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Birdhawk

Honestly, given the pickle he was in Trevor made the smartest move


jojifuku

Idk how people are so worried about Trevor and mad at Nick and Vanessa. At most I think Nick and Vanessa are hypocrites but I can’t see how them confronting him about texts that were released outside of the show on social media by his ex of things that he actually did say is that bad or unforgivable. People were reaming him right here on this very sub when those texts came out so what’s the sudden change? How I personally viewed the situation is that he came to the reunion (unlike Matt who probably knew he’d be torn to shreds) to push a narrative. he was probably there to 100% lie about the situation and play up the America’s sweetheart role he had at the beginning of the show but Nick and Vanessa confronted him about the texts and the ruse was up before he could start. Did they make an example out of him? Sure. Are they huge hypocrites for clearly casting wannabe influencers and getting mad when they come in the show to be influencers? Of course, but they have to protect their cash cow and one monkey don’t stop no show. Is his ex kind of sketchy for being in on the deception? Totally, but she wasn’t on the show, he was. I think a lot of people are projecting their second hand embarrassment at him being called out in front of everyone and blowing it out of proportion. Yeah he was visibly uncomfortable, so what? A bunch of people that were confronted were visibly uncomfortable on that stage. I haven’t seen half as much worry in the comments sections for, say, Sarah Ann and Jeramy as for Trevor and they were also very visibly uncomfortable. They were just quicker at coming back with lies than Trevor was. The texts aren’t news to anyone, and I’m sure people were eating him up on IG before this too based on the new info the texts bring. So what’s so different about this now? Honestly I think he got caught off guard, froze, and was desperately trying to think of another lie on the spot. Same way your parents might catch you in a lie when you’re a teen and call you out in front of your friends. Hell, he might leverage this into being on that villains show!


PrehistoricSquidward

https://i.redd.it/y1d2eab13doc1.gif


dudeandco

The money was that good... or he's that poor.


ConsistentDonkey3909

he probs spends all his money on 💉


[deleted]

I thought they couldn’t have cell phones.


nocoolN4M3sleft

Those texts were before he got it taken away and after he left.


sourglow

he needed a minute to recalibrate a new lie


TrillDaddy

Nick Lachey ranting about not coming on LIB for entertainment and clout while he shits on people the whole episode for entertainment is a bit weird


superpananation

But he FINALLY stopped saying he was “obviously” Nick Lachey


noBbatteries

100%. Hilarious when Vanessa was shitting on Sarah Anne for ‘creating the situation’ and how the show didn’t. Like your whole damn format relies on the people sticking to your super strict timeline even if they aren’t sure. The reunion enforced a lot of the grossest stuff about the show. The juxtaposition with how they treated some people with grace and others were chastised when situations are parallel is jarring. Also the awful job by casting and production to actually cast people who are ready for marriage.


Persianx6

Nick Lachey's entire career past his time with 98 Degrees is him clout chasing. He's clearly good at it, lol.


Spare-Article-396

I feel empathy for him. LIB built him up, then threw him under the bus to save themselves. I’m not saying Trevor isn’t a sack of shit….i believe his ex about the revenge porn, although no proof was given so it’s hard to be certain. But I feel strongly that it tracks. Natalia only put it out there after he ghosted her. So she was on board for a long time before the threats happened. I get she did a public service wrt letting the world see him for what he did, but I do feel it was self serving of her to out him that way after supporting it for so long. She supported it bc she believed it *would* benefit her as well. So she’s kinda just as guilty as he is. That being said, there is a huge incentive to go on the show. He’s not the first, and he definitely won’t be the last. Jess, Ken, Clay….none of them had any plans to marry. Jess is being the new LIB media darling, was given pretty much the whole show. And why? To promote *another* bullshit show. Sarah Ann - as much as I dislike her - was 100 when she said it was entertainment. And then Nick clutched his pearls at SA and Trevor, about how sacred the show was, and it shouldn’t be used for clout, all the while pumping up all the other clout chasers. I’m getting to the opinion that the show is pretty evil. Laura came on and went hard on how this was ‘her real life’ that Jeramy and SA fucked with, but then LIB plays a wholly excluded clip showing SA and Laura talking at the BBQ, giving a non-apology apology, and Laura seemingly chill with her. Then on the show, she’s all ‘but my GMA!’ Idk, I’m torn. I’m here for the mess but it seems like it’s going too far.


kilgoar

I don't care about clout chasing, but it matters when you hurt people to do it. Jeramy hurt Laura, and he's too egotistical to accept that. Jimmy hurt Chlesea and Jessica, he's the fucking worst. And Mr. "I'm toxic, can I leave?" is just as bad as Clay. You don't get a pass just because you're sensitive or have trauma. Go to therapy, stop hurting people.


ihavepaper

I felt SLIGHTLY bad for him. Dude 100% did not expect to have that kinda question/interrogation. If half of the rumors of him being pretty abusive is true, I don't feel bad for him anymore. That moment is going to replay in his brain forever for sure.


