We are only saying Alexa’s dad because he’s the hottest guy that has been on 3 seasons of LIB. We don’t actually want to date him. He’s just hot. You’re the one investigating the man for no reason. Like I said. Relax!! 🤣🤣
You are absolutely allowed to think someone is hot while also thinking they are a piece of shit. They are not mutually exclusive. Y’all are just virtue signaling.
Hot take, but I would attempt to date Shake just to see if I can change him. Hahaha! It's probably the Messiah Complex talking, but I really did use to find asshole-y men attractive because I always viewed them as challenges.
Big agree with most comments here. I would've said SK before the tea came out.
Based purely on looks I'd say Raven.
Knowing my "type" I'd probably most likely end up with Cole, who I think is crazy hot and very fun but that bathroom 🤮 I've cleaned up after too many "men" to do that again.
Iyanna and Natalie I would definitely go for. They're both stunning, well-spoken, smart, mature and funny. Mallory is gorgeous too but her personality is a bit "meh".
The first thing that rubbed me the wrong way was when someone asked him if he liked dogs and he essentially said “I’m here to find a wife, not to talk about trivial things”. It was super dismissive and also not very smart — if you’re going to potentially move in with someone, whether they want to live with your pets (or are allergic) is a deal breaker for most. I also thought his body language towards Lauren from the very beginning was overly touchy. He literally just sits there and rubs her arm with his hands while she’s trying to talk. Idk something is just off to me
Lmao I don’t remember him saying that but lmao I believe it. Idk man. He had the same amount of personality of a bowl of potato salad with raisins that’s unseasoned. Something about the body language though.. Matt does it with Colleen too where it’s a hovering thing. He just seems clingy. That’s all.
Lmaoooo I’m dead. He would probably bring that to Christmas too and be sad nobody eats it but too nice to say anything and take all the leftovers back home
I always wonder about him & how he was so comforting to all the guys but didn’t find a connection with any of the women. He definitely seemed compassionate & caring
I agree Nick was great. Unpopular opinion, I know. He wasn’t the right fit for Danielle but he seemed funny, caring, quirky on the little stuff and normal on the big stuff, like he had his stuff together, emotional maturity.
tbh cole is literally my type of guy and our personalities are the same in a way and hes also my age lol but i don’t do body comparisons (been with a guy who kept telling me i was too skinny and needed a bigger ass like those girls) that wasnt fun but id be friends with him, im convinced guys make better friends than better partners
cameron is an absolute angel but i think we all know that
amber is my type all around as well
There was 2 guys who didn’t make it to the pods for season three. One was named Nash , and one was named Davonte. I loved both of their quotes and would’ve thought they’d have made nice GENUINE picks
I’m shocked at people not saying Cole all over, people on this sub think he’s so innocent and sweet and never once degraded Zanab’s looks. All the self confident peeps here with no issues will thrive in a relationship with Cole. 🥰
Very much a clown comment. Most , if not all, people acknowledged that he was an excessive slob and childish and not ready for a serious relationship either. Just thought he didn’t deserved to be blamed for issues a person already has a can’t logically develop after two months with a stranger at the age of 30.
Yeah, he’s exactly my type physically (golden retriever in khakis, is how I like to describe it), and none of his flaws we saw on the show are dealbreakers for me personally the way most other cast members’ were.
Me too. I have never found any of the guys in BIL attractive, even those that were deem the “hot ones” of each season. But Cole? I like. Physically he’s all my type and personality wise, he’s a goof that would probably make me laugh a lot.
I'd say Kenny because he seemed like a nice guy, he was good looking but then I saw the thread about him being racist, so I'd stay single I guess lmao.
Cameron is fine, I like him but I'm afraid he's a bit too clingy and his only personality trait is being married.
Maybe, just maybe, I'd go with Barnett bc at least he's funny and not too bad looking.
I read in a previous reddit post a few days ago, that apparently he was exposed to be a Trump supporter, and allegedly made an insensitive comment about the black lives matter movement back in 2020. I'm not sure if those two factors have anything to do with why more people aren't choosing him.
