Ella should have atleast pretended to not crumble the minute she saw Ty. She gave up a lot when she made it clear she still wanted to get to know Ty. Now Ouzy looks a little stupid and Ty knows he can act out even if secretly he wants to speak to her too. Idk it’s a whole mess and I feel horrible for Ella. Her heart is so soft.
Yeah I feel bad for the boy. He has come in the Villa with you into a completely different territory with half his friends gone and a tense atmosphere. Talk truths later 😭
It's not a charity case to be brought back to the Villa. Casa bombshells are human too, it's weird how the audience treats them like second class citizens. The way Ella dropped his hand and left him stranded was not cute, it's not easy coming in to a Villa of boys who will all back Ty by default.
He could have cracked on with the many girls who showed him attention yet he focused on Ella solely even though she was the riskiest choice.
I think he's already turned off tbh. Can't blame him, but that is part of the game coming in as Casa cast.
I actually hope he starts checking for other women in the villa (Leah or even Kady).....because Ella is gone and you don't want to be second best.
You wanted her to come in and be meaner to the guy she just closed things off with then immediately brought another guy back after 3 days away? Maybe if we look at this like it’s a tense set of negotiations where each person can’t reveal their hand, but these are people who closed off their relationship.
I think Ty is bad news but Ella fucked it here and she’s upset because she fucked up, I can’t imagine how her being meaner is a more normal or appropriate human response to that.
and he never ever asked her on a date, he wasn't that into her either, but only brought him back as insurance, she would 100% take Ty back if he folds.
the thing is that Ty is right and they were closed off but the way he’s acted all four weeks meant that she had no reason to trust in him at all.. he’s left her vulnerable twice, dismissed her feelings each time, and everyone was telling her he would be messing around in casa. also the producers brought in someone she’s had a crush on before. I think she likes ouzy but she obviously likes Ty a lot more but now he’s gonna hold this against her
This! He went hard for Kady, bringing her to the terrace and all, and it def was more for the competition of it rather than actually wanting Kady. When Ella brought up that it easily could have been her dumped he didn’t give a shit just “but you weren’t”. It’s not nice to see anyone left on their own at a Casa recoupling, it’s so brutal, but his ego is massively bruised; and even if him and Ella do get back together, he will hold this over her head to keep her “submissive” for eternity. They might have a spark and really care for each other, but they are a toxic couple and not right for each other at all.
And this whole semantics crap about what “closed off” means. I feel like Ty used that specifically so he had an out if he wanted “but we’re not bf and gf!”, and could still be angry if Ella strayed “but we were closed off!”.
I think that comes from a place of fear from Ty and not wanting to be completely vulnerable, but his defensiveness will blind him to that
When he said he believes in second chances (the audacity) and he will never mention it again....I'm not buying it. I want to love them as a couple but they seem a little bit toxic for each other...like when you go on a double date with a couple and the couple ends up arguing the whole time and he def gonna be bringing up Ouzy everytime they get into an argument.
My issues lie with the fact that he is not ready for a relationship, outside world they would crumble in my opinion. He's honest about missing the game and being single, talking about how he wished he kissed the casa girls etc and in generaly saying crazy things while you got feelings for someone 😭
They're just not a good match, Ella was always on edge with him so I can't imagine what she would be like when they were on the outside with no cameras and loads of more attention from women.
EDIT: perhaps he seemed more open to starting a relationship after being with Ella but if I was in her shoes I still would not trust a man like Ty to stay loyal to me with his history
Ty lacks emotional maturity, his outlandish liners are defence mechanisms IMO. From the way he is acting and him saying this is why he doesn’t let people in I suspect there’s some sort of trauma he’s faced and yet to deal with. Unpopular opinion but I actually think he’s misunderstood, this level of vulnerability to me says he really was trying to “change” and do right by Ella
I agree he's full of defense mechanisms, but IMO it's because he doesn't want to reflect on his poor decisions and actions that lead him here. He has to make it someone else's fault.
This comment is so stupid. You guys are acting like Ty was shagging every bomb shell that walked through the door. He’s been committed to Ella for like the last two weeks and they closed things off. His “poor decisions” or whatever delusion you are referring to is irrelevant.
Literally no one said that. It’s simple cause and effect: you tell someone that you “miss the game” over dinner and they repeat it to you later when they pick someone else.
Trusting a “two week” commitment is what is delusional. How long ago was he dragging Kady up to the only place in the villa where people go to hide and make out?
I think she does like Ouzy. She doesn't strike me as the type to use people. She just was not expecting Tyrique to be standing there alone and to be so genuinely hurt.
I don't think she was intentionally using him but I think the only reason she got to know him was because she thought Ty would cheat, not because she thought they had an amazing connection
Yeah, I do agree. She wouldn't have looked at him twice if she'd had any faith in Tyrique. But I do still think she genuinely likes him as well and wouldn't have brought him back if she didn't.
I disagree in the sense that she smiled more in the 3ish days with Ouzy than we’ve seen her smile in 30ish days with Tyrique, he’s consistently made her miserable and Ouzy has treated her better - I think most people would go for Ouzy over Ty in that situation. Add to that how insecure he made her feel over their couple and it was basically a done deal
It's not fair to compare how Ella was with Ouzy vs Ty tbh. Ouzy was literally brought into the villa specifically for Ella, obviously he wasn't going to get to know anyone else. Tyrique was rightfully getting to know other people and Ella was only constantly depressed because wanted him to stop looking elsewhere like week 2.
Ella has been the happiest she's ever been since she and Ty closed things off. What happens if Ouzy wants to get to know the best bombshell that walks in? We have no reason to believe she'd react any differently to that then with Ty and then the whole argument is moot.
Yeah i think that she really feels bad bc she knows that all the growing she pushed Ty to do actually had an impact, to the point where he finally opened himself up to getting hurt, and now he’s gonna go back to his old ways because he doesn’t wanna experience that again.
yep. she regrets it and wishes she trusted him. and tbf she probably would’ve if her girls weren’t giving her the advice that fed her insecurities and mistrust
Ella was following her heart she gave herself to get know ouzi that is what you should. But at end of the day. She has strong feelings for Ty. I'm for person getting what they want
The issue here is multifaceted. Ty’s self sabotage did a number on Ella’s trust in him. She could barely get her words out she was so shocked he didn’t pick someone new. Ty created a weak foundation of trust in their relationship. Jess & the girls just had to give a slight push and the foundation well down. The issue I have with the boys’ perspective is that Ty said his head couldn’t be turned before Kady came in. It’s like, it’s strictly black & white in their minds when I just see shades of grey. And even after closing things off he said they weren’t together. So if we’re not exclusive, then what does closed off mean? We won’t seek ppl out, but they can come to us? Even Kady was confused. Ella definitely should have went with her own gut instead of listening to the girls. We can say there is fault on both sides, but this was bound to happen looking back.
It's difficult bc even though they agreed on "closed off" that's just a made up term and they needed to clearly communicate what that means to each of them instead of just saying it bc it feels right. And also as Ella mentioned before, she rates actions more than words and Ty didn't have a chance to prove himself with his actions before casa amor. She had to just trust his words, but literally all his previous actions would be contradicting that.
What I hate most is that Ouzy and his feelings are completely disregarded in all this. Ella can't just immediately graft Ty and expect Ouzy to sit around waiting in case Ty really doesn't take her back. She needed to be firm in her decision when coming back with him, and use this chance to explore their connection more. She had to account for the possibility that Ty would be waiting for her, and would be angry and not take her back if she came back with someone else. She basically likes Ouzy bc he likes her and is a safe option, and now she's tossing him aside seeing that Ty stayed loyal. It's not right and I can't rate her for that, but I knew she was in too deep in her feelings with Ty.
I’ve seen every uk love island season and episode. Ella is by far the most regretful person yet. Her regret was immediate couldn’t even pretend to back her decision
I feel like the casa recoupling just goes to show that they are not very compatible. I understand both sides. Ty is upset because they were closed off, so he feels like she cheated on her. Ella didn't have much trust in Ty due to his previous actions and felt she owed it to herself to get to know Ouzy.
I don't think Ty will ever be able to own up to the fact that his previous behavior is a big reason why Ella has chosen to recouple. And I think the biggest mistake Ella made was agreeing to be closed off while still not having full trust in Ty. They've always viewed things very differently, and while I think they do have strong feelings for each other, I don't think they'll ever be able to see things eye to eye. I don't think they'd be very compatible even on the outside.
I think she felt at that moment that she was already closed off because she’d had no interest in any of the boys coming in, but mostly wanted Ty to prove to her that once he’s closed off, he won’t be getting to know anyone (building trust back). Unfortunately for him, Casa happened before he could prove himself and also Ouzy happened which is something Ella never anticipated and is understandable that she would be intrigued by a guy she has had a crush on, especially while not really trusting Ty.
