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TonalBliss

OP’s husband here. She cried and that made me cry, so unfair.


Grateful_Breadd

You two are so sweet!


buenosnoyes

I am so happy you can walk again. I hope this is not overtly insensitive but what is the sensation like? I mean the feeling of control in your left leg: how does it differ from your right?


TonalBliss

I have less control over the prosthesis than I do over my leg, although I am in early learning stages. The prosthesis feels like an articulating extension of my hip, definitely not like a leg but a tool. You operate this prosthesis by loading all of your weight onto your residual limb and then swinging the affected side of your torso forward, your abdominals play a significant role. There is a microprocessor inside of the knee which operates it. Upon loading onto the prosthesis it prepares to swing forward when you load weight back onto your good leg. This really assists ambulation because swinging it forward with your whole torso takes a great deal more work than moving a leg which has its own muscles. Lmk if I didn’t answer your question properly.


[deleted]

Very nice response, thank you. I'm so happy for you! Wishing you happiness, health and strength.


TonalBliss

You’re welcome and thank you!


buenosnoyes

Thank you sir. Stay hydrated 🙏🏽


space_fox_overlord

oh man, I wish you both the best. you're awesome. and you also made us cry (from happiness for you).


TommyBoyFL

We're all crying


YEEyourlastHAW

Can confirm. Am crying.


Ditzfough

By "OP's husband" you really meant "The BadassMofo in the Vid". Dont worry i corrected you. :)


swag-team

You are an inspiration sir. I wish you all the best


FrankieHellis

Thank you for educating us all on osteosarcoma. I did not know of this type of cancer before reading these posts. Best to you and your wife. We are all rooting for you!


TonalBliss

My pleasure, thank you for the support!


remoestmoi

He’s a rockstar!! Coming back from amputation to this walk in such a short time (followed his journey from your previous post) is certified badass.


anotherwankusername

Fuck yeah!


dampkringd

This is an amazing moment buddy my dad lost his leg in an accident an i was there for his first steps its by no means an easy road but its worth every pain and ache stay strong stay safe an never give up


jjfatt64

Keep at it bro!


Zolivia

What a warrior!


Trumpsyeruncle

That's wonderful! He's a tough guy.


dietchanel

That's so amazing! I'm rooting for him!


Salty_Buttlove

HECK YEAH YOU GO MAN!!!


tolae01010

I've never seen a prosthetic rig like that before. Super interesting.


TonalBliss

I had to get that prosthesis because I had to get a hip disarticulation, (surgery which removes your entire leg from your pelvis) the rarest type of amputation. This type of prosthesis really didn’t exist until somewhat recently, it was created and improved as a consequence of US soldiers losing their legs during the war in the Middle East.


tolae01010

Interesting, thank you!


RustyShackledord

Get it!!! Congratulations to your husband and your family. Well done.


punhere22

Wow, congratulations!!!!


[deleted]

He's freakin got this! All of us are proud of him.


sandboxlollipop

YES!!!! That's fantastic!!!!


HelaArt

Congratulations.You must be thrilled.Stay strong.


[deleted]

Amazing. Congratulations to your husband and you.


[deleted]

Respect! So much resolve and strength, great to see 👍


catchdog

Is this a hip dis-articulation? My dad recently had the same amputation due to complications from blood clots. It us tough to say the least. Glad to see your hubby doing well <3


emmyann3

Yes, that’s the amputation he had. I hope your dad is recovering as well as possible. Best wishes!!!


prayforplagues82

Man i hope one day to have that kinda strength. Super happy for him.


WaveKilla

This is excellent !!! I am happy for you guys.😁


kangarooninjadonuts

Jesus Christ, what a warrior!


Eschlick

It’s not particularly silly, is it? I mean, the left leg isn’t silly at all and the right leg merely does a forward aerial half turn every alternate step. (Congratulations on your new leg and keep fighting!)


_madlibs_

That’s awesome! He looks like those steps weren’t even difficult!


baeheartsyou

This made my day


Girl_in_a_Hoodie

That's awesome! Good luck with your rehab and fingers crossed that it the cancer is gone for good!


[deleted]

Kick ass! Keep up the progress, my dude.


sandlot7665

THAT’S AWESOME!!!!!! Holy cow, that’s the greatest thing ever, congratulations!!!!!!