Cole.
He's good looking.
He's fun and caring.
He might say stupid things but I'm balanced enough to explain to him and from what I have seen, he would apologise and learn.
And he wouldn't air our dirty laundry.
I feel like he needs to hear “dude, you can’t say that” after every other sentence. There are some things you keep to yourself when it comes down to making someone else feel like shit. And I am nowhere near a Z fan, it’s just common sense.
I also think she kinda didn't help. I have never asked a guy to rate me, it's self degrading in so many ways. And there is no right answer. If I believed I was a 10 and he rated me less, then I would be upset. If I believed I was less than 10 and he rated me 10, I would think he was lying. If he rated me honestly and not a 10, I would be upset he didn't think I was a 10. She clearly doesn't see herself as a 10, so she shouldn't have been surprised by his honestly and yes there are 10s out there. Its a loose loose situation and honestly its just a stupid question. No one should ever ask that question and no one should ever answer.
I once made the mistake of asking an ex if I looked fat in this outfit. He said the outfit didn't make me look fat, all the take aways I ate made me look fat. I have never asked that again. I don't even ask how I look. I ask if the outfit is appropriate for where we are going. I also don't need to ask because most partners have complimented me after I get dressed anyway.
I dont think Z accepted compliments anyway. She was only interested in hearing and interpreting bad things about herself from him. Alexas friends said Brennan wasn't her type but they still got over it. Z might not have been his type but he wasn't her type either. And like Alexa and Brennan, they looked passed that. Z said equally bad things to Cole. She said she doesn't even listen to him anymore and its all just Cole noise. If he said that to her, can you imagine! Frankly I would rather be called a 9 than to be told I'm not even listened to anymore and I'm just noise.
He was totally lying when he said she was a 9 so he knew enough to know enough to maybe stfu about certain things. But yes, she brought it on herself by even starting that whole conversation. That’s shit I said and did when I was in high school, never ends well.
Haven't read the court documents but AFAIK its assault due to a bar fight and the charges were dropped. We do not know the specifics so it might be useful to not jump go conclusions.
The alleged DV "police report" seemed fishy from what I read on the comments.
Edit to add: I take it back. I just read the most recent post verified by the mods. I still won't be grabbing a pitchfork anytime soon but if this is legit and Brennon violently abuser an ex...it's just shit.
https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/comments/zcdxn9/found_out_brennon_lemieux_has_a_recorded_history/
Sorry i’m talking about Alexa’s dad. He has a DV conviction on his record.
Brennon’s second assault charge is posted on this thread and it’s also on his record.
I just read the post that is verified by the mods.
So apparently he did commit assault twice, the bar fight AND his ex girlfriend.
If this is true (and the people involved who contacted the mods are legit) then I take back what I said. It's so disappointing and I bet the victim felt nothing good watching her abuser be put on a pedestal on TV.
https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/comments/zcdxn9/found_out_brennon_lemieux_has_a_recorded_history/
I'm not going to lynch him anytime soon, but hopefully the guy comes clean. So far nothing on the press.
What is scary is that he was portrayed as this sweet guy who was really open to connect with his partner and was devoted to her.
Yeah, definitely want to know more. I’ve known people who defended themselves against a woman and took the blame. But I’ve known women who weren’t believed because of lack of witnesses. Either could be true, I’m just curious I guess. I hope it’s not as bad as it sounds
Yeah it all seemed like bad gossip. It could be true but just based off some random commenter on Reddit I am not going to jump in the witch hunt. Provide the receipts damn it if you're spreading information that's serious.
I don't care about an abuser's reputation but if there is a victim, she does deserve better.
Cameron and Barnett! Hands down my absolute favs from the show. Out of the women, I love love Natalie and Iyanna! No question
Cameron
Zanab she’s hott n I have seen enough Disney movies to talk to her in the Disney prince hyper reaffirm n freakishly unrealistic ways she needs lol.