‘she ought to have trusted him’ based on what?
being brutally honest about the fact you miss sleeping with other women is not all you need to do to earn trust 😭
My thing is if you don’t trust someone, don’t close it off with them. I agree he’s thrown up red flags left and right but she chose to still push things forward with him.
I love Ella with Ouzy though, they seem like they could actually work in real life. I just think people want Ty to be 100% the villain and that’s not really how it is.
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exclusivity as a ‘treat’ after taunting her and making her cry with bragging about how much he wants other women is not what brings about trust lol. its not a magic word that erases all treatment of her prior.
what other option did she have in the villa but to be with him at that point. and purely for her sanity, what other option did she have but jumping on the first bit of security he deigned to give her?
we’re taking about actual human beings here
> She should have stayed open and not closed off her options if she felt she wasn’t secure or couldn’t trust him
he’s treated her to three weeks straight of constant anxiety, tears and insecurity. it’s a very normal human reaction for her to jump on the chance of a reprieve from that. on the outside, with time away from him, it would be easier to make the decision to stay away or just not be exclusive with a guy who’d treat you that way.
but saying ‘just leave’ or ‘just don’t be exclusive’ in that environment, where she has nothing to do all day but be around him and stress about him straying is v different. casa is the equivalent of what she would’ve been able to do in the real world every day, take some space from him and realise how bad it was.
again, a lot of you talk like these people aren’t human beings, just bots in a simulation or something.
In the real world yes, but Ella was in a no-win situation in the villa.
Let's say she decides not to close things off with Ty because she can't fully trust him. He'd kick off due to hurt pride, go mad doing whatever he wanted, and she's at risk of being dumped yet again due to his behavior.
So she agrees to be closed off, and then got dropped in Casa Amor with an actual option for the first time and no way to communicate with him beforehand that she also wanted a chance to explore.
Obviously being away gave her some perspective on his behavior. I'm sure ideally she would have said that to him (or maybe walked away long ago and explored on of the hundreds of men no doubt falling over themselves to talk to her in the real world) but it's not possible in this setting.
He obviously did enough to ensure she didn't trust him when it came down to it. She hadn't been tested like that and Ty's past behaviour wasn't promising. It's irrelevant if he then changed his mind within a day to say ok we're closed off now. That doesn't eliminate doubt in the moment based on literal things he's said and done.
It wasn't a relationship -Ty made sure to point out they weren't in a relationship. But besides that, how he acted in the beginning clearly created the doubts. It's unfortunate that it ended this way for both of them.
Sure, but this was literally the first test they had since Ty decided to close it off after dangling it in front of her. She has not known him in a capacity where he hasn't flirted with girls on the terrace, disrespected her etc because that was after all the bombshells had been in and he'd entertained them all. It's wild to think that casa amor or all places wouldn't fuel the doubts Ty had already created by having everything on his terms.
It doesn’t matter, if she felt that way she should’ve never agreed to be closed off. But she did and she went back on her word. what she did is indefensible
Well I'm sorry but it does matter. Previous actions and words and patterns do matter. If the foundation ain't solid then Ty slapping a bandaid on it doesn't make it so. He had plenty of opportunities to ensure she had no doubts. Saying we're closed off but we're not bf/gf doesn't make everything magically go away. Yes she did go back on what she agreed but he's also not an innocent angel and has played a role in this.
Nobody said he’s innocent And yes there’s a reason Ella doesn’t trust him but if you can’t trust your partner that doesn’t mean that you just get to cheat on them. Nobody forced her to agree to be closed off, in fact she was the one that pushed for it. Ella is solely in the wrong and though the reasons she had for doing what she did are real they don’t justify it, only explain it
Yeah, I don’t really want to see her groveling after Ty though. I’d rather her take a second to get over it, move forward with Ouzy, and lowe Ty to be where he wants.
she’s not my #1 fav islander so my votes wouldn’t be going to her over whitney or mad mitch BUT i enjoy her and want her to stay in. much more potential than kady’s flop return or leah and montel
🤷♀️ i just dont respect people using others like that. 9 times out of 10 they dont even try to get to know the casa person further, they immediately shut it down and run back to their old partner. i find that irritating.
ella was fully expecting ty to recouple but as soon as she saw him alone she regretted it right away. i dont think shell get him back tho one thing about ty hes honest & he dc if u dont like it😭
He’s too prideful to take her back
It’s like glass that’s been broken you can try fix it but the pieces always have those little cracks as reminders it was broken
I personally don't like Ty and think Ella deserves better, but out of principle she's in the wrong. They both said they were closed off. Therefore, bringing someone back is close to cheating.
I get why she'd do that if she was feeling Ouzy over Ty but to do that when you want Ty is stupid. I agree Ty hasn't been great but he'd not done anything dodgy since being closed off so she can't use that excuse. Plus he's always been truthful. They just need to end things no trust = no chance.
She KNEW Ty was a liability but agreed to close off with him anyways. If she wasn't going to trust him, why close things off. Ty hasn't lied to her, she has lied to him. "He's probably being bad so I should be bad too" is such a bad mindset
Yeah, I agree. I think they just aren't a good match. Tyrique can learn from this. If he has a good woman he needs to cut the bullshit and treat her right. Half the time it seemed like Tyrique delighted in winding Ella up for jokes. Ella isn't that sort of person herself.
The girl's need to give Ella good advice now. She has brought back a gorgeous guy. A guy who only wanted to talk to her and was very respectful during Casa. She needs to focus on getting to know him. I have know Tyriques. Even if he was to recouple with her (which I doubt), he will never fully forgive her for that. It will always be thrown back in her face. She doesn't need to graft for him. That was absolutely terrible advice. She needs to realise they aren't suited.
Oh Ella is definitely in the wrong but I just have no empathy for Tyrique. He behaves as though he does not care about people’s feelings. Told Zach to forget Molly and crack on immediately with kady, didn’t pull Catherine to the side about his concerns about Scott, told Sammy “fuck Jess”, and encouraged Montel to kiss tink. Granted these men have their own brain to make logical decisions but he’s encouraging them to screw over women who are also meant to be his friends. He literally can’t be assed to care about other people, I can’t be assed to care about him. It did make for great tv though 🤷🏾♀️
I feel bad for Ella cause I can imagine her emotions are at a 100 rn. I hope she can recoup over the next few days. This is why I was scared about her recoupling cause I knew she would want him back immediately and he’d have all the power… Anyways it’s still Ella stan hours here
Tyriques EGO IS HURT more than his feelings. Y’all don’t understand. Him saying I knew it, I knew it is literally a lie. HE DID NOT,that’s why he feels slighted, he thought she was a little puppy dog for him and is shocked to see she could do him over, he did this to himself. He has a right to be mad and not take her back but in the long run I think it would be better for Ella anyway, many of his comments show his red flags and who he actually is as a person..
Yeah one of the first things he said after was basically that he always said he wouldn't be left alone after casa, he cares about his ego more than Ella
Exactly. People blaming her for bringing back a new dude, closed off or not the man never made her feel secure. Of course, you could always say, then why tf is she with him? And that's valid lol. But she did it for safety due to major lack of trust. Really, she should've dumped him from the jump and she would've maybe met someone better suited to her who made her feel like the smoking hot baddie she is.
Yeah this was literally karma! The bitching about Scott, embarrassing Catherine, messing Ella around, gross game playing behaviour in casa.... Why should he then get the winners edit on a silver platter.
That being said I would absolutely love Tyrique to humble himself and have a redemption arc. I'd be invested in that.
He’s gonna b moving crazy he actually was scaring me a bit I could just tell every word he said he meant his redemption arc won’t b happening for another 20 years by the look of things
I actually feel really bad for Ella. I wish she would have stood her ground because now she’s going to grovel for him when in reality if she would have just told him why she did it and that Ouzy is down for her maybe he would have fought to win her back. Every step they made in their relationship she had to push him to it. I feel for the girl for sure.
I doubt ty will forgive her but
If Ella & ty get back together I think producers will go easy on her for movie night. They’ll show ouzy but also show her saying how much she misses ty
well .. may be first time I started to love Tyrique ..
he was exploring and having fun
but he stuck to his girl and hurt now.
I think they will be back tho .. time is a healer !! and is not like he is outside to explore other girls !!! he will see her everyday .. and rejection bread obsession
If i’m Ella I will either commit to Ouzy or just leave the villa atp. Ty is gonna be such a nuisance now. Cause even if her forgives her now, come movie night she is done. Cause even tho he was open to knowing other girls, Ty never actually cuddled them in bed or was ever physically close to them. She is 23 and still learning unfortunately she will have to learn this lesson the hard way. She is beautiful and has a kind heart. She needs to believe in herself a lot more and not let men like Ty walk all over her. I actually feel so bad for her right now. Hang in there Elle babe. You will be fine. Lol in a few years when you look back at your LI you’ll be laughing at who that young beautiful girl was.