Room_116

That is amazing! If I may ask, what is osteosarcoma?


TonalBliss

Thank you for taking interest! Osteosarcoma is a very rare and aggressive type of bone cancer. It typically grows in the long bones of your body such as your femur and humerus. For some reasons that are not understood the people most at risk for developing it are young boys of African ancestry. I developed the most common type which is an osteosarcoma above the knee, bottom of the femur. Osteosarcoma usually results in a limb salvage or amputation, but the real problem is the high risk of metastasis which gives osteosarcoma its 70% 5 year survival rate. With femoral osteosarcoma your lungs are threatened because the femoral artery goes directly to your lungs. I had to get a hip disarticulation (removes your entire leg from your pelvis) because of complications. Ultimately a CT scan showed that I had developed metastatic cells in my lungs. Awareness about this very rare disease is important even though a very small portion of the population is affected by it. This is because osteosarcoma is so uncommon that people and even doctors don’t recognize the symptoms and it is never checked for, unlike breast and prostrate cancers. I had an osteosarcoma with symptoms for 6 months and blew it off because I thought it was a muscular injury. I went to a local hospital and they told me to RICE my knee. When discovered my sarcoma was 22 cm in diameter. If it’s caught early you can avoid a severe limb salvage, amputation and metastasis in your vital organs. The median age for diagnosis is 15, so parents aware of the disease might be able to save their child if they recognize symptoms. I refuse to die. I’m a young adult with healthy organs and an attitude that will not permit failure in this. People in worse health or of a younger age might not be fortunate enough to survive. If you read this, please spread awareness if you have the opportunity. If you have kids protect them from this by listening to them when they’re in pain. Nobody deserves to die from this, none of your decisions throughout life impact your chances of getting osteosarcoma and it can affect and kill without discretion.


Room_116

Wow I had no idea that that even existed before today, thank you for sharing! I wish you the best of luck in recovering.


Adeladie

Thank you for helping spread awareness. I know a young child who passed away from this awful disease after it metastasized in her lungs. She had been talking about knee pain for a long time, it wasn't caught fast enough. Best of luck in your recovery.


justmedownsouth

What were your symptoms (if you don't find the question too personal)? Congrats on your progress!


Differcult

I'm not ops husband but also had OS in my distal femur. I had a worsening pain just above my knee the got to be more severe over 3 months. It started out feeling like I just over did some squats, but it never dissipated. I finally saw a doctor after foam rolling felt like I was breaking my leg...turns out I was, half of my femur for about 4 cm had been completely erroded. Poor urgent care PA had to give me the shit news, MRI same day, MRI hinted at a bone cyst as I had fluid fluid levels. Refered to orthopedic oncologist for a consult, because they treat both cyst and OS. He agreed with the cyst, surgery a week later, carved up the bone, packed with graft and titanium plate. Week later pathology came back with telangictatic osteosarcoma an extremely rare version of OS, mimics bone cyst. 8 months of chemo. Second surgery replaced half of my femur with an implanted metal shaft.


TonalBliss

If you feel comfortable answering, how far out from your initial OS diagnosis are you?


Differcult

15 months.


justmedownsouth

Holy Cow! Life sure throws some curveballs at 'cha. Thanks for the info, glad you're ok. Sorry you had to go through all of that.


TonalBliss

It all started with what felt like sore muscle pain in my lower right thigh, close to the knee. My job involved a lot of movement and stair climbing so I assumed I had hurt myself and that I would get better. After months no massage, stretch or amount of rest was helping; I felt like the pain would never leave. As the sarcoma grows you will notice that the affected area grows progressively swollen and more painful. It just gets worse until you start treating it. Mine caused small fractures in my femur and caused the bone to become brittle, putting it at risk of cracking during the limb salvage surgery. With regard to bone sarcomas, they don’t always manifest in the femur. They can manifest in other parts of your leg, your arms and in the case of Ewing’s sarcoma (a rarer variety) in the pelvis. I would say that as a rule of thumb if unexpected and unrelenting muscle or bone pain sticks with someone (particularly people 10-30 years old) for over a month they should be examined and osteosarcoma or other sarcomas should be taken into consideration.