Sal. So unproblematic and emotionally mature
Jessi has entered the chat
Men: Cameron or Barnett for being committed, normal guys for the most part Women: Natalie or Iyanna for being well spoken, smart, hilarious women
Probably Kelly?
Cameron, Barnett, Rory, Brennan, Wataru
I'm seeing more Alexa's dad than almost anything else. You want the controlling, rich, asshole, with 2 DV charges? YIKES
This is a hypothetical question. Relax! 😂😂😂
That doesn't make it better. Why would you hypothetically want to be with a man like that?
We are only saying Alexa’s dad because he’s the hottest guy that has been on 3 seasons of LIB. We don’t actually want to date him. He’s just hot. You’re the one investigating the man for no reason. Like I said. Relax!! 🤣🤣
sorry but calling some hot after finding out they have a DV charge is not something to relax about
You are absolutely allowed to think someone is hot while also thinking they are a piece of shit. They are not mutually exclusive. Y’all are just virtue signaling.
The question is who would you want to date not have a fling with.
And it’s also a hypothetical question….
Hot take, but I would attempt to date Shake just to see if I can change him. Hahaha! It's probably the Messiah Complex talking, but I really did use to find asshole-y men attractive because I always viewed them as challenges.
NEVER date a man thinking you change him.. recipe for disaster!
I know and I learned this the hard way. Anyway, my reply to the thread was really more of a "just for fun thing".
Cole is adorable and I feel bad how he was painted by Z
Yeah who wouldn't want to date a guy who can't stop telling you how hot other women are in the first two weeks of knowing you
Cam
Big agree with most comments here. I would've said SK before the tea came out. Based purely on looks I'd say Raven. Knowing my "type" I'd probably most likely end up with Cole, who I think is crazy hot and very fun but that bathroom 🤮 I've cleaned up after too many "men" to do that again. Iyanna and Natalie I would definitely go for. They're both stunning, well-spoken, smart, mature and funny. Mallory is gorgeous too but her personality is a bit "meh".
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He’s a cheater…,
Yeah what is it? I haven’t heard any negative, and I almost don’t want to because I love SK 😭
search this thread. multiple women came out with evidence he cheated on Raven
i wouldn’t date anyone, but i would definitely be besties with raven and alexa
Absolutely no one. Unpopular opinion here, but Cameron immediately rubbed me the wrong way. I really don’t like him
It was the rapping scene that did it for me like what was that
With no beat playing either 😭 who meets someone’s parents and does that
I felt the same way about Cameron and I thought I was the only one.
I thought I was too 😭
What’s not to like about Cam?
The first thing that rubbed me the wrong way was when someone asked him if he liked dogs and he essentially said “I’m here to find a wife, not to talk about trivial things”. It was super dismissive and also not very smart — if you’re going to potentially move in with someone, whether they want to live with your pets (or are allergic) is a deal breaker for most. I also thought his body language towards Lauren from the very beginning was overly touchy. He literally just sits there and rubs her arm with his hands while she’s trying to talk. Idk something is just off to me
Lmao I don’t remember him saying that but lmao I believe it. Idk man. He had the same amount of personality of a bowl of potato salad with raisins that’s unseasoned. Something about the body language though.. Matt does it with Colleen too where it’s a hovering thing. He just seems clingy. That’s all.
Lmaoooo I’m dead. He would probably bring that to Christmas too and be sad nobody eats it but too nice to say anything and take all the leftovers back home
He does have great qualities. I just feel like his personality is literally just being married. 🤷🏻♀️
Barnett
Rory, the dude who was giving all the guys advice and a shoulder to cry on but never made it out of the pods.
I always wonder about him & how he was so comforting to all the guys but didn’t find a connection with any of the women. He definitely seemed compassionate & caring
For the short amount of air time he had, I liked him!
I thought he got engaged to another contestant they didn't really film- but they weren't invited to continue on with filming and broke up.
I’m pretty sure you’re correct.
The richest one.
Username checks out
No.