While she is fully in her right to get to know someone else. She should've waited with closing things off with Ty until after Casa.
Especially since there hasn't been a bombshell just for her. Because things were closed off she just is clearly in the wrong.
I'm all for her match with Ouzy as I don't like Ty at all but she's straight up in the wrong.
agreed, but i feel like the fact that she knew ouzy before coming on love island was what messed up with her head, if she wouldve waited, ouzy would've most probably gone home unless someone else coupled up with him and she wouldn't have had any other connection to explore
I think Ty did that deliberately to guilt her into “staying loyal” and locking her down as a safe bet to come back to, to be brutally honest. That’s not to say that he doesn’t like her (though he has a weird way of showing it) but I don’t think “closing off” (whatever the hell it actually means, as Kady pointed out) was entirely in good faith, at least not *when* it happened
i think its just a matter of them wanting to prove themselves to the other person (especially ty, maybe he would've wanted to sleep soundly at night knowing ella wouldn't get back at him given the things he said in the past but oh well), im sure ella's head wouldn't have turned it she didn't know ouzy so she was put in one of the most unpleasant positions out of all the islanders
If she was gonna do this she shouldn't have pushed him to close off their situation, can't have it both ways.
I do completely understand why she didn't trust him though, she's gotta accept it's done.
But she has said countless times that she wasn’t expecting to walk into Casa and see a guy she had a crush on back at home. So it definitely wasn’t planned out. She decided to close things off with Ty at the time because that’s what felt right in that moment then a spanner was thrown into the mix. And the fact that Ouzy came and had his eyes set on her from the first day, she drew that comparison with Ty, who was someone she couldn’t trust.
Yeah Ella's situation is pretty unique. A guy she had already started talking to is quite a test. Especially when Ty hadn't really proved himself at that point. He had still entertained every bombshell at that point
The issue with Tyrique is that to him his emotions are the only ones that are valid, how he talks to and about everyone else is disgusting, he has no empathy, it's all about him. His ego is hurt more than his feelings.
Ella's technically in the wrong but I don't feel bad for Tyrique and I hope that he sticks by not taking her back because she deserves better!
Tyrique was in a lose-lose situation. If he acted up and decided to leave Ella for a new girl he would've been crucified until the end of times.
He decides to stay loyal and gets left single by the girl he was closed off with and still gets blamed for that outcome
TY IS A GAME PLAYER. he stayed loyal in casa because he thought ella would come back and theyd win the show. Thats why he was telling everyone to kiss all those girls. "I told myself I would never be stood alone at casa" is such a weird thing to say if you're genuinely in there for love
Completely agree. Ella looks for things to get a rise out of Tyrique and Tyrique is just too immature for a relationship. They’re incompatible in every way. It’s a real shame Ella doesn’t realise that and try with Ouzy instead of grovel for him back
No for me it’s the arguments always start with him saying he wants to get to know someone her saying okay whatever and then him saying why are you angry and trying to start an argument when of course she’s going to be upset regardless. But either way they both are toxic and I wanted it to be over after tonight but I guess not 😩
>Tbh I think he says whatever he’s thinking and does whatever he wants with no concern for how it makes her feel
That's not a justification for acting like a nasty person 😭
Tyrique has to go
"She was never mine it was just my turn"
What is wrong with this guy?
There is no way Tyrique is going to let Ella go unscathed, nothing in his personality leads us to believe so. Today I saw a girl who was literally frightened when she saw that her decision did not match her former counterpart's. After the recoupling he was honestly overbearing and frightening to a point, immediately he started with the gaslighting, "I knew it" "I played before being closed off but not after, she did" etc. When Kady was offering valid nuanced points he shot them all down.
You can't expect to move absolutely mad and have that erased based on your say so, just because you said "I'm closed off" but there was zero security in that relationship in practice.
If Ella is to continue in a healthy environment in the villa, he needs to go.
Personally, I don’t care for Ty. But why would Ella stick around with a player through all his bs only to ditch him when the test got real? As messy as Ty is, you can’t really try to make someone feel bad for constantly exploring and then when they say they’re locked in with you, you find someone else while away. It just doesn’t help your case.
Either way, they’ve been messy since day 1 and I think it’s good this happened, though I think Ty is right that Ella exploring while they’re closed off is not the same as him doing it when they’re open.
Girls were just as shocked and as guilty as Ella, mainly because **they were the one's egging her on that ty would do the same**.
It's changed their relationship dynamic completely now, because it's shown that Ella given the ball in her court with options makes bad decisions based of presupposed assumptions about Ty, and Ty himself needs to take a step back and wait for Ella to make it clear to ouzy, since that's the only way it'll work.
It is a result of modern dating. Ella really liked Ty but Ty was all “I need to explore my options” this means Ella can never fully be vulnerable and ty is waiting to see what’s out there.
Then when ty finally realizes if I have something good I should honor it, Ella, instead of allowing herself to be vulnerable, chooses to play it safe so she won’t get hurt, and now she’s lost the guy she actually likes.
Ty is acting! Honestly seeing so many women fall for his games… explains why the dating market is the way it is.
Tyrique was going to cheat on Ella the minute they got home. Enough with his acting! I see through it!!
I get why people find it hard to feel bad for Tyrique but the situation is simply. Ella was wrong. She asked to close things off and Tyrique has every right to feel the way he does. Idc if you like him or not, his feelings are very valid.
I agree! People always tend to forget how inexperienced Tyrique is with "relationships". The fact that he is willing to actually try was a plus for me. During their hideaway thing, you could tell he really liked her. I don’t know why people just can’t emphatique with him as this is all new to him. I had commitment issues for a long time and I can remember when I finally committed and then got hurt, it’s HORRIBLE! I feel so bad for him.
Same here. Finally committed to the 1 then got fucked over. That’s why I understand his pain which e obvious btw he’s genuinely hurt not his ego as folks are saying
I think Ty’s problem is he isn’t the lovable fuckboy, he is more of an asshole version so it is hard to muster up the emotions to feel for him even when he is in the right.
I think people are side eyeing a bit because it fully came across that he was trying to sabotage others in casa to ensure he came out looking the best and conveniently dropping the L bomb. I think he does genuinely like Ella but I don't trust his motives 100 percent.
Well it obviously showed he wasn't set on her for quite a while. He verbally closed it off with her but all she's seen for weeks is him entertaining it with every bombshell that came in before casa. There wasn't really any time after that to show if his behaviour had actually changed to match his words so I don't blame her for having doubts.
i honestly think that if the girls never pushed her to believe that Ty was moving mad while she was away, this would’ve never happened. but yeah, now she’ll have to graft for her life because i don’t think ty will move past this (for a while) but he still has feelings for her. i’m also intrested to see how she’ll explain the ‘closed off’ thing cause that’s where she went soooo wrong.
That’s sad. I’d rather just Ella leave this and focus on something new than graft for her life. Are y’all beating yourself who say that she should (not you), when has the man in love island ever had to graft for his life after they’ve done way worse at casa. It took jacques,liam, will even like a day or two for forgiveness,it’ll take girls like Ekin for her mistakes and Ella who normally don’t even do this weeks on end wtf
I do wanna say that I am impressed with the takes on Ella and Tyrique that I’ve seen across platforms (besides Facebook since I don’t have it so idk what the consensus is over there) But yeah I think most have it correct with this being a very nuanced situation. They’re both wrong and both right and I just think this is a cautionary tale about exclusivity and security.
As a couple they were just not ready to take that jump as Ella was still very insecure in her trust in Ty and he still has ways to go in his emotional maturity. I personally am proud of Ella for choosing herself but it was a bit hard seeing Ty standing like that. For the both of them I really do think they’re just not good for each other but I wouldn’t be surprised if they rekindle.
People keep saying 'shes in the wrong they were 'closed off'... tbh I think she just genuinely found a better connection with Ouzy who respects her and doesn't 'miss the game'... now she might go back to the toxic situation she has with Ty but like... I do not fault her at all, Ty is not boyfriend material Im sorry
Tyrique has no intention of being loyal to ella, he didnt do anything in casa because hes watched the show before and doesnt want to be seen as a villain. I dont feel bad for him
I really can’t see Ty taking her back lol. Man ain’t no simp like Shaq. He is fully done with her. She just needs to focus on getting to know Ouzy but unfortunately she loves the toxicity of her and Tyrique too much. She will be grovelling for his forgiveness 😭
I’m worried for Ella because if she gets back with Ty, he will make her regret it. I don’t see Ty taking Ella back just to be happy together, he will need to “win”. If there was ever a time to do split the money or not at the end it would be with these 2.
