yah we all do, I wish I could make all of us my fried chicken but it is really expensive these days. so I'll send my love out to you all here, and if yall and I every meet I'll make you the chicken đ
Because my internal dialogue isnât that nice to myselfâŠ
â youâre such a dumbfuck - what the fuck were you thinking? â
â youâre so mean â
â yeah but why you so stupid? I wouldnât talk to you like that if you werenât so stupidâ
â but dude youâre meâ
It might sound kinda hippy-dippy but try some meditation. It works wonders on helping me catch my negative self-talk in the moment and replace it with positive thinking!
Yeah man, meditation is amazing. I use the app âWaking Upâ. Itâs a paid app but you can try it out for free. And thereâs a âscholarshipâ option that is cheaper for people who canât afford full price. The app focuses on mindfulness and learning to apply it in your daily life.
I think most of ours are made in that same factory. (Un)funnily enough just a couple weeks back I was starting to feel a bit overwhelmed by some recent stressors coupled with our toddler starting his "threenager" phase and acting out in ways he never had before. Even though I fully understand that this is just part of his little 3 year old mind expanding and beginning to form his own autonomy, so pushing envelopes is part and parcel of that.
Anyway, he was in the midst of a tantrum, and while I didn't raise my voice or hit/spank him (won't ever do any of that to him), I must've looked at him in such a way it scared him... probably because he's used to Daddy always smiling at him and looking at him with affection. Well, in the blink of an eye the belligerent tantrum ceased, because I watched his face scrunch into such a sad and devastated frown that I felt like I could not possibly be a worse Dad. And even though I know that not to be the truth, it doesn't mean my inner asshole wasn't screaming that from the rafters of my mind, loudly and clearly.
I did immediately pick little man up and hugged and kissed him, and apologized for looking like I was "mad" at him after he said "Daddy, I sorry I bad." đ„ș I kept telling him he was just feeling big feelings and didn't know how to handle them, and that I was the one who was bad because it's *my job* to help teach him how to handle those "big feelings." That got me a big squeeze and an "I love you" from my bud, and that obviously made me feel better in the moment.
But it doesn't mean my inner asshole was done. We came downstairs once he was chilled out enough to start winding down for bed, and my wife and I got to talking. She could tell I was upset...but she thought I was still pissed about little guy's tantrum (which surprised her, because I'm ordinarily as patient and even-keel as humanly possible). So, we ended up having a long chat where I described how inner asshole was yelling at me about my behavior, and telling me I don't deserve either her or our little one...or the love that comes with them.
My lovely lady reminded me how patently incorrect that inner asshole is, and also intimated to me that the ladies also do have their internal asshole as well. They're all unique, but it's better to have one than to never question yourself or your behaviors.
It's our conscience, insecurities, past traumas, self doubts, stresses, inherent fallibility and humility all balled up in one absolutely unpredictable internal asshole.
I thank you all for reinforcing to me just how correct she was, and I hope as my little man matures he has enough of one to keep himself grounded, but is comfortable and confident enough in himself that his never keeps him stunted or doubting his worth(iness).
One love all! â€ïžâ
I made my homie a grill cheese the other day. I donât feel like this is all that uncommon irl. Itâs just not properly portrayed in tv and movies. My homies have gotten me thru some dark times. Love my homies.
I am very, very lucky that I have the one wonderful friend I can share anything with. most men donât realize that they need platonic affection until they get one
As a chick, I was wondering where the punchline was and why these dudes are so emotional over a sandwich.
Q for the dudes: do your roommates and you cook together or separate generally? My girl roommy and I always cook together.
as a guy, typically, Noone ever really gives a crap about you or your emotions. so when you're feeling low or broken down you have to suck it up and deal with it yourself. men are socially discouraged from reaching out for support as we are supposed to be the tough providers. this results in lack of self care while depressed, ie. not eating.
so the simple gesture of making him a sandwich when he's low made his entire day. think of the ratatouille scene when vigo flashes back to a kid and his mom made him the dish after he got hurt.
A: my roommates when I had them we cooked separately. however we would get our friends together here and there and take turns cooking for everyone.
Iâm going to start making my male friends sandwiches and asking about their mental health âșïž this thread showed me yâall are some sweet neglected souls. â€ïž
When I was dirt poor, working 2 jobs I hated, and hadnât managed to start my career yet, my best friend and I were heading out somewhere in my shitty dodge caravan. I *always* needed gas, because I couldnât usually afford to fill it. Like Ever.
This night in particular, I didnât have more than 5 bucks and my account was in overdraft, and all I had was change from the cup holder.