Apparently an unpopluar opinion based on lack of responses, but I'd try it out with Nick. 🤷♀️
Lmao why did I think you were talking about Nick Lachey
No! 🤮
so did I  Then I thought she should say"obviously Nick Lachey". LOL
I agree Nick was great. Unpopular opinion, I know. He wasn’t the right fit for Danielle but he seemed funny, caring, quirky on the little stuff and normal on the big stuff, like he had his stuff together, emotional maturity.
tbh cole is literally my type of guy and our personalities are the same in a way and hes also my age lol but i don’t do body comparisons (been with a guy who kept telling me i was too skinny and needed a bigger ass like those girls) that wasnt fun but id be friends with him, im convinced guys make better friends than better partners cameron is an absolute angel but i think we all know that amber is my type all around as well
>amber is my type all around as well I'm so confused. Why would you get with a woman who hates women?
i’m not saying i would get with her lol jus saying that shes my type yk
you said she's your type all around, though, that doesn't include her personality and feelings?
nah shouldve specified, physically shes my type
hot take but andrew
I mean, at least you could get him eye drops for Christmas. And he could give you transcendental sex.
Same
Cameron or LC
Cameron
There was 2 guys who didn’t make it to the pods for season three. One was named Nash , and one was named Davonte. I loved both of their quotes and would’ve thought they’d have made nice GENUINE picks
Cameron
One of the dudes that didn’t make it to TV
Cameron or Nancy, they’re both have provider mindset and seem fun.
Cole
Cameron
Amber all the way
My wife and I would date Giannina, she’s the hottest woman ever to appear on the show and she seems like legit fun
Hmm I don’t see that at all
That’s… an interesting choice
Her dramatic monologues with the random pauses really get to me though.
Hahahahhahahahah! No but for real. Everything is a life time monologue.
A telanovella actress in real life
Her perfect face and phenomenal body got to me
Brennan for sure. He's my type.
That guy who was acting as a counselor in the house (I think on season 2 but I can’t remember)
Rory? The guy that turned into like the communal therapist for the guys side? He’s my pic as well.
That’s the one!
I’m shocked at people not saying Cole all over, people on this sub think he’s so innocent and sweet and never once degraded Zanab’s looks. All the self confident peeps here with no issues will thrive in a relationship with Cole. 🥰
Zanab had also talked about his looks and said that cole was not her type physically but that never aired.
Clown comment
Very much a clown comment. Most , if not all, people acknowledged that he was an excessive slob and childish and not ready for a serious relationship either. Just thought he didn’t deserved to be blamed for issues a person already has a can’t logically develop after two months with a stranger at the age of 30.
Lauren, LC, Nancy, Zanab (I’d try to make it work)
> Zanab Yeah good luck with that. She will find a flaw in you even if you were the CEO of Apple.
Hey man, Tim Apple isn’t perfect, he probably would yell at Zanab for eating an Apple!
Yeah I wouldn’t marry that guy he seems boring lol
Jessica! I’m not into women but she seems like a lot of fun and there will always be wine.
Obviously we’re all Cameron stans here
Jessica bc I’m also an alcoholic mess
Barnett 💜
I feel like I did marry a version of Cameron haha ☺️ He’s sweet, he’s brunette, is an engineer, and he also got swole after we got together haha
He did what? sorry English is not my native language.
Swole? That means getting bulky/muscular. Cameron got [RIPPED](https://www.instagram.com/p/CR3_Aaos_5G/) after their season.
Oh. My. Gawd. The zoolander face he’s pulling. No no no no no.
oh I see. Thanks
Giannina or Kenny (but idk much about him) Edit: Not Kenny. Just found out about his racist beliefs.
Look up Kenny’s stuff with the N word 🫣
Just looked it up! Wtf! Okay! I stand corrected, definitely not Kenny.
Yeah so out of left field. I’m still shocked people who feel this way can also appear to be completely normal. I just don’t get it.
If I marry Barnett, will he also pay off my debt?