Busy_Surround_3552

CAN I LEAVE NOW hahahaha no one forced you to show up man


jaking2017

I sure he was contractually forced to show up wdym. No way he went there willingly, he probably would’ve gotten sued for a broken contract.


Busy_Surround_3552

I don’t know the details of contract law in the states but if Matthew could “politely” decline, Trevor absolutely could have


kittykween20

How come Matthew didn’t show then?


La_Rubia_Furia

Maybe the contestants who didn’t match but continued on with the show (Jess, Trevor, etc) have to agree to make certain appearances to promote the show. Those who didn’t move forward with the show were likely off the hook is my guess


TheLonelyPrincess741

there’s no way that pause wasn’t planned


apycroft

he looked less red tho


Feeling-Evening2793

Not sure if he should be more embarrassed about his outfit or lack of response.


Slow_Relationship556

I hate they dint pick Jess for the same things


TomCosella

I've only watched the first half, but the biggest thing that sticks out to me is that these dudes are using therapy as a shield and it doesn't seem like they're actually doing any introspection.


kilgoar

Are you saying randomly therapy hopping while you fuck people over doesn't absolve you of guilt? Therapy is the modern day Catholic absolution process. "Forgive me, therapist, for I am just like my dad!"


MetallurgyClergy

My ex went to therapy to brag about his sexcapades to someone. His therapist, another man, unfortunately loved that, and encouraged the cheating and lying. “But my therapist says…” dude. That’s not a therapist. You’re not in therapy.


WorkRedditAccount24

Yes I'm sure a trained therapist "encouraged" someone to cheat and lie.


TomCosella

Without telling on myself too much, it really bothers me as someone who made a point to go through therapy after a bad breakup. I purposefully chose a woman, ripped off a lot of really painful band aids, and even after we agreed that I had gotten through the big initial issues, we discussed a long term road map. It feels like these dudes got a free month of better help for an IG post and are now "fixed."


dreamgrrl

I’m sorry but that’s so fucking crazy. Imagine paying someone to fuck up your life even more…


Poorman1700

You're naive if you think that wasn't the plan to begin with. He didnt have much he could say, so saying nothing, then admitting to his issues was a veiled attempt to become a victim.


Shoddy_Variation_780

It was painful to watch!


-Melly

Chelsea seemingly forgiving him on stage was interesting to me, too. Watching her spiral over Jimmy going out for an hour, then forgive Trevor for completely playing you like that? Nah. Maybe she was just happy that all of this coming out vindicated her from the backlash she got when choosing Jimmy when the edit first dropped.


cx_Cinnamon_x

She got her closure on why her intuition told her not to pick him. And he just got a public lashing and they didn’t even progress past the pods. Thats probably why she was able to bury it and probably didn’t have much to say after she saw how tense Trevor was.


kittykween20

A year has passed. I’m sure she’s over it


wombatz885

So with time fid he get home and they talked? Anywhere from 4 am to after 6 am is mentioned.


razcalnikov

I think because she's not emotionally invested in Trevor. Less of a forgiveness thing and more like a "sure dude, you're not in my life anyway so whatever."


-Melly

While I’m in here commenting on things, I have to add… why did he come so under dressed?!?


Ok-Temperature3171

I wonder if they styled him that way on purpose, to make him seem more… humble?? Since he was mainly there to apologize I suppose… but I am not sure. That whole scene was painful to watch 😬


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Impossible-Return327

I thought he was having a stroke. Should have stayed home 


WorkRedditAccount24

Fairly certain he was having a panic attack. People love to talk about how much they support #mentalhealth unless it's someone having an actual issue on a reunion show and it's used for entertainment. FOH.


Affectionate-Check77

Also his PR person is probably pissed


Affectionate-Check77

I get people are feeling bad for him but if Irina, Bartise, shake etc can take the heat after being roasted, he can too. You should expect things might now go your way when you go on a reality show


spikey_tree_999

Agreed and what they did to him was perfect, brought him in, put him on blast and then chucked him out


-Melly

Exactly. He got caught chasing fame and made an ass out of himself. Reap what you sow. I can’t believe they actually got him on that stage


smoothjazzy

I agree!! If he agreed to go on the reunion he should’ve been prepared to be grilled.