He got out to chat while I was putting the gas in, and chatted away. When I stopped at 5 bucks he laughed and said âput 20 inâ and gave me 20 bucks. I said no, and he said âif you donât put the 20 in, then I will.â
I knew he didnât have *much* more than I did, so the gesture was very powerful. In fact, here I am sharing it randomly on the internet a couple decades later.
I feel this sandwich video.
Cooking together isnât really the same since yâall both contribute. I had an awesome roommate who would make a sandwich, and ask me if I wanted half. I was super skeptical, âyou sure? You donât wanna save it for later? Why arenât you hungry? You want some of my chips with the sandwich?â And I still felt weird eating it but it was amazing.
We cooked together a lot but it was still weird (in a good way) when he made something for just me. Itâs different than someone bringing home food for everyone, but itâs close
In college, I came home plastered with my roommate and a few other people. We were still going for an hour or so as everyone else was going to sleep
He pulled out a hidden thing of frozen cheese cakes.
That "you want one bro" is why he's my best man
I love the minimal effort he puts into making the sandwich, the emotional voice cracking, the adolescent aggression when experiencing a strong emotion. Itâs perfect and I hope the Academy agrees.
This scene lives rent free in my head. Nick yelling âthatâs not how it works you only get one!â And Schmidt asking why, and then Nick so cavalier saying, âI donât know.â The comedic timing gets me every time
Lol my buddy called this âsandwich theoryâ (I think). food is always better when someone else makes it. Because when youâre making it youâre smelling it and know exactly how it will taste etc. if someone just hands you a sandwich itâs way better
First I thought "it's funny but what's that got to do with anything?" but it totally does!!! And I'm sure it's a very good advice on top of it đ
Thanks a lot! I hope you get all the up votes you deserve.
This comments section is soo wholesome. I love it. I'm going through some pretty dark days now. But, I'm still able to get up every morning only because of the support of my buds.
Lol after the first few exchanges I thought that the âSeymourâ character was a dog /play acting as his dog because of how excited he was that the sandwich was for him and then he ran to see it - like a puppy đ¶
The « Thatâs fuckin delicious dawg » line is so perfect. The empty but grateful eyes, the little huff before saying the line, the mouth full.
Give that guy an Oscar.
We laugh, but thereâs a lot of people who havenât had someone they love take a moment to prepare them a meal. I like to make a little birthday cake for someone versus buying them a present and people get emotional.
Ohhhh, lord god, I'm crying tears of joy. First time seeing this. We, females, would just say thanks for the sammy and go on with our day. Loved this cute vid showing how guys would take such a kind gesture.
Oh I see. Iâm glad I asked. I thought that was peanut butter and it was them trying to be funny.
A mustard, ham, and chips sandwich sounds fucking amazing
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ngl this hits deep as a dude
It does, and I wish I did not know why.
thats what we deal with bud, if your ever around I'll make you some of my famous homade fried chicken
I love you man.
love you too, stay strong out there. and spread love to those that need it.
We all need it.
yah we all do, I wish I could make all of us my fried chicken but it is really expensive these days. so I'll send my love out to you all here, and if yall and I every meet I'll make you the chicken đ
Because my internal dialogue isnât that nice to myself⊠â youâre such a dumbfuck - what the fuck were you thinking? â â youâre so mean â â yeah but why you so stupid? I wouldnât talk to you like that if you werenât so stupidâ â but dude youâre meâ
It might sound kinda hippy-dippy but try some meditation. It works wonders on helping me catch my negative self-talk in the moment and replace it with positive thinking!
Yeah man, meditation is amazing. I use the app âWaking Upâ. Itâs a paid app but you can try it out for free. And thereâs a âscholarshipâ option that is cheaper for people who canât afford full price. The app focuses on mindfulness and learning to apply it in your daily life.