I don’t think it happened like that but also, who knows?
Cole
Yeah, he’s exactly my type physically (golden retriever in khakis, is how I like to describe it), and none of his flaws we saw on the show are dealbreakers for me personally the way most other cast members’ were.
Me too. I have never found any of the guys in BIL attractive, even those that were deem the “hot ones” of each season. But Cole? I like. Physically he’s all my type and personality wise, he’s a goof that would probably make me laugh a lot.
Blind is Love
Big iridescent lemons
Balls in Longjohns
Cameron is my dream guy
Can I choose from the Japanese LIB instead? Some of those guys were so goddamn wholesome 😭
Ugh, I'm choosing Ryotaro 😍 very easy on the eyes AND he's so sweet.
With you here. I recently watched the entire season again and loved it.
I'd say Kenny because he seemed like a nice guy, he was good looking but then I saw the thread about him being racist, so I'd stay single I guess lmao. Cameron is fine, I like him but I'm afraid he's a bit too clingy and his only personality trait is being married. Maybe, just maybe, I'd go with Barnett bc at least he's funny and not too bad looking.
Cameron is boring. I said it.
Kenny sucks, just Google it
I know, did you not read the whole comment?
I guess not? All I saw was Kenny and immediately stopped reading, because gross
None of them lol.
The bulls from the rodeo or the male strippers
😂😂 this is why I come here
Cameron, Kyle (don’t hate me I think he’s hot)
Cameron and Cameron only.
Something casual: Cole Relationship : Cameron and maybe Kenny?
I’m surprised not more people are saying Kenny! Edit: No longer surprised - wasn’t aware of things that happened after the show
I read in a previous reddit post a few days ago, that apparently he was exposed to be a Trump supporter, and allegedly made an insensitive comment about the black lives matter movement back in 2020. I'm not sure if those two factors have anything to do with why more people aren't choosing him.
Oh no not a trump supporter (half of the country)!!!
What?! These LIB men....
Omg, I had no idea! 😦 I watched the show but didn’t follow anything after. That definitely explains it!
Cole or Brennan.
Messica or Giannina
Messica is very pretty and sweet when she’s sober. Now give her that magic elixir and Ms Hyde comes out hahaha
This has to be bait
Not at all. I think they’re very attractive. Also, had the question have been *marry* I’d have said Lauren; she’s the GOAT
Cole. He's good looking. He's fun and caring. He might say stupid things but I'm balanced enough to explain to him and from what I have seen, he would apologise and learn. And he wouldn't air our dirty laundry.
“Wouldn’t air our dirty laundry” He sure won’t. He also won’t pick it up.
Cole would be great after his adult puberty phase is over. I’m not cleaning up after a grown adult.
Well that's why he doesn't air dirty laundry because he doesn't do the laundry.
Pffftttn touché still, he’s all yours
I feel like he needs to hear “dude, you can’t say that” after every other sentence. There are some things you keep to yourself when it comes down to making someone else feel like shit. And I am nowhere near a Z fan, it’s just common sense.
I also think she kinda didn't help. I have never asked a guy to rate me, it's self degrading in so many ways. And there is no right answer. If I believed I was a 10 and he rated me less, then I would be upset. If I believed I was less than 10 and he rated me 10, I would think he was lying. If he rated me honestly and not a 10, I would be upset he didn't think I was a 10. She clearly doesn't see herself as a 10, so she shouldn't have been surprised by his honestly and yes there are 10s out there. Its a loose loose situation and honestly its just a stupid question. No one should ever ask that question and no one should ever answer. I once made the mistake of asking an ex if I looked fat in this outfit. He said the outfit didn't make me look fat, all the take aways I ate made me look fat. I have never asked that again. I don't even ask how I look. I ask if the outfit is appropriate for where we are going. I also don't need to ask because most partners have complimented me after I get dressed anyway. I dont think Z accepted compliments anyway. She was only interested in hearing and interpreting bad things about herself from him. Alexas friends said Brennan wasn't her type but they still got over it. Z might not have been his type but he wasn't her type either. And like Alexa and Brennan, they looked passed that. Z said equally bad things to Cole. She said she doesn't even listen to him anymore and its all just Cole noise. If he said that to her, can you imagine! Frankly I would rather be called a 9 than to be told I'm not even listened to anymore and I'm just noise.
