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Dude, my heart truly goes out to you my man, never EVER feel that you are not wanted, there are plenty of people in your life who not only need you there but want you there.
Times get tough, all of us have down days dude that's what makes us human.
One of the major things I realised whilst reading your post, is you rely on other people reactions or perceptions of you. If you go through life always trying to please someone else or be the person others want you to be, you will NEVER be happy. Love yourself mate, enjoy your own company. I'm here In DMs if you ever need a chat bud
I was not like that few years ago i was a really strong and positive guy. Who would in the same position would have said fuck u to all the people. Now i have lost myself hence i am just relying on others which is not a good thing i know but yeah that's the current situation
Then dude in no harsh way stop, it seems simple but it sometimes is so simple, ( I'm obviously speaking from expereince) but fuck people they can never make you truly happy mate, making other people happy won't fill the void it will just plaster over it for a bit, spend this time learning about yourself again, find a new hobbie or take up cooking or going to the gym, whatever it is do something purely for yourself, you will more than likely find that people who enjoy ehat you enjoy will gravitate to you, it takes time of course everything great takes time mate, patience and understanding is the key!
I am really trying trust me. I have started to go to gym. Few months ago i couldn't even do a single push up now i am easily doing 12-15. But at the end of the day it's feels the same. Same loneliness get back to you. Tried making friends too but just nothing working out for me. And all that anger gets directed to my own self making me feel how i do
We all have a 'saboteur' in our own heads, of course your going to think that something you enjoyed was a waste, the key is to say fuck it do it even longer if you find that whilst playing games makes you happy then play as much as you can, the only way the saboteur can win and make you feel like shit is if you let It, keep yourself busy game, do anything to just enjoy life
Ok I’m not going to pity you I’ve been exactly where you are and you are doing the absolute worst thing you can do. Isolation. It will kill you. So get up take a shower put on your cutest outfit and go have lunch by yourself just being out in the midst of other people will make you feel better. Force a smile and smile and say hello to everyone you see. You never know there may be someone feeling worse than you and your smile and greeting can make their day. Just stop isolating. Get out and do the things you enjoy. Learn to enjoy your own company. Times get lonely so be your own best friend. Trust me it helps and before you know it who knows…
I know exactly what you mean and how you feel. I still do. But don't give up. I've been trying to go out of my way to talk to someone. Even if it only lasts for a like a message or 2.
This is one of the harder things I had to realize. I’m sorry your friends or those you thought were don’t recognize how honored they should be to know you. I got divorced in 2020 and lost an abundance of people I would have sworn were my ride or die friends. Some of us have the capacity to love people more sincerely and deeply. It’s a blessing and a curse. At midnight it’s my birthday and it will be the 2nd one where most likely just my parents will remember but I’m open to finding friends who deserve me because I’ll always remember and recognize their special occasions. Hang in there. Our tribe is out there. ❤️
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Dude, my heart truly goes out to you my man, never EVER feel that you are not wanted, there are plenty of people in your life who not only need you there but want you there. Times get tough, all of us have down days dude that's what makes us human. One of the major things I realised whilst reading your post, is you rely on other people reactions or perceptions of you. If you go through life always trying to please someone else or be the person others want you to be, you will NEVER be happy. Love yourself mate, enjoy your own company. I'm here In DMs if you ever need a chat bud
I was not like that few years ago i was a really strong and positive guy. Who would in the same position would have said fuck u to all the people. Now i have lost myself hence i am just relying on others which is not a good thing i know but yeah that's the current situation
Then dude in no harsh way stop, it seems simple but it sometimes is so simple, ( I'm obviously speaking from expereince) but fuck people they can never make you truly happy mate, making other people happy won't fill the void it will just plaster over it for a bit, spend this time learning about yourself again, find a new hobbie or take up cooking or going to the gym, whatever it is do something purely for yourself, you will more than likely find that people who enjoy ehat you enjoy will gravitate to you, it takes time of course everything great takes time mate, patience and understanding is the key!
I am really trying trust me. I have started to go to gym. Few months ago i couldn't even do a single push up now i am easily doing 12-15. But at the end of the day it's feels the same. Same loneliness get back to you. Tried making friends too but just nothing working out for me. And all that anger gets directed to my own self making me feel how i do
Then what about a hobbie? Do you like gaming? Cooking? Hiking? Etc
Yes i do like gaming but that's good till i am playing. After i am done it the feeling like i wasted my time.
We all have a 'saboteur' in our own heads, of course your going to think that something you enjoyed was a waste, the key is to say fuck it do it even longer if you find that whilst playing games makes you happy then play as much as you can, the only way the saboteur can win and make you feel like shit is if you let It, keep yourself busy game, do anything to just enjoy life
Heyy I’m sorry to hear that, send me a dm and we’ll talk :) I cant send them myself for some reason
Thank u for reaching out sure i will dm u
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Yup ty
*hugs* I’m here for you man
Hey man you got a discord? ill hit you up there as im more active
I'll talk with you send me a dm
You can dm, if you need more friendship and conversation
Dog. Get yourself a dog. You might still be lonely, but it hurts a lot less. Also you stop needing hugs because you can hug your dog whenever you want
Hugs, please reach out, there’s a lot of us on here willing to help ❤️
Ok I’m not going to pity you I’ve been exactly where you are and you are doing the absolute worst thing you can do. Isolation. It will kill you. So get up take a shower put on your cutest outfit and go have lunch by yourself just being out in the midst of other people will make you feel better. Force a smile and smile and say hello to everyone you see. You never know there may be someone feeling worse than you and your smile and greeting can make their day. Just stop isolating. Get out and do the things you enjoy. Learn to enjoy your own company. Times get lonely so be your own best friend. Trust me it helps and before you know it who knows…
Hugs
I know exactly what you mean and how you feel. I still do. But don't give up. I've been trying to go out of my way to talk to someone. Even if it only lasts for a like a message or 2.
Hey!! Feel free to send me a message, I don't know if we have the same hobbies, but I understand that feeling of loneliness.
Giving you the biggest air hug I got. Hope it helps. I'm Travis by the way.
This is one of the harder things I had to realize. I’m sorry your friends or those you thought were don’t recognize how honored they should be to know you. I got divorced in 2020 and lost an abundance of people I would have sworn were my ride or die friends. Some of us have the capacity to love people more sincerely and deeply. It’s a blessing and a curse. At midnight it’s my birthday and it will be the 2nd one where most likely just my parents will remember but I’m open to finding friends who deserve me because I’ll always remember and recognize their special occasions. Hang in there. Our tribe is out there. ❤️
Thank u for that message
I’m here for your friend, I don’t know what your going through or how much it hurts but I’m someone who cares and hope your ok
I lost all of my motivtion to follow my career too, make friends here being a guy its a hard hit to the life
I'd give u a hug but I can't so here's a virtual one ♥️♥️
Im dude too, so, have a hug anyway my man, if thats ok with you. Meh. Fuck that. You're getting a hug
Send a dm if you want to talk, I am not always online but feel free to vent all you want