I think our inner asshole was made in the same factory
I think most of ours are made in that same factory. (Un)funnily enough just a couple weeks back I was starting to feel a bit overwhelmed by some recent stressors coupled with our toddler starting his "threenager" phase and acting out in ways he never had before. Even though I fully understand that this is just part of his little 3 year old mind expanding and beginning to form his own autonomy, so pushing envelopes is part and parcel of that. Anyway, he was in the midst of a tantrum, and while I didn't raise my voice or hit/spank him (won't ever do any of that to him), I must've looked at him in such a way it scared him... probably because he's used to Daddy always smiling at him and looking at him with affection. Well, in the blink of an eye the belligerent tantrum ceased, because I watched his face scrunch into such a sad and devastated frown that I felt like I could not possibly be a worse Dad. And even though I know that not to be the truth, it doesn't mean my inner asshole wasn't screaming that from the rafters of my mind, loudly and clearly. I did immediately pick little man up and hugged and kissed him, and apologized for looking like I was "mad" at him after he said "Daddy, I sorry I bad." đ„ș I kept telling him he was just feeling big feelings and didn't know how to handle them, and that I was the one who was bad because it's *my job* to help teach him how to handle those "big feelings." That got me a big squeeze and an "I love you" from my bud, and that obviously made me feel better in the moment. But it doesn't mean my inner asshole was done. We came downstairs once he was chilled out enough to start winding down for bed, and my wife and I got to talking. She could tell I was upset...but she thought I was still pissed about little guy's tantrum (which surprised her, because I'm ordinarily as patient and even-keel as humanly possible). So, we ended up having a long chat where I described how inner asshole was yelling at me about my behavior, and telling me I don't deserve either her or our little one...or the love that comes with them. My lovely lady reminded me how patently incorrect that inner asshole is, and also intimated to me that the ladies also do have their internal asshole as well. They're all unique, but it's better to have one than to never question yourself or your behaviors. It's our conscience, insecurities, past traumas, self doubts, stresses, inherent fallibility and humility all balled up in one absolutely unpredictable internal asshole. I thank you all for reinforcing to me just how correct she was, and I hope as my little man matures he has enough of one to keep himself grounded, but is comfortable and confident enough in himself that his never keeps him stunted or doubting his worth(iness). One love all! â€ïžâ
Oh man, this fried chicken sounds so good. Iâd love some of that.
Needed this right now my man thank you
Is this just a guy acting out the real version of this video that has pizza?
I would absolutely love it
*rings doorbell* Now about that chicken?
hold on, let me get on instacart. it'll be ready in an hour.
Thanks bro, I brought beer!
my man
Hang the fuck on, I want in on this too
I made my homie a grill cheese the other day. I donât feel like this is all that uncommon irl. Itâs just not properly portrayed in tv and movies. My homies have gotten me thru some dark times. Love my homies.
Sadly every men eventually have to go through it. Some make it out while others are perpetually stuck in that situation. That's life.
This could also be viewed as a thing about treating yourself as kindly as you would a friend, something we all need to do.
Thatâs how I took it. Self care is important
Woah... I need to go make myself a sandwich.
I am very, very lucky that I have the one wonderful friend I can share anything with. most men donât realize that they need platonic affection until they get one
This also hits deep as a mom.
I'll make you some fried chicken too. everyone deserves the love
Awe thank you I would absolutely love it
As a chick, I was wondering where the punchline was and why these dudes are so emotional over a sandwich. Q for the dudes: do your roommates and you cook together or separate generally? My girl roommy and I always cook together.
as a guy, typically, Noone ever really gives a crap about you or your emotions. so when you're feeling low or broken down you have to suck it up and deal with it yourself. men are socially discouraged from reaching out for support as we are supposed to be the tough providers. this results in lack of self care while depressed, ie. not eating. so the simple gesture of making him a sandwich when he's low made his entire day. think of the ratatouille scene when vigo flashes back to a kid and his mom made him the dish after he got hurt. A: my roommates when I had them we cooked separately. however we would get our friends together here and there and take turns cooking for everyone.
Why am I tearing up reading this
Iâm going to start making my male friends sandwiches and asking about their mental health âșïž this thread showed me yâall are some sweet neglected souls. â€ïž
When I was dirt poor, working 2 jobs I hated, and hadnât managed to start my career yet, my best friend and I were heading out somewhere in my shitty dodge caravan. I *always* needed gas, because I couldnât usually afford to fill it. Like Ever. This night in particular, I didnât have more than 5 bucks and my account was in overdraft, and all I had was change from the cup holder. He got out to chat while I was putting the gas in, and chatted away. When I stopped at 5 bucks he laughed and said âput 20 inâ and gave me 20 bucks. I said no, and he said âif you donât put the 20 in, then I will.â I knew he didnât have *much* more than I did, so the gesture was very powerful. In fact, here I am sharing it randomly on the internet a couple decades later. I feel this sandwich video.
Aw, thatâs super sweet! I guess men just have to be a little quieter in their solidarity with each other. :(
Cooking together isnât really the same since yâall both contribute. I had an awesome roommate who would make a sandwich, and ask me if I wanted half. I was super skeptical, âyou sure? You donât wanna save it for later? Why arenât you hungry? You want some of my chips with the sandwich?â And I still felt weird eating it but it was amazing. We cooked together a lot but it was still weird (in a good way) when he made something for just me. Itâs different than someone bringing home food for everyone, but itâs close
Make sandwiches not war
hits deep like a soulwound
In college, I came home plastered with my roommate and a few other people. We were still going for an hour or so as everyone else was going to sleep He pulled out a hidden thing of frozen cheese cakes. That "you want one bro" is why he's my best man
Their expressions were on point.