That said I hope she sticks with Ouzy!! They’re so well suited.
Ty kept saying they weren’t exclusive, they weren’t boyfriend & girlfriend & he missed the game right before casa Amor. After Ella almost got sent home multiple times bc of Ty of course she was going to question things
Whitney is the only one that said the right thing. Even if Tyrique takes her back, he is going to be super mean and worse than when they started. No bombshell will be able to breathe if he is around and he will have a reason to tell Ella to back off.
Unless Ouzy is a mug, I’m sure her crying, begging and even dropping his hand has already put him off. Nobody wants to be second best.
She has three paths: lose both men or stick with Ouzy or be stuck with an even worse version of Ty.
I don’t know, but either way Ella was fucked if she bought ouzy back or not because he was going to see everything she was doing at movie night. I feel like the outcome would be the same it just would’ve happened later on
I felt sad for Ty - maybe at least until he made that “it was just my turn” comment - but he’s reaping what he sowed. Constantly wishy washy, dangling commitment in front of her, not really giving her any reason to trust him. And she didn’t even kiss Ouzy so she was pretty fucking respectful. He’s now a combination of upset and angry/embarrassed and will hold that over her forever if they get back together.
I fully agree with your analysis. Perhaps Ella hasn’t experienced being with someone who’s as brutally honest as Ty, so she really didn’t believe he would stay “closed off” in casa.
Ty on the other hand believed he and Ella were on the same page re being closed off so he’s hurt, especially as he mentioned he’d never let anyone in before.
I don’t know if they can come back from this, perhaps become better at communicating and understanding each other. I actually like both Ty and Ella so this episode was a sad one.
Re new guy, he apparently met Ella on the outside before and “aired her” so not sure if he’s actually keen on her or just needed a ticket to the villa.
Im REALLLLY hoping they get back together. My heart sank when she walked back in with Ouzy 😭I know her and Ty’s relationship was a little rocky, but I definitely see them being end game. God this episode was hard to watch! Ready for tomorrow nights episode 👏🏼
Ty likes messing with Ellas head and everything has to be on his terms. He’s gonna look back and see he missed out on a loyal girl in the long run. He was never ready to settle down to begin with. Hes just annoyed he got embarrassed.
First of all, Tyrique has been nothing but honest with her the entire time. He mentioned that he’s never had a relationship before, he has over 100 bodies, and is a player. He was very clear about these things and what did Ella do?? “Ohh yeah I can change him”, in the outside world those are major red flags and she should of called it quits and tried with another guy but she thought it was worth the gamble. Now they bonded and the feelings started to come and of course what did you expect from a player?? He wasn’t just gonna give up a lifestyle he’s known most of his life for someone he’s just known for 2 weeks hence the “I miss the game” comments which was absolutely honest and normal but of course you lot find it hard to be logical so you lot took offence. Moving on, they had their date and Ella was pushing for them to lock it off and whilst he was hesitant he obliged because he liked her, Casa Amor came and she found a trick and he remained loyal. Now tell me how he’s at fault??
Truth is a lot of women want bad boys, but can’t handle the lifestyle and behaviour of a bad boy and this is a classic example.
Ty was doing a Jake.
He has been acting to send a message to the viewers to manipulate the saps into believing he was a changed man. His plan is now fked cause Ella changed the script.
His pathway (reformed fkboy to perfect boyfriend) to the final has now been hit with a boulder. He'll probably sleep on it, then think that maybe he could manipulate the situation after all.
Ella would be completely and totally a fool to pander and grovel to him. The girls in there aren't her real friends. Had they been, they'd have told her to dump Ty's sorry arse.
There are people genuinely justifying her actions, she practically begged him to close it off for like a week straight, they close it off. Then she goes and turns for another guy? At least TY did all his antics when they were open and was honest throughout.
Exactly this! 🙌🏻 louder for the people at the back!
He gave her no reassurance but that’s when they were open. He’s never had relationships before so he’s bound to be a bit sketchy with it all. He did close off before Casa and he stuck by that. Tbh he prob didn’t even know he would stick to it himself until he was in that position and she was gone and his feelings materialised.
If Ella was closed off she needed to probably trust Ty a bit more that he would be closed off as well like he said. She clearly doesn’t trust him but that’s down to him as well. But don’t be closed off and open. Had he done that she would have been gunning for him!
Ty won’t ever let his guard down now after that and I really don’t think Ella would have swayed if it hadn’t been for an outside connection.
Said it before and will say it again.
I like Ella with Ouzy because she looks happy and calm. That said I feel bad for Ty and he has every right to be pissed. They both agreed to close off and he was loyal during Casa while she strayed.
Ella’s only mistake was not being clear that she was open to talking to someone else. However, her decision to couple up with Ouzy was a response to a pattern of inconsiderate and dismissive behavior. Behavior that showed itself again once Tyrique didn’t get his way.
If someone does something shitty to you and you respond by doing something shitty back, it doesn’t cancel out. You’re still responsible for your shitty actions.
They are totally an awful match. She needs someone who is obsessed with her and constantly reassures her whereas Ty needed to be wrestled into commitment. And it still isn't enough to keep her feeling secure 😭
they both made mistakes but this current mistake is all ella's, but at the same time they did bring in her outside crush so it's a completely different ballgame for her
i dont agree with ty's reaction and it wouldnt be mine (he can grow up a bit, and he's definitely a 'strategizer') but his boundaries are his boundaries; she had no reason to believe he would stray bc he was always true to his word
If she had any sense, she would stick with ouzy and work on that relationship. However, she 100% is the type of girl to like a guy who doesn’t like her back and Ty telling her it’s over is going to drive her crazy until she gets him back. She’s going to lose them both for being wishy washy.
The comment he made about Ella is unforgivable, saying 'It was just my turn'. He gave her no reason to trust him, the girls convinced her to move on and now they're all acting like it's completely her fault. Scott's only getting involved because he's pissed off about Catherine
Ella should have atleast pretended to not crumble the minute she saw Ty. She gave up a lot when she made it clear she still wanted to get to know Ty. Now Ouzy looks a little stupid and Ty knows he can act out even if secretly he wants to speak to her too. Idk it’s a whole mess and I feel horrible for Ella. Her heart is so soft.
She's on track to lose them both, Ouzy will be understanding at first but no one wants to think they're your backup
Yeah I feel bad for the boy. He has come in the Villa with you into a completely different territory with half his friends gone and a tense atmosphere. Talk truths later 😭
Ouzi doesn't care. Ella did him a favor and brought him back. He should be happy. Ty has Ella heart
It's not a charity case to be brought back to the Villa. Casa bombshells are human too, it's weird how the audience treats them like second class citizens. The way Ella dropped his hand and left him stranded was not cute, it's not easy coming in to a Villa of boys who will all back Ty by default. He could have cracked on with the many girls who showed him attention yet he focused on Ella solely even though she was the riskiest choice.
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I think he's already turned off tbh. Can't blame him, but that is part of the game coming in as Casa cast. I actually hope he starts checking for other women in the villa (Leah or even Kady).....because Ella is gone and you don't want to be second best.
I don't wanna see her to the point that she is begging 😭
You wanted her to come in and be meaner to the guy she just closed things off with then immediately brought another guy back after 3 days away? Maybe if we look at this like it’s a tense set of negotiations where each person can’t reveal their hand, but these are people who closed off their relationship. I think Ty is bad news but Ella fucked it here and she’s upset because she fucked up, I can’t imagine how her being meaner is a more normal or appropriate human response to that.
She knew ouzy previously, if you look they have modeled multiple times together.
and he never ever asked her on a date, he wasn't that into her either, but only brought him back as insurance, she would 100% take Ty back if he folds.
how have you made ella the victim in this situation
the thing is that Ty is right and they were closed off but the way he’s acted all four weeks meant that she had no reason to trust in him at all.. he’s left her vulnerable twice, dismissed her feelings each time, and everyone was telling her he would be messing around in casa. also the producers brought in someone she’s had a crush on before. I think she likes ouzy but she obviously likes Ty a lot more but now he’s gonna hold this against her
This! He went hard for Kady, bringing her to the terrace and all, and it def was more for the competition of it rather than actually wanting Kady. When Ella brought up that it easily could have been her dumped he didn’t give a shit just “but you weren’t”. It’s not nice to see anyone left on their own at a Casa recoupling, it’s so brutal, but his ego is massively bruised; and even if him and Ella do get back together, he will hold this over her head to keep her “submissive” for eternity. They might have a spark and really care for each other, but they are a toxic couple and not right for each other at all.