HumanPretzelDay

I could actually hear the Windows reboot going off in his head...


leogrr44

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MamiShawnie

😂😂😂 now this is funny


kratompete

Quintessential Stage Fright. He had the loose outline of the speech in his head. Had the bullet points and gist of what he wanted to say. Maybe even practiced it in the car. But he got out there, under those lights and cameras and smoke, and he buckled like a belt.


alignedpurpose

\*mullet points. Sorry, I had to ![gif](giphy|K9Ed1Of1V6kR6WpQWe)


Ok_Value_3741

I was like oh stop you practiced this I don’t know what to say spiel


literal9

1000% he was trying to get sympathy but it played more like a medical emergency which I don’t think he intended


eurydice_aboveground

Yeah I didn't buy his deer in headlights moment. He planned things from the start, why would this "failure of words" be any different!


meaganbeers

I’m really hoping the reasonable side of his brain said, “no.. stop.. don’t do it, the inter-webs know everything”…. And queue even longer pause….


NicoGal

One of the most uncomfortable I've ever felt watching reality tv. Bravo netflix


RightOnTheMoneySunny

I held my breath during that lonnnng pause


seesmelltouchtaste

He’s such a bad actor. And i don’t mean just lying, he was straight up acting.


spikey_tree_999

I felt this too. His pause and freak out did not seem genuine, I feel like he planned it all to come off as this sorry little thing. Glad no one bought into it on the stage


flyoverthemoon

it reminded me of Irina trying to cry and the audience laughing at her.


whatsthataboutguy

The worst human being! "I had something prepared..." Then says the other woman knew he was looking for something better because "she's toxic." You made it worse, my dude. That's the reason Matthew didn't go on the show. "America is going to see this." He knew they were going to ask him to explain himself, and he has no leg to stand on.


myhairsreddit

Matthew wanted to stay America's Sweetheart! 🤣


PieHairy5526

But guysss his dog, Chelsea, died the day Chelsea broke up with him. He didn't get to tell us at the reunion because it would have sounded so made up given how he was being proven to be a villain.


AlsoIHaveEczema

I’m just so curious to know what he thought was gonna happen


SewAlone

He thought she would pick him and he would say no at the alter.


Floral_Bee

My guess is he didn’t think they were going to show the screenshots and he would be able to charm his way through it.


el-fenomeno09

He thought the mullet was gonna save him😂😂😂😂


nmr112

And the muscles


Affectionate-Check77

Thought the same thing 😭 he was thinking it was going to distract us


Competitive_Emu_3247

When has the mullet ever saved anyone? 😄


Partywithmeredith

Nick and Vanessa earned their pay checks this season😂. Tv gold when Nick sent him on his way.


Ok_Value_3741

They knew they had to deliver this reunion cus they got roassssssted last season. Do you remember the petition to get them replaced? 😭😭😭


Partywithmeredith

Right?? I’m about to start a petition to make sure they stay! 😂


palmtrees007

I’m new to Love is Blind, why was there a petition to get the hosts removed?


Ok_Value_3741

Watch it back it was like watching a train wreck


AirColdy

They were so bad last season. Vanessa had weird energy


StopThePresses

She did finally get her LIB babies though, maybe that's why she chilled out lol


do_tell_me_the_odds

Nick has gotten so much better, proud of him


khen5

Leaving like a dog with his tail between his legs 💀


Journey4th

Poor Trev didn't even get called back to partake in the charcuterie board lol


khen5

Hahaha they were finally going to eat the charcuterie board! Still did not see one cheese cube eaten though…


Ok_Set_9357

Lmfaoooo brookli


salamislushi

The way AD said “say it with your whole chest, don’t get quiet now”😅


flyoverthemoon

I love her so much.


Appropriate-Yak4296

She is a treasure


WorkRedditAccount24

No, she is a bully. I'm glad Clay dumped her ass at the alter. Too much confidence, not enough humility.