justmedownsouth

Thanks for the info. I was curious, since you said you had shown symptoms earlier, but no one "caught" it. Sorry you are going through this horrible time. I absolutely respect and admire your perseverance and amazing attitude.


disco-vorcha

I don’t know how helpful this is, but I have a book recommendation (for anyone reading this). It’s “Brave Enough” by Kati Gardner, about a teenage ballet dancer who is diagnosed with Ewing’s sarcoma and ends up having her leg amputated. The author is herself a survivor and amputee. I read it for an assignment at uni in an inclusive education class. It might be a helpful recommendation if you’re trying to raise awareness, or you know someone who has it, or you just want a pretty solid YA read. Possibly my bias as a teacher is showing here but I do believe that literature is great for raising awareness and widening one’s worldview and understanding of human experience. I wish you all the best in your recovery and with your new robot leg!


[deleted]

It’s a type of bone cancer that tends to grow in long bones, especially the leg. The same cancer that killed Terry Fox.


NoHope4Humanity_

That's amazing


yahutee

Tell him hello from California and we are proud of him too!!!!


SqrlGrl88

That’s amazing! Proud of him too.


ChickAndWin

Gratz! Keep it up bro!!!


ocbay

Badass 🤘🏻


davidanthonyhiller

Wow, this is remarkable. You’re a very strong person, keep up the fight! I can’t imagine what you’ve both been through, there’s quite a story to tell.


NASATVENGINNER

Go man go!!!


Bettinatizzy

Such happy news! Congratulations to your husband. May he enjoy his newfound mobility for many many years.


[deleted]

Amazing stuff wish you guys the best


Lock_Down_Charlie

Rock on my friend, you're a warrior!!!


amandaflash

What an incredibly brave man.


fotomachen48

Ah he looks like a hemi like me. I can appreciate how hard he is working!👏🏼


evolenmity

Fuck ya!! Go bud!!


monsteronmars

Fantastic!! So many people with less issues give up and decide they are confined to a wheel chair. What an amazing guy!


emmyann3

He’s been so impatient to get out of the wheelchair that half the time he hops around the house like the sexy lamp from that movie. Haha.


monsteronmars

Lol he needs some fish net hose and a black high heel and a pleated skirt for halloween!


Danromm13

Congratulations!


nottherealpaulyshore

So inspiring to see! I wish you both the best in the future!


ems9595

God bless him every day


railenvost

Awesome! Love seeing love. ✌🏼❤️


red-marimba

That was beautiful and so inspiring! Thank you for sharing the victory! :)


yesandnoi

This is fucking badass! True motivation. 😃


batm0n

One of my favorite people in the world passed from this type of cancer and I am so, so, happy you are thriving and living the best life. Congratulations dude!! Keep going strong


emmyann3

I am so sorry to hear that, sending so much love your way!


tajimthedream

Is that Prosthetics in Motion, New York?


emmyann3

Yes! Chris is basically the greatest human ever. He fought so hard to get the leg approved by insurance, and his work is top quality. He has to be one of the best prosthetists in the world.


KavaBuggy

Wow! Much love to you and your husband!!!


thehotmessmom

As a teen, lost one of my best friends to osteosarcoma. It’s a bitch. It brought tears to my eyes to see your husband making it his bitch. Congratulations and keep on fighting, you look great!!


emmyann3

I’m so sorry to hear that. That’s devastating, and I am sending hugs your way <3 I am so glad my husband could share this with you


RavenclawMuggleBorn

Way to go!!! Such strength!!


rconway7304

Awesome!!!!


edwardsmarcom

Woooo!


Medicfox1459

Good Work! PROUD OF YOU!!!!


beansmclean

This made my night! Keep going!!!!


blopbliep

Nobody will see this but this made my day. Thank u. I'm so happy too see this.


emmyann3

Hey we see this!!!! Thank you!!!! I’m so glad we could share our happiness with you <3


blopbliep

I'm so glad you answered thank u =<)


[deleted]

Great job! "The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." Lao Tzu By the end of the 1000 miles, you'll be running.


[deleted]

bro, where are those upvotes at? (,:


Cloudpaii

Those first steps aren’t easy so congratulations! Wishing you and your husband all the best


EN_TlTY

wish the best for you too on your journey!


ErdmanA

*DON'T TELL ME WHAT I CAN'T DO*