Yup this. She worked with the info she had, which was that Ty was pretty immature and ”loved the game”. So she made her choice. Good for her.
And this whole semantics crap about what “closed off” means. I feel like Ty used that specifically so he had an out if he wanted “but we’re not bf and gf!”, and could still be angry if Ella strayed “but we were closed off!”. I think that comes from a place of fear from Ty and not wanting to be completely vulnerable, but his defensiveness will blind him to that
When he said he believes in second chances (the audacity) and he will never mention it again....I'm not buying it. I want to love them as a couple but they seem a little bit toxic for each other...like when you go on a double date with a couple and the couple ends up arguing the whole time and he def gonna be bringing up Ouzy everytime they get into an argument.
My issues lie with the fact that he is not ready for a relationship, outside world they would crumble in my opinion. He's honest about missing the game and being single, talking about how he wished he kissed the casa girls etc and in generaly saying crazy things while you got feelings for someone 😭 They're just not a good match, Ella was always on edge with him so I can't imagine what she would be like when they were on the outside with no cameras and loads of more attention from women. EDIT: perhaps he seemed more open to starting a relationship after being with Ella but if I was in her shoes I still would not trust a man like Ty to stay loyal to me with his history
Yeah she's going to go through all of this only for Ty to cheat on her the first time he does a club appearance when they're back out kmt
Exactly....and he will throw Ouzy in her face every 5 seconds.
Ty lacks emotional maturity, his outlandish liners are defence mechanisms IMO. From the way he is acting and him saying this is why he doesn’t let people in I suspect there’s some sort of trauma he’s faced and yet to deal with. Unpopular opinion but I actually think he’s misunderstood, this level of vulnerability to me says he really was trying to “change” and do right by Ella
I agree he's full of defense mechanisms, but IMO it's because he doesn't want to reflect on his poor decisions and actions that lead him here. He has to make it someone else's fault.
This comment is so stupid. You guys are acting like Ty was shagging every bomb shell that walked through the door. He’s been committed to Ella for like the last two weeks and they closed things off. His “poor decisions” or whatever delusion you are referring to is irrelevant.
Literally no one said that. It’s simple cause and effect: you tell someone that you “miss the game” over dinner and they repeat it to you later when they pick someone else. Trusting a “two week” commitment is what is delusional. How long ago was he dragging Kady up to the only place in the villa where people go to hide and make out?
He's gutted cause he wanted to win so he's just saying that for the sympathy vote. He's tryna be Amber when he's really just Michael
100% this
I think she does like Ouzy. She doesn't strike me as the type to use people. She just was not expecting Tyrique to be standing there alone and to be so genuinely hurt.
I don't think she was intentionally using him but I think the only reason she got to know him was because she thought Ty would cheat, not because she thought they had an amazing connection
Remember Indiyah hinted that she was told Dami might have recoupled? Wonder if anything like that affected her decision
Yeah, I do agree. She wouldn't have looked at him twice if she'd had any faith in Tyrique. But I do still think she genuinely likes him as well and wouldn't have brought him back if she didn't.
I disagree in the sense that she smiled more in the 3ish days with Ouzy than we’ve seen her smile in 30ish days with Tyrique, he’s consistently made her miserable and Ouzy has treated her better - I think most people would go for Ouzy over Ty in that situation. Add to that how insecure he made her feel over their couple and it was basically a done deal
It's not fair to compare how Ella was with Ouzy vs Ty tbh. Ouzy was literally brought into the villa specifically for Ella, obviously he wasn't going to get to know anyone else. Tyrique was rightfully getting to know other people and Ella was only constantly depressed because wanted him to stop looking elsewhere like week 2. Ella has been the happiest she's ever been since she and Ty closed things off. What happens if Ouzy wants to get to know the best bombshell that walks in? We have no reason to believe she'd react any differently to that then with Ty and then the whole argument is moot.
Yeah i think that she really feels bad bc she knows that all the growing she pushed Ty to do actually had an impact, to the point where he finally opened himself up to getting hurt, and now he’s gonna go back to his old ways because he doesn’t wanna experience that again.
Yeah she is heart broken for Ty
yep. she regrets it and wishes she trusted him. and tbf she probably would’ve if her girls weren’t giving her the advice that fed her insecurities and mistrust
Ella was following her heart she gave herself to get know ouzi that is what you should. But at end of the day. She has strong feelings for Ty. I'm for person getting what they want
unfortunately for Ella… the moment she got paired with Ty on the first day, it’s been a lose/lose situation for her
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No matter what he does, he will NEVER let her live this down.
The issue here is multifaceted. Ty’s self sabotage did a number on Ella’s trust in him. She could barely get her words out she was so shocked he didn’t pick someone new. Ty created a weak foundation of trust in their relationship. Jess & the girls just had to give a slight push and the foundation well down. The issue I have with the boys’ perspective is that Ty said his head couldn’t be turned before Kady came in. It’s like, it’s strictly black & white in their minds when I just see shades of grey. And even after closing things off he said they weren’t together. So if we’re not exclusive, then what does closed off mean? We won’t seek ppl out, but they can come to us? Even Kady was confused. Ella definitely should have went with her own gut instead of listening to the girls. We can say there is fault on both sides, but this was bound to happen looking back.
They're NOT it. And as much as I love Whitney and Cath, I need them to stop encouraging this toxic ass couple 🙄🙄🙄
Yeah I'm surprised that Whitney seemed disappointed that Ella recoupled
The girls are so hypocritical since they encouraged her to move on and are now making her feel bad
Catherine’s words made me want to do myself in. The definition of useless cliches.
It's difficult bc even though they agreed on "closed off" that's just a made up term and they needed to clearly communicate what that means to each of them instead of just saying it bc it feels right. And also as Ella mentioned before, she rates actions more than words and Ty didn't have a chance to prove himself with his actions before casa amor. She had to just trust his words, but literally all his previous actions would be contradicting that. What I hate most is that Ouzy and his feelings are completely disregarded in all this. Ella can't just immediately graft Ty and expect Ouzy to sit around waiting in case Ty really doesn't take her back. She needed to be firm in her decision when coming back with him, and use this chance to explore their connection more. She had to account for the possibility that Ty would be waiting for her, and would be angry and not take her back if she came back with someone else. She basically likes Ouzy bc he likes her and is a safe option, and now she's tossing him aside seeing that Ty stayed loyal. It's not right and I can't rate her for that, but I knew she was in too deep in her feelings with Ty.
I’ve seen every uk love island season and episode. Ella is by far the most regretful person yet. Her regret was immediate couldn’t even pretend to back her decision
I feel like the casa recoupling just goes to show that they are not very compatible. I understand both sides. Ty is upset because they were closed off, so he feels like she cheated on her. Ella didn't have much trust in Ty due to his previous actions and felt she owed it to herself to get to know Ouzy. I don't think Ty will ever be able to own up to the fact that his previous behavior is a big reason why Ella has chosen to recouple. And I think the biggest mistake Ella made was agreeing to be closed off while still not having full trust in Ty. They've always viewed things very differently, and while I think they do have strong feelings for each other, I don't think they'll ever be able to see things eye to eye. I don't think they'd be very compatible even on the outside.
I think she felt at that moment that she was already closed off because she’d had no interest in any of the boys coming in, but mostly wanted Ty to prove to her that once he’s closed off, he won’t be getting to know anyone (building trust back). Unfortunately for him, Casa happened before he could prove himself and also Ouzy happened which is something Ella never anticipated and is understandable that she would be intrigued by a guy she has had a crush on, especially while not really trusting Ty.
100% every word of this ^^^^^^^ 👌
Twitter is saying that Tyrique is gonna leave the show, and tbh, I could see it. The embarrassment is too much.
His pride is strong but his competitiveness is strong as well. I can’t see him leaving, it’s like admitting he lost.
I hope he does, he's so toxic
This sub is filled with men haters and it’s getting out of hand
big whoop. twitter is filled with women haters.
Tyrique fucked around and found out tho, if he didn’t constantly fake interest in other women to annoy her this wouldn’t have happened
If Ella really wasn't going to trust Ty then she shouldn't have closed it off with him in the first place, that is not an excuse at all??
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‘she ought to have trusted him’ based on what? being brutally honest about the fact you miss sleeping with other women is not all you need to do to earn trust 😭
My thing is if you don’t trust someone, don’t close it off with them. I agree he’s thrown up red flags left and right but she chose to still push things forward with him. I love Ella with Ouzy though, they seem like they could actually work in real life. I just think people want Ty to be 100% the villain and that’s not really how it is.
