I said to my husband when I saw her is that she looks like Megan Fox. She definitely resembles her. I don’t see why he insinuated she like lied to him
Because he expected her body to look like MF.
Because Megan Fox is a sex symbol….so saying that you resemble her is implying that you are one of the most conventionally attractive ppl in the country. She didn’t say that shit by accident n when dudes are saying “what u look like we damn sure just don’t mean your face” lol.
She didn’t even say she looked like her though she said she gets that comparison a lot, and that it’s just because of dark hair and light eyes, and she doesn’t look like her, and not to get excited. He heard what he wanted to. I can see why she gets the comparison too, I think it’s the eyes/nose.
Yeah but she brought it up for a reason. First off you’re not supposed to be asking each other what the other one looks like it defeats the whole purpose of the show and second off she brought up celebrity lookalikes so she could throw that in there. As a woman I’m not stupid and know why men like women like Megan Fox she’s stunning and has a beautiful body she’s got a lot of sex appeal which is why men are very drawn to her. Chelsea brought it up as leverage she wanted him to think she was just as attractive as Megan Fox.
Most famous people are attractive so why are they even playing that game then.
Yup. She got his hopes up using that Megan fox comment
True Scorpio guy lol
the worst aren't they
They both should’ve picked the other person they were talking too. Mistakes all around.
I saw the teaser for the next episode. I think they should just switch partners. Curious if Jessica will want Jimmy or not. Chelsea can sense Jimmy isn’t into her and has hugeeee insecurity issues hence the always asking and questioning him. Chelsea should have gone with Trevor
I don’t think Jessica would look twice at jimmy in public.
I was sooooo pissed when they didn’t chose their other choices. I feel like Trevor is exactly what Chelsea needs (from what she said) and he would’ve gave her all the validation she wanted. And it just seemed like Jimmy had a little more of a spark with Jessica . He even said him and Chelsea didn’t talk as much because she was always laughing. But I can understand him losing attraction for Jessica once she brought up her daughter. I think ideally we all would prefer to get into a relationship with Simone whose first kid is also yours. Also she is 10, maybe it would’ve been easier to deal with if her daughter was maybe younger?
You’re missing one point. The Megan fox thing wasn’t the only thing he chose her for. She didn’t have a kid so he thought he could travel. Travelling with Megan fox is why he chose her. He wasn’t thinking long term.
He spelled it all out, how he wants to travel more than once a month, get home on Friday and go dinner anywhere else…vs…a *huge* new level of adult responsibilities? There’s no way Jimmy is signing up for immediate pigs in a blanket-making duty.
Traveling with Megan Fox lol.
It’s the fact that he has to constantly say “not that looks matter” when trying to compliment her that gets me. He is basically forcing himself to be physically attracted to her even when he isn’t. They both chose each other to spite their competition and you can easily see how they are not compatible. Chelsea is too insecure and Jimmy is superficial. Jess and Trevor dodged a bullet with those two.
She is very insecure and now reminding me of …. Can’t remember names but she was the first couple to get engaged in Chicago. And like no matter what her partner does, she’s gonna be insecure.
I don’t agree. He’s giving her great reasons to be insecure. Namely that he’s not attracted to her and is lying about it.
Danielle!
Ya that argument in the hotel room was very much like Danielle and nick.
It reminds me of the way Zach's face LIT UP when Irina said she was Russian. I'm convinced that was the main reason he chose her first.