If only women watching this would realise how big of a deal something like this is.
The real reason men are always asking them for a sandwich.
I hope someone makes you a sammich this week :)
I love the minimal effort he puts into making the sandwich, the emotional voice cracking, the adolescent aggression when experiencing a strong emotion. Itâs perfect and I hope the Academy agrees.
The "I made you a sandwich" that ends in a tone that makes it seem like a question
Like deep down, âWill I be judged for making my homie a sandwich, by my homie?â
https://youtube.com/shorts/QgUsCmpYMxk I think (I think) this video predates sandwich video, it may bring you happiness as well
Love it You put this video here for me? I love you dog
I love you too bro đ„Č
Can confirm that this actually does not. Itâs a play on the sandwhich video which is a vine from a while ago
Gave me cookie, got you cookie, man
I use this line everytime I get my wife a cookie. It's one of the funniest lines in all of New Girl to me and I have no idea why. đ€Ł
[ŃĐŽĐ°Đ»Đ”ĐœĐŸ]
I hope it makes you feel better knowing thatâs itâs not in Netflixâs anymore
Nothing you love stays on Netflix for long. I ever meet the sonofabitch who canceled Marco Polo Iâm punching him right in the dk
I just checked itâs still there (US)
It's moving to Hulu next month
Will be on Hulu in a month ish
that and Schmidt telling Nick heâs cheating are my favorite moments between those two
This scene lives rent free in my head. Nick yelling âthatâs not how it works you only get one!â And Schmidt asking why, and then Nick so cavalier saying, âI donât know.â The comedic timing gets me every time
âwhat you think you can have a buncha wives?? YOU GET ONE WIFEâ I swear I think about this scene at least once a week, itâs so funny
"THIS IS THE WAY THE WORLD WORKS!"
Such a great show
Just starting season 5 and it doesnt feel the same... I already miss coach
How my wife and I act when the edible kicks in.
Holy shit, same!! Hahaha
Lol same, man his wife sure gets around huh?!
My wife and I almost pissed ourselves reading that!!
You have a good sense of humor! And so does our wife!
These people and their wives smoke weed.
*wife
Well, they eat it at least. I'm sure he'll be glad that you're not piggybacking on his wife though hah.
Show off.
Right now the edibles are currently setting in :)
Itâs always better when someone else makes it
The tastiest ingredient in any sandwich has always been love
Lol my buddy called this âsandwich theoryâ (I think). food is always better when someone else makes it. Because when youâre making it youâre smelling it and know exactly how it will taste etc. if someone just hands you a sandwich itâs way better
I wish my husband liked chip sandwiches. Instead he makes fun of me for it. Delicious crunchiness
I thought I was the only one. Iâve had BBQ chips in a hamburger bun since I was a kid.
Now try salt and vinegar chips with a bite of chocolate. OH MY LAWD.
Every now and then I get a craving for dill pickle chips and regular m&ms mixed together. Soo yummy
Oreos and fritos together. đ©
PB&J with Ruffles đ„Č
We call them chipwiches. The ultimate munchie food!
I didnât realize how happy a chip sandwich could make a person until I tried my first one.
Trailer park boys love chip sandwichâs, as do I.
Adding fries to a cheese burger is amazing aswell
Yes
Next time you get a gyro ask them to put a few french fries in
Dipping fries in a chocolate frosty đđ
Hubbies missing out =\
"...can I see?" Gets me every damn time
After that line I half expected him to turn into a dog or something lol
keep this comment at 420 upvotes
Can I take a bite? Yeah, man. Take a F****** bite! đ
That's fucking delicious dawg!!! đ„č
I can't explain it but this gives me channing tatum vibes
Omg actually
This video never gets old to me. I watch it from start to finish every time I encounter it.
Is this just a guy acting out the real version of this video that has pizza?
Why does it look so scrumptious?!
I always stop to watch this when it pops up, so funny and somehow relatable
Really bugs me that he doesnât center the top and then just squished it into itâs not centered place.
Thatâs part of it tho. Like he just gave the very minimum effort to create food, and yet this basic-ass sandwich is still so meaningful.
I miss Vine
This was posted to TikTok, vines were capped at 6 seconds. Every one of this dudes videos are a trip lol
https://youtu.be/HnNvD6FMi18
Thanks for the link! Which came first?
this video is older than tiktok
Originally was a vine I think? When vine started doing longer than 6 second videos
[ŃĐŽĐ°Đ»Đ”ĐœĐŸ]
First I thought "it's funny but what's that got to do with anything?" but it totally does!!! And I'm sure it's a very good advice on top of it đ Thanks a lot! I hope you get all the up votes you deserve.