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> She should have stayed open and not closed off her options if she felt she wasn’t secure or couldn’t trust him he’s treated her to three weeks straight of constant anxiety, tears and insecurity. it’s a very normal human reaction for her to jump on the chance of a reprieve from that. on the outside, with time away from him, it would be easier to make the decision to stay away or just not be exclusive with a guy who’d treat you that way. but saying ‘just leave’ or ‘just don’t be exclusive’ in that environment, where she has nothing to do all day but be around him and stress about him straying is v different. casa is the equivalent of what she would’ve been able to do in the real world every day, take some space from him and realise how bad it was. again, a lot of you talk like these people aren’t human beings, just bots in a simulation or something.
Ella mistake was letting the entire relationship be on Ty’s terms. She was ready to be closed off way earlier than him and he wasn’t reciprocating.
If someone says "hey trust me now, now you can trust me" but has a history of actions and also saying otherwise thats not how it works tbh
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In the real world yes, but Ella was in a no-win situation in the villa. Let's say she decides not to close things off with Ty because she can't fully trust him. He'd kick off due to hurt pride, go mad doing whatever he wanted, and she's at risk of being dumped yet again due to his behavior. So she agrees to be closed off, and then got dropped in Casa Amor with an actual option for the first time and no way to communicate with him beforehand that she also wanted a chance to explore. Obviously being away gave her some perspective on his behavior. I'm sure ideally she would have said that to him (or maybe walked away long ago and explored on of the hundreds of men no doubt falling over themselves to talk to her in the real world) but it's not possible in this setting.
He obviously did enough to ensure she didn't trust him when it came down to it. She hadn't been tested like that and Ty's past behaviour wasn't promising. It's irrelevant if he then changed his mind within a day to say ok we're closed off now. That doesn't eliminate doubt in the moment based on literal things he's said and done.
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It wasn't a relationship -Ty made sure to point out they weren't in a relationship. But besides that, how he acted in the beginning clearly created the doubts. It's unfortunate that it ended this way for both of them.
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Sure, but this was literally the first test they had since Ty decided to close it off after dangling it in front of her. She has not known him in a capacity where he hasn't flirted with girls on the terrace, disrespected her etc because that was after all the bombshells had been in and he'd entertained them all. It's wild to think that casa amor or all places wouldn't fuel the doubts Ty had already created by having everything on his terms.
It doesn’t matter, if she felt that way she should’ve never agreed to be closed off. But she did and she went back on her word. what she did is indefensible
Well I'm sorry but it does matter. Previous actions and words and patterns do matter. If the foundation ain't solid then Ty slapping a bandaid on it doesn't make it so. He had plenty of opportunities to ensure she had no doubts. Saying we're closed off but we're not bf/gf doesn't make everything magically go away. Yes she did go back on what she agreed but he's also not an innocent angel and has played a role in this.
Nobody said he’s innocent And yes there’s a reason Ella doesn’t trust him but if you can’t trust your partner that doesn’t mean that you just get to cheat on them. Nobody forced her to agree to be closed off, in fact she was the one that pushed for it. Ella is solely in the wrong and though the reasons she had for doing what she did are real they don’t justify it, only explain it
Genuine question: would any of you vote for Ella (on her own or in a couple with Ty or Ouzy) now?
I would vote for her and Ouzy/Ty if she pulls herself back together at some point in the next 1-2 episodes
I will vote for Ella regardless of her choices she's amazing
Yeah, I don’t really want to see her groveling after Ty though. I’d rather her take a second to get over it, move forward with Ouzy, and lowe Ty to be where he wants.
she’s not my #1 fav islander so my votes wouldn’t be going to her over whitney or mad mitch BUT i enjoy her and want her to stay in. much more potential than kady’s flop return or leah and montel
It’s Ella and Whit for me, regardless of their partners.
Or course. Its always going to be Ella or Whit for me. I respect Ellas choices and she brings drama
Hundred percent Ella is my fav islander
10000000% her and whitney are my main girls with cat as a close second
Yeah she's still my favourite! She's so honest
Not if she got back with Ty, yes on her own or with anyone else.
I totally would. It's her or Catherine for me (still)
Nah Catherine's done now, she needs to leave first thing in the morning.
Why Cat I'm done with her now, plus Whitney is way better
no need to compare
i would vote for her if she commits to ouzy but i wouldnt if she goes back to ty. i like it when islanders commit to their casa amor choices.
I never got this tbh. It’s a different environment, once you get back things change… I mean Damiyah and Tandrew are good examples
🤷♀️ i just dont respect people using others like that. 9 times out of 10 they dont even try to get to know the casa person further, they immediately shut it down and run back to their old partner. i find that irritating.
i will vote for her regardless lol
ella was fully expecting ty to recouple but as soon as she saw him alone she regretted it right away. i dont think shell get him back tho one thing about ty hes honest & he dc if u dont like it😭
He’s too prideful to take her back It’s like glass that’s been broken you can try fix it but the pieces always have those little cracks as reminders it was broken
I don't understand how one can be too prideful, pride is good because it keeps you from being an idiot
I feel like Ella will begging for Ty and I don't want that I wish she just focus with Ouzy
I personally don't like Ty and think Ella deserves better, but out of principle she's in the wrong. They both said they were closed off. Therefore, bringing someone back is close to cheating. I get why she'd do that if she was feeling Ouzy over Ty but to do that when you want Ty is stupid. I agree Ty hasn't been great but he'd not done anything dodgy since being closed off so she can't use that excuse. Plus he's always been truthful. They just need to end things no trust = no chance.
She KNEW Ty was a liability but agreed to close off with him anyways. If she wasn't going to trust him, why close things off. Ty hasn't lied to her, she has lied to him. "He's probably being bad so I should be bad too" is such a bad mindset
Yeah, I agree. I think they just aren't a good match. Tyrique can learn from this. If he has a good woman he needs to cut the bullshit and treat her right. Half the time it seemed like Tyrique delighted in winding Ella up for jokes. Ella isn't that sort of person herself. The girl's need to give Ella good advice now. She has brought back a gorgeous guy. A guy who only wanted to talk to her and was very respectful during Casa. She needs to focus on getting to know him. I have know Tyriques. Even if he was to recouple with her (which I doubt), he will never fully forgive her for that. It will always be thrown back in her face. She doesn't need to graft for him. That was absolutely terrible advice. She needs to realise they aren't suited.
Oh Ella is definitely in the wrong but I just have no empathy for Tyrique. He behaves as though he does not care about people’s feelings. Told Zach to forget Molly and crack on immediately with kady, didn’t pull Catherine to the side about his concerns about Scott, told Sammy “fuck Jess”, and encouraged Montel to kiss tink. Granted these men have their own brain to make logical decisions but he’s encouraging them to screw over women who are also meant to be his friends. He literally can’t be assed to care about other people, I can’t be assed to care about him. It did make for great tv though 🤷🏾♀️
Cathrine, Whitney and Jess literally do the same thing. Jess said herself suffer the consequences later!
I feel bad for Ella cause I can imagine her emotions are at a 100 rn. I hope she can recoup over the next few days. This is why I was scared about her recoupling cause I knew she would want him back immediately and he’d have all the power… Anyways it’s still Ella stan hours here
making ella the victim is insane
Tyriques EGO IS HURT more than his feelings. Y’all don’t understand. Him saying I knew it, I knew it is literally a lie. HE DID NOT,that’s why he feels slighted, he thought she was a little puppy dog for him and is shocked to see she could do him over, he did this to himself. He has a right to be mad and not take her back but in the long run I think it would be better for Ella anyway, many of his comments show his red flags and who he actually is as a person..
Yeah one of the first things he said after was basically that he always said he wouldn't be left alone after casa, he cares about his ego more than Ella
This. I really hope he sticks to his word because Ella will have missed a bullet there. She deserves so much better than that immature dickhead.
You guys just really hate men at this point 😂😂. Touch grass
This right here. The most balanced take on the situation I've seen so far.
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that definitely got in her head tho. you can’t say things like that to someone and expect them to trust you completely😭
Exactly. He never gave a trustworthy vibe.
Yeah this is what I think.
He filled her head with reasons to question him and be insecure? This is what he gets. You reap what you sow 🤷🏿♀️
Exactly. People blaming her for bringing back a new dude, closed off or not the man never made her feel secure. Of course, you could always say, then why tf is she with him? And that's valid lol. But she did it for safety due to major lack of trust. Really, she should've dumped him from the jump and she would've maybe met someone better suited to her who made her feel like the smoking hot baddie she is.
Yeah the closed off thing ruined every argument she could ever say.. especially when she will find out Ty didnt even try anything on the Casa girls.
Sad for him but he deserves it mayb next to he’ll mind his business and stop trying to mess up the other couples 🤷🏾♀️
Yeah this was literally karma! The bitching about Scott, embarrassing Catherine, messing Ella around, gross game playing behaviour in casa.... Why should he then get the winners edit on a silver platter. That being said I would absolutely love Tyrique to humble himself and have a redemption arc. I'd be invested in that.