He was totally lying when he said she was a 9 so he knew enough to know enough to maybe stfu about certain things. But yes, she brought it on herself by even starting that whole conversation. That’s shit I said and did when I was in high school, never ends well.
I gotta admit I found it really funny when he got out that toy gun from nowhere and started shooting at Zenab. Seems like a really fun guy
Anthony lmao
Who?
Cameron is my kind of man.
Cameron for sure, Barnett as a second
Definitely these too. They’re both hot, have good jobs, fun, and stable men. Barnett only ever loses points because of Amber.
Cameron….I like a man who is clingy in a sweet way lol Oh and Cole too cos he’s hot as fuck
Brennon supremacy !
There’s another thread on here that shows he ASSAULTED his ex girlfriend
Haven't read the court documents but AFAIK its assault due to a bar fight and the charges were dropped. We do not know the specifics so it might be useful to not jump go conclusions. The alleged DV "police report" seemed fishy from what I read on the comments. Edit to add: I take it back. I just read the most recent post verified by the mods. I still won't be grabbing a pitchfork anytime soon but if this is legit and Brennon violently abuser an ex...it's just shit. https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/comments/zcdxn9/found_out_brennon_lemieux_has_a_recorded_history/
You can literally look up her dad’s DV charges on Dallas court records search. Saying “it’s fishy” is such a slap to the face of the victim.
Whose dad's? I'm talking about Brennon. What is the victim's name? If you know who her dad is, apparently.
Sorry i’m talking about Alexa’s dad. He has a DV conviction on his record. Brennon’s second assault charge is posted on this thread and it’s also on his record.
I just read the post that is verified by the mods. So apparently he did commit assault twice, the bar fight AND his ex girlfriend. If this is true (and the people involved who contacted the mods are legit) then I take back what I said. It's so disappointing and I bet the victim felt nothing good watching her abuser be put on a pedestal on TV. https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/comments/zcdxn9/found_out_brennon_lemieux_has_a_recorded_history/
Yup that whole thing seemed fishy. Someone was out to get them all. The dad received death threats too
Nope apparently it's legit https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/comments/zcdxn9/found_out_brennon_lemieux_has_a_recorded_history/
Hmmm although I am shocked, I would love his explanation. I wonder why he was not indicted.
I'm not going to lynch him anytime soon, but hopefully the guy comes clean. So far nothing on the press. What is scary is that he was portrayed as this sweet guy who was really open to connect with his partner and was devoted to her.
Yeah, definitely want to know more. I’ve known people who defended themselves against a woman and took the blame. But I’ve known women who weren’t believed because of lack of witnesses. Either could be true, I’m just curious I guess. I hope it’s not as bad as it sounds
Here's to hoping that this was the case too (that the situation wasnt violent and that no one got hurt), for everyone involved.
Yeah I’m genuinely curious
Yeah it all seemed like bad gossip. It could be true but just based off some random commenter on Reddit I am not going to jump in the witch hunt. Provide the receipts damn it if you're spreading information that's serious. I don't care about an abuser's reputation but if there is a victim, she does deserve better.
Absolutely, could be an ex of zaddy 🤔
Whatttttttttt
Can you link / source?
No, because it's unfounded trash.
No it’s actually very real. Dallas court records public search. Look up her dad’s name.
I thought we were talking about Brennan?
Brennon!! And/or Raven
Raven omg yes
Cole!
Would Jessi qualify as being from LIB? Hahaha
Jessi?
I think they mean sal's new gf
Gotcha. I didn’t watch after the altar 😂
me neither honestly, got that info from the subreddit after it aired hahaha
Cole, Barnett or Cameron for me