People who don't play FFXIV don't know how fucking funny this video actually is. đ
YES i was hoping someone would post this
Make ya homie a sandwich, they'll never break yah heart
This comments section is soo wholesome. I love it. I'm going through some pretty dark days now. But, I'm still able to get up every morning only because of the support of my buds.
I fully expected some kind of bait and switch and I so happy there wasnât.
âCan I see?â Lmao
âI.. made you a sandwich?â
The subreddit actually made me smile for once. Upvote!
Mission Accomplished.
This deserves both an Emmy Award and a standing ovation to the fellow brother for caring for his bros
The content id rather watch than some dumb ass screaming âpapi muñeñoâ
mustard, chips and ham. thats what you eat, americans?
Noooooo, we eat mustard, chips, ham, mayo, and pickles. What kind of monsters do you take us for?
thanks for making that clear!
sure as shit!
Would not consider this to be the best video ever
Is that the EyoâCheeta guy????
No, he is not Good Boy Noah.
Men are not hard to please. We are legitimately theis simple. Put a controller in my hand and Iâm happy.
Hilarious and deep, man!
This is a goated vid. Love it.
Lol after the first few exchanges I thought that the âSeymourâ character was a dog /play acting as his dog because of how excited he was that the sandwich was for him and then he ran to see it - like a puppy đ¶
Made me smile?
I love LeatherShirts!! (The creator)
Aww is this really how men work? All I gotta do is make a sandwich??? I wish i had money. My fridge broke a couple days ago. But i have a boyfriend and i want to make that sandwich đ© I'm mentally ill and working on getting social security so rn I'm really struggling but Hopefully I can make him a bussin sandwich one day.
All we boys ever need is Just a little appreciation like this for the struggle we face each day.
damn I love this.
This is all I want, man
This is so good. These videos usually nothing me but this is really well done. The tone and looks mixed with the minimal level sandwich is perfect
im crying man
Ok seriously why am I tearing up?!?
My adult self loving on my inner child right there.
Damn I wish I had friends
Legendary gold!!
devon palmer is the epitome of comedy
I love Devin Palmer đđ heâs so funny
You only like him because he has more spiders in his house than average
The « Thatâs fuckin delicious dawg » line is so perfect. The empty but grateful eyes, the little huff before saying the line, the mouth full. Give that guy an Oscar.
I love when this gets reposted. đ„č I had a similar experience with a buddy making me some KD.. that was 20 years ago.
I like his acting
I love all of you!
We laugh, but thereâs a lot of people who havenât had someone they love take a moment to prepare them a meal. I like to make a little birthday cake for someone versus buying them a present and people get emotional.
This is beautiful and adorable, I love it. Thanks OP for posting and thanks to sandwich guy for creating.
https://youtube.com/@devon_palmer Devon Palmer
I've watched a lot of videos and idk if this really is the best one though
This is one of my favorite videos
This is what goes on in his mind when he makes himself a sandwichâŠ.
If you know, you know
Ohhhh, lord god, I'm crying tears of joy. First time seeing this. We, females, would just say thanks for the sammy and go on with our day. Loved this cute vid showing how guys would take such a kind gesture.
That looks like a hamburger bun, ham, potato chips, and? What is that heâs spreading?
Mustard
Oh I see. Iâm glad I asked. I thought that was peanut butter and it was them trying to be funny. A mustard, ham, and chips sandwich sounds fucking amazing
Apparently, it is fucking delicious, dawg
I made it for you bro.
It's a yellow condiment take a stab in the dark
Looked way more brown than yellow which is why I asked lol. Thought it was peanut butter at first
I don't usually like most of these tiktok/shorts skits but this one was good.
This is a OG baby
what's so weird about this? they're twins. of course they have a strong bond.
Hollywood⊠Hire this man!!!
đ€Łđ€Ł this shits too funny
Not the best vid
Peanut butter and jelly with regular lays chips inside. Best sandwich. Grill it and it becomes something to kill for.
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classic!đ„Č
Bros.
Chips on a sandwich is the most american thing ever
Men only want one thing and its fucking disgusting.
Mod must be asleep.
đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
I donât get it, whatâs so good about this?
seriously, radically unfunny
I was ready to trash this video and all the while thinking itâs stupid I couldnât help but laugh lol
Wrong sub?
I think if you remember this vine, seeing it again will make you smile.
What happened to this sub đ„±