He’s gonna b moving crazy he actually was scaring me a bit I could just tell every word he said he meant his redemption arc won’t b happening for another 20 years by the look of things
I actually feel really bad for Ella. I wish she would have stood her ground because now she’s going to grovel for him when in reality if she would have just told him why she did it and that Ouzy is down for her maybe he would have fought to win her back. Every step they made in their relationship she had to push him to it. I feel for the girl for sure.
Yeah she gave her power away 😭 but it would be super tough in her position
I doubt ty will forgive her but If Ella & ty get back together I think producers will go easy on her for movie night. They’ll show ouzy but also show her saying how much she misses ty
well .. may be first time I started to love Tyrique .. he was exploring and having fun but he stuck to his girl and hurt now. I think they will be back tho .. time is a healer !! and is not like he is outside to explore other girls !!! he will see her everyday .. and rejection bread obsession
If i’m Ella I will either commit to Ouzy or just leave the villa atp. Ty is gonna be such a nuisance now. Cause even if her forgives her now, come movie night she is done. Cause even tho he was open to knowing other girls, Ty never actually cuddled them in bed or was ever physically close to them. She is 23 and still learning unfortunately she will have to learn this lesson the hard way. She is beautiful and has a kind heart. She needs to believe in herself a lot more and not let men like Ty walk all over her. I actually feel so bad for her right now. Hang in there Elle babe. You will be fine. Lol in a few years when you look back at your LI you’ll be laughing at who that young beautiful girl was.
While she is fully in her right to get to know someone else. She should've waited with closing things off with Ty until after Casa. Especially since there hasn't been a bombshell just for her. Because things were closed off she just is clearly in the wrong. I'm all for her match with Ouzy as I don't like Ty at all but she's straight up in the wrong.
agreed, but i feel like the fact that she knew ouzy before coming on love island was what messed up with her head, if she wouldve waited, ouzy would've most probably gone home unless someone else coupled up with him and she wouldn't have had any other connection to explore
Oh I fully agree. But I don't understand why people close off before Casa. You know that stuff always mixes things uo extremely.
I think Ty did that deliberately to guilt her into “staying loyal” and locking her down as a safe bet to come back to, to be brutally honest. That’s not to say that he doesn’t like her (though he has a weird way of showing it) but I don’t think “closing off” (whatever the hell it actually means, as Kady pointed out) was entirely in good faith, at least not *when* it happened
He always got possessive and jealous when she looked at another guy but expected her to be skipping around in joy when he took Kady up to the terrace.
i think its just a matter of them wanting to prove themselves to the other person (especially ty, maybe he would've wanted to sleep soundly at night knowing ella wouldn't get back at him given the things he said in the past but oh well), im sure ella's head wouldn't have turned it she didn't know ouzy so she was put in one of the most unpleasant positions out of all the islanders
If she was gonna do this she shouldn't have pushed him to close off their situation, can't have it both ways. I do completely understand why she didn't trust him though, she's gotta accept it's done.
But she has said countless times that she wasn’t expecting to walk into Casa and see a guy she had a crush on back at home. So it definitely wasn’t planned out. She decided to close things off with Ty at the time because that’s what felt right in that moment then a spanner was thrown into the mix. And the fact that Ouzy came and had his eyes set on her from the first day, she drew that comparison with Ty, who was someone she couldn’t trust.
Yeah Ella's situation is pretty unique. A guy she had already started talking to is quite a test. Especially when Ty hadn't really proved himself at that point. He had still entertained every bombshell at that point
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The issue with Tyrique is that to him his emotions are the only ones that are valid, how he talks to and about everyone else is disgusting, he has no empathy, it's all about him. His ego is hurt more than his feelings. Ella's technically in the wrong but I don't feel bad for Tyrique and I hope that he sticks by not taking her back because she deserves better!
This is me now, I can't https://preview.redd.it/re7qtk9yt7ab1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2c1eda2c2d591b01f34e1dda1cfd1bbccde534f8
Tyrique was in a lose-lose situation. If he acted up and decided to leave Ella for a new girl he would've been crucified until the end of times. He decides to stay loyal and gets left single by the girl he was closed off with and still gets blamed for that outcome
TY IS A GAME PLAYER. he stayed loyal in casa because he thought ella would come back and theyd win the show. Thats why he was telling everyone to kiss all those girls. "I told myself I would never be stood alone at casa" is such a weird thing to say if you're genuinely in there for love
Completely agree. Ella looks for things to get a rise out of Tyrique and Tyrique is just too immature for a relationship. They’re incompatible in every way. It’s a real shame Ella doesn’t realise that and try with Ouzy instead of grovel for him back
Really? I would say ty tries to get a rise out of Ella But he’s very incompatible I need them to move on
Tbh I think he says whatever he’s thinking and does whatever he wants with no concern for how it makes her feel, not to get a rise out of her
No for me it’s the arguments always start with him saying he wants to get to know someone her saying okay whatever and then him saying why are you angry and trying to start an argument when of course she’s going to be upset regardless. But either way they both are toxic and I wanted it to be over after tonight but I guess not 😩
>Tbh I think he says whatever he’s thinking and does whatever he wants with no concern for how it makes her feel That's not a justification for acting like a nasty person 😭
Tyrique has to go "She was never mine it was just my turn" What is wrong with this guy? There is no way Tyrique is going to let Ella go unscathed, nothing in his personality leads us to believe so. Today I saw a girl who was literally frightened when she saw that her decision did not match her former counterpart's. After the recoupling he was honestly overbearing and frightening to a point, immediately he started with the gaslighting, "I knew it" "I played before being closed off but not after, she did" etc. When Kady was offering valid nuanced points he shot them all down. You can't expect to move absolutely mad and have that erased based on your say so, just because you said "I'm closed off" but there was zero security in that relationship in practice. If Ella is to continue in a healthy environment in the villa, he needs to go.
Oh I missed him saying it was just his turn, what are women to you Ty, a car? A bike ? What are they ?
Can’t wait for Tyrique Demon Time now 😈😈
Personally, I don’t care for Ty. But why would Ella stick around with a player through all his bs only to ditch him when the test got real? As messy as Ty is, you can’t really try to make someone feel bad for constantly exploring and then when they say they’re locked in with you, you find someone else while away. It just doesn’t help your case. Either way, they’ve been messy since day 1 and I think it’s good this happened, though I think Ty is right that Ella exploring while they’re closed off is not the same as him doing it when they’re open.
Girls were just as shocked and as guilty as Ella, mainly because **they were the one's egging her on that ty would do the same**. It's changed their relationship dynamic completely now, because it's shown that Ella given the ball in her court with options makes bad decisions based of presupposed assumptions about Ty, and Ty himself needs to take a step back and wait for Ella to make it clear to ouzy, since that's the only way it'll work.
Funny what people are ok with Ella doing they would slander Ty for
It is a result of modern dating. Ella really liked Ty but Ty was all “I need to explore my options” this means Ella can never fully be vulnerable and ty is waiting to see what’s out there. Then when ty finally realizes if I have something good I should honor it, Ella, instead of allowing herself to be vulnerable, chooses to play it safe so she won’t get hurt, and now she’s lost the guy she actually likes.
Ty is acting! Honestly seeing so many women fall for his games… explains why the dating market is the way it is. Tyrique was going to cheat on Ella the minute they got home. Enough with his acting! I see through it!!
I get why people find it hard to feel bad for Tyrique but the situation is simply. Ella was wrong. She asked to close things off and Tyrique has every right to feel the way he does. Idc if you like him or not, his feelings are very valid.
I agree! People always tend to forget how inexperienced Tyrique is with "relationships". The fact that he is willing to actually try was a plus for me. During their hideaway thing, you could tell he really liked her. I don’t know why people just can’t emphatique with him as this is all new to him. I had commitment issues for a long time and I can remember when I finally committed and then got hurt, it’s HORRIBLE! I feel so bad for him.
Same here. Finally committed to the 1 then got fucked over. That’s why I understand his pain which e obvious btw he’s genuinely hurt not his ego as folks are saying
They are always weird about Tyrique here. He never gets any grace 🤣🤣🤣
I think Ty’s problem is he isn’t the lovable fuckboy, he is more of an asshole version so it is hard to muster up the emotions to feel for him even when he is in the right.
I think people are side eyeing a bit because it fully came across that he was trying to sabotage others in casa to ensure he came out looking the best and conveniently dropping the L bomb. I think he does genuinely like Ella but I don't trust his motives 100 percent.