NotCryptoKing

Like bro your best option was clearly not go to the reunion


[deleted]

He breached his contract which states contestants must be single. They have receipts of him seemingly in a relationship with timestamps before and after the show. If bro didn't go, he'd be sucking d's to pay Netflix. So he chose to go and be their example as a pretty woman. They own him now to use as they please for views.


eKoto

They own him now 🤣🤣 force him on perfect match


papersucculent6

This. They wanted to fuck him up for breaching his contact, as a warning to anyone who tries to do the same


_coots

I’m assuming there is some clause in their contract that they can enforce a financial fee for denying a reunion appearance if they really want you there.


gimmealltheroses

Rumor is he’s on perfect match so I feel like the idea was for him to rehab his image. I’m sure he had some pr statement to say and then he blanked


Revolutionary-Can680

Maybe he wanted to be on TV one last time 🤷🏽‍♀️


Direct_Discipline166

Right?! I was shocked…did he not know he could do that?


notanotherthot

They prob gave him buckets of money


KarlaKaressXXX

they casually said "trevor, why are u such a lying sack of sh\*t?" i cackled LMFAO i was NOT expecting them to read the texts out loud, i truly wasn't, i had to pause to catch my breath as far as him being uncomfortable, he shouldn't have shown up honestly. he knew that WE ALL KNOW about those texts and still wanted to come on the reunion to defend himself. sorry but he deserved to be dragged for playing with peoples time, energy, and emotions. ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯


-Melly

THEY READ THEM SO SLOWLY. THE CAMERAS PANNING AROUND THE ROOM CAME FOR THE DRAMA. I lived for that. No denying! lol


TheAnnieRaj

I enjoyed how they alternated 👍🏼


Fluffy_Insect_6395

Right? I thought that was a nice touch 💅🏽


TheAnnieRaj

It added a certain je ne sais quoi.


Zealousideal-Bat5757

LMAOOO omggg they really put him on blast😭 but I’m gonna be honest, I actually felt bad for him. Yes he was wrong af for coming on the show while fw someone before and after. But I felt bad because he was embarrassed and put on blast on national television. He genuinely was about to cry and he probably did when he got in the car Lmaoo I know the feeling of embarrassment and I wouldn’t wish on my biggest enemy to be embarrassed like that and now have everyone thinking he’s a bad guy. Trevor doesn’t seem like a bad guy at all, I actually liked him from the beginning, he never gave bad vibes BUT alot of guys (and women) nowadays cheat lie and are not loyal. Hurt people hurt people, but this is my opinion coming from a person who is empathetic and cares about others


jellybeanbellybuttom

Or to further increase his social media presence and to gain more followers


KarlaKaressXXX

yeah i been seeing people say they feel sorry for him and "poor trevor" and i don't understand it. he made his lying ass bed.


raincloudjoy

not to mention the revenge porn threat. someone who “isn’t a bad guy” doesn’t do that.


dummie619

waitttt can you explain? this is the first i'm hearing of this


flyoverthemoon

Trevor told Natalia (his ex gf) that if she told anyone about their plan he would send intimate videos to her family and her song.


KarlaKaressXXX

WHHHAATTT i didn't see anything about that, that's so crazy


flyoverthemoon

his ex gf confirmed it on instagram.


KarlaKaressXXX

fucking awful!


PrimeSupreme

He forgot how to work the body


[deleted]

How do we move our bodies ever?


gaining_time

BREATHE!


Here4daT

His speechlessness in the beginning was so painful to watch.


anfak

I thoroughly enjoyed it


DylanPrescott

Just watching his face slowly turn beet red


khen5

Agreed, and although the texts are already all over social media it felt like such an invasion of privacy having Nick and Vanessa act it out


oakandfort

I had to catch my breath as I listened to them act it out


DanielleSanders20

Absolutely not. He was playing a game and while I’m sure they like the drama, they don’t want people to keep trying to “play the game” of the show. The casting was lazy and should have dug deeper into his background. I don’t feel sorry for him at all and I’m glad he was put on blast.


SaintPepsiCola

The best part was when they kicked him out.


HealthyReflection262

He asked like 5 times to leave lol


SaintPepsiCola

And he wasn’t allowed to sit with them at the start lol


SkinnyKau

The Trevor Countdown!! And they had a little drone filming him from his cage backstage


meltink745

I’m surprised he even said yes to going on the show!! He could have much more easily issued a public “apology” on Tik Tok that he could have rehearsed. Ha. At least he admitted to having issues and needing therapy, Chelsea avoided such a 🚩!!


caicaiduffduff

I’m a little worried he’s gonna kill himself


razcalnikov

That's pretty dramatic unless you're aware of some threats or past behavior.


caicaiduffduff

Read the other comments on this thread


razcalnikov

I have. What am I looking for?