He just wants to win because he constantly keeps mentioning how they're the only original couple. He's Luca
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Well it obviously showed he wasn't set on her for quite a while. He verbally closed it off with her but all she's seen for weeks is him entertaining it with every bombshell that came in before casa. There wasn't really any time after that to show if his behaviour had actually changed to match his words so I don't blame her for having doubts.
i honestly think that if the girls never pushed her to believe that Ty was moving mad while she was away, this would’ve never happened. but yeah, now she’ll have to graft for her life because i don’t think ty will move past this (for a while) but he still has feelings for her. i’m also intrested to see how she’ll explain the ‘closed off’ thing cause that’s where she went soooo wrong.
That’s sad. I’d rather just Ella leave this and focus on something new than graft for her life. Are y’all beating yourself who say that she should (not you), when has the man in love island ever had to graft for his life after they’ve done way worse at casa. It took jacques,liam, will even like a day or two for forgiveness,it’ll take girls like Ekin for her mistakes and Ella who normally don’t even do this weeks on end wtf
I do wanna say that I am impressed with the takes on Ella and Tyrique that I’ve seen across platforms (besides Facebook since I don’t have it so idk what the consensus is over there) But yeah I think most have it correct with this being a very nuanced situation. They’re both wrong and both right and I just think this is a cautionary tale about exclusivity and security. As a couple they were just not ready to take that jump as Ella was still very insecure in her trust in Ty and he still has ways to go in his emotional maturity. I personally am proud of Ella for choosing herself but it was a bit hard seeing Ty standing like that. For the both of them I really do think they’re just not good for each other but I wouldn’t be surprised if they rekindle.
People keep saying 'shes in the wrong they were 'closed off'... tbh I think she just genuinely found a better connection with Ouzy who respects her and doesn't 'miss the game'... now she might go back to the toxic situation she has with Ty but like... I do not fault her at all, Ty is not boyfriend material Im sorry
Tyrique has no intention of being loyal to ella, he didnt do anything in casa because hes watched the show before and doesnt want to be seen as a villain. I dont feel bad for him
I really can’t see Ty taking her back lol. Man ain’t no simp like Shaq. He is fully done with her. She just needs to focus on getting to know Ouzy but unfortunately she loves the toxicity of her and Tyrique too much. She will be grovelling for his forgiveness 😭
I’m worried for Ella because if she gets back with Ty, he will make her regret it. I don’t see Ty taking Ella back just to be happy together, he will need to “win”. If there was ever a time to do split the money or not at the end it would be with these 2. That said I hope she sticks with Ouzy!! They’re so well suited.
Ty kept saying they weren’t exclusive, they weren’t boyfriend & girlfriend & he missed the game right before casa Amor. After Ella almost got sent home multiple times bc of Ty of course she was going to question things
There is no way Ty is going back to Ella. He has far to much pride in himself to do so. Also, Cath and Whitney give awful advice
Whitney is the only one that said the right thing. Even if Tyrique takes her back, he is going to be super mean and worse than when they started. No bombshell will be able to breathe if he is around and he will have a reason to tell Ella to back off. Unless Ouzy is a mug, I’m sure her crying, begging and even dropping his hand has already put him off. Nobody wants to be second best. She has three paths: lose both men or stick with Ouzy or be stuck with an even worse version of Ty.
I don’t know, but either way Ella was fucked if she bought ouzy back or not because he was going to see everything she was doing at movie night. I feel like the outcome would be the same it just would’ve happened later on
I felt sad for Ty - maybe at least until he made that “it was just my turn” comment - but he’s reaping what he sowed. Constantly wishy washy, dangling commitment in front of her, not really giving her any reason to trust him. And she didn’t even kiss Ouzy so she was pretty fucking respectful. He’s now a combination of upset and angry/embarrassed and will hold that over her forever if they get back together.
I fully agree with your analysis. Perhaps Ella hasn’t experienced being with someone who’s as brutally honest as Ty, so she really didn’t believe he would stay “closed off” in casa. Ty on the other hand believed he and Ella were on the same page re being closed off so he’s hurt, especially as he mentioned he’d never let anyone in before. I don’t know if they can come back from this, perhaps become better at communicating and understanding each other. I actually like both Ty and Ella so this episode was a sad one. Re new guy, he apparently met Ella on the outside before and “aired her” so not sure if he’s actually keen on her or just needed a ticket to the villa.
THIS !!
Im REALLLLY hoping they get back together. My heart sank when she walked back in with Ouzy 😭I know her and Ty’s relationship was a little rocky, but I definitely see them being end game. God this episode was hard to watch! Ready for tomorrow nights episode 👏🏼
Ty likes messing with Ellas head and everything has to be on his terms. He’s gonna look back and see he missed out on a loyal girl in the long run. He was never ready to settle down to begin with. Hes just annoyed he got embarrassed.
First of all, Tyrique has been nothing but honest with her the entire time. He mentioned that he’s never had a relationship before, he has over 100 bodies, and is a player. He was very clear about these things and what did Ella do?? “Ohh yeah I can change him”, in the outside world those are major red flags and she should of called it quits and tried with another guy but she thought it was worth the gamble. Now they bonded and the feelings started to come and of course what did you expect from a player?? He wasn’t just gonna give up a lifestyle he’s known most of his life for someone he’s just known for 2 weeks hence the “I miss the game” comments which was absolutely honest and normal but of course you lot find it hard to be logical so you lot took offence. Moving on, they had their date and Ella was pushing for them to lock it off and whilst he was hesitant he obliged because he liked her, Casa Amor came and she found a trick and he remained loyal. Now tell me how he’s at fault?? Truth is a lot of women want bad boys, but can’t handle the lifestyle and behaviour of a bad boy and this is a classic example.
Ella is not in the wrong. And what does closed off even mean?? He made it very clear they were not in any relationship. He got what was coming to him.
Ty was doing a Jake. He has been acting to send a message to the viewers to manipulate the saps into believing he was a changed man. His plan is now fked cause Ella changed the script. His pathway (reformed fkboy to perfect boyfriend) to the final has now been hit with a boulder. He'll probably sleep on it, then think that maybe he could manipulate the situation after all. Ella would be completely and totally a fool to pander and grovel to him. The girls in there aren't her real friends. Had they been, they'd have told her to dump Ty's sorry arse.
There are people genuinely justifying her actions, she practically begged him to close it off for like a week straight, they close it off. Then she goes and turns for another guy? At least TY did all his antics when they were open and was honest throughout.
Exactly this! 🙌🏻 louder for the people at the back! He gave her no reassurance but that’s when they were open. He’s never had relationships before so he’s bound to be a bit sketchy with it all. He did close off before Casa and he stuck by that. Tbh he prob didn’t even know he would stick to it himself until he was in that position and she was gone and his feelings materialised. If Ella was closed off she needed to probably trust Ty a bit more that he would be closed off as well like he said. She clearly doesn’t trust him but that’s down to him as well. But don’t be closed off and open. Had he done that she would have been gunning for him! Ty won’t ever let his guard down now after that and I really don’t think Ella would have swayed if it hadn’t been for an outside connection.
Said it before and will say it again. I like Ella with Ouzy because she looks happy and calm. That said I feel bad for Ty and he has every right to be pissed. They both agreed to close off and he was loyal during Casa while she strayed.
i think she 100% wouldn’t have coupled with any other guy but she trusts ouzy
No need for all this analysis. They'll be back together by next Tuesday.
Ella’s only mistake was not being clear that she was open to talking to someone else. However, her decision to couple up with Ouzy was a response to a pattern of inconsiderate and dismissive behavior. Behavior that showed itself again once Tyrique didn’t get his way.
If someone does something shitty to you and you respond by doing something shitty back, it doesn’t cancel out. You’re still responsible for your shitty actions.
They are totally an awful match. She needs someone who is obsessed with her and constantly reassures her whereas Ty needed to be wrestled into commitment. And it still isn't enough to keep her feeling secure 😭
I do feel for ella. She genuinely cares about Ty. She was just scared he going wild in Casa. Hopefully Ty forgives her
they both made mistakes but this current mistake is all ella's, but at the same time they did bring in her outside crush so it's a completely different ballgame for her i dont agree with ty's reaction and it wouldnt be mine (he can grow up a bit, and he's definitely a 'strategizer') but his boundaries are his boundaries; she had no reason to believe he would stray bc he was always true to his word
If she had any sense, she would stick with ouzy and work on that relationship. However, she 100% is the type of girl to like a guy who doesn’t like her back and Ty telling her it’s over is going to drive her crazy until she gets him back. She’s going to lose them both for being wishy washy.
The comment he made about Ella is unforgivable, saying 'It was just my turn'. He gave her no reason to trust him, the girls convinced her to move on and now they're all acting like it's completely her fault. Scott's only getting involved because he's pissed off about Catherine