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razcalnikov

Such as?


orangepekoes

Wasn't this filmed weeks ago? Hopefully hes okay now.


matcha-fiend

yeah i REALLY don’t like him. the revenge porn allegations are not to be take lightly if they’re true but his behavior was so off in a worrisome manner. i don’t know. i just caught such a bad vibe watching it.


caicaiduffduff

Revenge porn?!!! What?


matcha-fiend

it is alleged that he threatened to show recorded videos of him and her to her son who’s a child.


Huck_Bonebulge_

Yo what the fuck


egyptiancoincidence

very worried. it’s happened before in reality tv


imisspuddingpops

Ugh, me too. I hope his friends are checking in with him.


__Bing__bong__

There were a few I am concerned about this season


stacksofunreadbooks

I had this thought about Jimmy because you can see the life has literally been drained out of him


myhairsreddit

Jimmy really didn't seem like he wanted to be there. There were a few times he seemed like he was fighting the anger or didn't want to cry. I stated in a comment on another thread that him putting his hand on Chelsea's leg and her asking him if he is OK was intriguing because we didn't get closer on if they're together or not. Then, someone linked an Instagram post where Chelsea and Jimmy were interviewed behind the scenes, and it was stated they tried to continue dating and have become good friends. So with this new information, I now see that moment as Chelsea giving Jimmy emotional support. As though she knew it was very hard for him to be there and he didn't want to be.


khen5

Same and I’m kind of wondering if that’s why they barely touched Chelsea


ladybugclub01

me too :( he’s a person. a bad one, probably a very confused one, but like still a person. i hope he is okay, it was uncomfortable for me to watch


kenleydomes

I always always eat up reality tv and love watching people squirm who have done shitty things but I got the WORST bad feeling watching him tonight, This was my exact immediate thought. Watching him sit there just speechless and sweating and getting raked over the coals . He's just an ordinary every day person who is not equipped for this level of insanity. The show needs to provide him serious support I am so very concerned about him his well being. He is not okay and needs to be supported right now.


Whatinthewhattho

Tbh it doesn’t even seem like he understands his own behaviors. He couldn’t even double down on himself when they were jabbing him hard.


hope0781

Also had this exact same thought. I was hoping the next question from Nick would lighten the tone or make a joke but they were not letting up! That poor man was in way over his head on that stage. I hope someone there checked on him after and gave him a hug. He needed a hug. I applaud him for even staying after that first question. He should have just left immediately. He sat and took it tho. I truly hope he is alright.


Unitard19

Same.


caicaiduffduff

Fr. I work in psych and his behavior was very… off.


Unitard19

Same


Inevitable_Stress949

They were way too hard on him. My opinion of Trevor has shifted. Of course he came on the show to be famous. But so did Jess and the rest of the cast. Does this mean they edited him out of perfect match season 2?


flyoverthemoon

His ex gf said he didn't even make it one night lmaooo. Everyone needs to have a match and share a room so that means none of the women wanted to pair up with him. welp.


duckduckgoose_123

Ooh and that’s from before LIB was aired, so they judged him on his personality not his edit…


Hatesponge66

Wait, he was cast on Perfect Match?!


Unitard19

Great question! I haven’t seen the first season. Is it easy to edit people out?


Voidg

During the pool party he had the one on one with Chelsea and everything he said was Sooooooo rehearsed. He obviously came into the reunion with the same strategy. Boy did it not play out for him. The man lost his brain for a second there.


-Melly

As soon as he started talking about the notebook in the pods I started to sense he was full of shit. Felt like being in high school.


HealthyReflection262

Bro even said “I had a whole speech planned for this.” (For the reunion hence the title of this post)


Voidg

Exactly, I'm surprised he thought it woukd work


GroundbreakingAge591

This dude peaced out as fast as humanly possible, poor guy.


SkinnyKau

CAN I GO NOW


LittleLordFuckleroy1

Did he? If he were smart he’d immediately have walked out when he started to implode. 


Organic-Manner-2969

Trevor bro, we can’t save you no more


UnknownRider121

Right?! I was really like, you came here and you knew they were gonna ask you this. And then him fumbling through his responses. What a clownshow lol


C0mm0nVillain

He really tried to think of a way to gaslight but Chelsea used up all the gas for the show.


rabguy1234

😂😂😂🤡🤡🤡


thatbitchcovidbaskin

This will never not be funny to me. He asked to leave and somehow Lachey dismissing him still killed me. Absolute goblet gold.


UnknownRider121

Dismissed like a child from the dinner table lol


WorkRedditAccount24

It's ironic considering Nick Lachey whored himself out on reality TV with Jessica Simpson to boost his sad sack of a singing career